Vegan gains not wanting children is amazing. His lineage ends with him, that's what the world needs.

@o.oskully3257

6 жыл бұрын

NatureChasing exactly right and that little boy next to him too xD

@laceystar4759

6 жыл бұрын

NatureChasing I was delighted when I saw this comment.

@jenneacoleman-cubero2365

6 жыл бұрын

And no child would suffer in his care. I still remember him saying how he'd KILL an infant!

@jasong5913

6 жыл бұрын

Second that! The guy is a whiney bitch annoying as fuck.

@isaurobanuelos499

6 жыл бұрын

Skulla Skull i thought it was a boy too hmmm Trans? M2F

"I challenged him to a fight" what an absolute spatula

@katiekate2999

5 жыл бұрын

R/rareinsults Also underrated comment. Needs more likes

@buddy6874

5 жыл бұрын

Spatula. I love it this is gonna be my go-to insult now

@penmaster003

5 жыл бұрын

For some reason when I read your comment, I just pictured him trying to slap the dad in the face with a spatula. 🤣🤣🤣

@Chelbasaur

5 жыл бұрын

@@penmaster003 haha! Now I'm picturing Vegan Gains coming at someone with a spatula Angry Beavers style and I'm lmaooooooo

@norap.4657

5 жыл бұрын

🤣💀

I guess that they were NOT kids. They just appeared, all grown up, from a banana tree.

@chelbyw3364

5 жыл бұрын

What is your point? It's not like anyone consents to being born lol.

@motherofdogs7980

4 жыл бұрын

I feel bad for their dog. It is the same breed as mine (German Spitz).

@darrenross8191

4 жыл бұрын

@@ceceliakra7234 Big W

@alchemistdreams

4 жыл бұрын

Imagine if their parents had the same belief they do and never had children.

@MiamiPush2theLimit

4 жыл бұрын

AlchemistDreams the world would’ve been a better place.

As a married person with no intention of having my own children, and actually dislikes them, I went into this a bit defensive. But, you’re right. These people are not normal. This is insane and rude as hell, as well as completely ignorant about children and how they... exist lol.

@celesteaurigue5546

4 жыл бұрын

Knife Bird kind of weird to dislike children when you were once a child lol

@celesteaurigue5546

4 жыл бұрын

͔ ͔ Actually, it is. But I guess I rubbed you the way wrong way child hater lmao

@stayingxpower

4 жыл бұрын

@@celesteaurigue5546 this comment makes no sense whatsoever. Why do so many people equate disliking children with wanting to hurt them? It doesn't automatically mean that you're apathetic to them.

@celesteaurigue5546

4 жыл бұрын

Andrea Vse I never once said she wanted to hurt children. Check your comprehension skills.

@stayingxpower

4 жыл бұрын

@@celesteaurigue5546and you should check your logic.

You’d have to be a huge sociopath to challenge a father struggling to keep his kid quiet to a fight outside. This guy has no concept of social norms. Hopefully he never has kids.

@SankofaAncestorShrine

5 жыл бұрын

Right? In the first YEAR a parent tried to take a break with baby outside and got challenged to a duel by a buffoon after baby broke down smh.

@doombuggy123

5 жыл бұрын

Not a sociopath, just really sheltered and inappropriately arrogant. They sound like fourteen year olds, they’re wildly immature for their age

@nihil8436

5 жыл бұрын

He won't have kids, he has made his disdain for children pretty clear, plus he had a vasectomy thankfully.

@brindamarie

5 жыл бұрын

I agree but at the same time take your child out of the restaurant if they're acting up and disturbing other people trying to relax and eat their meals in peace.

@redmeghixtape410

5 жыл бұрын

@@nihil8436 so glad he's had a vasectomy vasectomy are reversible tho

I honestly would rather be locked in a restaurant with 10 screaming kids than with these 2. 🙄

@aaronthomas1885

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah he's.a grade a.douche bag

@jennybenners3683

5 жыл бұрын

AGREED.

@belmy0836

5 жыл бұрын

As a mom and a preschool teacher I agree

@emilyward4388

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@cesarvera2198

4 жыл бұрын

Casey Keeney yeah this is normal it’s not annoying I’ve grown use to it I don’t feel anything anymore

im glad they are so inclind to NOT have children considering how often Vegan gains has expressed the desire hurt and even mutilate children....that guy has serious anger issues

I agree with you on most of your points here. I (at 30) have never felt an active desire to have kids and don't expect that to change, but I certainly don't hate them. All of that young couple's grasping for reasons not to have kids honestly made me think their disgust was less about the kids themselves and more about an unwillingness to give up their own childhoods. That said, there is one thing I disagree with, which is about sterilization. I think it's very disturbing and upsetting that women aren't allowed to get their tubes tied at will or even (in the US) have trouble getting medically advisable hysterectomies to deal with issues like endometriosis when a man can, at any time, get a vasectomy. It's incredibly condescending and controlling. If a woman gets sterilized and regrets it, well, at least it was her mistake to make. At least no one denied her the right to choose what happened to her own body.

The way they use "breeders" is so damn cringe worthy. Who talks like that?

@Catglittercrafts

6 жыл бұрын

Evan Saltare narcissistic douche bags

@yeahokaycoolcool

6 жыл бұрын

I've heard the term used here and there, but it's a pretty lame thing. It's just a shit derogatory term used to make some people who don't want kids feel special. Yet another thing that bugs me about Vegan Gains.

@christinekoper2407

6 жыл бұрын

Coming from someone who is on the fence about kids: yeah, that’s gross. Just because they don’t want kids doesn’t mean they have to belittle people that do. Yes, wow, way to go, you’re so special and smart for not wanting children. 😑

@shleegaming

6 жыл бұрын

My gay friend used to call me a breeder because I'm straight lol.

@theultimatereductionist7592

6 жыл бұрын

+Christine Paelicke Go tell free market capitalists that just because others do not agree with capitalism that doesn't mean they should belittle communists.

You get stretch marks from more than just pregnancy. I have stretch marks from weight gain and puberty. Lots of them and I have never been pregnant. Stretch marks are a part of life.

@ayaa.1351

6 жыл бұрын

Sebastian Sean Crow Doesn't mean I want more of them. lol

@youratowel97

6 жыл бұрын

Very true. I’m 21 and have never weighed more than 140 pounds and I have stretch marks on my hips, thighs, and boobs.

@ganasde65

5 жыл бұрын

Men too. i'm a guy in my 20's and I have very noticeable stretchmarks on my hips from gaining and losing 30-40 pounds

@youratowel97

5 жыл бұрын

Weeping Willow Yup. My boyfriend is pretty tall and thin but he has a fat ass and he has them all over his booty lol.

@rebeccaspratling2865

5 жыл бұрын

It's probably genes too. My mom didn't get any and thankfully neither did I but I have friends who barely gained any weight during pregnancy who are covered in them.

Also, can we talk about the obvious disdain for the special needs population? I'm not saying it's easy or cheap, but they're human beings and they deserve respect and love.

I hate how he talks about special needs children, they are not worse than other children, they just as good, and sometimes spending time with a differnt able child makes you a better person. I wish he could see how autistic (and others) children are amazing in their own way and maybe change his view a bit. (english is my third language, don't come for my english)

@GeddyRC

4 жыл бұрын

“Sometimes spending time with a different able child...” Ana Terra Gomes see, there’s the disconnect right there. Have you ever thought that some people don’t want to spend time around children of any ability?

@ottonormalverbraucher7835

4 жыл бұрын

Geddy V she dont talked about dont spending time with childeren. She only kritizied the albeism of these 2 people. You misinterpreting the intention of the comment

@ECPAdvocates

4 жыл бұрын

I am autistic and I felt livid when Vegan Gains said rude things about autistic children.

@meercatmommy

3 жыл бұрын

ur english is great and u know more words than everyone

@iambored678

3 жыл бұрын

I was thinking he should spend some time volunteering around kids to realize how cool they can be, but then I was like naaaah. I wouldn't want him within 500 feet of my kid.

It’s entirely okay to not want children, but talking about being violent towards innocent children and making those who have disabilities feel like they are too much of a burden to be loved is extremely unhealthy and detrimental to mental health. Good job explaining your (very reasonable) side of parenthood and dispelling their disgusting claims UV!

@kinggete

5 жыл бұрын

Not wanting children is not okay Its means that one of your primal instict is f___ed up, and is so weird how they talk about kids, how somebody can not love babies?!?! They are so cute

@breonawarren1507

5 жыл бұрын

Glad they don’t want children, they probably couldn’t raise it properly. They obliviously have no sense of money management, they make autism a bad thing, and they try to fight parents over a kid crying

@haleyspence

5 жыл бұрын

@@kinggete No, not wanting kids /is/ okay. It's a deeper understanding of self and the knowledge that a child is not what your contribution to the planet is. This couple though, seriously. seriously. f'ed up. Being this aggressively against children is dark and broken.

@kinggete

5 жыл бұрын

@@haleyspence no its not okey as i said before wanting kids is one of our basic primal insticts that made us survive its not a choice its built in our genes, This two probably had a very traumatic life that damaged them.

