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Summary; 1. Have options. 2. Don’t be so agreeable. 3. Don’t compliment unless it’s earned. 4. Set high standards for yourself. 5. Don’t buy her affection. 6. Let her invest in the conversation 7. Slow down with the romance 8. Have female friends 9. Don’t chase unless she’s also chasing you 10. Don’t be so available 11. Stop proving yourself 12. Don’t be so affectionate 13. Never give full disclosure 14. Don’t be so compliant with her. 15. Don’t be so accommodating.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Yup! Perfect.

@wilfridjoseph5222

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the list

@adekunlefajana2037

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

The one about having high standards is so true....I started having doubts about my recent ex for months on end because I wasnt feeling that connected to her. It's only after we broke up due to external circumstances (then flipped the script on her and I revealed to her that I was unsure about the relationship for months which made her to ask to try again because it "hurt her" 😂) I used this as an excuse to bail out and find a woman who I can connect with. Even though my ex was hot, good looks are not enough in the long run and you will begin to resent her no matter how good she looks if she doesnt meet your standards.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, exactly! A good, strong connection will be most important in the long term. Good job standing up for your wants & needs...that's not always easy when she's hot.

..... Excellent video Erik! Very complete and you do a superb job of covering all bases. One of your best videos! BRAVO.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man!

I know there’s are plethora of dating coaches on KZread. But your channel has been most helpful! Thanks Coach for all that you do.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! Much appreciated!

@shuajogrove7758

Жыл бұрын

agreed

Great video.Thank you for providing us with these videos, you are being very helpful for people who really need it like me, and have currently problems with their relationship.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you're finding them useful!

If I found you 2 months ago today I could apply all the methods. Now Im learning a lot from you.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, we all wish we would've learned this stuff sooner, but better late than never! Thanks for watching!

I find a lot of these tips useful i have to use them sometimes solence will hurt more then saying hurtful things

@SkillofAttraction

3 ай бұрын

Absolutely!

Amazing and thorough video. 10/10.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! Glad you found it helpful! These are subtly challenging, but if you do them correctly it will absolutely have a positive effect on her attraction.

I sworn I had it all figured out😂. Thanks a lot bro🙏🏾💯

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

Happy to help! Yup! Women will always throw you a curve ball once you think you got it figured out. lol

@BeezStingXRNS

2 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction 😂 that’s so true🤣

Dude this was really eye opening. Thanks!!

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you found it helpful!

Thank you!

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

And thank you for watching!

Thanks for your help.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Glad you found it helpful!

First! Wahoo! Everything he mentioned is so true!

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching, man!

@jagsidhu1152

4 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction No worries bro! You know it's funny cause I never stress over any woman! After my last relationship. She was 38 and I'm 21. Guess you can call it a fwb, but I caught feelings.... so now I have 8 girls I'm currently seeing and don't have time for none of there bs. Abundance of girls and same time I dont get attached to quickly. Slowly gonna pick the best one out of the 8 and settle soon enough. I watched all your videos and took in everything. You rock brother!!!!

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

That's fantastic, man! There's nothing wrong with catching feelings, you just have to be sure she's a good match for you, & she's on the same page, before you go all in. I'm sure you're now realizing how much easier this all is when you have plenty of options to choose from. When one girl doesn't reply to your text, you don't care, because you have 7 other women wanting to talk & see you. Good job, man!

@jagsidhu1152

4 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Hell yah bro! You know it! Focusing on myself with the gym, boxing and hockey keeps me busy! Also even hanging out with family and the boys so.i don't have time to.stress over any girl! Ahhh yeah man you know it was a mistake for going after a older woman when I was like.... why a. I stressing over a girl that lied to me and still did stuff with me when she had a husband like wowwww. Huge deal breaker but we are still friends/fwbs. Never gonna catch feelings again. Also thanks for your reply and kind words brother!! Your advice and tips.are a.azing! I love you bro!!! ❤❤❤💙❤❤❤

Good Stuff !!

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man!

