The Secret to Self-Advocacy | Bhavana Bartholf | TEDxWaterStreet

Bhavana explores why self-advocacy is challenging for women at work and in life and how we can take steps to overcome our fears and find the courage to ask for what we want. Studies and life experience reveal that self-advocacy is hard. Especially harder for women. But we have absolutely nothing to lose and so much to gain. In this talk, Bhavana asks us to remember who we once were and what we once dreamed of to challenge our thinking, embrace who we are, and simply imagine what’s possible. Bhavana Bartholf is an award-winning leader and sought-after expert in the field of providing vision and accelerating Digital Transformation for corporations across industries worldwide. Bartholf has over a 20-year diverse career with Microsoft across their customer success, sales, marketing, consulting, and support businesses. Today, she is responsible for advancing technical sales strategy across solution areas to enable digital transformation for Fortune 500 companies. Throughout her career, she has served as a customer focused, transformational leader, innovative technologist, STEM advocate, and ally for women and racial/ethnical minorities (REM). She has a proven track record for building high performing organizations with focus on growing female/REM workforce and is dedicated to driving systemic change to create inclusive work environments. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @harshasrikanth
    @harshasrikanth2 жыл бұрын

    Love this! Such a powerful message for women around the world! Great delivery and concise steps laid out by our thought leader!

  • @nupurrathee7653
    @nupurrathee76532 жыл бұрын

    This is such an inspiring message for all women! Thanks Bhavana for sharing this ! Love it! ❣️👍

  • @sidney9041
    @sidney90412 жыл бұрын

    Great video with an amazing message!!!

  • @harshavarlani3853
    @harshavarlani38532 жыл бұрын

    Oh my God!! Such a great talk. I love the concept and the reality that we all face. This was such an amazing 17 min. Thank you for bringing this up. I believe more people should get a chance to see this.

  • @vaneekumar
    @vaneekumar2 жыл бұрын

    Great message! It is eye opening and brought a lot of awareness to me, to ask!!

  • @tiffanyh3828
    @tiffanyh38282 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring thanks so much for sharing!!

  • @alexcook8880
    @alexcook88802 жыл бұрын

    One the most important and impactful talks I’ve seen BY FAR. Anyone and everyone needs to listen to this

  • @BrandyPaulIsYourFriend
    @BrandyPaulIsYourFriend2 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly what I need to hear!!!!

  • @jandypaul9086
    @jandypaul90862 жыл бұрын

    Watched this at least three times already!!! Thank you!!!!!!! ❤️

  • @sameera3005
    @sameera30052 жыл бұрын

    Her message was a great reminder of self validation. Imagine who you wanted to be- a great way to pause and go back to what you intrinsically want from life, what makes you happy. Recognize your strengths. Work through your weaknesses. Saddle up even if you’re apprehensive. Lean in. Thought provoking.

  • @amritagvalani7192
    @amritagvalani71922 жыл бұрын

    Thought provoking video with many powerful messages.

  • @user-ns5ol2he3f
    @user-ns5ol2he3f2 жыл бұрын

    Great message! As a woman it means a lot to me. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @sunithakondur8859
    @sunithakondur88592 жыл бұрын

    Such an important and relevant discussion!! It’s each one of us.

  • @Barahona256
    @Barahona2562 жыл бұрын

    Bhavana your message resonates with me. Please continue to share your knowledge with us.

  • @pranaavsund2019
    @pranaavsund20192 жыл бұрын

    Incredible message! This TED talk is packed with actionable information. Love it. Congrats, Bhavana!

  • @angelahuneycutt2374
    @angelahuneycutt23742 жыл бұрын

    This is such an incredibly inspiring message that everyone needs to hear and take to heart! Thank you!

  • @shivanixdesai
    @shivanixdesai2 жыл бұрын

    Was recommended this video by a friend, and I really enjoyed every minute! Such an important message and interesting story, and it was much needed representation as I could directly relate to a lot of what was discussed especially as a brown woman myself.

  • @mattbartholf3345
    @mattbartholf33452 жыл бұрын

    Great talk from an amazing leader. You are making a difference!

  • @piyushsingh2
    @piyushsingh22 жыл бұрын

    Very unique and thought provoking perspective Bhavna. We need more of these dialects

  • @surbhisharma9195
    @surbhisharma91952 жыл бұрын

    Great talk - women of all ages, need to listen and imbibe this into our lives. It is difficult for women to even recognise and pat their own backs for their achievements.. it’s time we live out our successes and share it with our younger generation and motivate them too, on the path of greatness and self advocacy- kudos Bhavana!

  • @clarepalumbo2375
    @clarepalumbo23752 жыл бұрын

    I got so much from your presentation! I felt like you were speaking directly to me. Recently, I have realized that fear has gotten in my way in many circumstances and I am starting to take control of those situations. Thank you!!!

  • @patspena8394
    @patspena83942 жыл бұрын

    Self advocacy is a critical topic- I myself have struggled with it my estire life. Thank you for addressing it in such an inspiring way!

  • @AnandVijay76
    @AnandVijay762 жыл бұрын

    She’s a wonderful speaker. Very eloquent and this is a super empowering talk. I have two daughters and I will pass on these nuggets to them.