@haleyspence

5 жыл бұрын

@@kinggete that doesn't take into account psychology or the higher decision making power that humans have. Some people have genetic disorders that they don't want to put a child through, some people are aware that they have psychological deficiencies and wouldn't be fit parents, some people know that children are just not part of their plans and would interfere with their improvements to the human race. I know people in every one of those categories and that's okay. I've known my whole life I wanted at least one kid. They're not broken because they don't.

"I challenged him to a fight outside" lol what?? who?? Sir no, you're a grown man. Get it together.

@papallohernandez943

6 жыл бұрын

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@barbarabreslin3190

6 жыл бұрын

Ashleigh Robinson glad I wasn’t the only one who thought that was hilarious

@ElEternoPoetaLuis

6 жыл бұрын

Ashleigh Robinson Only a despicable piece of shit would challenge a family man to a fight in front of his wife and kids.

@AshleighTaylorM

6 жыл бұрын

Larry Medina I’m sorry, I have no idea what you just said. ✌🏽

@Malouco

6 жыл бұрын

Ashleigh Robinson basic bitch, coward, froux, and beta female. ✌️

They're french Canadian, if they're in Quebec, daycare is subsidised. Your take on sterilisation is short sighted though. Many women have adverse effects from hormonal birth control and birth control does harm them. I can't take hormonal birth control (I've tried more than 20 types), and due to the shape of my uterus (it's sorta heart shaped with a septum), IUDs are contra-indicated. I have no good option and I figure my risk of pregnancy is around 4% per year.

@LindaC616

4 жыл бұрын

I thought I detected an accent on her, but it's so subtle, I couldn't place it

@samtae6217

4 жыл бұрын

Why don't you use two methods, like for example a diaphragm and condoms? Your risk of pregnancy could drop to near to zero that way.

@thequietwoman1366

4 жыл бұрын

@@samtae6217 because that's not comfortable for some people, especially long term

@samtae6217

4 жыл бұрын

@@thequietwoman1366 Well, it depends on how important not getting pregnant is for a person.

@MsMusicalways

3 жыл бұрын

Sam Tae so easy to say if you aren’t a woman / person with a womb.

Him: Do you want to clean diapers? Me: Do you want to pick up dog poo?

@yukiyuukichan5771

4 жыл бұрын

Why would they, its vegan dog poo! That is Gold for the Environment

@robertgriffin3901

4 жыл бұрын

@@yukiyuukichan5771 So they should be defecating outside as well?

@yukiyuukichan5771

4 жыл бұрын

@@robertgriffin3901 Excuse me?

@robertgriffin3901

4 жыл бұрын

@@yukiyuukichan5771 What part didn't you understand?

@yukiyuukichan5771

4 жыл бұрын

@@robertgriffin3901 Aaah you meant the vegans 😅😂🤦‍♀️ sorry. The original comment of mine was meant to be ironic. They don't really seem to care about other humans and their oppinions so I could imagine them being like "dog poo is good for the Environment, its basically vertilizer"

My son was very sick right from the start. The colic was terrible and I was sick when he was born, so the docs had mercy and switched him to formula. Then soy formula. Then this insanely expensive pre-digested formula made for extremely sensitive infants that needed a prescription, but wasn't covered by insurance. The sage has ups and downs until we discovered that he was a Celiac at age nine. SO MUCH got better! We had a new kid! He was calm and happy and humorous and loving. For one year it was perfect. Then he became a Type 1 diabetic. A brittle diabetic, at that. (Yes. it exists. It means 'we can't get him regulated and we don't know why.') Until he was 15 and we discovered that he had Selective IGA deficiency and all those nuisance infections were throwing his glucose off. Of course I couldn't expect the public school system to deal with that, so I home-schooled him for 7.5 years. Once we figured out the immunity issues, the doctors were ON it. No more waiting to see if he'd get over a sinus infection. He wouldn't. A rash got immediate attention. With the infections under control, his blood sugars stabilized over night. He could go to school. Of course he was a willful, thought-he-was-hilarious, too-smart-for-his-own-damn-good PAIN IN THE BUTT, but his small town teachers and the admin were awesome, did understand him, and did love him, so he made it. He graduated and started working and immediately began to take care of himself. All was good in my world. Then he wrecked his motorcycle and died at the age of 22. (great hobby you got there, Gains!) At first, I was so defeated. I'd been to hell and back with this person and to have it end like that was so... wrong. Unjust. Tragic, even. After his funeral I sat in a quiet moment and asked myself, "Was it worth it?" Took about 3 seconds to answer. YES! NOBODY on this planet frustrated me more And NOBODY else on this planet made me laugh more. I genuinely enjoyed his company. His humor. His thoughts. Our discussions. You'd never have met a more encouraging soul. I know that I pushed myself harder for him than I'd ever have pushed myself for me. He made me grow. Just knowing him brightened my life and helped me to develop into a stronger, better educated, more determined person. I'm better for having been his mother. And I do use my knowledge and experience to help others. Yes, I'd do it again. Wish I could do it again with knowledge and foresight to spare him pain and death, but I'd do it again. He was a great guy. A wonderful friend. A loving man. He adored animals in a way that few people can. He loved small children and took up the big brother role in about two seconds after being introduced. He was obnoxious and hilarious and taught me to lighten up and enjoy the moment. Nobody ATE life like he did. Knowing him was a privilege. And grieving him is a privilege, too. He's one of the most important, influential people in my life. I cannot regret our time together. I've lost nothing by mothering this young man. And I gained the world.

@GIZMOmcabr

5 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss 🙁 I wish we didn't have to lose the people we love so dearly.

@jnpg

5 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful post. I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.

@Ssookawai

5 жыл бұрын

That's a beautiful text, thank you so much for sharing it with us and thanks again for introducing your son, he did sound fun to be around, may he rest in peace.

@vikih4857

5 жыл бұрын

You seem so distant talking about him, weird

@GabrielaUmanzor

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing something so intimate. I really appreciate this and it puts having children into more of a perspective. I think that your child was so lucky to have a parent such as you.

If you're the type of person to ask, "what's a child going to do for me?" Then you're going to be a terrible parent.

@Leries0

6 жыл бұрын

Cory F I concur. In addition to that, they'd be a terrible person all around

@coryf725

6 жыл бұрын

Lucky Vegan anyone that has kids for that reason should not be having kids.

@Theunspoiledprincess

6 жыл бұрын

"Donate to the children's fund? Why? What have the children ever done for me?" ~ Mr. Krabs

@conorshell8216

6 жыл бұрын

When I consider making a decision that is going to totally restructure my life, I consider the positive things I'll get out of it. Is there something wrong with this? Does this mean I'm defective in some way...? Because I've always considered this to be competent decision making.

@coryf725

6 жыл бұрын

Conor's Hell that is competent decision making, but having kids doesn't fit this equation of decision making. A child and even grown children will most likely take more than they will ever give. Also you just can't account for how life with children will turn out. When it comes to moving or buying a new car, you can ask, 'what will I get out of it?' You can't ask the same of a child. By asking this question, it also has you operating under the assumption that this potential person's life exists in large part to serve you.

I agree with everything but not about the sterilization and the kind of ignorant “minor inconvenience” of having to use contraceptives for a couple of decades. For many women contraceptives aren’t minor at all, and suffer immensely.

@mica8701

4 жыл бұрын

@unknowning unknown i think you forgot to flip the "on" switch on your brain before commenting o:

@LinneAzalea

3 жыл бұрын

michelle case ok, I’ll say this really clear but WITHDRAWAL IS A TERRIBLE METHOD. When I was 16 years old I got pregnant like that. My best friend and one coworker got pregnant exactly like that as well. I can’t believe people actually use that, at least I had the excuse of being young and inexperienced. So many women get pregnant with that “method” (it’s honestly not even a method, it’s just basically up to how fertile the woman and the man are, and where in the cycle the woman is).

@ustjayenjay

3 жыл бұрын

It isn't just a minor inconvenience when the only absolutely effective method of not passing on a gene with a 50% mortality rate is abstinence. It really affects mental health and relationships to be terrified of accidentally becoming pregnant because you aren't allowed to elect sterilization.

I've worked in a few restaurants, and I have to say. A guy challenging other patrons to street fight is much worse for business than any screaming child, as it actively creates a hostile environment for people, rather than simply annoying the clientele. In other words, if I was the manager, I would have sooner kicked out richard for being a complete wad, than kicked out the father for having a fussy baby.

The Onision of the vegan community

@shardonayM

5 жыл бұрын

Ashley Uccetta but Onision is vegan So Onision is the Onision of the vegan community

@blueismylove3128

5 жыл бұрын

@@shardonayM Onision is vegetarian, didn't you hear? He failed at veganism.

@Jean-Berry

5 жыл бұрын

@@shardonayM He has a *V E G E T A R I A N B O D Y*

@0sarah0911

5 жыл бұрын

Jͼan That shit still CRACKS me the fuck up lmaooooooo

@fury5500

5 жыл бұрын

He even talks like him!

The way this guy says stuff with a tone to seem smart but actually saying total nonsense is amazing.

