Think before you speak, hacking the secret of communication | Catherine Molloy | TEDxEnniskillen

you might think that you have communicated, however have you really? this talk explores the impact communication can have both negative and positive and how we can hack conscious communication. Author, Executive Leadership Coach, Communication, Body & Energy Language Expert
Talks about leadership, body language, communication, keynote speaker, and emotional intelligence This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @smyrnasstory
    @smyrnasstory Жыл бұрын

    “Thoughtless speech is like the stabs of a sword, but the tongue of the wise is a healing”

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    I love this ❤ thank you for sharing

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    7 ай бұрын

    😊

  • @Abundance01

    @Abundance01

    7 ай бұрын

    Proverbs 12:18

  • @lanhuongnguyen9988
    @lanhuongnguyen99889 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much❤❤❤❤

  • @user-fm2yw1gd1v
    @user-fm2yw1gd1v Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Catherine, for highlighting the importance of conscious communication and sharing your story and knowledge. I value your insights and appreciate you bringing awareness to such an important subject that impacts us all.

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Vikki . Yes being aware of our self talk mixed with our non verbal can make all the difference ❤.

  • @shelaghbrennand348
    @shelaghbrennand348 Жыл бұрын

    This is brilliant. It seems such a simple thing to do - conscientiously communicate - but clearly it’s not! Catherine delivered such an important message so perfectly.

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Appreciate 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️agree If it was simple communicating wouldn't still be the number 1 most needed skill !

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes such a little thing that makes a big difference ❤

  • @rosminazuchri9090
    @rosminazuchri909010 ай бұрын

    I am Rossy. This vidio very interesting n.helpful to learn communication in English. Thanks

  • @demipaterson
    @demipaterson Жыл бұрын

    Such fantastic information, I love the power of three!

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Demi ! 😊 the power of 3 The tools we've all been given!

  • @JanaSzIsBasicGlitch
    @JanaSzIsBasicGlitchКүн бұрын

    Yep... Gonna need that one.

  • @vaibhav02
    @vaibhav02 Жыл бұрын

    I like the new perception towards misdirection and with a great example

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. We had a lot of issues with slides not starting, etc, but we kept going and hoping the message would come through!

  • @Roberto_wisdomworld
    @Roberto_wisdomworld10 ай бұрын

    Amazing speech Cath ❤🙌 thank you for sharing your wisdom🙏🙏🌺💝

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    9 ай бұрын

    Appreciate 🙏🏻

  • @HassanYounes-official
    @HassanYounes-official Жыл бұрын

    Great TEDx talk...Very relevant to our times.

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, when we make up stories for others, it often ends in confusion... always best to check in! 😊

  • @beverleyhenderson5956
    @beverleyhenderson5956 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing, thank you!!

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed! Looking for more win wins in life x

  • @bredamccaguemotivationalsp6732
    @bredamccaguemotivationalsp6732 Жыл бұрын

    Brilliant TedX Catherine 🌟🌟🙌🙌

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you x

  • @hulamei3117
    @hulamei3117 Жыл бұрын

    Needed this !

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏻😊

  • @moseshmoses5074
    @moseshmoses50743 ай бұрын

    thank you, I thought I was just going crazy. I've always thought of communication in the same manner. I am glad I've found this video.❤

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    2 ай бұрын

    You're so right ✅️ miscommunication does drive you crazy 🤪 😮😊... so glad it resonated x thank you for sharing.

  • @clementosea.8294
    @clementosea.82948 ай бұрын

    An interesting topic this is, and was well presented.

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    8 ай бұрын

    Appreciate how easily we miscommunicate. The number one problem in all businesses and life. Just bringing some consciousness to our own language. Thank you

  • @prakashkumaroneworld
    @prakashkumaroneworld Жыл бұрын

    Catherine , this is amazing stuff. knowingly or unknowingly we are a victim of mis-communication or missing the context of conscious communication. Thank for bringing such an important aspect of daily life. I truly agree conscious communication brings domino effect and high productivity. Once again thank you.

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Appreciate 🙏🏻 thank you for taking the time to share!

