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@RM-mm5mw

3 жыл бұрын

🙏 thank you for this

@shinebright9490

3 жыл бұрын

Says domain isnt connected to a website 😪 The one on how to get closure from a toxic relationship

@MrIlleism

2 жыл бұрын

They don't want you to leave but mine left me :S ?!

@evandez6988

2 жыл бұрын

How do I know if I am this because a lot of things that it said in this video I feel that I have done but then also I feel like the other person has done as well because I don't know anymore I'm just wondering if anybody can help me and listen to my story so I can get a clear answer because if I end this and I would like to get help because I do not wish to be this way

Covert narcs have made an art form out of blurring that line between love and abuse. They're psychos. Only a psycho can look at you with 'adoration' in their eyes (like they've never looked at anyone) and at that same moment be plotting in their mind against u.

@maramabdallah5479

3 жыл бұрын

So true ! I am suffering from my covert narcissistic husband , I am in USA 🇺🇸 with no immediate family or extended family , isolated , I have three boys ! I need help “ how to divorce a narcissist “ if you have any idea ?! Please I appreciate it. 😊

@primalway1317

3 жыл бұрын

you summed up my relationship. scary stuff. I am damaged for sure. everything is blurred..

@morena1484

3 жыл бұрын

This is eerily accurate.

@carolinekamya2339

Жыл бұрын

empty vessels filled with self hate - best as far away as poss

@nessauk2786

Жыл бұрын

I'm sure coverts are the closest to a psychopaths.

May God help us to come out of abusive relationships

@anoushkamarcin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your affirmation. Beautiful empowering words 😊

@bertzerker747

3 жыл бұрын

, and relinquish ego maniacs at the same time 🙏

@ritajohannessen9804

3 жыл бұрын

Leys pray for eachother 🙏 pray for me, definately.

@jazminolivari5554

2 жыл бұрын

I agree ! 💯

@mercyrahma9501

2 жыл бұрын

🤲Amen !!!

The covert is so dangerous because really is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. And if you get involved with a wolf ... it’s not going to go well.

@johndahl8522

3 жыл бұрын

The ability to mind fk and completely devalue those who apose them, leaving there victims with and overwhelming feeling of wtf.

I will share this quote: If we desert the inner self to focus the energy outside, it leaves a vacancy inside. You should never give up your inner self inside.

@jupiterskiss3473

Жыл бұрын

This is powerful!!!

Thankyou so much for being a voice for my suffering. 25 years married. I woke up and was utterly shocked that it wasn't my fault. He was hiding objects, whispering things and denying, putting my groceries behind the register to make me think I waa crazy. Once I started looking, I realized that everything was a game. My entire reality was warped. He literally swapped identities with me. He stole my retirement, inheritence, let house foreclose. All our stuff was sold in an auction. He "forgot" to pay the storage bill. Manager contacted him 50 times. I finally made him leave. He sent me stories about women being strangled and driving off cliffs. I cannot explain the hell I've been through. My mind was not my own. I cant remember anything. I had agoraphobia for years after I woke up. I am not giving up. 20 months away from him and I feel mySelf coming back. I drive everywhere, take care of six kids, errands, cooking, socializing. He obviously underestimated me.

@ilomonaliza1669

3 жыл бұрын

It's exactly my case ,20 years married to a demon i moved on with 3 childs I feel like I am a life again.

@freerobuxcheckmychannel2521

3 жыл бұрын

@@ilomonaliza1669 Love and blessings. I do agree that we danced with demons. Its a miracle that we survived. 💕

@kunalgarg995

Жыл бұрын

May u all heal.. covert npds are really so hard to spot.. we need to spread awareness 🙏 💙 ❤

@blancamiranda778

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY THE SAME THING HERE...30+YRS...DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT A NARC WAS....FEEL LIKE A FOOL ❤️‍🔥 BEEN THREE WEEKS TRYING TO HEAL.

