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@ltgaw1665

8 ай бұрын

Hi jessica, is this method working with an ex who lose their feelings towards you and is on an LDR relationship?

@kennydadi47

7 ай бұрын

@@ltgaw1665 You are amazing, you are doing good job with the information you shared always. Keep the good work.

@ederjean9802

7 ай бұрын

Thanks

@user-mr2gq2wd5p

7 ай бұрын

Everyday I learn something new❤❤❤❤

@abdulseko6376

3 ай бұрын

@@ltgaw1665 🔥🔥🔥

This is my message to my fellow men. Go to the gym. Lift weights 💪🏾. Be dangerous and silent. Become logical. Destroy the old u and unlock the new u. If a woman or someone that close to you hurts you. You have to go to war with yourself. You your pain and rage to conquer the world. That's what a man supposed to do. And for the women that gives us men the knowledge. Thank you. Use your pain and rage to better yourself, not hurt people. Only control what you can control. And that's u

@JoeBlack540

Жыл бұрын

Thanks dude your comment is 🔥

@carmitechnology

Жыл бұрын

Thanks nice words of encouragement.

@jayripp84

Жыл бұрын

Thanks I needed that

@learnpianofastonline

Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much.

@Confirmdad

Жыл бұрын

Bro you go fire 🔥 🔥🔥👍

"Silence is the best response to someone who doesn't value your words". That's Gold.

@turonwhitfield7917

Ай бұрын

Definitely a Dimond

This works!! I got quiet and turned to God even more. I was transformed, strengthened, smarter, wiser, God did his thing on me. It’s crazy how much clarity you get when you get quiet.

@damolaadeoti

Жыл бұрын

@@temitopeoyeyemi899 you can do it bro. As long you chose to focus on yourself. Not in a selfish way but in a “growth” way. During this time try and see how you can improve yourself. Pick up a book or an hobby. Most of all, yield to God bro. He will transform you.

@mattd8868

Жыл бұрын

Amen brother it is amazing when the heart is broken and in the reshaping process when you turn & give it to the Lord you grow exponentially Psalm 51:17. Im living proof. Started to pray, read my bible & get back in Bible based church. In less than 2 years. Gym, wrote a book, started LLC, started mentoring again. Rediscovered my true purpose. Side note my ex once me back...but unfortunately I've out grown her. I kindly & lovely rejected her request.

@damolaadeoti

Жыл бұрын

@@mattd8868 praise God!! I’m so happy for you broda. I’m so much better now. So much transformation and revelations received. To God be the glory. When we turn to God during heart break or any unfortunate life situations, we will never lose because we have a solid foundation. Much love broda.

@MentionDav3

10 ай бұрын

Amen me to brother. 7 year relationship and God ripped me from her put me in isolation and reshaped my heart. I went from wanting bad for her to praying she find her way to God also. But we’re done I’m not going back

@damolaadeoti

10 ай бұрын

@@MentionDav3 amen brother. Stay up in the light bro. God is your strength bro.

Lot of men are going through what you just break down. Men always stress just to give women better life, working long hours, cherish them like a queen and still get treated like dustbin. Thank you for saving our heart ❤️

@_JayWay

Жыл бұрын

My current situation. Working my ass out only to get to a fierce house 😅

@anthonylogiudice9215

Жыл бұрын

Briffault's Law - No matter what you have done for her, the benefits she derived from those acts are always temporary and her question will be, "What you have you done for me lately." If the answer is in the negative, you're on the bubble.

@dizzofx4493

Ай бұрын

@confirmdad, this is what i am facing right now, in the same situation, but not yet break up. I worked long hours, and she's not even working with 4 kids. Giving me a kinda of trauma and I tryna concentrate at work but with God has been helping me out. Once, I closed from work, going home is another thing for me. A lot of thinking 🤔 damn. Thanks for this piece madam Jessica

Giving them the silent treatment is hard, but it MUST be done. Do not initiate contact even if you want to talk to them. Silence really is golden.

@godjudah6422

Жыл бұрын

Does it means you shouldn't pick their calls and answer their text as well ???

