Do this when she pulls away or acts distant

She's giving you the cold shoulder and you really can't figure out how to get things back to normal between you. It may be time to allow this video to guide you on what to do when she pulls away or acts distant.
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  • @GAMEINGHQ555
    @GAMEINGHQ5552 жыл бұрын

    I honestly dont care about her pulling away anymore i more focused on myself and my goals i want to achieve more than ever right now and making myself happy especially with the short life we live

  • @mubiitoemmanuel3806

    @mubiitoemmanuel3806

    2 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you 🤛🤛

  • @gitvofficial

    @gitvofficial

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are speaking my mind .

  • @christophercrump2485

    @christophercrump2485

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's exactly how I feel.

  • @doncanny680

    @doncanny680

    2 жыл бұрын

    True you doing the right thing bro

  • @davidade7227

    @davidade7227

    2 жыл бұрын

    Preach brother

  • @TheDrugking
    @TheDrugking Жыл бұрын

    My girl is pulling away from me and I won't ask her why.. once a woman is pulling away, that's a sign that she is seeing someone else. So let her be, that's the best solution.

  • @bryangideon7461

    @bryangideon7461

    2 ай бұрын

    Is not always so bro . Please be patience

  • @TheDrugking

    @TheDrugking

    2 ай бұрын

    @@bryangideon7461 women never change so let her be.. start preparing to replace her 🤔

  • @kettlejnr
    @kettlejnr2 жыл бұрын

    Just a little advice, never ever force a woman to say why she keeps mute. Do not bother with a woman who doesn't like to reveal her feelings. Let her be. Those are warning signs of someone with emotional issues. If you don't, you will soon find out the hard way... She would transfer her aggression to you, anything to make you feel like the cause of her problems.... Stay away from moody women....😉😊

  • @alexboat77

    @alexboat77

    2 жыл бұрын

    Best advice bro..took this decision couple of months back and like it's much refreshing🔥🤝🏼

  • @slimcutz2081

    @slimcutz2081

    Жыл бұрын

    🤔💎💯

  • @johnnycaztejon7055

    @johnnycaztejon7055

    Жыл бұрын

    So what you're a man so its easy to manage that

  • @kettlejnr

    @kettlejnr

    Жыл бұрын

    @@johnnycaztejon7055 You are free to spend your time managing moody women. I choose otherwise. There are plenty of mature stress-free women out there. Spend your time wisely.

  • @khalilcook3018

    @khalilcook3018

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts facts facts 💯..was talking to a woman, things were rocking, then nothing. She was texting me everyday, and then, nothing. I reached out to her, and she kept feeding me bullshit. She said she was going through something, but wouldn't get into specifics. Im not a gypsy, I can't read minds. Miss me with the bullshit

  • @focusedallday5620
    @focusedallday5620 Жыл бұрын

    Communication is such an important part of a relationship that if a girl is keeping shut when there is obviously a problem (whether it be about you or not) this is a red flag. Remember, the silent treatment is a manipulation tactic, do not tolerate it. I’d say give her the space she needs until she reaches out to you ready to talk like adults. If she never reaches out, then there’s your answer my friend. Stay Focused!

  • @Wilderness-brothers604

    @Wilderness-brothers604

    Жыл бұрын

    I think you need to have a serious discussion first my friend explain how you feel how it hurts you ask for proof. No like for real ask for proof and if she doesn’t have the proof then she needs to explain why she doesn’t have the proof and explain why does she have that and not the proof second thing any form of gaslighting is not OK my friend so you explain that all to her because you are intelligent enough she does not ask understand you literally in front of her write it down and you hand it to her and then you walk away and then you do yourself a favour and work on yourself my grammar sucks and I use the iPhone to communicate

  • @jermainewilliams4700

    @jermainewilliams4700

    Жыл бұрын

    Great advice

  • @seanm7539

    @seanm7539

    Жыл бұрын

    Truth

  • @onemillionviews3601

    @onemillionviews3601

    Жыл бұрын

    What about if she has your kid,,, will it be fair when i keep shut too?

  • @mohammedoumer1778

    @mohammedoumer1778

    9 ай бұрын

    Exactly bro you say well any relation should be based on respect and equality it is mutualisim so it is not good beging some one who want to leave so let it be never beg!

  • @HoLeeChit11
    @HoLeeChit11 Жыл бұрын

    If she pulls back, do the same. If she’s distanced herself then let. Give her space but if it goes on too long, walk. But, never be rude or lose your temper. Always do it in a civil manner. Nothing pisses her off more than a civil breakup, i.e, why didn’t you fight for her. Believe me, she’ll come crawling back and with so much more respect than before.

