You are already ahead of most of America by simply: --- being in shape ---

@rincewindtwoflower3989

3 жыл бұрын

*wheezing intensifies*

@johnmcmillian8842

3 жыл бұрын

Youre ahead of most of America by just not being fat. In shape is a bonus.

@Quadergee

3 жыл бұрын

@@johnmcmillian8842 mhmm

@markbobich6335

3 жыл бұрын

So true! I have gained about 8 pounds during COVID. My pre-COVID job was an extremely active one where exercise was part of the work. So, I didn't have to "formally" work out as much. Anyway, I'm getting back to form. But my point is, that even at 8 pounds above my "fightin' weight", I STILL look better than over 90% of American men my age. My intention is not to brag, it's to make a point. The US has a serious epidemic and it's not so much about exercise really. The problem is more due to diet and nutrition. I know people that work out HARD and are still chubby. EAT.MORE.PLANTS!!! The unrefined and unprocessed (or minimally processed) kind. It's that simple.

@dard4642

3 жыл бұрын

This goes beyond physical attraction. There were other very attractive traits that you develop and exude while getting in and staying in shape.

The one who cares the least runs the relationship. get with the girl that adores you the most. Not the one you breakin your neck for.

@GEORGIOARCADE

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree because a guy should always be the one who is the leader in the relationship; and his girl should be constantly trying to keep his attention because he is on his purpose in life. The second a woman starts leading the relationship; it will end eventually.

@stepkickking9868

3 жыл бұрын

Have you been watching Cole Hastings? I saw that quote in one of his videos.

@williamthach7

3 жыл бұрын

I literally just watched one of your videos this morning. Ngl I laughed a lot. Good memes.

@dontreadmyname4396

3 жыл бұрын

i'd rather be alone that being with someone i don't desire.. whats the point then lol

@JetWarrior

3 жыл бұрын

I disagree, and I believe that that's an unhealthy way of looking at a relationship with someone you like or love. I've been independent long enough to be used to being single. If I'm in a relationship, it's because I want to be. And yeah, I'mma care about the health of the relationship and the happiness of my partner. But I'll be sure that I'm still getting what I want out of the relationship too. If I don't care enough about either my partner's happiness or my own, then I don't really need to be in a relationship. Reducing a relationship down to simply power dynamics is very naive. If one person or the other guides the relationship, that's fine, but when both people in a relationship are healthy adults with realistic expectations, you both come into it trying hard to make it work. In that case, both of y'all care.

My father always said, "just remember, no matter how good she looks like, someone out there is tired of her $hit, so, pay good attention at what you want and how she is"

@peaceandlove4234

Жыл бұрын

Lmao 🤣 so true.

@captain_yuri

Жыл бұрын

Seems like your father underwent a lot of shit

@bbernardino21

Жыл бұрын

Pearls of wisdom 😎

@jpowell2603

Жыл бұрын

Your dads a wiseman I like that advice 👌

@jasonlawson8980

Жыл бұрын

My saying was always "show me the hottest, sexiest woman in the world...and I'll show you a guy that's tired of that p*ssy and is cheating on her" but...I know what your dad was saying too 😂

"If they don't like you, why do you want them to like you anyway". Words of wisdom.

@ispeakmandarin

Жыл бұрын

Right, high value men have many better choices

@epsteinsnecktie8690

9 ай бұрын

Reminded me of Ace and Ginger from the movie Casino.

@kingkrimson8771

2 ай бұрын

As a wise man (George Costanza) once said, "she hates me so much - it's irresistible".

1.good shaped body 2.nicely maintained facial hair 5 oclock shadow and stubble with jawline 3.dressing well 4.nice hair style 5.look tall 6. Good grooming habbits

@ultimobw

3 жыл бұрын

And if you don't talk to women you will still be single af

@bigNo13

3 жыл бұрын

"Look tall" can be as easy as well fitted clothing and confidence "Good shape" doesn't have to be muscular just fit/healthy energies and active.

@franciscogomez2565

3 жыл бұрын

The real #1 is unshakable confidence

@elciegodelcuervo

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@alexflips393

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

Self improvement(gym, work, socializing)= MASSIVE CONFIDENCE

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! 👏🏼

@AmirChemE

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO the amount of work men need to do just to a get a chance with women in dating. Sad world we're living in.

@connormcchicken5915

3 жыл бұрын

@@AmirChemE unbelievably sad but they say dont hate the player, hate the game

@fischersfritz468

3 жыл бұрын

No. Results in any form would give confidence. Self improvement in itself does not

@makattak88

3 жыл бұрын

Also hobbies!! If your only hobby is the gym you’re lacking. Get into sports, group activities or outdoors.

5/6 isn’t bad for me. I’m 5’ 6” and have a lot of experience in the past decades. I’m in my 40s, single dad, and I’m still doing fine. I’ve always stayed in shape and take care of my appearance. For all you shorter guys like me, it’s exactly what Courtney says, it’s about your confidence only. All but two of my ladies of the past were taller than me. I like taller women, what can I say? I just don’t see myself as a short person, and if you don’t see yourself this way, then neither will women. It’s really is that simple. Walk talk, be confident.

@joqiii3

7 ай бұрын

I am same height as you. My wife has passed so I am on the market again, and the first girl I went out with was taller, it doesn’t bother me at all. I think I will do the five o’clock shadow thing though.

