Fun fact: the reason these actors have opaque/metal glasses during the group-talk scenes is so the editors can splice footage out of order and not have the audience clued in based on the drink-levels being off.

@candycane2710

8 ай бұрын

What’s hilarious is I remember a scene where the girl’s steak was appearing and reappearing on her plate. But thank god they had gold wine glasses! 😂

@tuffy135ify

4 ай бұрын

I think it was the blind date show version where they couldn't control the glasses, and you saw the glasses magically refill.

@danopticon

3 ай бұрын

That’s awesome about the glasses. I worked on a reality t.v. show, back when they were first catching on, so during production I had no idea how deceptive they could be … and then, when I actually watched the show as it aired, I saw *all the exterior footage we had shot around various Chicago neighborhoods,* for one leg of the show’s auditions, being recycled *over and over again* and presented to the audience as *the exteriors of the Seattle, Wisconsin, Portland, and a few other cities’ auditions,* just because the production crews for those other legs of the auditions had either not shot any b-roll or had shot inadequate b-roll. So if you ever watch an early 2000s show called _Are You Hot? The Search for America’s Sexiest People_ (hosted by Lorenzo Lamas), just know that nearly every exterior shot of every audition nationwide was actually shot around Chicago, but then presented as “Oh, here’s Seattle, and now here’s Portland,” those lazy @#$%&! producers…

@mikatu

3 ай бұрын

Yes, because you are not allowed to drink some and then refill it.... God forbid!

@portobeIIa

3 ай бұрын

@@mikatu well, you are, but if it is to be believed that the conversation we are shown is an entire conversation happening in order, jesus chirst these people getting like 5 refills in a 2 minute conversation LOL

Speaking of the 'characters' being awful, and something you left out of this vid, is how Colby actually told Lauren that he would be able to convince her to want children, which is just a MAJOR red flag.

@itsgabibelle

2 жыл бұрын

YIKES!!! yeah i had a terrible time with copyright on this one, so i left a lot out that i wish i could keep 🥲 plus i missed a lot details esp w colby and shanique and randall that wouldve made this video an hour long

@happy80thgertrude25

2 жыл бұрын

KennieJD did a great job of breaking down all the relationships- although the video is an hour long.

@jenm1

2 жыл бұрын

WTF

@QUEERVEEART

Жыл бұрын

so much of what colby said was a red flag. he was terrible

@NotesNNotes

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that was terrifying to me, I hope she does better than him

You made Colby look wayyyyyyy too good. That guy is super manipulative the whole show

@mallybally89

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed, I remember thinking him and Madison deserved each other

@paigedearing1308

2 жыл бұрын

100% agree he is such a red flag and madison was aware of it from the beginning

@meizumi

2 жыл бұрын

i knooow right?? that guy is terrible

@blaireprince3709

2 жыл бұрын

yeah he’s awful i feel like she was way too nice to him and zay

@cocolime6496

2 жыл бұрын

he's one of those guys that sells himself on being super sensitive and romantic and maybe even free-spirited or artistic, but then you realise he's full of shit. and manipulative of course

Dude called Colby "Big Cheese" because colby is a type of cheese, I think. Honestly, I felt him, because my wife is always leaving me for dairy products.

@chudsterbudster2549

Жыл бұрын

So why did my dad say he was gonna go get milk in 1907??

@woah4167

Жыл бұрын

"big cheese" is also a phrase meaning a person who's important and full of themself

@bushdenae

Жыл бұрын

@@woah4167 from what decade?! Or maybe it’s regional 🤔

@Guimhj

Жыл бұрын

is she lactose intolerant? maybe she's just protecting you from the farts

@tatiana4050

Жыл бұрын

@@Guimhj I think she sneaks out at night to binge on blue Stilton.

i think the most infuriating thing about this show is that all of this could've been avoided if they just broke up

@blahblahblahEMILY

2 жыл бұрын

Or went to therapy

@moisesmartinezmorales5885

Жыл бұрын

​@@blahblahblahEMILY I don't think therapy would of help by this point

@marnenotmarnie259

Жыл бұрын

@@moisesmartinezmorales5885 breakup + therapy

@CarlosGordo97

Жыл бұрын

People are too quick to jump onto another boat the moment their boat has any issues. It's dumb. Nothing will ever be yours to keep that way.