You're right its deadly the ex covert widower narcissist I had the horror of getting entangled with , his poor wife of 30 years hanged herself from a tree . They'd had 2 children the son escaped I'm guessing he was the scapegoat and the daughter was the golden child. It's a horrendous form of insidious abuse. I nearly went mental from the emotional and psychological abuse. I thought I was gonna die from the pain and I only experienced it for 18 months. Morally insane thet are so very lethal I agree.

@samco63

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry you went through that, and I feel terrible for the woman before you. I had one for 6 months only and it threw me through a loop. I felt like a headcase for a long time after this.

@BridiesMammaG

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, shocking story. I am sorry you experienced this

@Pistonhammer

Жыл бұрын

I know what you mean you say " the son escaped " and that he might have been the " The Scapegoat Child " i know this , because that is exactly what i did with my Vulnerable/Covert Narcissistic Mother , i had to cut my entire family off and go " No Contact " as shes turned the whole siblings against me , including my Golden Child eldest brother !!

What kind of person takes a woman; a widow who went to them to be introduced to others for support in the lockdown and isolates her. This man is truly a monster who love bombed me, isolated me, exhausted me to the point I couldn't go out of the house at all. He then explained to everyone that I was absent because of job stress. My body was screaming at me that something was very very wrong. Today I freed myself

So true about the coverts/psychopaths. My kids father, the Ex is a sociopath. He is physically and verbally abusive. Very controlling. I've dated narcissists of all kinds except cerebral, and I have to say the covert N and psychopath were by far the worst. I felt so lost, confused, in a fog during dark times. I've never felt so broken by such a person. They are evil and only care about themselves. 💔

@katarinadelogu7010

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly exactly i know monster jezebel awful devil ashole monster jezebel.. 👽👽👽🚩🚩🚩🆘🆘🆘👹👹👹👹💓💓👹🤮🤮🤮🤮😭😭💔💔🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍

@googlelove3856

2 жыл бұрын

Take ur power back. Realise your pain WAS their gain. Grieve their game and strain placed upon u.. build yourself back up. Once u get rid the virus.. everyday becomes sunshine. I promise.. keep it together and stay 2 steps ahead x

It's so hard and painful listening to this. It's like you are describing everything I went through with my spouse.

I feel like I've got to rebuild my entire psyche.

I'm married to a covert narcissist husband.. the Highly intelligent things that you are explaining. About the functioning of our brain.. how is it possible, for a twelve-year-old. who is trapped inside of a man's body. Can have this type of intelligent.?🤔 But yet they're not intelligent enough.. to self regulate themselves 🤔 I totally believe everything that you're saying.. and it makes sense. I have been on a lot of different channels.. and no one have Never! Ever! been able to breakdown the different parts of the brain and educate her viewers about the human brain.. So it's my opinion.🤔 That we're dealing with a demon 👿 when it comes to the covert narcissist 😈

@mercyrahma9501

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed It is The Demon Going trough this with God on My side☝️🙌

My husband of 32 years is the exact definition of a covert. His anger became so overwhelming that he jumped on me and assaulted me. I stupidly didn’t leave until the next morning after my physical therapist threatened to have him arrested after she saw my bruises. He treats me so coldly then writes me long emails apologizing and admitting his terrible behaviors. Then we see each other he acts calmly unless I say the wrong thing and he gets argumentative. We’ve been separated for 9 months and he’s still doing this. I can’t fix this. I’ve had 5 spinal fusions and I can’t handle full time employment. I still worry about how furious he’ll be if we divorce and he has to split “his stuff” and retirement with me.

@tinajones5548

3 жыл бұрын

When you divorce not if, leave now. You deserve better. It'll be a tough ride but the best thing you can do. Focus on yourself. Sending you strength and light...

22yrs married and 4 months out. My husband is a covert natc and I thought I was losing my mind. Nothing made sense until the discard happened. I literally drove at 2 AM from one state to another to get away. He has sociopathic tendencies as well as there were physical abuses as well.This community your videos and others that make these videos literally saved my life. Thank you just thank you.