Thanks for the good tips, Mr Steve Buscemi JR

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Steve Buscemi wishes he looked like me... :P

First off, you do an incredible job on these advice videos. Second, I can relate so much to being that nice guy all my life and then I tried more “push” techniques, and I was just considered an asshole. It’s so frustrating. As I was making the transition, it felt so unnatural because I was actually doing more “negs” instead of compliments, not touching or initiating any physical contact, not talking about emotions(as to come off more mysterious) making more jokes, staying off social media to build mystery. At some points, it even felt like I could be coming off as a jerk saying things like “yeah if I had you in a lineup, you might be my 99th pick or so” LOL🤣 like should I ever apologize for any of this or only if I notice they are super upset? Obviously I care deeply for them but that wasn’t working, and I don’t want to seem beta/needy/insecure

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

It sounds like perhaps you were making the mistake many men make when they realize they're a "nice guy"; they swing too far the other way, overcompensating for their nice guy behavior. However, kit seems like you're on the right path. You just need to find that balance while still being yourself. Remember, nice guy behavior is a learned behavior, & you can reprogram yourself if you practice consistent changes. But, to answer your question, you only want to apologize when you actually have done something wrong. Busting her chops a bit isn't wrong & if you back down after playful teasing it will lose it's effect on her. Teasing her (as long as you're not being mean) communicates to her that you're not afraid of her reaction & women find that attractive. Yes, you're going to come across as a jerk to nice guys & maybe even women, but you're not an abusive jerk. You're just having a little fun. But, if you feel that you may have crossed the line, rather than apologizing, just say you were teasing her & it's all in good fun.

@TheDeadman674

4 жыл бұрын

Skill of Attraction yeah thanks for the helpful advice! It got to a point where it was so bad, I actually missed the Friend Zone entirely and was considered more of an afterthought. Just a really sad way to live actually. so I think it was a bigger issue of how I was perceived by the entire human race as opposed to just women. Anyway, I will consider all this! As a video idea, I don’t know if you listen to Theory of a Deadman, but they do a song called Gentleman. Just a suggestion, but you could go line by line and see if each lyric is good advice/bad advice for all us struggling “nice guys”

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheDeadman674 I'm not familiar with them, but I'll check it out! As for the nice guy behavior, if you haven't read it already, I highly recommend the book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" ( amzn.to/2Yc2txe ) It's a game changer.

@rrwa7052

Жыл бұрын

Saying yeah if I had you in a lineup you might be my 99th pick is toooo mean and means to her you are not interested which will make her leave. A better angle would have jokingly made her your number 3 choice.

Excellent vid! just the tips i need to increase my success wit the ladies and make me more desirable

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

You got this!

Great video

@SkillofAttraction

2 ай бұрын

Thanks, man! Hope you found it helpful!

If Ross from Friends was a dating coach :-) You look like his brother man. Love your channel btw

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks...I think...

@larryrubin5150

4 жыл бұрын

Skill of Attraction your the man. Helping me and lots of people. Men lead and women pursue after a while.

@Steffenwolff

4 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction haha no man. You and your channel rule

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

@@Steffenwolff Thank you both! I appreciate it!

@hurtlocker1040

3 жыл бұрын

Na he looks more like dave grohl's brother

Challange yourself. One of your challanges may be to find a woman who is satisfied in challanging herself. If you are interested in a woman who expects you to constantly challange her, she'll always expect it, she'll never be satisfied and she'll find you annoying when she's not in the mood to be 'challanged'. Genuine nice guys have successfully challanged themselves to have good character and should only appreciate the same (but we're often distracted by her beauty regardless of her low character 😬). To challenge or being challanged by another person is exhausting, demeaning and personally unfulfilling. When you live to challange yourself men AND women will admire and respect you and you will be modeling what you want and expect in others.

@SkillofAttraction

2 ай бұрын

Well, you certainly should challenge yourself, but if you're too easy & "nice" for a woman, she WILL get bored, lose attraction & begin turning her attention elsewhere...usually on the guy who IS a challenge for her. This is who women are. You can't change that.

Very good..

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

I’m gonna give this a try with my woman

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Good idea! Just be sure that it comes off as natural...

Well, Thank you for what you do. I sincerely hope many young men will find you in time to do more that rearrange the deck chairs on the Titanic, unlike me.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Yup. We all have to learn from somewhere...

The only mistake I make on these 15 examples is being too available. But my girlfriend likes it. Yet Every coach tells me this is not good. I can see this being a problem though. So if she calls or messeges me. You want me to take my time. Is that it ? Or If she tells me lets go out. You want me to say am busy ?