@FreedomFox1

5 ай бұрын

I’m 5’ 8” and have dated several women taller than me. They were actually very insecure about being “too tall,” if you can believe it. Having said that, I struggled with women until I put on a decent amount of muscle mass. More than anything, women want a man who looks and acts masculine.

@thecapone45

3 ай бұрын

This helped a lot. Thank you.

I’m 64 and enjoy doing the same activities I did when I was 19. Skiing , golfing ,hiking, biking.etc…I find it funny looking back what a scrawny looking kid I was back then. I see today’s youth out of shape drinking too much coffee , eating junk , wearing odd clothes . That was my generation too , were not so much different. Keep active and exercise doing something you enjoy . I remember good looking people losing their looks and health due to bad lifestyle choices.

In my case, hitting the gym, or track or just being active also improved my state of mind. This makes me more confident where I don't have to try and overdo it. If a girl shows no interest, I move on.

@robbillington1982

2 жыл бұрын

Looks fade, most folks need a sense of humour!

@robbillington1982

2 жыл бұрын

If it took the gym to alter your mind then you’re already as weak as piss

@juanalbertovasquez1817

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely...and better sleep.

@ariesscar443

Жыл бұрын

I USED to be confident from workout out year.. last couple years females dont care, i dont even get looked at anymore n im constantly rejected by females. My confidence has all dwindled away.. i can’t get a female to save my life it seems. This world has turned to trash and girls minds are all mush now.. 😢

@quietcorner293

Жыл бұрын

@@ariesscar443 Keep hitting the gym for yourself!

Being fit transcends mere physical attraction. Somebody dropped this gem on me many years ago: Observe how well or how poorly someone takes care of themselves and their own life -- that is the very best you expect them to extend to you over any appreciable stretch of time.

@pippo1785

2 жыл бұрын

Nice 👌🏼👌🏼

@MrOldclunker

Ай бұрын

I hope your avatar is not the example of being fit. LOL

These are not just to attract women but to become a better person in general. Go Courtney!

Very long story short, my dear sweet wife passed going on 3 years ago, 2 Saturday's ago a mutual female friend of ours came up to me and said I had been on her heart for quite a while and that she had always been quite fond of me as well as my sweet wife. Last Saturday I invited her to have a coffee at a bakery w me and it was from the moment I picked her up in my car to the moment I dropped her back off the best time I have ever had w a woman. I told I very enjoyed our time together and she invited me to 3 different upcoming events. I don't know where this will go, but it's off to a incredible start. I've known this person for about 30 years and I already know I've fallen for her but will wait and see how things develop Lord willing. Thank you for all your advice. I followed it as best I could . We she is wonderful and everything I had prayed for in a friend and hopefully way more.

@thecapone45

3 ай бұрын

How did it turn out?

@larryhamblin9947

2 күн бұрын

Sweet story. Hope it pans out for you.

1:36 good shaped body 4:06 nicely maintained facial hair 5 o'clock shadow and stubble with jawline 5:01 dressing well 7:27 nice hair style 9:00 look tall 10:36 Good grooming habits

@vanthadoun1

Жыл бұрын

So you are saying personality and sense of humor have nothing to do with it? (LOL) the 2 most common things that women say on a dating profile are all lies

@sanperchannel9560

Жыл бұрын

Look tall? Lol your tall or your not

@sanperchannel9560

Жыл бұрын

@@ashifarman4813 so men wearing high heela basically lol as if they havent made men feminine enough now a days🤦‍♂️

@sanperchannel9560

Жыл бұрын

@@ashifarman4813 idgaf if your not interested its a fact men are being turned into sissys more and more every day by our sick society and its for a very sinister purpose … when shit hits the fan yall will be begging us to bring back our toxic masculinity 💯

@snxwyyy5412

Жыл бұрын

@@vanthadoun1 the vid is abt physical traits not personality

Yes. Most men love women who smells nice, gentle & feminine. As most women loves masculine,well groomed & maintaining good hygiene men.

@JLchevz

3 жыл бұрын

It's mostly about being healthy and taking care of ourselves (men and women) and that's attractive of course

@powerhouse884

2 жыл бұрын

@@JLchevz Yes people Please do not repeat your socks 🧦 and Underwear. Change them after every use!! Even if only a few hours before taking a bath.

@matikaevur6299

2 жыл бұрын

What about man who is covered with mud and blood .. but has freshly slain deer in tow? Proving he also can provide and protect. Oh, well. Never mind .. That was important thousands of years ago ..

@powerhouse884

2 жыл бұрын

@@matikaevur6299 Deodorant and Shampoo did not existed years ago as well…. Not sure what point you were trying to make.

@lewstherintelamon1377

Жыл бұрын

​@@matikaevur6299 Depending on what part of the U. S. you're in, she might see you as a keeper.

I love how you lay out the realities of human attractiveness in such a nice and polite way.

As a fisherman I usually don’t take advice from fish but I appreciated the honesty here.

