Respect for putting this out. There’s a big thing in society now where when you question certain things people will just accuse you of “hating” or trying to stop people earning or “hustling”. In fact, other women would probably see this video and accuse you of being against women. If something is in the public domain then an individual has every right to examine it and question it.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! Thank you. If someone is confident in what they are doing, they shouldn’t care what I say anyways! Lol

@mujtab8siddiqu1

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan I’m glad you discouraged this immorality on both the men and women’s behalf, this is a sinful industry and I pity those involved.

@raphaelvsauvage5136

3 жыл бұрын

@Women's rights was a mistake does that also go to racial group also

I still have yet to understand why anyone would pay for onlyfans?

@GEORGIOARCADE

3 жыл бұрын

Because some guys don't feel like they can get a real woman in real life and they probably had bad experiences in the dating market and find it much easier and stress free to pay for sexual gratification online via pictures and videos. It's so sad tho. But thankfully Courtney channel and The Roommates channel are around to help men be better.

@95clemi

3 жыл бұрын

because it is their only way to get attention from women, especially attractive ones.

@atlantishorizon

3 жыл бұрын

Dude, same question!!

@stopthecap2644

3 жыл бұрын

Their lack of Interaction with women basically... makes them feel they're noticed or important. It's psychological issues with the men who pay for it.

@arcticwolf8313

3 жыл бұрын

To sum up, they're getting the fantasy of a connection made slightly more realistic (in their eyes at least) because they have someone actually interacting with them.

Needy men are a profitable thing.

@Macheako

3 жыл бұрын

Men need things.....who woulda guessed 😂

@Infamous1892

3 жыл бұрын

@Women's rights was a mistake Chad's a soft ass name. Lets be real Jody, Adonis, Alan are Real men names.

@RavisherDevil

3 жыл бұрын

This is true only in a sexual way. Men tend to be far more reserved when it comes to things like materialism and shopping. Women have the lead here. I'd argue women are more profitable than men overall. Men just need to work on their thirst.

@killaken2000

3 жыл бұрын

"Always has been"

@brianlittrell797

3 жыл бұрын

@@Macheako There's a difference between a man needing something and being NEEDY. Learn the difference. LOL

You took the words right out of my mouth. As a woman, I do not see only fans as empowering. I feel like women just lost all their morals. You spoke nothing but the truth on the effects onlyfans has on young women. It’s temporary. Money is not everything. I would much rather have a loving respectful husband, a car with 4 wheels that gets me to work, my mental health intact, and be an empowering woman with my clothes on. You are intelligent and beautiful! You’re an empowering woman!

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

🥹 you’re a gem, thank you beauty!!

@inarizic4945

Жыл бұрын

Digital prostitution. Problem is that when these women are old and try to wipe their past and marry and have a family it will come back to haunt them.

@alessandroscuppa8036

Жыл бұрын

can we talk about the effect all this shit has on MEN for once ? On MEN and not women.

@shaun8062

Жыл бұрын

@@alessandroscuppa8036 The solution to all problems ultimately has to focus on the person doing the problem otherwise you're relying on another person's empathy for you, which they don't have anyway, because they are doing only fans. They don't care about you. I'm not saying they shouldn't, I'm saying they don't.

@Rico401Prov

Жыл бұрын

@@alessandroscuppa8036 onlyfans for men makes them a simp. The women do not respect simps and simps never win in life 💯

couldn’t agree more. the illusion that onlyfans is a viable career option to young girls is just awful and untrue and they won’t find out until it’s too late and that makes me really sad. i think it’s an important perspective to realize.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

100% 🥲

@Nah-ah

2 жыл бұрын

And the crazy part is men preaching about how they created the world and the adult industry but yet demonise the women that take part in it. The entire world can do without sex work, in my opinion but I’m sure most men won’t be happy about that if sex work/adult film was taken away.

@royalecrafts6252

2 жыл бұрын

Is viable as an income source, not long term but still is income

@jlogan2228

Жыл бұрын

@@royalecrafts6252 even then its arguable that its not viable bc when every chick has an OF they essentially HAVE to jump to the hardcore stuff to stand out enough to get the attention. Girls who just post lewds dont last long or make much bc guys arent going to keep paying for lingerie pics.

