The Saga of OP, Who Lost Her Husband of 10 Years Over Her Creepy BIL, Who Peed on Her Stuff, and ...
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AITA for not taking in my BIL who peed on my stuff and blamed my cat (u/Planetsahead in AITA)
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raise your hand if you're here waiting for the next step in the giant aquarium/aqueduct?
@Orion_Spelled_Orian
Ай бұрын
Yup
@Aubsy
Ай бұрын
🤚
@boneymeroney2674
Ай бұрын
PeeGate😂
@beatricechan4716
Ай бұрын
Was wondering when the fish 😅would get here
@amberluppens3292
Ай бұрын
I was JUST about to comment something like this! I came here for the Reddit stories, but I stayed for the Minecraft
I remember this story from a few years ago. That poor cat
@MaggieTheCat01
Ай бұрын
Little Sunny. My heart breaks for her. 😞
I remember this story. Up to Ash being hospitalized. So much more came out. At 1 point I thought it's a miracle that Ash didn't turn out to be a serial killer. At least now everyone is getting the therapy/support that's long overdue. I wasn't surprised at Ted's attempt. Honestly I thought it would happen sooner. There are people in this world that Belong with a particular person. I believe OP belongs with Ted. They gravitate to each other. There's a saying: Time brings you to where you have always been intended to be.
@Mellow9795
Ай бұрын
I'm about an hour and 10 minutes in the video had kinda half expecting to hear an update that they're back together
@ThatPurpleFlounder
Ай бұрын
I really think so too, since i think they really understand each other the best throughout this journey and probably will even past this
Ash, gotta piss 'em all.
@kiko485
9 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
Damn, that's not bullying, that's abuse bordering on torture. Not surprising that he became psychotic.
If Ash was using your wedding photo with your husband in it there might be a weird gender/incest thing
@cathylanders6377
Ай бұрын
How so
@shanewoody4232
19 күн бұрын
@@cathylanders6377Because the husband is Ash's brother
There's a difference between being in love and loving someone. It's ok to love him. You share so much history. Ted seems to be disassociating a lot of things right now. He needs someone to check in on him. And someone to talk to. He's never going to find another person who has been through this trauma. So you should be a support group of two
@dianecheney4141
Ай бұрын
The first thing an abused child learns is to not show emotion. To compartmentalize the experiences that cause the emotion. I think Ted experienced something called flooding. Which means all the compartments opened up at once and all of those pent up emotions came pouring out. People are particularly vulnerable when that happens. I'm sure he's having to learn how to deal with emotions in a healthy way now because he was never taught before and neither were his brothers. The longer you go with those compartments intact the worse the flooding will be
@56 mins. Hearing all of the abuse 😢 honestly poor ash. I hope he heals from the torture and evil. The OP has nothing to do with his childhood. It sucks she became the primary victim. Idk. That family is evil and OP its best theres a divorce. God.
@nicksuazo4377
20 күн бұрын
Among Ash and Ted, it's no wonder OPs ex in-laws all blamed her for the fallout. They were all abusers, mil was the biggest enabler, as well as gaslighter, and OP standing up for herself and enforcing boundaries showed those in-laws what a healthy environment and relationship(s) should be.
Am I crazy or does Ted sound like a pretty good dude? OPs updates hint at a lot of Ted hate, but he really doesn’t sound that bad. He def has his issues, but he seems like a dude who tries to be good to people and feels bad when he causes them trouble. He seems like someone who tries. I dont know… maybe it’s just me
@gina3304
Ай бұрын
I agree... he honestly didn't deserve having so many people hating on him. All of Ted's siblings are a product of their upbringing, some managed to own up to their parts in their childhood, and that showed with OP talking about the brothers that stepped up to actually help and try and make things right. As bad as what OP went through, and I am not dismissing her trauma, Ted was traumatised as well, and his entire family imploded from almost every deep dark secret being dragged kicking and screaming into the light
My father was ten years younger than his brothers. They pushed him off a cliff when he was 7 among other things. He hasn’t murdered any cats over it.
@nicksuazo4377
20 күн бұрын
After hearing that, I wouldn't blame him for killing at least ONE of his brothers. The mil in the story really did fail all her kids, and it makes me wonder how any of them made it to adulthood. P.S. I hope your dad is NC and living his best life
am i the only one kind of hoping ted and op get together again?
This story is so sad to me... I really wish the best for OP As much as I feel for Ted, him keeping OP at arm's length the way he has isn't helping anyone. They aren't just friends nor do I think they ever could be given their history, and I think deep down he's scared of the harsh consequences of their break up which is that eventually she'll need to move on and meet someone else. If she ends up dating someone else (or visa versa), he'll always be the other man that her current partner :does: have to worry about unless they cut ties because she's so emotionally invested in him and he won't actually commit to his own actions. That's not to say that I wouldn't like to hear that they got back together in the end, I just think it should happen sooner rather than later: either they get back together or he stops holding her back from her future. (Note: I do believe in mixed gender friendships, but I do think these two have been too deep in it and clearly still love eachother way too much in a totally not-platonic way that it's impossible in this particular circumstance)
Honestly op is not fault at all from start to finish, and in my honesty opinion this was going to happen regardless, even if op didn't marry ted, Especially since it was revealed he was doing the same thing to his niece's pictures, so he was going to do this even if op wasn't involved or not, And since mil was ok with enabling horrible behavior from her sons, so this terrible sht was gonna happen it's just unfortunately other people like op and the niece was caught in the cross fire, And it's scary to think if op and ted didn't find out the truth, and how far ash would escalate if gone undiscovered by anyone.
Can someone make a tldr comment to sum it up?
This is the second story of guess peeing on roommate's stuff!! Wtf ! Is this really a thing? That's f-ing gross
I think that you both should get back together. You both love each other.
Hey! My cat name is Socks because his paws are white lol.
@SecretVoices25
Ай бұрын
Wow long time no see
@SecretVoices25
Ай бұрын
How are you?
@QueenMizu
Ай бұрын
@@SecretVoices25 hey hey! I've been good 🤗 and you? Sorry for the lack of comments. I usually download and listen to your videos while I work now and forget to comment when I get home 😅
@SecretVoices25
Ай бұрын
oh,😂 I'm fine thanks for asking
I still truly believe Ted and OP are soulmates. I hope they find their way back to each other.
Ah the “Peegate Saga” It’s a good one 😂
I remember this story but how is it this long? The marriage was over after 40 mins yet it keeps going.
Post the video to the family chat
Make a contract charge him a cleaning deposit of double the rent(the full rent). Make sure you put in that if he's caught peeing in the house he's out no discussion He pays for whatever he pees on this time
@mill2712
Ай бұрын
That's probably too late now. He's a whole country away now and was in a psychiatric ward along with having no job so good luck getting anything.
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Who cooks tacos in the oven?
Who asked for the video
@SecretVoices25
Ай бұрын
Why, what happened?
@kirby-luvr
Ай бұрын
I did
@theangryparas3167
Ай бұрын
@@SecretVoices25its just a hating troll. Ignore them. I find these stories interesting, and this guy is just being a hater ❤
@guziman1963
Ай бұрын
Who asked for you to ask who asked?
@Only1199
Ай бұрын
Who asked for your comment