@maxkemp5285

Жыл бұрын

@@marnenotmarnie259 + ratio

This show feels like the TV equivalent of rambling on in an essay to hit the word count.

@russonauta

2 жыл бұрын

This show feels like the TV equivalent of ripping out your own eyeballs by hand

@NbLumineIzHere

Ай бұрын

⁠@@russonauta the professor ripping their eyes out from the essay that rambles on and on to hit to word count

Additional comment- Madelyn was 7 months pregnant in the reunion. The V last episode was filmed 6 months ago. Colby’s insta-wedding was a shotgun wedding 😂

@leahdavis9434

2 жыл бұрын

Additional comment, this isn't true, there was a two month gap between the reunion and the last episode

@alyssarae1788

2 жыл бұрын

@@leahdavis9434 in the reunion episode, they make several comments about leaving set “six months ago” and what the last “six months” has been like since filming. I’m not sure where you got 2 months

@leahdavis9434

2 жыл бұрын

@@alyssarae1788 From their written statements after the episode came out

@hbk2377

2 жыл бұрын

How would Madlyn become 7 months pregnant in 2 months? It was 6 months

I absolutely can NOT stand it when people don't agree on having or not having kids, and yet get married anyway. DON'T DO THAT

@iamsongforsomeone994

6 күн бұрын

Literally makes or breaks a relationship and is a non negotiable for most people.

i didn’t see this show but the alexis thing is mind blowing. tell me nobody told you no growing up without telling me nobody told you no growing up

@alexakelley2353

2 жыл бұрын

not to mention that when she and colby talk for literally the first time she keeps talking about money the entire time (from what we see) and how she doesn’t wanna be “comfortable” she wants to be “good” in terms of money (which idk what that means to her)

@alexakelley2353

2 жыл бұрын

and then privately she tells the camera that she would leave hunter if he didn’t make enough money

@chickenfoot2423

2 жыл бұрын

i feel like everyone ive seen talking about her interactions also weirdly minimise just how entitled she is- its not a funny-spoilt-girl moment, she seems genuinely nasty

@bananabrain2996

2 жыл бұрын

@@chickenfoot2423 fr, ignoring consent and trying to pressure someone into a relationship is no joke. This stuff is often minimized and I hate it, I've been on the over end of it a few times and it's genuinely pretty scary and stressful

@bigbearkat2010

2 жыл бұрын

@@chickenfoot2423 can't disagree. She's giving me real "ex-bf had to take out a restraining order against after she keyed his car" vibes

You hating so much on Madlyn (who deserves it) you missing Colby's constant gaslighting.

@pixiestxNyomouf

2 жыл бұрын

In the psychology world, we call it "overshadowing" and this is the most EXTREME case of that I've ever seen. Also. Alexis didn't make it any better cause she was entitled and a bit bitter

@jonnyreinhardt1961

2 жыл бұрын

@@pixiestxNyomouf Thanks for correction.

@pixiestxNyomouf

2 жыл бұрын

@@jonnyreinhardt1961 I was trying to be funny, hope it didn't come off as "snobby" or anything. If so, I'm sorry 😞 😁

@jonnyreinhardt1961

2 жыл бұрын

@@pixiestxNyomouf no no no, I didn’t read it as snobby. I thought I was just wrong on my terminology

@pixiestxNyomouf

2 жыл бұрын

@@jonnyreinhardt1961 not a correction at all, just wanted to add to it. You were 100% right 😁

Hot take: Colby and Madelyn are equally terrible, just for very different reasons.

i dont think it's fair that just because theyre on this show, colby is allowed to go kiss girls at a club and text a bunch of them. the premise of this show is u "date" someone else who is on it. kissing someone outside of that, keeping it a secret, getting found out and saying "i was doing it for you" (which colby did do, he said he did it to get 'the full experience' for his gf's benefit, to which she said to him "how could this be for me if i didnt know about it?") is absolutely cheating and not right. hope that helps "make it make sense", as gabi demanded

@tinygreencreature5167

2 жыл бұрын

His gf was the one who kept talking about kissing Randall, feeling his boner, finding him so much more attractive than Colby, etc etc. That's why it doesn't make sense, it's a double standard to go on a show where the whole premise is cheating on your partner and then get mad that he was cheating like she was

@tinygreencreature5167

2 жыл бұрын

Talked about cheating with Randall to his girlfriends face*

@cocolime6496

2 жыл бұрын

yeah i think the part that was really hurting was that he kept it from her and basically lied

@violetsden

Жыл бұрын

@@tinygreencreature5167 She shouldn't have done that either but he was cheating either way.