  • @brandoncundy5058

    @brandoncundy5058

    3 ай бұрын

    That's where I'm at with it I tried reaching out a lil over a month n maybe 1 wk out that time she would text then she completely stopped she reached out to my mom n not me don't understand it but it would be nice 4 her to return being the vision we shared together but if not I wish all the best

  • @isazaki3056
    @isazaki30562 жыл бұрын

    With my previous encounter and experiences with love. A woman who truly loves you won’t play these games.

  • @boxoffisa

    @boxoffisa

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @miriammensah3386

    @miriammensah3386

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's vice versa,same as men

  • @isazaki3056

    @isazaki3056

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@miriammensah3386 it does work both ways. We just need to stop these games

  • @shadrecknyarumwe3424

    @shadrecknyarumwe3424

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @andredrayton5668

    @andredrayton5668

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very true.

  • @prasannagupchup7887
    @prasannagupchup7887 Жыл бұрын

    If a woman who texts you every day and suddenly stops for no reason, dude it's high time to just forget her! Forever !!

  • @NCODEXMUSIC
    @NCODEXMUSIC2 жыл бұрын

    Life is too short for these mind games, imagine dealing with this childish behavior for years...maybe im seeing it wrong

  • @moetry2513

    @moetry2513

    2 жыл бұрын

    No i don’t think you are. This shit it too much. It shouldn’t be that hard

  • @NCODEXMUSIC

    @NCODEXMUSIC

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@moetry2513 exactly, like damn being alone is better than having this

  • @joelcromwell1607

    @joelcromwell1607

    2 жыл бұрын

    No your not...

  • @felixoyeleke

    @felixoyeleke

    2 жыл бұрын

    Years? Bro, move on!!

  • @kofikena6212

    @kofikena6212

    Жыл бұрын

    And you wouldn’t even know what you’ve done wrong. You can check through your mental list and hit a snag. Nothing comes to mind…..and yet you’re the target of the coldness. She would laugh and joke with friends and relatives and just ignore you. Bro please move on … tough to hear bros …but she doesn’t want you.

  • @MrMoet
    @MrMoet Жыл бұрын

    Pull away and act distant, I’ll DEFINITELY be matching her energy. Especially, if I’ve been solid towards her in many facets. I don’t stand for mistreatment or peculiar behavior from a woman because I know how a high interest woman acts towards me.

  • @boxoffisa
    @boxoffisa2 жыл бұрын

    Hey young men, all these hints are good. I am here to say focus on your vision, goals and let her go. One day she will be back when you have no time. Good day.

  • @amehjoshua3393

    @amehjoshua3393

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @amehjoshua3393

    @amehjoshua3393

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great idea bro

  • @ef_prince

    @ef_prince

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's easy to say

  • @boxoffisa

    @boxoffisa

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ef_prince i used to find it jard when I didn’t have a purpose, goals and vision. Now women come back themselves and I have learnt to say No. Just have a purposeful life, have goals and a vision you can focus on, women won’t be a thing you will cry for.

  • @tatasonfelix
    @tatasonfelix2 жыл бұрын

    Just stay single and have peace. Some women don't like peace. Whatever you do, you get lost and lost. Singleness is not a sad place. It's a safe, sane and peaceful place ✌

  • @skullreaper8115

    @skullreaper8115

    2 жыл бұрын

    Who hurt u.. They finished u

  • @tatasonfelix

    @tatasonfelix

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@skullreaper8115 It will do you good if you stop making assumptions in your life. Again, it will do you good.😊👌👌

  • @webbset

    @webbset

    Жыл бұрын

    @@skullreaper8115 most overrated question , should one be hurt before advise himself from times wasters

  • @1961kickboxer

    @1961kickboxer

    Жыл бұрын

    Don’t do drama queens

  • @knighteffsix6351
    @knighteffsix6351 Жыл бұрын

    It's amazing to me that you got all the way to step 8 and then said 'have some patience'. If you've made it through 7 steps, patience has literally gotten you nowhere. In my view, and I've been married 28 years, if your partner won't open up about the problem and is also still being distant, you don't need anymore patience. You need courage, the courage to leave. A well meaning woman with love for you won't string you out a long time with no answers and no change in behavior. If you tolerate this for long, you will only set the precedent for continued bad behavior from her. Women are different, we all know that. But there is no excuse for lack of effort to make things right. We may not agree on what it takes to make things right. But we must agree to always try. Anything less than that is a betrayal by a selfish woman. 💯

  • @icecoldsincebirth.5530

    @icecoldsincebirth.5530

    Жыл бұрын

    🔥 🔥

  • @iwuvblunts

    @iwuvblunts

    Жыл бұрын

    Those last two sentences ....