I asked Tim Gunn once how you know what clothing is in style. His response: “Whatever you walk out of the house feeling the most comfortable in and feeling the most like YOU… that’s what’s in style.” Authenticity always wins ✊

@bobbadman1551

2 жыл бұрын

horrible advice but sounds great👍

@gregorcollins

2 жыл бұрын

@@bobbadman1551 said the guy walking out of the house in a forced-feeling gucci suit

@bobbadman1551

2 жыл бұрын

@@gregorcollins If I would dress how it felt most “like me” i would go on dates in sweatpants and flip flops. Thanks for your advice bro!

@gregorcollins

2 жыл бұрын

@@bobbadman1551 point being, you would be the best version of yourself, and that would come across :)

@robbillington1982

2 жыл бұрын

Like a bin bag?

"Your personality doesn't matter if the door isn't open." - Living A Life Of Abundance

@luhrare

3 жыл бұрын

NoCap

@yankee2666

3 жыл бұрын

"Living A Life Of Abundance" ...Such a sickening verused cliche.

@7860092

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao hard truth

@lalalabababa6775

2 жыл бұрын

Wise words bro... you are 100% right... 0 attachement...

@ReallyThatGuy8

2 жыл бұрын

@@yankee2666 sounds like someone not abundant

She’s sweet and honestly it’s a nice channel to follow. I wish youngsters watched more such advice

@Remshmuck

2 ай бұрын

And always has very tasteful cleavage. Enough to get our attention not too much so that we lose attention to the message 😅

I'm new to your channel and i already like your videos I'm not quite sure why but when i see them, it gives me vibes that you are sincere and honest, you truly want to help guys. The way you talk contributes to the kindness you show in your videos. Thanks for this kind of content. I was one of those persons that gave everything from himself and receive nothing but insults and that i'm not enough.😀😃

Great calm voice, Courtney. I’m a truck driver. I’ll stack a list of videos to last a few hours and just listen with the screen off. I’m too old for your advice to matter much lol. Your voice is like a calming salve for my soul in traffic. Thanks,

@TheBlackManMythLegend

3 жыл бұрын

this is unexpected but that's how to get product market fit .. launch something and see what stick lol

@punisher20g58

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t fall asleep on the road lol

@Hazmatt3446

3 жыл бұрын

@@punisher20g58 THAT’S funny! LOL.

@lesjones471

3 жыл бұрын

age does not matter, try star signs are worth taking a look at before taking on a new relarionship.

@robertmalatesta4545

2 жыл бұрын

You sound like a good, humble guy! You may just have an awesome adventure left with a lady who recognizes your virtues!

It’s all in the eyes, chico. The eyes never lie.

@calebray4168

3 жыл бұрын

Goddangit I love it. Me and my boss always quote that movie.

@sigmaballs93

3 жыл бұрын

"The eyes chico...they never lie!"* *

@calebray4168

3 жыл бұрын

@@sigmaballs93 ay man, don be goin fuggin cracy on me OK? That’s the bosses lady

@calebray4168

3 жыл бұрын

@Hubert Harmon lol in that case, if there’s anything in that eye🤢

@dejabu24

3 жыл бұрын

I prefer his quote about women

I can agree with this. Being in shape is not just physical, but it def promotes a more positive self image and confidence. Who doesn’t appreciate confidence lol.

I really like your approach in these videos. Lots of helpful advice that I can tell comes from personal experience and careful consideration, but at the same time delivered in a way that doesn’t make people feel bad or that that they have no choice but to live a certain way to be attractive. Keep up the great job!

Looks do matter. Humans on a baseline psychological level are judgmental. We assess risks, threats, distance and even potential mates based off of perceptive judgment. A man's overall health is a priority if you're wanting to market yourself to a quality friendship. 🙂

@JamesNalacar

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I believe it's high time people start to accept that humans are just "wired" in the way that they perceive some aspects and features to be beautiful and some to be undesirable. It's just human nature to like one aspect and dislike another and people need to understand that. Looks do indeed matter.

@navaneeth_us

3 жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree more on this.

@zombieslayer7759

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I learned in AP Psychology when I was in high school a while back that literally ALL people are judgemental by nature and that's just how it is.

@slundgr

3 жыл бұрын

My health is my responsibility, and I owe it to myself to keep myself in shape, exercise and eat halfway decently. That I might be attractive to someone else because I am in shape is a side benefit. As I tell my sons, if you take care of your body, it will take care of you. Treat your body as a temple and respect it.

@JamesNalacar

3 жыл бұрын

@@slundgr I fully agree sir

"I won't date you unless you're 6'5"." That is such a ridiculous standard. Those women will be sorely disappointed as that's less than 2% of the male population!

@hasselett

3 жыл бұрын

I mean, I sort of understand why women want their men to be a little taller, but requiring your date to be above 6'0" is fucking ridiculous, let alone 6'5"! 😂 That is SO dumb! Notice how guys never have these preferences for women. All we want is for our girlfriends to take care of themselves and stay in shape. Having a good face obviously helps, but as far as physical attraction goes, our requirements are usually within any woman's reach. Women have standards that 80% of men LITERALLY can't compete with.

@123isperfect6

3 жыл бұрын

They don't always end up with very tall people, it's become an excuse or soft rejection path for women.

@jasongarman

3 жыл бұрын

@@hasselett ehh, the large majority of women don’t have strict height requirements. The ones who say this kind of thing are usually super hot Instagram model types. They can get away with drastically narrowing their dating pool like that because they’re so sought after in general.

