My dudes.......just be the best you that you can be; get in shape, clean up, be respectful to others, don't simp, and the right girl for you will be attracted to you! Other than that, don't be afraid to take risks, fail, and be rejected! Learn and grow!

@rasheemthebestfirstone3274

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@antonboludo8886

3 жыл бұрын

You are 100% correct. Cheers, mate!

@grumblesa10

3 жыл бұрын

What you're implying is that it's a numbers-game; something that the PUA/dating coach community deny. I exempt Courtney and a couple others because they aren't primarily trying to take your money. Tho you r spot on about risks and failing. Failure is instructive..

@antonboludo8886

3 жыл бұрын

@@grumblesa10 Yes, people who succeed in life see failures as lessons.

@bomshakian6880

3 жыл бұрын

best comment keeping the bros in check i love it!

Best remark made in this video,.... “ some girls aren’t going to like you, some are” ... SPOT ON!

@1red_nextview740

3 жыл бұрын

There was a song years ago that said "some girls don't like boys like me, aawww but some girls do"

@diegoarivera35

3 жыл бұрын

My friend as long as a girl like the girl on this video likes you, you don't need anything else, she is gorgeous

@niggaman9749

3 жыл бұрын

Grandpa why are you here

@diegoarivera35

3 жыл бұрын

@@niggaman9749 for the same reason that you are

@katostaxx6225

3 жыл бұрын

CAN'T IMAGINE ANY GUY THAT'S NORMAL NOT LIKING YOU ....... SOME WOMEN DRAW ALL GUYS .......... ITS THE WAY OF HUMAN SCIENCE , OBVIOUSLY ......... ME FOR EXAMPLE , PEOPLE LOVE THE WAY I TALK , THE STYLE ,AND THE TONE OF MY VOICE ....... WHEN I OPEN MY MOUTH TO SPEAK , THEY TAKE NOTICE RIGHT ON THE SPOT AND LIGHT UP , LIKE DO YOU REALLY TALK LIKE THAT ......... IT'S AMAZING HOW A CERTAIN VOICE STYLE CAN MAKE PEOPLE NOTOCE YOU .....

Don't worry guys. No need to become overly self concious. This is something women are and they want men to be as well. Stay strong, strive for balance and find inner peace.

@Eng4555

8 ай бұрын

Ok i agree not totally though

@user-lw9pj7yz1l

8 ай бұрын

Real men don't listen to women, their job is to get my dinner ready, wash my filthy underwear, babysit my stepchildren, wash windows and stand at attention when need be

I go in authentic. Doesn't always work but when it does it's real. I find most women appreciate someone comfortable with themselves. It helps them get comfortable too. If it's a no then a future of living a lie was avoided and each of you are afforded the opportunity to find someone closer to the mark. Even if you lose, you win.

I love how Courtney tells it like it is. No sugar coating. Sometimes that's the way it needs to be said. Thank you 🙏🏽

@snowforest4159

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣LOOOLLLLLLLLLLLOOOLLLLOOOLL

@Chriswilson-vg6vp

Жыл бұрын

Oh theirs a lot of sugarcoating

@edilangsultan3522

Жыл бұрын

@@Chriswilson-vg6vp there's. My god a ton of women will get turned off by the way you spelled alone lol

@Chriswilson-vg6vp

Жыл бұрын

Who cares ain’t no women on here just a bunch guys that ain’t getting laid

@snydedon9636

Жыл бұрын

She tells it like it is,,,,,,for her.

Her voice is so calming. So is her advice.

@Sasquatchbones

3 жыл бұрын

I think because it’s rational logical, and that isn’t what we hear a lot in KZread.

@Grandmasterkiller

Жыл бұрын

Her eyes are dead though

This is great. So many times people give the useless "just be confident" speech, whereas you actually tell guys specifically what to do to improve. That is what we want: instructions, not coddling!

@crowhillian58

Жыл бұрын

You have to have reasons to be confident. My confidence went through the roof when I became self employed after two years of being unemployed even though I was barely making any money at the start and with that extra confidence came success with women.

@shawnfallahi5616

5 ай бұрын

be interesting

Being socially awkward is a huge struggle for me! Especially in the gym. I always say I am a better “second impression” person lol once you get to know me I can crack anyone up and carry a good conversation. My dad and my brother are the same. We just make friends wherever we go. BUT in the gym I think it’s because it’s such a charged atmosphere. I’m in good shape and it’s still a strange place because of all the mirrors, testosterone and hater stares dudes give one another. Talk about lions on the savanna trying to compete. But for anyone socially awkward, just keep your confidence up and try to make eye contact with people and show you are sure of yourself. Most people will look away or smile back. Anyone else get gym anxiety?