@b4stard_sweet

Жыл бұрын

I understand both sides but ultimately: talk to your partner, Colby.

I only like dating shows for the great KZread commentary that comes after it all 😂

@KarmaticBuggAdventures

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@rumyum

4 ай бұрын

True😂 There are a few shows I would've never considered watching if not for youtube commentary

It’s wild how Colby went from cute and seemingly rational to insanely controlling but the end. What a character progression

No joke, 2 years ago I pitched “Love it or List it but relationships” to all my friends and Netflix did it so badly!!

@ThatDurre

2 жыл бұрын

Omg I LOVE Love It or List It (the British Phil and Kristy version) and to think this is what the dating equivalent came out to be is *puke*

@DreamEatingBaku

Жыл бұрын

this is literally the funniest way to describe this show and also completely accurate 🤣

@corneliastreet2491

Жыл бұрын

Love that show! Hate this one 😂

7:25 also like attraction isn't just physical, it's also based on personality, character and compatibility. the fact that she thinks being a thin blonde white girl means the attractiveness should be the same lmao how superficial is that

@coleb2264

Жыл бұрын

Her whole character on the show is “superficial entitled rich girl” and at one point she even admits she would break up with Hunter if he started making less money

@iamsongforsomeone994

6 күн бұрын

Literally what I was thinking! I don’t get physically attracted to people unless I’m attracted to their personality (or perceived personality) first.

I don't know, Colby was the worst. Like he knew that Madelyn was with Randall (because that was the whole point of the show that HE dragged her onto because he can't take no for an answer!), but completely hid the fact that he was messing around with other girls outside of the show, even though that was NEVER part of the show's premise. Say what you will, but at least Madelyn wasn't with anyone except Randall. Colby cheated on her, and then tried to lie and say it was for the show when he knows that wasn't true at all.

@BitsyGem

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!! Madlyn was mad that he told these outside girls that they're in an open relationship. Which at the very least was news to her. And don't even get me STARTED on how shitty Colby was when he was hanging out with Madlyn and her friends. You can tell they put up with him cause they love her so much.

@annalivingtv

Жыл бұрын

Oh yeah colby was terrible. I wouldn’t argue that she’s a weak innocent victim tho-Madelyn was emotionally abusive and really really awfully mean. They were awful for each other

@benadkins7695

Жыл бұрын

Homie this entire show rides the line of what is and isn’t cheating 💀

@willnaib

Жыл бұрын

@@benadkins7695 they’re consenting to their partner being involved with someone else WITHIN THE SHOW. if they go and talk to people outside of that then that’s cheating because that goes outside of the boundaries that have been established. madlyn has every right to still be mad because she was operating within the established rules and was only involved with someone within the show. colby not only got involved with people outside of the show, but hid it from madlyn, and then said he “did it for her” after he got caught.

@benadkins7695

Жыл бұрын

@@willnaib Okay but to be fair, I don’t think their emotions are completely limited to the bounds of the shows rules. It genuinely just feels like these people don’t know what they’re doing.

I really don’t understand “the experience” he got from making out with other girls in the club. IMO that’s just cheating... don’t like Madelyn but Colby was horrible lmao

@tuffy135ify

Жыл бұрын

That's because it is cheating. The experience he wanted was cheating. This whole show was just "cheat for 3 weeks, and see what happens"

@jaredbitz

Жыл бұрын

That whole conflict just made me mad at both parties. Colby because he was trying to justify his cheating, and Madelyn because she was so high on her pedestal that she couldn't see how she had done the exact same thing she was criticizing him for.

