Treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan.

@markman4400

3 жыл бұрын

i watch your videos

@albertmichelson1615

3 жыл бұрын

Haha. Once I saw an old lady, an actress from my favorite tv show. I approached and told her that I am a fan of her. She thread me like a fan. Even not attractive women act like that. That is a bottom line.

@patrickblomberg4991

3 жыл бұрын

Thats why i treat them like fans

@K9amilo90

3 жыл бұрын

@FORMER K.G.B. wat

@LivingALifeOfAbundance

3 жыл бұрын

@@markman4400 appreciate the love bro!

Texting and social media have been a curse

@craig3213

3 жыл бұрын

Couldn’t agree more. Social media & texting is a deadset killer of dating & relationships.

When she doesn't respond to your messages, simply pull back and let her initiate contact. Whether she isn't responding due to being busy, she's testing you, or is losing interest, a man who values himself and what he has to offer will not force contact with anyone. Instead, he will focus his attention on his purpose and those who reciprocate his efforts.

@essentialoilsme

3 жыл бұрын

Or she could be hiding her obsession for you, I can see this with a chic I’m talking to

@JoseGonzalez-rx7uh

3 жыл бұрын

I definitely agree👍

@caragous

3 жыл бұрын

@@essentialoilsme stop deluding yourself

@essentialoilsme

3 жыл бұрын

@@caragousit’s possible, especially since she really likes me

@kentmarcus1255

3 жыл бұрын

@@essentialoilsme I would say that's very unlikely the reason. It'd be one thing if she is just taking a while to respond to seem less eager, it's another if she is ignoring your messages all together. Regardless, you must respond in the same way and let her reach out to you. If you contact her and she ignores your message, then the ball is in her court to reach out to you. Plus I hope you are using the phone strictly for the purpose of setting dates and not trying to get to know each other.

You don't need her to complete you. Focus your energy and time to build a better you, a better character. Learn to love yourself.

@ifaisal2185

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@kiwi9065

3 жыл бұрын

Dude , i am complete already. I am happy the way i am but the girl is still... Cold?

Mirror whatever they do, regardless how you feel.

@Kal.El1

3 жыл бұрын

Very true. Your interest level should ALWAYS be lower than hers. That anxiety of not having all of you, all the time, will make her attraction for you skyrocket. People value things that aren’t readily available, that you have to work hard for.

@jannieschluter9670

3 жыл бұрын

What if they have the same strategy? 😵

@MMA-CLIPS2

3 жыл бұрын

@@jannieschluter9670 Then the emotionally weak one will crack (her).

@jannieschluter9670

3 жыл бұрын

@@MMA-CLIPS2 how does the emotionally weak man behave in this, please?

@matthewtalks2970

3 жыл бұрын

@@jannieschluter9670 Emotionally weak men will start to chase, the girl will start to test by pulling back, the weak men will start to chase more, the girl will break up.

Ignores your texts - ignore her. flakes on you - ignore her. Does anything you feel is disrespectful IGNORE HER. If she really does like you, she will figure it out and find a way to make things right. If not, NEXT.

@MrCubansurfer

3 жыл бұрын

NEXT!!!

@melechmatt3540

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Always operate on this principle respect >> love. Be prepared to lose any chick that doesn’t respect you...cut them off on the first sign of disrespect

@caucasianafrican1435

2 жыл бұрын

The next part is guys truly "Nexting".

@cantthinkofadecentname7121

2 жыл бұрын

Nextttt

@User_Unknown_15

2 жыл бұрын

⏭

A solid balance of "less is more" is always ideal. Great video man💥

Our grandparents generation didn't have this problem, man goes to work he didn't have cell phones back then, just saw his wife when he got home

Dont text her first, love her and reply her...best trick, dont be insecure when she talks with someone, let her talk...be defensive and cool than being attacking and possesiveness, let her come to you with her own will, you cant force someone to stay with you, love your family first

@isolatedhomo-sapien7137

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. Family should be the first priority. Coz parents are the only one's who love unconditionally.

That's one of the drawbacks with texting, it creates this expectation of continuous availability, which is insane. Far better to text only when necessary as opposed to using your device for nothing more than idle small talk. Both partners need time and space to live their lives. Blowing up a phone with texts only results in annoying the recipient (and rightfully so).

@essentialoilsme

3 жыл бұрын

Yes and automatically blocking or ghosting one another for a lack of responsiveness seems a bit rash since ALL WOMEN pull back from time to time for varied time frames

The real question is not why she keeps ignoring you, but it's why are you still texting her ?