@royalecrafts6252

Жыл бұрын

@@jlogan2228 yep, fuck IVe payed once for an onlyfans girl and meeh boring, I have free porn for literal YEAAARSSS why would I pay of?

I've done alot of dumb things in life, but at least I can proudly say I've never paid money to an OnlyFans model. That's just a whole new level of simping.

@untilipeak

2 жыл бұрын

💀

@SlightlySteven

2 жыл бұрын

Thank’s Lee. I doubt the apocalypse would allow for such a thing lol

@Natalia-bg8do

2 жыл бұрын

Model? Are we gonna start calling porn art now too? They are prostitutes.

@beachlife9527

Жыл бұрын

Me either! And I have done lots of dumb thing's to But never a penny on this crap

@PaulAllen786

Жыл бұрын

I’ve bought a lot of drugs but never paid for sex.

The point about how temporary "OF" is and how detrimental it can be towards a person's future is perhaps one of the most overlooked things that people overlook and kudos to you for highlighting this to someone thinking about pursuing it.

I would add, onlyfans is polluting ALL social media. Not that it wasn't toxic to begin with.

Remember ladies, the internet is forever. There's no hiding the bad decisions you make.

@DavidZ4-gg3dm

3 ай бұрын

What if they delete their OF profiles?

@MrFrank107

3 ай бұрын

@@DavidZ4-gg3dm "The Way Back Machine" Digital archive of the internet

Who knew that in 2021 the hottest questions you could ask a girl would be: 1. Are you vaccinated 2. Do you have an Only Fans

@andrewbsfootballarchives4247

3 жыл бұрын

@Bipolar Abusive X Either one as a yes, and it's bye bye for me. If other people like that more power to them, but I won't compromise squat just for "companionship".

@luisorozco4802

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@jakecarroll5

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah im okay i don't really want the spike protein toxin. Learn to better yourself and make yourself happy. And you will meet her.

@llcooldrockindahouse4631

3 жыл бұрын

What's happens if she's an anti vaxxer and believes that this while pandemic is a plandemic? Besides one of my girlfriends and her sisters refuse to get the vaccine but that's her decision and I gotta respect that.

@laurenspenceruk

3 жыл бұрын

yes and yes! ;)

I’ve met a girl like this before. They have no self worth. No value. No self esteem. No confidence. Gets offended easily. Constantly on Instagram, seeking attention from coworkers constantly for self validation. It’s not entirely their fault. It’s all because of bad parenting. They have mommy daddy issues. And these women end up being manipulated and used by older men 2wice their age. It’s absolutely disgusting..

@accountant02130

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed .. it sad .....

@AdityaJape

3 жыл бұрын

you Indian staying in USA?

@98DEB

3 жыл бұрын

You can’t play the victim forever. These grown adults need to take control of their own lives and hold themselves accountable. Whatever Mommy and Daddy did or didn’t do is in the past.

@zeroh2hero

3 жыл бұрын

Yup yup agreed that's why they smoke weed and drink sometimes while their live.

@sundertooth1666

3 жыл бұрын

Are you talking about the video creator or the girls she is describing?

Those telling you that your channel is no different than Only Fans are engaging in excessive hyperbole. Truly, your channel is nothing at all similar to only fans. Keep up the great work! Your content is actually helpful and potentially so for everyone.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Russell! 🥰

@vitelalex

3 жыл бұрын

I would argue her channel is different (in a good way) even from other similar youtube channels that aim to help guys on their path to excellence. Courtney really does a great job at this and has a healthy thinking all the way. Hats off to her

@russ4862

3 жыл бұрын

@@vitelalex Totally agree, Alex. 👍

@chikitronrx0

3 жыл бұрын

Well it's the same parasocial relationship, it's artificial attention you get from a stranger online, mimics by feeling the same rewards on your brain but it's all fake. It's just virtual an not in real or a tangible way. This goes both ways, from the people on the camera, and the people watching the screen.

@russ4862

3 жыл бұрын

@@chikitronrx0 Pablo, what is the "it" that you are referencing in your statement?

This video gives me the "big sister" energy! "If you can see everyone's point of view and still be authentically you, you are winning" I'm picking that 💕

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

💘💘💘

Courtney the world NEEDS women like you to lead the charge and RESET the standard of ideal for women. The way you talk, present yourself and engage intellectually on important topics that help bring the sexes together is a pleasure to watch. While you've been pc on this topic the reality is a quality male with options will not entertain a sex worker or ex -sex worker for a serious relationship. With onlyfans women really need to carefully consider the longterm consequences of their choices.

