When I say we needed this today, we NEEDED this today. We had a bad flashback at work a few days ago and have been non vocal ever since. Thank you for being a safe space for us.

No one, not any of my therapists, friends, or family have ever told me this. Thank you all for seeing us and making us feel valid and loved ❤

I lost my cat a few months ago in a really traumatic way and when those images of Seraphina with the words "it wasn't your fault" showed up I full on burst into tears. You are truly an angel. I'm constantly in awe of your compassion. So much love to all of you!

Thank you. As a 43 yo woman who grew up with a psychotic parent, im "normal" but I do have... issues, so its good to watch your videos because some topics do resonate with me. So all of you educate me and make me feel less scared of sides of myself. Thank you for that. I hope you all have a safe and low-triggering week.

I absolutely sobbed after this video. I have NEVER been told by anyone that it wasn't my fault and I really didn't know how badly I needed to hear it till now. Thank you so so much. Maybe I can finally start healing after this

I needed this today. This weekend I'm fighting to come to terms because due to multiple head trauma attached to my abuse as a kid, I now have early onset dementia mixed with a DID system I'm just starting to try to navigate. I'm now 50 years old and accepting it wasn't my fault is a pill I struggle with. Thank you.

we really needed to hear “it wasn’t our fault” today. theres been so much going on and with resurfacing memories, we really feel like its our fault, even though its not. i feel like every trauma survivor feels like, in some way, our trauma is our fault. but we cant control everything, and we couldn’t control what was done to us.

Something I realized I struggle with is that during this video, I sat here feeling like this wasn't for me because what I went through wasn't bad enough. My parents are narcissists and they were emotionally and financially abusive, but I've always felt that wasn't enough compared to what other people have gone through. I've never been r-worded or seriously physically abused and so I tend to minimize my own experiences. This video was a good reminder that not only was it not my fault, but it is also okay to be traumatized.

Thank you. As someone who has to hide the fact that I have DID in my life, and many people who know don't believe most of my alters when they talk about what they remember, it is nice to hear this from someone who understands. Thank you guys so much. Hearing Sally made me almost cry.

this week a repressed memory of childhood trauma/abuse resurfaced for the first time and the past few days have been nothing except self-blame. this is exactly what i’ve been needing. thank you so much for this video, for being so open and honest, and most importantly for sharing your story and being vulnerable with us. it seriously means the world.

How many scars do we justify, just because it was someone we loved holding the dagger.

As a csa survivor myself, i needed to hear this today 🥺💜 ever since the beginning, you all have made so many of us feel safe 💜

This was the single hardest thing for me to accept when I was on my healing journey.

Thank you for this. I'm a survivor of continuing mental and emotional abuse by a close family member. The abuse is so bad I found out last year it is affecting me physically in ways I just thought were normal for me. No. They are serious. And hearing those words "it's not my fault"... I started to cry. Luckily my kitty, Xena, is here to help ground me. My husband calls her my therapy cat. She was a cat rescued off the street, but she definitely helps me. She is demanding pets as I type. But thank you! I struggle a lot with thoughts of "I provoked her. Because of my disorders, I am the reason she is like this. I didn't learn after the first time." So thank you for those words. It is not my fault. It is hers for not understanding what she is doing to me and my mind.

I just want to say thank you to everyone in the system who made a short clip for the video. It honestly means so much. I am not sure what mental conditions I have, I get flashbacks sometimes but I'm not sure what exactly they're from and I have no memory from my childhood but either way, sorry I got off topic, this video made me cry, I don't get a lot of encouragement like this in my daily life and I had such a bad flashback last night I really needed this today. Thank you all so much, this channel is such a safe place for so many people so just, thank you all for creating it and keeping up with it even after all the chaos. Lots of love, a loyal fan<3

Thank you for this. Growing up I was constantly called ungrateful and spoiled and disrespectful because I hated my mom for abusing me. Everyone told me she loved me and that she just didn’t show it and I was gaslit into thinking that was true for years. When I finally came to accept that it wasn’t true my heart was shattered. I went into a three year long psychotic break. I hurt lots of people because I didn’t know different. It took a lot to take accountability and then forgive myself after coming out of it. It’s always very comforting to hear that none of it was my fault. <3

Thank you Kya. We needed to hear this really badly. We will probably blame ourselves on some days. However this video will help keep us from spiraling.

Words can't describe how much this project means to me. I don't have DID but due to childhood trauma i developed dissociative amnesia and memory problems. I'm currently working on getting at least some memories back. Thank you for existing guys. I live with constant shame i don't know the reason of and i needed this. I needed this a lot. Thank you from the bottom of my heart

Didn’t expect to start crying when everyone said it wasn’t you’re fault. Didn’t even know how much I needed to hear that 💜💜

I don't think you know how much your account has helped us - THANK YOU 💕