@NutritionIan

3 жыл бұрын

Luckily most girls who aren’t very tall themselves are horrible at guessing people’s heights, so if your like 5’9 and above they just assume your about 6 feet tall

@jaythenihilist4689

3 жыл бұрын

I'm only 5'10" and my height has never been an issue with women. I even dated a couple women who were taller than me. Not saying there aren't women out there who are obsessed with height. But from my personal experience it's not the norm.

When my girlfriend and I first met, what attracted her was my attitude,personality, sense of humor and she says I look badass. I have burn scars from the top of my head and all the way down my right side. She’s shorter than me (she’s 5 feet tall) and we are inseparable.

@Turnpost2552

Жыл бұрын

Being short has a bigger stigma then your scars frankly.

Thank you for giving your honest opinion! There’s so many videos that talk solely about personality- which I’m finding matters very little. 😅

I don't specifically believe in doing something just because women will find it sexy, don't spend Your whole life making girls happy and chasing them. Find your purpose and get busy in achieving it, girl who deserves you will come to you automatically.

@Cahluvca

3 жыл бұрын

💯💯

@nobee99

3 жыл бұрын

taking care of yourself is something you should be doing regardless of whether youre trying to get a girl or not

@heyhey9282

3 жыл бұрын

@@nobee99 So true 👏

@izzylandyt

Жыл бұрын

Girls who deserve you will come to you during your progress. If they only show up once you’ve bettered yourself all alone, then they aren’t worth keeping around.

@johncharlesworth3770

2 ай бұрын

100% My friend, this one is indicative of the air heads we men have to tolerate

Courtney is that female best friend or older sister that we all wish we had to talk about girl problems with, lol.

@BAKER22-l4u

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO..Let us know when you LEAVE FANTASY LAND

@slicksmith856

3 жыл бұрын

Ha Ha

@Mogamishu

3 жыл бұрын

How many times a day do you get down on your knees to kiss her feet? How often do you put women on a pedestal?

@Damone7653

3 жыл бұрын

@@MogamishuI did her on the kitchen table, haven't tried the pedestal... hopefully tonight!

@Damone7653

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mogamishu I finally did her on the pedestal, it was great...tomorrow night the banister.

When I was a teenager, I took tetracycline for acne. Unfortunately, my dermatologist didn't tell me one of the side effects was darkening of my teeth. When I went to Brite Smile years ago to get my teeth professionally whitened, I was so disappointed they could only whiten my teeth two shades brighter.

@skippyrod2532

11 ай бұрын

Can always get some veneers.

Courtney, I really enjoy your content. I appreciate your efforts to help gents with relationships from a female perspective.

Having a healthy gut micro biome plays a big role in skin care/ quality. Thank you for this video Courtney

@jackwalker1822

2 ай бұрын

I have found this to be true

I like how you point out that physical qualities like body type and style of dress do matter and that it will attract a woman who is into that type of physical quality! Also, most of those traits, we do have some influence over.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

For sure! 👏🏼

@jimtart4271

3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@davidmfinn65

3 жыл бұрын

@@jimtart4271 Thats ok John Im sure you have other fine qualities. Its ok, youll find a woman who will love your simpeness 😁

Irresistibility 101: (1) bulging wallet; (2) large organic banana; (3) excellent physical shape; (4) tall; (5) handsome; (6) sense of humor.

@alexanderkohary1690

Жыл бұрын

I do not have any of these, what can I do except crying?

@TheWanderer28

Жыл бұрын

@@alexanderkohary1690 No problem. Actually, quiet sobbing with a little bit of tears works fine because it shows the sensitive and feminine sides of you. And get a dog. Women loves cute dogs. 😀

@alexanderkohary1690

Жыл бұрын

@@TheWanderer28 I did what you recommended. Now I am attracting sympathetic protecting and comforting MEN, damn.

@TheWanderer28

Жыл бұрын

@@alexanderkohary1690 Good start?🤣 May need to finetune your techniques. 🤣🤣🤣

@johnnyboy3357

Жыл бұрын

"Teacher, what must i do to have quality women? I've done everything that you asked me" "If you want to be perfect, go, sell all you have and give it to my sister, then you will have eternal abundance of women"

I have only seen like 2 of your videos and I loved how you say things straight and clear without fluctuating :)

Really like how you emphasize where your advice is most useful - ie, what stage of a relationship. Always makes sense and gives us new areas to work on to make ourselves feel better and that confidence does help. Thanks Courtney :)

A man who has been in the dating game since the late 90’s, the number one trait that all women universally love and can’t resist is this: Confidence

@sammybolton9580

2 жыл бұрын

Fuck yea!!

@prelude12341

2 жыл бұрын

Confident and 5ft 6in, yea!!!

@carlitobrigante330

2 жыл бұрын

Confidence; a good sense of humour; someone who can make her laugh; and ultimately, someone who can make her feel secure.

@notoriousdom1799

2 жыл бұрын

Wrong confidence doesn't matter looks & height does

@dafr1993

2 жыл бұрын

Does it really work? I mean I'm humorous, confident but haven't ever asked a women out.