@MsMichelle7710

5 жыл бұрын

Anna Kőszegi I’m embarrassed for him.

@Ajnav

5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha I KNOW. Its insane

@penmaster003

5 жыл бұрын

Arrogance and confidence will make anything sound smart until you actually process the words. Lol.

@humanname99

5 жыл бұрын

it actually sounds like Onision in my opinion

@GBfanatic15

4 жыл бұрын

really? makes me want to punch him in the face cause he sounds like a condescending asshole

“Most children need glasses”- Says the adult wearing glasses.....I’m so confused...

@ericvega3597

3 жыл бұрын

Yes she's an adult who had no choice in her own birth. Brainlet

I am so glad Vegan Gains is not going to be a dad. Can you imagine?

1:20 “I challenged him to a fight” IM DEAD WHO DOES THAT. What are we in medieval times? What a nutjob

@OhHeyItsJordyn

6 жыл бұрын

“YOU MY GOOD MAN! I CHALLENGE THEE TO A DUEL”

@mikeiswhite3

6 жыл бұрын

Ye challenge me to a duel? I challenge thee to a joust!

@hat_maker

6 жыл бұрын

I laughed so hard at this part

@hahano8440

6 жыл бұрын

sounds like a fucking neckbeard lmfao

@HydraCFW

6 жыл бұрын

Julia Krevis En garde nigga

I totally support their choice not to have kids. They seem to hate kids so that's a great decision. But as someone who is so compassionate towards animals and their pet dogs it amazes me they do not understand people LOVE their kids in a similar fashion.

@crankyoldlady5433

6 жыл бұрын

Rea yeah I'm not even throwing shade at Richard and jasmine. My little sister is the same way she does not like kids at all. I don't think she's a shitty person. I think it's great they know themselves well enough to know they would hate being parents. It's a responsible choice.

@Hillcountry_Catholic

6 жыл бұрын

Also I wonder if they have considered how they'd feel if the tables were turned? If strangers were berating them because they're dog was being too loud, and saying such nasty things about their dog? Ha they wouldn't be able to handle it.

@sacmakiz

6 жыл бұрын

If they had felt unloved, unseen, unheard, uncared as children when growing up, hence the insecure attachment there. Of course they wouldn't believe in something that exist when they have never experienced it before. The key is like you said though, secure attachment with your pets is an example of secure attachment other human beings. It takes a lot of work to heal from attachment injuries though, so without addressing the real issue, they will remain the same. But it won't affect the truth, like UV discusses here.

@dandan7884

6 жыл бұрын

omg they think kids are npcs or something!? seriously!?

@Jen18812

6 жыл бұрын

exactly.

I see your point, but when someone tells you that they don’t want kids, no matter their age, it’s straight up demeaning and disrespectful to tell them they’ll change their mind when they’re older. If you’re not my partner or my doctor then just butt out about my womb and leave me to make my own decisions. You don’t know if I have really good reasons not to want kids. Just because you changed your mind doesn’t mean you’re in the majority.

"Do you want to change a diaper or ride a motorcycle?" I'll have you know I'm lower middle class, my father owns a motorcycle and he did BOTH. Then I, A CHILD, road WITH HIM on the motorcycle starting age 6. You'll live, VG.

@Eileen62h

2 жыл бұрын

And my husband does the same! He rides a motorcycle, drives a truck and is a very hands on Dad. Taught me how to change a nappy (diaper)

Girl wearing glasses: "yeah and most kids need like dental care and glasses" me: "..... And... You don't need glasses???? What???"

@jenniferjayy

5 жыл бұрын

lol my favourite quote too

Oh wow, my dad must have been a magician! Not only he changed my diapers, he bathed me, made my bottle, fed me, put me to sleep AND rode his motorcycle every single weekend. He also did that for my sister. Those two are ridiculous.

@goldenfoxa1810

6 жыл бұрын

1EccentricMoFo she said dad not dads

@cocoamelonvideos9314

6 жыл бұрын

golden foxa what she means by dads is "your dad is awesome"

@ZoeAlleyne

5 жыл бұрын

Are you sure your dad just doesn't regret it and only did it because he wanted to make your mum happy? 🙄

@ofnevernevermore

4 жыл бұрын

@@ZoeAlleyne no one even said happy here so how is that relevant?

@ZoeAlleyne

4 жыл бұрын

@@ofnevernevermore sarcasm not a good feature for you? I was referencing the video that this video is about.

22:22 okay I’m gonna have to argue with you on this one. I was denied for sterilization when I was in my early 20’s... I’ve since gone thru over a decade of trying out all different types of birth control that totally messed up my hormones, and now I still can’t be on any birth control besides using natural lambskin condoms (which are animal products and cost about $5 a piece) and will more than likely have to be on anxiety and depression medication for the rest of my life as a result. I’m not saying sign up every woman for sterilization as soon as she asks, but don’t please don’t call an abortion, half a dozen suicide attempts, and a lifetime of depression and anxiety a “minor inconvenience.” Other than that, as far as this vid goes, I agree, shaming parents for being parents is sucky.

@ottonormalverbraucher7835

4 жыл бұрын

Red IsCrazy why you dont tryied a hormon free coper UID? There are UID who are only a string. Different kinds of them

@ottonormalverbraucher7835

4 жыл бұрын

Red IsCrazy there are latex fee condoms. They exist. You dont need labskin kondoms

@SavageMinnow

4 жыл бұрын

@@ottonormalverbraucher7835 unfortunately, while a copper IUD would have worked from the start, they have similar restrictions on them here, and now with the health problems I've had as a result, I can't have an IUD of any kind, and the latex free condoms that are available here (besides lambskin) also cause me severe allergic reactions. I'm also not alone. I know other women in my same situation. My generation will likely have one of the largest rates of female suicide, and much of it could have been prevented by listening to women about their own reproductive needs.

@ottonormalverbraucher7835

4 жыл бұрын

Red IsCrazy in witch contry do you live? Having restrictions on UIDs is retarded, because they are reversible. And even if you forgot you have them, they only work for 10 years. So I dont understand why on earth they make restrictions on UIDS because its pointless. They are easy reversible. That is dump. Even Teenagers have UIDS. Why restrict them?

@ottonormalverbraucher7835

4 жыл бұрын

Red IsCrazy They should be a law, that make exeptions for people like you, who cant use any other contraceptives. And when I would be a politican or a health ensurance, I would sponsor the cost of freezing your eggs/sperm in thise cases.(because you obviously have no other alternative). I understand that doctors have restrictions on permanent irreversibel surgeries (in Germany useles cosmetic surgeries have the same restrictions, on verry young people)(vasectomy or Sterilisation are treated the same here .gender neutral in these aspect). But with people like you, who have NOother alternatives, there should be EXEPTIONS. And the cost of freezing eggs should be covert! (because when you young the likelyhod of wanting children in futute is higher, and you have no other alternative then these permanent solution.) These whould be fair. Cancer patiens have the cost of freezing eggs/sperm covert too. And you can not use reversibel methods, so you should be treated like a cancer Patient in these Situation.

My aunt legit calls my mom a breeder, it's such a weird viewpoint to me to put down other people who choose to have kids...

@janeyjpg911

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr it's not okay

@nette9836

4 жыл бұрын

It is abusive actually

@Ben_419

Жыл бұрын

I mean that’s what they are right?😂 what’s wrong with calling breeders what they are?

Isn't that dude that literally screamed at the camera over how he wanted to smash a baby to the ground till it was pulp? He is beyond unstable in my opinion.

@blxssingss

6 жыл бұрын

True, but humor is only funny when you an tell it's a joke. Based off of the kid hating video he and his partner made, it adds a creepy and even somewhat scary context to the joke. No longer making it funny and making you worry for his sanity, and wonder if he'd actually do it in real life, given the chance

@jasonmontgomery3736

6 жыл бұрын

Lol he's just following the advice of the bible

@howdyyall975

6 жыл бұрын

Jason Montgomery that is not what the Bible says to do lol

@thingspeoplelike2229

6 жыл бұрын

aileen Hudson Ironic that he wants to end animal suffering yet he'd kill a human baby.

@lulusunboxing1678

6 жыл бұрын

Jason Montgomery sorry, but no where in the Bible says that.... I hope u were joking(hahaha).

“I challenged him to a fight outside” I’ll take things that never happened for $500, Alex.

@Mclemonade

6 жыл бұрын

forbiddencave LMFAOO

@nellrussellstarving_artist1215

6 жыл бұрын

Well, either he's a liar or just plain ridiculous.... Either way, LMAO! -what sophisticated person does that?! Lol. "your child is crying, I challenge you to a duel, sir! " (smacks BABY with glove) lol

@RhiCycledCrafts

6 жыл бұрын

Dead 😂. If this was true he would be filming from his hospital bed.