The thing about giving someone an ultimatum is: you'd better be prepared for either option you're giving the person. If you're going to tell someone "marry me or we have to break up," or "if you stay friends with that person then we can't be friends," or even "you clean that up or you're fired," you'd better be ready for the person to call your bluff. Ready to be single. Ready to lose a friend. Ready to be understaffed. Forcing someone to make a decision when *you* want them to can very often turn out not to be in your favor. You should never play games with that kind of thing. In my case, that kind of forced decision-making worked out great for me in the long run, but not so much for the other person. My ex gave me that marriage ultimatum. He loved me, and wanted to get married since we'd been together a long time and everyone (his mom, especially) told him we should hurry it up. I was not ready to be married, and may never be. Him telling me "either we get married or break up" made me realize that maybe I just didn't want to marry *him,* and that I'd been too afraid to tell him (or anyone, for that matter) because we'd been together for so long and got along so well and it would break his heart if I rejected him now. In the end I'm glad I made the decision I did. I do hope he finds his happiness, though. He's a wonderful person, even if our relationship wasn't meant to last. All this is to say is don't try to pressure people into doing something you want them to do, especially if you love/care about them. And *definitely* don't try to be sneaky about it in an ultimatum!

@sylmaerie

Жыл бұрын

can confirm my ex gave me the “i’m not ending this conversation unless you tell me if we’re breaking up or not” during a fight (by text) so i broke up with her 😭 i was like fine if you won’t even give me the option to do it later in person then i’ll do it now

@corneliastreet2491

Жыл бұрын

@@sylmaerie idk, I’ve been on the other end of that. My ex and I got into a fight on the day my grandma died because I was mad that he hadn’t called me for my birthday the day before. He was basically accusing me of being immature and taking it out on him that I was upset about my grandmother dying and I was like idk I feel like it’s reasonable to be emotional about that and hurt that all I asked you to do was just call me for my birthday, and you couldn’t even do that. So we were texting and I was already stressed out and dealing with a lot and he was like “you’re exhausting, I can’t handle this” and wanting to stop and I was like we can talk about it tomorrow and he was like, I don’t want to talk about it at all. Basically I was like I feel disrespected and if you’re not willing to acknowledge the way that I feel, even if you think it’s not your fault, just be there for me when I’m sad and feel hurt. And basically he was like not having it and really upset with me and started talking about how we was unsure about stuff. He was like we should talk tomorrow and it was pretty clear he just wanted time to think of a way to break up with me, like you know how you just get that vibe. So I just asked him straight up like are you thinking of breaking up with me, because if that’s something you’re going to do just get it over with now and don’t drag it out and make me wait until tomorrow. Because otherwise I would have been up all night anxious thinking about it, and I really just wanted to be with my family and grieve and not have to worry about that at that time.

@sylmaerie

Жыл бұрын

@@corneliastreet2491 yeah i totally understand that and i’m really sorry that happened; that must have been really difficult and hurtful and i understand why you handled it the way you did for sure. i hope you’re doing okay now it’s worth it to mention for my story that my ex was not going through anything at the time, in fact she was apparently doing super great and seeing me after being fully long distance for 4 months was not very high on her list of priorities in her mind- actually when i had asked about potentially coming with her to all the parties she was getting invited to with her roommate (we are/were in college) her response was to say “sure that could be fun but i think we should have a conversation about boundaries soon.” and beyond that she had a history of a) not making me feel comfortable speaking to her about anything that hurt me/i had an issue with in our relationship and b) expecting me to be able to drop everything to talk to her about any issues SHE had in our relationship. it was extremely one-sided and this was the first time in our entire relationship i had been able to speak up and talk to her about something that was bothering me, and she immediately turned it into something much bigger than it was and only after realizing that i was genuinely upset and not backing down she pulled the “this is damaging my mental health and i’m not ending this conversation until you decide whether we are breaking up or not” card (among other toxic manipulative things she had started pulling throughout the conversation). i feel like our situations are actually quite similar apart from who ended up actually giving the ultimatum-both of us were wronged and put in an extremely unfair position where it felt like only our ex’s feelings mattered to them. and while i do feel bad that i ended up breaking up with her by text, she left me no choice with the ultimatum. but after that argument had been resolved in some way i was going to break up with her anyway based on what she said that day before the ultimatum on top of all the things that had happened prior-i was just trying to see if solving this problem and actually being together in person normally for a while would help, and if it didn’t, then have the decency to do it kindly and in person until she forced my hand.

@corneliastreet2491

Жыл бұрын

@@sylmaerie I agree. Like, I can’t say “never try and give people ultimatums” because I agree its generally unfair and a bad position to put someone in, but at the same time I understand it because sometimes you just can’t wait forever and you need to know if the other person is committed, or ever going to be. So ultimately I can’t say never give them, just be prepared to get either end of it, because you can try and force someone to choose, but you can’t make them choose what you want them to.

