The moment he called her daughter worthless shoulda been the moment she said "Right...pack your shit. I'll be sending you the paperwork."

@lazallewillemse3617

Ай бұрын

Agreed

@axinhedgelion8417

Ай бұрын

If it were me in that situation, I would’ve been given Two options…. Apologize, or pack my shit and get out Edit: due to me being too nice for my own good, I would apologize

@cototototorra7106

Ай бұрын

tbh we know damn well once his gold digging ass was out he would blame his daughter for that

@pugsabi

15 күн бұрын

​@@axinhedgelion8417apologies are cheap and useless when forced

Story 1. Op is definately NTA. The stepdaughter deserved nothing. And OP needs to divorce her money grubbing husband. Stepson seems like a good kid.

@SenseiZi

Ай бұрын

You know what bro In all of these stories nobody is the asshole. It is unlikely anybody ever will be because they don’t want to look bad so this is just sharing stories. I want to see a story where they are the asshole

@cocothedino_2901

25 күн бұрын

@@SenseiZitheres quite a few, look at r/am i the devil. its a bunch of reuploads of posts from AITA where the OP is being incredibly abusive or callous but either believe theyre justified or are totally oblivious to how theyre in the wrong.

She’s honestly a loser for not divorcing him for letting him cry, his way back into her house and into her money

Anyone sympathizing or siding with the stepdaughter in story one has outed themselves as a pos and an abuse apoligist, as well as someone who should never expect their own kids to trust them.

NTA. She treated the stepmom and her child like crap. Does she really expect anything different??? A bully is a bully.

Why are you still with him. Get a grip and give him a shove out the door.

S2: Bless this girls heart. I hope she finds someone who just loves the hell out of her. PEople keep throwing her away.

Oh man, that last story was actually really depressing. Especially when she overheard her in laws talking about her not belonging there amongst their family. That shit made my heart hurt for her.

@cototototorra7106

Ай бұрын

tbh i understand both sides as it must have been a headache having to deal with op's abusive family

@user-ev1sh9ct3g

17 күн бұрын

They were right. They helped her so much. Her son is their grandson but she is not family. It would be ungrateful not to recognize how much they helped her. She overstayed there. On what grounds must she stay there forever? She has money from her grandparent. And on top of that, both her and baby daddy are idiots. She was begging her ex to stay with her and baby daddy is still thinking about his ex

Story 1: Divorce? If he's going to treat your daughter like crap and call her useless, then why stay with him?

but she stayed married to him. this man had so much value that op's daughter was worth the sacrifice

@johnramirz1564

Ай бұрын

A man with value shouldn’t call his wife child worthless. A man with value can and should provide his own child the money his daughter needs.

@samoea19

25 күн бұрын

Right like woman....wtf

Everyone in the second story were dumb but I really dislike D the most for using OP as if he is the only victim

@rebewtinydino2572

Ай бұрын

The girl wasn’t dumb but her family was the fuck would disown her a baby out wedlock I’d common as shit she didn’t cheat on Anyone

Another reason why not to marry single parents because of this situation, why is OP still married to this guy anyway?!

@AQUIENLASALA

Ай бұрын

They were both single parents

Last story: my heart breaks for OP. Even though her babies dad will always be there, she is alone. She has no family or anyone else to lean on. His family has already started to pull away, and once he starts dating, she will just be "his kids mom"

The people who defend bullies and excuse their behaviour make me sick. They are more concerned about the bullies than they are about the kids that are the victims of said bullies. My grandfathet was a target of a nasty bully when he was at boarding school. He was a gentle person who who was a natural target for bullies. He took noxing lessons, then met his bully one afternoon, and gave him such a trouncing that he was never bullied again. That is how you deal with bullies! Bullies pick only pick on kids who don't fight back!

I really hope she told the stepson to watch his cash.

Story 1: OP is NTA definitely without a doubt in my mind

Anyone with a friend or relative in an abusive or problematic relationship, please know that *lecturing them and telling them to “just leave” will push them further into the arms of the person hurting them.* They’re coming to you for comfort and support, not dismissive judgements. It is excruciatingly painful to be in love with someone who alternates between being great and sweet and caring…and then when you least expect it they stab you in the heart and blame you for making them do it. It is a well documented pattern of abuse which is designed to destroy the victim’s self esteem and make them question everything they do. They are living on eggshells 365 days a year, and their partner has thoroughly convinced them that they love them, and that if they were to leave, nobody else would ever love them like they do, because they’re worthless. The best thing you can do is tell them they don’t deserve to treated that way, and tell them they can stay with you if they need to leave. Or if you REALLY care, you could tell the abuser off yourself. But most people tend to just see their friend getting hurt over and over again as an annoyance and none of their business.

