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I remember when girls used to say to me “aww you’re so cute” and I was like oh, she likes me haha but as you can guess, I always ended up in the friendzone 🤡 don’t ever be a nice guy, it’s just pathetic with women and in life.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes girls DO think it's cute, but not in the way many men think...it's more like puppy dog cute. Clearly, that's not sexy. It might get you a pat on the head, but it won't have her unzipping your jeans.

@CochoAntonio

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction haha well said coach 🍻

@drben3582

Жыл бұрын

My friend told me in high school that girls thought I was cute. Cute like a teddy bear, something they liked to put beside their bed, not in it.

Guys, this is so spot on! Kind and gentle, yes. Being a man - nothing is hotter and sexier. I might be a tiny bit of a brat at certain times of the month, but a man will keep me in line. What a turn on.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Take note, gentlemen... ☝🏻

Basically I have to literally change almost everything I am to get a woman. Lol, and I was always told to "be myself". I got confused when they'd still walk away. I don't think I care to date. When I'm told I have to meet a whole check list of does and don'ts. I think I'll just stick to being single.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Did you have to learn anything new, get training or change how you do things to find success in your profession?

@manadopunyadj

Жыл бұрын

Just learn to be bad boy man and emulate their trait I bet women chase you like crazy

Another great solid work,thanks for the video Coach.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

You bet! Thanks for watching!

I learned all this after my crazy life experience in 2018, but a great refresher. I had forwarded your video to my friend who is bumping heads with his lady lately, likely because of some of these "nice guy" traits. Hopefully it can be a wake up call for him.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Learning the hard way is the best teacher! And thanks for sharing this with your friend!

Following you since last 6 months and got awesome results..... Thank you ❤️

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That's fantastic! It's pretty amazing when you begin putting all this into action & see how well it actually works, isn't it?. Keep it up! 👍🏻

Great content as always!

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it

Great advice n great video👍

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, man!

Very informational vid that all men need to see!! Phenomenal vid💯

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! Glad you think so!

Good stuffErik. You're badazz

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! Big ups

Always solid advice

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Why, thank you, sir!

Chad is never a "Nice Guy." In other words, guys that most women find "hot" or "cute" are never ever labelled or seen as "Nice Guys," no matter what....

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Nope, they're never called a "nice guy". They calls those guys "hot".

@kekethetoad

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Yeah or they all empathize with them and make excuses for them.

The media create a lot of nice guys. So many movies and songs, poems, books out there about nice guys chasing women and telling them how much they need and love them. I grew up with lots of this stuff and fell into the trap of taking this for real in a way. It may be funny in a movie watching a man running after a woman and bowing down at her feet but it's just not how it works in real life.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yes, exactly! That stuff got most of us.

Before my first gf of 2 years crushed my heart into dust I was always trying to be a good guy. Not a "nice guy" but I definitely tried to hard to please her and I should have seen the signs of her losing attraction. Near the end she was pretty much blaming her problems on me insinuating that it was my job to keep her happy. Always demand I share my feelings with her and communicate more. Lots of fights and promises. In the end she left me for the guy she told me not to worry about the guy I always thought was a douchebag and she even said he was herself at one time. My saving grace is that he only wanted her for the night and she learned that the hard way. Through friends ive learned that she's gone through several others after me. Oh and surprisingly (not) she had daddy issues.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Have you seen his video of mine yet? kzread.info/dash/bejne/gJ1ltayMj8SdmrA.html Yes, it's dangerous listening to what women say they want. Never give them what they want, give them what they need.

Super thanks Erik! What makes self deprecating humor a nice guy tendency in your opinion? You don’t think it shows confidence to be able to playfully make fun of yourself?

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Normally I'd point you to my pinned comment, but because this has been brought up by more than one person... While most men feel that self-deprecating humor to be modest & charming, you're really just putting yourself down & shining spotlight on something that she may not even notice. Oftentimes this is self-hatred & conveys insecurity about whatever you're poking fun of, perhaps without realizing it. "Nice guys" do this as a way compensate for their shortcomings. They believe that if they can get a laugh out of it before she notices, it won't be so bad. She may laugh, but you're not a clown...girls don't think clowns are sexy. Entertaining? Yes, but not sexy. Remember, women want a man they look up to. If you don't think highly of yourself, how is woman going to? Years ago I did a video about learning to own the flaws you have no control over, because if you don't think of it as a big deal, neither will women: kzread.info/dash/bejne/nIWryreSYrmwkaQ.html Now, if it's a flaw that can be changed, then you should work on it. Poke fun at it after it's been fixed. Women do love a man with a sense of humor, but not clown humor.

Nice guys finish last. The bad boy finishes on her face. Thanks Chris!

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

You're half right...the name is Erik.

Let’s go brother! Just found your Chanel! Good job

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! Welcome aboard!

I was with a group of guys, a woman in our group said to my mate 'hes so quiet' (meaning me), she never spoke to me, but sometimes mentioned that I was 'very quiet', she also said I can't imagine you guys going on holiday, he's so quiet (yet again meaning me yet no eye contact with me or talking to me). Why?

@CochoAntonio

Жыл бұрын

Are you an introvert or shy person?

@jrh5573

Жыл бұрын

You're creeping her out. She is pointing out that something about you isn't sitting right and that you are an incongruent part of the group. At first being shy or introvert can be intriguing, but if it goes on too long she will find you weird. If you're out in a social setting you need to be social. You don't need to hit on her or try and be the life of the party but if you're just sitting on the side not saying anything, not interacting, then you're going to give off creeper vibes.

Mate, I tried to sign up to your SOA website community, it says I have to confirm my email 1st, but upon looking. nothing has come through, and nothing in my spam folder. Is the server down?

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

I just manually approved your account. So you should be able to login now...

@BeyondTheMind007

Ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Thanks dude

In my country noone says nice They substitute it with word "normal" or "adequate" Like corresponding to silly feminist dogmas makes you a decent person or not

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Well, as long as you understand the type of guy I'm talking about, that's what's important.

I applied my one trait that works wonders, I don't associate with women altogether, that way I don't have to worry about the laundry list women expect men to be like in order to be in their space

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

So, you Just gave up?

@nightfangs2910

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction yes, at 55 married divorced 2 grown daughters, many girlfriends and short and long term relationships short as 3 months longest at 2 years I'm good, western society for the last 30 years has completely lost its way as it pertains to relationships, zero moral code and taking relationships seriously

Treat a woman right never treat her well

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

You have the right idea, but it's completely fine to treat a woman both right & well. You just don't want to treat her well as a way to get her validation or affection, or anything from her in return...& when she's not treating you well, you remove your attention on her, rather than trying harder to get her to treat you well.

Neediness is not a nice guy trait. Sorry. Its a weakness trait.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

"nice guys" are weak, so yes it's a nice guy trait.