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

It's not about playing games & pretending like you're not available. The idea is for you to actually be busy with pursuing your goals & building you value that it's just impossible for you to always be available for her. Women respect that, because they ALL love a man who is on a mission; it's masculine & very attractive. I realize that your girl is telling you that she likes this, but she will burn out at some pointy & begin to pull away. When she pulls away, this is why...it's basically her telling you that, "Look, we've been spending too much time together & there's no mystery left. I need some space so I can see if I miss you".

@chapinrey

4 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction That is great stuff ! How ever ...I do have a Job and she understands that when am working I may not respond. I also go to the gym , so when am available I am. Weekends though am there for her. I get your point though, she may go bored. So I will rejoin a jazz band on my free time in order to have other things going on for myself, not just her. Thank you very much for taking the time to respond. I respect that very much !

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

@@chapinrey Yes, perfect. Women love interesting men, & if you're pursuing your goals, interests & passions you will naturally be interesting. Plus, you having some independence outside the relationship allows for a little mystery where she's left wondering, "I wonder what gabriel is up to? I wonder if he's thinking about me the same way I'm thinking of him?" It's that wondering that raises &/or maintains a woman's attraction (partly anyway). When you're together too much there's nothing for her to wonder about, there's no space for her to miss you. Believe it or not, women want to long for you more than they want to spend time with you, because she experiences those butterflies. So, yes you're doing the right thing. And when you spend time with her, you want to be 100% present. This is your time (both yours & hers) together.

@Slider77755

Жыл бұрын

This is too complicated

@jibbityjab2469

Жыл бұрын

@@Slider77755 Yeah, it can be...and if you are in a relationship & living together it's not easy to NOT be too available. I'm actually reconsidering moving in together...the old adage "familiarity breeds contempt" is 100% true. While it's much more expensive to live apart I'm starting to see it would be worth it. I think it would create that longing and that not getting on each other's nerves.

Hey Erik! Ive got a question: I've dated this girl for about a month (4 dates) the first one she invited me first so i can see she is into me and I feel she is still but now i feel like im the one setting up dates or calls. I think maybe i was a bit too romantic/touchy with her so far, and i asked about kissing/hugging etc and she said she wants to "take it slow because she doesnt want pressure and from experience she knows that if something goes too fast it ends fast so she wants to develop friends then lead to relationship, and girls fall in love slower than guys". So that date i didnt initiate contact that much but have hug at the end. I did call her too few days ago but she ended quick as she was hungry, so i just accepted it and no big deal. Do you think i should wait for her to plan a date next week, and is she right that I should take it slow or is she testing me to make move and not listen to her? (I met her from a meetup group, so we do see each other once/twice a week anyway in a group)

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

I'd like to direct you to the website, as stated in the pinned comment.

Women are too much work.. better to just work on yourself and make the women work for you!

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

It IS best to work on yourself, but it's always a good idea to know what behaviors women find attractive & unattractive in case you find yourself doing it, or as a way to boost attraction. Men who are already confident & abundant, &/or working on themselves, do most or all of this stuff naturally.

@shambelovely4398

3 жыл бұрын

😆

@Blackpill149

Жыл бұрын

Just working on yourself will not make them work for you.You still have to put the effort to spend time with them,entertain them just within limits

Great bingeing vlogs!! I've been in an LDR for 6 yrs. Due to pandemic and financing, and her working abroad. We have yet to meet in person. Sometimes it's hot, then it's not? She knows all the tricks you mention. Any advice for a Mr. nice guy!? I'm an Alaskan, she's Filipina. Maybe a vlog for this situation!!!? I must mention. I'm guilty of saying ALL of it, lol!

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

The hot/cold behavior is typically due to uncertainty about her feelings for you, which is usually due making the mistakes I talk about in these videos...it's her attraction rising & lowering, depending on your current behavior. If you're Mr. nice guy, then I HIGHLY recommend "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover (found here: amzn.to/3rKimYP ). Despite what women tell you, they are not attracted to "nice guys". Yes, they like a man who is kind, but never "nice". The book I recommended will teach you how you're being "too nice" & how to change that where you're till kind & loving, yet firm. It's a game changer for a majority of the men in the West.

If only I saw this in early October., The deal would have had a chance.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

We've all wished we would have learned something sooner in order to keep a girl, but now you know for the next one...or if your ex ever comes back. Just don't chase your ex...

At seventy, and after a lifetime of ‘pulling’, this bloke seems pretty good chaps 🇬🇧! (ex wives might or might not agree 😂)!