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    7 ай бұрын

  • @MondayMorningActivation
    @MondayMorningActivation Жыл бұрын

    Great content. Always learning from your content.

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you.... like is a wonderful lesson! Xxx

  • @transelite
    @transelite Жыл бұрын

    love it!

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    😊🙏🏻

  • @brightsideperspectives991
    @brightsideperspectives99111 ай бұрын

    “The response is everything.“

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    11 ай бұрын

    Absolutely 😊 nailed it... reflect respond

  • @kirankumar-hg5fd
    @kirankumar-hg5fd Жыл бұрын

    Just loved it😍

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you x

  • @garybriandoherty7299
    @garybriandoherty7299 Жыл бұрын

    Love it

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for support.

  • @adnangan7639
    @adnangan763912 күн бұрын

    terimakasih bu atas ilmunya

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    6 күн бұрын

    Thank you 🎉❤

  • @user-ng4xp2ri5s
    @user-ng4xp2ri5s4 ай бұрын

    hmnnn!!! Bravo 👏🏼 @Catherine for your presentation dear., yet in my opinion, WE are Not D Same individually. 1st Some pple will spite at U or even frown when u Smile at them, some will totally decide to go opposite just Nevis they are wired that Way. U making an excuse for yr husbands inability to have communicated his concern in a more gentle ñ verbal way rather than a smack ñ also communicating certain morales to a certain demographic may turn out to be a new schooling on yr Psyche altogether Nevis of Cultural beliefs but A BIG tHANKS to U for I did Learn somethings from yr Talk maam

  • @kimberlykane7065
    @kimberlykane7065 Жыл бұрын

    Like being in a bad therapy session this Ted talk

  • @maggiemaynard6199

    @maggiemaynard6199

    3 ай бұрын

    She's got the right ideas but could present it better. The intro story went on for too long...

  • @orvilleraposo7760
    @orvilleraposo77605 ай бұрын

    We must be aware of the unconscious, that which is outside our consciousness because unconscious thoughts emotions behaviors attitudes biases inclinations cause us to trip. We can be mindful only when we are conscious of the unconscious, that which is outside of our consciousness, all that is automatic and conditioned like our reflex actions anger and our very nature... Once we become conscious of the unconscious we can become mindful and conscious and aware.. And live deliberately.. Consciously.. Mindfully.. With awareness and translate that into conscious communication

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    4 ай бұрын

    Wow, you nailed that ❤😊 an aussie expression 👏... you got that right !

  • @LarryP248
    @LarryP2485 ай бұрын

    The content here is extraordinary. Reading a book on the same subject was a transformative experience for me. "Mindful Mastery: Living Intentionally in a Chaotic World" by Kyle Ash

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    4 ай бұрын

    That's awesome thank you for sharing. My book was traditionally published with international rights being sold to UK and they made it business book of the year in 2018. The Million Dollar Handshake. If you get a chance to read it I hope you enjoy it ! 😊

  • @SumitGupta-so3jv
    @SumitGupta-so3jv Жыл бұрын

    Good

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Appreciate 😊

  • @ekene626
    @ekene62610 ай бұрын

    Love the story, but why would tensing up, make someone upset.

  • @kazukisaita8111
    @kazukisaita8111 Жыл бұрын

    Sorry I didn’t exactly get what she wanted to tell me because of my English, Could anyone tell me the main point of this Ted talk briefly if it’s possible 🙏 As far as I know, before taking action, people might as well think second thoughts so that we can take away the miscommunication

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello 👋 we react before we speak ... if we think about the action we just did ...eg the talk and me leaning back ... then used our words to match eg. Do you need to change lanes? ...Then you would decrease the amt of miscommunication you have in life. You see what we think isn't always right ! We need to be more conscious in the present . 🎁

  • @kazukisaita8111

    @kazukisaita8111

    Жыл бұрын

    @@catherinemolloy1 Thank you for your help!! It’s pretty much straightforward and good examples! I truly appreciate it

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kazukisaita8111 miscommunication is the number one biggest problem in all businesses and housholds today . Yet the solution is simple. We need to be present /conscious of our actions and think about our responses in the moment. Thank you for your response:)

  • @LLMTECHSTORIES

    @LLMTECHSTORIES

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@catherinemolloy1 thank you for this video, conscious communication. How do I practice this? Should I prepare myself before hand? Or just before doing any action, think. How to put this into practice daily? 13:53

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes, it's about being present and conscious of our thoughts, which domino into actions and words. Sometimes, we need to explain our actions so as to not confuse the other person !

