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@gbessayk.varney4434

Жыл бұрын

Please help me I am in situation like that

@gbessayk.varney4434

Жыл бұрын

I want her back

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

@@gbessayk.varney4434 You shouldn't take her back if she left you or someone else, but if you really want that just follow what I suggest above & I can help.

@jamesnotreally8412

3 ай бұрын

I was dating a girl for about 9 months. With a month and a half she moved in with a completely different guy. When this happened I was shattered and the military tried putting me on suicide watch. Oh yeah to make it worse she dumped me on deployment

@SkillofAttraction

3 ай бұрын

@@jamesnotreally8412 That's rough & terrible timing. You caught what is referred to as "one-itis", where a man believes a girl is "the one" & becomes very attached. One-itis is the downfall of men, despite what we see in the movies & hear from society.

When she tries to come back just remember how she left..she was never yours it was just your turn..now it’s time to put all the focus on you!

@SkillofAttraction

7 ай бұрын

A woman's love & attraction are conditional. You were initially meeting those conditions or she wouldn't have been with you to begin with...but if you stop meeting those conditions, she will tune out & sometimes leave. It was only your turn if you stop being the man she fell in love with.

@HolyRollerTV

13 күн бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction nope she will leave for various reasons...'fell in love' is disney world dude

@SkillofAttraction

13 күн бұрын

@@HolyRollerTV Nope...she will leave when she loses attraction & respect, which causes her to fall out of love, dude.

Also remember, she got "stolen" by another dude because she WANTED to be stolen. She did it of her own free will. Nobody held a gun to her head telling her to go with someone else. Ideally, don't take her back. If she comes crawling back again after it fails, tell her this: The door is open when you're leaving, but it's closed on your way back! In some cases, a woman is only loyal to their feelings. When the feelings are out the window, she's no longer loyal to their man.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That's right...no women can be stolen or poached from another man unless she was open to it. And correct...I don't recommend taking a woman back after she's left you for someone else. In that case, the only reason she's back is because it didn't work out with the other guy. Basically, you'd be plan B.

@papitrapstar1575

9 ай бұрын

Dis da Coldess n Realist OG P advice ca i always saydat. Women r Only loyal2 her feelins, wen its gone shes gone 2... so her loyalty n true love' Doesn't acc exist.. Its jusa fantasy. Dis is £Billionaire Game rn n Most Men Dk nun of Dis🤘🏾👑❄️💯

@sanjanagrover7436

5 ай бұрын

Ryt ​@@SkillofAttraction

@CorbinB-Rax

26 күн бұрын

​@@SkillofAttraction All women are loyal only to their emotions. No exceptions have ever existed

@SkillofAttraction

25 күн бұрын

@@CorbinB-Rax Exactly. How she feels about it comes before any logic, or how anyone else feels about her decisions.

If the woman no longer wants to be in a relationship, just be honest with me and tell me how you feel and tell me that relationship is over. Be honest. I'll respect you more.

@SkillofAttraction

11 ай бұрын

That would be the ideal way to handle it, but sadly that doesn't always happen.

Good points and content. My ex gf did just this. Ghosted with no explanation after 5 1/2 years. For another guy that promptly dumped her after she left. Karma bit her right in the behind. She did try at least 5-7 times to come back, but sorry Dolly you screwed yourself. I wouldn't ever her back. Men, have some self respect and move on. There are only of fish in the Sea. Have integrity Men has it's rewards

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Good job! It can be difficult to say no when she wants to come back & you still love her. Men must put their self respect above everything else!

@davidcasillas285

Жыл бұрын

It wasn't difficult to tell her no. She showed me her true colors. I maintain, once a cheater always. Thanks to KZread and the Relationship Coaches, I learned to love me first. I learned about Hypergamy and 90% of Women are all about them. My former was convinced she was too good for me. Excellent, now she is s able to get older alone with her Cats & Box of Wine Club Membership! I am now able date younger women. She most likely can't do the same. She's well into her mid 60's.

@dylanmanuel7808

Жыл бұрын

@@davidcasillas285 keep your head up man. It’s a shame. No man should have to deal with that type of devil. It will only make you more stronger and wiser. Very strange world we live in.

@082782able

Жыл бұрын

Sorry you went threw that. I went threw the same thing.

@lowlowsandclothes9923

Жыл бұрын

My ex left me for almost 5 years left me. I found out a friend who I got a job for at where me and my ex work had invited her to his graduation and never even told me, I asked him about a month before she left me if he was inviting me to his graduation and he said yes, he never went back to tell me the day or if I still wanted to go. I asked another co worker and he said a few months before he saw on the snap maps that he was at her house late and she never told me about it. When she left me she gave me a bunch of small reasons that have been happening for a long time, it was nothing major and we were doing good weeks before the breakup.

Never ever take ‘em back! They ain’t who they were! U don’t own anyone-walk away with power. U don’t want them back.

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

You absolutely should not take them back in this case.

women are savage. they usually don’t leave a situation until they have another one lined up. as men we don’t typically do that, when you’re single you’re usually single with no options. just know whoever she left you for has been around for a minute.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

They don't all do this, but many do. This is what we call "monkey branching". However, you can prevent it by understanding female psychology & knowing when their attraction is wavering. Most men don't see it coming because they don't understand how women operate. A woman will slowly begin to check out & if you catch it in time you can stop it. It never happens overnight, like it often seems.

@AndI0td763

10 ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Would you think if a woman brings a new guy over to their place about a week after the break up to show the former boyfriend that she was cheating during the end of it? The woman in question seemed to feel very bad during the break up and there were signs she was losing interest towards the end. She gave no specific reasons for the break up she just said “it’s not working anymore.”

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

@@AndI0td763 There's really no way to know for sure. Despite the monkey branch, some women actually do remain "faithful" (ie: not sleep with another man) until they cut the cord. However, sorry to say, that does tell me that she was completely done with the relationship by this time. And honestly, if she felt bad about this she wouldn't be bringing the guy around you.

@lisa5821

9 ай бұрын

I'm female and here because two guys have done this to me. Ghost then I find out they left for someone else

@Doggo505

3 ай бұрын

They always got rhe dude thats gon replaxe you. ALWAYS!!