@MenMovement

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed 🙂

@dorisbeckman2227

3 жыл бұрын

Delete her number...If she is yours..she will message you back

@ashlee4867

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Do you need help in getting your partner/Ex back Or working things through in your relationship!

@dirkdonger2887

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashlee4867 no one does.

@deliadelassus9285

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashlee4867 yes i do. Please help me.

I can't believe I'm one of these jerks that is going through this, it piss me off. But I have to humble myself and accept the fact that this is how it is. Thanks brother for this video.

@essentialoilsme

3 жыл бұрын

It sucks that 1-4 day pullbacks have to be normalized with women but if you do it to them then you’re at fault or cheating

@ozkantw986

3 жыл бұрын

@@essentialoilsme TRUE AF

@flo_ridaa7074

3 жыл бұрын

I just walk away and move on especially if ignored on purpose, you shouldn’t tolerate disrespect from anyone... Treat others how you would like to be treated

@kantrellebailey8708

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh, stay true to yourself. If it bothers you, it bothers you. Address it and see if anything changes, if not, detach and move on. Relationships are 50/50. Your feelings should be valued as much as hers.

@kingdavid772

Жыл бұрын

I got left on read a week ago

that string metaphor is so simple but so important.

@ashlee4867

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Do you need help in getting your partner/Ex back Or working things through in your relationship!

Don't show her your feelings. Driven by your feelings is not masculine. Core of masculinity is rational mind that controls those feelings.

@albertmichelson1615

3 жыл бұрын

@@ifaisal2185 with logic and rational mind

@mikenutritionfit

3 жыл бұрын

This is deep. Figuratively; Adam means mind Eve means emotions Mind made decision based on emotions; and that's why the world is upsidedown; fucked up

@ozkantw986

3 жыл бұрын

@@ifaisal2185 value yourself more then u value her. you are gonna be fine .

@mikenutritionfit

3 жыл бұрын

@@ifaisal2185 It simply means , emotions control the mind mostly in this world; that's why things are a mess. It's supposed to be the mind or rationality that controls the emotions

@mikenutritionfit

3 жыл бұрын

@@ifaisal2185 emphatically yes. You're never handcuffed by your emotions physically

The way I see it, is if you have enough time to use the bathroom, you have enough time to text your SO back. Being "too busy" isn't really an excuse. If she hasn't text for a couple of days then it's time to end it.

I'm currently dating a woman who does this to me a lot, but I've never let it bother me, and I've never chased her. I don't even persue her, she intiates all the text convos. We see eachother almost every weekend, and everything is always great when we're together, so until that changes I just assume she's busy, which is fine b/c I don't like texting anyway.

Phones are for setting dates, thats it

@rmendola759

3 жыл бұрын

And PornHub. Replying for a friend

Bad boys or disrespectful men are more attractive to women because women treat men who are beneath them in the same way they are treated by bad boys/players. If a guy doesn't care about the woman, then she is no value to him, that means he is more valuable to her. So if a woman doesn't respond to your text, it simply means that you are no value to her and you see her as being higher value than you. If you guys need any help, just ask.

@The369Souljaman

3 жыл бұрын

So if a girl doesn’t look at my Instagram stories should I not look at her’s and does it break no contact?

@modickens1272

3 жыл бұрын

@@The369Souljaman you can view her stories. Just use a different site instead of Instagram so she doesn't know you viewed them.

@southwestxnorthwest

3 жыл бұрын

@@The369Souljaman Stop focusing on her and go about your life. Get her out of your mind and meet other people. I went through this myself 6 months ago and now I dont want anything to do with that dumb bitch. There are plenty of other good women out there who will notice you and treat you with dignity, so stop waiting around for someone who wont.

You have to be busy enough with your own life that you genuinely don't care about whether she responds to a text. Your purpose cannot revolve around her.

Man, if a girl ignores your message is because she is with other guy(s), that simple really, not much to explain there.

Girls are the same everywhere. Greetings from Egypt 💐🌹

She disrespects you, you ignore her and when/if she comes back, she has to pay the penalty for her disrespect. And make sure that penalty is a hefty one.

@fernendo4

3 жыл бұрын

@Anmol Pandey one I can think of is she being a side chick..

@TheMoe2310

2 жыл бұрын

@@fernendo4 😂

99% of the time girl not responding returning texts in not into you. It clearly means not interested. Jump to next one immediately without wasting your time

MAN YOUR TEACHING IS PRICELESS!!! I PRAY YOUR CHANNEL WILL GROW 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿

Many reasons why this happens. I always treat it as a test to see how I would react. So I just continue to focus on myself, my purpose.

