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@primextrooper9021

Жыл бұрын

Hello Erik I was talking to this girl for about over a week or more or jus a week can't remember 3days ago she was messaging me first every day for about a week. She has said stuff like shese falling for me. And she has said to me Ur mine and that in our conversations. And other stuff well 3days ago on Friday she said she would text me to sort something out not gunna say. She lied and didn't text me for hours and when she did I told her to stay away from me because I don't put up with lies. She said she doesn't get it but she said ok have I lost her it's been 3days since she messaged me did I do the wrong thing? I thought she was interested.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

@@primextrooper9021 I'm happy to help, but did you read this comment you're responding to?

@primextrooper9021

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction Just did now only read half but do u think u could help jus this once u see she was the 1 chasing me well texting me every day more than once aday only a week tho. Till I told her to stay away from me because she lied. And she said ok how can she jus not give a f like that? She even said dayss ago that I'm the best even like love yous and that. Can u jus help me out wiv this question jus 1 please coach have I done the wrong thing or was she not interested to begin with? I was expecting her to say sorry or try harder but nope haven't hurd from her for 3days. Could this just be a 1 off?

@primextrooper9021

Жыл бұрын

@@SkillofAttraction she opligized wiv a full paragraph and she put a love heart. At then end this was yesterday can u just answer this 1question? From her history or what EVs does she sound interested like do u recon I have a chance wiv this girl? Or not.

I saw it coming when I was younger. Packed all my stuff while she was at work and ghosted TF out of her.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Good!

The oral stops once you stop being a toxic mysterious man

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Well, it stops once her attraction drops. But those are certainly things that help keep her attraction. And by "toxic" I mean the main points I cover in this video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/a6l7l7GpXc3PiZc.html

@ch1bob

11 ай бұрын

Sometimes they do oral instead of letting you inside

@StuWright

5 ай бұрын

lol

@rohanrajak2670

12 күн бұрын

Hilarious sad but very true

Great video Erick but if she wants to leave she’s more than welcome and also I would dump her immediately.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

It's often the best way to restore respect.

Quality video Erik. Cheers

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Why, thank you, sir!

You are totally right! That happened to me !!!

@SkillofAttraction

9 ай бұрын

Hopefully you know what signs to look for now because, whole not all women do this, many do.

Your videos are really helping me get through some stuff. Girl strung me along for a year and we work very closely with eachother we fooled around and she was super into me until I opened up to her, then she started acting more distant saying she didn't want a relationship then one week later she has a new boyfriend and I still have to see her every day at work and I feel like she used the hell out of me and never cared at all. Your videos are really helping me make sure I don't fall into that pothole again. My self respect trumps even wanting to ever be friends with her again cuz of how much she lied and led me to believe she had feelings for me. Even though I miss her, if she came back I couldnt and never would trust her again. Thank you for all your help

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's a tough situation which sounds like it was brought on mostly just by not understanding how the ladies operate. Glad to hear I'm helping though! Perhaps this video will sine some light on things: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmGEqcSOn5ecYs4.html

@StuWright

5 ай бұрын

sorry to hear that happened to you

Wish I had known this years and a few heartbreaks ago. I’m taking this as good advice for the next time around.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That's a common wish for many when they stumble across my videos. But you're right...all you can do now is save this info for the future, because chances are some girl at some point in the future is going to try & pull this on you again.

How helpful this video woulda have been about 4 months ago. Almost all the signs there were,but I didn't realize what did it mean. I was monkey branched. And my heart is very broken

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That sucks you had to go through that, but the good news is that that heartbreak led you here so you can understand, learn & make sure something like this never happens again. Most of us have to learn the hard way.

Gud advice coach

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, man!

Great video Erick but honestly I think it’s best to just let it go on about her business. If she thinks the grass is so much greener on the other side then by all means let her cross over. I Surely wouldn’t beg her to stay

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That's fine. I do say towards the end how to handle the situation.

100 percent matching what just happened

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. If you watched all the way through, I'm sure you noticed that I gave you some ways to handle this, depending on what you want. Be strong & see yourself as the prize.

My ex started doing a few of these. I ended things immediately. I'm not dancing on eggshells while she's doing her hypergamy. They'll always want someone else regardless and I refuse to play games.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I explain in this video the hypergamy issue, but I also explain the effect of breaking up with her first. So, probably best you did that.