  • @YasminYoruba
    @YasminYoruba9 ай бұрын

    I think so intellectually but I can’t say what it is I am thinking 😢

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    8 ай бұрын

    Interesting isn't it ... One part of our commuication is just being aware of our micro expressions, and what we are thinking to help avoid miscommunication , however, you may find writing it out first will help you when delivering what it is you want to say. x

  • @CB19087
    @CB1908710 ай бұрын

    My communication is a mess. I've used humour all my life to avoid showing up authentically. Sometimes I say things that sound abusive and I think why? Why did you say that??

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow that’s great that you know this ❤ first step to being more conscious and present is understanding you. I know it's not easy, but practice will get you there. Cheering you on 🎉

  • @vlogons
    @vlogons Жыл бұрын

    how can i improve my English any body can talme. because I'm learning English language...

  • @smirkfanta5535

    @smirkfanta5535

    10 ай бұрын

    1. Watch movies 2. Read books 3. PRACTICE speaking with someone And the third point is the most important

  • @antandshell
    @antandshell20 күн бұрын

    "Would you like to change lanes " is still a trigger. Let him drive, he doesn't want your help.

  • @1minute.everyday923
    @1minute.everyday9233 ай бұрын

    JESUS LOVES YOU ALL ❤️

  • @CourtneyW-jr6fx
    @CourtneyW-jr6fx9 ай бұрын

    In the words of the Bush famuly wouldnt be pertinent Mac

  • @travisarmour8709
    @travisarmour87093 ай бұрын

    pretty basic stuff, not sure why all the praise here - are people generally this naive about this stuff?

  • @JeffGoldberg-bx2tv
    @JeffGoldberg-bx2tv3 ай бұрын

    She just kept repeating herself for 14 minutes

  • @MobileZoneel

    @MobileZoneel

    Ай бұрын

    She share her own experience with us and i think it's best ever in ted talk

  • @risimahlongwani1103

    @risimahlongwani1103

    Ай бұрын

    Fr she was just yapping for the first 10mins

  • @gami195
    @gami195 Жыл бұрын

    Wasted 14 minutes of my life, not a good talk.

  • @creep_919

    @creep_919

    5 ай бұрын

    Agreed.

  • @SJT929496
    @SJT929496 Жыл бұрын

    She seems like she’s in an abusive relationship if she knows her husband is mad by how hot he is. He went off on her for nothing and she blames herself which is classic victim mentality.

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    Жыл бұрын

    Interesting point. Everyone has energy language, and not a lot of people tune into it. As an expert in the field, I read this well. Communication is the number one biggest problem on the planet. So I took this small example to show you how quickly you miscommunicate through making up incorrect stories for each other. If you can take that away maybe you can make a difference with your family friends and teams. 45% of marriages end in divorce 90% of these are registered due to miscommunication.

  • @GretchenV95

    @GretchenV95

    9 ай бұрын

    Especially after that many years of marriage? Surely he’d understand her habits and body language by this point. 😅

  • @catherinemolloy1

    @catherinemolloy1

    7 ай бұрын

    Now you know why there is so much miscommunication people react in a nano second before they consciously think. That is the point of this. To stop and bring more consciousness to your life. Communication is the key to business and life successes and failures!

  • @ottomaan1186
    @ottomaan1186 Жыл бұрын

    you dont need ted for whining about the personal stuff. primitive

  • @user-ko2tu3ss3o
    @user-ko2tu3ss3o Жыл бұрын

    Boring. And the cause of much 2nd hand embarrassment.

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