When someone treats you like an option, help them to narrow down their choices by removing yourself from the equation. It's that simple.

@simonkimathi1484

2 жыл бұрын

Yea billy

@mumenguvuze2093

2 жыл бұрын

That is exactly what I did recently ... Am at my happiest . Awesome life

@billydavis1263

2 жыл бұрын

@@mumenguvuze2093 you are the most important person in the world. Hold on to that thought forever!

@1stone379

2 жыл бұрын

Word

@kelvesterwilliams3898

2 жыл бұрын

I don't have a belly

No need beating about the bush. She comes back after rejecting you simply means that she did not manage to get a better option and obviously that you are NOT her first choice. Never let in a woman for whom you're nothing more than a choice by default. She will drop you the day she will come accross someone of her true standards. PERIOD

@mupenziedwin295

2 жыл бұрын

Fact👌👌

@captainkeyboard1007

2 жыл бұрын

That comment is a good warning.

@dominosamuz

2 жыл бұрын

True bro

@anmolpandey6576

2 жыл бұрын

my bro spitting fact

@qimarebruner8356

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

She left you. You leave her. She doesn't respond, you don't either. She doesn't text back, follow no contact rule. You call her, she doesn't answer. Stop calling her. Respect her totally by exactly reciprocating the way she is treating you. Man, this is the way to go. You will never be happier than this.

@khi3v40

Жыл бұрын

No, you mean respect yourself by moving on without wasting energy or saying a word lol

@emmanuelgabrynmoutondoboul2035

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your expertise

@emiwreck194

Жыл бұрын

Let me just try out, cause I'm in deep stress

@alkaullahmediaTz

Жыл бұрын

yuh saidit man. yuh have finish!

@Sam-us8qt

11 ай бұрын

She will always come back to look for you. Because she will get dump by others and she will think of you. What goes around comes around. Remember that. Karma may take time but karma never fail to do it's work. It is just a matter of time she will look for you again.

Remember this: you lived your life before, without her. You ate your food, you played your toy, you enjoyed your youthful without her by your side. So, you can live without her. You dont need her for you to live. You proved that already, a long time ago!

@MAX-E902

18 күн бұрын

Facts bro

“Treat her like a celebrity, she’d treat you like a fan”.

@barakawabuge5285

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha i am not doinf that again

@donellhowell6954

2 жыл бұрын

Deep facts

@frimzprodie465

2 жыл бұрын

Waste

@professahbruno1578

2 жыл бұрын

Wind that back, treat her like a lady as Joe Thomas sang, before you do that though practice karma= treat her like a fan and she will keep on begging for an autograph every time she sees you around!📝

@chubbrockstar187

2 жыл бұрын

Facts!!!!

Reason 6 is the main reason and they find out the grass is not greener on the other side. Most likely they was rejected by the guy they wanted and not realizing she rejected the guy she needed

@terrymitchell4579

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

A lady left me at my worst moment, when I was sick,she was no where to be found, when I got better she started giving me silent treatment, I ignored her. Now after 2 years my life is better and she is trying to do all she can for me to accept her. I made her do some stuff and kicked her to the streets. She was only interested in me for my progress not who I am.

@mirskii2758

2 жыл бұрын

That’s deep my Brother‼️❤️ Keep grinding and growing

@MacLeethal_87

2 жыл бұрын

I know this all to well continue to be be strong my guy

@DejiTalker

Жыл бұрын

Ride on brother

@akasickform

Жыл бұрын

Narcissists do this As soon as they see you as "inferior" (not well in this case) they treat you like trash as their "perfect image" of you is shattered

@ephraimakoto3657

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, brothers. Just do not rely on a woman,s lovebombing phase because it will end in a relationship.

As the society of men let's honour Jessica because she's making a huge impact in our relationship life

@nate4139

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@Sammie551

Жыл бұрын

And those men who disagree with her watch the whole video lol

@matamboshula1527

Жыл бұрын

Very true

@lawrencejor277

Жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@GreeneChakra

Жыл бұрын

Yesss

TO be honest it’s better for us men to be single and work on ourselves. Woman these days will leave as soon as she feels she has other options. Once those options run dry she come running back

@kabysummit5801

Жыл бұрын

In the West yes that’s how it is

@sayitloudblcknproud

Жыл бұрын

Funny, that's how women feel about men. Men will leave a long term relationship, even after telling their girl that she's the love of their life and promising marriage, just because they found new tail.

