The Saga of OP, Who Lost Her Husband of 10 Years Over Her Creepy BIL, Who Peed on Her Stuff, and ...

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AITA for not taking in my BIL who peed on my stuff and blamed my cat (u/Planetsahead in AITA)
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  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake678Ай бұрын

    raise your hand if you're here waiting for the next step in the giant aquarium/aqueduct?

  • @Orion_Spelled_Orian

    @Orion_Spelled_Orian

    Ай бұрын

    Yup

  • @Aubsy

    @Aubsy

    Ай бұрын

    🤚

  • @boneymeroney2674

    @boneymeroney2674

    Ай бұрын

    PeeGate😂

  • @beatricechan4716

    @beatricechan4716

    Ай бұрын

    Was wondering when the fish 😅would get here

  • @amberluppens3292

    @amberluppens3292

    Ай бұрын

    I was JUST about to comment something like this! I came here for the Reddit stories, but I stayed for the Minecraft

  • @RyukinJakka
    @RyukinJakkaАй бұрын

    I remember this story from a few years ago. That poor cat

  • @MaggieTheCat01

    @MaggieTheCat01

    Ай бұрын

    Little Sunny. My heart breaks for her. 😞

  • @lindah3803
    @lindah3803Ай бұрын

    I remember this story. Up to Ash being hospitalized. So much more came out. At 1 point I thought it's a miracle that Ash didn't turn out to be a serial killer. At least now everyone is getting the therapy/support that's long overdue. I wasn't surprised at Ted's attempt. Honestly I thought it would happen sooner. There are people in this world that Belong with a particular person. I believe OP belongs with Ted. They gravitate to each other. There's a saying: Time brings you to where you have always been intended to be.

  • @Mellow9795

    @Mellow9795

    Ай бұрын

    I'm about an hour and 10 minutes in the video had kinda half expecting to hear an update that they're back together

  • @ThatPurpleFlounder

    @ThatPurpleFlounder

    Ай бұрын

    I really think so too, since i think they really understand each other the best throughout this journey and probably will even past this

  • @ChkynBoy
    @ChkynBoyАй бұрын

    Ash, gotta piss 'em all.

  • @kiko485

    @kiko485

    9 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @ireniaks
    @ireniaks15 күн бұрын

    Damn, that's not bullying, that's abuse bordering on torture. Not surprising that he became psychotic.

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141Ай бұрын

    If Ash was using your wedding photo with your husband in it there might be a weird gender/incest thing

  • @cathylanders6377

    @cathylanders6377

    Ай бұрын

    How so

  • @shanewoody4232

    @shanewoody4232

    19 күн бұрын

    ​@@cathylanders6377Because the husband is Ash's brother

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141Ай бұрын

    There's a difference between being in love and loving someone. It's ok to love him. You share so much history. Ted seems to be disassociating a lot of things right now. He needs someone to check in on him. And someone to talk to. He's never going to find another person who has been through this trauma. So you should be a support group of two

  • @dianecheney4141

    @dianecheney4141

    Ай бұрын

    The first thing an abused child learns is to not show emotion. To compartmentalize the experiences that cause the emotion. I think Ted experienced something called flooding. Which means all the compartments opened up at once and all of those pent up emotions came pouring out. People are particularly vulnerable when that happens. I'm sure he's having to learn how to deal with emotions in a healthy way now because he was never taught before and neither were his brothers. The longer you go with those compartments intact the worse the flooding will be

  • @lady_mash23clark34
    @lady_mash23clark34Ай бұрын

    @56 mins. Hearing all of the abuse 😢 honestly poor ash. I hope he heals from the torture and evil. The OP has nothing to do with his childhood. It sucks she became the primary victim. Idk. That family is evil and OP its best theres a divorce. God.

  • @nicksuazo4377

    @nicksuazo4377

    20 күн бұрын

    Among Ash and Ted, it's no wonder OPs ex in-laws all blamed her for the fallout. They were all abusers, mil was the biggest enabler, as well as gaslighter, and OP standing up for herself and enforcing boundaries showed those in-laws what a healthy environment and relationship(s) should be.

  • @onlyDoti
    @onlyDotiАй бұрын

    Am I crazy or does Ted sound like a pretty good dude? OPs updates hint at a lot of Ted hate, but he really doesn’t sound that bad. He def has his issues, but he seems like a dude who tries to be good to people and feels bad when he causes them trouble. He seems like someone who tries. I dont know… maybe it’s just me

  • @gina3304

    @gina3304

    Ай бұрын

    I agree... he honestly didn't deserve having so many people hating on him. All of Ted's siblings are a product of their upbringing, some managed to own up to their parts in their childhood, and that showed with OP talking about the brothers that stepped up to actually help and try and make things right. As bad as what OP went through, and I am not dismissing her trauma, Ted was traumatised as well, and his entire family imploded from almost every deep dark secret being dragged kicking and screaming into the light

  • @skyskynomnom4674
    @skyskynomnom4674Ай бұрын

    My father was ten years younger than his brothers. They pushed him off a cliff when he was 7 among other things. He hasn’t murdered any cats over it.