Story 1: she fail her daughter by not divorcing

2nd Story the Op has the parents of nightmares.

I never had my own bully, but I have absolutely no tolerance for them and I believe they should be held accountable.

"I, of course, felt bad about the paternity test part" Why? This is the exact situation that makes the most sense. He doesn't know you and you had sex once while you were supposedly on birth control. Feeling bad about that is silly.

OP #2 is so pathetic, I want to scream. She should have dumped D from day 1 when he cheated. She took him back played the pick me dance , threw money ay him , called his R make up so🤬. I don’t get it , she needs serious therapy, I’m guessing her parents have a lot to do with it, the lack of self esteem. However you have your own home , money from you grandparents and a child now , it’s time to put on grown women’s panties and take charge of your life.

Why is op still with this man . He's using op. He can pay for his own daughter. He knows the history between op and step kid She doesn't realize the influence she has on her daughter im sure op wouldn't want for her daughter.

“You’re daughter is worthless anyways” “casket or cremation?” “If it comes to my daughter or our relationship, I’m choosing my daughter” doesn’t actually choose her daughter 🤦🏽‍♀️

Are you sure your husband isn’t spending the college money? Op, time for a divorce. Your husband is using you.

Nta, a bully is a bully. Don't give her anything

Story 1 you owe that girl nothing and if husband doesn't see how toxicity within his daughter really is than perhaps you need to think about separation and the mental health you definitely need to protect. Story 2 wtf you need to think about how 🤔 you might not be able to fix it.but seriously seek therapy and maybe live by yourself until you figure out what is the best option with out setting in the toxicity you've created

OP I WAS BULLIED MOST IF NOT ALL MY LIFE BY OTHER PEOPLE NOT TO MENTION CHILDREN WHEN I WAS SMALL.

@jamesplayzreviews

Ай бұрын

Your point?

Time for hubby to go

NTA and i dont side with the bullys side at all im on 100% on ops and the daughters side i dont consoles bullying at all cause i know how it feels like to be bullied

The last story- she had some abusive ass parents, glad she got the help she needed but D isn’t the one either

Story #1: Hold up, I'm kinda confused. She said he pays child support and alimony but both his kids are grown. Stepson is 20 and stepdaughter is 19.

@barneytaylor9338

Ай бұрын

Some places you are on the hook until the kid is 21.

@Hexe_19394

Ай бұрын

I think in Germany you have to pay child Support until the kid is 25 or has finished the first "Ausbildung". (Sry it's 3 am and my brain just doesn't come up with the right word xD)

@AQUIENLASALA

Ай бұрын

This story does not take place in North America

Dam you don't bag out someone else's kid to them, the OP should just be like well the step daughter is going to be a doctor so she doesn't need the help. 😁 (Shit eating grin)

DEMAND DAUGHTER DEFEND. HERSELF WHEN GIRL STARTS BEATING DAUGHTER ! INSIST DAUGHTER DONT ! STOP 🛑. FIGHTING ! UNTIL POLICE ! PULL DAUGHTER OFF HER ! DAUGHTER MUST DEFEND HERSELF

A revenge affair is still an affair. Two wrongs dont make a right. And now she's in the same position her boyfriend was in. Both are now cheaters.

Story 1 - OP is NTA. OP needs to divorce their gold digger husband. The stepdaughter got her attitude towards OP’s daughter & her from the husband. The stepdaughter doesn’t deserve a single penny nor does she deserve to so much as breathe the same air as OP & her daughter. Stepdaughter played stupid games so she can enjoy her stupid prize. I don’t understand why people get into marriages or stay in them when their partners & children treat😮 them & their kids like 💩. I hope OP goes NC with stepdaughter forever because that’s what she deserves.

There was way to many comments on story 1

@professorrosenstock5026

Ай бұрын

I think because she replied a lot.

LADY ! DUDE ! NEVER ! EVER. ! LOVED YOU ! NOT A. BIT ! HUSBAND ALLOWED. DAUGHTER 2. TOTTAL. DISRESPECT YOU ! YEAR. AFTER YEAR ! BANKING ON. FAT. ALIMONY ! LAYING WAITING ! HUSBAND &. EX. LAUGHING TOGETHER ! WAITING 4. ALIMONY