Another big red flag I would like to point out, if u have been dating for months to a year and have not once meet her parents or close friends, DUMP HER. She's trying to avoid cleaning up a mess because she knows you're temporary.

@topthinkug

2 жыл бұрын

Kweli 😂

@tellodelucky6864

2 жыл бұрын

@@topthinkug 🇹🇿

@davec748

2 жыл бұрын

Facts. But there are times when they are embarrassed to introduce but that's on very Rare occasions.

@akeemwhite467

Жыл бұрын

Actually I was dating a girl she is a lawyer her mom is one as well and also her dad and her family is basically high society. She loved me very much but I was just a security guard and if her mother know she was talking to me her mom would flip so she didn’t want to lose me so she kept me a secret from her mom and so on

@makiniwycliffe6106

Жыл бұрын

I agree

Remember a women makes rules for Betas and breaks rules for Alphas.

Guys get money 💰. Be a king of your life. Leave these girls alone, don't be no one's plumber haha

@christianbenn316

2 жыл бұрын

& never be a side guy for them either

@nashiofficial7299

2 жыл бұрын

That's it 👌

@Getbuzy

2 жыл бұрын

Yes that's it

@emmanuelchinedu7937

2 жыл бұрын

Fr fr ❤

@shatycruz5386

2 жыл бұрын

Real talk bro

Saved your time... 1: Going unavailable. 2: She saved your number with different name. 3: Playing hide and seek. 4: She never post you anywhere on social media. 5: She is flirting with every guy.

The 20 dislikes are from girls that are about to be dumped

@stints8018

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@topthinkug

2 жыл бұрын

The rest are boys who dump already 😂😂🤣

I'm 68 yrs old now, and of course as a pensioner I have 3 motorbikes !!! I've had lots of girlfriends but never wanted to get married or have children !!! I have my own place and have 2 dogs !!! I can't stand the stress that women like !!! I have had a wonderful stress free life !!! I have always known that as a man you mean nothing to a woman, and they can have as many men as they want !!! I am happy to leave miserable relationships for the stupid men who see their partner as a Goddess while all the time she's seeing other men while he's working 100 hours a week to buy her everything she wants !!!! In other words, I'm Nobodys Fool !!!!!

@mannytomblesky1440

2 жыл бұрын

I’m 28 right now and have that mindset of never getting married or having children. But I have nothing against women. I date a couple of them, but I just don’t see the point of marriage. I’ll appreciate your honesty, what are the advantages and disadvantages of not getting married and having children. Please answer from your personal experience. Thanks

@spaceted3977

2 жыл бұрын

@@mannytomblesky1440 Disadvantages. You have to work like a slave and pay for everything. Her money is to buy cigarettes and make up !!!! She will get bored with you one day and will refuse to sleep with you. She will cause arguments all the time because women find it exciting !!!! (Just like you might want to fly a jet aeroplane or drive a racing car.) She will almost certainly cheat on you !!! Women don`t have any hobbies and they have a much higher sex drive than men !!!! They tell lies all the time so they will never admit it !!!! You will spend all your spare time decorating the house, because the minute you finish it they want it ripping apart and done all over again. I worked in a horrible factory once, and I said to the worker next to me, Don`t ever worry about going to Hell, You are already Here !!!! He said I like it here !!!! I`m away from the Wife and Kids and I don`t have to decorate the house !!!! Also If she divorces you the courts will take everything and give it to her !!! That`s because the Government don`t want to support her !!!! That`s your job !!! If you get married you will never have any money !!!! You will have a miserable life. If I were you I would ask married men what it`s like, say it must be nice having someone to sleep with every night !!! They will all say You`ve got to be joking !!!!! I haven`t slept with her for years !!!! Advantages. None Really !!!!! My advice. Always use protection. Never get a woman pregnant. Never believe her if she says she loves you !!! She`s likely to dump you the next day !!!! If you don`t get married you can have as many girlfriends as you want, and if you buy your own house nobody can take it away from you unless you let a woman live with you or you buy her lots of stuff !!!! You will be very happy when you are my age and you see the miserable state of all your brain dead married friends, and you will probably have a nice car and a nice house and it`s all yours !!!! When you see a beautiful woman it`s all inside your own head. Your friends may not fancy her much although they would sleep with her if they got the chance !!!!! If you have children you will be relegated to Beneath the cat !!!! You will work, and work, and work and never get any thanks for it !!!! Women think all men work so it`s nothing special and if you spend all your money on them, well you are just a fool !!! Chas and Tyrone would never spend any money on them and the women would jump into bed with them like a shot. Like they say Love is for Fools and Poets. Another thing is when men get old they look like Charles Bronson, when women get old they also look like Charles Bronson !!!!!