I like your honesty. If you lost out in the looks department, tough luck, life isn’t fair. Trouble is, if you did miss out (like me), getting in shape doesn’t make any difference (or very little). Looks are 85%, Money 10%, Fitness 3%, charisma 1%, SOH 1%, Good Maths skills 5%.

@BWater-yq3jx

Жыл бұрын

😆

@johnkammer4754

Жыл бұрын

Or your 70yrs.old,finally gaining extra pounds,and most alarming,graying,and basically losing your hair...mostly on top,so yes,tried the hair fiber thing, and worked kinda,till you don't have enough on top for the fibers to stick to, oh well,do the old stand by,put on a sticking hat,or cool 😎 cap of some sort...da!!!oh yeah, some say just shave it all off!?!Well in my opinion, I don't want to look like a Q-ball,Not for me!!!

@GordoDustin

Жыл бұрын

Dude, looks is big, but excelling in the other areas you’ll still find someone around your level or slightly better. But if you view your looks as a 3 then just assist your expectations to the same for a woman. There’s someone out there for everyone.

@chrisfreeman4568

4 ай бұрын

I can think of two people I work with who are bald, short and don’t look good facially. Both are married to attractive women so there are other things that are important - just don’t ask me what - I’m single!

I attended the female conference earlier this year and they finally agreed that guys should focus on having more money

Indifference is the core. Even a man who has the physical traits, financial resources, confidence, looks, heighth, guaranteed women will get tired and want someone else no matter how God like the man is. Stop caring what women think.

@lesjones471

3 жыл бұрын

star signs are worth taking a look at before taking on a new relarionship.

@chasing_dragons

3 жыл бұрын

@@lesjones471 i am a virgo man and have wanted a Capricorn woman for 20 years. Never found one.

@munenengugi6700

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed g

@Getout249

2 жыл бұрын

@@lesjones471 Imagine believing this

@bgcm1995

Жыл бұрын

@@lesjones471 star signs lmaoooo

Small details that can make a huge difference: Simply change your pillow cases more often. Whatever time frame you're doing it in, just shorten it and it'll solve the majority of your facial problems.

@JstJaybeingJay

3 жыл бұрын

What benefits there is to change pillow cases very often?

@emdblues

3 жыл бұрын

@@JstJaybeingJay it gets filthy and all that bacteria goes on your face :D. The skin on your face is the most sensitive. Clean your cellphone as well, at least once per day

@nektulosnewbie

3 жыл бұрын

@@JstJaybeingJay Not burying your face in the oil that comes off of it every night.

@MethmalDhananjaya

3 жыл бұрын

I don't use a pillow, guess i have to change the whole bedsheet.

@michaelshields5776

2 жыл бұрын

Twice a week clean that shit and never get in ur bed dirty, take a shower before bedding down!

You only get one shot. Make it count. Courtney, you are an amazing person. Continue to upload these insightful videos.

I love the way Miss Courtney deliver her insights and tips for us guys. So feminine! More power to you and your channel, with admiration here in the Philippines!👍

Thank you , I like this video. I've been working on myself intensely for the past 6 months and i get stares almost everywhere i go 😭🏋🏾‍♂️, I dont really want to start seeing anyone until another 6 months because I want to finish the year focused. You and a few other coaches helped motivate me to become the 2.0 version of myself💵. Your videos are always helpful!💯

From my experience, the taller the girl is(5’10-6’) the less she cares about height and the shorter the girl is(5’ and below) are the ones who want a basketball player for a bf. The taller girls probably aren’t picky because their options are limited as far as having a taller partner.

@ineffige

2 жыл бұрын

my experience as well. I'm 5'7 and had better luck with taller chicks than smaller ones lol

@Patricia-uz2xx

2 жыл бұрын

True, I'm 5'9 and I don't care, with heels I'm taller than most guys anyway. My kids don't have to be 6'5

2 жыл бұрын

Hello! Tall girl here! (Six foot) I used to care about height. "Absolutely not, I will never go for a guy shorter than me!" As time went on though, I met guys I liked that were shorter than me (not midget, they were at least touching my head lol), and I realized I didn't care as much anymore. I wouldn't exactly say this process occured because of lack of options, because I had tall options as well. Moreso I think I learned to find it endearing. TLDR: good guys aren't worth giving up just cuz they're a little shorter than me.

@aldosigmann419

2 жыл бұрын

Agree - super tall gals don't have many options. I'm 6'-2". I met a gal once she was maybe 5'-11" or 6'-0" who was interested in me but naw she was just too gangly for me (like me!). I like 'em at 5'-7" the perfect height for me. That said if i could design myself i'd be 6'-0" bang on - it's all about proportions if u ax me...

@ineffige

2 жыл бұрын

@@aldosigmann419 dude, I would pay for that 2 inches you don't need;)

Thank you Courtney. This was priceless for us men! One of your biggest fans, Exsosus

Always impressed by her opinion and advice. You go girl. Intelligence is a Must for me in a Relationship. Thanks 🙏🙏💯👍👌

I agree with everything you say. I was in really good shape in college, and had a great time dating. Later on like so many guys, I let my body slip and starting getting a bit fat. Then a friend challenged me to get back in shape, and because I was reaching the age my dad died at, I took this challenge quite seriously. I've been quite serious about my workouts pretty much ever since, I've definitely gotten some very positive comments over the years, though honestly the main reason I stay in shape is I enjoy playing sports and I don't want to die young like my dad. Also, pretty much agree with what you said about height, although twice in my life I had very long relationships with large women, by large I don't mean fat, I mean one was on the college basketball team, and she ended up marrying a guy shorter than her, and a girl that was just big, neither of us married, but we are both still friends.