  • @chukwudiiwenofu5410
    @chukwudiiwenofu54102 жыл бұрын

    I'm literarily tired myself. Why must it always be the guys that should put in more efforts?. The male gender has a lot of wars to fight already,why does it have to be more complicated?. I've been in this and it's not really a pleasant journey cos it messes one's emotions up especially for a softhearted guy like me. Ladies should learn to speak up, speak for goodness sake!. If she cares about the relationship,she should also put on efforts too... Guys,at some point you should focus on yourself,some of these folks can be so selfish.

  • @ugwuodosamsonchizoba8327

    @ugwuodosamsonchizoba8327

    2 жыл бұрын

    Make more money bro, achieve your goals and other things will be added onto you including her seeking your attention.

  • @tmassillon27

    @tmassillon27

    2 жыл бұрын

    My brother! They think the p××÷÷y and the azz speak for them, they also think another guy who always ask them for their number will always be around. So chose your girl from an institution and run an interview like you were being interviewed for an office position. when they act up u can always bring up that institution.

  • @yusifsesay4803

    @yusifsesay4803

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fact man we also humans n we have feelings too

  • @purityozaha9262

    @purityozaha9262

    2 жыл бұрын

    I learnt to be hard hearted when i noticed they take advatage of your softness, infact whenever she confirms my hard heartedness,I smile inside cos its a result I wanted to know if I am doing well

  • @bluesworld_tv

    @bluesworld_tv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Am agreeing too this thing of ladies is a threatening bug 🐛

  • @centopedia
    @centopedia6 ай бұрын

    We already force too many things in life, relationships and communication shouldn't be among. If I ask her once and she doesn't talk, I let her be. If she continues to give me attitude, I match her energy. Don't stress me. Period!

  • @dollyfranque4766
    @dollyfranque4766 Жыл бұрын

    What people don't realize is for a relationship to work, there has to be some level of honestly and openness. If there is something that's bothering you and you can't share with me, then you obviously don't need me. I walk.... whatever it is, however hard or bad it is, whenever it is there, share it and talk about... Relationships thrive on communication, honesty and openness. once you do this there will be increased confidence and trust in the relationship.

  • @jpetarr

    @jpetarr

    Жыл бұрын

    preach brother

  • @seanm7539

    @seanm7539

    Жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately my girlfriend just said to me I don't want it to seem like I don't enjoy having that time with you because I do. I do appreciate that you care about things like that.

  • @seanm7539

    @seanm7539

    Жыл бұрын

    And then said I’m sorry if it feels like I’m pushing you away I didn’t respond to that portion wtf man

  • @dhreed82

    @dhreed82

    8 ай бұрын

    I have a woman in my life that loves me. We communicate very well. However, she goes in and out of my life. She has been in my life for 23 years. However, she also likes women. But, she always comes to me saying she does not care about them. She recently told me I'm the person she wants to be with. Then, she turns her check to me twice in 2 days, saying she does not kiss anyone on the lips. We even recently talked about having children. We have talked about that before. Now she is saying she won't be my girlfriend. Even though we have been a thing forever. She has said I am hers forever and then recants later. It is very confusing, even for me, a person who teaches people how to be counselors.

  • @mumenguvuze2093
    @mumenguvuze20932 жыл бұрын

    Wow , It happened to me and guess what , I asked questions , travelled to see her , gave her space etc, but I thought she wanted out and could not have the courage to tell me , so to save her all the agony , I left and now ... AM FREE . Never to date or get married . Mid 40s and feeling awesome .

  • @anthonykojointsiful1314
    @anthonykojointsiful13142 жыл бұрын

    Mostly when women act distance, it means there's a competition, there's high possibility they are having another man so she slows down just to observe them both. If you push to know why, she will bring up something she knows you can't do or already trashed issue to create a good room for her distance.

  • @gcinamabaso5698

    @gcinamabaso5698

    2 жыл бұрын

    Accurate bro, I have been in that situation.

  • @nountrending

    @nountrending

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here bro. I have to pull out. I think I've been the one forcing it. She's not into me

  • @padiisaac7194

    @padiisaac7194

    2 жыл бұрын

    Am in the same situation now

  • @Raincity1

    @Raincity1

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@padiisaac7194 I'm going through the same brother 🤣🤣.... But real talk.... If she acts distant....do not chase!!.. do not look desperate!!... Invest all that energy on yourself... ... She's someone else's problem now....

  • @mrwhitexx88

    @mrwhitexx88

    Жыл бұрын

    Dam 😲😳 I think that's what happened to me

  • @stephenjames4937
    @stephenjames49372 жыл бұрын

    If she withholds affection and won't communicate, I am GONE. Life is too short for her mind games. I've put up with too much of that to stay with someone who I probably shouldn't have been with in the first place.

