RED FLAGS FROM JUSTIN BIEBER & HAILEY BALDWIN IN 'SEASONS': Signs You're Codependent | Shallon

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RED FLAGS FROM JUSTIN BIEBER & HAILEY BALDWIN IN 'SEASONS': Signs You're Codependent | Shallon ‪@justinbieber‬
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  • @griselolmos5624
    @griselolmos56244 жыл бұрын

    Dating is not therapy.

  • @jovana_branka8966

    @jovana_branka8966

    4 жыл бұрын

    Faaaacts 😂 Sooo true

  • @jovana_branka8966

    @jovana_branka8966

    4 жыл бұрын

    And what do you do when you’re single again 😂

  • @Sariine436

    @Sariine436

    4 жыл бұрын

    It can. It just depends...

  • @treasurem2491

    @treasurem2491

    4 жыл бұрын

    Factuals!!!

  • @JokkePlays

    @JokkePlays

    4 жыл бұрын

    it can be, if your partner helps you and talks with you about it. You guys really dont see any perspectives other than your own very limited knowlegde lol

  • @96delorean
    @96delorean4 жыл бұрын

    He kept saying how she’s forgiving, and that she forgives him all the time, and i’m like? what does he keep doing that needs to be forgiven ALL THE TIME? i think they love each other but she doesn’t seem to get anything back, just constant work. it’s like she’s his babysitter

  • @marieki1

    @marieki1

    4 жыл бұрын

    drugs

  • @PrettyboiYT

    @PrettyboiYT

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ur an idiot

  • @itzelramos7386

    @itzelramos7386

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's exactly what I was thinking!

  • @YPM498

    @YPM498

    4 жыл бұрын

    Did you see that video when he shut the car door on her and stormed off in the wrong direction. She was like “Babe, over here” afterwards. If that was me I would literally ignore him and let him keep walking in the wrong direction.

  • @nikkijones9713

    @nikkijones9713

    4 жыл бұрын

    Slamming a car door in her face? If he does that in front of all those cameras imagine how he behaves at home 😳

  • @rahman1314
    @rahman13144 жыл бұрын

    If you were a psychology lecturer, i would never miss your class.

  • @anjuhh

    @anjuhh

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @imadori1010

    @imadori1010

    4 жыл бұрын

    Seriously I'd take all her courses

  • @shallonlester

    @shallonlester

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ok set it up at your school and plz make sure the class is half bad bitches like yourself...and then half D1 athletes

  • @yooolanda4992

    @yooolanda4992

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shallon is a legend could you imagine if little Hollister wearing Jake Paul looking ass frat boys tried to add the class, she would kill them with her eyes lol

  • @mariarivera5415

    @mariarivera5415

    4 жыл бұрын

    I can get behind this!

  • @booklover466
    @booklover4664 жыл бұрын

    That girl is just wasting her energy on someone who doesn’t want to get better and who consistently needs reassurance. She needs to make herself as a priority and spend her time sharpening herself.

  • @nothing5992

    @nothing5992

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is not wasting anything she is smart. The girl convinced a broken guy to marry her in 2 months of relationship and gained like 100 million dollars into her bank account lol. She sold her soul for clout.

  • @mskimberly7777

    @mskimberly7777

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nothing5992 Once he self destructs-She gets a fortune. But she can't get that time back.

  • @nothing5992

    @nothing5992

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@booklover466 I doubt it. Shawn Mendes never felt confortable with people suggesting he was with her. She was around famous people trying to find a guy finally sees her seriously and the only one she found was broken. :P. Her networth was 2 million before marrying Justin. So yeah ...

  • @ThatNewMo

    @ThatNewMo

    4 жыл бұрын

    And you're wasting your energy by writing this stupid comment. How about you focus on your own life, and take your advice while you're at.

  • @laram3188

    @laram3188

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nothing5992 they've known eachother since they were kids. They've been friends for YEARS and years. Dated for a year and met back again during those 2 months.

  • @cierrabernae
    @cierrabernae4 жыл бұрын

    justin's team talks about him as if he's a child. they don't care whether or not hailey and justin are compatible or in a healthy relationship, they're just glad they don't have to babysit anymore

  • @ArtoniqueNelsonTV

    @ArtoniqueNelsonTV

    4 жыл бұрын

    FACTS

  • @vallymokhlis

    @vallymokhlis

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow that's crazy

  • @The_torero

    @The_torero

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. This is what I said. One of the women on Justin's team pretty much said she was happy that Justin found Hailey because they don't have to worry about him as much anymore. The drugs have fried Justin's brain.

  • @JokkePlays

    @JokkePlays

    4 жыл бұрын

    yeah tottallyy. Probably the case? Youre a fucking idiot, go play with your tablet your dad bought you for your 10th birthday

  • @samantarivero1392

    @samantarivero1392

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @Lucia-Sosa
    @Lucia-Sosa4 жыл бұрын

    yeah, she's 100% a caretaker disguised as a wife... it's very sad. I watched her the whole time and there's sadness in her eyes.

  • @amberblaze420

    @amberblaze420

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree, I've been through the same kinda thing as she and I totally see the life left her eyes and he is the reason for it..

  • @dominiquenguyen_
    @dominiquenguyen_4 жыл бұрын

    Justin's publicist: "I sleep great now that Hailey's around. Now I know I'm not gonna get that scary phonecall in the middle of the night. If something happens, I know there's a competent adult here." Soooo basically she's saying Justin is still in his old ways and he's not a competent adult? And the only positive thing is that he has a babysitter now? Very healthy to say about a relationship.

  • @loveprada1405
    @loveprada14054 жыл бұрын

    I feel like this is that “ride or die” mentally that most girls think they need to have for the guy even if the guy isn’t the same back

  • @The_torero

    @The_torero

    4 жыл бұрын

    The sad thing is you rarely hear about a ride-or-die guy.

  • @katesnowden3715

    @katesnowden3715

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pretty much. I had a friend (couldn’t deal with him anymore) that married this amazing woman - pretty, sweet, loyal. He’s smart but clearly no genius or he would have made his mark on the world by now. Only did one year of university but still thinks he’s too good to work just about ANY job where he would have to answer to someone - especially someone he deems as less intelligent than himself (which is pretty much everyone). Oh but - he’s bipolar! And schizophrenic. Or maybe just bipolar? Who knows, but either way, he’s a victim! His girlfriend (fiancé of 7-8 years!) wanted a child so badly and he was able to give her one - well, two. Now she will not give up on him at ANY cost - she works full time as a school counselor, he lives off the government and has explicitly stated that he has no intention of ever working. So you’d think he would help around the house - cook and clean, take care of their 5 year old son, right? Nope. He lives in the GARAGE. The GARAGE (separate from the house) while she and the son are in the house. During the day he’s in there. Doesn’t clean or cook. Makes her or her dad (who is the vice-President of a bank) do the yardwork as it is “beneath him”. Where’s their son during the day? Oh, she takes the child to daycare (even though he has a father at home)! When she’s late getting home from work he complains that he’s hungry and it’s so “rude” of her to “sit and yap” with her coworkers when he clearly needs her. Why doesn’t he go get food himself? Well, apart from having no money... he’s never had his driver’s license! And worst of all, when he’s caught her innocuously chatting with a coworker (who complimented her when she was pregnant - he completely ignored her) he goes and makes a Tinder account, has completely inappropriate exchanges with quite a few girls, then brags about them to everyone - including her! But she keeps forgiving him because I truly feel she likes mothering him. How else can you put up with that from your supposed “equal partner” as long as she has? And her argument that her son “needs his father” grows weaker and weaker the older the son gets. Last I heard, he was pointing to the garage to his little friend he had over and stating, “and there’s Daddy’s house!” 🤦🏼‍♀️ Why was I friends with him so long? I guess because I always kept him at a distance, and because I’ve known him since I was little. It’s tough to let those friendships go entirely, but he made it very easy after some unforgivable things he said. It’s been about two years (if not more) since I spoke to him... and my life is so much better not having to hear him constantly put everyone around him down.