It’s always cool seeing my favorite creator do podcasts/ interviews. Hope you do more in the future after roommates?

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

I definitely will!

Courtney I always appreciate your honesty. Never stop

Its key to do all of this work for you and your own value not to attract a women. When you succeed your options increase and you can choose who you allow into that great life youve built.

100% true! To those guys who say, "Screw this dumb advice, I don't care what women notice, I do what I want." I say, thank you. That's less competition for those of us who want to win the hearts of high value women. Thanks Courtney!

@Vestergaard11

Жыл бұрын

Just for the record: you are not going for the 'hearts of high value' women, you are going to their panties... BTW - and it is my own observation - you get the most attraction as a man if you are neither seeking, nor trying to avoid attraction but instead you do what you exactly laughed at: if you are simply focusing on your own shit, like work, school, sports. And if anyone asks you if there is any fuckable chick in that activity you can simply not answer that because you don't know it.

@vanthadoun1

Жыл бұрын

From the beginning of time women have been selective when it comes to the men they want to be with. ITs about resources. Money, appearance and good genes. both men and women are shallow, men are just honest about it and women want to appear not shallow (lies they tell themselves) but yes most women will be honest with each other. I don't fault them, because if they will mate with someone they definitely want a long term investment they dont want to be stuck with a deadbeat and someone who will give them sickly children. Why do you think Elon Musk has 10 children with 8 different women? Its not his personality that these women are attracted to.

@andreasb8232

Жыл бұрын

Jason, your comment is werid man..

@pureheathen1720

Жыл бұрын

Simp

@AshwinRamdin

Жыл бұрын

​@@stevensmith4660 He needs to change his name to Simp. He will loose all of his money in the divorce.

Courtney, so thankful you're out here in YT land. I appreciate, YOU. Wish I was you, when I was younger. In any case....you have such a sweet spirit, unbiased, and just tryna help both males and females. Kindness, be your best self, etc. I'm an age-gap woman (older woman/younger man) and I'm always appreciating a guy of any age who keeps their body trim, and grooms up well. Height, a mating thing from Neanderthal man days (height, for some reason meant/means better able to produce/provide/strength/protection, etc); body parts match up sooooo nicely with a guy the same height or not much taller haha! May I add teeth whitening? "If you're not whitening, you're yellowing" was a Crest ad from the early 2000s. Such, a turn off, yet sooooo inexpensive to fix with strips, no matter straight or crooked teeth! May God bless your endeavors!

Courtney, you give excellent advice. Keep up the good work!

Love the Talk, very Logical, common sense !! Love listening to you.🌹🌹

Courtney is the perfect person to explain us things like we're 5.

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

😂 I’m sorry

@savednorwegian

3 жыл бұрын

yeah but Im as with many men are kinda sick of women explaining alot of obvious stuff to us as we are 5...

@7860092

3 жыл бұрын

Thats gud lol

@L77yma

3 жыл бұрын

I’m five but I read at a six-year-old level.

@Rhcpmusic297

3 жыл бұрын

We are a 5? 🤣

Courtney, I would LOVE a skincare routine video from you. As for this video, the facial hair tip is difficult for me because the career I am going for requires me to be clean shaven. However, I have never found that to be a big obstacle. If you guys prefer to be clean shaven, my suggestion is make sure you're in great shape and rock a military-like haircut.

First video I've watched. I'm married and not really looking ran across you randomly. But just wanted to say you're spot on and beautiful as well. Keep doing what you're doing. Wish I had these videos growing up

I have been trying to find a woman like Courtney Ryan, but she is one of a kind!

I started lifting a month ago. I’m so mad at myself for not starting 5 years ago.

@brennanpoole7960

3 жыл бұрын

All that matters is that you started king! That’s the first step. Like all things stay patient and work hard…you got this 🤝

@W93h3753mwesley

3 жыл бұрын

Wish I would have started years ago also!

@thegrindeveryday9408

3 жыл бұрын

@@brennanpoole7960 thanks brother I added 30 lbs to my squat today. I don’t know where the strength came from but my first max felt light.

@id10t98

3 жыл бұрын

If it doesnt become a lifestyle you wont stick with it.

@thegrindeveryday9408

3 жыл бұрын

@@id10t98 On my way to the gym now at 4 am

I appreciate how careful you are to not offend people, make it clear that it’s all just your own opinion. Help, but not upset anyone. It’s cool. Respectful.

I used to have a really bad posture. No matter how I tried to remind myself to stand upright, I never could do it consistently. Then I started working out and dressing better. Not only did the stretching exercises help my posture, but just being more confident about my body also made me automatically stand up straighter.

OMG, I always thought you looked familiar!!! Now I remember you were on one of Teddy's eps! I have been watching Teddy's channel for a long time, but never connected the dots! Teddy and I share a lot of common interest in watches, and I love it when he got Mr. Wonderful on, one of my fav. sharks!