  • @micossathemech3637

    @micossathemech3637

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤜🤛 true that

  • @oliverschulte427

    @oliverschulte427

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m dealing with someone who do mindgames as well and I have the choice between 3. But with her is the connection strongest and I understand why she do this, because she is insecure and don’t want to be hurt. It’s I kind of childish, but if you understand why peoples do what they do it’s much easier to deal with. I enjoy the time with her a lot but must figure out for me if I want that. She really loves me.

  • @nealnhlaxmoya5980

    @nealnhlaxmoya5980

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@oliverschulte427 run brother zip up and run king its not worth it

  • @RicardoLopez-ty4kn

    @RicardoLopez-ty4kn

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nealnhlaxmoya5980 it's definitely not worth it bro. I know for a fact my wife new I was a good guy money and alright looking. I was too nice but stood firm once I brushed it off and and gave her all the love and money bitch played mind games and now I'm going crazy but barely these days I came to realize and accept it's a loss. I'm not going to live the rest of my life. It's miserable run.

  • @vikingfitnesssouthafrica6060
    @vikingfitnesssouthafrica6060 Жыл бұрын

    it hurts a great deal when a woman you care for and was supportive, stop speaking to you for long periods, declines your calls but shows online

  • @whootini1626

    @whootini1626

    11 ай бұрын

    I had that happened to me i told her i was here if she wanted to talk but ended up blocking me but life is too short ill move on ya know ans continue to make myself happy

  • @Cam-gk9ms
    @Cam-gk9ms Жыл бұрын

    This actually worked for me. I made a stupid choice by overstepping a boundary I didn't know about but she asked me for time and she needed space. I told her she was valid in her feelings and that I would respect her space. I made it a point to not contact her for over a week and although I was in my thoughts on the situation, I remained hesitant no matter how much i wanted to message her or call. Up until 4 days ago, she messages me and asked me to join her at Disneyland and I was kind of shocked.. She opened up about her stress at work and with family and how she respected how patient I was with her. She messages me every day again, she calls me, she includes me in her life, it was like that time never happened. She really liked that I didn't overstep even more by calling or reaching out for any contact for that matter. Yesterday, we got together and had an incredible time at Disney and she told me she wants me to be around all the time again how sorry she was for not opening up sooner. Now we're beginning to communicate our boundaries and thats the greatest feeling in the world. Moral of this is, space is IMPORTANT. No matter what situation, I definitely added onto her stress. I've learned a lot just from my situation. Thank you, Jessica!

  • @Omnitrix8
    @Omnitrix82 жыл бұрын

    If she pulls back, you pull back. Checkmate! 😉

  • @danielmuoto7248
    @danielmuoto72482 жыл бұрын

    I totally disagree with you on this; listen brothers! if she goes moody distance, she pulls her s*x affections away and never communicate with you about her issues, brother! she's definitely cheating on you with someone else, she doesn't love you. brothers don't waste your time, don't beg, don't let her manupulate you, brothers! just go quietly, find someone else and never take her back..no time for nonsense mind games 🤷‍♂️ .

  • @alexboat77

    @alexboat77

    2 жыл бұрын

    Defo bro..ain't wasting no further time! 🤝🏼

  • @nnaemekanwachukwu7966

    @nnaemekanwachukwu7966

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think you just made an award winning medal.

  • @greymaterresources

    @greymaterresources

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are a pro......but it goes deeper than these.....find out more please!

  • @7olo0utheretogetit

    @7olo0utheretogetit

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @thehighest1835

    @thehighest1835

    2 жыл бұрын

    Man you said it right,if she keeps doing it just know she just tryna show you the way out Buh you ain’t getting it enough..just don’t waste time,don’t be mumu

  • @VivaLaFamous
    @VivaLaFamous2 жыл бұрын

    OR… she’s distant and pushing you away because there’s someone else in the picture romantically or sexually that you don’t know anything about

  • @chrismccall797

    @chrismccall797

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly what happened to me.

  • @andrewstevens2039

    @andrewstevens2039

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chrismccall797 Same bro hope you guys didn't have any shared assets, I'm living with mine and I'm hoping I can move out before I have to see her going out with the next man. Stay strong

  • @michalopaleny9553

    @michalopaleny9553

    Жыл бұрын

    Ye...

  • @stellaoforiboateng854

    @stellaoforiboateng854

    Жыл бұрын

    The same is happening to me nw I'm trying hard to distance myself n work on myself rather.

