I know more than anyone that a non-return missionary doesn’t equal non-worthy man. My brother was honorably exempt, and his testimony is extremely strong.

Being new in the LDS church I'm still trying to figure out what mormon girls like lol. For me they definitely have to love Christ and have a relationship with Heavenly Father!

@marclucas9701

2 жыл бұрын

That has to be the most important above all else

Something I have learned to look for in someone is how they can handle multi-tasking/prioritizing. If they can't schedule you into their week or month then they'll never be able to "pencil" you into their lives.

@Mimi.Bascom

4 жыл бұрын

SO true 🙌🏼

@ruusteriv

3 жыл бұрын

@Saul Ristic What?

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

@@ruusteriv Someone that puts god first above you...

Oh my gosh, this video just gives me all the butterflies!! I’m so excited that you’re planning on uploading more content like this! You’re just so beautiful and wonderful and I can’t wait to see more❤️❤️

@Mimi.Bascom

4 жыл бұрын

Ahhh thank you so much for your sweet comment!! I can’t wait for you to see what’s coming next!! 💕💕

@PunkProfess0r

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! Butterflies 🦋!!

Thank you for the video! It explains the important points on dating and marriage. Thanks!

@iansoehngen6129

3 жыл бұрын

Hi

Great, realistic, grounded advice. Nice job guys! :D

Keep up the good work yall all awesome!

I do Remember in Budapest I was stopped by Mormon girls , tried their best without cease to make me convert , I was always honest and told them from beginning I will not but I welcome you say your mind or tell your view , but the truth is they send pretty girl abroad it was hard to resist their beauty so I could handle the hours listening what they say and watching their beautiful big blue eyes and golden hair

You make it seem like sister wives both our husbands named Eric lol I got you

@Mimi.Bascom

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha omg nooo

Lds girls and really just girls in general look for leaders. They like men with confidence. Men who wear the pants both literally and metaphorically. Men who are honest with other people and themselves. Men who have the self-awareness to not simp and the stones to tell someone honestly how they feel and what their values are. Girls overall like strong resolve. Not sissies who waver with regard to their standards.

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

Preach!

@jamesb118

3 жыл бұрын

But I wear shorts...

@Generalindifference

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesb118 🤣🤣👍

For me a guy, I find lists pretty pointless and mine is pretty short. they need to: •Be a believing member •want to have kids •I have to find them attractive •We have to like eachothers humor •have some sort of passion for something, art, music, climbing, whatever.

@olle4156

2 жыл бұрын

Bror vad håller du på med, fett cringe

@brianwaller7383

Жыл бұрын

I’m a guy and my list is quite easy but 99% of the women outside the church don’t meet and it’s quite sad. Fit, feminine, friendly, chaste, dress modesty. When I say fit I don’t necessarily mean bone skinny, just good enough shape to go on hikes and outdoor activities, not obese and can’t do any physical activity

What about if someone dates someone who isn't LDS, but that person agrees to take the lessons, and possibly convert? Member of the Sunflower Squad.

@Mimi.Bascom

4 жыл бұрын

Hey Joseph, that is a great question! The person converting must have the desire to learn of the truthfulness of the gospel for themselves. Often, if they just agree to join the church for someone they are interested in, they don’t truly convert & it can become a strain on the relationship.

@josephsaltal2596

4 жыл бұрын

@@Mimi.Bascom Thanks for the reply!

When I met my first bf I was so not into him, it was at a party & he asked for my number, I didn’t want to be mean so I gave it to him. He called me the next day & we talked for like 2 hours super comfortably. Anyway I thought oh well he’s cool we’ll be friends, maybe I can set him up with one of my girl friends. Little did I know, shortly later we were in love & that was that.

@brianwaller7383

Жыл бұрын

You just did what most women don’t or can’t do. Most women cannot see a guy past his physical attractiveness, they constantly base their relationship based on physical attractiveness but then they realize he’s a complete d bag. Here’s a hint to the ladies most “hot” guys are d bags, look for average looking guys for good relationships

What qualities are most important to you while searching for an eternal companion??! ❤ If you liked this video, here are a few others you might enjoy: How I Met My Husband: kzread.info/dash/bejne/h5V8launj7Gwk9Y.html LDS Dating Advice Q&A: kzread.info/dash/bejne/m5ytu8mPppjAfqQ.html

@bobbq8380

3 жыл бұрын

... Definitely gotta be patriotic or respectful to military. Mmm.. nice, a babe 😉 or cutie pie, won't scratch me up, and tolerant of gaming I guess. I loves my games

My own advice 1. the first list you should do is a list of things you will do to serve, honor and love your future husband. then you can think about creating a list of things that you will look for in an eternal companion. 2. if your list of qualities in an eternal companion is large - that's a problem this applies for both guys and girls

@tayhicks3

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

If your husband never calls your secret name how do go to heaven

the fact she kept saying eric her husband it was like sureal cause my name is eric, also hve i kept the commandments yes, am i consecrated yes, hve i got on a mission yes, honestly i feel like i cold go on a couple more missions. my negatives are im a perfectionist, and im not patient, even my mission president said i have to slow down, since when dos a mission president tell someone to slow down, usually its just about disobediance