@mercyrahma9501

2 жыл бұрын

22 years !!! 😯 I had only 3years and It has been hell On earth... Praying for Almighty God to take care of him and REMOVE him of my life !!! 🤲

Thankyou for this video & the encouragement. 8 months ago I ended the relationship with a very covert narcissist . I've been 4 months no contact but am still trauma bonded & often in cognitive dissonance. I cant believe how difficult & exhausting healing is & how long it's taking. I've had narcissistic relationships before but never to this scale.

@westcoast747

3 жыл бұрын

Hang in there, it gets better.

@saku_438

Жыл бұрын

I’m going through this rn, it’s been 1 month since no contact and it feels like I’ve been grieving a ghost 😔

This is so happened when the COVIN first started, my wife was a covert narcissist, I knew something was very wrong , when I saw she had a split personality, I never knew how much she was living a double life. My kids and her kids experienced the triangulation with me and other people. Very strange and I heard her talk to herself in very strange ways, she had to calm herself down and would cry for days. I still cant believe how evil she could be, after I did everything for her.

@anoushkamarcin

3 жыл бұрын

Steve I’m so sorry you experienced this, it must have been so hard. Covert narcissists are unable to feel empathy and lead double lives because of the duality between fantasy and reality.

@bertzerker747

3 жыл бұрын

Stress can really affect people with Dissociative Personality Disorder. Usually never in a good way. But least it gets to be revealed to others. Shame really that no one can help just the same. Awareness is dareness✌

@conqururfear

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve noticed that her ex-husband and his new wife;And I was it I covered her birthday early this year as you are when she moved out of she said “”you will not know ; where I live WILL!,!”” “I’m gonna work on me, You work on you”””. She Must’ve started fucking within 48 hours I began to experience stomach pain and cramps i actually broke my back and SUFFER today Apparently WHILE I WAS BREAKING MY BACK, she was breaking bad boards and The 10 Commandments

This is the highest form of abuse which one can face. My ex narc wife continuously threatened me that she doesn't like the city where I worked and she wants to go back to the city where she used to work before marriage. There were three reasons behind this 1. Since that city was entirely new to me, she thought that I would have nowhere to go If I moved with her and she will have full control and authority over me. 2. Secondly I would have to search for a new job in that city and she would succeed in belittling and demeaning me by the time I get a new job. 3. Most likely her ex was there, so she thought if I don't go, then she already has a backup option. I don't have any proof of her ex but I found out later that she didn't leave her rented flat before moving with me after marriage. The only reason behind this could be that she had some other plans and her ex was probably living in that flat. I thought that women set high standards for them but to live like this suggests that she didn't have any moral values and dignity and no fear of God.

I've watched every single video of you and it helped me so much... One thing that is still holding me back from moving on is that I can't get that person out of my head. I really don't know HOW TO STOP THINKING and finally get him out of my head. I'm tired!!!! Best wishes from Switzerland🇨🇭

@msharic85

3 жыл бұрын

So true! The ex-narc used to always tell me I was gonna miss him when he was gone.

Thankyou for this video...I can totally relate to all of it. I was 'owned' her words by my wife of 4 years. On my escape 4 months ago i literally left without the shirt on my back as she ripped it off on my way out of the door following yet another violent outburst. As a sidenote....I think in some cases when living with these disordered people the Gray rock method is bad advice. I know it's only a temporary management solution but staying calm and showing indifference or silence made the rage onslaught faster and more aggressive.. Also for us men...it's easy to advise calling the authorities during violent outbursts...but when your wife is beautiful...40kg and has the ability to be a street Angel of the highest order...I never thought that option was optimal!! You must plan your exit secretively...or it will be dangerous like mine... I have relocated Countries to start again!

This is 100% creepy & SO correct.

And the effects after the relationship is over, is crazy!!!! I can't believe I let myself go thru it all for so long!!!! The damage is done now, she became so insidious!!!!

