Jade: *angrily tells me that i have value* Me: *scared but validated*

@significantaffair9449

4 жыл бұрын

Lmao 😂 I felt the same way

@ashtonhunter4727

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@noodle4290

4 жыл бұрын

sameeee

@lilyoh5780

4 жыл бұрын

same

@arsonhycan

4 жыл бұрын

Cousinit Exactly!

Jade: "Nin IS special" me: "Yes she is!" Jade:" YOU are special" me: sobbing " Thank you"

@prettylush456

4 жыл бұрын

Ninjamin hey I saw this exact comment 2 weeks ago by someone else but at least jade is making you happy lmao

@Lithillia

4 жыл бұрын

I totally felt this too

@helene-marie8934

4 жыл бұрын

PERIODT *snap*

@sommeone

4 жыл бұрын

I saw this before watching the video, and it still almost made me cry

@justgoose8380

4 жыл бұрын

All are special

It’s funny that she’s practically yelling at us and giving a nice message at the same time

@morgankovac3632

3 жыл бұрын

we all need a jade

@n99centsm90

3 жыл бұрын

"I'm not happy, I'm overwhelmingly supportive"

@chel_in_hell

11 күн бұрын

reminds me of the "I LOVE YOU, DOG" vine (in a good way) :P

I legit got chills when she said “Nin. Is. Special.”

@tbella5186

3 жыл бұрын

100% yes. The intensity is off the charts!

@amam7490

3 жыл бұрын

When did she change her name to Nin from Chloe

@falseking5441

3 жыл бұрын

@@amam7490 Not sure exactly why it happened, but chloe and nina integrated into one alter which is now nin.

@natikotakashi7447

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr it was like when the MC of an anime gives that glare and your like "oh shit it's about to go down"

@narcisoanasui3157

3 жыл бұрын

How did they though, if you do not know it is okay, just asking

She may not trust me, but I trust Jade with my life.

@jesicabarrera8369

4 жыл бұрын

Idem!

@sam-km8qh

4 жыл бұрын

i would like your comment but its at 420

@maximellow5745

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed. She seems though, but trustworthy. She's amazing, all of them are amazing

@juniper_plant

4 жыл бұрын

exactly

@gringa4914

4 жыл бұрын

Stanley Uris sake omg

therapist: your confidence shot through the roof lately, what changes did you make? me: someones gatekeeper alter, aggressively yelled at me that im great

@amberpask9701

4 жыл бұрын

MOOD.

@AshleyFD26

4 жыл бұрын

Yas

@sharavila616

4 жыл бұрын

Yaass, queenn!!

@samanthaking1828

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha yesssss ❤️

@MikaBunny

4 жыл бұрын

Yep 😂

Ok, but I actually really like how intense Jade is in how she affirms you and everyone. It's not all sugar coated and it doesn't sound condescending, it sounds genuine. You can tell that even if Jade doesn't trust any of us, she still believes that we are all worthy of love and respect.

That was the single most beautiful sentiment I have ever seen.

@M4tchazz

3 жыл бұрын

@I like beans *wipes tears* they still care

@Zero-fb2ec

3 жыл бұрын

I like how they still read the comments even though they dont do yt anymore

"Jade aggressively supporting you for 15 minutes and 20 seconds straight."

@MyFictionalChaos

4 жыл бұрын

"Straight" *sweats nervously*

@julialopez5997

4 жыл бұрын

Omg yes

@not-so-happypappypatton

4 жыл бұрын

chaotic_gabby *heavy sweating*

@vidiaparamaatmaseeker2130

4 жыл бұрын

This comment made me smile.

@AmandaHope.

4 жыл бұрын

That’s a great tittle

Jade: "YOU. HAVE. VALUE." Me: "Ok, I'm sorry for putting myself down, I'm so sorry, please forgive me, I have value."

@SpeedOfTheEarth

3 жыл бұрын

You're not sorry, I'm not sorry, you're proud, I'm proud ❣️💚😌 Lots of love everybody thank you Jade💗

@sophieshockley4791

3 жыл бұрын

Omg, I was scared, "Okay I'm proud of my artwork I'm not a coward I love myself its not my fault!"

@ari4311

3 жыл бұрын

im getting yelled at by the nicest person... it's confusing

@onyx5453

3 жыл бұрын

s a m e jade literally just scolded everyone here for hating themselves... *i love it*

@ynntari2775

3 жыл бұрын

"You're not sorry, you're proud" person 1: awn, is trying to help... person 2: don't tell me what I am and what I'm not, I know what I am, I tell what I am, you don't person 1: um... I think you learned that right, I guess

There's something about Jade that makes me really like her. She gives me the vibes of a mentor who seems cold and strict but actually wants to see you succeed and supports you without realising it

Jade, staring into my soul: You. Have. Value. Me, crying: Yes ma'am thank you ma'am

What I expected: a rant What I got: a pep talk

She's not aggressive she is ASSERTIVE

@kaefalcon5142

4 жыл бұрын

Martin T this is a good lesson on how we gender language.