Honestly, from everything I've experienced, just work on yourself until your time comes. When the time comes, the right woman will come along and you will have your shit together. If a woman takes more than 24 hours to text back, delete her messages and move on. Don't block her cause you might possible still have a chance at having sex but chances are slim. Focus on yourself and live life.

If she doesn’t text back, call her. If she doesn’t answer, then let her get back in touch

Your advice is so uplifting and empowering. Thank you

She is communicating with other men. Period.

Your Book (Atomic Attraction) is f**king Awesome! I wish we could meet in the future, Keep doing the great work man.

@MARIOdeANGOLA

3 жыл бұрын

He's the best dating coach on KZread, I'm talking for real.

Wrong: She IS thinking "how can I disrespect him"

@howmathematicianscreatemat9226

3 жыл бұрын

only if you give free attention.

Man love this type of videos when you are explaining

Walk away from her and move on She may text or ring you,but until she does,get on with your life

I like the way you formulate ideas

This Dude is the best. I appreciate You Man

A few days ago I saw the girl I'm talking to on her phone, and she didn't text me. Unlike younger version of me, I grew up this time to go "yo, I purposely ignore people all the time as well, ain't gonna make a big deal out of the blues" and I went on with my day

Thanks for all your videos i am in cameroon africa keep up you are helping with your short videos

This guy is on key with he prognosis, because I have a relationship similar to this and I figured the same reactions through my relationship, at lease 93% percent correct.

I really needed to hear this

If a girl is really into you she will never pull away and will always reply in a sensible time frame.

@jondough3339

2 жыл бұрын

Wrong

You're really a legend thanks a lot for your advice!

I love how this guy, Chris, possesses such a 'rock' mentality toward women.. One thing that I, myself, am still trying to improve. Your mindset is topnotch, Chris. Keep up the helpful content.

Love your advices

I wouldn't tolerate this shit, if a woman does not respond to me I let her go. High interest is all I want in my life at this stage.

@andyking4336

3 жыл бұрын

Fuzzy Dunlop! From The Wire?

I have been listening to tour messages keep up thanks alot

Chris, at 5:35 You had me DYING!!!!! I am literally going through the same thing right now. I was asked "hey, if I don't message you, would you have ever messaged me? I feel like I am the only one initiating messages." .... I really like your line... "As far as I'm concerned, everything is ok. Are YOU ok?" HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Dude, you are a G. Seriously. James Bond 3.0

Basically, he's the one creating the problem by getting emotional over her not responding quick enough. He even said it himself, she's busy and has a lot going on.

@JoseGonzalez-rx7uh

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah she got a lot of going on she probably seen some more man that's what's up most women are

@MMA-CLIPS2

3 жыл бұрын

@@JoseGonzalez-rx7uh That is a beta mentality, Joze. Hot women have options, deal with it and move on.

@maurice970

2 жыл бұрын

@@MMA-CLIPS2 care to explain as im still learning all this? Is it beta mentality as Jose is insecure and thinks he isn't good enough and therefore he assumes instantly she is cheating on him?

@Yum_Yum_Delicious_Cum

2 жыл бұрын

@@maurice970 Yes, imagine your girlfriend asks a question (not important one) but in 3 hours you have to be at a party you still have to shower eat and prepare etc. Now you don't have time to respond the party is realy fun you danced with your friends and you have a good time. Now you're very sleepy and fall asleep on the couch. You feel nice and wan't to tell your girl you had a very fun time but then you see your phone 20+ messages of your girlfriend saying you cheated because you didn't respond to her and also didn't send a text while partying, the fun mood you had is now completely gone. Now flip the script this is kinda of what this guy does.

@maurice970

2 жыл бұрын

@@Yum_Yum_Delicious_Cum aw thanks for the explanation now i do get it. I've been working on my insecurities. Now I'm dating a chick who gets mad because I don't get jealous and it makes her feel like I don't care.... I know this has to do with her insecurities and seeking validation. But still can't catch a break xD

Post more vedios..great information as always..

I think that when a girl that's her respond like that she's seeing somebody else plain and simple

Great video

@joshwilliams6517

3 жыл бұрын

What up bro which team you going to? 😂

This video really helped me today I'm insane situation

Thanks a lot that helped

Actually it is reverse for me my girl friend message me .. I ignore her msgs.. She loves me more !!