  • @cotyclifton4864

    @cotyclifton4864

    Жыл бұрын

    Same with me....I had to kick her out n move forward...she would accuse me of cheating I would let her see my phone...one day she left and change her number I ain't hear from her for 6days...she came back and said she did it cuz she thinks I'm a narcissist n she can't communicate with me....went to counseling....n a month later found out she was talking to her ex who is arrived worh six kids the man who took her virginity....crazy world we live in...but I feel so free mind so clear I feel full of life....I'm enjoying my peace of mind

  • @i_am_sexysavage4962
    @i_am_sexysavage49622 жыл бұрын

    It baffles me why girls can’t just communicate when there is a issue, what I have noticed is that girls tend to take advantage of a good guy once they know the guy is completely in love with them, they torture the guy which is very selfish… it’s a relationship , both partners should put me same effort not just one person trying to figure out what the problem is every time like he has a crystal ball 🔮. Girls respect hard guys a lot and they take advantage of a guy with good heart…

  • @chipomwansa3446

    @chipomwansa3446

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts bro

  • @vnation4443

    @vnation4443

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I'm going through now

  • @kennethcarter65

    @kennethcarter65

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too bro

  • @yusufolamipo3260

    @yusufolamipo3260

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm going through such a torture

  • @onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331

    @onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very bad behavior to experience in relationship

  • @ajibadeodutola9456
    @ajibadeodutola94562 жыл бұрын

    She’s distant because the guy she thought would steal her away from you just used her to play games. Now she’s acting out while you’re trying to figure out what you did wrong.

  • @carltondouglas4997

    @carltondouglas4997

    2 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant

  • @ebiizcompcompany1780

    @ebiizcompcompany1780

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly 💯

  • @wilfridjoseph6172

    @wilfridjoseph6172

    2 жыл бұрын

    Truth

  • @ef_prince

    @ef_prince

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is a difficult truth, hard to bare

  • @alexboat77

    @alexboat77

    2 жыл бұрын

    The reality hits hard..bro🤝🏼

  • @rodneywilliams8007
    @rodneywilliams80072 жыл бұрын

    When a woman distance herself leaving her other half feeling, unwanted, lonely and neglected, could it be that she has met someone who she has developed an emotional connection for as well as a physical attraction and feelings for??

  • @fredschair-heavytalk2683

    @fredschair-heavytalk2683

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes. She had met someone who she feels a connection with. It may very well be temporary but normally when a woman leaves a man she’s ready had the other man around

  • @bonafide_forever

    @bonafide_forever

    Жыл бұрын

    Or she’s going through something that she doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you about. Maybe your relationship isn’t developed enough for her to feel comfortable opening up completely to you. She still could care for you a lot however.

  • @Raincity1
    @Raincity12 жыл бұрын

    I'm a patient dude...so...I'm gonna give her all the galactic space she need... im switching lanes and focusing on my goals, . putting women on pause for now.......... trusting my Gut on this one.. This girl keeping me around as a spare wheel...but in the meantime.... She out looking for better options.... and I don't have the the energy to keep wondering why someone is acting up.... when it comes to women my rule is simple . U either ride with me or walk away

  • @kofikena6212

    @kofikena6212

    Жыл бұрын

    lol a spare wheel

  • @Raincity1

    @Raincity1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kofikena6212 lol yeah we broke up ... trust your instincts mate

  • @bigmike3007
    @bigmike3007 Жыл бұрын

    Just admit what you feel women! A lot of the times they just don’t know if a guy really cares about them and they don’t want to be the one crying in the dark but they definitely would let you cry in the dark with no problem. Trust actions and words and if the guy is trying his best give some credit women we want to feel appreciated as well jeez life is tough already

  • @cjstringfield

    @cjstringfield

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts 💯💯💯

  • @didannn.c
    @didannn.c Жыл бұрын

    I feel it's better to keep quiet... If she never looks for you move on. It's not got to force things if they fall apart especially if you aren't wrong

  • @sameernelson9684
    @sameernelson96842 жыл бұрын

    If a person pulls away for no reason, let them go.

  • @RaysOfLoveChannel
    @RaysOfLoveChannel2 жыл бұрын

    As a relationship channel, I am here to learn some oo. Thank you for sharing Jessica

  • @leobrid8766
    @leobrid87662 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jessica. This is the first time I'm seeing you making judgement from many women paradigms. Truth is that, women do these things too often and it takes a whole lot of stress trying to figure out things. I've done that before, and each time I show care during these times, it grow worse. I'm now focus on my goal and somehow, it's working perfectly well. Women are complicated, I've seen that men don't need to "understand" them. We just have to treat them well and focus on our lives.