  • @paperplains7285

    @paperplains7285

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep, extremely toxic. Why give up your entire life and desires for a man who could care less? Then if you don't do what he wants one time, he loses his shit. Toxic, loser man babies.

  • @eeezahobels1355

    @eeezahobels1355

    3 жыл бұрын

    yeah and it was now or never for hailey, she marry justin or be his on and off chick forever.. she took the chance and took justin come what may

  • @SermonsSubtitled
    @SermonsSubtitled4 жыл бұрын

    Selena REALLY dodged a bullet!!

  • @geenaolague9224

    @geenaolague9224

    3 жыл бұрын

    Selena is the bullet

  • @jewelsjelico9567
    @jewelsjelico95674 жыл бұрын

    Their relationship will NEVER survive having children. Because he IS the child.

  • @de7904

    @de7904

    4 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely. The kids would get attention and he would get really unhappy because he generally gets all of her attention

  • @cristinalynn17

    @cristinalynn17

    4 жыл бұрын

    So True!! And theyll try to make it work for way too long...

  • @nahwhy7723

    @nahwhy7723

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @JokkePlays

    @JokkePlays

    4 жыл бұрын

    you guys are really some dumb fucks. You think its like that in the real world just being to sensitive to not getting attention, and then everything falls apart for them? lol

  • @eeproductions9019

    @eeproductions9019

    4 жыл бұрын

    Justin would be a great dad

  • @TMercan31
    @TMercan314 жыл бұрын

    None of this business with Hailey & Justin surprises me in the slightest. Remember, her dad was a drug addict. All of her uncles, except for Billy Baldwin, have had issues with drugs & alcohol. Although Uncle Billy didn't have substance abuse problems, Auntie Chyna did. And he has stood by her side for 25 years. So Hailey has grown up in a highly dysfunctional family, riddled with substance abuse problems. And what has she seen? That the family members that had substance abuse problems, their partners have stuck by them (except for Alec I believe), to help them, to stick with them through "good times & bad; sickness & health; for richer or poorer, etc etc blah blah". What else has she seen? Her dad became a born again Christian, which he says helped him save his life from drugs & alcohol and get on the right path. And his wife stood alongside him during it. Hmmm, sound familiar? When someone has grown up in chaos, they tend to gravitate towards chaos in their adult life. It's more comfortable for them to live in the eye of the storm (JB) than to be with someone who is somewhat normal, ie Shawn Mendes. Because they don't know how to act or how to be when NOT in a chaotic relationship or environment. It is far more uncomfortable for someone like Hailey, who is from that chaotic type of upbringing, to be with someone who has grown up in a somewhat functional family without substance abuse problems. I say somewhat functional & somewhat normal because no one is perfect & what IS normal anyway? Justin gives her a purpose, to take care of him. That's what she knows best to do. What she has seen in her life to do. Yes she's a model and quite beautiful but before JB how often did you hear her name when it came to modelling? You heard Kendall, Gigi, Bella, etc but Hailey? Not so much. Except when she was one of the models for the Fyre Festival. And honestly, she should've had a much bigger career than she did. Now she has Calvin Klein campaigns with Justin. She shoulda stuck with our other Canadian boy, Mr Shawn Mendes, who is a way better catch (at least what we see in public. He's not throwing eggs at his neighbours house or anything). But then again, she probably didn't feel worthy enough to be with him. He didn't need her to zip him up in a plastic sleeping bag and force him to take his meds.

  • @jika1986

    @jika1986

    4 жыл бұрын

    💯%!!!

  • @jermaineennis3788

    @jermaineennis3788

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jika1986 well said

  • @Brsbeach

    @Brsbeach

    4 жыл бұрын

    Where does Michelle Phillips fit into this story...?

  • @TMercan31

    @TMercan31

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Brsbeach I didn't mention Michelle Phillips?

  • @Brsbeach

    @Brsbeach

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TMercan31 Yes- Michelle is a girl who REALLY knows screwed up relationships, from Dennis Hopper, John's daughter Mackenzie to, every married man she consumed- not to mention that NO ONE should look as good as she does with the Titanic amount of drugs they all consumed...

  • @Magnoliasdiary
    @Magnoliasdiary4 жыл бұрын

    The whole video about his relationship is painful to watch, her life is all about him, making him happy, making him stable, making him sober, making him loyal, her forgiving him all the time, omg that poor girl doesn't have a life, it's all about him and his needs.

  • @annaliesegann9491

    @annaliesegann9491

    4 жыл бұрын

    hes so selfish

  • @jika1986

    @jika1986

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is boring, has no talents, beside of modeling, her world spins around him cuz she got nothing else to do with her self anyway

  • @nurainsofea5411

    @nurainsofea5411

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mpiugdty Hgffijfcxp you trust random person words on internet easily lol

  • @blakecoston1831

    @blakecoston1831

    4 жыл бұрын

    She said in the doc she wasn't even messing with him when he was on drugs. He had to make the decision to get clean.

  • @aprilbitar8496

    @aprilbitar8496

    4 жыл бұрын

    They focused on that so that people would know how good she is for him instead of people saying Selena is better

  • @Jakilyn
    @Jakilyn4 жыл бұрын

    He always acts like he's doing Hailey a _favor_ by letting her be his wife..

  • @beautyalaritz3310

    @beautyalaritz3310

    3 жыл бұрын

    He's a complete narcissist

  • @GloriaChenPHC

    @GloriaChenPHC

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very accurate.

  • @tmone802
    @tmone8024 жыл бұрын

    Mark my words. Even if she’s touring with him. Problems WILL arise with him.

  • @judemelroses9920

    @judemelroses9920

    4 жыл бұрын

    Touring with your S.O. brings tons of unprovoked problems.

  • @de7904

    @de7904

    4 жыл бұрын

    You're right

  • @JokkePlays

    @JokkePlays

    4 жыл бұрын

    no they will have a problemfree relationship... What the fuck do you think you stupid fuck, do you even know what world youre living in? relationships are so much harder than what you fuckhead new generation children think they are.

  • @weronikas1307
    @weronikas13074 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad, but I get Hailey. I understand when you’re fixated on someone for years and FINALLY get their attention and commitment you ignore every negative aspect of the relationship because you finally got what you’ve wanted for such a long time. Sorry for grammar mistakes, not a native speaker :)

  • @cherish.o.m4453

    @cherish.o.m4453

    4 жыл бұрын

    Selena said in her recent single music I saw the sign and I ignored it. Same with hailey it's a pity she look like a nice girl and stable in some ways.

  • @kathleenjohnston3582

    @kathleenjohnston3582

    4 жыл бұрын

    So much freaking sense

  • @JokkePlays

    @JokkePlays

    4 жыл бұрын

    nor a native thinker. What bullshit

  • @colourqueen22

    @colourqueen22

    4 жыл бұрын

    We've all been there 😔

  • @paperplains7285

    @paperplains7285

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, that's just SAD.