@ifaisal2185

3 жыл бұрын

Mine was opposite and she broke up with me

@ozkantw986

3 жыл бұрын

@@ifaisal2185 YEAH SAME DUDE LOOOL

@hanzo2238

3 жыл бұрын

then ur lucky

With girls everything is complicated 😂

@sudeshgaur6059

3 жыл бұрын

Thats why they are called 'women'.

@j.t2548

3 жыл бұрын

@@sudeshgaur6059 wymyyynnn. Strong wyymyyynnnn

@geralkay3012

3 жыл бұрын

Let them knowing us, not us trying to knowing them women.

@dirkdonger2887

3 жыл бұрын

Not complicated they're just annoying. Don't focus on them. Do you're own thing and they'll come.

@MattGarcyaDC

3 жыл бұрын

they're backwards. thats why we dont get em

Golden channel

She could be avoidant and takes a while to emotionally regulate after periods of closeness -- a trauma response.

@XoXo475

2 жыл бұрын

I have a woman JUST like this . Awesome date day , then the next day it’s like I barely exist . Crazy!!

@twovthree

2 жыл бұрын

@@XoXo475 Up to you to decide if the juice is worth the squeeze in the long-run...or if you rather someone who can connect in a healthier more consistent way.

You are awesome.

Was dating a girl for 3 weeks, everything was really good then I was getting left on read and not getting a reply for sometimes hours or a day. No idea why she started doing this because I had all the signs from her, turning her body to me, touching my arm, looking in my eyes when we spoke ect. It just came out of nowhere 🤷🏻‍♂️

@xmorowe

2 жыл бұрын

Update ?

Had to stop video.. yes taking long time to respond messages is very rude. No excuses! Shows interest level

Man you could charge a monthly subscription for a podcast with topics like this and it would take off for real

@DevelopAttraction

Жыл бұрын

On what platform?

@jackvalentine566

Жыл бұрын

@@DevelopAttraction Apple podcast brother

This guy better get used to it. Cause the shit tests never end, wait till he marries her, pooh boy!

Girl I've been talking with for a few months, who previously had been texting me all day, now has started to text only at the end of the day, that too with low interest. How should I respond when she texts at the end of the day ? Should I reply with my usual enthusiasm or should I show low interest and respond late ?

If it would be fantastic relationship you wouldn't be writing to dating coach. Most man cannot properly read the level of interest in a woman. She might be loosing interest in you, and she did not find a better option yet to leave you. In any case stop texting her and stop reaching out first.

If things are great while you’re together, set more dates. Simple!

Not if there's someone else

typically being "busy" will only cause a temporary delay , not 24-48 hours

Be Elusive NOT Exclusive.

Power struggle stage, after the initial honeymoon phase. They get bored with us and our routines, loose respect and attraction pull away and we feel rejected or anxious. It’s a loose/loose situation, I’m initiating text and messages way too often, trying to mirror her level of contact.

@kicksalot9943

3 жыл бұрын

Now she knows when I’m not responding as quickly or ignoring her texts for 20-30min. She calls me out on it and I try to say I’ve been busy?

@Rawyalty220

2 жыл бұрын

So this happens with every relationship?

Move on fellas, don’t waste your time. There’s too many women out here

im here

this is 100% true, ive met girl 5 times and after 5th time she got busy and i could not understand that she is really busy and got anxious thinking what the hell happened ? and started bombarding her with msgs and turned her off.

She is telling you by her lack of action... She simply doesn't care about you... Give up and walk away, and don't take it personal

Am here all the way from KENYA NAIROBI..u might need to visit this country once in your liferime

@gospokwetutz834

3 жыл бұрын

Poa kaka mkubwa

@ephraimmuchugia8811

3 жыл бұрын

Mambo salama tuko wazima labda wew

@gospokwetutz834

3 жыл бұрын

Ephraim ni kitu gani imekufanya uje kumsikiliza Chris?! Ama ni manzi ako yuko cold😅

@ephraimmuchugia8811

3 жыл бұрын

Haha apana me n fun wa Chris kutoka kitambo amenifunza mengi na inasaidia sana

@gospokwetutz834

3 жыл бұрын

Okay! It's better to sharpen our mind with knowledge

I’m in that thing to

Maybe she’s just pretending that she’s in love when you meet up but in reality she’s not. People have no time for you means you’re not important

A woman once ignored me and after two weeks she asked me why I had gone 'so quiet' on her. Strange. But normally a women ignore you because they are not interested.

@howmathematicianscreatemat9226

3 жыл бұрын

normally it is when they aren´t interested ANYMORE. At the beginning even most attractive women will be open towards you but if you don´t let her invest time, energy and effort for getting your attention and energy, you are toast in the sexual world.

