Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

@kennedyeprosper4868

Жыл бұрын

What do I do,I have a Kid with a big manipulator, currently I moved out of my rented apartment for her,she has children before we started and she also lied about her age, emotionally, physically and financially I have invested on the relationship, discovering all these on my own am losing it,what do I do😭😭😭😭

@kennedyeprosper4868

Жыл бұрын

Am 25,but it seems she's close to 40 she lied about her age, almost everything!!

@ahiaduchris2645

Жыл бұрын

I Just Love You Soo Much. God bless you for us

@z8nethelabel476

Жыл бұрын

What about she call you a next man’s name?? 😓

@sundaymuchika763

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the eye opener

As a woman this is teaching me to do better in my relationship and be mindful of my actions. Thank you

@philipphilip1144

Жыл бұрын

Good disposition

@samuelbennett6981

Жыл бұрын

This message is to recognize your contribution to the team’s tracking and spying success. Your commitment had been exemplary and your hard working is an inspiration to everyone around you. You’re a professional *johnsonspy*

@samuelbennett6981

Жыл бұрын

Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities

@fadhilikyalo2572

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@kennethgithinji5631

Жыл бұрын

Quick question. Can the manipulation be also sub-concious most of the time

Great channel and very useful recommendation, many thanks for your efforts, may i ask when setting up the mirroring device you mentioned that it has to use the same Apple ID Account (child one), but does it need the same SIM card and number ? i.e. i have to set up the two devices one after the other using same Apple ID, SIM card then do the recommended setting changes thanks *JOHNSON SPY* for the phone spying

@Jessica_OS12

Жыл бұрын

Can't stop appreciating *Johnson* for putting an end my sleepless night. Finally i can read my husband msgs without him knowing. Thanks for the great service

I was badly manipulated emotionally and financially by the first woman i love! This will create a complex towards women, and honestly a lot of this are true! I was stupidly loving , innocent and honest! And i’m a pessimist mostly! These things reassure my pessimism!!

Second wife very manipulating an extremely pleasant with it. on my side was 23 years of experience with her. Year two of marriage I knew what she was doing and told her it was not needed but to talk to me. When she didn’t talk I decided that enough was enough. She became violent even tried to get me arrested. Had an order to keep me out of my own home. Divorced in April 2016. Have built n improve myself since. Love yourself enough to say no without hurting them (emotionally) if you can. She still tried to manipulate her way into getting part of my tax refunds after more than a year apart. Some are extremely violent and deadly when they can not get their way. 🌷

The "Silent Treatment" is also a manipulative tactic.

I was once controlled but then i learnt to value my self and moved on, thankyou Jessica

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

🙌

@JohnHarrison-on1yu

8 ай бұрын

Thank you I wi don't want to but I will

Jessica, I have experienced fellow pastors encourage wives to use the very tactics on their husbands. Thank you for this clarity.

Never have I come here & left uninformed ♥️🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

This makes me think that getting into any relationship with a woman means entering into a power struggle.

@jockamofeno7632

Жыл бұрын

It also makes me think that I should never take anything any woman says at face value. Sort of like if I hired a felon to help me with my business.

@CyberPunkBadGuy

Жыл бұрын

Its almost like its because it is those things.

@dennisrobinson8008

Жыл бұрын

@@jockamofeno7632 A "no trust" situation

@cloverfield2723

Жыл бұрын

That’s how it is…

@spiritphingaz_

Жыл бұрын

There'll always be that power struggle but a man has gotta be a man

I needed it! Thanks Jess🙏🏽

Top 7 Baby!.. Jess keeps it real..No BS here..the truth and nothing but the truth..She cares about her subbys..God Bless You for spreading the knowledge..most appreciated my friend. Enjoy your weekend. 🙏. Lets get this lady to 100,000 and beyond subs..she deserves it..

You’re almost at Judge Toler’s level. Keep sending these videos. I’m getting medicine from every video. 🙏🏽

They have been dealing with us, thank ma’am for all these revelations.

This is exactly what is happening to me now. Thanks for your advice. God bless you

Your explanations are flowing and excellent, thank you

A lot of good information here. Thank you for posting!