My 5 year relationship ended 2 weeks ago, and she left me for a dude, but not just a dude, a now former friend of mine, who she got to know because of me. Now I feel betrayed from two sides. Yes, our relationship was dying, I understood her reasons, but now, everything just feels like a lie. Now it feels like the sole reason for leaving me is that person who I used to call my friend.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that sucks worse than her just leaving. Unfortunately, it's going to hurt for a while. Just focus on yourself & leveling up, leaving them in your dust. Eventually, you want to work on forgiving both of them...but not forgetting or letting them back in to your life. They don't deserve your forgiveness, but it's not for them...it's for you so you don't hold onto that anger & pain.

@captainathens1658

Жыл бұрын

Thats the worst. I had this happen to me, found my friend in her bed. I yelled at him to come outside and face me. The coward never came outside.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

@@captainathens1658 Of course not...that's the lowest form of "friends".

@TheConspiredOne

Жыл бұрын

happened to me, couldnt bare to see them so I just don't go out anymore.

@deselby6669

10 ай бұрын

@OMiiN0US…I hear you..same story..

Thank you because this is exactly what I went through and I was in a two year relationship and she left me for the exact same reason. I sucks it's the worst feeling it destroyed me knowing that someone I thought was my closest friend just threw me away like I was garbage hurt worst of all. I'm going to be stronger from this I'm happy to know that I'm not the only loser out there that been in this same situation and I know this will blow up in her face sometime in the future.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

As hokey as it sounds, the best "revenge" really is to be your best & live your best life...& let her regret her decisions, because she absolutely will eventually.

@TheConspiredOne

Жыл бұрын

My girl left me after 4 and a half years for my friend. She was half a year older than me and as soon as she turned 18 she went with the 24 year old. It fucked me up so bad that now I don't even work but they are out working for me. They now have 2 kids and are miserable with all the work they have. She told me she liked him since the first year we were together and was basically just taking my money waiting to become 18 so the the dude wasnt a pedo. Believe in karma my friend because it is real when it counts. I sleep in when ever I want and do what I want when I want and they just got hassles in the end. I know all too well the feeling of the person "dying" in your mind. That person you knew was never real no matter what people tell you.

Actually the best movie of „that kind” on KZread I have watched this far. Thanks for sharing

@SkillofAttraction

3 ай бұрын

Thanks man!

Really needed this one to set my mind clear and end the year. Man, that story of your girl leaving, then you letting her back easily..... it just hit home. It just happened in my last relationship. But I guess I, and others, learned from the experience. Thanks for the videos coach, and happy new year everyone.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yup. You should always put them in a position to EARN you back if they want to come back.

Dude just read my life story in a video right now. I am literally going through this exact scenario. I have told people is it about want. If she want you, there is no way she would do anything to jeopardize that. I suspected 5 years of our 8 year marriage was about the time when the attraction was gone. She filled her time with girlfriends, work and the other guy. This is very true. Once you come out of the grief, you will realize, she may have did you a solid. Great video.

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

Many women will stay with you while they're grieving the end of the relationship to make it easier on her & oftentimes to line up a replacement (ie: monkey branching). This is why it can come as surprise to men when she officially ends it. You may find this video helpful for the future so this doesn't happen again: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

If she leaves you for another men, leave her for another woman. If she walks away and goes left, you go right, and you don't look back. My wife left me for another guy, guess what, I have a new girl, and I really like my new girl. I have no intetion of going back.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Yup. That's more or less the point of the video...

I just realized that phase that I'm in is the backup plan. Thank you for your video.... It hurts, but you are right.

@SkillofAttraction

27 күн бұрын

You definitely don't want to be the backup plan...& the more you tolerate it, the less attractive you become to her. Women admire self respect in a man. You may find this video helpful as well...signs she's stringing you along: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fXiomamPfdK_Z84.html

OMG thank you for this video. My wife ran off with some jerk. I caught her at first and she denied it. She then filed for divorce and then moved from Missouri to Los Angeles to be with this bozo. I've been miserable wanting her back. This video did more to kick me in the ass and help me to move on more than anything else has.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. I know it hurts, but you must always choose self respect above all else. You may also find this video helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qW16zbOYd7CodNI.html

my wife left this past Friday after 11yrs without a word! Waited til i went to work then she left without saying anything!

@SkillofAttraction

13 күн бұрын

That's terrible! Happened to a friend of mine too...he came home from work to an empty apartment.

My ex recently left me for a rich Redditor whose also an asshole to most people. Just shows the type of woman she is and now I feel more free for myself

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Good riddance to her! However, if you're new to my channel you might want to check it out...you might be surprised what women are truly attracted to in a man.

It's always best to let her go. Give it time and answers will come.

My girlfriend of 3 years dumped me for another dude a few months ago. I thought it was mostly because in the last months i neglected her due to my focusing on my goals, but now i see the situation is actually more complex. When the relationship started i was very dominant both in and out of the bedroom, but as time passed, i became softer and started to say "yes" more often.

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that, but yes, unfortunately that happens. Understand that when you're in a LTR or marriage, a woman's visceral goal is to soften you & turn you more beta so she feels more comfortable...essentially she wants to "tame the beast", but taming you & comfort is anti-seductive.

Last 5 minutes are just gold ...

@SkillofAttraction

7 ай бұрын

Thanks man!

my girlfriend left me and got with another guy right after and left me hurtin. Always improve on yourself to make her regret everything

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yes, that's the best revenge you could ever get on a woman who has broken your heart. And all that self i9mrpovement will have you dating more beautiful, higher quality women.

My 5 year ex left me for another man, i didnt know she had overlapped me and i didnt know there was another man until six months post break up, i was so embaressed about it all, that i didnt know all her friends and family knew, i was stunned i didnt even see it , anyway such is life

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I'm working on a video now (should be up tomorrow evening) about signs that she's lining up a replacement ("monkey branching") before she ends the relationship.

It feels like you have to perform to their exact liking and if you don’t they’ll leave the relationship. I disagree with the mentality that the happiness of the relationship is mostly about what the woman feels . My self and my happiness comes first and if they don’t like it they can’t go and kick rocks

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That's not what I said...I said the success of the relationship largely rests on the happiness of the woman; meaning, how happy she is in the relationship. Of course your happiness matters too, but men are much more tolerant & will often stay in a relationship when they're unhappy.