@reezis1619

6 жыл бұрын

+RhiCycledCrafts Why tho, this vegan gains dude is 6'3 and he lifts. The other guy was probably an average 5'9 non-lifter so why would he lose though

@Suplexduplex

6 жыл бұрын

Lol he probably actually challenged him to that fight since vegan gains is fucking insane. The dude thinks that since he’s a special snowflake vegan that goes to the gym, he’s better than everyone else. The “breeders” probably weren’t stupid and didn’t take his bait

I agree with everything, except your opinion on sterilization. surgeons perform life-altering surgeries and procedures on young adults with great regularity; only women seeking sterilization are told 'you'll change your mind'. the issue is rooted in systemic sexism and your take on it stinks, imho.

@DesertedDalia

5 жыл бұрын

Bella R honestly you’re the only one sounding stupid here by not giving a proper rebuttal and using insults.

@elyssa4159

5 жыл бұрын

@Bella R yes, sexism in America is SyStEmIc, not SyStEmAtIc lol who looks stupid now.

@elyssa4159

4 жыл бұрын

@@ceceliakra7234 all surgery is invasive, all surgery is life-altering. cosmetic surgery is fairly routine; I know plenty of people who have had liposuction, rhinoplasty, or breast augmentation or lift (in fact, the only example I have of formally age restricted elective surgery is silicone implants; you have to be at least 22, otherwise you must select saline-filled implants). regarding sterilization surgery, my husband has a vasectomy, which was surgically administered and there were no barriers to entry for him. I have personally discussed tubal ligation surgery with several OB/GYNs, all of which denied me because "I might change my mind". my husband and I are the same age and reached out to doctors for sterilization surgery at the same point in our lives. so there you go.

@elyssa4159

4 жыл бұрын

/sarcasm/ I also love it when people demand citations and then totally ignore them /sarcasm/

@elyssa4159

4 жыл бұрын

there's also no data I can find to suggest that vasectomy reversals are any more more or less successful than reversing tubal ligation; both have high reversal failure rates. the whole "you'll change your mind" bs is still sexist as hell.

Why didn't he just get a vasectomy? They're reversible so they're much easier to get. Or is birth control only a woman thing? Ugh.

@thequietwoman1366

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe it was a personal decision on her part that she did before they got together or despite the fact that they got together. That way if they ever broke up she doesn't have to worry about failing contraception I guess.

@notpointed

4 жыл бұрын

@@thequietwoman1366 The way he talks I doubt it.

@muscari5482

3 жыл бұрын

He did get a vasectomy. Heard him say that in a 6hr livestream video.

Why are they so angry about this? Why are they cursing so much? Seems like they had problems with their own parents so they are projecting their insecurities to everyone else.

@sixteen.candles.4644

5 жыл бұрын

@@fairy_dust6588 ah. There's the problem.

Crazy to me that someone who constantly talks about animal rights and being kind to animals yet talks about his own kind like this, innocent children that we have an instinct to protect... delusional.

@Moonwatery

5 жыл бұрын

End times pall

@earthmarkings

5 жыл бұрын

They obviously have no idea what they are talking about 😂

@himalayansalt32

5 жыл бұрын

Humans don't have instincts, actually

@penmaster003

5 жыл бұрын

Jane Antlers lol. What nonsense.

@himalayansalt32

5 жыл бұрын

@@penmaster003 study biology, lol

Oof I totally agree with you but that bit about sterilization made me wince. I think your bias is showing.

@jesussaves6625

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sure she has some bias (as all humans do) due to her own children, but she did say that it should be settled with the statistics. If MOST women change their minds about pregnancy then it is irresponsible to sterilize them.

@LikeHell18

3 жыл бұрын

@@jesussaves6625 No, it is not. As long as the person is aware of the fact that they might regret it, the responsability falls of them. By saying that the doctor is the one that should be making that decision, you are taking away the power of choice over the patients body. What you said is like saying that we shouldn't allow people to get married because 50% of married people get divorced. If someone decides to get sterilized, and then regret it, knowing that was a possibility, it is on them and they should be allowed to make that choice.

@jesussaves6625

3 жыл бұрын

@@LikeHell18 I respect that you feel that way, and I see your point, but I don't agree. Since the doctors have to actually perform the surgery, it should be at least partly their decision. We can't FORCE a person to operate on us unwillingly. If women could, theoretically, sterilize themselves somehow, then maybe I would see it differently. In that case they would be the only one who had any risk in the situation. As it is, though... I just can't agree with doctors sterilizing young women.

@4RoxyMomoBanditMia

3 жыл бұрын

@@jesussaves6625 But doctors ARE forced to treat patients they don't necessarily want to treat in some cases, such as murders/rapists. Their vow to "do no harm" is theoretically supposed to outweigh their own emotions towards the patient.

It’s also kind of funny to see them with a dog...like you could make the same argument about dogs barking in public, jumping up on people, being inconvenient to other people in public, disturbing quiet restaurants etc etc

@novabelladonna5886

5 жыл бұрын

yeah, dogs and adult humans feck up my local area much more than any child. There's poop in so many places! I appreciate my mates for rescuing/adopting more vulnerable dogs though (and they pick up the poop, so yay!)

@zxyatiywariii8

4 жыл бұрын

@@novabelladonna5886 I love when people adopt vulnerable dogs! ♥️ So many dogs are needing homes. And I agree, people should be picking up after them, we always pick up after ours.

@ThisBraveHeart

4 жыл бұрын

I have a 1 year old son and a 1 year old dog. My dog is BY FAR a lot more to handle than my son is.

Challenging a man to a fight outside: Maximum Maturity as always.

@shehzoremangi9940

6 жыл бұрын

Red Maple lmao that was my first thought 😂

@shehzoremangi9940

6 жыл бұрын

tommy shelter330 he is big as fuark bro

@lotticey5801

6 жыл бұрын

tommy shelter330 no u wouldn't u do realize how big vegan gains is

@user-el6lt8fr3x

6 жыл бұрын

Lottice Y vegan gains is 6’3”

@chopsuey6448

6 жыл бұрын

What gets me is the logic behind it all, they are both sitting there recording a video hours possibly days after the "Incident" continuing to cry and attempt to sound informed on their twisted opinions, its like if it got to the point where your about to get into a street fight inside a restaurant, how is that any different of a disturbance than the baby crying. Difference is you expect a 1 year old to cry, not two young adults..he should spend less time reading about fucking plants and get into reality before he mouths off to the wrong one and someone fucks him up.

Are they really saying that special needs children are making your life awful? I think my parents disagree.

@kittye8340

4 жыл бұрын

Maximellow I think it's cruel to say it makes life awful. But some parents aren't qualified to have special needs children. I have 2 brothers with special needs. I am not disabled, autistic or anything but I do have a mental disorder. My parents are definitely not qualified parents. The whole situation is bad. For them and for us.

@candanceharrison3564

4 жыл бұрын

@@kittye8340 I agree. It's like they randomly passed a special needs family in the street and "decided" that their lives MUST be awful. While that could be true for some, it's not true for all(born with CP here).

@kittye8340

4 жыл бұрын

Candance Harrison Yeah! The point is that Special needs isn't the problem. It's the situation.

@candanceharrison3564

4 жыл бұрын

@@kittye8340 Precisely! Not all disabilities are the same. Also, anyone can come by disability at anytime...not just birth.

@northstar5240

4 жыл бұрын

Maximellow these people are so very stupid

“Kids need braces and stuff nowadays” kids never used to need braces, sounds right

i just pity richard his parents must have been so distant and cold to him

@mikebell7525

4 жыл бұрын

He was definitely bullied alot in school. He hates babies and humans in general but claims he's vegan because he cares about animals. Truth is he doesn't care about anything and uses veganism as a front to project his hate.

When I hear that couple talking I feel like I'm hearing spoiled entitled teenagers not balanced adults!

@chocolategelato3823

5 жыл бұрын

Hey, as a former spoiled, entitled teenager, that is insulting. I wanted to have children and always loved them.

@nigma21qi

5 жыл бұрын

TBH they could be children that have been raised by parents who didn't want them,so they may just want to stop the circle of B.S.

@chocolategelato3823

5 жыл бұрын

@@nigma21qi Maybe. Then one grows up abd finds their own way.

@vl2425

5 жыл бұрын

I’d go as far as to say that they’re just not very clever, rather than coming off like entitled teenagers .

@2piece757

5 жыл бұрын

@@vl2425 you mean theyre just rude, obnoxious ass wipes.

This makes me wish their parents would have taken their advice and not become breeders

@Kclark495

6 жыл бұрын

lol, If only.

@karinabambina10

6 жыл бұрын

Hahahahahahahaha that's probably EXACTLY how they feel and why they didn't have children themselves. ....That's the awful truth you may have to live with when it comes to your own kids.

@kiki-ut5me

6 жыл бұрын

666th like (^;

@jgomez9600

6 жыл бұрын

Preach!

@Reub3

6 жыл бұрын

haha! I was the 777th like. feels good man!

And I guess he didn't cost his parents a dime... "Challenged him to a fight outside" 😂🤣 What a tool.

I mean I'm childless by choice but I find no need to just be plain rude and pick fights with people with children or with children themselves this is absurd

The more I look at those two, the more they remind me of Onision and his wife... Same voice, same mannerisms, same couple dynamics, even their voices...