@akang8810

Жыл бұрын

I get what you mean on how some dudes give the hater stares. Hell even I do it sometimes because I think they're trying to provoke me or something. However, if you talk to them and break the ice, their attitude completely changes and you realize they're actually pretty chill dudes. Some of the best friends I made were the dudes who gave me the "death stare"

@gary_michael_flanagan_wildlife

Жыл бұрын

@@akang8810I forgot to respond to you. I actually tried what you suggested and it worked well. The hater stare guy gave me a nod and there was no issue. I think the guy has some sort of anger issues though because he always walks around angry. But it might be an emotional shield.

@michaelsodde

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I hate the social aspect of the gym. It’s even worse being a beginner, because you just feel like a tool trying to get form right. 😄

Always Have a Personality and Be A True Gentleman and Don't Ever Stop Being yourself Honesty Is Best !!!

@andriyshapovalov8886

3 жыл бұрын

One thing we have to figure out is the meaning of 'being yourself' and how to 😅

@MsSomeonenew

3 жыл бұрын

@@andriyshapovalov8886 If you throw away everyone else's demands/judgment what remains? That is probably you.

@disgustinghandsome1282

3 жыл бұрын

@@MsSomeonenew it could be poisoned by environment, propaganda or indoctrination.

@williammitchell1864

3 жыл бұрын

Xman G, Everytime I try being myself, women run off. It's just my existence that women shy away from. And I hate all women for that!

@xmang8769

3 жыл бұрын

@@williammitchell1864 Try A Therapist

Women: Do you prefer blondes, brunettes, redheads, black girls, Asians, Latin, mixed? Me: Yes.

@rohangangar6210

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@colevidmar1191

3 жыл бұрын

Finally a man of similar interests

@skinwalkerzentertainment3134

2 жыл бұрын

😂 😂😂😂…Facts I love them all I’m just saying

@torrencel.2662

2 жыл бұрын

All! My family is a literal rainbow of all of those.

@mehuljain5916

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Excellent information! Total Respect to Courtney Ryan for helping us. After all, "We Men Ain't We" and we need a big sister's advice!

I fully concur. Had this routine from the time entering in the military and throughout life and becoming to this good age of 69 still doing this routine. Thank you, for this sitrep.

Life hack: let women see you with another pretty woman. They don’t know you’re in the friend zone 😉 women are competitive

@colinogorman8279

3 жыл бұрын

🤔

@henrikljungstrand2036

3 жыл бұрын

Yes most women are more attracted to men that other women seem attracted to, than to men who no one else seem attracted to. This is mostly true for alpha and beta persons though, the alphas are the ones who know how to be attractive and respected, and the betas are the ones who don't really know but try to emulate the alphas, while serving alphas. If you are a sigma loner, you should look for another sigma though. Also it is better to make women chase you than for you to chase them. If you are going to chase a woman, then only chase a specific, good, high quality woman who is already interested in you, don't be desperate but try to prove your worth to her in as natural and causal a way as possible, showing you might be open to the advances of other women as well, you should do things for her while pretending it doesn't cost you much as long as she shows you interest and respect, and as soon as she shows you the slightest disrespect you should stop doing favours for her, while keeping your calm like you don't care and you consider her not being worth your time. And you should ask her to do certain things for you, in the spirit of testing her to see whether she is worth your time, you should expect her to prove herself to you, and if she doesn't then stop wasting your time on her, and go after someone else. Always love yourself more, and never commit too fast, not until she is almost committed to you, rather let it come gradually. This is a good way to both avoid severe heartbreak from rejection and avoid toxic codependency. You should date in a flirty manner before committing, and date new people until you find someone among the women you are interested in who is also enough interested in you, before you step it up. So yes, going out with an attractive woman friend (while ensuring you are attractive as well) is a good way to make other women think you are perhaps dating, and that they might miss out on a good man if they don't hit on you, thus you will more easily get women to notice you.

@joshuasmith8538

3 жыл бұрын

first of all, that sounds manipulative as fuck. And secondly, the only people that talk about alphas and betas when it comes to other humans, are weirdos.

@josuemiamire

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshuasmith8538 yeah idk what that dude was talking about I didn’t read that fucking essay

@dadbod2562

3 жыл бұрын

@Henrick, damn bro you didn’t even use APA 7 Ed format. C for effort tho.