@JohnDoe-yk3ji

Жыл бұрын

I'm having my first experience of being the guy she's monkey branching to, rather than from and holy shit has it been eye opening. So many of the things she's whinging about are things I have done in the past. Being needy is the big one, she likes that I don't need her affection, but I like it. She likes that sometimes I'll ignore her stupid text and reply two hours later with a picture of a fish I caught instead of talking to her. It's weird as fuck, but these are the realities of the situation. That and asking for sex, rather than just initiating foreplay, that seems to be a recurring criticism I'm hearing.

@carlospita6442

Жыл бұрын

@@JohnDoe-yk3ji After you experience something like you will never be able to trust a woman again in your life

"If she leaves you for another, *you shall go for her mother..."* -Master Oogway

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That's a new one for me...😂

@captainathens1658

Жыл бұрын

this could be a good idea

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

@@captainathens1658 Or her sister or best friend.

@cavitycreep

Жыл бұрын

ewww her mother is old as fuck

Why does everyone act like losing a woman is a big deal

@SkillofAttraction

2 ай бұрын

If you were with for a month, then no big deal...but if you were with her for years, you're going to be attached & of course that would be a big deal.

Thank you Erik for this. 👍

@SkillofAttraction

6 ай бұрын

You're welcome. You might find this video helpful so you can hopefully avoid this in the future...signs that she's about to leave you for another man: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

Men, if you see any of these signs. Let her go. This will give you the green light with all the women in the world.

@SkillofAttraction

6 ай бұрын

Signs she's about to monkey-branch: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

Super thanks I’m going through this now. We’ve been apart for a year but tried working on things twice within that year. At the end I cut contact because I thought it was the right thing. We’re still married. She started seeing another man and I’m in the most pain of my life. I just don’t know how to handle this. It’s very emotional and I just feel like I wanna die. Not that I would ever harm myself. I have 3 kids but this is so painful

@SkillofAttraction

2 ай бұрын

"Super Thanks" is an option located right below the video...

I’m NEVER getting into another relationship again it’s easier on the heart that way

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Suit yourself, but what's easiest is just learning how to counter female nature in such a way where it works in your favor. Most men end up heartbroken because they don't understand how to do this.

@xKarmaYT

11 ай бұрын

​@@SkillofAttractionIdk why I need to treat people like animals instead that thinking people

@SkillofAttraction

11 ай бұрын

@@xKarmaYT I don't where you got that idea...

@xKarmaYT

11 ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction I think you do not understand me. Instead of people realizing their mistakes and critically analyzing what they do, we have to devise mental strategies and understand the feminine language as if they were animals. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a moralist. But I would like to have a partner who doesn't have to think about whether I should use strategy or other crap instead of reasoning.

@xKarmaYT

11 ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction This happens for both Genders

Thanks for this my wife of 12 years just left me, but I can see where I went wrong and tried to rectify my mistakes but it was too late, she did leave me for another man, I hope she does come back not because I have no self respect but because I know I can do better and make her happy, we do have kids together and I own up to my mistakes but I thought she was happy she never said otherwise, I’m sad for my 4 year old too I just say she working she will see you in x amount of days, I failed miserably as a husband and trying my best as a dad

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

It certainly makes this MUCH more difficult when children are involved, because you have to take them into consideration as well. My recommendation is to Google "divorce busting 180 list" & follow what that suggests. It's very effective!

My girlfriend of 7 and a half years, who's also the mother of my child, was seeing another guy behind my back for like 3 months. However, he got sent to prison not long after they started dating. When I found out about it, and confronted her, she at first denied it, but then she admitted it, once I showed her a selfie photo that her, and him took together before he went to prison. I started packing all my stuff up even though I couldn't afford my own place, and had nobody I could stay with, and she practically begged me to stay, saying I could stay while I got on my feet. I've stayed living in the house since then, and that was last September. It's July now. We've slept together NUMEROUS times since then, have kissed, cuddled, and held hands, basically acting like we were together. Yet, she's talked about how she's gonna marry this guy next year, and right in front of me. Not even caring about my feelings, AND she got his last name tattooed HUGE on her forearm. I waited 8 months to start seeing another woman, thinking maybe she'd come to her senses and drop the dude. When she found out I was seeing someone else, she went nuts. Now her man gets out in less than 2 weeks, and I'll have to move out by then, and she's moving him right in. My 7 year old daughter is being forced to live with a man she's never even met. It's sickening. So the term "monkey branching" fits my baby mama perfectly.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I have a video on signs that a woman is about to monkey branch, for future reference: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

@MBALEMEDIA

4 ай бұрын

I can feel the pain, I have realised women are the most troublesome people we ever have, I just can't trust any one of them anymore 😢

My man, from word to word this happened to me this month. Every day is hell but im trying to move on

@SkillofAttraction

6 ай бұрын

Stay strong & move on. She doesn't deserve you! Here are some signs that a woman is thinking about leaving you for another man so this doesn't happen again: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

My girl left me for another duder, ghosted me for a week. Anyways, I decide to move on and focus more on myself.

My ex gf just did this..we weren't talking very long just 3 months, but got hot and heavy..she was just wanting a place to shack up, and found a guy who had that (job shakeup and I'm currently living at home) it just goes to show that she wasn't willing to go through a speed-bump in the relationship, and took the easy way out

@SkillofAttraction

9 ай бұрын

That's often the case, unfortunately. Women tend to gravitate towards their perceived best option, which also depends on what they want out of life at that particular time.

This helped me clear somethings in my head thank you

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Glad it helped! Thanks for watching!

Just ended a 20yo relationship. Been "monkey barred". Watching this makes me know i'm on the right track. Hurt as hell. Therapy helps a lot. And yes, sometimes is hard to stay on uour feet after this. Anyway, thanks m8.

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

Yes, it's a difficult situation to handle. For future reference, I have a video on the signs that your girl is about to monkey-branch so you can nip it in the bud if it ever happens again. kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

Thank you.

@SkillofAttraction

13 күн бұрын

You're welcome!

She was bringin me back for 6 weeks

My ex did this. Everything seemed to be going well and then within a matter of weeks she changed her behavior towards me, it seems she was setting up the break up and I had no clue what was going on. All the signs were there, loss of interest in me, her going out more, mysterious old friends coming into the picture, picking fights with me, etc. In hindsight I should’ve known what was happening but it was quite sudden. Then she broke up with me giving me the usual reasons and I continued to press her for answers. About a week later she brought over the new guy. It’s clear she met him at some point but I’m still not sure whether she was cheating during the end of our time together but I would say it’s very likely she was. She felt bad for her actions but didn’t want to work on anything with me so I’m guessing she found happiness with this new guy and knew she had to break things off. Seems to be a classic case of monkey branching, but the possible cheating and disrespect was unacceptable behavior from her.