  • @seanm7539

    @seanm7539

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes. Concur

  • @musicmuscles8156
    @musicmuscles81562 жыл бұрын

    1. Match her energy/ actions 2. Move on

  • @bonafide_forever

    @bonafide_forever

    Жыл бұрын

    I get it but that’s not always the best option.

  • @jamaicaoutsideadventures5138
    @jamaicaoutsideadventures51382 жыл бұрын

    Jessica's videos are relevant day to day guidelines very helpful

  • @bigapeteejay48
    @bigapeteejay48 Жыл бұрын

    You hit so many great points that I’m dealing within my relationship now I enjoy watching your videos. You’re like my personal counselor for the last two weeks. Thank you from watching your videos I’ve been doing some of the things you say hoping things get better over time I love my girlfriend females are very difficult at times

  • @johnrodgers7670
    @johnrodgers76702 жыл бұрын

    Jescaaa you've been soo helpful to me especially in this 2 weeks

  • @captainkeyboard1007
    @captainkeyboard10072 жыл бұрын

    Your suggestions are very sound. According to Suggestion 6 that suggests "do not share your problems with your mate with third parties," it was one of the marital rules which say, "do not discuss your marital problems with third parties, except to a minister or a marriage counselor." Sharing relationship problems with another person about that the partner is like burning a bridge that cannot be crossed over anymore.

  • @psalms1163
    @psalms11632 жыл бұрын

    Space is best... if she wants you, she will show you and not tell you.

  • @alexboat77
    @alexboat772 жыл бұрын

    Bro..make your move..show that you care, if she still keeps misbehaving with these mind games, jux draw away and make your next move fast. Life is too short.. don't be manipulated by someone's mood swings. She would hv herself to blame if she truly loved you and lose you this way to another woman. Lot of good fishes in the sea. Keep hunting..you not alone🤝🏼

  • @egbereweidaniel2508
    @egbereweidaniel2508 Жыл бұрын

    Ma'am, I've always needed a therapist and I've found one in you. %90 of the things you say reveals my existence (my personality) and I wanna thank you for that!

  • @samuelmutuku9498
    @samuelmutuku94982 жыл бұрын

    Jessica i love your short teachings. Thank you.

  • @magikmic11
    @magikmic112 жыл бұрын

    I really like your approach. You have an calming demeanor. Much respect.

  • @wenzileduma7256
    @wenzileduma72562 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jessica for always enlightening us men. Women are not the first priority or that important in a man's life in such a way that he must focus his all energy worrying about how to please her, what it's important for you as a guy is your purpose and identity, focusing on building your character is one of the fundamental thing you can do for yourself. If your woman shows no interest or has some challenges with chemical imbalance, let her be and focus on bettering yourself then to waste your time bagging another human being to understand that you have an affection for them. me personally i no longer care about how a woman feels about me, that's her business not mine, my priority now is to enjoy myself and be happy with or without another human being. Life is tough these days

  • @raybauger2122

    @raybauger2122

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love you Jessica

  • @alexboat77

    @alexboat77

    2 жыл бұрын

    Perfect🤝🏼

  • @SOGmusik

    @SOGmusik

    2 жыл бұрын

    Best comment ever

  • @churchillmugosero9556

    @churchillmugosero9556

    11 ай бұрын

    good points

  • @effiya_ephya
    @effiya_ephya2 жыл бұрын

    Watched this video twice already, and i must say i'm moved to appreciate the effort and the work. Thank you!

  • @tembamhangami3655
    @tembamhangami36552 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the insightful anatomy of men-women love relationships.

  • @Wisdomkey7
    @Wisdomkey72 жыл бұрын

    If she can't be true to herself to be true to me... I wouldn't waste my time trying to squeeze the truth out of her. She's an adult not a child. I would leave her so she can grow up and develop her personal responsibilities.

  • @ErikisOfficial

    @ErikisOfficial

    Жыл бұрын

    A lot of women are child like and emotionally immature. She may never grow or want to grow. You are correct, leave them be.

  • @Splendidlyrics
    @Splendidlyrics2 жыл бұрын

    Am here to learn... Very informative videos! Thank you Jessica

  • @gracioustalanki8984
    @gracioustalanki89842 жыл бұрын

    This is where I need Jessica

  • @kelvinhooru3918
    @kelvinhooru39182 жыл бұрын

    Keep firing it up Jessi ❣️

  • @dmitryisaev5955
    @dmitryisaev5955 Жыл бұрын

    Well done and delivered! Many thanks!😊

  • @ojimufemi9065
    @ojimufemi90652 жыл бұрын

    Helpful tips now and then. Big ups

  • @bajanlandscapes
    @bajanlandscapes2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jessica.Very helpful. Appreciated 🥰🤗👍

  • @victorayodele2577
    @victorayodele2577 Жыл бұрын

    I love your videos all the time since I stumbled on it online, thanks for educating,more grease to ur elbow

  • @ezrakaunda3208
    @ezrakaunda32082 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Jessica i have benefited from this video

  • @nlmal4
    @nlmal42 жыл бұрын

    Jessica you're amazing 👌🏾

  • @omarmzaham7248
    @omarmzaham72482 жыл бұрын

    Damn girl your voice overs are on point,.. your voice sublime, ill definitely consider reaching you, when i need VO work.