Having been decluttering, redecorating, and cleaning my home the last several weeks, I can say it makes a huge difference just for oneself. I view myself as classy but playful and having a cluttered living space just didn't reflect who I am. And even if other people watching don't have the same self-image, I don't think anyone watching your videos on how to improve their fashion and style considers being a slob who they really are inside. It's also just a lot nicer to come home to a place that's tidy and well kept and once you do the initial rigorous cleaning/organizing, it's a lot less effort to maintain it.

I am so glad that someone is open about it, Thanks, Courtney.

Congratulations Courtney and another great video. I’ve watched you for sometime and I’m so impressed how much you have improved. I’m 65 years of age and married for 42 years. Yes I look after myself and in great health but it’s amazing all the things that you have to say to men today that back in the 70s in the 80s most of us men took for granted and knew the right way keep up the good work.

Women: we like men who make us laugh. Men: Go date a clown.

@mcali-reviews5585

3 жыл бұрын

OR they like a funny guy who jokes a lot but won't date and take him serious because he is a funny guy who jokes a lot

@KEVWARD63

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah.....Pennywise !!

@wahoofan222

3 жыл бұрын

Forget it they rule out 99 percent of us. Who cares, they ain't worth it!! They all too picky, then when they hit 30 years of age, no man interested, they can't figure it out!!!

@dijonvolner6024

3 жыл бұрын

It's good to be with a man that has a great sense of humour, but it's also good to be with a man that you can have good, deep conversations with, also knowing that when rubbish hits the fan, that he will step up to the plate and stay there!!

@jeanyongbleek829

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

I learned to be true to myself and know that personality lasts a lifetime. Thanks Courtney 🙂

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰 love!!!

@diax14

3 жыл бұрын

That's true, I agree!

@danielchavez506

3 жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan there is no skin care for the face or body is just eating healthy and building your body.

@morpheus2072

3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@smiley-qb3nt

Жыл бұрын

I'm not gonna kill you bc I'm funny lol

What i really respect about this channel is that not only is she giving us tips, she is also teaching us to be a better and more confident person, believing in ourselves regardless of who we are.

@KrazyIndeed

Жыл бұрын

You're a simp or a female.. Sorry. You want a woman? STOP LISTENING TO THEM! Ain't a woman on Earth going to say 'I only care about looks"... Come on, man! This shit is so they can avoid calling themselves whores they truly are (Worlds oldest profession!!). I bet 10 Trillion dollars the girl of your dreams will ask for a 'cheat card' in case her CUTE actor lover bumps into her one day.. She wants a pass to fuck a HOT GUY! Not a confident one, a HOT one! Nobody ever says 'Oh, Brad Pitt is so confident and caring!!"... NEVER EVER EVER.

@aaronhepler8070

Жыл бұрын

If your worth comes from women, sure.

@user-lw9pj7yz1l

8 ай бұрын

Nobody can teach you confidence you either have it or you don't. Men are like women, woman are the men of today

On the topic of cracked hands and not liking the oily feel: I have 2 viable options. Option 1 is coconut oil cremes,, because they spread well and it doesn't have that lingering oily feel. You will smell like coconut (duh), so keep that in mind. Option 2 is O'Keefes working hands creme, because it dries a bit quicker than that coconut oil creme, but it's scentless and costs a bit more.

You’re a good speaker and it’s very professional. It’s clear, concise and goes straight to the point. Thank you helping us out woman.

She is literally saying that take a good care of yourself to be attractive which is a logical and a good thing to hear. Thanks for your ways and i wish there will be more women like you mam ❤️❤️❤️

This video actually makes so much sense and is exactly what Ive needed

Good advice! I’m impressed. I asked my partner what were the first things she noticed about me. She answered the first 4 in the same order as you did and proceeded to agree with the rest of the 9.

I just started getting back in the dating game after 11 years of marriage and being single the last 2 years. Your videos are very informative and I appreciate you helping us out.

@imhuman3333

Жыл бұрын

good luck my fellow youtube brother

@samuelpersaud3044

Жыл бұрын

It's rough to get over people and what they did. Sometimes u need the space and most of the they the person u were with before was just the person u meet before u meet the right person. There's nothing else to it except for the children if u had any with them.

@joecwik

Жыл бұрын

Likewise. Kick some ass.

@goranvisnjic9714

8 ай бұрын

Do You actually need an advice from some girl after 11 year of marriage. I don't think so.

We all appreciate you, Courtney! Absolutely golden advice you give in every video. Keep it up!

I'd be looking at these things too if I was a girl. All these things are what we can work on to become better versions of ourselves regardless of a woman being next to us. It's not a crazy list, it's a self-benefit one in my opinion.