@royaltykonceptz

Жыл бұрын

@@kabysummit5801 this happened to me from a girl from Russia...it's everywhere!!!

@orian3131

Жыл бұрын

@@sayitloudblcknproud nah. You got it wrong. More than likely a man will stay in a relationship even if he is unhappy especially if he has kids with said woman. Plus if a man cheats it literally means nothing. He still loves his girl. But when a woman cheats. It means everything bc women form an emotional connection way b4 the sex happens

@tim46153

Жыл бұрын

Quite horrible human beings it’s seems they are a lot of the time. Unfortunately a sign of the modern social media times 😩

My friend told me to never take someone who never chose me the first time. Someone who comes to you after rejecting you the first time. You are special. NEVER GIVE SECOND CHANCES.

@robertsmith4714

2 жыл бұрын

That happened to me before and I take one week..and that's the worst thing I ever did in my life

@annotatedmedicaltutorials858

2 жыл бұрын

@@robertsmith4714 me too i will never do it again

@audreylewis965

2 жыл бұрын

Its true. I see it all the time.

@stefbaws

2 жыл бұрын

That's just means you were never her first choice neither on the second chance

@robertsmith4714

2 жыл бұрын

@@stefbaws she want me to be her choice now.be she find out that I live over seas and doingwell not likeI wasn't doing well then but now I'm doingbetter...that could never work no way

If she leaves for distance... She is gone forever.

Distance always gives time to reflect for both parties…

If she comes back it might simply be because she hasn't found any better options out there. Never forget she let you down once because she is more than likely to repeat that again for whatever reason. Stay focus brothers #TeamAlpha🐺

@dj29550

2 жыл бұрын

On god hold them the same way they hold us

@dripgeng5554

2 жыл бұрын

Facts #

@baldealpha0997

2 жыл бұрын

@@dripgeng5554 'preciate your support bro

@baldealpha0997

2 жыл бұрын

@@dj29550 Sure know what to say bruh👍

@addnel2000

2 жыл бұрын

Can you just eat her and dump her?

When a woman distant her self from you Please use that moment wisely, focused on your self put your happiness first heal your self. Correct your self from all’s your mistake You had with her your past Relationship.work your life back up, believe me you will see different they will know you the master Mind.

I was rejected twice by the same woman. The first time was a warning. I didn’t see it. The second time is a lesson. There will not be a third…

@tyetr9853

Жыл бұрын

Give us some details, tell us the story.

@lawofthesun

Жыл бұрын

Don’t chase a woman!!!!

@keysl

3 сағат бұрын

In my case it was 3 times. I vow to myself there will be no 4th time. I was a simp yes but not anymore.

In my experience, women often come back because they miss the power they had over you. My advice to any guy in this situation would be to move on without them. There’s no better feeling than finding happiness elsewhere, with someone who genuinely appreciates you, and leaving those who rejected you behind. It’s not uncommon for them to reach out via text or social media as well, trying to pry themselves back into your life, but you gotta let them know that ship has sailed. Don’t waste your time with these women.

@tadmira127dreamuvtadmir2

Жыл бұрын

It's been 8 months and my boyfriend's ex keeps looking for him and calling him, I've already gotten married from that situation and well yesterday we broke up because I'm tired of that girl being everywhere, he says he told her not to look for her and that he doesn't want anything with her anymore but I don't understand how an older woman like that can't understand the word no, in the end my relationship is over because he isn't able to put a stop to it, surely he still wants her in his life, I preferred get out of that shit, cause you ain't giving me my spot.

@JChristo1984

Жыл бұрын

Well said. My ex was dating a guy for a month before she even told me. Just kept blowing me off, even after saying she wanted to get together. Flat out lied bold face to me. In our last conversation, she told me she loves me, but is not in love with me. I said it's lady's choice, and told her I'm out. Haven't heard from her since and I am pretty sure she moved in with her new BF's house. If she was my friend, why would she lie? My hope is we never see each other again. It's difficult because I had no idea, but people don't do that to people they care about. We were together for 8 years. She just vanished. Oh well. If she would have been honest, there was a chance we could have been friends. We have known each other since 5th grade. Such disrespect. It's appalling.