  • @petrauhrakova
    @petrauhrakova4 жыл бұрын

    I was waiting for this. I’m not their fan (don’t care about his music or her modeling career, not talking about their relationship) but I saw a bit from that particular part of documentary and I’ve noticed that’s she’s straight up acting like his mom. She hugs him everytime, he’s lying on her and she’s always cuddling and comforting him, but he’s never giving her the same energy. She’s trying so hard and he’s just not giving a fuck. It was truly tragic.

  • @karenmuniz3595

    @karenmuniz3595

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg Is soo true.. he doesn't do anything for her l mean mmshe always hugs him AND he Is like... Yes you áre cute but you arent my love

  • @berinax

    @berinax

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its not that he doesn’t love her cuz im sure he does. Its just that he cant seem to give back the same energy he’s receiving. And she keeps doing everything to make him feel good and at this point i think they both got used to this situation. Eventually one of them will break up and end this

  • @fhanak8308

    @fhanak8308

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ikr

  • @TiffTheTyrant
    @TiffTheTyrant4 жыл бұрын

    I’m 35. Divorced and have been in codependent relationships since I was 20. At this point I REFUSE to be someone’s mom, therapist, or bank account. I have my own problems and I fix them. I expect that from my future partner. I want a man not a dependant.

  • @Lucia-Sosa

    @Lucia-Sosa

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah 💪😎

  • @TiffTheTyrant

    @TiffTheTyrant

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sapphire Sky I think it’s different what you are aware that you can flip the script. Not because you NEED to, but because you want to.

  • @mysticalpineapple7263

    @mysticalpineapple7263

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good quote “I refuse to be someone’s mom, therapist or bank account”

  • @jacquelineoh6382

    @jacquelineoh6382

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tiffany Zoe you nailed it. I am recently separated and i love being alone. just like you said when issues arise I take care of them on my own 👍

  • @JokkePlays

    @JokkePlays

    4 жыл бұрын

    wonder why you are divorced. You should try working on yourself. Of course you shouldn't have a dependant, but maybe some more feelings for other human beings would be fitted.

  • @JT-dl6ic
    @JT-dl6ic4 жыл бұрын

    Holding someone down like that gets exhausting. What happens when he goes on tour with females throw themselves at him? Nothing but temptation in his field. Will she stay hanging around him at all times of the day? She can’t stay giving herself away to keep him.

  • @sassycat6487

    @sassycat6487

    4 жыл бұрын

    She will stay just like her mom stayed when her dad cheated.

  • @mxxx9561

    @mxxx9561

    4 жыл бұрын

    that’s so sad to realise ☹️

  • @tanishakapoor6804

    @tanishakapoor6804

    4 жыл бұрын

    There is something called LOYALTY. Once you're married you have to be loyal to the person. Justin said it was a big decision. He has COMMITTED to Hailey. And it is not necessary for her to stay with him all the damn time and she doesn't. Who told you she stays with him 24/7? You live with them? You know them?

  • @mxxx9561

    @mxxx9561

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tanisha Kapoor lmao don’t cry

  • @tanishakapoor6804

    @tanishakapoor6804

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mxxx9561 How about you stfu

  • @nevergivingup38
    @nevergivingup384 жыл бұрын

    'He's like this Bart Simpson and she's like...mm patient Marge' 😂 👌🏼

  • @imchristinac
    @imchristinac4 жыл бұрын

    My only question for them is what does he do for her? He speaks a lot about how forgiving she is and how she takes care of him and picks him back up again when he’s down. But what is he giving back to her in this marriage?

  • @ashwinigautam7282

    @ashwinigautam7282

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly 😁😁😁😁😁

  • @yogaqueen1527

    @yogaqueen1527

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sex

  • @stuff1784

    @stuff1784

    4 жыл бұрын

    ...fame?

  • @Naama178

    @Naama178

    4 жыл бұрын

    Money. He’s one of the richest people in the world lol. Plus he gives her fame and recognition

  • @victoriamellark

    @victoriamellark

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Naama178 she's from rich family, she always had a lot of money

  • @BlueKauai
    @BlueKauai4 жыл бұрын

    Rooting for Hailey to get out of this mess. This is simply too overwhelming for a 23-year-old wife. Even Justin's team is exhausted. Justin is narcissistic. His loyalty lies *entirely* with himself. Hailey will start to feel used (which she IS) and become bitter at some point. I support Hailey as a woman, not a fan. I don't even particularly like her.

  • @peliac7319

    @peliac7319

    4 жыл бұрын

    How do you know Justin is a narcissist

  • @heidi1992
    @heidi19924 жыл бұрын

    Hailey is too young to be taking care of an adult baby. I think she just loves the idea of being his wife.. I give their marriage like 3 years max

  • @cryforthemoon
    @cryforthemoon4 жыл бұрын

    His wife is probably at the studio until 4 am cause he'll be unfaithful.

  • @PiNkandGrEenZeBRA

    @PiNkandGrEenZeBRA

    4 жыл бұрын

    cryforthemoon I thought the same thing....

  • @palavi50

    @palavi50

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very true..👍🏻👍🏻😂

  • @Genesis-fs1dz

    @Genesis-fs1dz

    4 жыл бұрын

    that’s honestly really sad

  • @madelinerincon9628

    @madelinerincon9628

    4 жыл бұрын

    Naw he’s not like that anymore.

  • @nedjolson3752

    @nedjolson3752

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙄🤣🤣🤣

  • @theblackswanalice5336
    @theblackswanalice53364 жыл бұрын

    On Ellen Justin said he wasn't nervous she would say yes, he was worried he couldn't be monogamous in this marriage... so telling

  • @psycherevivedby

    @psycherevivedby

    3 жыл бұрын

    gross 🤢🤢🤢

  • @laurenhills239
    @laurenhills2394 жыл бұрын

    That IG live video where he said if she wasn’t hot he would’ve gotten rid of her along time ago is such a red flag, along with him closing the car door on her, and leaving her to trip in NYC.

  • @spooks9482

    @spooks9482

    4 жыл бұрын

    Woah. He really said that?

  • @laurenhills239

    @laurenhills239

    4 жыл бұрын

    Spooks here’s the video from his Live kzread.info/dash/bejne/eI1kw5aohM2Yk5M.html

  • @jordanpoyant8557

    @jordanpoyant8557

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@spooks9482 that person just took it out of context,they were both laughing

  • @brenme35

    @brenme35

    4 жыл бұрын

    Is this video still up

  • @laurenhills239

    @laurenhills239

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jordan Poyant How do you justify his other behaviors then?? She was awkwardly trying to play it off, just like when he shut the car door on her. Stop trying to defend him.

  • @EllenDaybow
    @EllenDaybow4 жыл бұрын

    She gets her teenage or even childhood dream of being with Justin coming true. She's just a stan who never got over her celebrity crush but married him instead. And the sad part is - that's probably why their relationship work: she's a stan and therefore the best partner possible for a complete narcissist that Justin is.