@skeeterb2006

4 жыл бұрын

Very Assertive. Tell us about it Jade!

@mariaprado391

4 жыл бұрын

She qualifies as both. Aint nothing wrong with aggressive.

@quirkyblackenby

4 жыл бұрын

Martin T some people feel like they’re the same

I HOPE YOU KNOW YOU ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE!

@raincloud5309

3 жыл бұрын

Baby.

I have heard many motivational speeches, people trying to build me up, ME trying to build people up - but I have never heard anything as powerful as what Jade said. Jade, YOU are so powerful. And I know you mean all of this with every ounce of your being. It moved something in me, in a very good way. I'm just learning to put myself first, and this... it convinced me that I'm doing the right thing. Thank you, Jade. This was needed.

@giuliagg100

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. Thank you!!!

Jade: *yells at me that i am special* Me: *spams like button because i wish i could give more than one like on this video* jade: *smiles sweetly at camera at the end of the video* me: *screeches and spams like button harder*

@goosekevin420

4 жыл бұрын

did i just receive a heart? *oh boy we done goofing around now*

Jade aggressively calling everybody special is threatening in a wholesome way.

@ashrafabdullah1717

4 жыл бұрын

Its encouraging in a way.

@louloudaki_

4 жыл бұрын

Avacado schllnbrg i love it

Haters: being haters Jade: being agressively wholesome

I think I've never cried as much as I did with this video. First because I felt angry, angry to see such amazing people receiving hate after being so opened to us all, people who took so long to educate and help everybody who were seeking for comfort and knowledge. However, as the video went on, my tears became tears of gratitude. You are dealing with such a distressful situation, but even in a moment like that one of yours took time to send us a message too. I do not have DID or any kind of dissociative disorder, but I've been clinically diagnosed with depression, anxiety and panic disorder. Finding your channel was the best thing that could have happened to me in a while! Trauma affected me, obviously, and my self-esteem coudn't be worst, but on your channel I've found a place of love, honesty and care. You only deserve love and respect. I see the hate being spread and I feel so angry and sad... But I remember that I'm feeling it exactly because I care about your System, and if I care about you, it's because you are the people for whom I do my best to make the world a better place for. It's people like you who helps me keep going. And not because I see you as "Gods" or something, but exactly for the opposite reason. That's why I wish to say thank you. For Jade, for taking your time and efforts to film this and say what needed to be said. For the whole System themselves, for doing their best to live well, happy and also supporting us, completely unknown individuals to you, to do our best to keep living well and have more empathy. I have no idea if you're ever going to see this comment, and that's ok. I just wanted to say thank you. Especially to you, Jade, whose powerful words here will be forever in my heart. You guys are indeed special and deserve to rest/take a breath. You already made a big positive difference in other people's lives... ♥️

Jade: “This video is not intended to scare anyone” Me: nodding “yes” and legs shaking

@saadia4009

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@SM-BSW

4 жыл бұрын

@@saadia4009 ditto

@Milokissavlk

4 жыл бұрын

Yes yes I’m validated proceeds to cry in the corner

@Roboco98

4 жыл бұрын

Me: hunched in the fetal position, "go off, love"

@bluejayechaosenbybirb5865

4 жыл бұрын

"Yes, queen!" *hiding under the bed*

Jade isn’t scary, she speaks like a really “rude” seeming teacher that actually loves their students.

@lefttyroooo

4 жыл бұрын

shes not scary, shes like no nonsense. she knows what she wants and will take nothing less than the best

@ras3199

4 жыл бұрын

She will take no shit, that's for sure.

@Cheese9220

4 жыл бұрын

@@ras3199 understandable really, name one person who will willingly take shit from anybody, I sure as hell am not one of those people

@ceekay3143

4 жыл бұрын

I kind of wish I could embody Jade's serious energy when I need to talk to my own students like this.

@atinysoftbean1645

4 жыл бұрын

I get goosebumps whenever she speaks, but it's not the "I'm scared"-kind. It's the "Whatever this person has to say is acutely important"-kind.

So many people focusing on the segment where Jade validates self engagement is nice and all, but did you watch any further than the first five seconds? I ask this bluntly because what she had to say at 7:20 is the core of the video. The system has lived a life of complete abuse and misunderstanding before posting a single thing. We made the system feel more confident about coming forward with a life of pain. Then we snatched it away from them and stratched them. The experiences of Paytas, the follow up from Anthony's video and Team Pinata's terrifying activity would be enough for any brain regardless of mental health diagnosis. To take all that then send death threats, make exploit videos (seen 3 there is nothing like the untalented piggy backing off trauma for the algorithm to get a hard on). I'm not surprised the protectors of the system said enough. I hope they come back some day.