How true...outsiders rarely see it or understand when you even explain this type of insanity. This has been and is my life with my elder NPD father. I'm the only child (the middle of three) that is overseeing this mess and then I caught him on the phone slandering my reputation this past week with my brother...then the next day my father tries talking to me like nothing happened...never acknowledged what happened.

I was told by the therapist that it was my fault I was cheated on and my partners discontent was due to the job I took required more of my time. A lot of people don't understand.

@anoushkamarcin

3 жыл бұрын

Oh no, this is awful. You are right many therapists end up retraumatising the survivor. I’m going to do a video about this in the coming weeks, I’ve had so many people contact me about this. I’m so sorry that this was your experience. This is NOT your fault. The therapist obviously fell for the narcissistic charm and believes the illusion. If you are not psychologically trained very well you also get sucked in and this is what must have happened.

@JJ-dk1lr

3 жыл бұрын

@@anoushkamarcin Thank you for the coming video. I appreciate you so much! I'm trying to heal from all the trauma at 57 yrs old...

@chessaddictress

3 жыл бұрын

@@JJ-dk1lr If it's any comfort, I am healing too, at 73 years old!! What insanity...

@JJ-dk1lr

3 жыл бұрын

@@chessaddictress Not that this is good but knowing others are going through the same thing out there is some comfort! I just wish I had a physical group or tribe to visit and talk to them. If that makes any sense...

@chessaddictress

3 жыл бұрын

@@JJ-dk1lr Yes, there are many, many of us! And yes, it is perfectly understandable that you would like some real in person support.

The difference in how we think about these 2 types. Overt narcissists: OK, they're abusive, good to know so I can keep my distance; Covert narcissists: I kind of love this person, I think he/she cares about me, oh no they are abusive? Are they? Maybe it's just me who is doing this. They have done so much for me and I can't really abandon them now. Well, I need to leave them because they hit me/mentally tortured me/put me down...How much abuse is too much?

"i want you to be Vulnerable with me, just like i want to do with you...." if you hear that, EFFING RUN!!!!!!! sorry, brutal truth!!! just go!!! No one normal will want you to do that!!

Why aren't mother's held accountable for inflicting this neglect/abandonment abuse?

@jupiterskiss3473

Жыл бұрын

They hide so well... Crazy lil bit*hes

Thank you for this. Clears a lot of fog on my mind. It also frightens me as I have witnessed this person's impulsive and erratic behaviour.

This video is so spot on! I'm sharing this with more people that need to understand how dangerous these things really are!

While I've never experienced violence or even a raised voice, the abuse I've suffered in my 26 yr marriage took me apart. And still, here at the end, I want to help him. He can't help what he is and I think he is now starting to realize it or maybe he knew all along. Divorce is final around mid June. He believes we are doing it for financial reasons, but for me it's over. He's leaving to work in another city soon and expects me to follow. It's not going to happen. Please get me through this next week, Lord. I had to play him to get to this point. I hate doing that but no sense in waving a red flag in a bulls face. I don't expect he will be violent, but I think I was able to put off the war for a bit longer. At least until he is miles away. Wish me luck.

Hmm, the more I hear, I think prayer and fasting and reading bible, and stopping! And allowing God enough time to get through to us, will be the spirituel help. Thank you so much for this helpful video 🌸 please pray for us. 🌸

Yes, domestic violence was fully in my relationship with my covert narc. 4 years of denial in my head not wanting to believe and it’s been horrible to try to leave. Finally move out for 2 months. ❤

You are spot on! I am healing every day thanks to you! I feel freedom, and I can see a bright future. This has been scary ! Thank you you are AMAZING! !! I can see the love you people in you thank you again

This is such an excellent video. Thank you for a better understanding of the covert narcissist. I am in my late 70s dealing with this type. My sister has caused me unbearable pain and no one is even faintly aware of her treachery. Yes, I am isolated and for years have been "legitimized" as the scapegoat, the problem in the family. Videos such as yours are very enlightening and helping me to let go. GOD bless you!