@technoloverish

2 жыл бұрын

You're right about religious men who view any premarital relationships as sinful. However, these days, many men are secular and as such don't really care about a woman's sexual history. I think you're assuming that every man is necessarily a Christian.

@TheCraydee

2 жыл бұрын

@@technoloverish what man doesn’t care about a woman’s sexual history lmao? Religious or not that’s some cuckold type of thinking that will lead to full blown misery

@inarizic4945

Жыл бұрын

A return to traditional family values. Marriage between a man and a woman, having children in wedlock. The degenerate society we live in is because people forgot the law of God.

I do not have anything against sex work, but yeah, a lot - a lot - of men do not want to be with a sex worker.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

For sure.

@itstriplem2069

3 жыл бұрын

Facts, ik i never would. As the patriarchs say, "If thy female haveth an onlyfans, you shallth not be her only mans"

@wecx2375

3 жыл бұрын

@@itstriplem2069 Same here. Sex work is work, but just like women judge men by their careers (they do) men can also judge women by theirs. I'm not interested in dating a sex worker at all.

@dv4633

3 жыл бұрын

Like gf's or wives aren't sex workers? Lol you fools never learn.

@jeffsmith-hg8tr

3 жыл бұрын

@@dv4633 what bro?

I get your point about this being ok if it's a "season." But the internet lives forever. If you do Onlyfans you've just killed about 2/3 of other career opportunities. At least strippers are significantly less likely to be identified when trying to get out of sex work.

@pokegogeezer7676

3 жыл бұрын

Oops, commented before the end of the video.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

That is true!

@Macheako

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan why reply if all you're gonna say is some empty response lol no one expects creators to reply to every comment

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

@@Macheako because I said this exact statement in the video, there wasn’t much more for me to say. I don’t reply to every comment but I reply for the first hour or so the video is up. I like to engage with my followers 😊

@Macheako

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan That is true!

I’ve never had an only fans account and never will.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

GOOD! ❤️

@dylanjordan31

3 жыл бұрын

Same bro. Same.

I mean in my everyday life, I see dozens and dozens of gorgeous women to approach. As they say, "nothing beats the real thing." OnlyFans and all this has to be a mental disorder because just in my everyday life I see tons of opportunity to experience the real thing in life and have no clue why I'd trade that for a digital illusion.

@penderyn8794

3 жыл бұрын

Bad anxiety and ugly faces?

@Mouth-pipetter

3 жыл бұрын

@@penderyn8794 Social anxiety disorder can have even above average looking guys feeing awkward approaching women, and feeling like they aren’t interesting to begin with.

@TechOutAdam

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mouth-pipetter They just don’t want it bad enough. I used to have bad social anxiety because of “rejection” but who cares a woman will either have chemistry or they won’t. That’s a lame excuse and men have to be men again. It’s so pathetic.

@TechOutAdam

3 жыл бұрын

@@penderyn8794 Bro looks don’t matter like we think they do. Your character is more attractive than looks. What a woman says she wants is not what she responds to.

@elasticharmony

3 жыл бұрын

It easier

You handled this in theee most gentle way possible. This OnlyFans movement needs to die, I'm thankful you're taking part in exposing it to your viewers on both sides. A necessary conversation.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏼 thank you!

I struggled with relationships for pretty much my entire life. Courtney's content has been very beneficial for me. Thanks much!

One of the unfortunate issues with OnlyFans is the rare content creators who were using it for the right reasons. Not the ones selling sex, the creators that are selling music/workouts/cooking information etc. Might be interesting for someone to research that a bit more. What was the original direction of Onlyfans company?

@connormcchicken5915

3 жыл бұрын

it got mainstream because of adult material, else it wouldn't be as popular as it is now (with the negative conotation)

Amazing to see a lady talking about morals and values in this modern world

@sarcodonblue2876

2 жыл бұрын

When a woman does she is laughed at and called a prude. She is then "shamming" other women when infact she doesn't want females to have complex PTSD.

Courtney Ryan is one of those people who makes me think of quitting porn. And I'm not simping but seeing that there are sensible and intelligent women like her out there makes me want to level up and better myself. I've already been very successful with reducing my porn intake gradually over the weeks and I plan on quitting it completely without regrets.