I needed this particular one all along....great job Jessy...Nigeria

Good morning. Thanks for your insight and knowledge . I'm in a relationship that I'm not sure what is going on. These tips help me to identify some things I didn't understand. You are a blessing.

Jess is always on point. Insightful! 💯

Ever since I started following this channel I decided to chill love and work for my self

I don’t know how I learnt all these traits without ever having listened to anyone teach me them. Watching Jessica break them down just as I thought of them gives me the confidence that there is something about my thought and observation that is unique and it may be a gift. I am a student of life and by just observing human behavior and psychology which for me is a deep subject matter in the game of life, I have be able to self-teach myself by observation.

@oniasmusa9653

Жыл бұрын

same here.....i'm thankful to God for such. Im so quick to pick and thwart them

@xrpinmywallet421

Жыл бұрын

Media movies and the united comradeship of Oprah and Tyler Perry.. I thought Beyonce would be that good influencer but Beyonce is a woman of the highest quality... marriage, career, and a nuclear family unit.....she obviously was not easily lead astray. Oh yeah and she's pro-black . Love her no Cap

@khobbysticks7A

Жыл бұрын

You must be a Gemini I guess

@adebayoomotoshoprincesage

Жыл бұрын

Same here. Thanks to Jessica for confirming it

@jackfaygoo4373

Жыл бұрын

@@khobbysticks7A 😂😂😂😂😂

I missed a number of your inspirations , but just know i admire your work, your inspiring, keep doing it...its worth watching. Soon i will on your panel!

I really need this video at this point in time. Thank you Jessica

This is right, I've faced this emotional blackmail from ma somebody...

Jessica you are smart, Intelligent and very eloquent.You hit the nail right on the head

I had replay the whole clip to ensure it's instilled in my brain. Thanks Jess

Always on point and insightful.Thank you madam Jessica!!!

Thank you so much, I am in the same boat and trying very hard to leave because we have children. It's been many years of perseverance with a hope that things will change😢

@anniehills3580

Жыл бұрын

Listen, every day you stay with him, is a day you lost with your children. You can change that by asking legal advice now. Have him removed, ask for alimony and child support. You are going to feel way better than you are calling the shots in your life. Your children are going thru the abuse with you both now. Give them a chance to have a life without abuse!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

She hit a lot of points. One is saying NO narcissistic women hate that word and they'll call you names, expose their hands, I found out a lady was cheating on me all because I said NO.. She spazzed out. She confirmed everything I had always suspected

@rujwan3918

Жыл бұрын

wow..crazy

@scproductions9878

7 ай бұрын

You did the right thing all it takes two lettered word "no". And watch their actions you have achieved in staying in your power.

This is another beautiful piece, am most grateful dear

Am happy to be here with Jessica

I love everything about your content Jess... Can't wait to meet you IRL someday 😌😌

You nailed it Jess! 100% spot on🎯 Thank you!

Very honest!! Thank you so much for your insight about this.

Thank you Jessica! God bless you for these insights ❤

Honestly the manipulation in my relationship is getting worse every day and I'm fed up. Thank you for your advice

@keidonke

Жыл бұрын

i feel the same way😭😭

@KimsCS124

Жыл бұрын

My advice is to leave. I made the mistake of putting up with it, since I didn’t know I was being manipulated. I blame myself for it everyday

@infrekwent

Жыл бұрын

Same 😭 I have been dealing with this for years but I just don’t want to leave my daughter.

@0382isaac

Жыл бұрын

@@infrekwent sorry

@fanoftheart3619

Жыл бұрын

Man I been stuck for 10 years cause I dont wanna leave my babies, but Im miserable 😭😭😭

I love it when you say ‘MY GUY’ . JOS , it pains me a lot of Africans don’t have access to your wealth of wisdom. I need to be with you. 💋

@ademolatolulope9444

Жыл бұрын

Daniel, you're very right

@osamudiamendanielodaro6165

Жыл бұрын

@@ademolatolulope9444 you welcome

Thanks for the powerful points.... God bless you auntie Jessica 👌

Great exposition! Easy to perceive and assimilate!

Very insightful. Thanks Jessica! Keep up with the great work.

My favorite on this one🥰🥰As usual.

