Dating Culture at BYU

Edit: This was for a class and it couldn't go over 10 minutes so that's why the audio is so fast lol. And we were rushing last minute to turn it in on time so that's why the video is pretty crappy in general haha i apologize!
our computer shut down THRICE in the process and deleted the entire 10-minute video.... many MANY thanks to our friend in the BYU library media center tech support, you shall remain unnamed but we will never forget you

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  • @charlesroeckeriv6226
    @charlesroeckeriv62263 жыл бұрын

    "Oh my heck!" I went to BYU in the 90s and dating was the same back then. I busted up laughing when you mentioned NCMO because I've not heard that in over 20 years!

  • @branholo5814

    @branholo5814

    3 жыл бұрын

    Did you get married later on? Did you get married to someone at BYU? Did you date someone for a period of time? Give me the details hahaha

  • @bakerward1977

    @bakerward1977

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can tell u went there the moment you said o my heck lol

  • @t-condieproductions6338
    @t-condieproductions63383 жыл бұрын

    3:54 perhaps the most BYU looking guy you’ll come across

  • @melissaliebenthal160
    @melissaliebenthal1603 жыл бұрын

    Omg! Slow down...youre speaking way too fast, narrators!

  • @RatedFforFUGlenda

    @RatedFforFUGlenda

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can put any video at a slower speed

  • @PunkProfess0r

    @PunkProfess0r

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol and with ear piercing S’s

  • @gracieayers8706
    @gracieayers87063 жыл бұрын

    The guy eating a grape! I'm crying!! 😅

  • @ashleyholmes993
    @ashleyholmes9933 жыл бұрын

    I went to a southern baptist university and it was the exact same lol ring by spring and everyone pursuing that m.r.s. Degree

  • @willkeene661
    @willkeene6613 жыл бұрын

    Dear lord slow downs did y'all take speed?

  • @tmw7550
    @tmw75503 жыл бұрын

    8 different dates in 1 month! Wow!! Playing the field for sure haha

  • @eLnochiCalee
    @eLnochiCalee2 жыл бұрын

    Be Happy, invest & stay healthy. Respect others and love will come.

  • @unnonybtbtv2400
    @unnonybtbtv24003 жыл бұрын

    Brooo what😭 my university has sex events every year where you play trivia games about sex facts/safe sex/consent and you win condoms and sex toys 🤣 This video is so crazy to me, not in a bad way, just surprising how we can all be going to schools for the same careers and have complete opposite experiences

  • @gaybatgosqueak

    @gaybatgosqueak

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tbf most of these people are in a cult...so it's gonna be different from what you've experienced

  • @briandm33

    @briandm33

    2 жыл бұрын

    In the LDS Faith we don't talk like this. Please respect the religion and your HF first before you think about talking immaturely and disrespectfully.

  • @unnonybtbtv2400

    @unnonybtbtv2400

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@briandm33 Good for you, that’s your faith not mine, this a public KZread video and I’m a grown women I can comment whatever I want. With that being said, I still didn’t disrespect your beliefs in any way, just explained how my school has a completely different experience. And to me Talking about sex is not immature. Encouraging people to be safe if they’re doing it and educating them on the topic is disrespectful to you? No one said you had to agree with me and I didn’t bash your beliefs so I’m confused…

  • @edmonddantes1761

    @edmonddantes1761

    2 жыл бұрын

    This makes me depressed to move there for work... I'm already planning on transferring after a year there...

  • @rachabonespittz

    @rachabonespittz

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@briandm33 lol ur mad and ur cult sucks ass

  • @tillerbuckets386
    @tillerbuckets3863 жыл бұрын

    Y’all rockin wit NICMO⁉️

  • @wavestation999

    @wavestation999

    3 жыл бұрын

    ‼️

  • @cindyriehm7411

    @cindyriehm7411

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi what is NICMO

  • @QuestionsIAskMyself
    @QuestionsIAskMyself3 жыл бұрын

    The pressure and deprivation the Church causes, causes young people to think they need to be in a relationship and/or married to be fulfilled. The deprivation and pressure makes them not know what they really want

  • @Nopebrbra

    @Nopebrbra

    2 жыл бұрын

    i'm not even religious and i just don't hook up and what's wring with people who don't hook up?

  • @catinabox3048

    @catinabox3048

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Nopebrbra When did they say there was something wrong with people who don't hook up? They're saying that you tend to get a better sense of what you want when you're not pressured to go one direction only, and that you don't need to be married to be fulfilled in life.