@Omnitrix8

Жыл бұрын

@@godjudah6422 Now that choice is up to you. If you have to pick up her call, keep it platonic, be happy, do not display anger or grief and above all, KEEP IT REALLY SHORT. Text wise, do not respond immediately. Give it a couple of hours or a day. That shows you are NOT desperate.keep the text short and do not let the conversation drag. Show high value ✌🏿

@captainkeyboard1007

Жыл бұрын

An old saying is, "Silence is golden." There is a time to speak, and there is a time to be silent.

@jordangarrick669

Жыл бұрын

@@godjudah6422 Yup....

@jordangarrick669

Жыл бұрын

If you really want the gal back, your only chance is to use the silent treatment. It sucks - it's like going cold turkey from nicotine or caffeine. But if you act on your instinctive reactions when she bolts, you'll permanently wreck the relationship and prove her accusations correct about you "pressuring" her. Women cannot stand being ignored and are totally confused by it. It's your only remaining effective - and legal - weapon, men; use it wisely. And under no circumstances should you publicly lose your temper - go scream into an empty canyon if you have to, but never at her....

I tried his when my wife left because I had quit my job to concentrate on art. I disappeared completely out of site and she started living it up with a new boyfriend who had quite a good job as a clerk. It took me a year before the sacrifice I had made began to pay off when I started painting portraits. I earned in a week, if not far more , what her new guy made in a month. One day they went to a posh nightclub and some of my portraits of jazz musicians were hanging on the wall. Her new boyfriend loved jazz and remarked to someone who by chance knew me. When my ex heard that they were my paintings she desperately tried to get back to me, but I had moved on. She tried committing sucide to get my attention but to no avail. The boyfriend had met another girl whom he got engaged to and later married .

@TheWonderwiess

Жыл бұрын

She's in it for the thrill and high life

@peterjoe530

Жыл бұрын

What a story 😃👌🏾

@TimeWaveOfficial

Жыл бұрын

Ahahaaha karma!

@jomama468

Жыл бұрын

In swahili there’s a saying we have “mtaka yote, hukosa yote” He who wants it all, loses it all

@mrsquidwardtentacles9001

Жыл бұрын

this is the happy ending i wanna hear

My partner of 7 years just ended things with me a week ago. It was so sudden and felt like the whole world was ending. I've been trying so hard to keep in touch with her, trying to mend things to no avail, acting like a desperate fool. No more. That ends now. Thank you for your message. I needed it.

@slooptrooperunlimitedofthe1772

3 ай бұрын

I am with you right now, I did the same.

@alexanderthomas2457

3 ай бұрын

Bro go to the gym, read more books about growing and be silent.

@Pedroxide

3 ай бұрын

This is exactly me!!! But as you say… no more!!! There’s a new me!

@chives3034

2 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear

@MultiPrincelove

Ай бұрын

I know how it feels, stay strong...

The funny thing is, my ex pulled this on me right when I broke up with her. I tried to contact them, reconcile in a couple weeks, but no reply. I was going crazy until one day, I completely ceased trying to contact them and focused on myself instead. Keep in mind we were still friends on Facebook. I than started going to the gym, spending time with friends and family, meeting new people, picking up new hobbies and focusing deeply on my career. I ended buying a 2021 Mustang and losing 25lbs within two months. She looked at my social media of me enjoying my life and BOY WAS SHE PISSED (lol). She was so upset she left a angry note on my door a month later trying to blame me for the breakup and I just ignored it and threw it in the trash. I guess the silent treatment worked for the both of us :).

@mikeomondi6941

Жыл бұрын

WHY DO YOU THINK THAT MOST exs WANT TO KEEP THEIR FORMER PARTNERS HOSTAGE WHILE THEM THEY'RE ALREADY IN OTHER RELATIONSHIPS..???

@ALPHATANGOMIKE350

Жыл бұрын

ATTTA BOY!!! Kill ‘em with kindness!! Work on yourself, and you SURE DID!!! Happy Holidays!! 🎄😎

@L3VELUPTV

Жыл бұрын

Why did you want to break up with your ex , what was the reason ?

@nabiserehalson2379

Жыл бұрын

@@mikeomondi6941 thank u

@jhimpcaca5718

Жыл бұрын

why would u want to risk it by breaking up with someone then decided later on u want to contact to reconcile....? Sound like an indecisive grown boy game.