@trvgbeatz

Жыл бұрын

True

@geelove44

Жыл бұрын

👌🏾💯

@edwinhernandez5581

Жыл бұрын

I AGREE A 1000%

Most of the time she coming back cos the guy she has genuine interest for dropped her and you are just the second option.. don't take her back

@jriches957

Жыл бұрын

You re right why don’t you just use her and non serious ? Lol 😂

@JuanGonzalez-lk6uu

Ай бұрын

Do you have facts to support that claim? Or just talking from experience??

@jeffreyexposito3803

9 күн бұрын

@@JuanGonzalez-lk6uu She comes back because she was dumped by her rebound guy and wants you to be the back up guy. That's the main reason.

God only knows how much I have fallen for the "I missed you" trap 😂😂😂😂😂

@nshomjoel7543

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@rl3656

Жыл бұрын

😂😂 havnt we all

@ndahemeka7741

Жыл бұрын

We have all😂😂💔. We need to cleanse ourselves

@enobongobong2728

Ай бұрын

It's probably funny but we always find a way back

For a woman to truthfully tell us about the ways of women speaks volumes. That means they are well aware of their tactics

"Kick her to the Curb" You made my day, thanks Jessica.

"Scarcity creates value".

@andrewokuni7487

2 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't call it value. Women just want to eat their cake and have it.

@hermanlucaslucas846

Жыл бұрын

@@andrewokuni7487 true that you might have cubic zirconium

@gabrieludensi5072

Жыл бұрын

Wow thats cute word from Jessica,I ve a girl dat I really love so much and was planing to end up wit her,I just travel for two months and she mess up and I came bck and notice and was able to forgive her but her attitude was nothing to write about but this girl has become part of me and am still battling to let her off from my hrt.

@some3sharks

20 күн бұрын

Always 💯💯💯

As soon as you focus on your life purpose/ambition she will want to feel like she's important enough to distract you from it; if you let her distract you, she'd tell you, you should have stayed focused on your purpose. The answer is, just focused on yourself anyways

This woman is smart, whatever she says is true and beneficial, women love attention and validation... If they don't get it they feel empty...

Hi Jessica, I have a feeling that women happen to be the most selfish people I have ever seen. Imagine as a man, I'm chasing goals for us, so that we two get better especially financially. Then, she starts complicating life, wants to be chased and pampered like babies. Come on, love should be considerate of our life dreams together, not passing all the time pampering someone. Time waits for no one. Let's focus on our goals and as well as love each other genuinely.💞

@morkakenneth4737

Жыл бұрын

Fact… Bless you bro

The best big sister ever with so much wisdom and insight....not only do i become better for relationships whenever I listen to you, I so become a better person with your teachings. Thank you love you big sister ❤️

@edwinomweri

2 жыл бұрын

I felt the same when she whispered...you know what she whispered 😅

@JessicaOS

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@salah3339

2 жыл бұрын

I watch a videos regularly now

@pave_waywiz8869

2 жыл бұрын

JESSICA why did you quite CitiFm ?

@theodorebennefield2030

2 жыл бұрын

Hold on bruh. Jessica is NOT "big."

Like she said if the only thing someone is interested in doing is keeping the flame from dying but doesn't want a relationship then more than likely they are surrounding themselves with other flames too. Just remember they may love collecting all that warmth and bright light from those flames now, but eventually the only thing that's going to do is cause their house to burn down.

This last girl I used to date was very attractive, and she told me a few stories of guys who would become obsessed over her , even to the extreme that some guy went to her house and started yelling at her from outside because she had dumped him. I told her then that I was not that kind of guy. Shortly after she tried to friendzone me. I validated her decision of not seeing me anymore, and refused to be friends with her. She insisted and I said it's better to part ways. She then said she would still "say hello" if she ever saw me in the neighborhood. Fellas, don't be that crazy stalker that chases her around. Take your L with dignity, move on QUICKLY, and carry on with your life as if nothing happened. Yeah it sucks to be rejected, but it sucks more betraying yourself by agreeing to do something you don't want. Having that clarity of what you want is key. Do not ever settle for less. Thank you Jessica , your content is PURE GOLD,.