@GraceFidel

2 жыл бұрын

Loneliness will advice you 😂

@jerrysamuel7028

Жыл бұрын

I'm going through the last part..

@Santasimplicita

Жыл бұрын

@@spaceted3977 😂😂😂😂

Your video came out 10 months ago and I broke up with a women today I just dated since August last year which will be 10 months thank you for telling me this I found out she was cheating with multiple men while I’d be at work and I was saving to get her a car and to get us a apartment you saved me!

@Blazejones31

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t take her back bro

This woman is one of us. We must protect her

If she is attractive, she is playing many men. She could care less if you leave, she just goes to the next guy.

A woman who plays games on others has no respect for others nor has self respect so never settle with them for they hate accountability

@BK-ip7ie

2 жыл бұрын

thts actually very very true

the game of relationship say that who ever take the relationship serious suffer.

@georgeaidoo3183

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

Flirting with every guy is a major red flag & you gotta dump her for crossing the line

Someone who does not take inbound phone calls is a red flag. Someone who has two phones without good reason is a red flag.

@terryharris367

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely the two phones

I’m 35, I don’t have time for bullshit

And publishing her feelings on Facebook always when encounters relationship challenges...

Here's a rule of thumb that will save you Time, Money, and your Values when it comes to women: Never, ever, take a woman's word for the truth. Hear her with your ears but LISTEN to her with your EYES. Meaning, allow your eyes to observe her actions because a woman action is a direct reflection of her unspoken word. A wise man taught me this years ago, and it has saved me from so much turmoil and headaches with these modern-day women. These women will play you like a fiddle and won't think nothing of it until they've hit that wall for good. Stay woke fellas!

@smiguelbs69

2 жыл бұрын

Jah Rasta Fari

If this held true, the vast majority of women would be dumped in a nanosecond.

Thanks Jessica! This vedio is 100% made for me giving the fact that I'm suffering from all these pointed red flags in a relationship I wish to make a lifetime. However, I'll try to run for my life going forward.

This video has brought insight to me as well. It seems like it’s more than just what a woman does or what a man does, it sounds like a personality type that we all need to be mindful of

@samueldickerson9040

2 жыл бұрын

Ggccghgbhhhhhhghghghhhhhhhbhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh qq!

@topthinkug

2 жыл бұрын

Ladies hhhhh...😏😏😏

@benjaminjohn9033

2 жыл бұрын

Just for men though

@stewoutdoors3020

2 жыл бұрын

Ya girl!

@hudsonbartley2493

2 жыл бұрын

Whatever makes you feel good.

I did - and I will stand alone just because I'm alone doesn't mean I'm lost. I'll love myself first. I won't be second place to her fear, lies, doubts.... Just because I don't have the basic things most people take for granted doesn't mean I have to settle for someone who doesn't respect me.

People ruin good things, I second that

well done! it is exactly what i think. women are intelligent by nature but I think they are short minded as well as not being able to realize who is taking care of her at a certain time.

point no 1 is wayyyy so on point. a girl I was seeing played this game on me always left me on read on weekends and then reply "busy/work overtime" or "hey good morning " on a Mondays. I quickly caught up and never texted her on a Friday. soonest I turned the table on her by only communicating with her once a week on a Tuesday. yeah she didn't liked it but enjoys doing it she was surprised when I finally called it quits when she least expected.