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

Oftentimes when women lose interest in a man she will stay with him while she grieves the end of the relationship so buy the time she's ready to leave, she's already completely out of love.

She left me for famly reason and i've seeing her more happy with another man its hard thinking that she dont care anymore...now she dont care about her famly

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Was leaving you for family reasons what she told you, or what you know for certain? Because if that's what she told you, the fact that she's now with someone else & doesn't pay much attention to her family makes it sound like that was an excuse.

Thank you

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Thanks for watching!

We werent together officially, but we had a very good thing going. Then she left me because she rather kept seeing her ex and other guys than me

@SkillofAttraction

24 күн бұрын

That happens sometimes, unfortunately. In this video i teach what to look for in order to know when/if she's trying to replace you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

My ex fiancée of 6 years being together just left me for a guy she used to talk to and stopped talking to after she got with me. I thought we were doing fine just a month ago. He popped up at her friends from work and she thought it was fate for her to give him a chance since she wasn’t fully committed to marry me if she wasn’t 100% happy.We had a child who passed away 2 years ago and I really want her back. She’s been open and honest throughout everything so it’s hard to hate her but I would have done anything to be better together. This video helped me alot but I still feel like I would go back with her it would just take some time for us to talk it out…

@SkillofAttraction

3 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear about your child. My brother lost his child & I have an idea of how difficult it is to handle that. Chances are, if you get back with her you're going to go through this with her all over again at some point. She has shown you who she is & while you love her, I'm sure you don't want to risk going through this again & having her leave you for another man. Her actions are a giant red flag & it's important that you don't ignore that.

My two female friends has started to ignore me in college. When i asked them, they said that they are not ignoring me but still acting cold towards me.They are speaking normally with other friends and making plans infront of me.lam the only boy in class and i was close to these two girls in college.I am depressed and i have to see them daily acting like iam not even there and enjoying with other friends..... I apolo- gized many times without even knowing whether it is my fault or not.... what should i do?

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Please see my pinned comment.

Hi Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for the last 4.5 years and we two got employed between our relationship.But she's now saying that her parents arranged a marriage for her and she can't be with me and thus leaving me. Please tell me what to do I am going mad.

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

Please see the pinned comment.

My girlfriend of 3 years since I was 17 left me after we moved into our first place together 1 month into she went back to her ex boyfriend brought him in the house told me she wanted both of us so I left the house I’ve been blind I wasn’t the best bf. But she says I was and that she in her delusional era and she doesn’t want to date anyone I really loved her and let her know I’d change for her which I know now is weak actually I know all I had to do was put her in her place but I didn’t see the point in doing that where grown I was emotional I basically turned into the girl of the relationship she said I changed and she wants a real man but she also said in the back of her mind she’s not done with me she just needs a year then she been posting on fb that I didn’t deserve her love oh man I’m sad she was my first love but I’m glad I learned this lesson at 21 and not later in life thankyou for the video at first I thought she was a narcissist but no she’s not I was just a bad bf

@SkillofAttraction

3 күн бұрын

A breakup always takes two. You may have been doing some things wrong, but she handled it completely the wrong way. So she's at fault too. But all you can do now is build yourself up & never look back.

She said I don't love you anymore and also said that I no longer need you please leave me I just torn into pieces

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

Yeah, it stings. Perhaps this video will shine some light: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hoOlsduhfcXVm7w.html

NO! I DON'T WANT THAT!

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

No way!

my best friend went through this and she just jumped ship today if only he listened to me

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I learned a long time ago, especially doing what i do, that people don't want unsolicited advice. I don't offer advice to my friends about women anymore...only if they ask for it.

My ex did this to me we was together for a year i wasn't perfect in the relationship i took her for granted and may have neglected her a bit maybe this is what caused her to cheat and leave me for another guy i tried to win her back my emotions got the better of me she blocked and cut me off completely i miss her terribly looking back there was signs to make things worst we met at work and we left for different companies my life would be so much easier if i went to where she works but guess what shes there what do i do???

@SkillofAttraction

11 күн бұрын

You're probably not going to like mu advice, but I recommend that you chalk it up as a loss & move on. She has shown that she doesn't respect you & that she'll cheat if she doesn't get her way. That's a major red flag, whether your actions encouraged it or not. You might find this video on cheating helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qW16zbOYd7CodNI.html

I still love her, after 2 months... and i don't want anyone else...

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

You need to find something/someone more compelling than her. Plus, another part of the problem is we tend to build up a fantasy of the girl, but she's just not that fantasy. This is what we call "one-itis".

My ex of 2 years just did this, don't know if she was cheating before, but she left with her co-worker of all people. 😒 Wtf

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That sucks! I've certainly experienced that before & I know how much it stings. Regardless if cheated or not, it'd be a huge mistake to take her back after this if she were to try to come back.

My girlfriend left me around newyear and after breaking up she got in a realtionship with some other dude after just 3-4 weeks. Later i came to know that she got close with the same person once in a concert when we were together. I am soo depressed and i feel like i took care of her in her bad days and in her good period she left me for someone else. She texted me once in april about how sorry she was for everything that she did. After that we both got angry at each other and then she blocked me. We havent communicated since then. I cant let her go. I want her back. What can i do?

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Please see the pinned comment.

@Doggo505

2 ай бұрын

Tf is wrong with u..have some self respect

You said 2:58 “they certainly wont regret it” But again in 12:05 u said “she will regret it”, so which one is it?

@SkillofAttraction

6 ай бұрын

Listen again, without splitting hairs or trying to find a 'gotcha', & you'll get it.

Basically let a drug dealer raw her out for a deal while saying she “kinda” has a crush on me all on FaceTime too I was too angry to talk to her for that reason the following morning I told her just leave me alone straight up because she had the nerve to say “good morning” to me the next day put the blame all on me played the weakest narcissist card on me which I knew wasn’t true I knew what she did and she knew what she did because she was all excited about it too when she got to his house was there for 45 minutes a drug deal is literally 5 minutes at most I was completely disgusted and utterly disappointed with this amateur individual after she said that I’d have more problems in my relationships because I have “trust” issues mind you I was in a relationship of 3 years before her the relationship I had of 3 years she was alot more insecure of an individual and I never cheated on her once because I cared about that person and their feelings more point is no matter what you come first this world is evil and people will hurt you in terrible ways and swap you off you’re feet if you’re not attentive enough

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That sucks you had to go through that, but I doubt it was due to not being attentive enough. Things like this typically happen due to being TOO attentive. It's counterintuitive, but less attentive men are actually more attractive to women.