@destinitaylor4360

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so confused. What’s all that’s happened?

@Emily-mn8tt

3 жыл бұрын

@@destinitaylor4360 a lot of stuff they left for a long time because of more trauma watch videos from they’re live with Anthony and on

@lightinthedark9201

3 жыл бұрын

If it's for their safety, it's better if they would not.But it would be disappointing because I wanted to learn.There is such a big stigma.The internet is truly a cruel and dark place.Thank God the littles didn't get exposed,Thank God we have Jade.

Her aggressively yelling her loving lessons at me is what I need in life

@rachelrenee262

3 жыл бұрын

Me too apparently!! In tears 😢

You can tell how pissed she is and she's absolutely right.

@codyrogers9582

4 жыл бұрын

breaks my heart that they get that amount of hate

@Milokissavlk

4 жыл бұрын

amalia guerrero I had only heard of somebody as I twitching when they got angry and then I watch this video PS I hope you all are feeling better love you from Milo

@angelicgacha

4 жыл бұрын

@@codyrogers9582 People seem to target people who seem vulnerable luckily most of them are idiots and target the wrong people

@foreverdmsrus3589

4 жыл бұрын

They all don't deserve the hate.

"There is nothing wrong with Nin believing she is special. Nin is special" yaaas you tell 'em sis

@DissociaDID

4 жыл бұрын

I cried when I got to that point in editing

@angelicgacha

4 жыл бұрын

Awwww, i kinda feel bad I've been told that all my life and never really been affected when people said I wasn't special etc. so seeing other people being so affected when they're told there special feels like I'm some sort of weirdo for being surrounded in that postivity growing up ahhhh ❤️❤️❤️

@alyssa_faith

4 жыл бұрын

Maya Lianna yes because Nin IS special 🙌🏻🙌🏻

@user-kv7pr7xs6k

4 жыл бұрын

one of my favorite parts.

@sierramoore3252

4 жыл бұрын

@@DissociaDID I almost cried I was like omg awwww

I ended my engagement, a 5 year relationship last week. i struggled with my sexuality, i'm asexual and decided that i don't have to engage in sexual activities i don't want, and i shouldn't have to be in a relationship where i make myself uncomfortable for someone else . I love this video, i really needed that right now, Thanks Jade

@magpiem0th

4 жыл бұрын

I am asexual as well! It's very misunderstood and I wish you the best

@sonag_lee

4 жыл бұрын

I wish for the best and I am aromantic

@Sarah-pt1mv

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you!! 💞💞

@LittleIcarus

4 жыл бұрын

Don't worry the ace community is here for you ^-^

@maggie1985

3 жыл бұрын

I’m ace too! I hope you’re ok and I support you!

I cried. I've never really heard anything quite like that from anyone before in terms of validation and self-respect. Not to that length and not with that degree of seriousness and certainty. Thank you.

Jade has big “strict headmistress who’s had enough of everyone’s shit” energy and I dig it lol

@prettyperra2850

4 жыл бұрын

So basically.. Professor McGonagall

@lesliegg

4 жыл бұрын

pretty perra literally what I was envisioning lmfao

@AmandaHope.

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@rosietaylor3071

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking she has a female Snape vibe lol. I love it though! No nonsense, right to the point, very direct. And you can tell she has a big heart and will do whatever she has to in order to protect the system. ❤️

@nazeem4240

4 жыл бұрын

@@prettyperra2850 I was gonna say that lmao

“You should be the center of your own world ... that is not selfish” “You do not have to earn your value” “You exist therefore you are. You have value.” “There is no therapist with stars in her eyes.” *queue tears*

@nightravenherbalteas9002

4 жыл бұрын

Lovett Loves agreed

@phoenixmoon5580

4 жыл бұрын

You set yours to queue? Not only are you smart! You actually had enough time for that?! You're super speedy too! (Meant genuinely, but hopefully gave you some giggles too!).

@ljones1908

4 жыл бұрын

I am a beginning therapist and she is right. My job is to listen, find the areas that are lacking and help you empower yourself. People who are traumatized have power just for the fact that they lived through it. That humbles me to hear the stories. As a therapist I say that I can never live through that. I do not have stars in my eyes but I do have a flashlight in my hand to help lead the way.

@phoenixmoon5580

4 жыл бұрын

@@ljones1908 I think therapy or any health related interaction is a team effort. The patient/client/customer is an expert on themselves and their experiences, but maybe not have the knowledge and/or ability to work through them and manage the associated issues. The therapist/health professional is an expert on how to listen and help people, but do not have the knowledge about the person or experiences they require help on. Both people are an expert and a non expert, and both are seeking the other person's help in the other aspects. Therefore they are equal rather than the stereotypical 'doctor knows all, patient knows nothing' approach. Good luck!

