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Always be you and do what you are comfortable with. If she doesn't want that then move on like if you don't like her, move on. A square ain't gonna fit into a circle and it doesn't need to be..

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, keep your frame. Women actually want a man to do what he wants to do(within reason) & she will decide if she wants to be a part of that or not.

I always think about it like this… if you text a girl too often or try and call her all the time, she’ll either think you’re too needy or you’ve completely down graded how special your face to face encounters are.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, exactly.

Hi from Barcelona, Spain, Erik. The more I watched and listened to your videos the more I knew you're a total genius about relationships, but with this video I'll confirm it for the rest of my life and I'll be extremely thankful for all the so valuable information you fill your videos with.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! I'm glad you're finding my videos helpful!

Keep posting more videos! This is gold, Each video keeps getting better and better. Thanks for the valuable information

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! More to come!

This attention shit really works everytime you do it..my goddamn invisible weapon..do it guys

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

It really does!

@Edgarv68

3 ай бұрын

So you stop giving them attention, then how do they know you still want to hang out?

@jhamilton1007

Ай бұрын

Not every time. If she's immature, this stuff won't be affective.

A very good vid,thanks for your great work bro.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! Glad you enjoyed it

this video is gold... truth and more truth... not politically correct, but nails it.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! But it's impossible to be factual & be politically correct at the same time.

Coach I love your videos. You give us the same information as the red pill but in a less toxic way if it makes sense .Keep it up 💪💪

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Why, thank you, sir! Much appreciated!

@JihadBunnydick

3 жыл бұрын

Would you call it purple pill?

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

@@JihadBunnydick I wouldn't call it that. I feel that I just take a lot of the bitterness out of it (ie: "red pill rage") & show you an important side to female attraction that the red pill leaves out. I agree with a majority of the red pill.

ATTENTION: Your currency with women hotties is your chemistry and your magnetism. If you have great chemistry with women then your dating life will be very well. You will be dating Stacy's and Women who are 6's in looks. Anything else won't matter. Yes, you can have money but if your money runs out then the woman that you like will leave you. You must have good chemistry and you must be more beautiful than the Woman in order for the date relationship to work. Yes, you can have game but if you are average looking then you will be meeting hundreds and hundreds of women before you meet the right woman for you. Remember, meeting the right woman does not say that she will be a 9 Woman in looks (according to the Wheat Waffles looks scale). Darius M (a KZreadr) mentioned that in the end, you will not find the woman of your dreams not unless you are a Chad, a Tyrone, and Pookie Ray Ray, but at the same time you too must have good chemistry and good magnetism with women. You bring them in with magnetism and you connect with them with your chemistry. April 7, 2023. USA. North America.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

The first line is true, but has nothing to do with the topic of this video. All the rest is wrong.

Great vids

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Great

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks man!

I love the way you teach us! Smart Eric ❤️

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! I appreciate that!

Women love attention, even if sometimes it's from a guy she's not really attracted to

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

If she knows him (ex: beta male orbiter). Ask women what they think of unattractive or "creepy" men hitting on them. Then again, if NO man hits on them, then they typically start getting upset & insecure.

Yes attention from our guy is almost all we need. To be thought of or acknowledged consistently. Not sure about the shoe thing though. Lol.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Do women not have a love affair with their shoes? 🤔

@amandabretch85

3 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction some do

@amandabretch85

3 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction probably to a toxic extent.

@amandabretch85

3 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction so much so that they would actually be mad and think another woman a bitch if she wore the same ones out to the same place. How dare she, a complete stranger who I don’t even know buy and wear the same shoes here ! Lol. Silly if that really happens! She should email the designer of the company and demand they be sold to only her and her alone how dare they sell to the public! If I had a female friend get mad or something like that I would definitely tell her what I just said.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

@@amandabretch85 Haha! Yup! That's exactly what I was saying in this video.

I still think youre part of Serpent's Hand. You will never fool me.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

I don't know what that means...

hey eric. i wanna ask. i've been hitting this one woman maybe since like 1-2 months ago. but we're on different states but still, i can meet her if i want to. my question is, how do i keep my texting & calls in minimum amount? i can't have dates with her every months or every weekends like how short distance relationship does, most relevant amount is maybe having 2 days date every 2-4 months because i'm a working man. textings or voice/video calls seems to be the only ways to communicate with each other.