My gf of 4.5 years lied straight to my face about where she went all day. I knew for a fact what she was doing. I sat on it for 2 days. Never mentioned anything. Day 3 she had plans made to go back out... never mentioned anything prior. I said "please sit down we have to talk" she sits down. I said " babe I am goin togive you the opertunity to come clean on where you went the other day because I know for a fact you were somewhere else" She instantly stood up vibrating mad...and says "I was there!, this is bullshit!... Im not fighting anymore our relationship is over!! And we are never gettin back together! And left out the door. And haven't seen her in 1 month. In the morning of leaving the first time she left... she told me she loved me and gave me a kiss. 4.5 years. Gone. Life gone family gone. Place i loved to live gone. Dog gone. Step son gone. Left like a dirty shirt. Narcissistic women are literally MONSTERS Fcuk you T.....

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's a rough situation. However, she wouldn't have gotten so angry if what you said wasn't true. As much as it hurts, never reach out to her again unless you have lose ends that need to be tied in terms of rent, bills, returning each other's things, etc. And in that case, don't bring up the relationship at all. Let her do all that stuff. As far as you;re concerned, it's her loss.

@Lusitano1

Жыл бұрын

I understand you bro, they are Insane creatures. Now that i know how they operate, i stay away! I learned the hard way, female nature.

@dwaynemcinnes5914

Жыл бұрын

@@Lusitano1 absolutely sickening beasts they are

@foreigneverything2642

5 ай бұрын

Same exact thing, feeling, dog, gone...7 years gone just like that for a temporary fix that's less then why I'm giving....idk if she has or had someone else, I have no hardcore evidence, but she may be the sneakiest I've met, she's good, if she has someone else and I couldn't spot it, she nice with her shit....I never cheated or entertained any females, never lied to her...I gave her all of me, and when she talked crazy to me, I had a temper bcuz you don't expect ppl that say they love you to say certain things that hurt and cut so deep

@dwaynemcinnes5914

5 ай бұрын

Worst hurt...ive endured in my life. Im better now. Found me good woman.. thank christ 🙏

And heart broken aparently

It happened to me now, she wrote with a boy that sent her d photo, and I said to her, to not be in contact with him anymore, she firstly accepted, then she wrote again to him, said he has gf, okay I let her, but to text him just once per week. She started to text him firstly than wrote me, pissed me off and I said to her to block him again and to choose me or him. She chose him and said stopped loving me. It lasted 1 year and 3 months, after I refused to go in Norway, but in Germany with school to be close her, refused a job opportunity in Singapore to my big brother just to go in Germany and to be close to her. Also closed any contact with other girl to focused only on her. I did so many things, stayed close to her in darkest moments, supported her, helped, gave to her positive energy. And in the end, chose someone that did nothing for her. I feel disaster, I don't know my heartbeats are 240 and I'm worried :/

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that hurts when that happens, especially when you invested so much. But as much as you don't want to, you must move on now & see this as being HER loss. From what you shared, I believe the problem was that you were over-invested in her. This turns off women, because they want a man who is the prize...a man she must earn & continue earning everyday. When you treat a woman like he's the prize, they have nothing to earn, because she has already won you over.

@michaelshollaj6428

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Thanks a lot for the comment, and is her loss, I gave her love and support for everything, she was always pessimistic but I stayed close to her and gave optimistic energy, she succeeded. After she started work, started to change. Her behaviour with others is sweet, with me she behaved like, without love. Is true, I invested a lot of time to stay and support her, she thanked me, and now left me for someone else, it just hurts, anyway time to focus on my projects and gym, and prove to her she was wrong for everything. Thanks for the video, liked and subscribed

Just plain and simple. Check it no more pain because u are a Child of God

7 years, and we have a child together. Just one day out the blue confessed to dating and sleeping with someone else. Told me she didn't love me anymore, just paid for an entire vacation, we just had made love the week prior. It came out of nowhere. The pain I am in is unbearable, I can't eat I can't sleep, I am constantly crying. I didn't just lose her, I lost my little family.

@SkillofAttraction

5 ай бұрын

That's rough. Sorry you have to go through that. You might find this video helpful...similar story: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qW16zbOYd7CodNI.html

A few months ago my wife left me after 18 years. We have two young sons that I take care of now 5 out of 7 days. After one week she was with another guy. I don’t know what to say… fortunately I am able to keep my head up for my boys and myself…

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Most likely she checked out of the marriage long before pulling the trigger. This is quite common for women, unfortunately.

Man, my ex left me for a co worker on our three year anniversary. I noticed her answering my texts less but didn't think anything of it. That weekend i couldn't get a hold of her. Found out she disappeared off social media, then i got a message from a friend, to see her profile picture of her and this coworker she met only a week earlier. But it wasn't just that picture. It was all our pictures replaced of them. I went to her house. N her personality was like a zombie. Almost like i never met her, and she had no empathy. Openly talking about pregnancy tests she took. Had a picture of them on the night stand. I was shocked. When i questioned what was going on, she just smirked. N acted like it was no big deal " hes just a rebound" she said. But a week ago we had no fucking issues. Like i was so confused. I made the mistake of chasing her. While she emotionally abused me for the 6 months they were together. I became trauma bonded. I did everything to try n get back together. I was pretty pathetic. N her, she was just off the rails out of control. Drinking n drugs. I got her back yea. It didn't feel like a win though, she was never the same, always angry, always yelling, never satisfied. And me, to afraid to stand up for myself because fear that she would leave again. Two years of that abuse, finally she started to be normal again, but it was short lived, we have a child too. It all started to come back though, the anger, chaos, disrespect. N of course the cheating. She left again for a second guy. But the story doesn't end there. She bread crumbed me for a few more years but this time i no longer wanted the stress and heart ache, so i decided to ignore and move on. Well things took another turn. As she learnt that she could no longer manipulate me, she took drastic measures, the day i finished school. She called social services and told them i was threatening to shoot my kids. I was arrested n charged, went to jail with out investigating. She ran off with my child for 6 months. It was chaos. Costed me 70k in lawyer bills and I'm still dealing with it to this day. I look at women who are like my ex, and i ask myself, what does someone go through in life to become that type of person. It's clear, they try and break the laws of nature, they think if they run fast enough and make enough obstacles behind them, that heart break will never catch up to them. Which also made me realize, that whom ever broke their heart first must of done so much damage that they would rather run then to ever feel that pain again.