@user-lw9pj7yz1l

8 ай бұрын

Let's not give them too much credit, are you forgetting mass abortions last 50yrs.also, all this transgender bullshit, wokeness and every conceivable stupidity in our societies

@user-lw9pj7yz1l

8 ай бұрын

Looks are deceiving

Dont change yourself for any woman. Wear whatever you want, be yourself. If she doesnt like you for who you are then move on. She isnt worth it.

@nigeldonaldson1647

Жыл бұрын

provided the way you are IS acceptable I agree Which one of is is more likely to want the other to change? & in big ways. Answer HER

@msk3905

7 ай бұрын

I sort of agree but what she is really saying is take care of yourself and make sure you look out together. I have a friend high 50s who look like a slob, grossly overweight, wear loose fitting clothing because most doesn’t fit, wears hideous boots in MA area like cowboy boots, in summer wears cargo shorts and flip flops with some of the ugliest feet I have seen and long toe nails. Also, long finger nails and occasionally wears poor fitted Led Zeppelin shirts yet he recently made a comment to me about how he could any woman he wanted? He truly believed this, we all laugh that he looks like he shops for cloths at Chess King is a fat slob and walks hunched over yet he can get woman he wants…wow! He really needs to see this video!

What I really hope she notices about me is that I'm not interested. I'm quite happy being single at this point, far less drama in my life.

@miguelgonzalez6495

3 жыл бұрын

This video isn’t for you then. lol

@iconodule3938

2 жыл бұрын

Why are you watching, then?

@gunchief0811

2 жыл бұрын

Gotchoo a Love doll?

@CS-ec7gl

2 жыл бұрын

Brother you said exactly what I am living and loving myself. No drama is a relief.

@gc4644

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! Less women in your life usually means alot less drama and stress..

I love this video because she makes many great points such as, "I do not want you all to look like cookie cutter versions of the next guy". This is crucial because it separates her channel from the "Ashley Weston" stereotype which has been getting allot of flack for making all men look and dress the same as her husband. Instead she makes it imperative that you "dress like who you are" with your personality in mind. This opens many more options for guys that would think otherwise in the past. Great tips, great content, keep it up!

I got divorced in my middle 50's after thirty years of marriage. I finally start being active in the dating scene about a year later, believe me when I tell you dating life is entirely different when you are older. I asked a lady out once I knew but not that good so we go out and she actually had a list of questions for me! She wanted to know because since I was an older person I guess she thought of me having baggage. She wanted me to smile at her and also she wanted to feel my hair!! I couldn't believe it, she wanted to make sure I had all my teeth and none were false and to make sure I didn't wear a hair piece!! Then come the how many times have I been married and do I have kids or grandkids....blah blah blah.

@Richard-wp6ep

Жыл бұрын

Why bother dating over 50? Just save the money you would spend on worthless women and get yourself a nice "call girl" for your birthday.

@dodgesportsman772

Жыл бұрын

@@Richard-wp6ep lol... I feel ya..but sometimes you want more than just sex.... But....

@Richard-wp6ep

Жыл бұрын

@@dodgesportsman772 well for an extra 20 she can "hold you" and you can call her momma.

@dodgesportsman772

Жыл бұрын

@@Richard-wp6ep OOOHH... Sold,!!!!

@emilstorgaard9642

Жыл бұрын

I would have left her on the spot. What she displayed was borderline behaviour

I really find your advice helpful for us guys . Keep up the informative work!

This lady is not only gorgeous but she bright, articulate and thoughtful. Thanks so much for educating us about what women like. Best wishes

For the record, a guy that walks around with beaten up shoes doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't care. It probably means he has a hard working job and not enough money to replace them.

@Playboyy1985

2 жыл бұрын

What? I literally bought a pair of shoes at Ross for 1.99 and they look good. He just doesn’t care enough

@mikelavigne1370

2 жыл бұрын

Yea but if you don’t make enough money to buy new shoes then she won’t be interested anyway.

@kevinVersus

2 жыл бұрын

Or they are the beater shoes, left the clean ones at home. Who has one pair?

@sohumchaudhary7968

2 жыл бұрын

@@kevinVersus gotta have a pair of beaters

@marc416

2 жыл бұрын

@@Playboyy1985 Ooh!! He got the Velcro!!!!!

Hi Courtney, this is Nathan and u do a great job on your videos dear. Keep up the good work

Hey, just wanted to say thanks for this video. I am a dude who for the most part of his life absolutely had no idea how to approach and talk to women, yet what you included in the vid is straight up logical and understandable. Thanks and have a great day!