As young girl who still has to grow and live, im really thankful for your videos. Your honesty and how you present yourself. Thank you😊

Man this video made my day. It inspired me to develop myself into a better person. I’m really happy I found this channel.

You nailed it Courtney. You're a light in this broken generation. Love your values and morals in life. Please continue to be a light in this world. You're one of the best youtubers for me.

I don't give you money, but because of your channel my wallet is a lot lighter. I'm buying healthier foods and have lost 20 lbs so far, bought my first pair of dark blue jeans and all white leather sneakers and an Orient Kamasu. Lol, I'm making changes thanks to you. I maybe a little bit older now, but it's never too late. Thanks!

@sri-6374

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy for you, this comment is wholesome haha, I wish you for the best in the future!!

I am not able to keep with the pace of this channel. A video every day... It will become an encyclopedia of dating. Great job!

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Haha new videos every Wednesday-Sunday! Thanks for being here! ❤️

You have such wisdom. Every video of yours is truly enlightening and makes me feel smarter. Appreciate you!

Someone missed the opportunity to name a store "Onlyfans" that sells nothing but fans😂

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

😂👏🏼

@TechOutAdam

3 жыл бұрын

Pfffftttttttttt lol!

@vince-1337

3 жыл бұрын

Onlyfap

@anthonystike6034

3 жыл бұрын

This comment is the winner. 🤣🤣🤣😁

@stevew4079

3 жыл бұрын

If you’re ever down under I’ll buy you a beer for that comment 🤣

Man there's so much to unpack here. I never understood why dudes outright attack these chicks, like it's pathetic dudes fueling this stuff. However I don't feel bad for the girls when they can't find a decent man or anything, as they chose to do this for the easy money, and that's one of the major down sides to it. Every action has a consequence and I think that idea has really been lost, everyone wants to pick and choose and that isn't reality.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

For sure. No need to attack anyone, just don’t give them your money! 😂

@brotendo

3 жыл бұрын

There's not a lot to unpack lmao. This is stupidly simple. Also, prostitution has been around since biblical times. Some women just can't do anything else.

@itstriplem2069

3 жыл бұрын

@@brotendo proverbs does tell us to avoid these types of women though. I honestly think everyone should read proverbs, I think we'd all learn, even if you're not a Christian

@raphaelvsauvage5136

3 жыл бұрын

@@itstriplem2069 but Jesus also defended the harlot

@brotendo

3 жыл бұрын

@@itstriplem2069 Nah

Courtney is a high value woman

@BridgeOps

2 жыл бұрын

Based on what?

@katemiller7874

2 жыл бұрын

Troy- look at her, listen to how she speaks. Her warmth, her kindness. Are you serious.

@BridgeOps

2 жыл бұрын

@@katemiller7874 Not sure what it is you're implying. I made no reference either way. Besides, I asked Nathan. What you've listed doesn't go beyond the shallow end of a pool. Wade out a bit, and you very well may be in over your head!

@BridgeOps

2 жыл бұрын

No, I don't know her.. I'm just making a general point.

Being honest, I was not familiar with ‘OF’ until this video. I can not understand for the life of me why men would spend hard earned money on this. Courtney is correct - take the money you would have spent and put it toward a gym membership, a personal stylist, and a life coach. You will be soooo much further along and happier for it!

@coolkidd723

3 жыл бұрын

Instant gratification. Men see beautiful women and say "I can get her to talk to me without putting in any work? Without the fear of rejection? Without leaving my comfort zone? Sign me up!" (literally). I agree hard earned money can be spent on things that will better yourself, but I definetly see why only fans is a thing.

Courtney thank you for all you do. You truly care and I appreciate that

A respectful and nuanced perspective on a delicate and borderline salacious topic. Good stuff 👏🏽👍🏼

Great Video! The hyper-sexualization of our society is going to be a downfall.

These girls don’t realize that the internet is FOREVER! And the internet ALWAYS wins 🤦🏾‍♂️

Dam you’re growing quick! It’s like every few days I come by and see your subs jump by leaps! Keep up the good work Courtney !

I'm so glad you did this video. I just saw a talented KZreadr I like has links to an onlyfans account. It makes me sad. It seems like an act of hopelessness or desperation and I don't see how this won't hurt her.