I just lost the woman I loved to another dude who is much younger than me. I feel sick. I feel worthless.

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

That sucks, but it's happened to all of us at some point. This is the perfect time to really level yourself up & become a force to be reckoned with.

@sumitdefif6879

3 ай бұрын

Bruv ! I have had enough pussy by now... But yess it happens to us all. Just improve and.. Be the best man that you can.. Read write and maybe combat sports.. Stay hard. This is sparta kind of thang

Hey coach. Had a question. Me and my gf are in good terms. She texts me as I do to her. We say we love each other ect. But when I go out with my friends and Dosent text me all day. She Dosent call me or anything. Should I be worrried. I want her to chase me

@oliverjordan695

Жыл бұрын

Weird

@JoseLopez-wf6bx

Жыл бұрын

@Manley156 you might be right. I had exes though we’re they would blow me up saying. Who am I with or they would call me. But this one Dosent do that

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I have a few videos on getting women to chase you.

@JoseLopez-wf6bx

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction thanks sir. One last question. She posted a story on her Instagram showing cleavage and she hided me from her story for I won’t see. She I tell her something or let it be like I don’t know. (I found out because she following a cousin of mine on Instagram).

Had a girl tell me I have trust issues. I'm the problem she said. But I kept catching her lie. Little lies. Even big lies. Gave her number to a guy once who helped her out with something. And lied about it behind my back for two weeks even though she didn't meet up with him. She would have tantrums if I questioned her, she'd block me for days, she'd get out the car at traffic lights. She told me she was virgin, 5 months dating, she would use my card and tell me men meant to pay for everything and she lets me because she loves me. Anyway, even though she is red flag, and it's over, I still keep thinking if another guy is banging her cause me and her didn't. Intrusive thoughts man. I wanted answers but she lies so much even though claimed to be honest, she probably won't tell or admit. Why can't she just say it or be honest. How do I know if she was talking to another guy during our dating? Or if she was actually virgin?

@SkillofAttraction

7 ай бұрын

Sounds like she's manipulating & gaslighting you, which is common when women are called out & faced with taking accountability for their actions. But these videos may help you understand what she's up to... Signs she's about to monkey branch: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html Signs she's stringing you along: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fXiomamPfdK_Z84.html Passing jealousy tests: kzread.info/dash/bejne/g6GJzZJvptq0d84.html

Thank you for this video, fuck my egoistic evil ex, I’ll be fine cause I’m a man 💪🏻

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Always see yourself as the prize!

My ex girlfriend had 3 children from 2 different man she left me for the second husband who traumatised her and the kids even the oldest child told me that i did more then what their own father did after we broke up she married him within two weeks im feeling used

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yes, that can happen sometimes unfortunately when you get involved with divorced or separated women. I talked about that in this video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/m5h8pZhrj9WfXZM.html It's very possible that she did it for the children, which I've been a victim of myself...."it was for the kids" & it's difficult to counter that. However, she most likely still had feelings for him on some level, or these kinds of men (ones who traumatize her) are just her "type". In those cases it doesn't matter how good you are to them, they are just drawn to abusive men.

@Omnitrix8

Жыл бұрын

The fact that she had other kids from other men is an instant red flag!

Unfortunately the woman I was with did lack integrity and did monkey branch without any concern for me at all. In fact she continued to use me for financial support until I learned the truth. I consider her depraved for being that cold, calculating and devious. Yea she needed me for survival! The back up plan was my plight too!

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear that...& I have a video on signs of potential monkey-branching for future reference: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html Also for future reference, her actions tells me that she didn't have much respect for you. Women often become this way when the man is being too nice, too compliant, & too tolerant of her bad behavior. I'm not saying that her actions are your fault, because she made that choice, but you'll have a more well-behaved woman by working on those areas in the future.

My girlfriend cheated with me for a 45+ years old man after a 4 and a half years relationship with me. According to her she got feelings for that man and for me. She is 23 years old and dated that man and she was getting some materialistic gains.

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

That's terrible...but she's already crossed the line. I have a video on cheating too if you're interested: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qW16zbOYd7CodNI.html

What's hard is when you have a kid together. I try to do no contact as much as possible, but I have to talk to her somewhat. Here is a quick run down of my story. We were together for 8 years, have a daughter together. She runs into her boyfriend from middle school, and a month later, she left with him.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's much more difficult when there's children involved, or even a marriage. I have a video about how to do no contact when you share a child, a mortgage, or really anything big where it leaves having to be in contact with each other: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ha2H2rZpl7vans4.html

@kiddytube3915

8 ай бұрын

Story same as mine. 8 years always seem to be the trouble year..

My ex just did this

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that...

Dated for 4 years and married for 3. She met a new guy, always told me I was not emotionally invested in the relationship and monkey branched. She tried to find a excuse to get out, found out I broke a promise of smoking weed and that was the end of the relationship. We are not divorced yet and we both are in contact she seems confused about me changing my habits and blames her monkey branching on me. She still text me and sounds like she is considering to come back. Would love to hear any advice from you coach. Thanks in advance.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

The following link will take you to the "180 Plan" from a book I believe called "Divorce Busters". The link is actually for a BPD website, but pay no attention to that. You want to follow the 180 Plan, which has been proven to work...the idea being to turn your situation around 180 degrees, but if for some reason it doesn't work, you'll be able to move on. Either way, you'll have much more control. This would be more or less what I'd tell you anyway...it's just much more detailed: bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=293901.0 And in the future, please see my pinned comment.

@rodriguezperalta3212

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction thank you so much for taking the time to respond, the information you shared certainly helped me out. God bless you.

Western women always leave men for another man and another man

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That's not usually the case, but women DO stay with a man much longer after they've fallen out of love with him, sometimes finding a replacement before ending the relationship. Protect yourself by knowing the signs to loo0k for: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

Hey what did you mean by put her in her place? What should you have done in hindsight

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I just meant that I should've put my foot down & said enough is enough much sooner....& I shouldn't have let it get to the point where my only option was to walk away. I let the little acts of disrespect to slide by, but that just turned into bigger acts of disrespect.