Silence, no contact exactly what I practiced on my previous break up. I must say it gave me peace of mind.

@stevo6891

Жыл бұрын

Once someone hurts me I’m done with them

@olumuyiwaashaju6220

Жыл бұрын

@@stevo6891 are you perfect?so you don't hurt anyone?

@tyetr9853

Жыл бұрын

Did they reach out to you

@katyachery6660

Жыл бұрын

Guys seriously? Girl never break up just not reason … never !!!! Maybe you do something wrong ? No ? Seat chat another girls , made tinder or only fans ? And she figur out it’s ? Nobody think why she do it! It’s have a reason always then maybe it’s you first hurt she ?

@limbo4667

Жыл бұрын

I thought traders don't got no emotions no more😅😅😅

She broke up with me without saying anything. She just blocked me in the midnight. In all social medias. I felt like part of me died for like 10 seconds, and now nothing. I feel nothing. No happyness, no sadness. Like I am an empty shell of something, called "human"

@denzeilconway905

Ай бұрын

hope u doing better now bro since its been 9 months now. It's even worse when they just ghost u like that, makes you feel like ur the crazy one

@vabar324

Ай бұрын

@@denzeilconway905 Yeah, bro, I found wonderful girl, and now we want to get married in 2 months, I am so happy. I can't even believe that it turned so good. Thank you very much for your support!

@Nellsta

Ай бұрын

Keep strong I’m going through the same

I dont care what anyone says. People may have forgotten what you have done for them, but they never will forget how you made them feel. If you were good to them one day or one year, they would come back at some point. Try to do you and live life. Just take it one day at a time.

@christianalexander579

Жыл бұрын

If someone was good to you in a relationship and still leave then that's not being loyal at all don't tell someone you want to date them and then just turn it around and break up with them that's why women can't keep a man now

That rush of emotion... convert that energy into "doing something", don't fight it, don't push it back down, feel it and then MOVE. Go to the gym, lift some weights, do some sit ups or push-ups, but convert that feeling into something good!

Jessica is right on the no contact rule. If your partner breaks up do not contact that person. Absence according to Robert Greene creates attraction. If you chase when you are most vulnerable, that person will reaffirm why they left you. Most people find it difficult to end certain relationships and when they do the last thing you don’t won’t to do is to give them the opportunity to affirm their thoughts leading to the break up. During no contact, engage your self with other stuff that will improve you. Learn a skill. I recommend learning how to play the Saxophone 🎷. You meet more women and more people. Hopefully, you’ll find someone worth your while. I’m done. Great vid. Jess.

@psalmodyinspirational1212

Жыл бұрын

Great contribution! Thanks

@cheyo2151

Жыл бұрын

But in my case.. her mom kept on txting me about her daughter..

@teamchang4894

Жыл бұрын

@@cheyo2151 block the mom. Not because you hate her or anything but because she reminds you of someone you’re trying to let go.

@victorjamesweima6216

Жыл бұрын

Great addition to it.

@tabassumtv786

10 ай бұрын

But what if we don’t want to leave that person & if that person is more important then our life

Went silent after a break up and she still call me today , that’s how I actually healed .😁

Man, people don’t know how to commit anymore… technology has truly made relationships harder

@MultiPrincelove

Ай бұрын

Technology makes people feel they have options.. which are not real options though...

@DerekHarris-wo8kr

Ай бұрын

I agree 👍 wholeheartedly

@AlvinEugene11

29 күн бұрын

@@MultiPrincelove facts

This woman has a special place in my heart

Give this woman a million subs🤝🏾👏🏾

Shifted all my anger into my work, am workaholic.

Jessica OS you're a gem. You are so uncut in your delivery that your value screams in a such a way that it hits home

Thanks sis. I really appreciate you for taking the time out of your day to give such great advice.

After giving her the cold shoulder and moving on with my life, my ex recently sent me a text telling me she didn’t know if it was me or a friend of mine sending her threatening text messages telling her “be careful. I know where you live”. She was basically telling me to stop bothering her. In my head I was like “wtf? Lol”. And I told her the truth. I said to her “good luck with that but you don’t have to worry about me. I’m done waisting my time” I was left wondering if that was her way of breaking the “no contact rule”. I would always tell her that im there for her and would protect her from everything and everyone. She was probably expecting the same response, but nah. Good luck to her.