@oganebu

8 ай бұрын

I hate wen a lady tells me let’s be freinds,how do you tell a 38 year old man to keep female freinds up and down?later they’ll say men are scum and men don’t stay one place!

Hard to find a good woman. You must dominate her totally. Even the good woman are bad. Don't be afraid to leave her instantly. Be the alpha

I will never give them a chance. Once an abusive person. Most likely always an abusive person. They left you every for less. Your job is not to redeem them but, for them never to do it again. Learning is a self taught lesson hardest to do but, best for you future.

know your worth, fellas. focus on you. and like from that one video I recently saw says, "you don't deserve someone who comes back, you deserve someone who never leaves."

When a woman gets distance one of many men she was seeing while she was with you gathered her attention more. When she comes back,the grass on the other side wasn’t as green as she thought!

There's a lot one can achieve in life than chasing who doesn't want you. I tried that twice at 18 and 19 and learnt that early to never chase.

@1stone379

2 жыл бұрын

Things get VVVVEEEERY INTERESTING in the work place when a women you were light-weight flirting with (because she opened the door to see if she still has that type of pull) catches another good looking woman trying to flirt with you in her face 😂😂😂 The aftermath is freakin hiiiiilarious

@FNC84

Жыл бұрын

@@1stone379bad man 😂😂

She comes back because you loved her and she tried to get your love from somebody else but the probably with that is the way you love and another man loves is different

I will cherish this channel…the men in my family always taught us to chase money…because you’ll lose money chasing women but you’ll NEVER lose women chasing money💪🏾💯

@raphealnelson5551

2 жыл бұрын

I’m good but thank you…I don’t want her back I just move on and constantly progress with no distraction…I’m actually glad we split now I have a peace of mind

The way your thoughts transform into fluent words of exact description is so phenomenal. Well done.

Let them go. Hit the gym. Become a 2.0 version of yourself. Become physically and mentally stronger and I promise you, she’ll take notice one day and beg to come back but we never take them. Never be plan b. Move on with your life soldiers. My 10 year relationship ended and she went with someone practically straight away, all these new friends. It’s skin deep nonsense. She’ll regret it, it’s a matter of time. My pain is in the past. It’s me time and I’ve let her go. The grass isn’t greener babe but it’s too late for you.

You read my mind at point #8 when you said jealousy a woman hates to see a man at his very best and not be apart of it that's something I see a lot with most women 💯💯💯

@georgeagu7388

2 жыл бұрын

She nailed that one

@toddbr5959

2 жыл бұрын

Most of them are like that! From my prospective that's a toxic behaviour! They want us to like them even when they are at they're lowest but when we are at our lowest they dump us! Double standards i see.

@kennethletterlou3451

2 жыл бұрын

@@toddbr5959 i agree its definitely a toxic behavior trait fr

@mray9305

2 жыл бұрын

Women will project and put you down for having a nice car, clothes and job. Especially if it means they need to compete with other women or they can not do it for thenslves

You always answer my questions ..... when ever I don't have answers to life questions you always seem to post videos at the right time .... thank you very much u are a real Blessing

Your videos have been of immense help to me... I have started the road to recovering myself and focusing on the things that matter: myself, my goals, my future... Thank you so much. I deleted so many contacts that were of NO benefit at all to me. Still more contacts to go

Jessica, you just saved a life, almost all you said, was my experience with my ex.. I am grateful, thank you so much... Indeed knowledge is power

I think you speak the most truth out of any relationship guru on youtube.

Fellas please don’t take her back when she comes back.. Why? She literally playing games with you and giving you mixed signals when things should be straightforward..

I keep seeing all of these 1) She couldn’t find someone better 2) don’t give her a second chance These are all so negative. Sometimes a woman just needs space to contemplate the relationship, feel big feelings, feel your absence and realize how much she values about the relationship to continue it. Peoples minds jump straight to negative

@howtosnatch

Жыл бұрын

This is what the world needs more of.