  • @bigmikeobama5314

    @bigmikeobama5314

    2 ай бұрын

    "finding out what you want" is just code for sleeping around

  • @danifacundo0830
    @danifacundo08303 жыл бұрын

    Ladies slow down lol. Great video

  • @country1995
    @country1995 Жыл бұрын

    SOAKING IS AWESOME

  • @outsideview9052
    @outsideview90523 жыл бұрын

    Asking for "normal" was a good question.

  • @BennyNegroFromQueens
    @BennyNegroFromQueens3 жыл бұрын

    The guys are lying about how many dates they go on.

  • @mugen1237
    @mugen12372 жыл бұрын

    I wonder how many of them have tried soaking.

  • @SA-zi5qg
    @SA-zi5qg3 жыл бұрын

    What does it mean “have you ever participate in one?” Someone answer me

  • @justincohen4823

    @justincohen4823

    3 жыл бұрын

    It was a follow up to the previous question. Do you know what a NCMO is? And then "Have you ever been in one before?" So it's asking "have you ever been in a NCMO?"

  • @ericbatterson7720
    @ericbatterson77202 жыл бұрын

    Did you ask about soaking?

  • @briandm33
    @briandm332 жыл бұрын

    You miss out on soo many things when it comes to getting serious at such a young age. The level of maturity and personality play such a key role in a person's beliefs and choices in who they choose to date and think of as a partner. What dateing truly comes down to is their connection to their Heavenly Father and a greater desire to create better choices in life. I couldn't even date under the age of 25 years old simply bc of maturity level and if you ask the Heavenly Father directly you'd find out quickly what he expects of everyone bc of seeking a mature partner bc of their desires in worshipping him and not the desires of the world. Now that I think about my youth and dateing in the gospel I had to stop myself from looking at my friends less bc they thought they needed to date or get serious under the age of 25 due to their identity in all things. The thinking better part in everything changes a person's desires to do better and to learn how to create more mature choices. Some people will not even marry in this lifetime bc of the right person comeing along to be that type of person. But in all honesty marriage isn't for kids or anyone under 22 years old. That age is still a kid in my book.

  • @bigmikeobama5314

    @bigmikeobama5314

    2 ай бұрын

    you miss out on alot of over rated selfish boomer hippie trash things. but yes

  • @eo6637
    @eo66373 жыл бұрын

    What exactly does this ‘NCMO’ entail 😂😂

  • @veyanncolvin349

    @veyanncolvin349

    3 жыл бұрын

    If I am correct, it entails everything besides heavy petting and making it to first base. Hope that helps clarify the "non-commital" portion of it. XD

  • @peterb7192

    @peterb7192

    3 жыл бұрын

    Non-Commital MakeOut session

  • @abbystead4390
    @abbystead43904 жыл бұрын

    nicmo.

  • @aidanlanders1848
    @aidanlanders18483 жыл бұрын

    Bro I’m confused are they really embarrassed to say they made out w someone they weren’t married to?😂

  • @DanielaGREY

    @DanielaGREY

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol my thoughts exactly!

  • @Sandrinarhonda

    @Sandrinarhonda

    2 жыл бұрын

    because your not supposed to be kissing people your not commited too

  • @unnonybtbtv2400

    @unnonybtbtv2400

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Sandrinarhondayeah but how do you figure out who you like? What if you marry someone and after figure out you guys aren’t sexually compatible at all

  • @bigmikeobama5314

    @bigmikeobama5314

    2 ай бұрын

    every woman is sexually compatible with every man lol. its not a complicated act, they prioritize things that are actually important, they dont think like a vain pissant and prioritize sex over a family and morality. all of the nay-saying comments on this video only vindicate and validate their way of life even more

  • @BostonBruinsOWN
    @BostonBruinsOWN4 жыл бұрын

    I’d last a Day there as I’d always be really really drunk

  • @javiersanabria7513

    @javiersanabria7513

    3 жыл бұрын

    I would have to be buzzed to enjoy myself at this school. This school is lame.

  • @BLMacab

    @BLMacab

    Жыл бұрын

    @@javiersanabria7513 dont be mad you got no game javier, i had no game i had no game, i had tattoooooooooooooo and highsocks tho

  • @jordandudley6245
    @jordandudley62453 жыл бұрын

    Holy hell, I can't believe America is real. These people will never get to live a day in their lives.