Im not mad at girls doing onlyfans, im mad that guys are so demasculinated and so low on confidence that they resort to, and get into debt over the likes of onlyfans. Its very concerning

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@truealpha7258

3 жыл бұрын

@Nadeem Khan so tell me about your experience about fapping in onlyfans and how much money you lost. cmon tell me your story

@deadcell4837

3 жыл бұрын

@Nadeem Khan every man can get a woman. They need to stop fapping to onlyfans, learn how to raise their confidence and get some self esteem. Onlyfans is just a quick, easy, lazy fix.

@EyobFitwi

3 жыл бұрын

@@deadcell4837 Saying 'Every man can get a woman' is not helpful. Really presumptive and shows inability to parse complex issues. You're just using a shaming language just as those who say 'you ain't a man if you don't get a woman' and ignoring other issues they need to deal with that may or may not have anything to do with the ability to approach women. Even for the men that do have problems approaching, they just need a little support and guidance and it doesn't mean that they'll resort to OF. If you're not gonna help them properly with it than avoid addressing them. You'll do more damage than any good.

@deadcell4837

3 жыл бұрын

@@EyobFitwi or perhaps im making men realise that they can get women with a little effort and willingness to learn and self improve? Its what we need sometimes, the boot up the arse, the realisation, the reality check. Resorting to OF is nothing more than a quick fix that then leads to addiction. The issue is nowdays men have no strong males in their lives to look up to and learn from.

I have you and Roommates to thank for opening my eyes to issues I have as a man. I have many self esteem issues. And I had just stopped paying a dime to OF a couple of weeks ago. God bless.

What a fantastic video, Courtney. I completely agree with your assessment of the misrepresentation that takes place, with Only Fans depicting a glamours life and not the true inner works. I think that fact that many of the girls/women do not realize that an Only Fans job is temporary and not career and that it will have a negative impact in the corporate professional world.

This video was so much fun to watch. Had a laugh along the way. Courtney your words are both respectful and direct. Thank you. Side note the red power coat is a nice touch 🙂

Hey @Courtney Ryan. I absolutely love your channel, and your morals and values are extremely refreshing. One very important point that girls don't realise is once you've done Onlyfans, ( which is if we are honest is sex work ) there will come a time in the future where you will meet someone and you will have to choose to tell the truth or lie about your history as a sex worker. The cold hard fact is the majority of men, especially high value men which all women seem to want today, will not see this history as a long term option. What's so annoying is when you say this to a women, they will call you a misogynist or a pig. Almost all women wouldn't date a male stripper or someone they had to share, yet when it comes to only fans its apparently different. I would love if you would do a short to the point video of the downfalls of women doing Only fans and Instagram. I've ended several great relationships because the girls lied about what they were doing / who they were talking to, and I believe its a epidemic. These girls are putting down men saying there are no good men in the world, yet they are manipulating men for money and that's empowering and men have the problem. I think you could change a lot of girls minds and save a lot of people the heartache of the future when they find it hard to get a partner. Would love your thoughts. Keep up the amazing content :)

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

This is a very good point. Thanks for sharing your insight! 🥰

@deltaflux2381

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, the point you are making about the misogyny is definitely correct. If any remark is made about someone for doing OnlyFans, they get all offensive and call this person a bigot and misogynistic, because they "own" their body and "you cannot tell me what to do with my own body".

I was talking with one girl for several months but recently broke it off. The whole time she was kind and sweet and then one video call, she brought up the idea of making an onlyfans right in front of my face. I kindly told her, "Please don't." And her response was, "If you tell me not to do it, that's only going to make me want to do it more." 😐 After that point, I knew it was time to eject. Big red flag.

I love how you're objective to all points of view. Total respect to you for that.

I know this is one of your older videos, but I'm a new subscriber making my way through your content, and I wanted to tell you that this is probably the most caring video I've ever seen.

Excellent video! So wise at such a young age, keep it up!

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! ❤️

It's interesting being a critical thinker and being able to see both sides of the coin. I'm able to do that and people find it interesting and able to talk to me openly knowing I won't judge.