Excellent information! Thank you a million! It is all clearer now . 🌷

Wow! I recently found your channel and very much enjoy your explanations! This one in particular makes perfect sense!

My wife of 22 years was a magnificent actor. I was with her for 22 years and never spotted it. She portrayed herself as the victim saying that she was constantly walking on egg shells around me. In hindsight I see that I was the one walking on egg shells. I left her in May 2020 and ever since she has shown me to be a completely different person to the one I thought she was. She is now a cold, heartless person with zero empathy for the impact of her behaviour on our breakup and how it is impacting on our kids. She just doesn't care. She has new supply which she denied for months but it turns out I was correct all along and she lied, gaslighted, denied, deflected, blame shifted, projected all the way to avoid accepting accountability for her actions which she still won't do. Our breakup was all my fault. She is incredible.

@soundoflove19

3 жыл бұрын

She can’t show or feel empathy because that is something they don’t have within so it is impossible for them to give something they don’t have. For most people this is hard to grasp because naturally we feel empathy. But sooner we learn this about these people the better we are without them. Hopefully this made some sense.

@GraemeHawley1

3 жыл бұрын

You basically described what happened to me. The only difference is my relationship lasted 15 years and we split up in April. I actually thought everything was my fault but I always had the attitude of taking responsibility as that's what men do right? Also, I put her behavior down to her difficult childhood but in reality, she had been planting an agenda against me for a long time to get ready for when my supply wasn't needed anymore so for when the day we did split she could have enough ammo and back up to have everything pointing towards me. Took me 8 months after the split to finally come to the full realization. That's how good she was as a con artist. My focus now is to make sure this doesn't affect my kids and they don't grow up going into toxic relationships because if I do nothing they surely will.

@blazinbloke

3 жыл бұрын

@@soundoflove19 Yes you are right Iala it took me a good 8 months to finally acknowledge that my ex really doesn't have any empathy.

@blazinbloke

3 жыл бұрын

@@GraemeHawley1 I hear you and I feel your pain. My ex also plotted against me - over a 4 year period it seems. She knew our end was going to happen and she orchestrated everything waiting for the right moment to go full devaluation and final discard. Like you I worry about my kids. The narcissists are are such good liars / actors they can convince anybody of anything if it goes in their favour.

What are your thoughts on the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard case? I have no doubt that Amber is a covert narcissist. She reminds me so much of my ex. She really knows how to play the victim and what the courts need is education on these personality disorders because they don't realize what they are dealing with and how they are being manipulated. She is the perfect example of how dangerous a covert narcissist is.

@Pistonhammer

Жыл бұрын

Exactly !! Amber heard is without a shadow of a doubt a Covert Narcissist , the courts seriously need to upgrade themselves in regards to Covert Narcissists , they are the most dangerous type out there !!! My mother was the Vulnerable/Covert Narcissistic type also and i am her Scapegoat Child !!!

@zigggyyyc7342

Жыл бұрын

@@Pistonhammer they really are wolves in sheep's clothing. Diabolical

@Pistonhammer

Жыл бұрын

@@zigggyyyc7342 There sickening to the very core , that currently , as i am typing this , i've also attracted another one , the gf equivalent of the Vulnerable/Covert Narcissist now too also ( thats the price i pay for being an Unhealed Empath ) , i am carefully making my exit from her , so that she knows that in her mind shes " won " in her head , she even works as a nurse of all things !! And upgraded from a CRN Nurse to a Cardiologist Sonographer , because of the 9 to 5 schdule and better pay , thats what caught me by suprises was her Nursing job was the " Wolf in Sheeps Clothing " scenerio !! Very frightening as i was trauma bonded to her but i quickly realised what was going on hence the trauma bond was slightly easier to navigate through , but still , breaking free from the Trauma Bond it is like breaking free from a " Drug habit " so basically a sort of Mini-rehab i've placed myself in.

@zigggyyyc7342

Жыл бұрын

@@Pistonhammer they say the trauma bond is the equivalent of trying to get off opioids. Not easy!