@ch1bob

11 ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttractionI’m thinking of breaking up with mine, but don’t know how to

I am done with this World

@SkillofAttraction

11 күн бұрын

Follow what I suggest in my videos & the chances of this happening diminishes significantly...

honestly i'd just tell that flaky sort that i'll brb then play video games and don't respond back

You say the man dropped the ball somewhere in the relationship (8:55). But what if you didn’t really drop a ball yourself… you got kids… she changed…

@SkillofAttraction

Ай бұрын

Well, there's probably something somewhere in the relationship where it started to break down that you don't see or understand. This is not to say that her actions are your fault...she made a conscious decision at some point...but something drove her to that point. What it boils down to is, she lost attraction at some point & she never got it back. This channel is dedicated to helping men with exactly that...attraction.

happened to me rn

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

That sucks. I've been there myself. But I describe the best way to handle the situation towards the end...

Hahaha no oral sex I love this one but it’s true time to find someone else 👍

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Yup! When her attraction is low or completely drops, the oral sex becomes nonexistent. That's always a good way to know where she stands.

@ch1bob

11 ай бұрын

@@SkillofAttractioni have a case where she does oral but doesn’t let me hit

She monkey branched to my "best friend" lol Friends for 14 years, told all my secrets, went to him as someone to talk to when me and the ex were on bad terms, and i get the feeling he went back to her and told her all of my shit and sabotaged me

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

That's f*cked up! Some dudes just don't live by the bro code. I hope you dumped them both!

@adam1thomas120

4 ай бұрын

@SkillofAttraction Of course I did. Horrible tho, I'm missing them both. Makes it exponentially worse that they're enjoying each others company

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

@@adam1thomas120I feel ya. Not exactly the same, but one committed girlfriend told me that one of my closest friends was trying to get in her pants behind my back. I cut him off immediately, but it sucked that I lost him as a friend.

Women are hypergamous and ready to switch up to a better guy.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Well, I mentioned that in the video. If a woman is happy & in love with you, other men aren't even on her radar. Only when women are unhappy & thinking they can do better are they open to leveling up to who she perceives to be a better option.

Here’s where I question these types of videos, why is it the guy’s fault or how is it that the guy “drop the ball?” We should never pander to a partner that doesn’t reciprocate respect and love.

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

It's the man's job to lead, stay on top of his game & keep her attracted. If you're not doing that, or you stop doing that, she loses respect & attraction. kzread.info/dash/bejne/oYeE1Legdq7TcdI.html

@scifijunky1979

4 ай бұрын

@SkillofAttraction Yes a man can lead, and still lose respect. I've dated women that wanted to do things their way and I wouldn't allow it. It was all about double standards. As they continued, I got fed up with it and ended it. Like I said, it's not worth pandering to a partner that won't respect you.

@SkillofAttraction

4 ай бұрын

@@scifijunky1979You asked how does the guy "drop the ball" & I told you.

Ya that’s called cheating any psychologist will tell you that…

@SkillofAttraction

6 ай бұрын

Depends what you consider cheating & if she went that far. But it's something that MANY women do when they fall out of love.

@alexanderthegreat3106

6 ай бұрын

⁠​⁠​⁠@@SkillofAttractionit’s cheating buddy 😮mine did that but I knew about it I gathered all the proof and evidence and emails and texts ..confronted here laid into her good and dumped her , two. Months later she wants to come back , no way she cried and begged.. problem is women run on their emotions and go with the grass is greener on the others side, and that new excitement syndrome .

A women is never yours. Just your turn. Get out and find someone new. Level up like a boss

@SkillofAttraction

7 ай бұрын

That just means that women won't love you unconditionally, which I cover here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oYeE1Legdq7TcdI.html

Why should you bother being in a relationship with a woman capable of doing this in the first place?

@SkillofAttraction

8 ай бұрын

They're all capable of doing this, but in most cases, as long as they respect you they won't do this.

Please reply me,

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

I already did. Please see the pinned comment.

Frist 5 minutes of This videos is usless

@SkillofAttraction

2 ай бұрын

Men don't complain about that which they can change themselves.

Happend to me most heart breaking thing that happened to me

@SkillofAttraction

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, it stings...

My ex did this. Cheating Asisn 304.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Now you have some of the signs to look for so this doesn't happen again...

Oh man, when they start saying "im so tired", "im so busy", etc etc, hahah bro, you already know what it means.

@SkillofAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Just keep in mind that when you hear those sorts of things it can often be temporary, because a woman's attraction levels for a man can & will fluctuate.

@ch1bob

11 ай бұрын

Uuf so true always tired