@noidea4254

6 жыл бұрын

Spotted the fanboy ^^^^^^^ I don't think people should follow Onision's example because he's a horrible person? I mean, that's pretty much common knowledge at this point. Also, succesful ≠ respectable.

@LoveisIt...

6 жыл бұрын

Korekiyo Shinguuji I really do like Lainey though . She's great . Very down to earth .

@PlsWaLuigiDomMe

6 жыл бұрын

@Sarah Wilson I disagree. She's kinda a bitch and totally under Onision's thumb

@LoveisIt...

6 жыл бұрын

Pls WaLuigi Dom Me 😨. Why is she a bitch . I must have missed something . I actually find her videos so relaxing which is what I need right now . I love them !

@christiangasior4244

6 жыл бұрын

This is NarcTube. Narcissists. Not like narcing on someone for selling drugs. They're so bizarre they're entertaining, but that gives them the attention they so crave. Blech.

Babies and young children cry, sometimes for litteraly no reason. The parents are probably already panicked and embarrassed enough without someone trying to pick a freaken street fight with them. Also, a screaming toddler doesn't immediately equal bad parenting. Normally it means it's freaken nap time/ lol

@exstalle2736

5 жыл бұрын

Here is a human ikrrr even if you are the best parent on earth and spend most of your day puttig effort into your kids, your kids are STILL gonna cry. Whoever says this clearly hasn’t been around kids

@emilyward4388

5 жыл бұрын

🙌🏼🙌🏼

@Sebbi701

4 жыл бұрын

I was a very calm kid and I didn't cry that much but my parent told me that one time I started screaming during a walk and wouldn't stop. They took me back our apartment and put me under the shower because I would not stop still. Kids cry sometimes because of no reason and you can't do anything. I read a thread once where parents shared their kids crying over ridiculous stuff. One girl was laying on the floor screaming because her mother wouldn't let her wear her dirty underwear on her head. Kids are not very logical sometimes.

@northstar5240

4 жыл бұрын

Here is a human lol yeah hear that because I help with my brothers kids and nap time is a big deal 🤣

@ingloriousMachina

4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes small babies just cry because they're testing out their brand new pipes. It's actually very good for their lungs.

I find it so ironic they are making all of these arguments (time, expense, behavior) sitting in front of a massive computer system (time, expense) with their dog on their lap (time, expense, behavior).

Adoption is SO expensive and such an intense process. My spouse and I want to adopt a child but we just can't afford it right now, financially or emotionally.

Ppl think I'm crazy when I tell them I don't want kids. But yeah their whole video came off as they are crazy

@tiffanyterror700

6 жыл бұрын

If anything not wanting children and following through with not wanting them by taking adequate precautions is, in my opinion, more compassionate for the child(ren) who may have been born into unwanted circumstances or circumstances that do not provide them the best possible opportunities.

@DinosaursGoRawrMr

6 жыл бұрын

tiffanyterror700 love your opinion. Exactly how I would go about it. 😏 Still thinking on it also I'm poor so no kiddo for now,

@awesome1ru

6 жыл бұрын

tiffanyterror700 exactly

@ashleighkennedy1395

6 жыл бұрын

Jordan I thought the exact same thing! I’m in the no kids club as well.

@sshep86

6 жыл бұрын

I don't want you to have children either. Poor kids wouldn't have the nutrients needed to develop properly. No vegan should have kids.

God, I'm only 6:20 in but... Christ. I'm autistic. I won't deny that I can tell it made raising me more difficult - and yeah, having a developmentally disabled child can be unexpected and harder to take care of them. But just the idea of them implying that autism isn't "normal" and that a child being disabled is a big enough "con" that they'd advocate against having kids with that being one of their major reasons. Also these people seem to think that kids don't have emotions; or at least they don't care about the emotional state of kids. Bloody oath.

@zohartsameret

6 жыл бұрын

ThisUsedToBeACharacterAccount sane I’m not autistic but I have ADHD and it made me feel so bad like it took me a year to not blame myself and now I was like do my parents hate me for this or what not like omg they could try to be nice

@Luigifan4ever11

6 жыл бұрын

Hoosayne I apologize if my response here is more sloppy; i have a headache and can't concentrate well. Well, you have a point, but I guess my problem lies in the social implication of not being "normal". People tend to use "not normal" to insult and dehumanize people - which is why some, including myself, get uncomfortable when our behaviours or conditions are called such by non-medical professionals. Yeah, it's their choice. Not everyone is fit to be a parent (especially to a disabled child), and it's good for people to reflect on whether or not they can support a child and help them to be happy and healthy. The tone and theme of the video seems to imply that they think people in general should be wary or having kids because they could be disabled, which again not everyone is fit or prepared for a disabled child, but it also pushed the "disabled people are unwanted" narrative. Hopes this made sense.

@eagerturtle4791

6 жыл бұрын

I'm not autistic, but that comment weirded me out too. The guy is an idiot...

@_b.4596

6 жыл бұрын

Hoosayne • I'm sorry but if you're not on the spectrum or disabled you really have no right to tell someone what that can and can't get offended by

@eagerturtle4791

6 жыл бұрын

Hoosayne That sounds like something an edgy teenager would say...

I don’t exactly know how it works in the US but here in Canada (where these two are from) especially in the province of Quebec (where these two live), parents (at all income levels) get an unbelievable amount of financial support from the government given that wage growth is stagnant and that our birth rate is terrifyingly low. So this idea that having a child is THAT expensive is more a myth than anything at this point.

@kixi8033

4 жыл бұрын

It really depends here in the states. You usually have to be pretty low-income, jobless, or lucky to qualify for specific benefits. I actually tried to apply for snap (food stamps) because I can't work right now due to my pregnancy symptoms and my boyfriend being the one paying all the bills but was denied. We're low-income but apparently not enough to qualify.

@Workouts11038

4 жыл бұрын

yep, definetly not like that in US. Its a real problem and its super expensive to just HAVE a kid cuz of our healthcare system (not for everyone but most).

The way you talk about your baby is the sweetest thing ever

As an Austistic person I can say there are far more things non-austistic people do are far more annoying. I need quiet and controlled spaces in order to function.

@EurAsiaNikki

6 жыл бұрын

mintjaan Humans are a fun bunch, aren’t they. I appreciate your comment and agree.

@jenellefontenot7941

6 жыл бұрын

Don't have autism but I agree with you!!

@conorshell8216

6 жыл бұрын

My spaces omit screaming toddlers.

You are too level headed, open minded and normal for some vegan cult members. That's why they attack you. Keep up the good work.

@bobbybouchersdad8405

2 жыл бұрын

Level headed? More like mundane, unimaginable and monotonous.

21:32 In my opinion, doctors do not have a responsibility to not sterilize people; even if it is the case that most people regret it. I am sure there exist people who regret having a sterilization surgery. However, if you do regret being sterilized, that only affects you. That is fair. If you want to get sterilized and you can't, you may have a child for whom you are not ready, You might even regret having kids. I would rather 100 people regret having a sterilization surgery than even one person regret having kids. I am gonna nail my flag to the mast on this one. If a woman wants to get sterilized, her gynecologist should be expected to sterilize her and be fired if he/she does not. When you go to McDonald's to order a burger, the fry cook is not allowed to decide not to make you a burger, because he believes you should have a salad instead. If the fry cook refuses to make you that burger, he will be fired. I believe that doctors should be expected to do their jobs in the same way that McDonald's employees are.

@nicolevose3066

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. That was the only thing UV said that I don't agree with. All the other stuff that UV said, I could not possibly agree with more.

The message they were trying to send really confuses me. “Having kids is selfish. And when you have kids, you can’t be as selfish as you want to be anymore.” It’s just a bit odd to me, unless I just misrepresented their position completely, which I’m willing to be corrected on. But also....🤷‍♀️?

@ottonormalverbraucher7835

4 жыл бұрын

noel090909 man they have the same kind of thinking like many germans have

@victoriansteam1562

3 жыл бұрын

@@ottonormalverbraucher7835 tf?

It’s like they forgot they were children once 😂

@CaptainAnonymous

5 жыл бұрын

Recognizing that we all were kids once doesn't mean we can't acknowledge the fact that kids are annoying.

@gaelgriffith3678

5 жыл бұрын

Captain Anonymous you barely understood what this dude said smh

@CaptainAnonymous

5 жыл бұрын

@@gaelgriffith3678 are you just talking out of your ass? Please explain what i don't understand. Also who are you referring to when you say "this dude"

@gaelgriffith3678

5 жыл бұрын

Captain Anonymous your saying kids are annoying like you weren’t annoying back in the days saying kids are annoying is the dumbest shit you can say cause its just how they are they have fun and scream and all that other shit you cant really call them annoying for being happy

@DoctorSpicy

5 жыл бұрын

Lmfaoooooo. Yaas

Many people seem to forget this very simple concept: children are humans too.

@Max-dz2ux

6 жыл бұрын

that's where you're wrong, pal

@yuyukawa9104

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I think this attitude is common even in parents which unfortunately leads to child abuse :(

@La-PetitMort

6 жыл бұрын

I thought they were made of rubber and metal?