  • @EllenDaybow

    @EllenDaybow

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TheWSYNkatevy153 I'm not sure i understood your question correctly, but I hope this will help: www.elitedaily.com/p/was-hailey-baldwin-a-justin-bieber-fan-the-singer-just-outed-his-wife-in-a-hilarious-way-17025871 Please let me know if that's not what you meant 🙂

  • @peliac7319

    @peliac7319

    4 жыл бұрын

    How do you know Justin is a narcissist

  • @EllenDaybow

    @EllenDaybow

    4 жыл бұрын

    LiL [ash]TM well my point of view is mostly based on the stuff that's mentioned in this article: www.elitedaily.com/p/was-hailey-baldwin-a-justin-bieber-fan-the-singer-just-outed-his-wife-in-a-hilarious-way-17025871 Check it out, maybe you'll see where I'm coming from 🙂

  • @chelseyfaye8778

    @chelseyfaye8778

    4 жыл бұрын

    When they very first met and thier families became friends they were just kids(13ish) and she didnt know much about him but they just clicked. They dated off and on, shes not a crazy justin Stan. Lol if she was she would have been able to answer james cordens questions about justins music, like name 3 of his billboard 100 songs(i believe was the question)

  • @whatever-gm6tm

    @whatever-gm6tm

    4 жыл бұрын

    He will leave her.

  • @mindydiaz9015
    @mindydiaz90154 жыл бұрын

    Haley is the stan who got the man. She gives me faith I can have Leonardo DiCaprio 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @nataliegrace4592

    @nataliegrace4592

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣lol correct

  • @miaazor4663

    @miaazor4663

    4 жыл бұрын

    Leooo9

  • @peliac7319

    @peliac7319

    4 жыл бұрын

    DiCaprio only dates attractive girls, you never had a chance anyways 😳😁

  • @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult

    @AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult

    4 жыл бұрын

    why would you want dicaprio

  • @Myaccount923

    @Myaccount923

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mindy Diaz DiCaprio is a creep unfortunately 😭

  • @cyn725
    @cyn7254 жыл бұрын

    Nothing says love and desire like referring to your wife as a “competent adult”!

  • @Juliaa__T
    @Juliaa__T4 жыл бұрын

    Justin Bieber isn’t hot 😂😂😂 He slammed a car door in Haileys face. So rude!

  • @MakaylaCole123

    @MakaylaCole123

    4 жыл бұрын

    Julia T when he slammed the door in her face that was the real him.

  • @emmaisabelle17

    @emmaisabelle17

    4 жыл бұрын

    True colors emerge

  • @Juliaa__T

    @Juliaa__T

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fa Who the creepy Stache isn’t doing him any favors!

  • @KillJoy_Since2017

    @KillJoy_Since2017

    4 жыл бұрын

    Julia T Ikr Now that he’s getting closer to his thirties he ain’t cute no more

  • @Randompotatoes-qs7bm

    @Randompotatoes-qs7bm

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fa Who what..? he doesn’t look like a child. He used to be super cute. But he’s look really worn these days. Drugs ugh.

  • @nadineburgermeister5219
    @nadineburgermeister52194 жыл бұрын

    hailey should have stayed with shawn. justin will never give her anything back, he will just take and take and break her completely like selena. i am sorry for this woman for real, justin will cheat on her in a few years when the honeymoon phase is over and real life kicks in, justin will be bored with her and cheat on her, and she will take him back all the time no matter what he does, because she feels like she needs to prove everyone that she made a "bad" guy into a good one, and that she is a good wife and a good woman, and this trait is so toxic for women. i really hope she has the self worth and walks away before she is completely broken.

  • @jovana_branka8966

    @jovana_branka8966

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nadine Bürgermeister Stepping away is the best help you can provide as a good wife and women.

  • @levisview.5492

    @levisview.5492

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stay with shawn that is fucking camilla cabello

  • @kakala_j

    @kakala_j

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hailey stalked Justin all her life therefore she will do anything n everything to please him to keep him. She will try her best to show the world that he loves her more than any girl. Justin knew that no matter what he'll do Hailey will always bow down to him therefore he chose her to keep him company. He was depressed and in need of comfort n comes along Hailey. Am so so glad and happy that Selena finally dumped that toxic relationship.

  • @levisview.5492

    @levisview.5492

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kakala_j so Selena wasnt toxic to him aswell.Yall can talk like yall know what's going on.she stalked him.Selena was in a toxic relationship with him but still went back to him after dating the weekend.Smh yall stay pressed all the damn time...if you hate justin beiber say it dont say trash like you know what happened.

  • @kakala_j

    @kakala_j

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@levisview.5492 Imao however finally she realized that she was in a toxic relationship, she had to lose him to find herself. No there is NO hate but the world cannot deny that is the fact.

  • @HapaGuru
    @HapaGuru4 жыл бұрын

    The way Justin kept saying “she always forgives me” was a massive red flag. You can tell Justin uses and abuses her emotionally. She seems so sweet. I hope she is okay.

  • @angelsoverme25
    @angelsoverme254 жыл бұрын

    As a relationship counselor I absolutely said the same thing when I watched. She lives to love him. You are right & on point with everything. He loves her for loving him so much. That’s not a healthy relationship.

  • @imadori1010
    @imadori10104 жыл бұрын

    It was very cringy to watch the last few episodes saying things like "she deals with me" "she forgives me " is like not romantic or couple goals and what do you do for HER justin? He reminds me of my ex constant excuses and using his sickness to manipulate situations and excuse poor behaivor

  • @starrynights9674
    @starrynights96744 жыл бұрын

    I’m only codependent to shallon

  • @AnabelaU2277

    @AnabelaU2277

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!!! :D love this

  • @modenavigationprivee1227

    @modenavigationprivee1227

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @ShotGunFellatio

    @ShotGunFellatio

    4 жыл бұрын

    Starry Nights same

  • @annabella7109

    @annabella7109

    4 жыл бұрын

    Put this on a shirt shallon

  • @shallonlester

    @shallonlester

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m codependent on you

  • @mariatangled
    @mariatangled4 жыл бұрын

    i see them taking awhile to get divorced but its inevitable once she has children bc justin will freak out if hes not priority and hailey will be stressed dealing with multiple kids (justin included) it’s going to be a pam and tommy lee situation and justin is starting to look more like tommy lee

  • @thedevilsadvocate858

    @thedevilsadvocate858

    4 жыл бұрын

    I mean she can do better. She, model, she's pretty, from a very affluent family. But she married someone who is VERY similar to her father. It's like when girls are little they wanna marry their dads. Please ladies DON'T marry someone who's extension of your dad

  • @CS-pl1re

    @CS-pl1re

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jbieber is gay, nobody is believing this "marriage" he was happier whit his pastor lol

  • @dpwater25

    @dpwater25

    4 жыл бұрын

    Justin Included LOL

  • @nikkinikki702

    @nikkinikki702

    3 жыл бұрын

    And Hailey is aware of that. She knows if kids start coming Justin will freak out

  • @mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp3613
    @mpiugdtyhgffijfcxp36134 жыл бұрын

    It's gross seeing a bunch of people in their late thirties acting like their relationship is healthy. Justin's team aren't Hailey's friends at all.

  • @mackie355

    @mackie355

    4 жыл бұрын

    Justin's team aren't even Justin's friends

  • @paperplains7285

    @paperplains7285

    4 жыл бұрын

    They only care about money.

  • @Alejandra-ik3rr

    @Alejandra-ik3rr

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well no you don’t pay your friends.

  • @michaela388
    @michaela3884 жыл бұрын

    can you talk about drugs? you mention a lot how you’ve done a lot and i would like to see what you think about them now

  • @demiiwatson2081

    @demiiwatson2081

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes I'd like to see a video about what we can learn from past drug use or loved ones who use

  • @twiztidhippie7317

    @twiztidhippie7317

    4 жыл бұрын

    I thought she might be on pain pills in this video with how much she was itching her face lol.