  • @kelseybarton

    @kelseybarton

    3 жыл бұрын

    exactly what im thinking

  • @NYD666

    @NYD666

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yall act like this is all America

  • @Shadowmaxim

    @Shadowmaxim

    2 жыл бұрын

    BYU may as well be considered it's own country 😅

  • @bernieee12
    @bernieee123 жыл бұрын

    Why does NCMO sound kinda bad to say, “Nigmo’s” lmao

  • @likeliterally7077
    @likeliterally70773 жыл бұрын

    everyone is very attractive

  • @unnonybtbtv2400

    @unnonybtbtv2400

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn I was thinking opposite🥴, but eh just difference of opinion

  • @nobzwrld9380

    @nobzwrld9380

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@unnonybtbtv2400 Fr 😂 Planning on attending there but they all low-key ugly

  • @BLMacab

    @BLMacab

    Жыл бұрын

    @@unnonybtbtv2400 its the wholesomeness and huhwiiiiiiiiiiiiite ness too, for me it is, ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh hannah, and brittany and the mother and daughter who were not mother and dasughter so i want them as wives too! and thickyboss tho she married and red reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed red tho. ooooooooooooooooooh and Daldon, daldon was a sweetien and respectful to women and me, the man was all american white its alright good man, probably has 6 kids now my boy my baby boy daldons old now

  • @BLMacab

    @BLMacab

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nobzwrld9380 dude so many baddies at chifila and mcdonalds and the smiths and walmart and hiking trails and joggers, they all smell like bleach and suntan lotion

  • @BennyNegroFromQueens
    @BennyNegroFromQueens3 жыл бұрын

    Who's down with N C M O, yea you know me!

  • @MikeDrop66
    @MikeDrop663 жыл бұрын

    Girl at 1:40 looks tall

  • @abbystead4390
    @abbystead43904 жыл бұрын

    nvm... 😒😦

  • @susanbyrtus481
    @susanbyrtus4813 жыл бұрын

    The narrator speaks WAY too fast!!!

  • @TheSoylucia
    @TheSoylucia4 жыл бұрын

    Everything seems horrible and boring and depressing

  • @glenlevinzon3012

    @glenlevinzon3012

    3 жыл бұрын

    It is!! We have high rates of depression and related diseases because of it

  • @brianwaller9454

    @brianwaller9454

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nothing like trying to make a huge financial decision to get married just to have sex. That is like you getting a $20k pay raise and you go out and get a $60k car before you even get the first check. Marriage is a financial disaster for guys

  • @TomHoffman-uw7pf

    @TomHoffman-uw7pf

    11 ай бұрын

    @@brianwaller9454 No s**t, Sherlock. I have not paid one cent in credit card interest since I split up with my ex 9/15/2001

  • @bigmikeobama5314

    @bigmikeobama5314

    2 ай бұрын

    i sincerely hope you stay well away from them then. dont ruin the last bastion of good decent wife material women left in america the way your libt ardism has ruined everything else

  • @edmonddantes1761
    @edmonddantes17612 жыл бұрын

    I am learning more and more why men are leaving all churches.... this was depressing

  • @bigmikeobama5314

    @bigmikeobama5314

    2 ай бұрын

    the kind of men who want to have shallow meaningless relationships and are emotionally and spiritually stunted little boys are the ones who find this depressing.

  • @edmonddantes1761

    @edmonddantes1761

    2 ай бұрын

    @bigmikeobama5314 SIGN language doesn't work on us anymore. Shame insults guilt and the need to be right. Satan is already in the church I'm the form of f3m1n1sm and solidified by your 501c3 status. This world belongs to Satan and youre all a part of that system. Young men should read all corinthians and learn that God does not like s1mps by way of Samson and king ahab.....

  • @edmonddantes1761

    @edmonddantes1761

    2 ай бұрын

    @@bigmikeobama5314 read that Bible more. God doesn't like s1mpz

  • @gaybatgosqueak
    @gaybatgosqueak2 жыл бұрын

    How many y'all soaked and jumped? 🤣

  • @tessaraenelson6051
    @tessaraenelson60513 жыл бұрын

    Who cares if you have had a ncmo? Get out there, date around, and live. Oooof. They treated it like it was the sin of sins 😂.

  • @veronicahaney6005

    @veronicahaney6005

    2 жыл бұрын

    cuz in the church anything sexual is considered next to murder

  • @QuestionsIAskMyself
    @QuestionsIAskMyself3 жыл бұрын

    Wait, why do the girls feel the need to drop out of college when they get marriage?