@sylmaerie

Жыл бұрын

@@corneliastreet2491 hard agree on that one. it just comes down to being prepared for every outcome of the situation, even the ones you don’t want. if one is prepared and feels an ultimatum is necessary for their own peace of mind and self, then go for it. i hope you’re doing better now

the way i BURSTED into tears when she said “she’s amazing!” and everyone SMILED??? THEY JUST SMILED!! like i know that’s like normal and you SHOULD smile and be supportive but idk you rarely see it in the media until very recently so it’s just nice :,)

@cocolime6496

2 жыл бұрын

yeah 🥲

@_3_Hydrangea_3_

Ай бұрын

It was so cute😭

14:47 This is my exact problem with all these types of reality dating shows. Theyre just hanging out on vacation with someone for a month with no external conflict that would actually test the relationship

@fitoullakaizerr5209

Жыл бұрын

And yet still the relationship fails

As someone who took the AP Calculus exam this morning, I’d rather do it again than watch a single episode of this godforsaken show💀

@noahmoots9901

2 жыл бұрын

Same, best of luck with your score!

@funkybugman

2 жыл бұрын

update us when u get ur score!

definitely bring your sister back for more reality shows!! you’re both so lovely and reminded me of watching these kinds of shows with my siblings ✨

These shows have to be sponsored by divorce courts or something bc they are excellent for business.

“I want to sleep around for you. Do I want to lose you? No. Do I love you? …………..Yes” Dude could’ve been less subtle if he wore a sign saying, “I don’t have the resilience to go through a break up”

The answer to why they dont even talk about liking each other is this: they dont like their partner, not a single person on this show likes their partner because someone who liked and respected their partner would never agree to go on the show 👍

colby was so toxic, why do people like him?!?

@cocolime6496

2 жыл бұрын

they remind falling for his "romantic sensitive good guy" shtick

@kemojoaquin

2 жыл бұрын

He’s honestly just awful…

@NotesNNotes

Жыл бұрын

He really showed his true colors when he freaked out at her when her friends were there

@gianna526

4 ай бұрын

He was cute, had a fun personality and he was the sensitive good one, and it's easy to fall for that kinda guy. His red flags are just accidents! he didn't mean it etc which is pretty scary.

So, my boyfriend and I somehow managed to watch this whole show, and while I enjoyed *some* of the mess, I agree with you completely in your assessment of the editing on all fronts. It made me wanna claw my eyes out. The music, the obvious attempts to fill time, the weird cuts. What a dumpster fire.

Honestly even with the original relationships are in the "honeymoon" phase. The longest was what? 2? 3 years? They're rushing to marriage SO fast when they've barely been together. I get if you click, you click. I totally understand, my parents met and married within two months lol but that's not normal? It's just wild seeing them complain about not being married when they're all, almost, under 25 with their under 5 year relationships. Especially when all their drama could be resolved with actual communication

@rowancook4369

2 жыл бұрын

I'll be honest, I've met very few people who didn't get at least engaged within a two or three year timespan of dating unless they were high school sweethearts who had to wait until adulthood. Is it really that unusual? I get that two years isn't any time at all in the grand scheme of life, but how could you not know someone well enough within three years to get married to them?

@hjt5894

2 жыл бұрын

@@rowancook4369 I guess it depends where you’re from. I don’t know anyone who got engaged under 5-10 years together.

@theodoraa.9670

2 жыл бұрын

@@rowancook4369 Respectfully, most people don't know SHIT about someone after 3 years

@rowancook4369

2 жыл бұрын

@@theodoraa.9670 Lol I posted that comment as a person who has only been in two relationships, one with a friend of 4 years previously and one with a dude I barely know but spend a lot of time with. So I guess it's just hard to fathom not knowing anything about someone you theoretically spend a lot of time with after 3 years, especially if that includes living together.