“I’m aware that my demeanor can be...unnerving” *annnnd just like that I’m in love with Jade*

0:25 the angriest complement I've ever gotten

Jade makes me want to sit down and shut up and I haven't even done anything wrong

@Thisisnotapipe_

4 жыл бұрын

Sameeeee lol

@saadia4009

4 жыл бұрын

Jade tells it straight, no messing 😂

@jaypegasi3769

4 жыл бұрын

Bro same

@vanessaultimo1926

4 жыл бұрын

She horrifies me but validates me at the same time. I'm so confused 😅

@pisceandreamer3

4 жыл бұрын

Shes literally my main mood. So much luv for this fierce and trusthful sista. Preeeeach! X

Jade: nin IS special, me: hell yeah! Jade: YOU are special me, sobbing: hell yeah?!

@drinicole7434

4 жыл бұрын

Mood

@gabyy21laverde

4 жыл бұрын

That part got me too.

@augustcouperthwaite3814

4 жыл бұрын

You are special

@tess2082

4 жыл бұрын

HELL YEAH!

@fionag2246

4 жыл бұрын

That surprise me so much( ⚈̥̥̥̥̥́⌢⚈̥̥̥̥̥̀)

Jade: "We want you to create a safe space within yourself." Me: *bawls Didn't realize how much I needed that. Thank you.

Jade: You. Are. Valid. By. Yourself. You. Are. Worth. It Me, sobbing: Yes ma'am, thank you, I AM valid, I AM worth it, thank you so much

jade: "lots of love everybody" me: *slightly terrified, mostly empowered*

@skeetsmcgrew3282

4 жыл бұрын

Four words were never more accurate

@ironiceilidh

4 жыл бұрын

update: i don't even think i know 942 people so i feel famous.. thx for the likes 😭🥺🥰

@pikai6387

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, Jade is kinda scary, but it's her job. She's super cool, I love her!!

Also Jade: *aggressively tells me I am special and should love myself* Me: *nods frantically*

When she said YOU. HAVE. VALUE. I started to cry because I've been really hard on myself lately

"There was no therapist with stars in her eyes who drew out all the truths from us and guided the way ; we did that." I felt that really really hard.

This is the nicest scolding I’ve ever gotten.

@zoria2527

4 жыл бұрын

ify

@leavemealone3251

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@infjelphabasupporter8416

4 жыл бұрын

Same lol -Raven

@vanessaflores9054

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr!!

@lpsfankanr1

4 жыл бұрын

@little yuii in case you didn't get the notif or didn't see it (as I know it can happen), my response is to give you a second chance and seeing/getting the notif.

That smile at the end made me cry....because it was like the stars in the eye...thank you 💙

nobody: Jade: *loves you aggressively*

@somebodygotmine

4 жыл бұрын

Nike reck ❤️❤️❤️

@KawaiiKissable

4 жыл бұрын

Literally the way to explain who she is

@hearts_ease

4 жыл бұрын

me: uh thanks love you too Jade

@savannahcheesebox1353

4 жыл бұрын

Jade is not the type of person you mess with

@ravengreywitch510

4 жыл бұрын

Id say passionately.

I've never been so terrified by the sentence "This is a SAFE place" Jade is out here scaring us into self belief and i love her for it.

@alyssasquirrel4769

4 жыл бұрын

For real though.

I know this channel has stopped posting for 3 months now and I don't if they will see this but this is one video I will remember till the day I die the words that Jade said are the most solid real and straigh forward advices I've ever heard. Living with depression in the world of darkness I've found source of love, self-love, safety, validation in many ways but this has gave me STRENGTH. I am so thankful to you the whole system and for this video Jade you have earned all of my respect.

Jade reminds me of the Goddess Kali in that she presents a Dark Mother energy with deep Love behind it, a tough maternal love stating what needs to be said with the importance of boundaries. Thank you.

@smrrap5989

6 ай бұрын

Agreed! Ominous positivity and Divine wrath bleeding forth constantly!

When I saw Jade on the thumbnail, my first thought was: "Oh f***, it's about to go DOWN"

@matthewkehoe5027

4 жыл бұрын

Yup, you always know it’s serious when jade actively makes a video cus she slightly dissaproves of the channel

@sheloveswilby

4 жыл бұрын

Lol me too

@alexbosveld7092

4 жыл бұрын

Saw her and was instantly confused but intrigued by what she had to say

"You have value. Inherently" *Sobbing*

IT'S BACK! This is one of my favorite videos of yours-so, so important-and I can't wait to watch it again. Thank you so much Jade!