@Wtfisthisshii

6 жыл бұрын

Children are wonderful. Innocent, compassionate and caring. There is a difference of not wanting kids to completely hating them. People who hate kids are a waste of space and horrible people. In my opinion.

@JoeDirtisawsome

5 жыл бұрын

@@Wtfisthisshii just because you hate kids, doesnt mean your a horrible person. Many people hate kids for their behaviors. it doesnt mean that they want to physically harm children. " Children are wonderful. Innocent, compassionate and caring" alot of these kids dont fit that description. They used to bully me for my skin color and my weight. Kids can be really cruel

"a lot of kids wear glasses and stuff" says the lady... using glasses..........

I was a nanny (recently left that job) for six years. My oldest little girl used to throw a tantrum every single time we left the house. One day my two girls’ parents needed me to get medicine for the youngest’s flu. Oldest little girl had a full on meltdown and I had my arms full of an infant. I sat next to my oldest little girl calmly and had to sit there until she screamed herself out because I could not safely carry her out of the store. When she was done I told her to look around. She was mortified at the whispering people. She never had a tantrum with me again. That tantrum saved future disruptions. She became a better little human for it. Sometimes you’re on the receiving end of a life lesson and have to deal with it. I really hate it and recently was at a high end restaurant for my engagement dinner where there was a screaming child. My maid of honor and I went to offer help and encouragement. That isn’t a brag, its part of life and it should be normal. You don’t have to interfere or ask if you can help, but those kids have every right to be there same as you.

I'm 37 years old and I don't want and have never wanted children. Amongst many jobs I've had, I waited tables for 15 years. Kids have never bothered me. Ever. In extreme instances where kids are being out of control (loud, messy, running around, etc), I've never felt any animosity toward the child or children. It's always a case of the parents not controlling their children, and I feel sympathy for the kids. I have a nephew who is severely autistic. He's funny, intelligent, loving, witty, just the sweetest boy I've ever known (biased, clearly). He is incapable of behaving well for any decent length of time. He looks perfectly "normal". It's extremely stressful and anxiety inducing for my sister to take him out in public. While a dine in restaurant isn't ideal for him, even taking him to stores or parks or on walks or anything, he's going to act out in ways people don't understand. He does it at home, too, so it's just his behavior, a result of his autism. Should he be shut in and not taken out in public or social settings because people are going to get angry and annoyed? Granted, he would not be left to his devices if he was having an incident in a restaurant, he'd removed and returned once he'd calmed down, but I really can't wrap my head around the mindset of Vegan Gains' video. These are children. Even in the cases where the parents are clearly in the wrong, I can't imagine feeling righteous in approaching the parents and then making a video about it a though it were justified. You never know what is going on in people's lives. What may be annoying to you could be someone else's constant struggle. Have some empathy, if not for the parents, at least for the children.

@neurotika

6 жыл бұрын

Jenn Righter thank you. Finally someone with some goddamned sense.

@arbeitmachtfries

6 жыл бұрын

Jenn Righter I've also done waitressing for 10ish years. Kids are easy. It's the parents that suck. Kids are usually happy with what you give them and don't complain. They rarely ask for refills and don't argue about prices. Teenager suck when they don't have parental supervision. Even up to like age 22/23 groups of ppl suck. But I would rather have a group of 10 kids than 10 21 year olds.

@pennymac16

6 жыл бұрын

I appreciate this empathetic comment. Thank you =)

@lee3171

6 жыл бұрын

so true

@meep3035

6 жыл бұрын

Jenn Righter that's evolution telling you not to spread your genetics. Humans are animals, at our core the ultimate goal in life is to procreate to insure the survival of humans, That's why we procreate in the first place.

in defense of jasmine and richard, its pretty likely their parents did not show alot of love or parenting skills. so they are smart to end the cycle.

@katkat7828

6 жыл бұрын

ZeBeFruity plus Richard stated that he was informally diagnosed with a sociopathic personality disorder. Judging by some videos, his wife is very similar in that respect. Their stance is not surprising.

@DistressedAndImpressed

6 жыл бұрын

kat kat Wowwww. That explains a LOT.

@ala4935

6 жыл бұрын

kat kat informally diagnosed? ...like by webmd?

@friday26th

6 жыл бұрын

He pulled an Onision and took an internet quiz. There's no such thing as "Sociopathic personality disorder" in the medical language. He might have ASPD (that actual disorder that tends to get associated with sociopathy) but he has empathy and an active moral compass, something people with ASPD do not. He's a traumitized child in denial with the possiblity of some megalomania, which makes him possibly narcissistic but again, he's head over heels for the Harry Potter person, which is again, uncommon in narcissists.

@katkat7828

6 жыл бұрын

ala by a psychologist apparently. I watched a video where he mentioned something like that but it was ages ago and I can't for the life of me find which one it could have been. I know he used to state that he was a sociopath, but not sure what he based that on exactly.

I'm glad you're able to state all the joy you get from having children without trying to push it on childfree people.

I don't like children and they stress me out and if I did have children it would make me depressed, but that is me. That is not other people. My best friend loves children and wants children and I would never bash her and force her to not have children. She wants them and she wants to prepare for them and they will most likely give her immense joy. Everyone is different. Everyone has different things, people, animals that make them happy. Everyone has different paths in lives. It is very rude to force your own lifestyle onto someone else.

It's perfectly okay to not want children. You have the right to choose the structure your family. What is *not* okay is judging other people for putting in the effort to raise their own kids. It is not okay to fight someone because their *one year old* child is crying and annoying you

@ASmith-jn7kf

6 жыл бұрын

TotalNoobasaur it's not okay to hate another human being all while having so much "compassion" for animals and the environment, while being a complete jack ass to others. If you don't want kids, thank God you don't have any but something is obviously wrong with you mentally to be devoid of compassion for another human. Vegans are often insane this way. Devoting hours to trying to get people to become vegan while stepping over homeless people and saying people shouldn't have children and other hateful rubbish. They can watch abortion videos where the babies obviously feel pain but tear up at animal slaughter. It's fucking disgusting.

@TashWigley

6 жыл бұрын

*A. Smith* I don't like having to be the one to break this to you but fetuses react to a stimuli, the same way plants grow toward the sun and bacteria try to move away from antibiotics (I'm not comparing soon-to-be children with bacteria in a moral sense, just to prevent any potential straw man response). The scientific consensus is that the brain stem development connects the nervous system and activates pain reception, which begins a couple of weeks after the abortion cut-off. Any living organism, right down to atoms, will have an adverse reaction to a negative stimuli but it doesn't necessarily mean they can also feel pain. I also just discovered that fetuses show no signs of wakeful brain activity until 30 weeks when EEG tracking is used. Here's the study: jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/201429

@ASmith-jn7kf

6 жыл бұрын

Rational Vegan how can anyone prove that something feels pain or not? There is no science that can prove that. But let's say there was. Let's say that there was an absolute way to know whether something felt pain. Like in the case of a parapalegic or someone paralyzed from the neck down, who would be okay to watch someone pull them apart limb by limb?

@ASmith-jn7kf

6 жыл бұрын

Talksense her response was not good at all.lol. You care more about animals than humans, there are no vegan outreaches for homeless or poor people.lol. So obviously something is mentally wrong with someone who feels so much compassion for animals and call it murder or cry that they are being held in cages but have no care for babies who are killed in abortions, kids killed in live abortions, who have no compassion for others in general. I have yet to meet a rational vegan that isn't a controlling psychopath. They pretend to be so sensitive yet are quite intolerant of others. Anyone who would rationalize killing another human by saying they don't feel pain just proves my point. You people are sick.

@Cuinn837

5 жыл бұрын

Newborn babies feel pain, so it's not a stretch to surmise that a fetus feels pain. Thank you for mentioning this.

Studies typically say that most women do not regret sterilization, though women under 30 are more likely to. But most doctors say no because "what would your husband think/what if he wants kids"? Well then we aren't right together. Sorry. Kids aren't something either party should compromise for. I don't want kids. I'm not a huge fan of them (though I don't hate them like these two seem to), I have multiple genetic problems on both sides of my family I do not want to pass on, and I suspect I have some problems in the reproductive organ area. I want a sterilization. If I change my mind, I'll adopt. I understand the risks, and I've thought about it for over a year so far. I recognize I'll probably have to wait a few more years.

@melz6625

5 жыл бұрын

If you end up wanting a kid fostering adopting are great options. But if not it absolutely should be something a partner is on the same page with you. I don’t like doctors playing infantilizing woman by denying the sterilization. I do like kids and even though pregnancy grosses me out I might end up having kids. While a friend of mine is more sure of not wanting kids than I am of the opposite. Still she can’t get the sterilization before age 27 in France. Apparently they expect to definitely have the baby instinct kick in by then. Until then she is damned to pills and doubling condoms out of fear.

@olioh758

5 жыл бұрын

@@melz6625 by doubling condoms do you mean using two at once or just using a lot? Because using two condoms at once increases the friction and makes them break easier

@melz6625

5 жыл бұрын

oli.otters Well I took her to mean it literally but not sure. Thanks for the advice since I never actually felt like researching it as having a kid even by accident isn't something I'm afraid of. But will definitely let her know.