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! And you're correct...the ladies may not agree...lol

Omg, this video teaches a man to be a princess 😂

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Being a challenge is being a princess? Okay, pal...🙄😂

Good content. I can tell it comes from a good place-no sociopath bitter vibes that I get from some dating gurus. Will you return to youtube at some point? I noticed you haven't posted in a while.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man! Yes, I will be uploading videos again very soon & getting back on track...

what do you mean keep dating? you encourage us to cheating? what if she found out i am chatting with other woman, what should i respond after that??

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

That's only if you're not in committed relationship, obviously...BUT, giving the impression that you have options with other women, without crossing the line of course, is completely acceptable. I talk about that a bit in this video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/n2WfssuSg6-3ocY.html

I realized I’m currently doing all of these things in the relationship I’m in(the nice guy traits). She has grown accustomed to it so how do I begin to change my behavior? I notice she might be losing interest lately. Thank you for all your advice!

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

Well first, I recommend that you begin to follow what I suggest in this video. It'll take some getting used to & you'll probably have to consciously think about it & catch yourself. It may even be a little scary at first, but that's normal. She may also get a little frustrated & push back initially, since she's used to you behaving a certain way, so just stay the course regardless. It's always better that women are a little frustrated with you than feeling nothing at all. Always remember this quote when you're afraid to upset her: instagram.com/p/BgUgTEYgJKK/ If you're the "nice guy", then I also highly recommend picking yourself up a copy of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover (if you're in the US, you can find it here: amzn.to/34qq6Yg ). This book will really help you understand HOW you're being the nice guy & how to change it to where you firm boundaries, but still loving.

@jedmoreno4080

2 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction thank you getting back to me. Maybe I should email you about this, but this girl is divorced with two children, was abused by her husband, and her bf after that. Does that change anything? She would tell me how I reassured her that she could find a “good” man and I thought she really wanted a “nice” guy after all that.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

@@jedmoreno4080 No, it doesn't change anything. Continue treating her with kindness, but never be the "nice guy" (putting her before yourself, placing her on a pedestal, showering with gifts & compliments, never challenging her, giving her full disclosure, etc). She's telling you one thing, but she thought her abusive husband was so hot that she married him & had two children with him. I'm NOT at all suggesting that you treat her badly or be abusive, but her history shows the type of men she's attracted to; challenging, dominant men (which is most women). Just don't confuse "dominant" with "domineering". There's leading, & then there's controlling...you want to lead.

I don't necessarily want to be a challenge. I'm looking for ways to get a woman to prove her worthiness. I've been fooled before.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Well, you do that by being a bit of a challenge. When you're challenging (I don't mean be a dick), & if she cares enough about you, she will begin to qualify herself to you & mirror you. It may not happen right away (ot probably won't, depending on how well you know her), but if you just focus on getting her out on dates, having fun & gently leading your interactions into the bedroom (or at least building sexual tension). It may sound oversimplified, but that's really all you have to do...& then just embrace an upbeat, yet challenging attitude.

Thanks for your videos, God bless you, now I have stated already, ever since the issue happened, I have stopped calling her, she doesn't call back too, even though the harm has been already being done, apologizing on our misunderstanding, she told me she doesn't have problem with me only because of what happened between us hurt her so much but as I said whatever she says to me and whatever she do by her actions are very strange to me because her words doesn't go by her actions they are different, she hardly message me, sometimes once, she hardly calls too, my mom even spoke with her on my behalf but I don't see any difference maybe she feels too big now, please now my question is as am not calling her anymore, not texting her anymore and all these mistakes committed by me because of how much I love her and so long we spend together, can I get attraction back? She is currently in Nursing college now because she once called me one Thursday morning telling me she was not well and she came back to the hostel and I said ok we couldn't talk much because of noisy area, now from Friday to Sunday no calls from her and me too I have not call her too no contact, now if it happens she call me anytime what should I do? How should I go about it in a very nice and maturity way?? Because I have vowed that I will never call her back no matter how much I will miss her even though I love her but I have to be strong, but I don't know if this girl will ever come back to me thank you these are my questions...