  • @Echoes333
    @Echoes3332 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this, thanks

  • @AMISTYTV
    @AMISTYTV2 жыл бұрын

    I can’t stop watching ur Content 🔥🔥

  • @clarkdavidson1585
    @clarkdavidson15852 жыл бұрын

    Please,did you just spoke to me directly? 🤦‍♂️. Thank you Jessy.

  • @ferdinandaside3438
    @ferdinandaside34382 жыл бұрын

    QUEEN JESSICA i can tell you how much i like this cannel so royal i can't wait coming chana . From 🇸🇷 💥❤

  • @raycoughlan2871
    @raycoughlan28713 ай бұрын

    Best advice coach out there talks 100% sense 👍

  • @salupo4908
    @salupo4908 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jessica is for the motivation, advising vedios,these hv made me strong coz of late coz going through alot

  • @anamhayat2764
    @anamhayat27647 ай бұрын

    Maam you are the best , your words are amazing and have saved my relationship

  • @conradngira893
    @conradngira8932 жыл бұрын

    Great topic Jess

  • @fambaassumani2253
    @fambaassumani22532 жыл бұрын

    You are the best lady in Africa if not in the world. Meaningful advices. Thank you sweetie. Love u. Take care

  • @marvelcooper7632
    @marvelcooper7632 Жыл бұрын

    Hi I really enjoy listening to you and showing me the guild lines of we mens need to do especially when we are doing our all for the one we truly love and want to share our life with I wish all womens can be a good woman like you and maybe we mens want have to go through this hurt and pain

  • @nickmandleberg
    @nickmandleberg8 ай бұрын

    Just wanted to say you are a phenomenal presenter. You have an amazing on-screen presence with excellent delivery and cadence of your words. One of the best I've seen!

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    8 ай бұрын

    Wow, thank you!

  • @zensokriya2250
    @zensokriya22502 жыл бұрын

    Jessica mi rate yuh!!! Had to pause at this point to comment because thank you for pointing out that we’re not telepaths!!!

  • @bismarkkoranteng5484
    @bismarkkoranteng54842 жыл бұрын

    She said I'm behaving like she's my life and that's too bad so I stop talking to her and am now chasing my dreams thanks..

  • @millicentarhin1558

    @millicentarhin1558

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow! That’s selfish of her. It’s good u put yourself first.

  • @emmyjohnson2993

    @emmyjohnson2993

    Жыл бұрын

    Girls are really something

  • @rickandrumtv2505
    @rickandrumtv25052 жыл бұрын

    Here watching and learning

  • @jasonsuffrien414
    @jasonsuffrien414 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you jessica for those tips

  • @jayjayhernandez5073
    @jayjayhernandez50738 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video it's been hard

  • @sklxfrtmuzik6000
    @sklxfrtmuzik60002 жыл бұрын

    Good video points are really good to consider trying my situation is a bit different with my wife we currently life in different countries I live in Jamaica and she lives in the states so we have to use technology to connect for the time but she kinda having this issue for a minute I watch a few of your videos your really help u great love helper thanks alot

  • @mubiitoemmanuel3806
    @mubiitoemmanuel38062 жыл бұрын

    Massive love from Uganda 💚💚

  • @kan2763
    @kan27632 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jessica 😊 You're an expert oo

  • @veritevraie4433
    @veritevraie443311 ай бұрын

    1. It’s ok to ask questions but don’t take her answer “I’m ok” for sincere. 2. Acknowledge the situation. Let her know. 3. Give her space (1 to 3 days). 4. See if the distance is intentional 5. Get the bottom of the issue. 6. Don’t go tell 3rd parties what’s going on. 7. After giving space, have a conversation. 8. Be parient.