This is the first Courtney video I've seen and I'm hooked! As a single divorced man, who follows almost all of these 9 rules, it's nice to hear a woman validate what's important of her view point. Looking forward to seeing more of her content ! 😊

@ryanjohnston3229

Жыл бұрын

Do yourself a favor, go ask 25 girls a day for there numbers. The exercise is to ask only the one you know are not into you. Ideally you want to be rejected, it will teach you confidence and you will most importantly not care what she thinks. It will all make sense when they start saying yes. Oh hit the gym and get a diet plan, plus work on yourself. Even better be single your true power is believing in yourself and developing yourself. 6month of this and the world opens up.🍻

@marshalldannon5593

Жыл бұрын

@@ryanjohnston3229How exactly does constant failure breed confidence? That makes no sense.

@lyleabapo7731

Жыл бұрын

@@marshalldannon5593 I would say it helps someone get used to rejection. Confidence is something that is based on things that stay consistent for a person. It’s also based on things that a person can build up over time. And the confidence can remain or grow despite rejections.

@maxlopez5081

Жыл бұрын

What sucks is that I am that and more! Yet she had a big crush on a dude from her job, she even said she did know why it happen but I just believe the more I do my " Research" women don't care if you are too nice. More like be the alpha . I have come to this conclusion: They want all what she said but also like the men that are more rough around the edges. Because wen I met my wife I was that dude! Party guy, drinker, I was more bold and was more of a bad boy. Then she said She had all these standards like she would even look to married man, that she hated guys that drink or loser with mediocre jobs and guess what? .. exactly the guy she fell in love with was that guy! So after that , I was never the same , wanted and want to leave her still that was 4 years ago but still hurts, she did not really try to fix the let down if anything she became a religious person and that made our relationship even worst because now all is a sin . Sex got worst and we have drifted apart. She don't want me to leave but honestly I m heading that way, I'm 53 now and I don't want to live with someone that is not longer there for me. I'm the one dude women would like to find , good body, job, dress nice, smart but I realized that it was only when I was that asshole dude that women levitated more my way, some would say that no woman that look for a man like that is worth it but the women I had including my wife were not crazy sluts, I had all sorts but the ones that usually had long relationships were pretty down to earth, quiet and had goodorals so no I do believe women do like the asshole and regardless if they are gonna cheat they will,.no matter who you are . It may sound sad but I do like this guy Andrew Tate who I used to not like, but the more I listen to him I can see where I went wrong or maybe his point of view is so bold that sofar I asked a few women and the agreed he was kind of right. Anyway my journey continues.

@SLAYER-nm5zw

Жыл бұрын

​@@maxlopez5081good luck

Best up & coming KZread channel to date! I'm always checking for new ones daily 🤘😂🤘

Another gem of video! Like Megadeth said "I though I knew it all"!! Always learning new social skills! Thank you for your service to our male community Courtney!!

I'm 52, and I have given up looking for someone a long time ago because of my age, but I've been watching your videos just for the fun of it, and I feel so much better about myself, your awesome, first class all the way !

@turboitfc6666

2 жыл бұрын

Have faith my friend 🙏 some 1 out there for you no doubt!

@ZODIAC7594

2 жыл бұрын

Just keep looking man you will find your someone special, All the best

@raphaelhernandez4088

2 жыл бұрын

I've given up a long time ago I'm 62 and don't trust women I'll die by myself and be happy about it.

@josephluis2024

Жыл бұрын

Go to Ukraine once war ends. Women are very feminine there and have traditional old values same as Thailand women they are faithful. They are not toxic like most women here in the US

@beckyjoyce4787

Жыл бұрын

my current BF is 2x+ my age and he is WONDERFU. I love not having to scrounge for pizza money and just being taken out somewhere nice!!!

Insanely great advice. It's hard not to have my brain rush the conversation along too fast. I'm trying to learn to Slow the f down to let the conversation flow naturally.. I try to take control rather than let words I'm listening to.. flow freely.. and MISS OUT on the nuances and the emotional details, and oftentimes key facts that I could hear IF I took the the time to truly listen!

Just wanted to point that It's actually nice that you talk with your hands. thay are nice and smooth.thanks for the nice content that helps a lot

I could look into your eyes and listen to your voice for hours, Courtney! Whatever you talk about, you are mesmerizing!😍 Greetings from Norway!

No. 4 is immposible for me since most of the time i dont care what ppl are saying to me, i just cant wait for conversation to stop so that i can go my way.