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

First, NEVER allow your friends & family to get involved in your relationship, especially talking to your girl on your behalf. That will cause her to perceive you as not being able to handle yourself & women want a man who can do that. Moms will want to step in, because they can't bear to see you in pain, but don't allow it anymore. Also, pay more attention to her actions than her words...her actions will never lie or tell you what you want to hear so as not to hurt your feelings. her actions ARE the message. Yes, you can re-attract her, but you must be patient & begin working on yourself, pursuing your goals & hobbies. Women love a man who is trying to better himself. When she does eventually call/text, greet her with an upbeat & playful attitude. Have a little banter. Then tell her that you want to see her (do not ask her if you can see her, tell her you want to), then ask her when she's free to get together. You're basically arranging a date. If she rejects your invite or makes excuses, don't get upset...just tell her that you understand & that she should call you when she wants to get together. Then again, no more initiating contact until you hear from her. This will communicate to her that you are not only emotionally strong (which is very attractive), & that you are confident in your value (also very attractive). This will be difficult because you're not used to it & you feel like you're losing her, but chasing after her & always being available is not working...& it WILL eventually completely chase her away. So, be strong & focus on yourself. See yourself as the prize.

What if it's long distance and you can only facetime...Should this only be done 1-2x a week?

@sqwormza178

4 жыл бұрын

1x

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

I would agree...1 time. If she wants to communicate more, she will reach out. In the meantime, this will keep you a bit mysterious & challenging.

@kingdavid772

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks fellas!

Because I was no more a challenge. He broke up with me. We had 10yrs relationship. I just want to change myself no matter what.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

It's very easy for LTR couples to fall into the trap of too much comfort & familiarity, which is anti-seductive & will eventually lead to a loss of attraction. My content is aimed towards men, but much of it is the same for women...men also need a little challenge & mystery in a woman in order to remain emotionally attracted to her. You're doing the right thing if you're working on yourself...also, implement the "no contact rule", which just really means that you do not initiate contact for any reason unless you absolutely have to (eg: discussing bills to be paid, shared children, etc).

Basically mirror the chance?

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure what you're asking here? Mirror the chance?

Reminds me of Steve Buscemi..

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Mr. Pink does not approve...

I love you brother

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man!

What if she goes to school, should you or should you not help her with her homework??

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

You have to be careful here that you're not allowing yourself to fall into the friend zone. You can help her, because it's a good excuse to get to know her, but you want your main goal to be a bit playful & flirty when with her.

rubish, my 17 year older exgirlfriend was with me because of the sex (and did not want a relationship). now if i knew how i did that and how i could repeat that with someone else.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not exactly sure what you're referring to when you say 'rubish'. But, yes, it's important to take a look back at your relationship with her & figure what you did right & what you did wrong so you can apply that to your future relationships.

It’s one thing to be friends with women but if you’re friends with beautiful women often times women believe that you were rejected by those girls so they friend zoned you. Because you are an adequate. So be careful with the amount of female friends you have. If you have a history with a woman like you played softball with her or you’ve known her since college etc. that’s a more acceptable female friend to a woman in my opinion. Someone you may have dated that friend zoned you don’t be using those girls for bait.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Not necessarily. It really all depends on how you behave around those women. I have two female friends that the average guy would think are beautiful & no one thinks I was friend zoned by them. In fact, most people think we secretly have something going on.

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

@@tboned2928 be gone spammer!

I don't think it's ok to have female friends that aren't sexually attracted to you... Here's why. If a woman sees you as just a friend or even worse a brother, and the woman you are trying to hook up with or are with see this, how is this going to make it seem like women are interested in you? It can go the other way around. If a woman is playing hard to get and she sees you with another woman, she may spread rumors about you to break up your current relationship. If I'm wrong, please enlighten me

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I didn't mention a female friend who is sexually attracted to you...just a female friend. However, it doesn't really matter, because it will still ignite competition anxiety in the woman you're with. A woman who likes you isn't going to just give up because another woman likes you. Plus, ALL women find a man much more attractive when other women want him. Women LOVE the drama of fighting for you...& it makes them feel special when you choose them over the other girls.

Dave Grohl?

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

I get that a lot actually...

Damn I made so many mistakes shit

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

We have all been there. Putting this into practice will really begin to change the dynamics with her, as long as things aren't too far gone between you two.

In your thumbnail u look like a 1980s action man toy 😂

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Perhaps it's my G.I. Joe kung fu grip?

@JohnBrown-sn3kh

4 жыл бұрын

Skill of Attraction probably 😭

funny

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

What's funny about it?

Oh, I can be a challenge to women, rest assured of that! I challenge their patience by wearing on their every last nerve! LOL!