I appreciate you Jess for how articulate you always are in your videos and this was a banger. Well articulated and elaborate

💯. Not too many women are this transparent. You are spot on with this!

This works 💯 percent... U deserve a million likes for this!!! 👏👏👏👏

All valid & proven points that have found to be very effective. My soon to be ex wife had gotten to the point where she's contacting me to point is was annoying. We've been separated for 7 years now and waiting for our divorce to finalize. Now all of a sudden she was constantly messaging me and even trying to call me where I had no choice but to block her & in messenger. I agree with Jessica with some time away from your ex you'll be able to see more clearly to see if the relationship is right for you. I'm doing great ❤

@engrchris8149

Жыл бұрын

It's great to know you're doing just fine Rodney. 👍. Cheers🍷🍷🍷😊

@kevinmurray8537

Жыл бұрын

You never know what you had until you loose it.

@rodneysessoms8804

Жыл бұрын

@@kevinmurray8537 very true

@christianbenn316

Жыл бұрын

& taking her back would be a red flag so don,t do it

@rodneysessoms8804

Жыл бұрын

@@christianbenn316 yes sir I definitely agree with you

This is my first encounter to your channel & I must say, it is awesome & eye opening. I really needed this & I'm grateful. Thank you Jessica.

Thank you so much Jessica. I really needed to hear this 🤍

This one came at the right time for me. Thanks a bunch Jessica

I always appreciate Jessica for her wonderful advices .U know when people go through such situations and they don’t know what to do cause most of people really don’t aye don’t worry just listen to jessica cause it helped me a lot to realise the facts .Thank u jessica ❤️

Again Jess your right on the money...always on point..👍👍💯

I have watched most of your videos and you always give practical and reasonable advice to real situations. Thank you.

This woman is gold. Thank you so much, Jessica. I am getting through this hard situation. I've been dumped 1 month ago, and I have mixed feelings and my self-esteem has been severely damaged... And for the moment, despite the fact that I had the temptation to break this 0 contact, I am still abiding to it, no matter it hurts. Silence will be without any doubt my best friend in my new journey and will help me to heal all wounds

Time heals most wounds, silent treatment works wonders and keeps the other party interested in a way which they can't understand... Jessica speaks volumes, no contact rule makes all the very difference in a heartbreak situation. When it's time to move in it's a sign that things need to move smoothly from there. (Keep it simple stupid) the kiss rule! What is important is knowing your self worth and sticking to your guns with your confidence intact.

I don't want other women, I just want Jessica 😍🥰👑

Your words are healing my soul and I feel so confident right away thanks love you for your great works 👍💯👏

I once said this and I will say it again. I love the way in which your brain works Jessica. You've just nailed it again....as usual. I will definitely watch this over and over again.

one thing I love about you Jessica is that you're very genuine

That’s a great video Jessica. Thanks for sharing it with us💯❤️

Love 💕 you sis.we need more powerful black woman like you.

Jessica you have helped me through a hard break up. It wasn’t the longest relationship but we clicked so fast so thank you for the tips and help

i did this in Feb. Painful at 1st, but worth it. U rock Jess

One of the greatest lessons I have learnt since 2021, in my young adult life.

I think I needed this video and Jessica comes to the rescue❤️...Thank you🙏🏽💞

Jessica your video was a game changer for me thank you! I was about to contact my ex wife but I decided to follow your advice and stay silent. So my ex wife knows that I’m hurt but she can’t feed on my weakness because I just don’t try to get her back or talk about it. I can tell she is already very confused. We are co-parenting our son and I act like the break up means nothing.

Much love from Kenya ❤️❤️❤️so creative and to the point

Wow that's true! Silent is the key of all we face in our life. Thank you very much.

Jessica - you are the best and you speak from your heart - thank you ever so much for helping humanity. God bless.