@cai0409

5 жыл бұрын

I am someone who does want kids and I agree that this is NOT something to compromise. No one should have any regrets. It makes me sad that my brother has always wanted kids, but he is in a long term relationship with a girl who doesn’t so they aren’t going to have kids.

@themudpit621

5 жыл бұрын

It's not about statistics, its about permanent irreversible decisions, that you are asking another human (the surgeon) to take responsibility for completing on your behalf, and if they don't want to do it, they don't have to. If one doctor says no, just keep looking, you'll find one willing to do it eventually. I agree that if you don't want children, you should be with a partner who has the same parenting goals as you. Men and women should talk about it more and be honest with eachother early on. It's hard when those goals change though.

Hi. I'm 35. I've sought sterilization for my entire adult life. I don't want kids. It's why I'm on birth control. But according to all of my doctors and you, I'll change my mind one day. When does this intense desire for kids kick in??

@DrBitchcraft.

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for your situation :( In my country a woman needs to be over 30 to get sterilized so I still need to wait a year.

@FellowLee

4 жыл бұрын

+

If you change your mind you can adopt. I think sterilisation and vasectomies should be quite freely given (with appropriate screening). Considering the cost and adverse effects many experience from contraception, I think sterilisation would be a good option for many. I don't agree with loads of what these people say or their behaviour but I don't think everyone has to like children as long as they respectful and kind, and there are PLENTY of people who really, really don't want kids for such a huge number of reasons. I'm surprised you're not open minded to this. When they say they couldn't travel and have motorbikes if they had kids, they might be totally right - my parents did not have money for travelling etc. because they chose to have kids. Many people on lower incomes sacrifice a lot to have kids - that's great, but it's fine to not want that. You can even understand that having children is really rewarding, and still decide that for you, the benefit does not outweigh the cost. I just don't see the point in commenting on their opinions on this - you could expose your point of view and experience without saying "and this is why these people are wrong"

The way your face 'lights up' when you talk about "Baby" is really heartwarming

@sambigelow9106

6 жыл бұрын

Jedidine I completely agree! I kept thinking 'look at the proud mama! ' Baby is lucky to have such great parents!

@paperburrito1150

6 жыл бұрын

I love that we don't know their name so we just call them "baby"

@norrisorneilia7363

6 жыл бұрын

Paperburrito but it's strange she doesn't even use a pronoun.

@selinaschmid696

6 жыл бұрын

I feel like she just wants to protect baby's privacy. But honestly, she really does look really happy about being a mom. That's so great!

@riflebusters1

6 жыл бұрын

Jedidine could you tell me the time stamp?

It's pretty rich listening to two depressed and angry antisocialists talk about other people ruining their lives by having kids.

@airiello

6 жыл бұрын

Not everyone wants a screaming child, get over it.

@kainodinson8404

6 жыл бұрын

Dahlia {pie} how dare you assume I want children. I'm offeneded.

@RiverTheOneandOnly

6 жыл бұрын

Dahlia {pie} well what the fuck do u think you were?

@theultimatereductionist7592

6 жыл бұрын

+Kain Odinson Glad you agree that antisocialists are scum. Vegan Gains and his partner are justified in being angry about assholes who breed both humans and nonhumans for their personal selfish greed to enslave and torture. Socialists usually fight to make the world fairer. Antisocialists fight only to force even MORE of the status quo onto those suffering the most.

@tn0wl361

6 жыл бұрын

Why do you all think that socialism is so fucking good? What is so wrong with the free market? What is so wrong with the idea of one person making more money than the other? And also, with socialism, who really has the money? The common man, or the government? If you think about it at a fundamental level, the whole world is anarcho capitalist. And nations are just bigass businesses. Socialism is like Comcast on steroids. It is a bigass government monopoly. Why do you think that rich national leaders would be any less greedy than big company CEO's? Because you vote for them? Not if they can help it. Look at Russia, Putin can just win the election all his life because nobody dares defy their nation's only rich person. At least in the free market, you get a choice to spend where your money goes (at least somewhat here in the US with our crumbling market). Guess what else you can do in the free market: You can make more than another person. Sounds crazy right?! Like, if you work a riskier job or if you're more skilled than someone else or chose to go into education for a career then it is likely that you will be more *QUALIFIED* and *USEFUL* in a position than someone else. And *YOU* worked for that position. No fucking government told you that you have to work here or there or go to this school or that school. Seriously, fuck socialism and fuck every socialist motherfucker out there. Call me a fucking crony capitalist do whatever the fuck you want but *YOU'RE ONLY MAD THAT YOU DON'T HAVE AS MUCH MONEY AS THE PEOPLE WHO ARE GETTING OFF THEIR ASSES AND MAKING A DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD*. That's right, the billionaires are the people that actually give a shit. Oh, socialism is so good for the public, so good that Russia's dominant population is a bunch of fuckin useless Gopniks who squat with their buddies who do a half day of work for a month and waste space. We have the same shit in the US too because everyone collects that sweet *WELFARE AND FOOD STAMPS BECAUSE OUR KIDS MAKE US MONEY BY BEING ALIVE AND WE DON'T HAVE TO WORK*. Textbook fucking socialism at it's worse in a country that's supposed to be a representative of the "free market". Meanwhile we have useless druggies crossing the boarder and making dough while the common man can't get a job because we have to pay people that work part time as a cashier at mcdonalds living wage and no company can afford to hire anyone. Socialists are fucking stupid. There will always be poverty, but socialism is the best way to maximize it and spread it throughout a nation.

I myself have chosen not to have biological children because of some pretty crappy genes, but I still want to become a mother and plan to foster children. It hurts my heart to see people with such disdain for children 😢

@piggy_queen0426

4 жыл бұрын

Dark Glow I hadn’t even thought about it that way thank you for insight on this topic

The statistics actually say that most people who choose to have sterilisation don't regret their decision. Personally I feel it should be available regardless of your age or your doctor's opinion. Especially for these two! 😜

Well, I'm glad they hate kids so much, because that means they probably won't be having any. Luckily for the kids, and everyone else.

@DesertedDalia

5 жыл бұрын

Wilson well overpopulation happens because of the developing countries, not because of countries where there is enough privilege to choose not to have kids, sadly

@heyikindalikeyou

3 жыл бұрын

@@DesertedDalia vegans are too dumb to realize that

@Daniel-tx2vt

2 жыл бұрын

@@DesertedDalia developing countries with all their children don’t use up nearly as much resources in their lifetime as a child in a developed nation from 1-18 years old will.

They make this argument while holding a dog. Would you rather pick up dog poop....Or ride motorcycles? Obviously you can't do both!

@WolfJulia2001

6 жыл бұрын

NomNomerz I WAS ABOUT TO SAY lolll

@theborkinator4513

6 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@kareichi

6 жыл бұрын

Kit the Manakete not really

@Fmanzo10

6 жыл бұрын

Selfish entitled millennial pricks like these two probably don’t clean up after their dog soo more motorcycle time...

@EpicMinecraftFail

6 жыл бұрын

Kit the Manakete you have NEVER had the joy of watching your child grow into a beautiful adult,im sure your opinon will change one day

the funny is most of the things they mention applies to that dog they're holding too. medical bills, time, buying food, buying equipment for sports. Bet if you caught them buying a tennis ball for their dog and asked why they'd say "because it makes him happy and we like that" and then they'd be pretty dumbfounded when you ask them what the problem with buying a tennis ball for a kid is. Unless they're actually mean enough to say "the happiness of children triggers to emotional response in me"

@ottonormalverbraucher7835

4 жыл бұрын

Starseed-bb having human children is like having pets. The reason many pet owners refer to themselves as "mom or dad "

@ottonormalverbraucher7835

4 жыл бұрын

Starseed-bb some peole simply hate happyness of children. No joke, I know many of them

May I leave some words? I'm an early childhood educator, meaning I take care of kids aged 0-6 years old. Even doing all the changing diapers, taking care of fights amongst them and all the other challenging aspects of the job, I love it and I want to have my own kids soon. All the points that young couple used made me shake my head. For every "negative" thing they named the kids give you a million "positive" moments. Do you know how amazing it is when a one year old toddler waddles up to you with a big smile and wants to sit on your lap, when it's not even your own kid? Oh boy, I love kids.

This couple is so disgusting for so many reasons. Kudos to you for being so patient, respectful and informative in your response.

Didn’t they get a dog from a breeder?

@jgr_lilli_

6 жыл бұрын

Sailor Shannen Oh come on, that CLEARLY doesn't matter. Right. Right!?!?!?

@finnthedog8186

6 жыл бұрын

Sailor Shannen They didnt know at the time

@TuAmigoElMorrocoy

6 жыл бұрын

Abraham Ibarra Or so they say... The Czechoslovakian wolfdog is a very rare breed here in Canada, and it's very expensive as well... I find it extremely unlikely that they got a puppy of an very rare and expensive breed "just at a shelter"...because they didn't even get an adult dog, they got a puppy.... They must have known that the dog must have come from a breeder in some way or another

@Shreyosis

6 жыл бұрын

TuAmigoElMorrocoy they got the dog from a breeder due to the pup in question having health problems, but they paid through the nose in vet bills treating the aforementioned health problems as well as issues exacerbated when they tried to feed their wolfdog puppy a vegan diet

@HorseLuver098

6 жыл бұрын

Sailor Shannen oh the irony!