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Haha! The idea behind being challenging to women isn't about annoying them. But if it's working for you...

Don’t fart with car windows closed. Open the window first the blast . 😏

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

Where's the challenge in that?

@truthhurts3807

2 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction If you can stay in a car with the windows up and not throw up that’s a challenge.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

@@truthhurts3807 True

this is how i lost the girl after 6 months

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

It's an easy trap to fall into, because you like her & want her to like you in return. But women love a man who is a bit of challenge...they love a man who they have to win over. It's counterintuitive to your goal to be with her, but she will love you more for it.

@jaspergabriels8933

2 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction yeah thats mostly the problem like at the start the first months everything great but then after 6 months or something i lose the power and they get cold or it gets too comfortable and don't know how to keep being that challenge or mysterie

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaspergabriels8933 That's an issue for most men...she got too comfortable & too reassured. The power flipped. I believe I have a video about how the power flips. Anyway, she got too comfortable most likely because you were too available to her & you reassured her about where she stands with you too much. When this happens, the best thing that you can do is to back off a bit...let her chase you a bit. And when she's behaving in ways that you like, reward her with your attention & love...when she's behaving in ways that you don't like, re move your attention & back off, then let her chase you a bit. Once she earns your attention back, then just focus on getting her out on dates, having fun, & gently leading your interactions into the bedroom. Do not focus on a relationship or commitment with her...that's her job to turn it into a committed relationship. Most men drive women away by being too focused on a committed relationship with her. That's feminine energy & it turns women off, despite what society tells you.

@jaspergabriels8933

2 жыл бұрын

yeah that was the thing like her behaviour i don't liked and so i walked away because i saw everywhere it can work very well but i think it was already too late because she then dumped me and she wanted to have time for herself and also to put everything into place with her ex. feel fucked now

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaspergabriels8933 Perhaps, but you walking away & going no contact can relatively easily change her opinion of you. If she expects you to chase after her, & you don't, this can confuse her & make her think, "maybe I was wrong about him". Don't hold onto hope, because that just keeps you in it & pining for her...but this can be the beginning of rebooting her attraction for you.

Why they teach you all these bad habits?

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

Bad habits? 😂 These are good habits. You've been taught wrong, my friend...as with most men.

@googlebanmetoomuch2601

2 жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction I mean society teach men bad habits and to simp. Always lose the girl. Like a bad joke.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

@@googlebanmetoomuch2601 Oh, I see. Then yes, you're correct.

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@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks, man!

As a woman I disagree with a lot of your advice . High value women don’t appreciate when a man behaves a certain way most of these techniques you mention are about playing games

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

It's not about playing games or using techniques...it's about developing the right mindset.

@DanFoss-rd4we

15 сағат бұрын

Attraction is a trasluscent game, though it obviously becomes game if u don't know how to play it right

And who are inconsistent don’t have a chance with a woman. So I’m not sure how you balance this guys information with that but women know and stink Tivoli that when you’re inconsistent that you’re probably a flake

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, women look for consistency & congruence in men. What I talk about here are not 'tactics' to do once in a while, but a mindset for men to adopt. Most men are afraid to behave in this way, afraid that it will chase the girl away or cause her to not like him anymore...but it's actually attractive.

3mins of crap intro and advertising yourself leave that to the end of the video

@SkillofAttraction

3 жыл бұрын

Men don't complain about that which they can change themselves...

Meh, 15 advices that could be shrunk to 5 max. Don't be a fucking muppet, show you have your own life and you enjoy it even when she's not around. Don't chase her and set boundaries that will spark attraction. The rest if fluff bluff.

@SkillofAttraction

2 жыл бұрын

Not really, but ignore at your own peril.

This is so awful. It makes me sad to hear men are being taught to behave this way. Maybe in high school this was the way, but truly adult gals want none of what is being taught here. :(

@chapinrey

4 жыл бұрын

Thats because this stuff is true for 9 out of 10 women. Do the math.

@SkillofAttraction

4 жыл бұрын

Perhaps women don't want this consciously, but they definitely do emotionally. As a man who has over 30 years of dating/relationship experience, I can say this without a doubt. And the fact that I don't say anything bad in this video makes me curious why you would think that this is wrong? Set high standards, don't be so agreeable, don't buy her love, etc...why is that "awful"? Is it because it makes men more challenging?