@tinyfreckle

Жыл бұрын

This is my favourite video too, so glad it's back

The only reason I even knew that DID exists was bc of your “switch on camera” title

Jade: An elegant goddess aggressively telling me i'm worthy Me: wow, thats really convincing actually My Depression: Yeah... Maybe I should go....

@mikyjening2716

4 жыл бұрын

I know how depression and axiaty feel and let mě tell you your have nice personality and be yourself dont listen the others like jade Said we all are unique i believe that everybody have to be respected in their need and feeling. But some People still try to Hurt others for fun and i dont know your story of life and you dont know mine but i wish you luck and happines in this world. I have axiaty and depression too but i told myself There are dark days and White days but even if you feel like you not worth it. Trust mě you are. And As a human who went through bulling almost died in cat acident humiliation and toxic parents also physical atack from my siblings and verbal atack i have survived and i changed. I have been marked too with the trauma but i say your are worth it. Dont let your history of life breake you.

“i’m aware that my demeanour can be... uNnErVinG” i absolutely love jade, she is a perfect protector and gate keeper 💓

I had a really bad depression 'attack' yesterday, I hadn't felt that awful is so long. I felt useless, unneeded and angry at myself for multiple different reasons. To hear someone say that I am valid and treasured... I just broke down. Words that I have longed to hear, came from someone I barely even know. It just goes to show that words can really affect you, whether they are good words or bad. So please be mindful of the things you say- it might sound trivial to you but some things can really affect someone in a negative way. Thank you, Jade

Jeez, I always forget how intense Jade is. I love her with all my heart.

@ws_chai

3 жыл бұрын

honestly same

Jade’s attitude is like “You’re gonna love yourself and like it.” No questions asked, yes Ma’am! Jade is everything I want to be

@sclerala

4 жыл бұрын

: Espeon : _everyone liked that_

@amkoh87

4 жыл бұрын

Jade tells me I am special and I will love myself damnit! I am special!

@alexisrivera3994

4 жыл бұрын

Confidence is key babe; what you feel self conscious about honestly you gotta beat it outta ya. Look in the mirror and every insecurity you have about yourself you need to say you love it.

Jade: *Aggressively makes you feel better with yourself*

@courtneybari2374

4 жыл бұрын

Jade the aggressively loving life coach? I love her though.

@thepanda9782

4 жыл бұрын

She's that sassy mom-friend that is like "NO! you are awesome, don't let anybody let you think different *angru face*"

@thepanda9782

4 жыл бұрын

She's that sassy mom-friend that is like "NO! you are awesome, don't let anybody let you think different *angru face*"

Dannnngggg. Jade makes me feel so loved in the most serious way possible. She's my new favorite motivational speaker

I think jade is the only person who has genuinely been able to motivate me to stay alive while keeping a serious and almost unnerving tone. Most other people get angry or sad yiu feel this way, that you feel worthless and no longer want to be alive, so they try to pull you up by knocking you down, and feeding the same bs of “you’re not worthless that’s ridiculous” down your throat. But jade does it in a way that the love and care radiates from her. There is no attitude other than serious genuine love. There’s no energy if being annoyed that you feel that way. She really got it through to me that fighting for myself is not wasting my time. She engraved it into my brain in a way no one else has. If I have nobody else in this world, I have jade and kya, omega, Mike, maeri, doll, I forgot the demons name but I have them too, and the rest if dissociaDID. I love you all. Thank you so much, and thank you tons to jade.

@_TheDudeAbides_

10 ай бұрын

I am sorry about your experience with other people. I wish you had some good people in your life who could support you and accept that you have the feelings you have. So they would not work against you but work with you, so to speak. I think you have great value and your past experiences, good and bad, in combination with your mind, have made you the person you are now. You are a complex and amazing individual, just the way you are. I wish you all the best.

this feels like being hit by a truck, flung off a cliff, and slammed into a whole ocean of loving support

Jade saying there isn't a therapist with stars in their eyes, while she herself has a ring of light shining with the intensity of 1000 stars. Jade is an amazing speaker, the fact that she said all of that in one take (presumably without a script) really shows just how passionate and intelligent she is. Consider me inspired.