@thegreatxander7

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for not being negative.

@shannonjackson3470

Жыл бұрын

💯💯🔥

@mzeimagida8364

8 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@SentilongJamir777

Ай бұрын

Sometimes they leave because the guy became comfortable in his own space and lost his path 😞 we need to self reflect and become a better version and when the time is right if she or he was for you God will bring you two together. Sometimes all we need in life is to self reflect and change for better. Thanks for the postive comment.

I have to thank you. Your videos help me just stay away and not fall back into BS w my ex. I walked away from inconsistency, games, silent treatment and it always being turned on me. I've taken this energy and put it all into bettering myself. I told her you said she's no good. Lol

Thanks Jessica for the advice I was in the same situation a couple years ago,and I just cut her off because all she was doing is used up my energy and time.

I was pondering some of these questions about a year ago based upon an experience I had at the time so hearing your perspective is so refreshing and enlightening. Thanks Jessica much love!

@coldonecold4384

2 жыл бұрын

Lol wicth probably 🤣 😅 😂

I've watched every break up video on KZread now that I am going through my most painful breakup and yours are the only one that have made me feel better! You've indirectly reminded me that I don't need to chase her and that if we dont make things work then life will be okay without her. Thankyou

Jessica, I can't appreciate you enough. I was almost crying to this. But you're really helping lots out there. I bless the day I found you. Thank you so much for your invaluable pieces. You need to be awarded in the hall of fame for all the males out here.

I've been following your videos quietly for a long while and I must confess that you good and always improving at what you do best. I appreciate your impact. Keep you the good work.

Nice, no one could have put it down better than you. Excellent points. Keep up the great work

Women are so full of it, this is what this video confirms to me. Something that I already knew.

The sprinkle holy water part got me😂😂😂…Jessica you’re the best. Much love Jess❤️

Jessica, it appears to me that you are highly inspired in all these sensitive topics. You always strike the nail on the head. I can always relate to your topics. Thanks

I love how you articulate your words and composure. Straight from kenya one love

@davidwaiganjo5343

2 жыл бұрын

Tuko wengi huku

Dear Jessica..... This is by far one of the best videos I've watched. I have watched it over and over again and it has really been helpful. Thank You.

"If someone can walk away from you, let them walk." T.D.Jakes

Completely level headed & honest. Jessica you've cut all the BS & driven straight to the point. You're leadership material. Way to go ✌️👍👏👌

@dwightdaniels3283

2 жыл бұрын

That's for sure 💯

The “kick her to the curve” whisper and witch/witchcraft. Sprinkle Holy Water on you are pure comedy 😂😂😂

I've been in some horrible situations recently and one of my friends send this to me, thanks for being so genuine and knowledgeful you words really got a way to my heart ❤❤

phenomenal, absolutely phenomenal. please make more videos. don't stop. you're the older sister I need.

I'm going through something similar. Thank you for your insight!

Thank you Jessica! This video really hit me deep

Queen Jessica blesses us with that holy knowledge once again!! Thank you Queen!

All of her single/cheating friends are starting to settle down and not pulling her out to clubs or parties and you’ve improved without her. Grass is definitely not greener.😉😁

Awesome vid and you’re definitely right about the last one. They loved being chased and get a thrill out of it. Deserves a ton of views💯

You are amazing. Thank you for mentioning that a woman who doesn't want you and doesn't want you to move on with someone is a witch. You are the best Jessica. 👌 I learn a lot from you and continue this ministry to us.

Straight forward and makes sense!! Good one Jessica!!

God bless the parents of Jessica Os, you have been such a blessing to this world.

This sounded like me alot. I kept chasing this girl, being too available and she literally dissed me. Now that I found my grip and gave her the cold shoulder, she works 110% trying to figure out how did I get myself out of her yoke.