@aldersonsanku34

2 жыл бұрын

You have to tell her you were busy and set up a date then. If she flakes out, go for another. But having patience is the key.

Lads. Take it from an alpha (by society’s standards). If she ignores you, or can’t even send you one text in 24 hours, either cheat on her (if you can) or ignore her or leave her. She’s showing you that she couldn’t care less about you, which means she’s either got another guy, she’s looking for another guy or she’s trying to control/manipulate you (the last being indicative of a personality disorder). In other words, there is no nice answer fellas. Ensure that she’s made a rod for her own back, and not a rod for yours

My girlfriend and I are a long distance relationship we see each other a few times a month, we’re about a 13 hour flight from each other! The point I’m getting at is when we are away from each other we text all the time, but how I do it is she always texts me 90% of the time first And I’ll make her double text me like right now as we speak we were talking about something and she just gave me a one-word answer, I told her my coffee order she said nice! So I read it I’m not gonna text her back I’m gonna make her text me again before I text her, I think that’s a small but subtle way that makes her realize she’s chasing me because she’s always texting me First, I rarely double text her I’m not gonna say I never of done it but I rarely do it

I have the same problem…everything is great when we see eachother but then she ignores my texts

True

If a girl ignores my messages or i get only one word reply after 2 days i just delete her number.

Looking well Chris!

Hey chris! I met a girl from a dating app last week. I like her, and we had a great night. Now, our only way of communication is the dating app. And she's 20km away or an hour drive from me. I didn't even got her phone number or social media accounts. Should i get it? Or should i wait for her to ask mine? I don't chat her. Im waiting for a week or 2 to ask her out again. Or should i wait for her to arrange for the second date? Thanks man!

Wow..This is wat happen to me recently...I become needy when i called her she asked who is this? Well...I just told her directly that i wont tolerate any form of direspect via test or sacasim from her...the next day..I message her..How are you..she ignored my message...I did not bothered until now....I delete her number cuz..i will blow up her phone...I'm patiently waiting for her to test me back....yes she will..I know she love me! Thank you for the insights.

@Shambhu100

21 күн бұрын

Did she text back?

Erika is flat out ignoring me all the time she’s not had to reply to any of my messages. She’s flat out ignoring me and I don’t know why I don’t know why

If there's pull away behavior that goes for several days into weeks, best believe that somewhere in there, there's another guy in the picture 💯 NEVER bother asking about it because she'll NEVER tell you this. This happened to me recently with a friend who I repeatedly told her it was just fun and casual. We'd hang for a few months, but out of nowhere she'd go cold and ignore me and disappear for a few months, then suddenly reach out again months later, and we'd resume where we left off. We hung out consistently again for 2-3 months, then the same thing again 😂 it's actually a sad pattern 🤷‍♂️

I got a question what if the relationship was great and all but she left you because she not ready for a relationship cause of serious life problems and past life problems and doesn't text back... What should a person do?

You should only initiate a text once a week. Let her do the rest of the initiating.

The lion doesn't mind the opinion of the sheeps

7th time she ignores me and this time she viewed my story and posted on her instagram and started following some people now im scared if she thinks i ignored her becasue i took a little less than a hour to respond becasue i was a little busy and i was also thinking about asking her a question and it wasnt a regular question i was thinking if i really should ask it and i responded now she has been gone for 2 weeks

We are engaged... She ghosts me, she doesn't even see my msg... She sometimes send me a text during a day or calls for a min ( just formal talks) ..... What does this mean ?... She's also not telling me her issues

I don't give my girl lots of validation and we have a good sex life but she still asks me "am I just here for sex?" is this cos she thinks I'm just using her?

Lets be honest: you cant be focused for 24hrs. You can answer while taking a dump. She is human also. This is just manipulation or testing but my guess is that things are not going well in person

This is passive agressive disorder,avoid this kind of girls.They dont know how to communicate at spot with you.Overgrown children save your piece of mind and run for hills

Audio’s a bit low on these videos Chris. Just saying. Might want to pitch it up a bit?

How do I get my ex girlfriend to stop ignoring

How much the paint behind you cost

we fight and she ignored me for days. the fight is her fault

@blipblipblip4892

3 жыл бұрын

Same problem to me and i think this is the start to our separation... *gut feels

Only smart men know how to outsmart women, kids, and cats in ways to make them feel great loyal happier and amused fed secured, and safe

I thought that only russian girls tend to ignore your massage lol