  • @veronicahaney6005

    @veronicahaney6005

    2 жыл бұрын

    cuz most of them have babies ASAP and they are told to be stay at home moms bc that is the most important station for a woman

  • @BLMacab

    @BLMacab

    Жыл бұрын

    @@veronicahaney6005 well i dont see mormon pullin 211s 187 and the 3x they did in my life time they almost did, poor cows they dd nothing wrong obama

  • @DClean
    @DClean4 жыл бұрын

    Yikes

  • @Moribus_Artibus
    @Moribus_Artibus3 жыл бұрын

    Do they sell alcohol there?

  • @ayeayeronmolay3699

    @ayeayeronmolay3699

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha no. They just started selling caffeinated drinks like Coca Cola couple years ago.

  • @Moribus_Artibus

    @Moribus_Artibus

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Tyler G Its quite impressive how Utah borders Nevada and Colorado and still fights tooth and nail to be preserve its Mormonism. I have to give y'all that.

  • @Moribus_Artibus

    @Moribus_Artibus

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Tyler G That shit's ridiculous. Move to Vegas or Denver, bro

  • @BLMacab

    @BLMacab

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ayeayeronmolay3699 lies................... they sell it 11AM-7pm, dude i worked overnights used to pay coworkers to buy it for me before my day off

  • @paulhuaringa-perrigo2467
    @paulhuaringa-perrigo24674 жыл бұрын

    i felt in love with my lds friend in high school. i stupidly got a little obssesed and that fricked her out. she promised me to go on a date if i change my behavior, im doing my mission over summer. she said that she is not planning on going to byu yet. During my mission i hope to learn how not to be like i was. Im not saying we have to marry but at least an opportunity to show that i change d. maybe later but im not thinking that. she was special because as a southamerican she turned me into a lds.

  • @d3cibel

    @d3cibel

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m deaddddd

  • @stephen1078

    @stephen1078

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cool she got you into a cult

  • @mikesully110

    @mikesully110

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@stephen1078 joining a religion or a cult just for a girl has to be the stupidest thing ever. It reminds me of the film Starship Troopers, the guy in that joined the military purely for a girl. And she left him 🤣

  • @zenaisoffline862

    @zenaisoffline862

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mikesully110 frll

  • @jazzyj6640
    @jazzyj66403 жыл бұрын

    Those are reformed Mormons right? Doesn’t that religion think that being black is a curse?

  • @edmonddantes1761

    @edmonddantes1761

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup. Even converts who ate not white are 2nd class and not dated by the predominant white majority

  • @TomHoffman-uw7pf

    @TomHoffman-uw7pf

    11 ай бұрын

    Yep. Curse of Cain. God turned him black.

  • @bigmikeobama5314

    @bigmikeobama5314

    2 ай бұрын

    can you name any crime stats that would invalidate that claim?

  • @mikesully110
    @mikesully1103 жыл бұрын

    Is there an LGBT club at BYU then? lol

  • @cufflink44

    @cufflink44

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you mean club as in "a heavy stick with a thick end, especially one used as a weapon," then yeah, I bet there is.

  • @OwenMLDS

    @OwenMLDS

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cufflink44 💀

  • @j3s333

    @j3s333

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Tyler G well yes, but no

  • @vinceb1627
    @vinceb16272 жыл бұрын

    yer ou brideau

  • @jacobmonte7195
    @jacobmonte71952 жыл бұрын

    goo goo gah gah ncmo mommy

  • @abbystead4390
    @abbystead43904 жыл бұрын

    NICMO???? 🤨

  • @salwa8721

    @salwa8721

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can you please explain me what nicmo means ?

  • @natalial9131

    @natalial9131

    3 жыл бұрын

    Salwa None committed make out

  • @calbeelays
    @calbeelays2 жыл бұрын

    hiii

  • @abualymotivator3222
    @abualymotivator32222 жыл бұрын

    Hello brothers and sisters. How is life ? I am crazy about the book of Mormon. Who wants to teach me the lessons ? Thanks abu Aly

  • @racalmorsh9026
    @racalmorsh90263 жыл бұрын

    Interesting video

  • @bubblygranolachick
    @bubblygranolachick2 жыл бұрын

    Ncmo 🙄 so friends with benefits except not really a good friend and not much benefit. Wow, sad.