@Macheako

3 жыл бұрын

Why is "not judging" a good thing? You ever notice how it's incredibly......arbitrary for what we apply it to? We judge people who act out in hate.......but we don't judge women who use their bodies to make money? ok......uhmmmmmmmmm..... Can you explain that one please? 😂 Lemme guess, "Hate is bad, mmmmkay" and "Women profiting off their bodies is good"......right? 😂 😂

Respect for this video.! Keep keeping it honest. V refreshing. I'm married so don't really need the advice but enjoy the content.

Give courtney a million subscribers. Discovered this channel a week ago and I'm loving the content

As a dad, thank you for a video for my son and daughters to watch now that they are adults and have to made decisions about thus stuff. As a man in monk mode (No dating until the divorce is paid off) thanks for the reminder that stuff can be addictive and counterproductive to my goals.

Courtney, You are the Girlfriend every Man needs and the Friend every Woman should have. I admire Your Morals and Honesty. Wish You the best always. Love Your content. Follow You from Tijuana

I absolutely loved this video !!! Every thing you mentioned was perfect !

Great video. I agree that another part that is overlooked is how this behavior can effect future relationships, future job prospects, and your children. The internet never forgets. How you portray yourself effects the quality of men you will attract - and this can be detrimental if you want to eventually get married.

When you said "Butt Cheeks" burst out laughing 😅. Such a great video Courtney very enlightening. I appreciate everything you do in your channel. It's very clear you spend so much time and energy.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Haha glad it made you laugh! Thanks for being here 🥰

Courtney I love your channel. You tell the truth and I love it.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰

Courtney nice clip, very much needed nowadays

This was an Amazing video. You seemed fearless, confident, and honest. So proud of you for the great content you always put out with such a high level of excellence. Do not stop speaking your raw truth. Let the hate bounce off of you like bullets off of Superman. Great job.

Heyyy got a video idea! Would love to have an insight on what is your take on tattoos, them surrounding job opportunities and your general perspective on them. I love them and plan to get alot of them done regardless but im genuinely interested on knowing what the greater picture is. Much love from Honduras keep up the great videos🇭🇳!

onlyfans is short term while the consequences and digital footprint is forever

@mollynavarro4101

3 жыл бұрын

Omgosh! Yes, I agree! And that’s the scary part!

Hey Courtney. Just discovered your channel. Great content. And the way you carry yourself is exactly what men want. Keep up the great work.

Great explanation. People should find their true worth and purpose. Because believe or not, all of the decisions you make will dictate the quality of lifestyle you’ll have. This goes for the onlyfans modes and the consumer.

Everything has a consequence even if it pays. I like to earn my money with hard work and respect.

Take a shot every time Courtney says "butt cheeks." 😁

@dylanjordan31

3 жыл бұрын

“Wasted”

Great video, one of your best so far. Thank you, Courtney :)

thank you so much for this message. you are a great role model for people to follow.

So i broke up with this girl i was dating for 3 months and she revealed to me that she had started an Onlyfans web page, i never looked at it and wish her the best because i feel this is a slippery slope for her, I think she's taking the easy way out instead of getting a real job, it's a real shame in my opinion because she is a very intelligent woman

@CaptainPunchBoxing

3 жыл бұрын

You don't have to break up with her. Just don't marry her. Unless you're looking for a wife.

@controlledchaos2496

3 жыл бұрын

@@CaptainPunchBoxing yes he should dude that’s embarrassing

@CaptainPunchBoxing

3 жыл бұрын

@@controlledchaos2496 I'd put her in my rotation cause at least she was honest

@mkwhole

Жыл бұрын

Same thing just happened to me.

When I was younger, I used to go to the strip club frequently and it took me a while to turn my life around. I realized that I was spending too much money for lap dances, and some women who work at the strip club would talk alot of crap about you behind your back. Yes I was lonely, came back from Afghanistan, had a divorce because my ex wife cheated while I was away, and I was immature and stupid too, but theres always light at the end of the tunnel if you work hard to get there. I never been on onlyfans but from what I heard, it is a virtual strip club. I love the life I have now. I will get my BS in public health this year, Im engaged to an amazing woman, I invested alot on myself and it payed off. All Im saying is that if I can do it, so can anyone. Its not easy but trust me, life is much better on this side!

Money and also attention can be addictive. And generally, if you're going to be successful and survive as a sexworker you probably need to be a really really tough person, and I mean stone cold!

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

That’s a good point!