@bruh-gz3nh

2 жыл бұрын

@@rowancook4369 I think it's just a very "mainstream/US/ countrys we se on tv" thing (because mayority of family representation we see on TV or movies its the "perfect family"; start dating in high-school/college, marry and have kids very young, etc) to marry after just 2 or 3 years of relationship, where I am from people just don't get marry, like never, they live together and have children and then die together without getting married lol, so it's very weird and kinda creepy when someone marry after just 3 years of knowing each other over here, I don't know anyone that got married before their 40's after 20 years of living together, except rich people but they're US wannabes so they don't count, I think the massive difference is funny

I actually thought what Colby did was manipulative. His whole image was that he wanted to basically claim Madlyn and although Madlyn is not perfect either he showed his true colors pretending to be in an "open-relationship". Which if it were the case that's the most diluted form of this staged show. All in all I think refusing to listen to Madlyns actual feelings towards him and picking up on cues their relationship might not have even been strong coming into this shows deceit. Who's gonna say no to a proposal to get married on the spot after she's riding the high of being proposed to on camera. The last line of the show is "My dad's gonna be so pissed 😭😭" lolol

It is wild that you saw the Madlyn/Colby relationship completely differently than I did I hated Colby from the jump and truly feel like Madlyn being mad at him was justified 😂😂😂😂

@ashleywh3178

2 жыл бұрын

rightt!! and @tee noir did an amazing job in explaining his behavior in the show if you want to check her channel out 💗

@clarinette626

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashleywh3178 thanks for the rec I subbed immediately it was a really good video!

@zorro......

2 жыл бұрын

agreed! also kennie jd has a great video on all of this

@clarinette626

2 жыл бұрын

@@zorro...... yesss I love Kendall!!

@alyssabrown-carleton6173

2 жыл бұрын

I just don't understand what was so great about him that the girls were fighting over him. Any of the guys really. The only ones I could see having a connection were Jake and Ray

Whenever Alexis came on screen my fiancée would play the call of duty black ops zombie noises…she is literally disgusting you can see she literally thought she was going to be the main character.

@bigbearkat2010

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah Gabi commented on Hunter/Mike's proposal and asked "why did he have reservations to begin with?" my immediate thought is that hes probably heard her speak for longer than 10 seconds

@Sandy-xd5bj

2 жыл бұрын

@@bigbearkat2010 I find her repulsive and she has limited commenting on her instagram, I wonder why,

Gabi waiting for her friends at a bar is my new animal spirit.

I just wanna say the comment y’all made at the end about people not posting their partners and how some people just like their relationships kept private, THANK YOU. I’m tired of people acting like not posting your partner is a red flag. My fiancé and I live together and we’re both couch potatoes, neither of us are ever really thinking about taking pictures even when we go out.

@danopticon

3 ай бұрын

^This. I don’t even have Facebook or Twitter or Tumblr anymore, because they’d grown so intrusive and had begun interfering with how I preferred to live my life, so I didn’t deactivate the accounts but I just stopped posting to them or looking at them … and initially people freaked out and wondered if I’d died, but now when I go out on a date from time to time, people freak out when they discover I’m mostly un-Google-able, like imagining I must be using a fake name or something. How did it so quickly become “weird” not to post your partner online, or not to even have social media at all??

Wanting children is such a huge issue. If you want kids they’re hard work but it’s worth it: if you don’t want kids, it’s hard work and it would be the worst thing possible if you’re getting nothing out of it. You’d keep hating the situation in the back of your mind and it wouldn’t be right for the kids if they had a mum that deep down didn’t want them.

@ydad8946

3 ай бұрын

Being a parent has nothing to do with getting something out of it. Parenthood is intended to be the most selfless act one can carry out. The issue is that there are a lot of people having children and who should never have done so simply because they are having children for all of the wrong reasons.

@houndofculann1793

2 ай бұрын

@@ydad8946 I disagree. "Getting something out of it" doesn't mean it has to be something measurable or that can be objectively said to be fulfilling to anyone else. Just getting to raise a kid and be their guardian might get you fulfillment of having a purpose. You get company, good company even for the rest of your life if you do your job well. You get to experience aspects of life through your children that you probably would not have gone through without them. You get to leave a legacy on a more personal level. At the same time, yes, it is a huge responsibility and doing it for selfish reasons only will probably get you and your children in a mess. On the contrary historically, having children really was an investment with expected profits for the vast majority of people. For the lower classes they were extra workers to help feed the entire family and take care of you when you get too old to manage it entirely by yourself. For the higher classes they were a means to keep the power they held within the family, and to gain more.

The show was actually not filmed in isolation. They all still went on about their normal lives, had their phones and everything. So actually, they are just reacting like this purely based on self-sabotage and created drama.