  • @nicksuazo4377

    @nicksuazo4377

    20 күн бұрын

    After hearing that, I wouldn't blame him for killing at least ONE of his brothers. The mil in the story really did fail all her kids, and it makes me wonder how any of them made it to adulthood. P.S. I hope your dad is NC and living his best life

  • @williamrosmer8381
    @williamrosmer8381Ай бұрын

    am i the only one kind of hoping ted and op get together again?

  • @Forevanity
    @Forevanity8 күн бұрын

    This story is so sad to me... I really wish the best for OP As much as I feel for Ted, him keeping OP at arm's length the way he has isn't helping anyone. They aren't just friends nor do I think they ever could be given their history, and I think deep down he's scared of the harsh consequences of their break up which is that eventually she'll need to move on and meet someone else. If she ends up dating someone else (or visa versa), he'll always be the other man that her current partner :does: have to worry about unless they cut ties because she's so emotionally invested in him and he won't actually commit to his own actions. That's not to say that I wouldn't like to hear that they got back together in the end, I just think it should happen sooner rather than later: either they get back together or he stops holding her back from her future. (Note: I do believe in mixed gender friendships, but I do think these two have been too deep in it and clearly still love eachother way too much in a totally not-platonic way that it's impossible in this particular circumstance)

  • @momoangel9243
    @momoangel9243Ай бұрын

    Honestly op is not fault at all from start to finish, and in my honesty opinion this was going to happen regardless, even if op didn't marry ted, Especially since it was revealed he was doing the same thing to his niece's pictures, so he was going to do this even if op wasn't involved or not, And since mil was ok with enabling horrible behavior from her sons, so this terrible sht was gonna happen it's just unfortunately other people like op and the niece was caught in the cross fire, And it's scary to think if op and ted didn't find out the truth, and how far ash would escalate if gone undiscovered by anyone.

  • @LD-bj4xc
    @LD-bj4xcАй бұрын

    Can someone make a tldr comment to sum it up?

  • @kateyallred1148
    @kateyallred1148Ай бұрын

    This is the second story of guess peeing on roommate's stuff!! Wtf ! Is this really a thing? That's f-ing gross

  • @lynettephillip2412
    @lynettephillip2412Ай бұрын

    I think that you both should get back together. You both love each other.

  • @QueenMizu
    @QueenMizuАй бұрын

    Hey! My cat name is Socks because his paws are white lol.

  • @SecretVoices25

    @SecretVoices25

    Ай бұрын

    Wow long time no see

  • @SecretVoices25

    @SecretVoices25

    Ай бұрын

    How are you?

  • @QueenMizu

    @QueenMizu

    Ай бұрын

    @@SecretVoices25 hey hey! I've been good 🤗 and you? Sorry for the lack of comments. I usually download and listen to your videos while I work now and forget to comment when I get home 😅

  • @SecretVoices25

    @SecretVoices25

    Ай бұрын

    oh,😂 I'm fine thanks for asking

  • @BubblegumGirl366
    @BubblegumGirl36622 күн бұрын

    I still truly believe Ted and OP are soulmates. I hope they find their way back to each other.

  • @MoistTowelette125
    @MoistTowelette12522 күн бұрын

    Ah the “Peegate Saga” It’s a good one 😂

  • @SALshaNoma
    @SALshaNoma5 күн бұрын

    I remember this story but how is it this long? The marriage was over after 40 mins yet it keeps going.

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141Ай бұрын

    Post the video to the family chat

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141Ай бұрын

    Make a contract charge him a cleaning deposit of double the rent(the full rent). Make sure you put in that if he's caught peeing in the house he's out no discussion He pays for whatever he pees on this time

  • @mill2712

    @mill2712

    Ай бұрын

    That's probably too late now. He's a whole country away now and was in a psychiatric ward along with having no job so good luck getting anything.

  • @untoldstories995
    @untoldstories9957 күн бұрын

    😢

  • @ignacioaguirre8137
    @ignacioaguirre8137Ай бұрын

    Who cooks tacos in the oven?

  • @themistikcrow
    @themistikcrowАй бұрын

    Who asked for the video

  • @SecretVoices25

    @SecretVoices25

    Ай бұрын

    Why, what happened?

  • @kirby-luvr

    @kirby-luvr

    Ай бұрын

    I did

  • @theangryparas3167

    @theangryparas3167

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@SecretVoices25its just a hating troll. Ignore them. I find these stories interesting, and this guy is just being a hater ❤

  • @guziman1963

    @guziman1963

    Ай бұрын

    Who asked for you to ask who asked?

  • @Only1199

    @Only1199

    Ай бұрын

    Who asked for your comment

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