  • @pineeapplesmoothie
    @pineeapplesmoothie4 жыл бұрын

    shallon's busting out a video a day and it's the only thing keeping me sane!

  • @fearlessstrength1365
    @fearlessstrength13654 жыл бұрын

    I really think they all know Justin doesn’t love her that’s why they are describe her as the help. Or they are happy that they don’t have to deal with him and the put Weight on her. Poor girl.

  • @jika1986

    @jika1986

    4 жыл бұрын

    Poor girl now fit h and famous lol

  • @bahparlvin9623

    @bahparlvin9623

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jika1986 the thing is haley is scared that people who call her losser if she leaves

  • @blinkur09mom
    @blinkur09mom4 жыл бұрын

    I like Hailey. Honestly I think this relationship won’t last longer than 2 years.

  • @ShroomSuccubus
    @ShroomSuccubus4 жыл бұрын

    I think the moment in the wedding episode where Justin had to ask his own father on his own wedding day, “Are you proud of me, Dad?” Really said it all.

  • @tiffanykautz8270
    @tiffanykautz82704 жыл бұрын

    Justin needs to get clean and be single 🤦‍♀️

  • @itsmeharperjacksons6633

    @itsmeharperjacksons6633

    4 жыл бұрын

    He's so co-dependent that I doubt he would stay single for too long

  • @julian449

    @julian449

    4 жыл бұрын

    Feel like when we was sober and coming back in 2015. Seemed much happier and way different. I don’t know. Somethings bothering me. I don’t know. Love em both tho

  • @bahparlvin9623

    @bahparlvin9623

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dats fact

  • @thefitnessjunkie8083

    @thefitnessjunkie8083

    4 жыл бұрын

    The truth is that the music industry we have nowadays is super filthy towards women and makes women believe that to earn the love of a man she must be sexually appealing to him.and another drawback about being in the music industry is that all u care about is more and more attention .u dont value yourself and u dont love urself.like some people will not agree with me but this is exactly Justin's problem.the reason many musicians nowadays especially those who are crazy about promoting their content and getting fame have to use drugs as they have to constantly devise plans to get more and more attention. Even in a relationship a man flirts with other women cuz he is addicted to getting attention.his wifes attention is not enough.this is how dangerous fame is .I feel that if music affects a person to that extent they should remove it from their lives and focus on who they want to be and what they want to do with their lives.like for some people music can be a drug .even if u want to u cannot detach urself from it

  • @melika9598
    @melika95984 жыл бұрын

    I've had a friend with a lot of problems but not much willingness to fix them. I remember at one point it became so exhausting for me, it drained all of my positive energy that I couldn't enjoy anything in my life. I can't believe someone would sign up for that shit for the rest of their life.

  • @maraivfrance2557

    @maraivfrance2557

    4 жыл бұрын

    Melika fr. I totally understand what you mean

  • @bahparlvin9623

    @bahparlvin9623

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Lindsey Bailes haley is still young n scared people will call her losser if she leaves but with time she will realise

  • @The_torero

    @The_torero

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here. And I have noticed that a lot of these needy people have abused drugs in the past. Justin did it. My old friend did it. It's like the drugs stunt their growth mentally. It's exhausting for others to be around.

  • @princessducky
    @princessducky4 жыл бұрын

    I think Hailey does love Justin and thought marrying him will be a fairy tale, but Justin is so childish. He seems to look at Hailey more for her body/looks than more than for her.

  • @camisciari4740

    @camisciari4740

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hailey deservers better. Every women deservers better. He needs to mature and being alone...he is a mess

  • @janviprakash3383

    @janviprakash3383

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah he's childish, he keeps calling her as "awesome" which I find juvenile for describing your wife

  • @l6verfilm

    @l6verfilm

    4 жыл бұрын

    wow you know so much about their relationship

  • @lp7105

    @lp7105

    4 жыл бұрын

    He keeps calling her buutifull like a 3 year old.

  • @antidelusionalpeeps

    @antidelusionalpeeps

    3 жыл бұрын

    He called Hailey "a chick" in the documentary, I swear the guy sees her as his sex buddy. Just the fact that he wrote the yummy song about her is very telling.

  • @de7904
    @de79044 жыл бұрын

    I hope Hailey realizes that she can't fix Justin and that she finds a great guy

  • @evflyleaf
    @evflyleaf4 жыл бұрын

    You should do a video on how Kevin Hart tried to normalize his cheating in his Netflix doc.

  • @CR-ce5lf

    @CR-ce5lf

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not normalize... blame his friends for not being around to stop him. So ridiculous

  • @evflyleaf

    @evflyleaf

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bianca Culpo that too for sure.

  • @Kristyle11

    @Kristyle11

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes!! Shallon, review Kevin Hart's doc as well!

  • @Caysum21345

    @Caysum21345

    4 жыл бұрын

    He’s so gross

  • @hirschiegirl
    @hirschiegirl4 жыл бұрын

    Narcissist & Empath. Avoidant & Anxious. Co-dependent toxic relationships! Don’t fall into the trap! ☠️☠️☠️ Recognize the signs early and GET OUT! Great video, thanks, Shallon! 😘

  • @CathDaddy
    @CathDaddy4 жыл бұрын

    “I sleep better when I’m next to her because if something goes wrong, there’s a competent adult there” ????? He ACTUALLY said that???? Oh my godddddd

  • @imshooketh1500

    @imshooketh1500

    4 жыл бұрын

    The manager is glad theres someone to babysit him

  • @MyPrettyMoments
    @MyPrettyMoments4 жыл бұрын

    You should talk about John Cena and Nikki Bella, how he gave her so many rules about not getting married and not having babies. He then ended up proposing but she got cold feet and left him. She is now with Artem and pregnant 😱

  • @mirandasummerset

    @mirandasummerset

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love Nikki so much

  • @sint0xicateme

    @sint0xicateme

    4 жыл бұрын

    He told her from the beginning he didn't want kids. She shouldn't have been so surprised. Better to regret not having kids than to regret having them.

  • @melinacalderon2522

    @melinacalderon2522

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@BB-tp9kq yeah this sounds great

  • @melinacalderon2522

    @melinacalderon2522

    4 жыл бұрын

    There is definitely a lot to learn from this

  • @paperplains7285

    @paperplains7285

    4 жыл бұрын

    She finally leveled up and dumped that manchild!

  • @nothanks8305
    @nothanks83054 жыл бұрын

    "I am going to bed. I'll see you when the magic happens" XD PLEASE put this on a shirt!!!!

  • @olivialayne06
    @olivialayne064 жыл бұрын

    I literally thought of what you said before about their marriage mirroring the dynamic Hailey's parents marriage was; of the wife taking care of the husband while I was watching the doc. You were spot on! I found it so telling that his publicist? or manager? (I can't remember) literally saying that she can rest, now that she knows in the case of an emergency, Justin is with a capable adult (Hailey) to handle it.

  • @pattkate837
    @pattkate8374 жыл бұрын

    Was watching the documents the other day and remember thinking to myself “Shallon ain’t gon’ have ANY of this victim mentality” 😂✋🏼 That’s when I know I’ve watched you for soooooo long already!!

  • @mmeyerson473
    @mmeyerson4734 жыл бұрын

    Shallon, you gotta chill on all this good content!! My brain can only handle so much wisdom

  • @ts2852
    @ts28524 жыл бұрын

    Oh My Gosh, I saw the documentary and I thought ''Shallon needs to see this''. Go Shallon, go!!