The key takeaway trait from this is to PUT IN EFFORT. If you spend the extra 30 minutes a day to put a little effort into making yourself presentable, it shows that you'll not only put in effort for yourself, you're also someone who who puts in effort...generally. This is a key trait in maintaining any relationship and that goes a long way.

Thanks Courtney. Truths need to be heard, doesn't matter how hard it is to digest.

This information is still great well into the marriage too. Aftet 31 years tying the knot, being fit and keeping these principles do make a difference...

I’ve struggled finding a good skin care routine and would really like to see a video on this! Thanks!

@bgcm1995

Жыл бұрын

Have you found one yet? I actually got a solid one

@e-dizzy

Жыл бұрын

@@bgcm1995 I use jack black face wash and scrub. I also use First Aid Beauty 5 in 1 face cream (moisturizer). Do you have any other recommendations?

@bgcm1995

Жыл бұрын

@@e-dizzy yeah I'd skip the scrub. Do you have acne? I actually helped my family and some friends get some good looking skin. I have oily skin so I use peach slices salycilic face wash, then use a hydrating toner, a vitamin c serum and moisturizer. I also don't leave the house without sun screen. I'm a dude and man, I always get compliments in my skin. Let me know your skin type and your skin tone.

@rayblazejko6908

10 ай бұрын

Do not eat anything that is made in a factory Its not food Causes inflamation and skin flare ups

As a woman, I agree with this list!!! 🙌🏽 ♥️

@catrashoo

2 жыл бұрын

She missed the fat wallet though .

@orrinclerk1454

Жыл бұрын

do woman pick men baste on wot thay think there children will be dist curious

@blown8642

Жыл бұрын

@@orrinclerk1454 you high af

Thank you for not pushing the "dad bod" narrative. I've always believed that it was bullshit.

A video regarding a skin care routine for men would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for your content.

Perfect, precise and to the point explanation... Thank you for sharing this... Appreciate your efforts....

You have a body and a mind. Why not take care of it properly...?? People always talk about the emotional traits, even the spiritual traits. But they forget that in order to truly love yourself and grow confidence, your better mind and body it's a must. Oneness is harmony with yourself--in the psychological, the emotional, the physical. Thanks for being so honest and talk about this, Courtney.

I am a 40 year old male who has spent the majority of my life in sports and hanging with popular socially acquired crowds. I have always took care of myself health wise from 14 until current with clean eating and exercising. I used to be a very nice dressed, always very well groomed and styled especially when going out. All of that good jive lasted until I hit 31 or 32 then I turn the tables a bit. While still taking care of myself physically but not as religiously, I started focusing on my relationship, family and work. I quit the Abercrombie and slacks look and went to white tees and jeans, grew my beard and stash out more, stopped worrying about my hair styled as much and started getting tattoos around 34 and continue to do so while being more of a grease monkey and motorcycle enthusiasts in my spare time now and honestly, I have to say that I notice alot more females looking, talking to me and more even asking me if I'm single! Also, I do enjoy not having to worry about spending half a day on my looks anymore and more time with my family and my dogs lol! Point is in my personal experience, you don't have to be a Ken doll or male model to attract the average woman and a 10 female usually isn't the best choice for a relationship in my experience as well lol! There's so much more to life than craving attention guys and it's way too short anyways so enjoy it the best you can!!

@tommydankcinema643

3 жыл бұрын

As long as you are confident in who you are, whether fat or not, you will still attract women

@pippo1785

2 жыл бұрын

Wise words brotha 👊🏼

Thank you for actually being honest I really appreciate it

As someone who was an athlete his entire younger life. I played, hockey, baseball, basketball, football, surfed and scuba dived. I lifted weights and was strong as an ox but I never had a quote unquote chiseled body. I was 6’8” tall and 250 pounds. I was very conscious of my attire. I put in the effort and was a gentleman but was always overlooked by women.

"We all have different preferences.." - maybe about hair and eyes color, but everyone is looking for most attractive person in our environment. :)

@lesjones471

3 жыл бұрын

star signs are worth taking a look at before taking on a new relarionship.

Courtney is right about these 6 things. You should be in shape as a man not neccesarily to get a girl but so you can feel comfortable in your own skin. We always have to be on our A game as men. Because when we are, it allows us to not accept bad treatment from women. Looks definitely get you in the door but your mindset and ability to provide for the girl will keep her around. I prefer the stubble/clean cut look for myself but i try to present my best self when i do start looking for a woman. Anyways be blessed everyone ♥️

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely ❤️ thanks for being here as always, Georgio!

@GEORGIOARCADE

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan you're welcome! I do my best haha. I appreciate you being honest with us about what women really look for cuz so many would lie to us. Definitely do a mens skincare video cuz so many guys don't know about it

@johnnythekid4601

3 жыл бұрын

And if we are comfortable in our own skin being a bit overweight thats ok too right? Because if is not then you'll say you'll never attract a woman that way to which your point of " not necessarily to get a girl" is total bullshit

Hi Ms. Courtney 🌼 Thank you reminds me of James 2:8 What you describe in video is how we are to be good stewards of what God gives us, that is to love.

Thank you for your honest, helpful speaking. I never had anything like this 50 years ago. I'm 75 years old now and have been miserably lonely 98% of my life. My health is fortunartely superb, but I'm desperately trying to be with a good woman in the years I have left. You are helpful. -Can you eliminate the slight background music in your videos? Your words and voice are important. My hearing is good, but the background music is still a hindrance.