@Pistonhammer

Жыл бұрын

@@zigggyyyc7342 Absolutely !!

Thank you for this validating information! Dots connecting more and more...blessings & love 💜

Thank you for the teachings

@anoushkamarcin

3 жыл бұрын

You are welcome 🙏🏼

@nellsmith9721

3 жыл бұрын

This is a fantastic video ... of my life over the last 5 years .... wow I was had wasn’t I ?? I thought the world of mine .... god .... ThAnkyou so much

You are amazing!!! I am truly blessed by your love and kindness...can't stress that enough! Your'r heart is huge!!!

Just wanted to thank you for the content that you upload, it's very helpful

Nailed it. Nice work! 👌🙌💗

If I had told to friends and family one thing at the time he did, probably (and it happens) they would told me 'ok, not a big deal'. I escape, and when I told EVERYTHING at once they were like OMG! these ppl are so so so dangerous

❤To watch this video has felt like an awakening. It is now 2 years ago since I have left the narcisstic rollercoaster and I will never ever forget this feelings. Now my life has changed but I had unanswered questions which were coming up from time to time. I am really thankful to find your channel, getting answers and finding a deeper understanding what has happened with my soul. I am from germany and I can say, that I didn´t find a psychological practitioner who is specialized in helping people who have experienced narcissistic abuse. Thank you so much for your work. Excuse my english....

This is spot on. Thanks for this video.

2 personas, public and private. Hidden agendas and vague responses and the freakiest part ownership. Totally agree. Psychopaths and narcs use pity plays to real people in. This is what they do to the victim and say the victim does it to them. So i think you should do dark triad? Gaslighting by tribe-its not really bad. Maybe your already going into dark triad. I wrote this before you said it.

Thank you so much 😊, I appreciate your help 👍🥰

Thank you so much for this video. This has explained my ex to a T! Everything you’ve said is so accurate. I’m so glad and thankful to have found these channels and been able to educate myself on this.

This makes a lot of sense with my short term memory...

You channel is one of my lifesaver. Thank you so much for your teachings and for your wonderful work !

@anoushkamarcin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you and I’m so pleased my work has helped you 😊

@suir1828

3 жыл бұрын

@@anoushkamarcin Thank you again, I really made enormous improvement since I found and watched your channel, and read your Blog, Currently, I am in a legal battle, but after that I will join the patron group and want to do some of courses.

@anoushkamarcin

3 жыл бұрын

No problem, take your time. I hope that everything goes well. Keep strong 💪🏽 you’ve got this 😊

@suir1828

3 жыл бұрын

@@anoushkamarcin thank you so much. ❤️

This was the one I needed to see exactly when I needed it. God bless you for helping us all through the hardest time of our lives. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Spot on, after a disagreement with a CN the smear campaign against me online was relentless. Only stopped after I called them out and threatened to report this to my workplace management.

Imagine a covert alcoholic narsasist for 12 years 🤦🏾‍♀️

@niecygandy8911

3 жыл бұрын

I did for 12 year's of hell also 😳

@richardwilson3548

3 жыл бұрын

It is not that hard to imagine. The denial, underlying pain, and delusion are all there. Put the two together and you definitely have someone unsafe to be with.

Thank you 🙏🏻

Great video as always!

Excellent excellent video! Thank you

I'm happier since my covert narc neighbor and I have gone No Contact. She has a wheelchair emblem on her rearview mirror in her car though she walks perfectly fine, so that she gets the best parking spots. And I've noticed that ALL of her many friends who come to visit her and bring her things all park in the wheelchair parking spots in front of our apartment building, even when there are other available nearby parking spots. It's like they are all liars and feel entitled.