@ashmac4732

Жыл бұрын

Giving her the ‘left, right, goodnight’

Reading these comments and other videos is just showing me the dating market and many women are absolute sh*t. Just better off single until i meet a women who practically worships me. Im just glad i didn't marry or have a child with my ex who i was with for 8 years. Did so much for her in many areas of her life. Helped her graduate college, helped with debt ( not extreme), took care of her when she was ill, i mean she had never even been on a plane until she got with me. Even she admitted i was the best she ever had, and all of that for what?? For her to cheat and ride around with a dude that doesnt even want to be seen in photos with her and keep their interactions a secret. Imagine that, the woman you loved so dearly and was devoted to, is just another mans slut. Idc what happens i will NEVER take her back in life, not after the level of deceit and disrespect that was shown. Its not even the fact she's with another guy, but the way she went about it and then threw our relationship away just to be his booty call.

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

I'm not suggesting that women have no responsibility in their behavior with men, but oftentimes their behavior is a reflection to their man's behavior. That's why this channel exists...to teach men what to do in order to get good, affectionate behavior out of women.

@shkrsimpson44

8 ай бұрын

@SkillofAttraction that may be true to a degree, but what of the women who have disorders? Fatherless, toxic family environment. How much of that is a result her behavior?

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

@@shkrsimpson44 If she's damaged, then you want to stay as far away from those girls as possible. It's not your job to fix her...that's something she must do. Of course sometimes you don't know about these issues until you're already involved, but that's a matter of proper vetting & not ignoring red flags.

@shkrsimpson44

8 ай бұрын

@SkillofAttraction yea you're absolutely right. I seen red flags early on and I tried to peacefully disband from her but unfortunately she lives less than 10 seconds from me across the street and she'd throw tantrums and show up at my door , constantly calling me. So because I liked certain aspects of her I gave it a chance. 8 years together and then she cheated on me once my mother died because it " broke " her even more and she couldn't do it anymore. That didn't stop her from getting back with me and using me once some money came my why and she was hiding some dude come to find out. She'd always randomly talk about her " brokenness " . After doing research I genuinely believe she's a covert narcissist or has borderline personality disorder, possibly both.

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

@@shkrsimpson44 Yeah, the crazy ones who never give up are the most difficult to deal with. I've had one or two of those myself.

No my friend, they have the box, we have the relationship simple

@SkillofAttraction

5 ай бұрын

Not sure where I said differently, but if she's leaving for another guy you don't have a relationship...at least not one that she wants.

She dumped me telling that she cant connect with me. And she has no feeling for me. Then i came to know she is monkey branching. And her feeling is not gone it just transferred.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

It sucks when that happens...it's happened to many of us. All you can do is improve yourself & learn about women, their nature, & how their attraction works so this doesn't happen again. I have a video on signs that your girl is about to monkey branch so you kn ow what to look for in the future: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqxqk5RsYNuYlaw.html

Usually i feel i want her back becouse i love her so much. And i watched this video and again watch it and i thought, how true it is!! do i want to be together with her as humiliated person, who was droped as a piece of s...t? no, it is impossible.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

It's a tough realization to come to. I've had similar situations where there's just no way I can take her back, no matter how much I love her. She broke the bond in one way or another & it was ruined...& there's just no way to come back from that. So stay strong, build yourself up, & find a better girl. You will if you do the work. I've found that I always upgrade with the quality of women after moving on. Not right away, but eventually.

@trapped-ion

11 ай бұрын

@MultiRonnn The woman you loved is not there anymore. It's your mind trying to fill that void. Think of it this way - if your relationship started in the same fashion it ended, would you have said you met the woman you love? Most likely you wouldn't have pursued her if she had shown you what you saw when she dumped you. Get your mind right and clear that concept of her being a person with integrity. You're missing that void she left, not her. Listen to what the coach said and ask yourself if you would want to continue giving your love to someone who tossed you to the side like an obsolete rusty farm implement? Keep moving forward through self improvement. Learn what it means to be the man in relationship and think with your real head, not the head on your pipe.

@SkillofAttraction

11 ай бұрын

@@trapped-ion Exactly!

Mine left me for another dude as well😎

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That sucks...but don't let her back, as much as you may want her back. She'll never respect you & always see you as plan B.

@scentedgamer8676

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction i know…i just cant stop thinking about her…but i wont take her back.

The wife cheated on me after being together for 16 years silly me took her back only for her to do it again with the same person since that I’ve made my self a better man for me and my daughter I still love the woman but only for the fact she’s my child’s mother dont be fooled by them trying to come back it’s good at first but goes back to the way thing where fast

@SkillofAttraction

5 ай бұрын

Well, I'm glad to hear that you learned a very valuable lesson: never take back a woman who has cheated, no matter how much you love her. She will never respect you. I did a video about this if you're interested: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qW16zbOYd7CodNI.html

"Healthy women with integrity" theres no such thing they are all like this. I would know ive been with over 400 of them.

@SkillofAttraction

25 күн бұрын

You're just making bad choices. There are plenty of healthy women with integrity out there. I've dated myself...

@MarioSantoro-ig5qh

25 күн бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Thats satistically imposible with how many ive dated. Only 7 of them actually became serious but still. They were all different ages and backgrounds women only care about what men can do for them never the person. I thought the same thing before when I was less experienced. "Surely they cant all be like this" but after the same thing happens everytime you start to see them for what they really are. Its not a unique experience to me either there is endless content of women cheating on youtube everyday. 99% of the time they are already dating a new guy the day after they break up with you thats cheating. I tired acting nice, rich, poor, it doesnt matter what I do same outcome everytime. Only thing I havent tried is treating them poorly but ill try it next time for sure as an experiment.

@SkillofAttraction

25 күн бұрын

@@MarioSantoro-ig5qh When I was younger, I thought all the girls I dated were absolutely crazy. The more experience I got, the more i learned about the psychology behind love & attraction, the more I realized that while they were crazy like any woman, they were responding to my own behavior. Women will reflect what you're giving them. When I began working on my behavior, the women became more sane, less toxic, more loving & more sexual.