An important thing to keep in mind about the whitening toothpaste is that it can be very harmful for your teeth. A lot of those toothpastes use abrasives to polish your teeth up, but in turn they remove a small layer of enamel, which is going to be very bad in the long run. They make your teeth look white, but over time your enamel will be scraped away, leaving you with yellow teeth *forever*

@viper62967

3 жыл бұрын

Good tip!

Confidence makes you irresistible Your inner thoughts should be authentic and come as glowing on your face and eyes! I seen more hot girls with guys having chubbiness and dad bods Your confidence should be positive and spread happiness Atleast make her comfy around you

@GEORGIOARCADE

3 жыл бұрын

While that's true, you should still wanna be in the best shape of your life as a man. Because like Courtney said, you having your shit together as man and you in shape; puts you ahead of most of the guys in the dating market who aren't.

@franciscogomez2565

3 жыл бұрын

Common sense

@danielwolfe7933

3 жыл бұрын

Ironic most dad bod dudes have more confidence than ripped dudes in this case

@ricardogalindo8794

3 жыл бұрын

You're right, I agree, but being healthy, fit physique wise, and just healthy does make one both mentally strong and confident. It has changed my own state of mind. I was obese, 270 pounds with a 47" mid section. Once I dropped to 190 pounds and got down to a 36" mid section. My mindset improved and treatment by others improved too. Everything matters.

@jnooney8225

3 жыл бұрын

"Dad" boobs??? Sheesh. Have a little respect. Dad's are the best people around. Why does a guy even join in on disrespecting them??? Maybe someday you'll be there.

Her voice is so relaxing

Courtney, use the floss picks, they are so easy and get the back teeth better than floss. You will probably get hooked. Regarding white teeth, it is the enamel that makes teeth white, so use a toothpaste like pronamel from sensodyne and I have recently started to allow the toothpaste to sit in my mouth for about 10 minutes to allow the paste to absorb and not be wash away by mouth wash. I do brush the tongue, which I am hooked on. I also stated to use Oil of Olay regenerist anti aging face soap about 15 years ago, with my tight face from being in shape the glow from the face soap makes a difference. Stay well!

When I was in the states, it seemed that "taller than me" actually meant. "6 inches taller than me when I am in heals."

@metalmike570

2 жыл бұрын

The truth is it's 6 feet, magic number for most broads. My problem is that I'm about 5'7".

Number 1, if you’re not grooming yourself and brushing your teeth, you have more issues that need dealt with than finding a woman

@bunnyboo6295

3 жыл бұрын

But some still mange to find one with confidence.

@thusspokezarathustra1847

2 жыл бұрын

I don't know a single person who doesn't brush his teeth daily.

@bunnyboo6295

2 жыл бұрын

@@thusspokezarathustra1847 There are men out there that don't they normally lazy bums that chose not to work or do anything unless they are getting something. Good normal people will normally not run into them.

The gym is a game changer. It spikes your confidence. It holds you accountable. It gives you a sense of goals. It fixes your posture and the same earnestness rubs off as a passive trait in your day to day. Folks love radiance. Its attractive.

Good info,great video. As an older guy I definitely agree with everything on this list from experience, However it’s still good to be reminded 👍😉

She's had such a soft voice.

@hankvinson5967

3 жыл бұрын

Bedroom voice.

I’d love if you showed us teddy’s skin care routine!!

I'm a singer from cuba in Miami . I just wanna say I love you page , You are so sweet .and helpful.

Always appreciate your honesty and info regarding today’s women and what they like. Cool. 👌

Thank you, Courtney our sister/bestfriend for caring about us men. 🙏🙏🙏

Courtney: Have a good skin care routine. *Tiege Hanley has entered the chat*(If you know, you know)

@Menaceblue3

3 жыл бұрын

*"Spicy senoritas!"* *[Alpha M]*

@TheShadow079

3 жыл бұрын

[GENTLEMEN!!!]

@andrewhenley2161

3 жыл бұрын

Except Courtney’s not a shill…

Courtney. Thank you . You're so beautiful with a beautiful personality. Your words mean alot ... thanks again .luv ya

I don’t know about you guys but what a woman! I love the way she carry her self and the way she think. She make me feel passionate.

Hello Miss Ryan. Can you make a video about how to be confident for a non native English speaker. English isn't my first language so I'm always anxious whenever it comes to interacting with other native speakers.

@maxgruber2649

3 жыл бұрын

PronunciationWorkshop

The Body positivity only applies to those who created it… WOMEN! Men remember that! We can’t afford to be out of shape. Stay healthy and get fit if you’re not. Because having a good body MATTERS!

@user-ie4pi2eo6x

Жыл бұрын

@@cris-rj5zf bro regardless get in shape not for women but for yourself.

@LizardCrewSweden

Жыл бұрын

@@user-ie4pi2eo6x Yes. Do it for yourself. Once your health and well-being takes precedence token symbols of "success" become pleasant, but secondary.

Have you had speech training? My mother teaches speech trainging and i noticed that yours is really on point! Great content as well like always! You are much appreciated!

I am 5ft 4 and I can't help being short but I try to stay confident