Remember guys, give her attention in person, not through your phone. Save all that talking for when you guys are together, once you start doing that, you'll stand out from most guys. Hey man, what do you recommend doing when you set up a date w a girl and she says "ok" but she'll confirm the day before? like you set up some for tuesday but she'll confirm on monday, how do you reply to that? I'm legit confused, idk if I should reply at all.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, girls try this once in a while...it's usually due to their own insecurity that you'll be a no-show. However, it also gives her an out in case she changes her mind. I'd tell her no confirmation necessary, that you'll be there when you say, as you're a man of your word. If she insists, tell her you don't do confirmations & if she's having doubts then perhaps you two should cancel the date & she can get in touch with you when she knows with 100% certainty that she's available for a date. All in your own words of course.

@naderalmarei2908

3 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction I mean, we already went on a date, there's no reason for her to doubt i'll be there. It's been already 2 days and i haven't read the message yet, she's posting a lot on her social media (pics & stories) i think she wants my attention and to see if i'm active, all this actually related to the vid lol, she wants my attention. So i'll just hit her with "sure thing, just let me know asap" is that ok? also what if she cancels the date and don't offer reschedule, how do i handle that? thank you.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

@@naderalmarei2908 Yeah, that's fine. If she cancels without an alternate date, just let it go for the time being. Wait about a week & try to arrange another date. If she rejects your invite or makes excuses, then you don't want to reach out to her for a date any longer. It's up to her now. Just tell her to get in touch when she wants to get together & assume that she won't. So, a good rule of thumb is...if you attempt to arrange a date & she rejects/excuses/cancels twice in a row, then stop all pursuit...you're just chasing after that.

@naderalmarei2908

3 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction You're rigth, asking more than that would be begging. That's the mistake I made w my previous girl, she flaked on me multiple times and I kept pushing. I'll take all of this in consideration, thanks for your help man.

@salmansheikh9917

2 жыл бұрын

i think you just need to tell her when she says i ll confirm just tell her that im a man of words and i ll be there at given time if if she is not sure about coming lets make it someother day .. And you van say her that i think you dated guys who makes you wait because they were unsure of themselves 😁

It’s sad to see some of the comments talking about using attention as a weapon. That’s kind of cruel. So do you genuinely not want to give us attention or do you? Because that sounds like manipulation.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't say a "weapon". Men need to learn to pace themselves with their attention...just like a woman would with sex. Do you use sex as a weapon or for manipulation when a man isn't behaving an attractive way or ignoring you?

@amandabretch85

3 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction no I don’t but I know some women probably do.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

@@amandabretch85 Some women definitely do. But my point is, we should only invest where we're appreciated.

@LoveLife-ry5mm

3 жыл бұрын

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@LoveLife-ry5mm

3 жыл бұрын

@@amandabretch85 ±1.(204)=808=22-34 from USA

How long no contact should last ?

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

If it's no contact due to a breakup, then it's indefinitely...in other words, wait until she reaches out. If she cares, she WILL reach out at some point in the future, because she doesn't want to lose you. However, she has to get to that point where she feels that, unless she does something about it, she will lose you forever. She can never get to that point if you're reaching out to her.

@grzesiekszewczuk1741

2 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction thanks.

How do you know when the attention she craves is more important than you?

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

If she's making you a low priority, putting you on the back burner, to get that attention, namely from other men, then the attention she craves is more important than you.

@jordanking6722

3 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction that makes sense, thank you! could you do a video on women and their social media 🙏🏼

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

@@jordanking6722 Women & social media in what context?

@jordanking6722

3 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction more on what you mentioned above. How they use it to test vs red flags/disrespect. How to handle it when feeling insecure about their posts or comments. Etc. If that makes sense?

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

@@jordanking6722 Okay. But for now, don't allow her social media posts to upset you. Ignore them if you must. She knows that you're looking at them, so she may be purposely posting things that she knows upsets you to see if you'll react emotionally, which would be unattractive to her.

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@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

I think you just did...

If a man rations his attention to manipulate me I'll go find someone that doesn't do that.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

If you watched the full video, then you know this is only for when women are being cold, distant, bitchy, manipulative, disrespectful, etc. If you treat the man you're with with love & respect, then it's not something you'd have to worry about.

@marcycat

2 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Reciprocal love and respect is a basic fundamental for healthy growth to build with one another. I did not watch the full video but thank you anyway.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

@@marcycat Of course, but most men don't get that from the women in their lives...hence, this video.

You are talking about immature women...

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

I hear that all the time, but it has yet to be proven true.