I left a dusty for another man because that dusty was extremely abusive and toxic towards me. I had to hurt his ego and leave. Don't just blame women, it's a man's fault that he couldn't love her and keep her. Men create such circumstances that we have to leave because we respect ourselves. And trust me my new man is 1000000 percent better who loves me and takes care of me.

@SkillofAttraction

9 ай бұрын

Right. Women are completely innocent & do no wrong. 🙄 Of course I don't condone abuse, but a relationship takes two people for it to work & two people for it to fail. I think you need to ask yourself what role you played in its demise, because it's only going to happen again if you don't address your own shortcomings & lack of emotional intelligence.

@markkiroro5433

9 ай бұрын

Low value people. If it's true that it's extremely abusive and toxic, why not leave ASAP? Why wait for another man before you leave? Also if you really have that respect for yourself isn't it that it's better to take time to heal and do some self reflection. And btw jumping relationship to relationship isn't to show you have self respect for yourself, it only shows you're a 304.

The only reason she left me is because she wanted a guy with more money. She said she wanted a guy who could “change her life” whilst at the same time telling me she still loved me and that I was her best friend 🤷‍♂️ 😂

@SkillofAttraction

7 ай бұрын

Choosing money over love: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oJuns61-nq_Wk7g.html I love you, but I'm not IN love with you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hoOlsduhfcXVm7w.html

@naughtynightlifeasia857

7 ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction thank you for your response, much appreciated 🙏

My gf left me but never admit that she is in another relation n keep me calling after ten days or five days...i know she is in relation but she is not accepting. .what to do

@SkillofAttraction

5 ай бұрын

Please see the pinned comment.

Women want what they want and that changes. Every second. In English you can't trust them

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

Their emotions are always in flux & they act on those ever-changing emotions, but my videos teach what women want in men...

Currently going through this. My now ex was very sly would go quiet then I would pick up on it as the gut instinct would kick in. Then it would all go pair shape. Then she would come crawling back and I would fall for it But I have come to realise I was just the safe option never the option that mattered I was the one that looks after the house the car looks after the kids her kids as well pays the bills etc. Well after 4 times (I no about) this happening finding out there was other men every time and like a complete fool I went back. This final time she has done it she’s stook with this next option. After all this pain and constant let down and betrayal I’ve realised this fantasy I thought she was isn’t real finally walking away. it’s hard and painfull which has definitely affected me in many ways. I’m ready to be happy with my self after putting someone else’s happiness before my own. Thank you for this videos that help me understand

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

Well, at least you've decided that you're not going to fall for it anymore. I think most of us have been in similar scenarios & felt like a fool for allowing the girl back into our lives. Always remember, if a woman wants to leave, that's fine...but if she wants back into out lives, she must earn it. if she doesn't earn it, she won't respect you or cherish the you.

@user-qy9ku7cj5v

6 ай бұрын

At this point I don't want my ex back. She lied and cheated. I am just walking away from the whole thing.

Should I confront her about it?

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Confront her on leaving you for another man? No.

Women are loyal to their feelings

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

Yup!

Sarrah Mahmood defoz man from man no remorse .

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I'm not sure I understand...

@gangright6585

Жыл бұрын

Wicked witch like woman what more can I say buddy stay well clear matey .

My wife said she was bored of our marriage after 5 years only knowing a guy 3 months

@SkillofAttraction

5 ай бұрын

Women get bored really easily. In their mind, boredom = falling out of love. A new guy showing her attention is exciting. I am NOT suggesting that this is okay or that you should give her a pass, only explaining how it works in their minds. I don't know what's going on in your relationship with your wife, but in order to keep her interest, at least one of the big ways, is to stimulate her emotions...with mostly positive emotions, but also negative.

@lewisriggs6596

5 ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction think it’s to late she’s progressing with him even tho I was there the weekend spending time together so Yh new guy it’s exciting seems to of won been together 12 years altogether

@SkillofAttraction

5 ай бұрын

@@lewisriggs6596 She'll come crawling back when she gets bored of him too. But for now you want to follow the "180 Plan". This will either change her mind about you, or give your power & dignity back...or both. This is from the book "Divorce Busting" & it truly does work. It's not as easy as it seems, but it's a great guide for you to follow & you WILL begin to feel better: bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=293901.0

Bill here, she tried to kill me!!

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Hopefully you do NOT take her back after that!

Why chase. Woman that don't love you no more don't waste ur time on her that woman says i don't love you no more.................... Don't chase her f *** her 🎮 game's. Of 🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚 egg's don't stress urself out

@SkillofAttraction

2 ай бұрын

If she leaves you for another man, you definitely shouldn't be chasing, which I say in this video.

"......then you shall do to her what america did to japan"

@SkillofAttraction

7 ай бұрын

Go nuclear?

You're only mistake was picking the wrong girl it's not all your fault it takes two to tango or something like that LOL

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

Not the only mistake. Women become ruthless when the man in their life becomes weak &/or unattractive.

You all just get lazy in the bedroom

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yes, that's true...but in all fairness, so do the ladies. Complacency is a relationship killer...

@trapped-ion

11 ай бұрын

@kathyglass2922 Oh what a generalization. There's no single formula to this. I've been with women who prefer heavy pounding from the top,side , back, - you name it - and to those who love a mellow slow rhythm from those positions. And equally so, they also want to take charge in a similar fashion. Where do you reckon the expression "At the end we WE were sweaty and spent"comes from?😊 With all that high libido,sexual charge and lust, the driving force is attraction not only in the bedroom, but in other masculine features, a woman can still monkey branch. So,yes I do agree with the notion of bedroom laziness dynamics, but even if a man and woman are having such a blast in the bedroom, the woman can still monkey branch because she may no longer find a man's other masculine traits attractive. It goes beyond the bedroom aspects.

you look like a 60year uni teacher 0 rizz no gyatt

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

Yet you're here, watching my videos...

Most beautiful feelings all husband 💕💕 If I had a wife like that, I would give her any man she wanted

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I have no idea what this means...

@trapped-ion

11 ай бұрын

​​@@SkillofAttraction I think he's saying, in a sarcastic way, he would happily say to the "new" man: "she's now your problem - thank you for ridding me of this headache and good luck". That's how I interpreted it. 😂

@SkillofAttraction

11 ай бұрын

@@trapped-ion In that case, then that's the attitude you want to have in this situation.

Thank you.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Thanks for watching!