@tmayberry7559

2 жыл бұрын

I got one better than that gf decides to move back home with x husband and kids to help pay bills. Started ghosting me saw her twice a week for maybe 2 hours at a time. Lasted a year like that. Pure hell on my heart

@thanduxolocyril2676

2 жыл бұрын

@@tmayberry7559 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

@pablopablopizzy8152

2 жыл бұрын

Jah bless u fit dween dat

I remember I was saved as "pedestrian" 😔😂😂it hurts though 💯😂😂😂

You know, what help you move on is the blatant disrespect

She is never available when you want her This is a point Jesca

Point 1: if she gone till November, extend her vacation to next April

1. Intermittently unreachable, without any known reason et without letting you know why. 2. She registers you with a fake name (work, plumber, etc). 3. She's playing hide and seek (only available when she needs something). 4. She never posts you on social medias. 5. She's flrting with every guy.

@simonsamjellasamjella1085

2 жыл бұрын

All you people know to talk about is relation

@veritevraie4433

2 жыл бұрын

@@simonsamjellasamjella1085 You learn a bit of English and then come back for posting a comment ?

@simonsamjellasamjella1085

2 жыл бұрын

Foolishness on to talk about nonsense by 50 years you will be unable to talk again

Was in a relationship a whole 6years. And from year 5-6 i experienced all the above took me time to exit but eventually managed to exit twas hectic

spot on damn you are so right and If a woman want you she will do the sacrifice for you. period

TIME STAMP 0:50 Unavailable 2:18 Alias 4:40 Playing Hide and Seek 5:57 She never posts you on social Media 8:13 She flirts with every guy

@christianbenn316

Жыл бұрын

All has a lot of red flags so block delete & say goodbye.

I can relate a lot to #4. She posted on her page for my birthday but said my rock, has never tagged me. Also posts things that clearly seem to be addressed to another guy but says they are for me or for my attention . It will be stuff about exes and not caring and stuff. I’m not stupid and call her out and she has ridiculous answers

@bryanchikumbo4981

2 жыл бұрын

leave her bro

Your Awesome!!! this is 100% true, I experienced this the hard way with my old ex girlfriend about 5 years ago! this devil woman who I dated for 1 1/2 years was just like what your describing ... I was blinded by all the amazing sexy we had but after a year of that, things went sideways and i finally realized she was gaslighting me ... . thanks for posting

🇯🇲 She's not answering or returning calls & only avialable on her timeline. 🚫 Both, modus operandi of a fugitive, incarcerated or on the run from romantic justice.

"Plumber"?! Bloody hell! I ain't no plumber. She's gone.

"certainly you know that it doesn't sound right but you are waiting for confirmation from me right? So there you have it" Its funny how most people look for that confirmation even though deep down we know we are right.

Thank you Jessica. This has come at the right time Iam concidering to break up with my gf. She basically plays all the games mentioned. I'd rather keep my emotions to myself 🥺🥺

God, honestly am a victim, is this relationship is a 3years wasted one. Am gonna move ahead. Thanks so much Jessica and God bless

You better say it My Sista I was willing to give a woman the world and after all we ha discussed and agreed to she still had Games and excuses at the end of the Day so I told her to her face at her job that I'm not doing this anymore in 2022 with and she still had another excuse after I told her it was over smdh,stay 100 and keep teaching these women that still need to be Taught,salute

I totally agree with this....Always good to hear it. Thanks

If she flirts, she then disrespects me. She gets warned, because I love her unconditionally, then dumped like yesterdays garbage. But so far, no. And I don't do it to her either.