  • @Katie_Woo
    @Katie_Woo4 жыл бұрын

    ‘Seasons’ it sounds like a name for menopause supplements

  • @soilgrasswaterair
    @soilgrasswaterair4 жыл бұрын

    The way they spent their time together felt like watching two small kids in middle-school. Sliding on their shoes, eating burgers, and entertaining themselves by tossing a ball back and forth. Only difference is that these two are adults and not 10 year old kids. Where are the conversations with substance etc? Puddle deep conversations between adults is also a major red flag for me.

  • @angelant96

    @angelant96

    4 жыл бұрын

    I mean, I don't think that's *all* they do. And honestly, those silly moments are very cute to me. I think we all should be able to have deep, important conversations with our partners and also be able to do silly things and have fun.

  • @soniaortiz5777

    @soniaortiz5777

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@angelant96 agree, me and my bf have those moments a lot, and I feel that's pure happiness. I feel Shallon sees the bad on everything that's why she doesn't have a stable relationship herself, I like her tho

  • @imshooketh1500

    @imshooketh1500

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cuz they cant have sex on camera

  • @teresacatherine539

    @teresacatherine539

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thats why marriage at this young age is not a good idea, at least for most people.

  • @donella0x
    @donella0x4 жыл бұрын

    When I watched it my first thought was oh my god this poor girl!!! He’s clearly manipulative and she’s blind because she’s so in love

  • @antidelusionalpeeps

    @antidelusionalpeeps

    3 жыл бұрын

    She's not blind, she knew what she got into by marrying him. I'm sure having Justin Bieber as her husband was a lifelong goal of hers, she'd do anything so that he loves her.

  • @squid_party8810
    @squid_party88104 жыл бұрын

    I knew for a FACT that Shallon is legit when I saw that Megan & Harry are considering moving to LA this summer. Shallon👏🏽 called👏🏽 it👏🏽

  • @julian449
    @julian4494 жыл бұрын

    Justin has always wanted someone to be there to take care of him.... but he never reciprocates that.

  • @bronyk7997
    @bronyk79974 жыл бұрын

    Does everyone seriously think this marriage is going to last NOOOOOO

  • @oldtimesong
    @oldtimesong4 жыл бұрын

    This poor woman needs to learn that you can't save everyone. Poor thing, she'll suffer a lot in this relationship.

  • @iCynnie

    @iCynnie

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ya..

  • @ashleylacombe8935
    @ashleylacombe89354 жыл бұрын

    Justin and hailey are like a boy and his mommy. I'm not a fan

  • 4 жыл бұрын

    GET SOME REST, SHALLON! I commented that before you said you were tired. You DEFINITELY need to rest!

  • @palmbalm
    @palmbalm4 жыл бұрын

    YESSSSSSS I ASKED FOR THIS!!!!

  • @rosegaldamez1442
    @rosegaldamez14424 жыл бұрын

    About the forgiving part: It makes you wonder if he is just saying that as a way to let his ex girlfriend who didn't take him back know, that another woman is willing to take him broken. No one should have to settle for mediocrity!

  • @erica9314
    @erica93144 жыл бұрын

    This video reminds me of a phrase I have heard a lot and that’s “oh he just needs a good woman in his life to help him”. Ugh no. That’s not healthy, who wants to parent a grown ass man?! It builds resentment and it’s gross.

  • @janviprakash3383
    @janviprakash33834 жыл бұрын

    Haley has everything- money, looks, fame. And who does she partner with- a man child?!! And he isn't even hot anymore. Seriously, if I were her I would be shopping at Versace, getting facials and dating someone like Chris Hemsworth

  • @levisview.5492

    @levisview.5492

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are not her shut up

  • @jamesramirez11

    @jamesramirez11

    4 жыл бұрын

    And That is why your not her😂

  • @imagineaesthetic4122

    @imagineaesthetic4122

    4 жыл бұрын

    You do realize her entire family was about to go broke until she married him right?? And I'm pretty sure she was she was a groupie.

  • @levisview.5492

    @levisview.5492

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@imagineaesthetic4122 family was about to go broke ,do you know how much vogue pays her,yall say trash all the damn time like yall know this celebrities, her father is an actor for crying out loud.

  • @imagineaesthetic4122

    @imagineaesthetic4122

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@levisview.5492 A BLACKLISTED actor, I'm not trashing her "Y'ALL FANS" think cuz a celebrity is on magazine covers and makes music they're ballin, you don't know anything about profit cuts from management teams, or recording contracts or the structure of becoming a star. Some of these STARS aren't even as rich as you think. Why don't you ask Tyga he'll tell ya all about it.

  • @avgonyma1
    @avgonyma14 жыл бұрын

    The 6 signs you're in a codependant relationship: (Codependent = I care more about you fixing your problems than you do) 1. Does your sense of purpose include making extreme sacrifices to satisfy your partner's needs? 2. Is it difficult to say no when your partner makes demands on your time and energy? 3. Do you cover your partner's problems with drugs, alcohol or the law? 4. Do you constantly worry about others' opinions of you? 5. Do you feel trapped in your relationship? 6. Do you keep quiet to avoid arguments? What creates a disfunctional helper: 1. Agreeableness (empathetic, generous, kind, forgiving, simpathetic, trusting, considerate, willing to help others) 2. Neuroticism These people are strong empathetic responders, experience intense feelings and emotional arousal when someone's in need, feel the pain of others and want to aleviate it. They impulsively rescue, have toruble setting of boundaries, and terminating assistance. Their forgivenss means they can forgive broken promises, underperformance and accept excuses. They partner with people with low agreeableness: 1. Self centered 2. Largely indifferent or oblivious to others' disorders 3. Low grade personality disorders 4. Feels entitled 5. Has little empathy 6.blames others for their problems 7. Arrogant 8. Tends to act impulisively 9. Has little regard for others 10. Deceitful 11. Has an exagerrated sense of self importance

  • @user-vi1xz9fw3r
    @user-vi1xz9fw3r4 жыл бұрын

    there’s a video that went viral of him shutting the door on haileys face🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @nevergivingup38

    @nevergivingup38

    4 жыл бұрын

    I just watched it! He completely disrespected her in front of everyone and stormed off like a child. She was still kind though and said 'this way babe' when he was going the wrong way 😣

  • @save_bandit

    @save_bandit

    4 жыл бұрын

    M ً do you have a link sis?

  • @fraandiaz133

    @fraandiaz133

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was waiting Shallon to say smth about it

  • @nevergivingup38

    @nevergivingup38

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@save_bandit if you type in Justin slams door on Hailey in KZread,heaps of videos come up of it :)

  • @save_bandit

    @save_bandit

    4 жыл бұрын

    dale holliday my lazy ass did that and girl i am disgusted. he’s like a little child throwing a tantrum

  • @yogaqueen1527
    @yogaqueen15274 жыл бұрын

    They have a strange relationship. She is more of a mother figure. I dont see a romantic love there

  • @yodasistdasdingderwelt6870
    @yodasistdasdingderwelt68704 жыл бұрын

    Shallon I dont know this is possible how but whenever a new video is out it perfectly matches to a situation/question/problem that is ACTUALLY going on in my life. You are such an inspiration, keep up the good work!

  • @AnabelaU2277
    @AnabelaU22774 жыл бұрын

    Loving the daily uploads! Can't get enough of you!! Please keep them coming, there's just so much we can learn from you. Thank you :)

  • @rosegaldamez1442
    @rosegaldamez14424 жыл бұрын

    Well, what he gets out of it is safe face: Selena dumped him and he had to safe face and marry Haley. That's the only explanation. Hailey could do better but she has no self respect!