  • @jordanlucas9762
    @jordanlucas97622 жыл бұрын

    Bunch of soakers

  • @goaliegrizz8925

    @goaliegrizz8925

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally no one does that lmao

  • @BLMacab

    @BLMacab

    Жыл бұрын

    @@goaliegrizz8925 3 of my friends did, one did strcitly hand things only and justified it, he had 3 nicknames he hated it was hilarious HJH JH HJHH wheeeeeeeeeeew im loling from the memories homies rolled up to dudes moms house 2am yelling "come out with her hans up HAND(wont repeat dudes name)" oh yeah and JackJobs for short

  • @traviscamara3896
    @traviscamara3896 Жыл бұрын

    go on a mission get married quick or the mormons look down on you a old cult

  • @samsca8529
    @samsca8529 Жыл бұрын

    Certain BYU students aren’t allowed to date at all

  • @BLMacab

    @BLMacab

    Жыл бұрын

    hawt

  • @rickraybourn7456
    @rickraybourn74563 жыл бұрын

    Brigham Young taught that Adam was God. "Now hear it, O inhabitants of the earth, Jew and Gentile, Saint and sinner! When our father Adam came into the garden of Eden, he came into it with a celestial body, and brought Eve, one of his wives, with him. He helped to make and organize this world. He is Michael, the Archangel, the Ancient of Days! about whom holy men have written and spoken--He is our Father, and our God, and the only God with whom we have to do. Every man upon the earth, professing Christians or non professing, must hear it, and will know it sooner or later." Journal of Discourses, vol. 1, p. 50

  • @AttacMage

    @AttacMage

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's been pretty much opposed by the church since Young died. Not to mention that's not what this video's about.

  • @BLMacab

    @BLMacab

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AttacMage i know about jesus and the marriage thing, my azteca relatives told me

  • @ScriptureMonkey
    @ScriptureMonkey Жыл бұрын

    People date at BYU?

  • @heysherihey9999
    @heysherihey99993 жыл бұрын

    You talk so fast i don't know how anyone can understand you

  • @japhalpha
    @japhalpha3 жыл бұрын

    Mormons on lock.... SHEEEESH

  • @rodrigodeanda350
    @rodrigodeanda3502 жыл бұрын

    Ofcourse the yourger kids don't like it, the older ones understand it more

  • @queencrusader5401
    @queencrusader54012 жыл бұрын

    Isn't 99% of the population one religion kinda the opposite of lack of diversity? How on earth are you going to get exposed to different ideas if everyone thinks similarly. Also, BYU's population save for a few ethnic sports players and a few Pacific Islanders is resoundingly white compared to any other school. Please don't delude yourselves into thinking you are "diverse".

  • @loganmclean6510

    @loganmclean6510

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Tyler G go to a different school then, no?

  • @loganmclean6510

    @loganmclean6510

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Tyler G Lol

  • @bartbutkis

    @bartbutkis

    Жыл бұрын

    Ms Crusader, I think that's the whole point. Parents don't want their kids being exposed to ideas, people, and cultures that are outside of Mormon religious tenants.

  • @jimbarrofficial
    @jimbarrofficial4 жыл бұрын

    Girl at 1:35 said the word "like" out of context 9 times in 30 seconds. Maybe BYU should teach her how to properly communicate a sentence in the English language. (Full disclosure: most university students in America are in the same predicament, sadly)

  • @gladiatortoast4599

    @gladiatortoast4599

    4 жыл бұрын

    Language changes overtime get over it

  • @mongojoe21

    @mongojoe21

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gladiator Toast old English was practically German and is completely non understandable to a modern English speaker. It changes so much it’s pretty much a different language

  • @mongojoe21

    @mongojoe21

    4 жыл бұрын

    Corrina Slade that’s almost certainly what was going on here

  • @mongojoe21

    @mongojoe21

    4 жыл бұрын

    Corrina Slade I make a conscious effort to not use “filler words” like Um or uhh or like, but if I was very nervous too I’m sure I’d be slipping up

  • @Shadowmaxim

    @Shadowmaxim

    2 жыл бұрын

    Utah accent.. once you've lived here long enough it almost becomes your normal vocabulary

  • @mongojoe21
    @mongojoe214 жыл бұрын

    Learn about safer sex practices and just go have sex with each other. No spouses, no kids, no STI’s, you can have all of the fun without any of the problems. All you need to do is get rid of the guilt, or let go of this whole god thing.

  • @garglokeshgarg

    @garglokeshgarg

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @Sandrinarhonda

    @Sandrinarhonda

    2 жыл бұрын

    yeah so inspiring forcing people to just give their bodies in an attempt to have fun , there are other ways to have fun than sex okay. smh I hope I never become a speckle of you.

  • @mongojoe21

    @mongojoe21

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Sandrinarhonda no one’s forcing you to do anything