  • @philipapollo5185
    @philipapollo51852 жыл бұрын

    More love from Kenya Jessica

  • @malineli3266
    @malineli32662 жыл бұрын

    Have a lovely day Jessica😉🇧🇧

  • @duncan_Gift
    @duncan_Gift2 жыл бұрын

    Jessica nice job ❤️

  • @kennynkalanga3364
    @kennynkalanga33644 ай бұрын

    That was really helpful thanks jes

  • @troyehnisz9907
    @troyehnisz99073 ай бұрын

    I don’t chase or play games if she wants to pull away your relationship doesn’t have much value to her or she is seeing someone else she thinks is better.move on and find someone else

  • @umeakuhenry6514
    @umeakuhenry65142 жыл бұрын

    Well spoken Dr....tnx alot

  • @yusufabdullahi2062
    @yusufabdullahi20622 жыл бұрын

    Once a woman starts behaving strange, my brother leave her and zoom off with your life. She has start seeing another man. I'm no longer a mugu in love anymore. Since the day I stop giving a damn about women, I've skyrocket with myself. Focus on the yourself and see how women will be chasing you.

  • @dreamerthetruthmatters619
    @dreamerthetruthmatters619 Жыл бұрын

    Guys, when a lady starts to distance herself just know that she is cheating on you with another guy who hasn't studied 📚 her bad and inner circle. No worries I will just move on and improve my life than her. I love ❤️ you all who have decided not to allow those wicked genders 🚺 manipulate you or ( us men)

  • @whootini1626

    @whootini1626

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you this helped

  • @oguguafidelis7715
    @oguguafidelis77152 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video

  • @chl7327
    @chl73272 жыл бұрын

    Hi jess you've really calm my heart or else i was abt to give her a call to turn everything down ....

  • @kbfoundation4505
    @kbfoundation45052 жыл бұрын

    Thanx dear right now igive her space😪😪inside my heart too much pain but nothing to do

  • @calebquarcoo3665
    @calebquarcoo36652 жыл бұрын

    Hey Jessica, I love the way you talk. I hope to meet you soon. Maybe you could give me a few tips on public speaking.

  • @destinyuzor8379
    @destinyuzor83792 жыл бұрын

    I love your video so much they help me a lot to build my relationships and am planning to marry her , thank you for your good work

  • @onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331

    @onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations

  • @RobertYoung-qf3po
    @RobertYoung-qf3po3 ай бұрын

    I love u guidelines keep it up will try it i am going true the same thing u talking bout

  • @ronaldmutekanga
    @ronaldmutekanga2 жыл бұрын

    Thank u for this content otherwise me too I fell in love with this content whenever notifn hits turn on thank u

  • @bertrandfossung1216
    @bertrandfossung12162 жыл бұрын

    Great tips Jess. Thanks for always taking out time to enlighten us on what we constantly face in our romantic relationships.

  • @lempiezoangula9552
    @lempiezoangula95522 жыл бұрын

    That great Jessica 👍

  • @brandonholiday31
    @brandonholiday312 жыл бұрын

    Thnx 4 this video it really helped

  • @kabuteymarcus5161
    @kabuteymarcus51612 жыл бұрын

    Such an insightful one. Thanks Jess ☺️🤝

  • @anthonyomukaga3425

    @anthonyomukaga3425

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Jessica iam your fan like your insightful conversations and advice in relationships have some creatical questions iam requesting if I can have achrt with u

  • @chandler5279
    @chandler52792 жыл бұрын

    Women can be complicated and trust me most of thier complications is another man is involved, Men have their own problems already and any woman that wants me to stress myself to understand her is not worth it.

  • @tojusote4896

    @tojusote4896

    Жыл бұрын

    They are not complicated, once u ignore them or stop thinking about them your reasoning will be clear

  • @ruddthebest

    @ruddthebest

    Жыл бұрын

    This is right. If you are just dating it could be : 1) she is also seeing someone else and is not sure of you 2) She is hang up on her ex, and if you guys are moving towards something more serious she may pull back because she is still thinking about her previous relationship and it’s scared. Either way the guy has no faults. Unless you have done something to her like being too needy/clingy or you have cheated on her, it’s best to focus on yourself be silent and forget about her. If she is really interested and wants you she will contact you, if not you have your answer.

  • @Screwednky
    @Screwednky2 жыл бұрын

    This what is getting, it boils down to an extent that some females lack of communication. Communication is the key!

  • @NoDebtButLove
    @NoDebtButLove2 жыл бұрын

    You are officially a Boss Lady when you provide the overtures for your video sponsor. Great work Jessica!

  • @BayouBoy62782
    @BayouBoy627822 жыл бұрын

    This here is the reason why ive got to the point im all about myself and my kids. To hell with these mind games, like people psychics or something. Worry and take care of yourself FIRST, nobody will love you the way you can, learned this the hard way.......

  • @ezrahbakash8935
    @ezrahbakash89352 жыл бұрын

    thanks for your advises