My wife just finished watching this and all I've heard is the absolute dumpster fire it is. 10/10 series. Haha. Great video!

when taylor swift said “so casually cruel in the name of being honest” it was actually about Madlyn

@abigailr.9601

4 ай бұрын

Yes…and my mom 😅🥲

Susan just recently recommended you to me. I've been binging ever since. You belong up there with the kings of commentary like Danny, Drew and Cody. Because you are very funny AND absolutely adorable! Glad I found your channel.

@hugo07260

Жыл бұрын

Who are Danny, drew and Cody? I only know gabi here and I was introduced to her from Hivemind

@kellycusick547

Жыл бұрын

@@hugo07260 Danny Gonzalez, Drew Godden and Cody Ko. All amazing, hilarious old school KZreadrs! Check them out!

Never heard of this but oh how heart warming to know 12 year olds watch this and get the impression that these are fully functioning adults and how relationships really are

Thank you for suffering through this show to give us the *content*

I think you make some fair points about Madlyn but Colby was super toxic and I'm disappointed that it was left out. Otherwise, I loved the video. 🙌

I’m a guy who was on the receiving end of some mean girl stuff in like middle school and the fact that the same energy exists on this show with ADULTS is nuts, tear them apart lol

When your sis said “when I was 24/25” giiirl looks 22 now!!! 😭💖💖💖 love the video as always!!!!!!!!

this show ABSOLUTELY feels like watching your friends start fighting viciously over dinner while you just twiddle your thumbs I'm not saying madlyn is a good person, but Colby was very manipulative the entire show and really pissed me off on a funnier note, when they were playing polo, and the girl was like "he's like a real cowboy" and it immediately cuts to a shot of him in a polo shirt and khakis, I burst out laughing and was personally a little offended

that story your sister told about the last minute engagement was crazy

I can't stand people who think others have to justify why they're not into you, let alone think ITS NOT AN OPTION FOR PPL TO SAY NO. Everyone's always acting like it's a given that we all understand consent, but honestly all it takes is one spoilt childhood for someone not to get a grasp of it

okay the memes were way more interesting than anything that was going on in that show lol

“Watching a couple fight in front of you when you’re just hanging out and it’s really uncomfortable” is the best description of this show.

love this - so fun to see you chat with your sister about this stuff & her stories were hilarious

Why does the little board in the back say “Delete Netflix”

I adore Gabi & her sister's relationship. My sister and I are 11 years apart, so I understand having the big gap while also still wanting to be close. And I love their energies bouncing off each other

I haven't watched any of these shows, but I love watching people talking about these shows. People make them so much more interesting than they are, even if it's interesting in a bad way.

"don't speak until I'm ready for you to speak" "I cAnT pReTeNd I'm ThE pRoBlEm AnYmOrE" that timing/edit is perfect

Wait, the ex-boyfriend story isn't an ultimatum, it sounds more like healthy communication. Your sister wasn't like "marry me, or else!", but "hey, how are you feeling in this long term relationship because I'd like to get married someday."

@marie-eve9304

Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

"When the popular girls would talk to you but they were making fun of you, you know what I mean if it happened to you" please stop I am begging you

Gabi has so much chemistry with herself in that intro it’s insane

I'm a cab driver, and I play your channel for all my passengers, and this 65 year old lady is crying laughing in my backseat

your sister coming on at the end was SUCH a treat! love listening to you guys bond :3

16:14 I actually had to pause at this point in the video because that made me realize that *I* was not the only one who had to go through that exact same thing. When people talk to you, but more out of pity, or making fun of you _as_ they talk, pretending you're interesting, or that they're interested in whatever the hell you're saying. I've had to go through that my whole life, and knowing that I'm not the only one to have that happen to them is just.. revelating. Goddamn, thank you Gabi for making us heard.

@houndofculann1793

2 ай бұрын

I went to a language course abroad for three weeks when I was 15 and had a great time with the friends I made of the people on the same program. Then in the reunion party a month after the course I found out nobody of that group was actually interested in socialising with me, one of them even going "nah, I don't want the number of [the city I lived in instead of my name]" when I asked to change numbers because they'd had a different number during the course. I was pretty devastated and spent pretty much the next half a year in a kind of confusion of having great memories but looking through all of them in an entirely new light of what of it was genuine and what not. That also reignited my primary school anxiety of who I can trust when making friends in the first place. But at least it also caused me to be a lot better in choosing my friends in time so no complaints anymore.

pleease make one of these for the queer edition of the ultimatum, its even more chaotic

I am so glad you made this video. When I saw this on Netflix I was literally like, “This looks like all the boring parts of Love Is Blind compiled into one show.” So I passed on it, and boy oh boy am I glad I did. Like WOW, it is so much worse than I thought.