"Babies aren't roller coasters" - Swayze Squarange, 2017

Oh the "if you can afford a child, you can adopt." Um, no. There's this thing called health insurance. MOST employers offer it. It covers the vast majority of birthing costs. The number of employers that offer adoption assistance is way more rare. I know this for a fact because of my situation. A little story: My husband and I got married late in life (his 2nd marriage, my first). He has a daughter with his ex-wife that we co-parent with her (50/50 custody) I love her to pieces and really wanted add a baby brother or sister to our family. I tried unsuccessfully to conceive for about a year and a half, prior to being diagnosed with cancer (which guaranteed I would never have kids). We looked into adoption and the cost of adopting a baby started at $10,000 - and that was just the agency's fee. We looked into adopting out of foster care and the sheer amount of red tape and waiting required (including you have to be a foster parent first and as a foster parent there's no guarantee that the child you're caring for and grown to love, won't be taken out of your home and sent back to the birth parents) made it ultimately something my husband and I decided wouldn't be best for our family. But saying that instead of having a baby, one should just adopt is ridiculous and really offensive to people. Adoption isn't for everyone either!

You can have a perfectly disciplined child who is amazing and quiet and respectful who has one off day while out at dinner. Then imagine that this Richard comes and challenges you to a fight when you’re already stressed about your child being upset. It doesn’t matter how disciplined your ONE YEAR OLD IS, they’re going to have off days.

@uribheidi

4 жыл бұрын

kaysuewood he’s full of shit. I think that whole story was anecdotal.

@saumyasrivastava8363

4 жыл бұрын

It's actually very likely that the kid isn't out that often because the parents generally got someone to babysit or just didn't go out, and the one time they decide to take their kid with them, they cry because they are in an unfamiliar environment. I experience this with my toddler all the time when he is put in a crowded place. He was crying and fussy at his own birthday party. Kids do that.

@adamryan9185

4 жыл бұрын

2 things, when I saw your name I thought you were someone I went to school with, and your profile looked similar so it fooled me😂 and 2 I completely agree with you, even when I’m just out with my nephews and niece, they often are well behaved but sometimes they act up and it’s stressful, even though I’m just looking after them for my siblings.

@ericvega3597

3 жыл бұрын

The dumbass shouldn't have been rude to his wife and he wouldn't have threatened him. Dummy

@gregprevite8548

3 жыл бұрын

I’d love to have Richard challenge me to a fight. one day he’s going to act like that to the wrong person

Also babies aren’t babies forever. You’re able to do a shit ton of things when they grow up as well as when they’re young. And yes my dad changes diapers and rides a motorcycle lmaooo

@KaiDecadence

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly right. My parents taught me and my brother how to do basic things like cooking (simple meals), laundry, and washing dishes when we were like 6. We had chores and whatnot and by the time we were around 10 , we had all those lessons down pat and while we still had babysitters, we didn't need them at 13 as we were pretty self-sufficient (Our mom passed away when we were 10 and my dad was a single working parent). If you teach your kids basic necessary things, it does make it a little easier.

@LoveisIt...

6 жыл бұрын

delicious dinner meal great point . The enrich our lives and hopefully be there for us if we need them as we would always be for them . Even as adults .

@MtBArN

6 жыл бұрын

My kids will always be my babies till the day I die!

@LoveisIt...

6 жыл бұрын

Mine too .

@user-hz7pk9vb6z

6 жыл бұрын

Pogo TheKitty Aww....On the other hand think of all the amazing times to come as he grows up his first bicycle ride, first day of school....

Do these two realize that it took "breeders" to create them? That they wouldn't be around to expound their anti-kid rhetoric if it weren't for those breeders who had them and took care of them?

I'm a guy and one of the few things in life I'm certain on is my desire to have kids, so It kind of made me angry that they said the bit that men don't really want children and just roll with it if they end up having one

You. Are. Not. Entitled. To. A. Child. Free. Existence. Outside. Of. Your. Home.

@theangrycheeto

5 жыл бұрын

You. Are. Not. Entitled. To. An. Existence. Free. From. People. Who. Complain. About. Your. Shitty. Kids.

@nigma21qi

5 жыл бұрын

How rude. If I go to a place, like a bar, I fully expect NOT to see kids. What kind of parents take a baby to a bar anyways?

@nigma21qi

5 жыл бұрын

@@cal4906 I was giving an actual example of what I have seen with my own eyes. I have actually been to a bar, where parents have brought their children in, and are drinking and smoking around the kid.

@nigma21qi

5 жыл бұрын

@@theangrycheeto God I love this comment!

@mandyschmidt7164

5 жыл бұрын

The Menagerie is the poor snowflake salty they were called out on their entitlement? Poor thing. Must be awful to have so little self esteem that you bully kids to make you feel better about yourself. You could at least be a little more original in your butthurt temper tantrum. Sociopath.

“so I challenged him to a fight” lmfao

@janeyjpg911

5 жыл бұрын

Cause I'm a manly man and TESTOSTORONEEEEE

I kinda wish their parents had had this same view on “breeding”

bruh this couple literally makes me want to scream oh my god they’re so hypocritical

“There’s so many kids who don’t have homes” > don’t adopt but makes people feel guilty about not adopting Seems legit

@macksmith1366

5 жыл бұрын

Khalifah Allah I was adopted, but tbh I’m so glad they weren’t in the market for a child when I was. Probably for the best that they preach about this from the safety of their monitors and motorcycles.

@lalalarebecca23

5 жыл бұрын

Haha so damn true

@GBfanatic15

4 жыл бұрын

also like...how does he know they weren't adopted kids?

@lalalarebecca23

4 жыл бұрын

Katy Kehle Having my own own child was a lot cheaper than adopting one.

@lalalarebecca23

4 жыл бұрын

Katy Kehle There is nothing wrong with having your own children adopting isn’t for everyone

My Dad has 4 children and rides a really nice motorcycle and spends time playing video games when he wants to. Just saying. But these people really should not have children. No child deserves parents with attitudes like that.

@jeffpence6163

6 жыл бұрын

You should watch Lauren Southerns most recent video. Very relevant to this video and actually hilarious lol.

@namelessenigma

6 жыл бұрын

& Lemme guess, mom is left to take care of the kids, clean house, cook meals, take care of pets, etc?

A 1 year old kid doesn't understand why screaming isn't ok. it's the parents responsibility, to make sure your kid is doing ok. Going up and saying "control your kid" is extremely rude to the parents and I can see why the parents reacted in such a poor way.

@Raichous.mom.moments99

4 жыл бұрын

@unknowning unknown well as a parent myself, it is my responsibility to keep my daughter with when I'm out. She's not a stupid meat bag as you say. But if that is your opinion. I'm sorry I offended you 😘

@Raichous.mom.moments99

4 жыл бұрын

@unknowning unknown I'm 21 lol and married

@Raichous.mom.moments99

4 жыл бұрын

@unknowning unknown my daughter is three months old. Sooooo

Sounds like they haven’t been loved properly by their parents.

@robertgriffin3901

4 жыл бұрын

@unknowning unknown Someone shows they didn't learn how to read between the lines.

Um it's okay to not want kids, but did these people forget they had to have parents.....

I get not wanting to have children. I, myself don't want to have children. But what's up with these two hating on people who choose to do so? I mean, they are aware these people are responsible for the continuity of the human race, right? They know they only exist because "breeders mated", right?

@bcount1

6 жыл бұрын

Dude fuck humans. I wouldn't give it shit if we died out tomorrow

@WayneAmbert-sk2dr

6 жыл бұрын

The Lost Schuyler Exactly! They're too high on their own self centered existence to notice.

But also (and because this was filmed years ago I’ll give you credit and hope some mindsets have changed), I think it is really terrible how doctors treat women, and it goes beyond even just having babies- like for example, when a woman presents symptoms of a debilitating disease, and we’re told its anxiety. But back to the issue of doctors not allowing women to be sterilized at a certain age- sometimes it’s medically necessary, like in the case of my friend who had extremely aggressive endometriosis and they only allowed her to get a hysterectomy AFTER she had two children. She suffered for years because they wanted to make sure she didn’t change her mind about kids, and dismissed her obviously traumatic and debilitating symptoms.

I was a little disappointed to hear your thoughts on sterilization, regretting getting your tubes tied is a much smaller problem than the amount of unwanted children we have in the system. Women don’t tend to regret it. Birth control is expensive and it isn’t harmless; I’m a medical interpreter and I’ve heard tons of women complain about horrible side effects from various forms of birth control. I personally don’t know if I want children, I’m pretty sure I don’t but I’m a bit young to decide. Most women that feel like me would rather avoid the procedure. Women that opt for the procedure are dead set on never having children. I personally don’t care if that couple changes their mind or not, I think they aren’t fit to be parents and I would greatly appreciate if they both got fixed.