  • @l6verfilm

    @l6verfilm

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rose Galdamez wow you know so much about their relationship!!

  • @rosegaldamez1442

    @rosegaldamez1442

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@l6verfilm Not at all, but I can see right through his actions, it is pathetic! specially the way he yelled at his wife the other time. It is the typical abuser behaviour.

  • @mikaelawatches8225
    @mikaelawatches82254 жыл бұрын

    Seeing Hailey Baldwin now looks so weird

  • @KayeDakota

    @KayeDakota

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mikaela Richardson why ? She looks the same

  • @TheTaytayExperience

    @TheTaytayExperience

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kaye Dakota they mean instead of Hailey Bieber

  • @demiiwatson2081
    @demiiwatson20814 жыл бұрын

    Watching hailey and justin was like watching myself and ex bf in our previous relationship. It's crazy how much their red flags looked like mine but I didn't see it until i looked at it from someone else's relationship...

  • @nataliegauthier8152
    @nataliegauthier81524 жыл бұрын

    16:03 omg LMFAO the female manager talking about Hailey really sounds like she found a great nanny! Like wtf lolll

  • @nothing5992
    @nothing59924 жыл бұрын

    So Selena and Taylor are "hated" by Shallon for being fighters and for being vocal about their health and relationship issues. But she ADMIRES Hailey whom has been given the rol of SAVIOR of somebody else because she didn't even have a proper career with a nethwork of just 2 million 🙄 (dispite her famous and recognized family; priviliged) now is getting better because she agreed to NURSE A GUY LITERALLY (justin, so she sold her sould for clout) who admited to misstreated his ex girlfriends big time, being alcholic and drug user CONFIRMED not just "gossip" wise as she (Shallon) thinks of Selena. But yet Selena and Taylor are the bad guys because they were victims of some sort of misstreatment in their lives and have the courage to talk about it? And Shallon thinks of herself as feminist? When she only critized strong women and admire the ones whom embrased the role of the silent woman behind a man? Like... yeah... Feminine feminism my ass. You are just another sleeper in the anti feminist world. You don't even know what that word means as far as i am concerned.

  • @briannamorales7199

    @briannamorales7199

    4 жыл бұрын

    *concerned

  • @piscesgirl9615

    @piscesgirl9615

    4 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree I was side eyeing shallon when she brought up Selena in that way she always finds a way to put her down.

  • @sassycat6487

    @sassycat6487

    4 жыл бұрын

    That annoys me too. I love that Selena and Taylor both are very self aware which is hard to find in celebrities. Also the fact that Scooter hates them and has tried so much to destroy them makes me root for them more.

  • @Lalaland369

    @Lalaland369

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, Shallon is just obsessed with Hailey because she thinks she looks like her when she doesn’t. She’s a Stan so she hates Selena Gomez by default and Taylor Swift because that’s her friend and Shallon is just a fucking hater on this girl period. She has real problems.

  • @imshooketh1500

    @imshooketh1500

    4 жыл бұрын

    She can like whoever she wants and she doesnt owe none of you an explanation for that. Sometimes you just like someone even when youre aware of their faults and sometimes you dont like someone even when you cant explain why.

  • @Hannah_Rachel_and_Kotik
    @Hannah_Rachel_and_Kotik4 жыл бұрын

    Justin is gross. Clothes, behavior, drug history... all of it. Wouldn't touch him with a 10 foot poll.

  • @Amfranse

    @Amfranse

    4 жыл бұрын

    Like who are you really 😆😆😆

  • @marilove11
    @marilove114 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing some info about your life and previous relationship. It defintely helps hearing about your experience because I was in a similiar dynamic and when it ended I felt EXHAUSTED.

  • @sarahlynn4721
    @sarahlynn47214 жыл бұрын

    This series has done nothing but make me want to give Hayley a big hug and shake some damn sense into her! Everyone on his team look at her as a live in babysitter! My boyfriend and I have both dealt with substance abuse in the past. We've been together 14 years, and have dealt with addiction on and off for 10 of those years. I'm quite a bit farther along in my sobriety than he is. By a long shot. We're very, very codependent. I'm a psych major, I see it clear as day. I see so much of our relationship in Justin and Hayley...and that girl needs to run before she wakes up nearly 15 years later, is pushing 32, and has any more of herself invested in the relationship. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Just run and do not look back.

  • @antoinettemason697
    @antoinettemason6974 жыл бұрын

    finally! someone is saying how I feel about the whole documentary. like it's all so commercialized and manipulative. like I never bought into their relationship

  • @cassier3544
    @cassier35444 жыл бұрын

    “I’m so tired and dumb and people keep requiring things of me” That is spot on my current mood ! ☝️

  • @KianaMonique
    @KianaMonique4 жыл бұрын

    This is so relevant for me. I’m trying to break off an unhealthy codependent relationship and its really hard. Thank you for your insight! 🙏🏼

  • @CarolWorth
    @CarolWorth4 жыл бұрын

    I loved this, Shallon. You have so much wisdom and you certainly hit the proverbial nail on the head with this episode! Sharing it with my Granddaughter. Thank you! 😘

  • @singdancelaughlove97
    @singdancelaughlove974 жыл бұрын

    Justin, stop trying to make Drew happen. It's not going to happen.

  • @olaolur
    @olaolur4 жыл бұрын

    Im a bit disturbed. I’m just wondering why are you mentionting the same airport situation that Justin would supposedly call saying „dont come, dont get the plane” to her. You already mentioned that referring to Selena and now you used the same story in relation to Hailey. Where do you get that from? Which story is actually real? None? Please at least say „in my opinion”, or „it could have been that way” „im assuming”. There are many people out there listining to you and thinking that because of your work experience and connections you have unlimieted access to those peoples life - which is not true. You are guessing, making up. The part of your vlogs that I like is the behavior analysis but based on public interviews that we all have access to. Saying that Justin said something, or did something „beacuase you know as you have your sources” doesnt speak to me.

  • @MakaylaCole123

    @MakaylaCole123

    4 жыл бұрын

    OLUR I agree. Shallon isn't credible.

  • @melodysserenity561

    @melodysserenity561

    4 жыл бұрын

    Weird... I specifically recall her talking about Hailey with that story. I don't remember the video, but I do remember her mentioning it one other time and it was definitely Hailey she was talking about. Not Selena Gomez. I don't think she's the most credible person either, but it would be nice to see the video of her referencing Selena with that story. I very much remember the opposite.

  • @mselizabet52

    @mselizabet52

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@melodysserenity561 me too I don't watch her much, but I did watch that video you are speaking of and she was talking about Hailey, not Selena.

  • @ohmygollyahottamale5812

    @ohmygollyahottamale5812

    3 жыл бұрын

    Noboby sane would take Shallon seriously. She's a washed-up, and neurotic Karen. She feeds on being the dysfunctional epicenter of attention for broken-hearted 💔, broken souls and masses of jaded, bitter and serial - toxic, messy and cliquey - idle women who struggle in their own personal pursuit of happiness and stability....KZread is the breeding ground for those who couldn't make it the real world by doing the real work it takes to be a REAL certified professional. Any "has been" can quote....*misquote psychology journal excerpts off Google. She needs to leave the real clinical discussions and diagnosis to psychologists who have 12 -15 years of specialized training in those areas. Unaccomplished, unhappy and unfulfilled people, (idle) worship speculated and hurtful gossip. *Expecting her coven to mask or remove this comment.