“I don’t care. I don’t care!” You can already tell at that line how much this show broke her spirit 😂

16:15 I HAD THAT!!! I DIDNT REALIZE SHE WAS MAKING FUN OF ME THO SO I WAS JUST LIKE "ok... weirdo" LMAO

Just finished watching your whole back catalog of videos and i just love your attitude and humor!!!

The conversation you had with your sister at the end was actually extremely entertaining

I forgot about those cups! My wife and I watched season 2 a month or so back and we saw those cups EVERYWHERE, including restaurants. It made no sense.

I literally would put this show on my tv while I showered and then did chores in the other room. I did not miss a single thing. Even fast forwarded parts

Y'all are in your 20s and this determined to get married.... I'm 20, almost 21, and I know there is so much more to life than get married. You can prove you love each other without saying I do!

@tuffy135ify

Жыл бұрын

Right, but tax and medical issues are better if you are legally married...if you can trust that person.

colby's "i don't know where it's going, but it's going in a positive direction" is literally the same as Ross from friends trying to avoid the "where is this going" talk with Mona

I can see where Madeleine is coming from tbh. They agreed to be on this show which means they agreed to be with a single different partner for the run of the show, but Colby stepping outside of that agreement to hook up with random people outside of the show was not in the agreement they made. It became cheating the moment he went looking for someone outside of the partner he selected for the show.

As a woman with a 3 month marriage to a mike in my 20s yup.

the banana pic at 23:00 is sending me

I love the fact that I got a bumble ad while watching this video

If your relationship doesn't work, just break up and move on.

I don't understand why you'd go on this show other than a chance to become reality star famous.

going thru tuff times rn, ty so much for this video gabbie for putting yourself thru terrible shows and being hilarious thru out

That "I know" smile at the end was hilarious. And very cute

I loved getting to see you and your sister talk about this!

It’s nice watching you and your older sister talking, you get on well. That’s lovely 💞 I am a mum too, I have two boys 9 & 3

love seeing you and your sister talk about reality tv

I love the sister combo - been watching ur vids for a minute and just live for these moments ❤

Madison was so mean during the show🤣 I have met people like that The whole "brutally honest" personality and it sucks and I felt like I got it send right back to me by watching this Like I got to see that again

It was really cute seeing you and your sister chat about the show at the end. :)

I just wanna say that i've been binge watching your videos for a few days now lol your vibes are amazing

I've just discovered your channel and is one of the best things i've seen in a while 😂💀

im surprised no one in the reunion show brought up how much Madlyn wanted to boink Randal! lol.

My favorite reality show is terrace house and it's not talked about enough it's so wholesome but still has drama

Omg the royalty free music YES my friend and I would just yell "TELL ME HOW TO FEEL" at the TV every time it came on

Love hearing you talk with your sister!!!

You deserve more subs, you are better than some of the big commentary ytubers

Alexis was like Colby is awful and horrible....... because he didn't pick me

Coby and April: JUST FRIENDS NOOOO CHEMISTRY

Just stumbled upon your channel somehow and i love your whole vibe and the room setup and everything! Subscribed! ❤

I think at this point Netflix should just pivot into hiring commentary and review channels. Save on advertising

I'm kinda surprised on your read on Zay. Sure, his edit was sympathetic, but after the weird "coming home drunk and nearly forcing himself on Rae" and the implication during the tell all that he would not stop pestering Rae about sleeping with Jake despite being the only contestant who actually slept with his partner, I'm pretty sure his whole "nice guy who just needs therapy" is just a character they came up with in the editing room to make the audience feel even worse when Rae and Jake ran off at the end. Honestly the only person I came out of it with any favorable opinion on was April. She's like 22, and while she's a little controlling and high-strung, she is also practically a child and has plenty of time to grow up. Plus Jake is very clearly also a piece of shit.

bro just watched one of your vids last night and now i can’t stop

"Big Cheese Colby" is kind of a hilarious. "colby" is a style of cheese, that guy imagining himself getting replaced by a man named after cheese is so funny to me

I like reality tv, its usually fun and silly in its dramatics, but this show was unbearable

this show made me close netflix and quit procrastinating