I appreciate you a lot Courtney. You have helped me realize the scope of possibilities there are for a man who is willing to put in the effort, which I am! You speak about topics like lonely young men and Onlyfans which I believe is amazing and a true issue ongoing on in the USA. You are very helpful to single guys like me who are looking for a meaningful relationship in this new dating age. Thanks again 😃😃

Thanks for sharing your opinions, especially because you try to look at both sides of the argument. Also, really like what you said about how people could take their money and invest it instead of blowing it all on more stuff. All great advice!

I have never had OnlyFans and TikTok and I know that they both add no value at all

@yusufbey1587

3 жыл бұрын

Tik Tok believe it or not can be very helpful I learned a few things on there 😂

A bunch of men care about women's struggles, but there are very few women caring about men's struggles, one of which being is that the only possible way for us to potentially get a GF is OnlyFans. Heck, some of them probably think we guys have no struggles what-so-ever. If we had more women who are willing to learn about men's struggles, such as Courtney, we could fix this BS.

@Macheako

3 жыл бұрын

nah dude......people know we struggle....... they just *do not care* 😂

@traelee684

3 жыл бұрын

@@Macheako For some people that is also the case. Bottom line is, non of men's struggles are being addressed or solved.

@itstriplem2069

3 жыл бұрын

@@Macheako thats also true

@Macheako

3 жыл бұрын

@@traelee684 "Bottom Line".....exactly bro......there's a bottom line to all this.... And these people who wanna "play stupid" about mens' issues are only gonna sink things down even further 😂

@snowy_sparkly9397

2 жыл бұрын

@Jeremy Dionisio but its not all women and men. Like some females or males are just pure cheaters no matter what as they are never satisfied with just committing to one person

You know this is why I love this channel while we're struggling dating. I feel like if your going through situation while talking to woman or trying get a girl and your not aware about her. This channel really help out ☺

I’m so happy I left this behind me. I used to consume it, now I left it alone. Fellas, a little advice from another guy, there’s so much more healthier outlets online. Find an interest, a hobby and a passion and pursue those as well as seek that healthy and wholesome relationship. Trust me you’ll thank yourself for it. Thank you Courtney for bringing this to light.

Temptation is a powerful weakness.

'Resorting to name calling shows you are defensive and therefore find my opinion valid' Favourite Spock line

Courtney you're so kind, thank you

I am in sync with your views Courtney. Great analysis! On another note, this is a very UNIQUE video from you, in my opinion, since I subscribed to you. I've not seen you defending both sides of a topic this much before.

Yesterday I spent £14 to surprise a friend with a birthday cake... that is how you spend your money wisely!

I know an ex-stripper. She made good money in London.Really good money. Enough to buy a house and a couple of flats (apartments). She has a property portfolio and now works as an accountant, she paid for her own training. She said she wouldn't do OnlyFans because she didn't want to be identified doing that kind of work. Six years as a stripper worked for her.

@maxlandsborough4138

3 жыл бұрын

But youve got to question how much lasting damage that would do to you as a person. Listening to people who are out of these industries, the money comes at a big personal price.

@JoskaTheTrend

3 жыл бұрын

@@maxlandsborough4138 he means onlyfans leaves evidence

@thomasedwardpatrickbradyjr

3 жыл бұрын

She is the exception, not the rule.

@maxlandsborough4138

3 жыл бұрын

@@JoskaTheTrend i understand the point hes making, but what im saying is 6 years of stripping doesnt really leave you. It may not be on the internent like OFs, but that money always comes at a cost.

@JoskaTheTrend

3 жыл бұрын

@@maxlandsborough4138 true, got it.

Wow. Courtney, you have quite the following on YT now. I remember just like it was yesterday that I was watching your skin care regimen in the early days. Good job. Shout out Teddy too.

Excellent video Courtney. Great insight and observations. Also good to hear and see (with some attitude haha) you don’t let the nay sayers get you down. Keep it up, “the best is yet to come”.

"Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed" Friedrich Nietzsche

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

True!

From one guys point of view: This will sound crude but I don’t really understand the guys paying so much for some lingerie pic or whatever. They could have paid for service from a sex worker, saved the rest, and been done with it. Not my cup of tea, but if you’re going to spend a fortune virtually, it’s what comes to my mind.