  • @kelynascimento9804
    @kelynascimento98042 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring! Great message and speaker!

  • @manishalbhatia
    @manishalbhatia2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. So much truth to “you don’t have anything to loose” if you advocate for yourself. We as women are always the champion for others but never for ourselves. Why not try doing that for ourselves.

  • @sajansebastian5192
    @sajansebastian51922 жыл бұрын

    Great message! I like the way it is presented. Hope to hear more talks from you.

  • @dianerodriguez7997
    @dianerodriguez79972 жыл бұрын

    Your message is inspiring, motivating, and relatable. I love that you are so authentic!

  • @SARAFAPARNA
    @SARAFAPARNA2 жыл бұрын

    Bhavna you are amazing and your thoughts are what exactly is going on in many minds..you have put it on words!! All the best.. 👍

  • @aarthimurali3568
    @aarthimurali35682 жыл бұрын

    Inspiration, for everyone ❤️🥰🤗 awesome 👍👌

  • @nachocheese8666
    @nachocheese86662 жыл бұрын

    Bhavana's Wager 😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️❤️❤️❤️ love it all!!!

  • @pratimareddi1259
    @pratimareddi12592 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring, great message delivered so well by Bhavana!

  • @tun0ffun
    @tun0ffun2 жыл бұрын

    Such parallels with the conversations in our home and our workplace. Incredibly inspirational, particularly but not exclusively with my daughters as they explore who they are and the women they will become.

  • @hiighofflauren
    @hiighofflauren2 жыл бұрын

    This is such a great message!!

  • @meencat
    @meencat2 жыл бұрын

    Love the message and the sense of community! We so often forget we don’t have to go it alone, or that we are worthy of help. Thank you for sharing your story and for these great tips on self advocacy! 🙂

  • @megandimmer3255
    @megandimmer32552 жыл бұрын

    Such an impactful message, Bhavana! The time is now for us to ask for what we want! Thank you for your commitment to teaching women how to self-advocate.

  • @godgamer2985
    @godgamer29852 жыл бұрын

    Such a necessary message for all of us. Loved it.

  • @sselvar
    @sselvar2 жыл бұрын

    Amazing speech, enjoyed every minute!! So many priceless nuggets, you have ignited the light in others to do the same for themselves. Way to go Bhavana!

  • @keppykarpa
    @keppykarpa2 жыл бұрын

    I'm grateful my friend forwarded this to me. Us women need this reminder often to be brave to be ourselves and trust in our own abilities. Great talk.

  • @chandujain530
    @chandujain5302 жыл бұрын

    Great message! Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @mmkrishn
    @mmkrishn2 жыл бұрын

    Great talk and event. Super proud of my big sis :)

  • @dr.shendorahnallsfisherphd9522
    @dr.shendorahnallsfisherphd95222 жыл бұрын

    Captivating, inspiring, and motivating. Navigating differently after embracing this knowledge. Thanks for dropping all the goods...

  • @shrutisunil3732
    @shrutisunil37322 жыл бұрын

    So insightful! Loved watching every second of this talk!

  • @crabtreesally
    @crabtreesally2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for bravely sharing your experiences and learnings - such an inspiration!

  • @harshavarlani3853
    @harshavarlani38532 жыл бұрын

    Oh man!! I can completely relate to everything she has said.

  • @geetak2319
    @geetak23192 жыл бұрын

    Lovely and inspiring message for all woman. A must hear. Many thanks to my friend for recommending this video

  • @txmakr
    @txmakr2 жыл бұрын

    Simply beautiful! Knowing what you want is empowering.

  • @Mariposa0875
    @Mariposa08752 жыл бұрын

    What an interesting talk. Makes one really think about things one usually doesn’t. Not really. In passing maybe…

  • @juyoungsong6193
    @juyoungsong61932 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I really enjoyed listening to your story and message! Very inspiring and much needed for all to hear!

  • @caitlinfix4981
    @caitlinfix49812 жыл бұрын

    Such a great message for all the women out there!!!

  • @salonivarlani9325
    @salonivarlani93252 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic message Bhavna, thanks. I should definitely give this a try.

  • @juliaantony4221
    @juliaantony42212 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring

  • @genevadupnik7994
    @genevadupnik79942 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful talk! I definitely need to implement these 5 steps into my life, just what I needed to hear. Thank you.

  • @radhikapatel9737
    @radhikapatel97372 жыл бұрын

    Great talk and i liked the five points that was given

  • @johnkelliher8892
    @johnkelliher88922 жыл бұрын

    Loving this message. Embracing Bhavana’s Wager and its truth that there is nothing to lose and everything to gain by advocating for yourself.

  • @heatherholbrook9867
    @heatherholbrook98672 жыл бұрын

    Excellent message. Self Advocacy is a skill that must be learned and practiced.

  • @sreedevineelima2662
    @sreedevineelima26622 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful talk, inspiring 👏

  • @zinkpig
    @zinkpig2 жыл бұрын

    She breaks it down really well, simple and succinct.

  • @KeshavDhanraj
    @KeshavDhanraj2 жыл бұрын

    So so so proud!