I've realised I was married to a covert narc for 20 years, and have now been through a 4 year divorce. She played the victim at the beginning which I became her saviour. She was never happy, always went into a rage at the slightest thing. Glad I'm away now, finding it hard getting my head around the whole thing was a lie. 2nd time in court she turned up in a taxi, with disabled gloves on and a walking stick. 1 week later when our grandson was born she came running in the hospital showing no symptoms at all. How do they get away with it. From Nick - UK 🇬🇧

Good video thank you 🙏🏾

Thank you for this it helped me a lot.

@anoushkamarcin

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad the information has helped you 😊

@bertzerker747

3 жыл бұрын

I like it seeing when Anoushka gets excited on the subject. Converts are below below.

Take ashwagandah it reduces the cortisol in the body which is a stress hormone, ashwagandah is classed as an adaptogen which helps you adapt to stress...

I'm getting over this also This makes perfect sense to what I have experienced

ThAnkyou for this xxxx

Very good vidéo you're so interesting ! Yes they are dangerous, I was completely depressed and mad (lost myself and my mind) after all those abuses. It was a nightmare... Insidious violences... is terrible.

@katarinadelogu7010

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly exactly i know monster jezebel awful devil ashole 😭😭😭💔💔💔👽👹👹👽🆘🚩🚩🚩🙈🙈🙈🙈👽🤮🤮🤮🤮

I have borderline and I have a lot of empathy. And after two years of therapy 70% don't fit the criteria anymore. It's not about lacking any empathy. Most of us except for the straight Petulant ones, have more than enough empathy. We don't use and purposefully abuse people and we deal with constant guilt.

I am so glad I found this channel my partner took his life in February 22 he was a narcissist and had a lot of secrets that came out after he died and why he did it very dark secrets, I have so much trauma I don’t think il ever get over it 😢

Some of the comments are gold

We put up with it but don't forget it

Thank you 🙏

This is why I got adrenal fatigue which led to ulcerative colitis, an inflammatory autoimmune condition of the colon that causes perforation and bleeding.

Very good video.

Ex-girlfrienemy ignores/ insults me for years until she wants to move in. Never mentioning a sick stepson but hinting her daughter might join us etc. I turned her down. She then tells me her stepson died. IF there even was a stepson. Five years later she shows up unannounced with the love bomb & disconnected verbal revenge. Before she left she gives me pre-cog dire predictions 6 months before the pandemic without specifics. Gifts large & small follow. Very casual about everything & completely unnatural.

Thanks for the video. Your understanding of the covert narcissist’s methods is spot on-EXCEPT…they do not seek weaker victims. They want someone they wish to be-empathetic, energetic, authentic, trusting….the narcs create the vulnerability. I know drs lawyers entrepreneurs politicians (all successful) fall victim to there toxicity. I’m sorry if this sounds harsh-not my intention.

Explaining to the children what their patent is is very difficult task! They hid it from the kids but will trigger the spouse and turn it around on the healthy parent!

Can you do a video of what happens when the victim discards a narcissist? I called the police on him and they declined to charge him but I implemented no contact. I am curious how this feels for the narcissist.

@anoushkamarcin

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your suggestion, of course I can do a video about this topic. Sounds interesting. Sorry that you had to experience this.

Could you do videos on borderline personality disorder? They overlap with many narcisstic traits and are equally ad destructive, some label them as a vulnerable narcissist but a better way of explaining it is the introverted narcissist

How fucked up do you have to be to play the victim, yet always need to win everything every time?

Such an important video and message! (I know I've said this before but the background music is distracting and unnerving).

i deal with a c.n. at work, she whispers in peoples ears, like A LOT, its so creepy, and then she when entered their personal space and gets that personal with them, she can get away with more, she breaks the rules and the person wolnt call them out on it, and might even be a flying monkey now, if you do call her out then you dont get whispers and you get left out of what everybodys whispering about, i called her out immediately saying, why are you whisperng? and she started passive aggressive silent treatment for 2 months now, and one maintenance guy she whispers to all the time, tried making me the butt of a joke the other day and i called him out immediately and now he says when he comes in the room, is it "trouble"? like my nickname is "trouble", i was a happy person at work, but now i feel repressed, i feel if im happy and talkative now i get targeted like im not suppost to stand out, and now i feel hesitant to bring up machines breaking down or call maintenance for fear of him saying, its "trouble" again, so ive been made out to be the"bad guy" now, for even just doing my job reporting problems.