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

@henryhoward9474

Жыл бұрын

@@HarrisonS. wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

@henryhoward9474

Жыл бұрын

@@HarrisonS. Thank you for this valuable information,i just looked her up now online. impressive

@livenlearn9969

Жыл бұрын

There's lots of women out there that will make you forget her

@jezreelfasa8873

Жыл бұрын

@@livenlearn9969 perfect, more than a billion of em

@husseina.sattar1434

Ай бұрын

Fraudster 😂😂😂😂

Jessica thank you so much. That's what I'm going through right now although she blocked me from all social media. Thanks for this message ❤

This is the only good and effective thing you can do. Also, this video is truly golden and detailed unlike other people who just talk about feelings but no methods are given. Thanks!

My day is going to be 100 times better due to this video. I really appreciate it. Thank you 🙏🏾

This exactly what am doing now and it helps a lot , trust me

I'm very lucky to be watching you for years now, miss Jessica, love from Tanzania and DRC 🇨🇩

This is the most clever and wise woman I’ve ever seen wow

It's my first time listening to ya words and they're just enlightening, this has always been my favorite option whenever am dating just incase things don't go my way,, rather than silence tormenting ya ex it's my best weapon to making sure I can smile after 30mins of a break up,

Depends on the person,silence also means lets both leave it alone.And youre most likely to never get it right.

@waltervictor7368

5 ай бұрын

Let them be ,,, so you will have rest of mind

Like you stated earlier, I really thought I have found the one, it was such a beautiful beginning, at a point she started behaving strange, stopped ignoring my calls, stopped replying my messages. I taught it was all a dream, I taught I won't survive without her, until I decided to work on myself to become a better version of me and today I am gradually getting used to it, recently I unfriend her on Facebook, delete her contact as if I knew this video is coming. Thanks a lot for this enlightenment

@khalilcook3018

Жыл бұрын

Stay strong king you're doing great. Keep pushing. Women are very very fickle and they will lead u on and bullshit you until the very end. ALWAYS remember this, because I'm actually going through something as we speak.... SHE BROKE up with YOU. Her loss, your gain. She'll feel it after some time has gone by. She will most likely contact you if you follow these methods, and when she does, just deal with her for what she is, which is just for a good time 💯💯💯

@tyetr9853

Жыл бұрын

Did she reach out

@teamchang4894

Жыл бұрын

Update?

The title says it all.. focus on yourself, the man is the priority

Silence is the best ever Thanks mumy❤️👍🏾

Thank you Jess. This video is solely mine 💔😭😭😭

Jessica, you are a Diamond! I experimented it in the past and it works so well! Silence is everything!

Thank you Jess... This is happening to me right now, we've been separated for 3 months but staying in the house together and our son.. So she's been searching a place to stay, and I let her be, today she's moving out by all her self.. And so Im gnna start to apply the methods u are sharing with us.... Thank you Jess❤

Wow, I never thought of this facts, this are powerful gems that needs to be kept in a library for further references...

You are so amazing. Thank you for all u do for we the opposite gender. I beg you to talk more on obsession. I am trying so hard to admit I was and finding measure to heal from it and let every moment you discuss with us count.

Auntie Jessica she used me but I moved on, the moment I started watching ur videos it mend me, know am new and focused, thankyou

I absolutely love this. Thank you so much for keeping it real.

Thank you for your advice. Listening to your calm voice has really calmed me down. Wicked appreciate it, subscribed!

Thank you for this video, this is my situation right now

What a stoic sort of philosophy in controlling emotions ... A wow video

Thanks. Just what I needed @ the moment. Great master piece info @ Jess.

This is why I don't want to unsubscribe, love you more❤

You read my mind Mrs Jessica..☺ perfectly doing all these.

My gf just broke up with me and you just healed me

Wow. I needed to hear this. Thankxx Jessica OS

Jessica thank you. I’m from Liberia and have been following your post, but I live in the US , thank for your advice.