@s3k3tv8

2 жыл бұрын

lol, i laughed at yoke

@claudecontour9277

2 жыл бұрын

@@s3k3tv8 almost literally 😂

@edwardsamilee2330

Жыл бұрын

A girl left me because I didn't have a job back then.She also got a kid but separated with the husband because they got married since she "accidentally" got pregnant.. years down the line she comes back with a kid and wants me back because things got tougher on the streets.She knows I have a good job and I am single. Hahahaha. I turned her down and her response was that I am mean just because I refused to take her back. She is now feeling the heat.The hunter now becomes the hunted.

@moonbear9035

Жыл бұрын

@@edwardsamilee2330 She’s for the streets lmao. good job

I only follow 2 KZread pages... This one of them and my favorite one. Thank you for this... Reinforcing what I've been thinking and feeling. Much love!

You always speak the truth and that's why I appreciate you Jessica

stumbled upon your channel and im pretty amazed, hearing this stuff from womans perspective adds to it. you go girl and thank you

Thank you Jesse. You definitely don't realise how positively you are impacting our lifes. You are indeed a blessing to our generation.

@JessicaOS

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you!

@marvinbruce9328

2 жыл бұрын

She deserves an award, on a serious note!!

Big Jessy I am short of words to say truly. To be honest I started listening to you some few month ago in this year and each and every words I hear you say do works a lot of magic in my life. This particular episode of yours is mind blowing it really got me moving on now and working on myself for the future to come. Yes I agree the part you did talk about a Lady who does not have your interest but still they will not want to see you with another person that is witch craft like you said.... Thank you Jessy for your motivational words they have really help me a lot and am ready to move on to become a Better a person. Thanks a lot Jessy and I am also a proud Nigeria I love everything about my African... Do have a wonderful year Beautiful Jessy with much love from Nigeria.

I’m about to tell her too Jess said she no bueno I needed this clarity so much help new here and I’m already loving it

Everyone has options. Even ugly peoples. You just gotta realize your blessings. Some people hate blessings. Even people who has it all can miss out on a blessing. Options people. Always keep that abroad.

@onceagaindc

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Everyone wants to hear what they want to hear...

I'm actually going to add that to my repertoire. "Jessica said you're no good." I love it.

What you say, point by point, is spot on.

Jessica you're a legend.💯 Thank You for what you're doing..🙏

This lady is so on point. 👍🏾. Me being a man I have had this happen to me at least 3 times in my life. Couldn't figure out why they would wanna come back after I moved on.

@datstovey

Жыл бұрын

Crazy right, happened to me twice.

This is also a good advice to us women. My ex boyfriend broke up with me because he said that we can't be together in reality. And aside from that I gave him too much of my time and attentions which is didn't reciprocate at all. When I stopped talking to him after 2 months, he came back and asking me too much questions. He asked me to meet him but I rejected it because I'm still not getting over him. Thank you Jessica, love your channel❤

Lovely and powerful message. God bless you for advising us

Thank You Jessica Os. You are a True Gem!!!

Powerful advice that points out to me because I am in this process of taking my distance from a woman. Thank you to refresh my mind with your advice.

@pacybone

2 жыл бұрын

Abuya kelly ole niyen. Thief

I agree with you this time. I dropped them fast! I couldn't find myself chasing a woman these days. I think it's about 5-10 women out of a million deserve to be chase.

@1stone379

2 жыл бұрын

A lot are good at putting on an image of "desirability" and doing major things. The reality is really an illusion. A lot really ain't shit 😂😂😂. Just "decent looking" substanceless gashes.. 😬 REAL Ladies please stand!

Spot on! I've seen these very same characteristics displayed in a particular individual with whom I once dated. That is why I stepped off -and kept it moving!! I knew,know and realized my sf -worth very early on. My father(R.I.P.) always instilled in me to never chase any woman. And I don't....💯🖐🏿

I’m literally only watching this because of you😍 there’s guys that do this and honestly I feel like it’s honest and straight forward and it coming from a woman gives me a better understanding than hearing this from the guys

Give her the break up she asked for .It’s that simple.Chasing a woman give her validation and when you take it away she runs back

I have been watching your videos for a few a days now and I have to say I have learned more in three days than in three years. You seem to have an old soul because of the wisdom that you provide. Also, it's a pleasure hearing from a woman giving relationship advise to men. Your perspective is refreshing and unique. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

sending just love and appreciation to you for all the content from South Africa

Ms Jessica you be spot on with the vids everyone on them ! Every guy should be following you ! I recently had a chick that literally fit every number you mentioned in this vid. I let her crash with me I was digging her.. until I found text messages in her phone from her ex, some alarm had went off I went to turn it off and BOOM.. never trusted her again . Luckily I smart and I knew/know all this free knowledge ur putting out but ur so right.. ESPECIALLY that last one !!!!! Keep it coming. I'm here for it !!!!