Yes, they are most manipulative and controlling

i knew one personally ...she was i thought a good friend but she was downright evil.....1st she found a man who was a total upfront narcissist ...she then said constantly he was abusing her....later she told me she controlled him...she was giving me lots of hints i did a lot of hummm what is this....she was targeting my life ......i caught her and almost lost my own mind....i said why and she pointed to my home and said i want this....including my husband....i think she slipped me something the last 2 times she was in my home......i still am not right about how i allowed it

@krissivanmeter8501

3 жыл бұрын

Same situation and she still text from fake numbers to tell me that she wants my husband and how he was just in her pants 🤦🏼‍♀️she has tried to destroy my life and relationships!These people need Jesus and a psychiatrist ASAP

18 year's with covert,2 year's to recover not completely yet...

2:40 - clues projection narcissist (selfish)

Thank you for this video. My NH has a harem of women that he rings on a regular basis. Two of these are now widows. Their husbands were friends of his. He’s always playing the victim. Telling them intimidate details about our relationship. Is this normal?

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Quite dangerous, this covert narcissist.

Is this ghosting, manipulation, narcissism or she likes me? I had a case like this. She is not such a close girl, friend, etc. It was a chance acquaintance on her initiative. Everything was ok, communication was friendly even though we know it wasn't, because we haven't known each other before. I went out to meet her a little with some little things. Chatting about us, that is, about me because I was interrogated, joking and then suddenly for no reason as if she was angry, nagging at me. I didn’t ask anything why, because I don’t want to extract words and explanations. I understand how it started with words, that's how it can end. I was refused coffee with only a negative answer. She didn't even try to agree, we didn't understand each other, you misunderstood me, I didn't mean the same as you, to say I can't again, I'm really busy, unfortunately. She just acted so rude as if I had just met her on the street and asked her out. Nothing, thank you, I'm not glad we met, but our communication must stop. Afterwards, everything was ok, we called nicely, but there was no more chatting. I don't know the reason, I know. I respect the decision not to, but I don’t understand such contact at the beginning and behavior at the end with some people whether the girl looked at me as a friend or a crush. And it doesn't matter if I saw her as a friend or a crush. I don't understand the interruption of communication at all, because there is no reason, there was no quarrel, even more so that I did something bad, she could say that I hurt her in some way, insulted her. I’m not mad at that person, I wish her all the best, and maybe even better that there was nothing to not disappoint each other and not let hard words fall. This time, due to strange circumstances and the meeting place, I let it pass without explanation. By the way, I don't like them doing that to me. Everything has its reason, beginning and end. She has a boyfriend all the time.

@Johnny-sn2ls

3 жыл бұрын

@Mother OK, thank you. 🙂

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Do you have thoughts on this covert narcissist in a non profit, volunteer work environment?

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My ex girlfriend is a covert narcissist

Isn’t Borderline Cluster B???

BPD is classified as Cluster B, with HPD and NPD. It’s not part of Cluster C.

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How do you get away? I’ve been divorced 8 years. He just got out of rehab and took my daughter but lied and had sole custody fast. The judge won’t hear my side. She said she did but we haven’t had a hearing. He has been homeless the past 6 years amd visits the kids at my house. So after ignoring them for the better part of a year. I Moved where he can’t stop by. I’m in hell . This judge has locked him twice, theee warrants amd two rehabs in the last 10’months. Yet stable mom over here is not a junkie so my rights are not as important. My daughters highest grade is a 7F. A seven F. I thought they used a numeric system when I heard these numbers. No it’s a percent. She graduated with honors from a private school in may this year. But no one sees the problem. This maniac is going to Jill me one way or the other

Borderline is actually in cluster B, not C....

Is it narcist or narcissist?

Demons do this.

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