@old_school_egyptian2903

3 жыл бұрын

Humiliation fetish

@GEORGIOARCADE

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, i can understand if a guy ia curious about only fans or porn in general but he shouldn't be spending all his resources on it when there's plenty of free porn out there and he should be using his money to actually improve his life.

@deadcell4837

3 жыл бұрын

Guys are too shy nowdays. Porn, internet and masturbation has demasculinated the male population.

@ICavalcadeI

3 жыл бұрын

Whoa, from what I've seen, guys can't be paying more than like 20 bucks for OF. What sex worker is that cheap? lmaoooooo

@stevew4079

3 жыл бұрын

@@ICavalcadeI oh I was going on the quotes from this vid

I understand both sides too though I haven't used OnlyFans, I have spend money on other sites, especially when I was younger. Thank you for the perspective and the encouragement. It is hardest to make decisions that change ourselves for the better because that change is usually hard or we would have done it already :)

Big thumbs up to this classy woman , it is definitely worth it

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼

I asked a friend if they think it is modern day prostitution… they said no. It definitely is in my opinion

Thank you so much for your time you spend on making these videos. There is always some good advice to pick up. I don’t mind having better interaction with women even if I am not looking for a new relationship.

Dear Christian Ryan... I really enjoy your boldness and straightforward honesty to ALERT YOUNG WOMEN to depart the ONLY-FANS- FANTASY... And to start saving and investing their money... This is a great video... Two Big Thumbs-Up... Always in Great Taste... CHEERS.... Courtney is so cool.... Please continue your videos...

Definitly a platform that revolves around made up superficial and worse, paid, relationships between content creators and their clients. Unhealthy and sad. OnlyFans is not limited to spicy content but it certainly affects its reputation.

The alternative is to invest long-term in the stock market.

I respect this video so much, thank you for your content

I just subscribed to your Channel because I want to support you Channel but I also want to thank you personally because watching your Channel it's making me be a better man and a lot of ways and you're right about a lot of things so thank you for sharing all this information you are great

Courtney, Please don’t sugar coat this garbage. It’s “bad” whichever way you swing it. Any rational and level-headed person would agree.

@americancapitalist9094

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. She’s trying not to be judgmental. But at some point you have to draw the line. Society has pushed acceptance no matter what for the last decade and look where we’re at right now. Nothing good comes from the Porn industry. And that absolutely includes OnlyFans.

@98DEB

3 жыл бұрын

@@americancapitalist9094 Yeah, she needs to stand her ground. I don’t really think she feels the way she says she does about these people and what they do. She probably wants to appease KZread and the ones who would cancel her if she came down with an iron first. These individuals need to be “judged.” They should be ashamed of themselves for doing what they do. It’s unacceptable and I refuse to normalize abhorrent behavior.

@utuberme1

3 жыл бұрын

Preach!

@muslimmetalman

2 жыл бұрын

@@americancapitalist9094 you cannot be a genuine capitalist and be opposed to prostitution.

@ichiban6004

Жыл бұрын

100% we are in this weird state where we aren't allowed to shame this sort of thing. It SHOULD be shamed it SHOULD be judged. You don't want this sort of sh*t in society. If I wouldn't want my daughter, cousin, wife doing this than why would I act like it's ok it's hypocritical

Keep buying and investing in stocks or crypto & in the end you will enjoy your rewards. People are always scared of investing because of high rate of scam in crypto trading, there are much scammers but real brokers are out there for investors

@alonzovancleve7717

3 жыл бұрын

The market is getting really interesting lately, and how do I go about this? since I heard it comes with losses just like what is happening now with me, although I'm optimistic about the next step

@rickkurt2772

3 жыл бұрын

@Derrick Fujita At most crypto will simply co-exist with fiat. It won't be the main source of currency.

@josearruda1296

3 жыл бұрын

Been working with Tracy since early this year started as a total novice but her expertise in mentoring has now led me to make investments with full confidence, invested another $125k last week.

@michealharrison2288

3 жыл бұрын

@@josearruda1296 I've seen different recommendations about Tracy Britt, she must be very exceptional for people to talk about her

Even we have different point of view about this topic, I really appreciated your analysis

Thank you for looking out for us!

I would advise people to avoid this. Time is the most valuable thing we have, and there are better ways to use it.

@mortizmortiz

3 жыл бұрын

what if you want seggs?