One interesting thing about preferences is that in many cases they are just that, preferences, not an exclusive taste. I'm not a tall man, I'm short and there is nothing I can do about it, but there are a lot of aspects of myself that I can work on in order to become "the best version of myself" and because of those other things I had been with women that prefers taller guys, but opens an exception for me.

They notice right away that I am autistic.

@JavierPwns

10 күн бұрын

Lmfao

It’s interesting how it’s all about outward traits, things you can only notice with your eyes. Character, integrity and moral values can’t be seen, but are the most important and what makes a man.

And to be honest confidence is always number one for me because it’s what makes you make it happen.

Courtney, First of all, the color of that top brings out the color of your eyes well👍🏾. Secondly, I agree with adding your own flair, and not being cookie cutter. I agree mostly with your Men’s style tips, but I find myself saying “yea, but I’d have to add this”. Thank you for allowing room for your viewers to do that as opposed to dictating ridged edicts like some channels. Lastly, if your open to video suggestions, I’d encourage to do a reaction video to one of The Style OG’s videos. You two have similar style tips and dating advice. Thanks.

Thank You Courtney! That was very informative!

Courtney, this was a great commonsense honest video. Thanks!

Even more experienced guys like me can learn quite a bit from you 🙂 You're great Courtney, keep up the good work!

Your top is like blending in to the thumbnail. Just made me smile 😂

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@peterryan438

3 жыл бұрын

Yes the top is a message to get all those men out there fantasing because that's what we are very good at

she obviously knows the first thing guys notice, so thank you so much for that choice of outfit. Now I'll replay and listen to what she actually said

I’m 38, single and I do have a daily face regimen. A lot of people think I’m lying when I tell them my age. I have facial hair so I’m always keeping it trimmed and tidy.

@pcgamerzzzchannel3407

Жыл бұрын

​@proudgoyim631🤣🤣

@leoMC4384

4 ай бұрын

A daily face regimen?? Unless you have a serious skin condition or you're a 15 year old girl struggling acne, that's dumb as fuck, man. And I'm almost 40 btw.

Courtney, I want to say first, thank you! I always learn something new and the advice you explain in your videos. I appreciate it and keep it going!!!

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad! Thanks for being here 🥰

This video gives some realistic tips and humanizes everyone. I feel less anxious about your videos. Thank you, Courtney!

@TheFriendlyPsychopath

2 жыл бұрын

You sound goofy!🤣

Courtney - my 16 year old son was asking me for advice on how to be attractive to girls. I shared with him my own thoughts but also shared with him this video. I know this video is a few years old now, but it is great advice and honest and genuine. Thanks for being a resource to guys everywhere and wanted to let you know I appreciate your sincerity when you create these videos - I am sure they have helped mold a few guys into understanding what is and what is not important to (some- not all ) women.

@Se7enLuckyslevin

6 ай бұрын

The best way to be attractive is DEMONSTRATING COMPETENCE... this means Social Skills and kindness but being able to stand up for himself... also well groomed being in healthy shape

Much appreciated....also the advertising I noticed on your video was playing on men's desperations ,but obviously you can't control that.

Thank you Counrty for being real. You do not act like a know it all. Your honest. You do not belittle and maje people feel stupid thank you.

I'm a lil older and married to a good woman but it's pretty dope to see a woman sharing genuine game with guys who havent had access to it. Keep up the quality content Ms C!

Texting and lack of person-to-person contact is a big contributing factor in not fully realizing whom you're really dealing with. It's so easy to put on a fake persona which could be detrimental to forming a deep relationship.

Thank you very much Ryan. Jeez are the a lot of things we do that we take for granted and yet men a lot to others. Please keep keeping on. I highly appreciate your efforts and this video

That light paste colour looks really damn good on you Courtney

@thrusta100

3 жыл бұрын

Rule no.1 don’t simp!

@farhanbinraihan3050

3 жыл бұрын

@@thrusta100 lol 😂

I talk with my hands also, always have. It feels like you can express yourself better. About the cologne you are right about not using too much. In daily life sometimes I run into guys or girls that smell like they’ve sprayed half the bottle on themselves. It’s overwhelming and noxious and makes my eyes water. Also it feels like it’s hard to breathe with all those volatile oils off-gassing. If somebody leaves an elevator and it still smells like them they’re wearing way too much. Most of the time one spray is all you need to give some fragrance without making people gag.

Humour is awesome. I don’t personally have that trait. I just try to be myself. I definitely like women who are funny and smile a lot.