@JayG-xq2yt

2 жыл бұрын

Yesterday garbage bro 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@chaucerparks5941

2 жыл бұрын

I can SINCERELY relate..She hasn't realize our relationship end is coming as a result of her actions..✊✌💨🏃

Public comment. No games. Loyalty and respect is vital by trust in words and taught and deeds. Serving the purpose in life. Never waste your time and effort back of person who do not respect your values. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and inspiration with everyone.

people who flirt with every guy they meet can be very annoying at times. this lady was flirting with me right in front of her bf. it was so uncomfortable. and the guy was also quiet looking at us. he didn't say a word. after a while i got close to the guy and whispered, "you are an idiot' into his ears before i left the scene.

@Kingda2_

2 жыл бұрын

Dudeeeeee 😂😂😂😂😭

@tajdyer2803

2 жыл бұрын

😂🤣 I am sorry , I laughed. It is either he is simple or he was bisexual bruh!

Tu so much for this channel Jessica. You're a great asset to this community and great advice. I know what I have to do now.

Very pertinent agruments. There are more: Never willing to spend any money on the partner, complaining a lot, envying other relationships etc...

I really love this lady right here, Jessy keep up the good work

Your advice is a must listen. Thank you for the tips. Keep them coming.

Love that my Queens contributing to keeping the playing field level! Respect🔥!

Always taking point as I'm doing I'm learning at the same time love you Jessica from south Africa

You are straight and real. Always on point. Really love that!

The pause, before Jess drops the word, "dump" is it for me....!Thanks....a great deal...

Good point. Love your perspective. Thank you very much.

Point 2: my name's TEDDY so when she adds the BEAR, we're good to go ... Lol 😂

@kwamebempong9617

2 жыл бұрын

Yhup! My name's JACK but she calls me the RIPPER so we're good!

This woman is saying all the things that I told my ex & she made me seem like a jealous crazy man. Meanwhile, she was getting sticked down by a couple guys behind my back.... 😒

@silverbackmadness9630

2 жыл бұрын

its better to be the side guy .. no headache

@edwardkhatiya4561

2 жыл бұрын

He he he he 😆😆. That phrase though, 'sticked down '.

I swear ur content hits so different thank u for feeding us with knowledge now I’ll be more aware when I get bk in an relationship so I’ll knw what to expect.

Oh my goodness! you are on point this is exactly what my girl has been doing to me I'M OUT!!!

You got it! I suspected this name game shit and called a bitch’s phone when we were changing out. And guess what? She hid the phone and only said . Hey darling your phone is calling me. I asked to see it, but she wouldn’t. That was her red card! I didn’t have to guess anymore if she was a name gamer. Thanks for the heads up Jessy 🙌🏼.

Thanks babe. Found these very insightful

Thanks Jessica, whatever you have said has happened to me.now I intend to help pack her belongings over the weekend because it's when I will be free.a bunch of bigups to you!.

I find Your speech comforting. Nice play with words , synonyms examples , comparisons , etc,

Exactly what you’re saying is exactly what’s happening to me thank you for your advice I’m totally lost for maybe 12 or 13 years of my life thanks so much God bless

Omg! Your pidgin is awesome for real. JOS, you made my day 🌹👍

I just came across you today....good content...good voice...and I love the enthusiasm you put in all this...keeps us viewers wanting more...TRUE DEFINITION OF BEAUTY 🔥🔥🔥🔥

Thank you Jessica for being honest and objective. GOD bless you. 🙏

Focus on yourself and you will meet the right person. Jessica is awesome, spot on !!! I find there is a lot of disloyal manipulative people in relationships. Ive been there done that happy single life without any dishonest people around. Seen every excuse under the book.. Moment I sense something hairline crack thatys it im outta there.

Jessica Jessica you are just giving me hope for life

Thanks for all Jessica👍🙌👌...you are a genius...more grace

Thank you so much...i needed this like two years ago but thanks I've watched it....you've earned my subscription

Thanks Jessica ur saving us lots of fake relationships and time wasting girls. Lots of love and respect from Uganda

Long story short .. all women have a man for different role in her life Dinning , clothing , chatting , A.T.M machine and the main guy

I just like the courage of this host! Well done. Keep them coming. You are a star.