  • @TB-rx1ue

    @TB-rx1ue

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ohmygollyahottamale5812 idk what happened to you that made you so bitter. I hope you are experiencing better days lately! 😊 please take care of yourself bc you deserve it. You really do.

  • @elenizissi3508
    @elenizissi35084 жыл бұрын

    Spill the tea girl!

  • @alyssamosley6736
    @alyssamosley67364 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for working so hard, Shallon! Love your content!

  • @Celena2947
    @Celena29474 жыл бұрын

    I think we’re forgetting the part where hailey kept talking about marriage to him until he said i think im ready. if hailey is “smart” and stable, knowing justin was and is still going through alot of mental and physical changes, why push marriage on someone whos so impressionable to do whatever feels good in the moment. Im sorry but its all very strange the timing of when they quickly got engaged and married. And it takes 2 to tango, she isnt so innocent. She knows more than we do and the bit that we know is hes still not well. So she fully went in knowing whats up.. but marrying him is her new job, she gets pictured with him, she rides the coat tails of his career while he continues to lose himself. He hasnt come to his own how can he be married and think of two people, and if hailey is sooooo stable she would see that and would NOT marry. It almost seems like she wanted to lock that down so he couldnt leave as easily. Because if they just dated again, she knows he would wander off. But if they marry he’ll have the cloud of thoughts that he has to be a respectable husband. Its a control thing. And shes doing it quite effortlessly without anyone really noticing. Its very easy to blame justin but the quiet ones is what we should really be looking at. Shes calculated she KNOWS the business, hell they didnt even get a PRE NUP. Tell me who decided that.... ofcourse justins no angel but he says ALOT and building an opinion based off what he says makes her look like the perfect victim or innocent one in their relationship, but thats all apart of it too for her, makes her look good and she doesnt have to say a peep while she quietly takes control in whatever she wants. Im baffled people are blinded by all the smoke and mirrors. *That relationship is a business transaction, and hailey and justins team and her team worked together to get it done and in the bag. The only clueless person here is justin. Now that haileys around anything that Justin’s team needs to know shes got all the info for them served on a silver platter. She was set up perfectly to become the closest possible person to him in this business relationship. However long they need her to be around to keep him on tour making money for them shes going to be the force to keep that money machine working till he falls again. And then as soon as everyone gets what they need from him she’ll be out, she’ll have his money, justins team will have the pay cheques and he’ll be painted as the bad guy again.. its a full circle of fuckery and the poor kid suffers. His surroundings of these people is whats driving him further away from himself. Start looking at the people around him and tell me how you would be if you had people orchestrating situations around you. He’s not the first celebrity to have bad people around them, it changes ALOT of things. Easy to blame the person in the spotlight, take that away.. tell me who’s quiet in the background. But who am i to say anything right, all these celebrities just “suddenly” overdose themselves and die..... right. Must be the person in the spotlight who did it, right...

  • @arianaraquel1958

    @arianaraquel1958

    4 жыл бұрын

    Of course. I remember the last chance he had with Selena, Hailey went to the same church in L. A. at the same day and time. Also they met in New York and finally in Miami, all this at the church, I remember the report were about Hayley was despertated to be seen by him and to talk to him and was chasing him in every City at the church he went. Who was telling her where to find him? So went he stopped seeing Selena, he talked to her and that's story...

  • @behshtaa

    @behshtaa

    4 жыл бұрын

    EXACCTTTTLLLLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

  • @jermaineennis3788

    @jermaineennis3788

    4 жыл бұрын

    Anonymous well said so spot on so spot on

  • @jermaineennis3788

    @jermaineennis3788

    4 жыл бұрын

    They know he wasn't well for years Justin teams an they never try to put him into mental health facility they r not genuine people theyr using him 💰 is a very dangerous .

  • @arianaraquel1958

    @arianaraquel1958

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jermaineennis3788 ueas, also not having a prenup they surely did this on por puse with Hailey so he cannot divorce so easily because with that he could loose half of his fortune, but everybody think she is an ángel and she is not, she is more clever than him.

  • @jessicastunden5562
    @jessicastunden55624 жыл бұрын

    There’s supporting someone and there’s babying them. I’m getting Oedipus Complex vibes here. Being a parent in an intimate relationship never ends well. Is the Baldwin family chaotic? If they are, Hailey was set up for this role as a child.

  • @khol_6973
    @khol_69734 жыл бұрын

    Shallllllllllllon you are a force!!! What did we do to deserve ANOTHER video!?

  • @pragmaticfilly0
    @pragmaticfilly04 жыл бұрын

    Damn this made me really reflect on my relationship and realize im in a parent child dynamic. When you mentioned going berserk and angrier than you've ever been, it hit home. Thank you Shallon

  • @cityandgirl
    @cityandgirl4 жыл бұрын

    I think what I find so frustrating about Justin and Hailey is that they ARE cute together, legit I find them adorable, but there’s this undercurrent of toxicity too and it’s gonna end up overshadowing all the good parts of their relationship eventually.

  • @madeleineuaine
    @madeleineuaine4 жыл бұрын

    Can’t stand codependency which is why I have stayed single for the last two years, I have found stability within myself alone. Thank you Shallon for putting this video together, it’s definitely a good one. Hope you got some good rest! 💛

  • @marsysatala6471
    @marsysatala64714 жыл бұрын

    Oh, my!! This is 100% me...!! Now I understand where I went wrong in my last relationship...!! I have all the traits listed... 😱 Thank you, it made me think about my traits I need to work on to avoid co-dependent relationship. I need to learn to set boundaries!! 🙏🏻💕 Thank you!!

  • @vic21ld
    @vic21ld4 жыл бұрын

    A new video so soon? Wow, QUEEN!

  • @valeriaorozco551
    @valeriaorozco5514 жыл бұрын

    People dont know how indispensable shallon is in my life.

  • @mirelamihai9968

    @mirelamihai9968

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know,right?

  • @zelasmith1132
    @zelasmith11324 жыл бұрын

    I’d love to hear your thoughts on relationship idealization.In a series of past tweets Hailey expressed her admiration for him and his ex’s relationship she literally referred to them as the “dream” relationship and the muse comment in the doc was very telling. Perhaps she looked at them and wanted what she perceived as the perfect love and the perfect man and often times when we come in contact with the man we’re given only his perspective which usually paints him as the victim and of course pushes our nurturing button and captain save a h*e kicks right in and tells us we can somehow be a better partner(usually by succumbing to all his needs) to fill that empty spot that she left open once she got tired of the reality of him. There also seems to be a major imbalance of support her social media is like a Bieber Stan account and when he acknowledges her on social media it’s all about her role as “his wife” but not acknowledgement of her accomplishments (covers, modeling,etc.) how much admiration should you expect; when is the lack of admiration a red flag?

  • @ashwinigautam7282

    @ashwinigautam7282

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good point

  • @zelasmith1132

    @zelasmith1132

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea he’s been very open about his ex being the inspiration behind a lot of songs which seems so romantic at first glance but the suffering endured to be a “muse” doesn’t seem worth it. We are programmed to swoon over toxicity we confuse with passion :(

  • @lianalopez95
    @lianalopez954 жыл бұрын

    I love that you researched and referenced scientific studies in regard to the topic!!! I love knowing findings from research. Thank you for making the video despite being tired! 💕

  • @ashleyyyx2355
    @ashleyyyx23554 жыл бұрын

    Yes Shallon! U keep spittin these videos out! I’m loving this!! I love ur channel!💜💜💜

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