Hi Courtney. I just want to say that everything you mentioned in this video is beyond accurate!! As a single man I always dress in T-shirt’s, jeans and sneakers BUT i always have my clothes clean and pressed along with my shoes being spot clean. Women will notice that on men! 🙌🏼

@ciaran6309

Жыл бұрын

U wish lol

Oh my, your voice and demeanor are SO relaxing.

@NOBODY-cn6fj

4 ай бұрын

Yeah something like that

I like your manner of speak very much. No unnecessary details.

i was reading about a study regarding the use of fragrances and attractiveness that badically stated that a fragrance covers up your natural phermones and someone who finds you attractive might actually be physically repulsed by you without the fragrance. not because you smell bad but your physiology and theirs do not match. apparently it has caused breakups of marriages and so on. take it with a grain of salt but i myself hedge my bets and go scentless just in case. i will come back and see if i can find a link to that study.

Women: we like men who make us laugh. Guy with money... Women: you are so funny guy with money: I did not say anything Women: LOL you are so funny

@markied2873

3 жыл бұрын

That made me laugh though 🤣🤣

@Navsomething

2 жыл бұрын

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO true. All good girls are with mangers already. Holy shit!

@JdeC1994

2 жыл бұрын

@@Navsomething Thank you. However, to be fair, men do that too. When Mr. High Status makes a lame remark, men will also roar with beta-powered laughter.

@MrCjchamp2001

2 жыл бұрын

Only the poor dudes complain that women only want money

@jessehernandez8041

11 ай бұрын

I'm not some monkey that you dress up for your entertainment, Just be you.

Courtney: some girls are into bald guys, including me. Teddy: *watches video and goes into the bathroom to shave his head*

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

HAHAHA 😂

@vardaanchaphekar

3 жыл бұрын

Bald-assare

@jaxx8917

3 жыл бұрын

@@vardaanchaphekar Badass:-)

@hydreigon2709

3 жыл бұрын

Teddy turned into Baddy

@elumardesa

3 жыл бұрын

And then she says, "I meant gray hair". Teddy: "damn it!"

Hello Courtney, I've been watching you for quite along time now, and to be honest alot of wat you.ve been saying has gone. ,along way to helping me understand women. thank you Courtney I never really understood women correctly until I sat down and listened to wat you say. Thank you so much Ian. 😊

I really like your videos! Thanks for this Courtney! 😊 👍

A death threat? Some of these guys are psychotic. Love your channel. Thanks for all of your great info and work you put into this

You definitely have the best sweater collection on KZread

Courtney....I stumbled on your video and very happy that you brought out one point that particularly is important I think, if you are under let's say 30. That is about real face to face human interaction, not "social" media. For people over 30, it just comes more natural to talk face to face as there was no internet for them growing up, no dating apps, texting, etc.....and no Facebook. As I have commented on another channel, I am not on Facebook, I am on face-to- Facebook!!

THANK YOU FOR YOUR INSIGHT!

You’re working rate is amazing Courtney ❤️❤️

Courtney is real woman who dont play games! Her advice is spot on!

Courtney is such a fascinating woman. She is not the most beautiful I've seen but very beautiful. Not best features every but still stunning. It's hard to explain. I think her confidence and demeanor is just magical.

@mmontes15

Жыл бұрын

I think its her voice. Its SOOOO soothing. I've only ever met a few women that have a voice like that, but she is definitely one of them. She has the kind of voice that either makes you wanna fall in love, or fall asleep. 😂😂😂

@sinking1902

2 ай бұрын

Her voice is the best ever.

I’ve had a skin care routine for some years now I’m 56. And I can tell you it’s paying off. Women comment on the lack of wrinkles etc. this is huge too, stay OUT of the sun and use sunscreen all the time. I like Jack Black daily moisturizer with spf

@Lortafant_of_Norway

Жыл бұрын

Heh... This is terrible advice. Sun is good for you, just don't get burned. Man made cream to protect you against the sun? Nope! Cover yourself with clothes, instead of putting toxic cream on yourself. And skin care? Eat healthy stuff and avoid garbage stuff. Garbage stuff such as sugar, seed oil, junk food and alcohol, and good stuff like liver and eggs.

@SwedishEmpire1700

Жыл бұрын

Soon the make-up will come out LMAO

I gotta say, your voice is soothing. Makes this a great video to play in the background! #podcast?

She makes a lot of valid points. Thank you for your knowledge

Courtney amped up her video upload frequency🔥

thank you for what you did for me, I have to study this year, I don't have time for flirting, however, I made 2 proposals for a relationship, I got a rejection, it didn't bother me at all, I'm still trying to make money.