@jamesb118

3 жыл бұрын

Weird post man

@FordFalcon1962nBlue

3 жыл бұрын

sounds like a cult bud i'd get out of it women , especially early on base everything on raw emotion- makes it easier to control them

iv studied movie after movie, tv shows and iv waited so long to be in a relationship, this girl i really like is single which is better than married or hve bf, which is good, the tough part is she is going from utah to chicago to work for a dpt. i live in washington state, and i thoght as long as shes single thre is nothing tht is going to stop me from dating her and eventually marrage. except she doesnt lve here. another thing is as badly as i wnt her i dnt know if she wnts me. am i crazy enough to go to chicago and make a miracle happen?

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

Dude that's cray cray, there's lotsa fish in the sea...maybe "God" has someone better planned for you...

@FordFalcon1962nBlue

3 жыл бұрын

good luck with that bs she's gona find someone i tried dating long distance..doesn't' work- and when they find someone else they cut you loose

How do you do if you converted after the age of the mission service? Then you dont get a girl on the church?

@GeneralWinter9

Жыл бұрын

You don't you should save yourself the drama and problems and date outside it.

@Stefanopperes

Жыл бұрын

@@GeneralWinter9 no way, I want a pure and virgin girl

@brianwaller7383

Жыл бұрын

@@GeneralWinter9 good luck with that. 99% of women outside the church are 304s that have body counts in the triple digits and are so far gone emotionally that they can’t pair bond and will cheat on you any time they’re horny and you’re not around.

One lady who was a wife of a man who was in the bishopric said that when they were dating and they were at some activity she looked across the room as he was talking to someone else a thought came to her was "He has what Im looking for AND he's who I want " That has stuck with me. I have never been married and Im 45. Im happy though. :)

@bigd322

3 жыл бұрын

That must be really hard. I'm sorry.

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with that!

@Dreammaster695

3 жыл бұрын

That will be me also, these people get married young I think if you don’t get married by 30 you are very unlike to meet anyone

@FordFalcon1962nBlue

3 жыл бұрын

whats the point of being apart of the group then i wonder? if you're happy without all that stuff then it seems you dont need a book to guide your life you're already guiding it yourself

Ate there any similar sites for lds guys

I'm a "back burner."

You don't know what you want when you date? I can't say that's true cause I know what I want. And I don't mean chaca chaca by the way, if that's the first thing that crossed your mind

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes what you need is better than what you want...

@sayopro8804

3 жыл бұрын

@@travisberthold1825 And I suppose your one of those who just wait for what you need to come down from the sky just cause?

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

@@sayopro8804 Nope, I don't go in with any expectations, and after a while of dating you don't fall into the trap of holding your partner to unrealistic standards that will only result in your own loneliness.. .

@sayopro8804

3 жыл бұрын

@@travisberthold1825 Why is that? Is it because you lack understanding of the fact that nobody is perfect? Or is it because you think you're too much to for everybody?

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

@@sayopro8804 Your last statement doesn't make sense...

I just moved back to Provo for my PhD … graduated from byu like 8 years ago. It’s been a while but I’m excited to get back out there and date again. I feel like Mormon girls are almost automatic “high quality women” like your average Mormon girl is like already a very desirable woman compared to the average population outside of Utah and Provo especially. But yeah a “high quality woman” (what a lot of us men in the male/dad communities call girls who come from a 2 parent home, who has a good relationship with her father, who desires to be a mother, who is educated and supportive and compassionate and respectful and feminine and doesn’t refer to herself in her introduction to you as a “strong independent woman” who looks for dudes who are leaders who are comfortable taking control and who provides security and stability, who won’t label your confidence and straightforward nature as “toxic masculinity”, who loves god and treats her body as a temple - no drugs or alcohol, who is kind and optimistic and positive…you know…your average Mormon girl? Lol). Anyways…I was married for almost 13 years before I lost my wife to complications in child birth. It’s been a few years so I’m ready to get back out there and find another adventure buddy/ celestial consort w/benefits lol 😝 just thought of that one on the spot. I went to church for the first time last Sunday, it was in this huge building on campus haha wild…so many cute and I mean CUTE bright and smiley and happy and GOOD girls there. The guys were adorable as well. Everything is so much less scary now that I’ve been there and done that and am now in my early to mid 30’s. I wish I had this confidence when I was in my early 20’s. lol I hated how I looked so young. Now I don’t mind it. I still look 20-23…basically haven’t aged for over a decade lol. Anyway…it would be cool to collaborate on a video sometime…just reply to this comment and I’ll figure out the rest :). Peace ✌️

Some one single not married. Rightous and knows the Lord.

@marclucas9701

2 жыл бұрын

No baggage either

I would like to meet a lady who is able to help me with the Holy Bible and The Book of Mormon .

i like the pitch girl.