Really struggled with my breakup but i did engage the silent treatment it's hard but am getting better each day. Thank you Jessica your advice has proven to me am on the right path

@valerylionel

Жыл бұрын

Same. It’s really hard but trying

@gabrieludensi5072

Жыл бұрын

Should I block her bcus she use to call me,sumtimes I pick sometimes I ignore so shuld I distance her by blocking her

@dyanaworld

Жыл бұрын

Same to me it's hard but am trying

@muziemthundzi2162

Жыл бұрын

I think i fambled i tried so hard to get her back "i hate my self for this

@tyetr9853

Жыл бұрын

Update us

Awesome! It’s been a while since I experienced any breakup as such but some of these tips can help in my marriage! Thanks Jessica. Oh, quick update, I finally posted my first KZread video! 🤠. One day I’ll be like you in the business niche! 🙏🏾

@JessicaOS

Жыл бұрын

Whoop whoop!!! Let's get it

@WilleneBusinessLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

@@JessicaOS 🥳 Thanks much for your motivational words so far. I’m sure there’s many others learning from you too just like myself. I’m definitely getting it!😌

@bilabijoseph5030

Жыл бұрын

@@JessicaOS But Jessica. What if you want to continue having sex with her when she is with her new guy? Wouldn't it be better to keep friends with her so that you can be friends with benefits? So she will be cheating on her new lover with you? Wouldn't the silent treatment and no contact remove every possibility of you still fucking her?

@jamesreadings7352

Жыл бұрын

@Jessica Os you say about the silent treatment I understand that helps but what about if you previously been living together and you have to speak to arrange picking up belongings etc?

You are indeed an Oracle. Your words are really medicinal. I have just regain courage in heart to on. I appreciate you

This video has seriously convinced my just 2days back broken heart Grateful for your sound minded advice 🙏🙏🙏

Yes! I felt so bitterly betrayed and hurt! I never thought i would survive this terrible experience, but I had to move on to suffer silently. Evidently I moved out and moved on with my life, but it was so difficult and sad. I was so silent for years, but i kept myself busy by helping and serving others. Time did not heal my heart until I learned how to forgive, because i had to take control of my emotions and decisions to take back power to live my life in a peaceful manner. Yet today, i find it so hard to trust again. I admit to being insecure in this area. The last time I saw her was at the hospital while she received Chemo Therapy for the cancer, it was the last time I saw her...

@innocentzulu9801

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, and I am in the process of healing while listening to your great lessons..

A very practical approach. 👍

Vintage Jessica. Another masterpiece. You are just super, Jessy.

thanks jessica my ex broke up with me a week ago and i didn't know why so i went looking for answers she totally ignored me for example: my friend who is in her class made a group with us and some other friends and after literally 2 minutes she left without saying a single word, it's Sunday and tomorrow I'll see her at school and I was going to beg to make it up to her but then I saw your video and I think it literally saved my whole social life, thank you so much for that, the "no contact rule" is going to be easy because she blocked me on all social media thanks again!

Your advice is always spot on Jessica. Thank you for your help on this!

YES! Silence!! It's the best tool. I have done this in my past relationships that didn't go well and they always start calling after some days and weeks but because i needed that time to rethink it out, it worked for me. Thanx Jess. whoever doesnt use this tool will definitely fall into that bad relationship again and again.

“I really admire your work ethic.”❤

We appreciate you so much for these videos❤️🙏

Guys trust me this works like a charm…we ended things 5 months ago and so i went dead silent after i told her it was nice getting to know her…she texted me a week ago telling me she missed me💀

It's healing me perfectly

I think this is super helpful advice. And 100% right. I had a tough conversation with myself. I still love her, but i can’t control her feelings. I deserve someone who loves me and wants to build a life together.

Hi there, hope you are well... Your words it's like a great medicine for my pain, however the moment that I am going through now is giving me fuel to go training twice in a day... May Allah bless you

Being silent is very difficult to under go because the temptation to him/her is too high , though one is afraid of time but silence will help, there's a lot of maturity in it. Madam I salute your channel ❤️❤️🇨🇲

Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏾 this validâtes what I’ve been doing already. My ex is always been running after but then proceeds to be disrespectful because I won’t take her back so I blocked her. I KNOW it’s driving her crazy

J Jessica I really love you! You give good advice keep up the good work

Currently going through this Thank you very much. Am implementing right away.

Your advice is priceless. U r a source of inspiration for the guys who r in a failed relationship

To my fellow gents, keep chasing excellence in your ambitions & passions above all else. Be ok & content with what you have whether you've got a special lady in your life or not. Eat well, sleep well, workout regularly & pursue your passions are what I live by.

This is great advice for everyone. Thank you for your videos, Jessica. You are spot on!

Totally agree with you, now I fully understand how to act after break up. ❤❤❤