@maxxiemaria466

4 жыл бұрын

MarshalEastwood I hope they put it on merch

@jayden2000

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah thats a camera light but I get the point

@jemimahkendall6579

4 жыл бұрын

One take, no 🤣

I missed this video a lot. Jade, you speak so clearly (as a foreigner I really appreciate this) and the message was (and still is) needed. I am so glad it's back!!! 😍

@eszterildikobalas142

Жыл бұрын

Re-watched it 2times already today and I am planning to watch it in the near future again. Thank you again for this!!! ❤️

Also to add to the point of the “click bait title” thing, I 100% agree that having things like “switch in camera” really does help boost the video in the algorithm. This is basically how I found this channel because it is intriguing in itself. Also as Jade said, you HAVE to work with the algorithm, youtube is a nightmare and having a good title will literally mean the difference between thousands seeing a video or not. Big youtubers alwayssss use clickbaity titles but they never get moaned at for it so I just don’t see the problem here at all. Also the saddening thing is the bigger you get on KZread there will always be jealous people who want to tear you down, I found this channel while trying to educate myself on DID, this is personally my favourite channel to watch when I want to know more about the subject(but not the only one that I watch) but the reason why I found it was because it’s so large. But as amazing as having a huge channel is when it comes to spreading awareness it also means that people with smaller platforms will be jealous and will cause drama, you see the same pattern happen in a lot of different communities on KZread unfortunately:/ I hope you’re all doing okay and healing, remember to take as much time as you need to feel comfortable again, and know the DissociaDID community has always got your back💜💜💜

“You should be the centre of your own world. That is survival; that is not selfish.” Thank you, Jade. Thank you so much.

@elinevandenmunckhof2199

4 жыл бұрын

yes. It felt like something I needed to hear for a long time.

When she looked into the camera and said “you have value” I started to tear up. I’ve never heard anyone say something so positive to me in such a confident and concrete way. Thank you jade, please come back for more videos if your safety and health allows it!

@lovelyheartu8256

4 жыл бұрын

I teared up as well

@kitdubhran2968

4 жыл бұрын

Like when I watched the Mr Rogers movie and he said “you’re not broken” and looked right at the camera. Y’all I cried so hard.

@blueberrypoptart2424

4 жыл бұрын

This got me too

@annastocchi8086

4 жыл бұрын

Crying too. Thank you Jade for putting out the words some of us need to hear

@catherine9395

4 жыл бұрын

Absolute same

"YOU HAVE VALUE" Tell me why that made me want to change my whole life around

right at 14:46 Jade smiles a bit, and it gave me chills. Just that short moment after that speech on validity made me feel great. She was so supportive and said so much to try to make us feel valid, and that moment spoke just as much as the latter half of the video when she does. it was like repeating 'you can do it.'

"That is survival, not selfish" That shook me I really needed to hear that Thank you.

bro this is why i love jade she just scared me into loving myself

@therainbowsys6233

4 жыл бұрын

Me with my Alter Daniella- she’s so intensely loving and amazing, with a kind of passion that just gives me emotions

@courtneyburgess7850

4 жыл бұрын

Keep speaking the truth Jade. Love your un-minced words 💜 we need more people like you

@punishedcrow

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@folieadeux1

4 жыл бұрын

Me too, looking into her eyes isn’t cold or intimidating at all, it’s completely enchanting and relaxing. Heart warming in a sweet weird way (^’: ❤️

@gabyy21laverde

4 жыл бұрын

LOL YES!!!!!

I really really love Jade. She seems like the kind of person that actually has weight in her words and says what is necessary. This was a very educational video I hope you are well and do know that we support you fully ❤❤

No one. No one in my entire life has even come close to tell me this. I am not a DID system, but I felt more from this video than I have ever felt from anyone ever. Thank you, Jade. For you, for ME, I will try more to love myself more. We all love what you do, and appreciate what you do. However hard it is, you inspire me to follow my dreams to become a psychologist (although that will never be true) and try my best to help the people I know as much as i can and be a better person. Once again, we love you for what you do. And thank you. So much.

She is so intense. Her staring into my soul telling me I'm valid and deserve love almost made me cry

@isthisnametaken6618

4 жыл бұрын

Me too! I started tearing up just listening to her. 😢❤

@Charly1274

4 жыл бұрын

Same I didn't know I needed to hear her words

@jadetrolland8095

4 жыл бұрын

I did cry.

@carter3774

4 жыл бұрын

@@jadetrolland8095 right? Something about her just hits you right in your core so fucking hard

@amberleitao4727

4 жыл бұрын

I’ve always felt that about her that for some reason when she speaks into the camera I feel like she’s looking directly at me and she’s talking directly to me and there’s nobody else around. She has a very intense personality but when she speaks people listen and they hear her and I definitely heard this one. This one stirred up a bunch of stuff in a good way

Jade: *tells me I'm special and don't need to change for anyone and I deserve to love myself* Me: *crying* thank you I really needed this

@jolienr.5762

4 жыл бұрын

Same

So, I came here expecting the usual „screw the haters speech“. Guess I don‘t have to say that I did not know Jade yet. That was the nicest, best contained piece of righteous fury+tough love+ inspiring speech I have ever seen. You had my respect. Now, you have my admiration. And I know Jade said not to put any of you on a podium, and I will try not to (though it is very hard sometimes). But it continues to amaze me how you, all of you, Nin, Jade, Kyle, Omega, and all the ones I have not met yet continue to bring out works of pure love and information. You make me feel welcome, dispite not having any of the problems you are adressing. Sometimes in communities like this people who just want to learn from the outside feel left out or unwelcome. Not here. You are right. This is a place of love. And no amount of hate will ever change that.