I am a 33 yo virgin man, so can an LSD girl date a Muslim man ?

@marclucas9701

2 жыл бұрын

I just turned 33

Is lds page?

@Mimi.Bascom

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Im 45 and single...just looking for someone isn't creepy...lol

@bigd322

3 жыл бұрын

Define creepy please.

@bigd322

3 жыл бұрын

Also, my name is Dario. Pleasure to meet you. 😊

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry, I'm creepy...

@igoroliver3734

3 жыл бұрын

If you say: "I want a mature person", or list the attributes that you want that would fix better...I don't know how you will find a healthy mind with this creepy question haha, but good luck..wish you find what you want!!

Dating is just ask questions ... see if they back it up for you ... can't judge them they tied to lazy family and friends blocking.. no way for them to plan or be organized or skills. Fallow your dreams mean both ways guys females ... can backfire on ya .. extra dating ... jealousy... but long term you learn or testimony on you good for each other.. appreciate each other more.... Look at it as biggest investment in life ... No rush except to get to know them ... celebacy or baptized they comitted and can control temptations. Always be something some one you want . Lol. Comitment to God and no sex ... sex gets out of control . Deal with ex's and skeletons trauma ... long as get along and communicate and attracted got passion... Gotta have faith in them ... they gotta earn it ... today's society that's hard to do ...

LDS girls want a guy that goes to work five days a week and a shared laundry room in an apartment complex, with many other non-working guys that frequent the laundry room.

Only RMs.

I just wanted to understand the female LDS perspective of dating as a gentleman in his mid 40s.

@brianwaller7383

Жыл бұрын

I’m 44, baptized last year. One of the sister missionaries I was working with we had chemistry with some subtle flirting going on. She returns from her missionary next week. Unfortunately I met her at the very beginning of her mission. We kept in touch and is from Hawaii but she’s transferring from byu Hawaii to Provo. Wasn’t really expecting this so we’ll see what happens

How, and where I find some girl???, I can't find! , I don't see any girl in my church hahah

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

Find a new church...

@igoroliver3734

3 жыл бұрын

@@travisberthold1825 my city has just one church😭

@FordFalcon1962nBlue

3 жыл бұрын

your city is smart then lol, countries with less religion are happier, more united nations

@igoroliver3734

3 жыл бұрын

@@FordFalcon1962nBlue you are super crazy...did not understand that what you said

@TheSwedishHistorian

2 жыл бұрын

@@FordFalcon1962nBlue nonsense. Christians, specifically latter day saints are happier

Mmmm nahh....

Here's a nice question: What do Mormon girls think of simps?

@azariah_kyras

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooooo three months and no reply

@andrews9168

2 жыл бұрын

They love em I guess

A HARD WORKING GUY is a DEAL BREAKER for me...

@Mimi.Bascom

4 жыл бұрын

Preach 🙌🏼

@EricDavis-iw7hj

4 жыл бұрын

i work myself to death, hardworking is really important, but i think i take everything over the top. some dont work hard and then theres me.

@javiersanabria7513

3 жыл бұрын

So you want a lazy guy? Man you're weird.

@travisberthold1825

3 жыл бұрын

@@javiersanabria7513 She didn't say lazy, she said a guy who simps...

@Jesusthesame49

3 жыл бұрын

What if hes african american

faceless,dating

money !!!!

@FordFalcon1962nBlue

3 жыл бұрын

beat me to it...lots of money which is hilarious as money is fictional in its entirety

#1. A big tool #2. A great job #3. Loves to rub my feet #4. Gives me lots of space #5. 😅😅😅😅😅😘😘👍👍

You never dated African

Y'all should join the Hebrew Israelites

You both wear too much make-up. Who are you trying to impress? Jim Bakker?

@gordonbarnes7005

4 жыл бұрын

You're quite a bright ray of sunshine, aren't you?

@FordFalcon1962nBlue

3 жыл бұрын

never did understand LDS, theres like 2 groups of LDS< hardcore and then soft core, hardcore are the ones that of course take everything serious, the soft core break like 25% of the rules, use make up, do things not suggested, etc. kind of a giant hypocrite move to me

@PunkProfess0r

2 жыл бұрын

Dude Carl… frickin chill man lol, it’s cool they are out there doing them and reaching out to people, for all we know you are just a big giant green C. I know the internet is full of bitter and resentful people but I still get surprised when I see it. Especially when these gals are just happy and fun and doing their thing and you come in and say something like that it’s just kinda wild man, and a little funny too. Like who is Jim Bakker? And why do you assume that wearing make up means someone is actively trying to impress someone specific?….like Jim Bakker. Lol that’s a riot man. Good luck Mr. Giant Green C! 😝.

@PunkProfess0r

2 жыл бұрын

@@FordFalcon1962nBlue yeah I think you should try and get out more and objectively observe the LDS population, because that’s not only a highly reductive take but it’s also very inaccurate. I love the Mormon people, they are bright rays of sunshine in this world of ours and I cherish their existence.