Great advice and excellent assessment

My ex left me 😩 I moved to a different city which is 3 hours from her. She used to call my phone every day to curse me out. We have two kids and I said to her don’t call my phone for her personal issues just call me for my kids! She puts me in Childsupport and I pay every month 💯💯 . She sent me photos and videos of her and her man together’s kissing. I still don’t mind even though I loved her. After almost 2 years of breaking up she has the nerve to call my phone to ask me to come back in her life. 😩😩 I politely said to her if she keeps calling my phone about this crap I’ll call her in court to make her stay in her lane because some people are enjoying hurting others to please their short breath of pleasure. She left me with $3000 now my net worth is almost $1M in less than 2 years.

@atenanimism4362

2 жыл бұрын

If she's harassing you with photos, I would use that towards getting full custody, especially if them dudes ain't no good

@mikeike3621

2 жыл бұрын

I just pay my child support every month and move on I don’t pay Her no mind.

@denisgitau7120

2 жыл бұрын

How did you make that amount of money?

Thanks Jessica. Beauty, intellect, wisdom. Love your thoughts and insights. Very educative psychology and beneficial.

Jessica Os, you are the BEST. Keep up the good work.

I keep sayin it, I love this black woman! She extremely knowledgeable and so non biased. Oh yes I must confess that Jess is the best and all the rest is no contest. I wish you much continued success. May you be blessed with many more happy healthy prosperous and successful years ahead. Much respect.

Thank you Jessica. The more I watch your video’s I feel that I have made the right decision to walk away from this person who is constantly taking advantage of me.

Thank you Jessica for your video message . It helped me very much. I got alot out of this video . Iam very grateful that you are helping us men out here Kevin xxx

I knew it was something different about you. You’re anointed.

I needed this. Helped me understand my baby mother a little more....you explained it perfectly. Thanks for giving the sauce out lol you real for helping us men out like this. 🙌🏼

@buravan1512

2 жыл бұрын

why make a CHILD with a Woman, that you dont know?

@deadlypoet3514

2 жыл бұрын

@@buravan1512 many reasons, here are some 1. Blame it on the alcohol, 2. Drugs 3. Condom troubles 4. Pull-out game is weak 5. She got that ushy gushy pu55y"😂 6. She thought /believes that by having your baby now you must be with her.......

@erinmerlot8826

2 жыл бұрын

It happens please understand it happens I made a child with one girl we would have got it for a year my mistake on that right cuz it didn't work out and did end terribly. My second baby mother was actually a woman I was with for 11 years total 8 years boyfriend and girlfriend 3 years married. At the 8-year Mark all her family was asking us to have a child and all that nonsense but I'm going to say this you never really know someone until you have live with them for at least 5 years. And to be honest when a child is brought into the picture women go through hormonal changes and then they think about everything they went wrong in a relationship once they lose their weight after the baby a lot of them feel renewed sense of sexuality and want to experiment and explore so when there is rigors and turbulence of that nature the man and woman can grow apart exponentially fast. It's sad but I've seen it from personal experience and I fought for my marriage but hey can't do anything about their (your spouse) personal decision they're free right

@megwasugoakukoiro-moonligh6387

Жыл бұрын

@@erinmerlot8826 you explained it better! a man may stay for old time sake, for kids sake, for sympathy sake etc! but woman ? nothing stops her from moving to that next level she is looking up to! i had a girl like that who left a super long time boy friend for me- she said a lot of nice things about the guy, then i suddenly asked her why she left the guy who has suffered, cared and spent so much on her, she said she suddely saw a chance to move to a newer hight! i pinched myself! i knew oneday it ll be my turn , and as she got to another better level, she left me too! i did nt cry much because i was warned !