Jade : Staring at our souls and spreading positivity by scolding us Me : *(insert name here) will remember that*

Every time Jade comes on camera I get the strongest Athena vibes. Jade is just a glowing goddess of wisdom, but also of war. She is here to defend and protect, but also to educate. I admire Jade's strength and light so very much

@laurenj919

4 жыл бұрын

KH Clark Designs honestly she is so amazing and protective and I hope she’ll see all the love

@Victoriomantic

4 жыл бұрын

100% agreed

@salem1281

4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha I said the same thing when I saw her meet the alters video! So true. Great minds think alike!!

@dune6528

4 жыл бұрын

we stan a powerful woman

"You should not have to provide details of your diagnoses, for people to take you seriously * The entire disabled/mental illness community APPLAUDS, We need more Jade's in the world

@JosephineWitch

4 жыл бұрын

this exactly 👏

@karenb7620

4 жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼

@funny.gon-12

4 жыл бұрын

Gor me I'm just interested on how we as people function and what makes each individual.

@MrTheNickolas

4 жыл бұрын

But what about Trisha Paytas?

Jade, I know you probably won't see this but this video means more to me than you can imagine. For a long while I've been struggling with depression...with a loss of identity. I've made progress but I'm not where I need to be. This video just helped me in so many ways. More than I can count. I just wanted to thank you for this video and wanted to let you know that you're an amazing person. I'm going to watch this anytime I need encouragement, because I know I'll find it. Here. With you.

Tell em girl! I have borderline personality disorder (clinically diagnosed) i have dealt with this A TON in my life & i hate seeing other people invalidated. People who are invalidating you are completely ignorant people, trying to ruin your day. All of you are beautiful & do a great job at destigmatizing & explaining this mental disorder. I love watching your videos as someone who also suffers with a mental disorder & im not saying it's good, but it also comforts me to know that im not alone & not the only person who goes through things such as people invalidating you. Do your best ignore ignorant people like that. They don't live in your head, they don't know what its like. That's what i always have to tell myself, its just another person who has no idea what its like to live with the specific disorder i have & that I know i have this after being clinically diagnosed (thinking i had bipolar or something of that sort but being clinically diagnosed as borderline because the 2 are supposedly similar). Keep making videos, do your best all of you to keep doing what makes you all happy.

Jade: grabs me Me:uhh Jade:HEY Me:yeah??? Jade:YOU ARE SPECIAL Me:*cries uncontrollably*

@morgandotson7089

4 жыл бұрын

😭😭hard same😭😭

@alec5373

4 жыл бұрын

Same. And then she started referencing depression and trauma and I was balling my eyes out lol.

@artandfiction4534

4 жыл бұрын

The way you wrote that reminded me of Bakugou or Iida from mha.

8:28 timestamp of Jade aggressively telling me I'm special for later.

@christinawhitley5298

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Bookmarked.

@faithwilliams6412

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@yukisuzu7496

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@maepaterson9862

4 жыл бұрын

I need this

@brittanypolly1804

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 💚

'It takes years of work especially if you have depression to come to terms with things that are good about yourself.' Genuinely blew me away when Jade said this. It's been a rough few weeks, even months and I thank you profusely for saying this, Jade, as well as the entire system. I feel so incredibly safe and supported whenever I watch any of your videos, and I thank you all so much for posting whenever you do post! 💛

Thank you Jade! I know this is an older video but I just found it. I recently came to the conclusion myself that "selfishness" is survival and is not a moral failing. It was so validating and reassuring to hear someone else say that back to me so fiercely. Thank you! 💚

Descartes: I think therefore I am/exist Jade, going one step further: I exist therefore I have value

@Julia-oe9xl

4 жыл бұрын

Wow youre right. Thats so deep

@paulashinn

4 жыл бұрын

Damn I loved this

@grace-hl1rl

4 жыл бұрын

@@Julia-oe9xl r/im14andthatsdeep

@cynirus

4 жыл бұрын

Oh boy... have you ever been to a literature class XV-XX period? You would be amazed.

@nobody-qc7xc

4 жыл бұрын

well pOop exists

Jade: Nin *is* special Me: HELL YEAH Jade: *You* are special Me: that's an opinion Jade: you have to make the change Me:*crying* that opinion, I agree with it..

@DUSKvsDAWN

4 жыл бұрын

That change is so fucking terrifying though...