"You don't have to be an American Psycho"...Hahhaaaa😆🤣🤣There can't be a better explanation. Well done missy!, love how you don't sugar coat anything and speak the truth!!👍

Courtney genuinely wants to help men reach full potential and find the best partner ( girlfriend/ wife) All the free advice makes me wonder how financially supports herself as she has elegant style and always looks like a million. A million thanks to this beautiful and caring lady.

@JayvirinhoFC

2 жыл бұрын

You know how KZread works right?

"Hey, what did you do today?" 12:04 Seriously, the way you just casually threw that in there like it was just a random detail about your day left me pretty much speechless 😂😅

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

LOL 😂 it’s bad that nothing phases me anymore lol

@whitewolf6730

3 жыл бұрын

Gosh, what a weirdo! That’s ok, I am funny and I would take care of him.

There's actually one thing missing that's probably more important than all of them... *How other women are noticing/flirting/attracted to you*. Regardless of everything else, women will always notice *that* guy. Besides that, excellent video... And Courtney, you rock⭐

Wow this video has me laughing hard. It reminds me of a female communication professor I had and the scene in Donnie Darko when Drew Barrymore say’s, “Sit next to the boy you think is cutest.” 😂

This girl need to be more recognized good videos 👏🏽👏🏽

If I may add one insight with the understanding that women are different. I met my wife right after I was laid off from my job. I worked for the oil and gas industry and due to the economy, the entire company shut down. I found other work but I took a huge hit to my pay. When she came into my life, I basically didn’t know what to do. She was very interested and flirty and here I’m this broke (but working) guy and I didn’t think it would work out. I told her the truth and she didn’t pass me up or look the other way. When I asked her, why? She said that what attracted her to me was my gentleness.

@zoetsahai

11 ай бұрын

My friend asked me 5 things I would want in a future husband and one of them was gentleness , she was like gentleness ? Hahah but yeah it's a thing

Confidence in yourself and always striving to be the best version of yourself as a man I've noticed that women love that. Not ego or pride! No no, CONFIDENCE.

Hey Courtney ... great vid, as usual. I was always a 5. I knew from the start I was never going to win on a "first sight" contest with other guys. Since I knew that statistically, I was never going to win most of my initial contacts, I decided not to sweat it when I lost. Instead, I decided to get really, REALLY great at sex. So I read all the Chinese pillow books, and Tantric methods. I subscribed, and spent a lot of money on subscriptions to sex advice sites(some were great, other dudes). I vowed to WOW any girl that fell into me web. This was how I compensated. I know, this seems unfair and superficial to many here, but I figure it's no more unfair than the way women treated me from the start. Anyway, this worked for me, but It takes someone who can get by the initial feeling of being rejected so brutally. AND, I must say, in the beginning, that was hard for me. I mean, I have feelings too, just like everyone, and it's no fun being rejected by so many until I could get to my first "lay." But, it got easier as my success rate increased. Anyway, great vid Courtney. You are a breathe of fresh air, and SO beautiful to boot ... God Bless You ...

4:30 girls love layers and accessorizing. Feel like this could be a whole video Courtney I have no idea how to do that

@MrAnarchris

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, me too

@CourtneyRyan

3 жыл бұрын

I can do this! 😎

@kratos1553

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Courtney!

@ngozijones5697

3 жыл бұрын

invest in a blazer (blue/black as a start), pick up a watch (silver/rose gold, straight gold tends to be too flashy sometime), Get dressy boots (works well with both jeans and a suite, preferably a medium brown for versatility) . Just some quick tips i have

@silverandblack9242

3 жыл бұрын

layers and accessorizing? sounds like a feminine man, no thanks, i’ll stay rough and tumble

Good tip for keeping your hands soft and hydrated: scrub them with sea salt and a good oil ( olive or coconut).

@HelloKittysFriend418

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Sugar can work well too!

Wow. This woman really knows her stuff, and is very honest. I don't do any of this stuff- no wonder I'm single!

@opoxious1592

Жыл бұрын

Your are single, because you are dumb as fuck to listen to this bullshit.

skin care routine? here is mine: I wake up - I have skin

In an online world full of PUAs and "Dating Gurus" dishing out shitty advise, I think I finally found someone I can confide in. Keep it up Courtney, you earned a new sub. :)

@timwalkerjr99

3 жыл бұрын

F

@cooperpayne

2 жыл бұрын

@@timwalkerjr99 f in the muhfuggin chat