Just discovered your videos and now I'm hooked! Popcorn 🍿 material. Keep em coming!

EXCELLENT VIDEO !!!!! Correct on so many points Especially Flirting, if a woman ever flirts with a man and she's Married or in some Relationship the spreading of her legs isn't far away , it's coming because she doesn't love who she's with only using them.

@spidersense589

2 жыл бұрын

Your are right

That last point is part of the hell am going through. Its funny because when a saved number calls her phone in my presence, she refuses to pick it up, claiming its someone trying to hit on her.. like, Guy! You have the niqqaz name saved in your contact? When that started to bring up an issue between us she had the name deleted so you only get to see the number. And then she still won't pick the call and still claim its a colleague trying to ask her to cover her shift for her.

@kelvinsmith9640

2 жыл бұрын

SimiIar mine is even pregnant ans stiII do this untiI i compIain

Thanks, Jessica, for that great information!

Very good message for us men. Thankyou Jessica xxx

Thanks for the heads-up.

The queen has spoken. On point as usual.

You're absolutely right Madam. I recall my mistakes.. thank you

Big up girl Jessica. I loooove and agree with your catch on relationship matters. Am sober enough to notice these games. Can't tolerate either of these. Thanku and am a keen follower of u

I Thank you for clarification because the stuff you mentioned in this video is exactly what this girl was doing with me. Plus my intuition was telling me that something was wrong about her from the jump. Now that I know the truth, I had no choice but to let her go because I'm a bit older for games like that. There's plenty more good ones out there for me that we both can be on the same level

Hey Jessica .... For some reason I LOVE your Camera Work and Video Editing... Very Professional.

Great Work! You are working in your area of strength Relationships 👏👏

Public comment. Ms Jessica you hit the nail on the head . Fact . Thank you for sharing your knowledge with everyone.

Thank you queen

Just called her phone and I'm stored ATM....... Awurade 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@fcukhataz1

2 жыл бұрын

👀😂😂

@Kingda2_

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💔

@oluwasegunpaulogunkola2605

2 жыл бұрын

That's a good name bro. You are just an ATM to her. She met you at Awujade

@stephenakomdo8370

2 жыл бұрын

Atletico Madrid

@bonnie6065

2 жыл бұрын

😂 lol

Thank u so much Jessica this is an eye opener.

I love the way and how you explain , definitely clear and understandable, thanks much

Am actually a Ghanaian too Jessy. U are truly amazing keep up the good works and God richly bless you for enlightening the men about the mysteries of women and ladies

lots of guys are not aware of these type of games.. hopefully these videos open there eyes

Good one.Best wishes as always.Availability only when something is needed/wanted is perhaps the most common situation.Even happens with some simple friendships.

I am totally in Love with her PRESENCE I WILL ALWAYS WATCH & LISTEN UNTIL THE MIRACLE HAPPEN; BLESS UP ONE LOVE!!!!!

If she goes on and on about her ex all the time... DUMP HER ASAP. There is a VERY good chance she is still meeting up with him for a bit of the old...Hide the sausage.

@marcleroux3426

10 ай бұрын

lmao

Awesome video, Jessica ! I just dumped a girl that was playing high school games with me.

@rollingwithmoore

11 ай бұрын

Congrats

Good analysis Jessica...clear and concise.

Smashing all buttons already!!! Great job Jessica....Kenya's watching...

Trust me all you are saying is true and I am going through that now. All ur saying is very very true.

Jessica u are one of my favorite You Tubers. U rock girl !

Jessica, you are so romatic, simple abd direct person , no time wasting,love that. Continue keeping the fire burning laap

hello Jessica I just want to say you give great advice.i enjoy listening to you keep up the great work