@foreveranonymous20

4 жыл бұрын

Did you notice how jades eye twitched with anger as she said nin is special... She is so scary sometimes

@littlemeloncoli3017

4 жыл бұрын

@@foreveranonymous20 She is intimidating but in a helpful way

Thank you so much for this video! I am stuck in an abusive environment right now which is exacerbating my mental illnesses. This video is helping me to stay strong and focus on me.

I'm going to rewatch this every time I need to reevaluate my thoughts. I needed this. Thank you Jade for the firm but loving affirmation. ❤

me: * feelin' intimidated and protected * thank u jade

Someone pissed off Jade and she is not afraid to say her truth, and I respect her with every fibre of my being. also can we talk about how she called us valid. i don't know about you but i'm about to cry.

@runvengeance950

4 жыл бұрын

The moment she said that everyone was special ngl I almost fucking cried

@ladyartemis9288

4 жыл бұрын

I cried my eyes out

@LilithAkaSoulTaker

4 жыл бұрын

Kate Cuell hi i am Tammy black i am the same way someone pissed of the host and someone made one of the younger personalities scared i am not going to discuss it because it wasn’t pleasant?!

@maffletris

4 жыл бұрын

It did make me weep

My first time seeing a switch EVER in my life was from this channel. It was a quick switch and knew nothing about the disorder so I was sooooo confused. I legit thought it was an act to show what it would look like, so I did research and looked at more video's and it took me like an hour to see that it was real and it was actually happening. Thank you for educating me! I needed that!

Jade may be looking and talking aggressively but she's melting my heart with her words of wisdom.

In 2020, we intimidate bullies with *aggressive love*

@kealchsfactory7492

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

I know a lot of the comments are talking about the stern, “scary” way Jade speaks but her words here are so incredibly compassionate, empathetic, loving, warm. Thank you Jade for recording this and Nin for posting it.

@arisymphony

4 жыл бұрын

I have to try very very hard to focus on the words and not the tone or expression for trauma reasons. It's hopefully worth it.

@amazings500

4 жыл бұрын

@@arisymphony I'm struggling to put my thoughts to words but I also had similar issues with this video. I'm glad I was able to get through to the end of it as what was being said was important. But I think a warning is necessary, at least in the description, that this video will be far from comforting.

@TaylorDoesStuff19

4 жыл бұрын

Seriously! She sounds so aggressive but said that you inherently have value and I was suddenly like oh??? we are not in trouble??? we are love???

@arisymphony

4 жыл бұрын

@@TaylorDoesStuff19 Yeah! I know she said in the beginning she's being stern because it's important, and I get that's a part of her personality. It just also scares me because I'm baby.

@TaylorDoesStuff19

4 жыл бұрын

Ari! Literally same 😂 I’m baby club out here 2k20!!

That was the most inspirational speech I have ever watch. I’m speechless...it was beautiful. You guys are amazing and has made my determination to become a psychologist tenfold 💜. Thank you!

@DissociaDID

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you! ❤️

Don't have DID. But suffer PTSD, depression and anxiety and hearing Jade talk about it taking time to understand how special you are and seeing any good in yourself really hit me. I wish I had a jade in my life.

I am incredibly grateful for jade because we all need someone to care this much.

@LilithAkaSoulTaker

4 жыл бұрын

Lily Griffin same

@LilithAkaSoulTaker

4 жыл бұрын

Lily Griffin hi this is Tammy black i feel the same way like her

@LilithAkaSoulTaker

4 жыл бұрын

Lily Griffin i made a video of me talking i am not pleased nor am I happy

@LilithAkaSoulTaker

4 жыл бұрын

Lily Griffin feel free to watch it if u like.

@halimaislam7421

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it made me cry, I hugged my phone ♡♡ Updated: correction. . . It made me sob. . .this is so true☆

Me: i don't love myse- Jade: You are SPECIAL *stares into my soul* Me: O-oh ok..

@savannahlewis1068

4 жыл бұрын

Everytime I hear youtubers or other people say "oh all my fans are special" I blow it off but this hit me in my core and I really don't know what to do with these feelings 😂

I love how she is not afraid to speak her mind. She’s so strong I love her so much!

This video is so important. This message needs to be heard. ❤❤

Me: I'm so ready to be scared into loving myself

@fernwehtreasures

4 жыл бұрын

Thats how it starts!! I was there too a year ago!! And gosh what a journey

@DatBoi-in2xs

4 жыл бұрын

A+

@Ghost-pd8pm

4 жыл бұрын

The prosecuters in my sys: *exists* Me:

@NicoDavisPurington

4 жыл бұрын

@@Ghost-pd8pm Y O U.

“do not let yourself be another voice that tells you you’re unworthy” ...damn. thank you.

@arcoirissystem433

4 жыл бұрын

This made me flinch