  • @Maya-zi9dj
    @Maya-zi9dj2 жыл бұрын

    That was an inspiring message that women should hear and be reminded of.

  • @TechFun100
    @TechFun100 Жыл бұрын

    Really powerful message! I have fond this to be a cultural barrier for me in the past and I often address this in mentoring and coaching sessions.

  • @lixinzheng9670
    @lixinzheng96702 жыл бұрын

    Very nice talk. She makes great points that people should hear!

  • @sreeanilkumar3333
    @sreeanilkumar33332 жыл бұрын

    Awesome 👌.

  • @TheSrigayathri
    @TheSrigayathri2 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed listening to the talk. Well spoken and well done Bhavana.

  • @shwetasunil2437
    @shwetasunil24372 жыл бұрын

    Such an inspiring and important message. Thanks for talking about this!

  • @alexmsong
    @alexmsong2 жыл бұрын

    This is such an inspiring message!! A message that everyone should hear!

  • @tianas.clarkdriversseat5529
    @tianas.clarkdriversseat55292 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful video! Bhavana, you are so comfortable in your own skin on stage. Love it. The message is so real. I loved your pointers. So valid. Lots of gems dropped. 💎💎

  • @bharanisrinivasan2802
    @bharanisrinivasan28022 жыл бұрын

    Very inspiring message, presented in a practical "how to do it" manner!

  • @komalpatel4400
    @komalpatel44002 жыл бұрын

    Awesome!! What a powerful and inspiring message!!

  • @noahbruckner3873
    @noahbruckner38732 жыл бұрын

    Great message and great video. Must watch!

  • @shobarajeev7563
    @shobarajeev75632 жыл бұрын

    So beautifully said Bhavana 👏👏👏

  • @marythomas3138
    @marythomas31382 жыл бұрын

    Wow, Congratulations 🎉

  • @emersonbarrett4580
    @emersonbarrett45802 жыл бұрын

    Self advocacy is so important, especially for women. I love to hear your story!

  • @vickysanders9711
    @vickysanders97112 жыл бұрын

    What a great message! For everyone but especially for women!

  • @thebartholfs4403
    @thebartholfs44032 жыл бұрын

    So proud of my Mom!!!

  • @aravindthippanaik1310
    @aravindthippanaik13102 жыл бұрын

    Such a simple and powerful message !

  • @TRAUNAK
    @TRAUNAK2 жыл бұрын

    Love this message. So important to hear

  • @anagaanil5490
    @anagaanil54902 жыл бұрын

    Well articulated Bhavna! Holds good for all age groups, whether you are a high schooler, working mom or a senior citizen...loved your thoughts!

  • @liakeel9754
    @liakeel9754 Жыл бұрын

    This was so inspiring! I'm definitely sharing with my teams and to my network.

  • @calliegoins3632
    @calliegoins36322 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love this message!

  • @shirleygeorge70
    @shirleygeorge702 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @kennyliu5702
    @kennyliu57022 жыл бұрын

    An important message, and a wonderful presentation!

  • @kathysiegel5585
    @kathysiegel55852 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing a very real and needed reminder about advocacy, especially important for women to hear.

  • @jasoncastillo2122
    @jasoncastillo21222 жыл бұрын

    Amazing talk with an amazing message!!

  • @patrickpalumbo9776
    @patrickpalumbo97762 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed the presentation. I found it informative and inspiring.

  • @pranav2160
    @pranav21602 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video and great message! Congrats Bhavana!

  • @anutgeorge6652
    @anutgeorge66522 жыл бұрын

    Awesome,inspiring message from my friend, well said bhavana 👍🏻

  • @1sumat
    @1sumat2 жыл бұрын

    Bhavana - this is fantastic! Loved the talk!

  • @evanmontoya32
    @evanmontoya322 жыл бұрын

    Phenomenal message! It’s quite inspiring

  • @stephanieshields8800
    @stephanieshields88002 жыл бұрын

    Great message! Very inspiring!

  • @Ms15021965
    @Ms150219652 жыл бұрын

    That's very motivating and inspiring.!!! Amazing talk Bhavana!!

  • @SecretGamer-xy9hk
    @SecretGamer-xy9hk2 жыл бұрын

    This is an amazing video!!!! Everyone should give this a hear!

  • @hojanur
    @hojanur2 жыл бұрын

    wow

  • @balazskaszala7584
    @balazskaszala75842 жыл бұрын

    Very inspirational and a great message!

  • @achaiahpm2613
    @achaiahpm26132 жыл бұрын

    Helping understand oneself better and structured way to make a difference for oneself

  • @scream728
    @scream7282 жыл бұрын

    Nice!! Very insightful

  • @allisonkoone
    @allisonkoone2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing these insights!

  • @JC-bp5dw
    @JC-bp5dw2 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff!

  • @savannahluney8958
    @savannahluney89582 жыл бұрын

    Powerful message, especially in the world today!

  • @poojamasand2343
    @poojamasand23432 жыл бұрын

    Very inspiring and a great message!!

  • @carolines7189
    @carolines71892 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring! Amazing message!!