Real talk, thanks for keeping it real, we need more men studying the word of God.

Thank you Jessica for these info. You're doing great. Keep it up.

Marry for 30 years the last 6 years was the worst She withholding sex or Any intermatcy So I just ignored her Now she said I'm gay 😪😪😪 Now she try to get intermate I just said no I told her to save it for her next life I don't really care anymore

@martycech5844

Жыл бұрын

Relax. Sit down with each other and talk it out. Try 100% to make your marriage work again. Happily

@nhlakaniphohlelakazulu5763

Жыл бұрын

30 years broe....please see if there's a way to solve it sometimes the unwise don't believe they need to learn

@tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.1379

Жыл бұрын

Wow,"Rip as in you were like save it for the next life". 😭😭😭😂

@iffysd9864

Жыл бұрын

Why didn't you leave her before?

@thomasagorhom1139

Жыл бұрын

I am gone past that stage where a woman cries or insults me or withhold sex to get me to do something. The simple thing is to learn to say NO when necessary and stick by it, it works.

I've encountered this just this month and I'm out of that relationship... Jessica you're really doing a very good job, your research is superb and accurate and your tips helps a lot.

I love your videos!! You are so on point every time.

#4... i know it as "if...then" statements. You describe it so accurately. Its so destructive.

It's amazing how @Jessica is well informed 🥰

I believe no one can manipulate or try to control anyone if they love them.. if someone tries such behaviors, just run for yo life coz I believe LOVE is just being free and enjoying each other.

@carlosverde-datingtips7001

Жыл бұрын

I hear ya - LAVY! This is a good example why you have to be very careful who you get involved with - because they could possibly ruin your life, and the career that you’ve worked so hard for. You have to pay really close attention early on in the relationship, to see if you can spot any red flags before it’s too late. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

@leefromkenya

Жыл бұрын

Mehn 💥

@nblake7777

Жыл бұрын

💯🎯✅

Thank you very much Jessica.. this is an eye opener

You are the best Jessy. Thank you.

Talk about tears Jessica . That is the most used tactic among many women to manipulate men. Thank you Jessica preciate

Found her lighting my gas cooker, That's definitely Gaslighting 😂😂😂 I'm out

Look sharp my guys!!! So sweet thanks as usual.

I sincerely do appreciate you for this counsel . Its the word for the moment

Thank you for being honest and objective.

This is so sad & she is so right that is why I don't want a relationship I rather be single....

This was really great, the way it was said and all that was said and expounded upon.

Hey Jessica OS, that's good stuff. Keep on keeping up.

the most annoying part is there is nothing you gain from such women and relationships you only get used, manipulated and tormented using the love you have for her against you. i keep wondering how women can use a man so rough for years bcs he loves her without feeling pity. but what they dont know is love is a spirit and once you abuse love wait for pay back. i thank God i know this all long once they cant control,use or manipulate you for their satisfaction come and see anger and hate from them. most importantly if her friend is ising her boyfriend anyhow and she cant use you like that some will go diabolical but it is ok let her try if you know how to keep God's law. innocent people need to wake up and stand strong these days satan move through opposite sex to destroy them.

They tell you that you're being insecure when you confront them about their negative behavior. Also the "if you loved me, you'd..." And "All you want from me is sex"

@davidjohnson5243

Жыл бұрын

All her points were great! The one thing I don't agree with what she said was about not taking life seriously. I take life very seriously because we only get one and we are not promised tomorrow. But we have to have balance also and not enjoying this beautiful life that was giving to us can cause significant trauma in our lives. Can't take life so serious that we don't have fun and enjoy it. But also not being so loose with life to the point we take it for granted and not appreciate it.

@TheAustrianPainter87

Жыл бұрын

"If you love me you'd.. " every guy has heard these words😆. Women ain't shyyyt.

@Enzy662

8 ай бұрын

❤😂 you said it all ..they complain insecure when you confront them . My partner will always complain that all I want is SEX! I feel bad cos is not true , I just need that bonding but at a point I learnt to damn the sex , unless she wants it but it's not SAFE to the relationship..what do u think ?

Good stuff as always. Keep them coming

never knw Jessica had this much presence on KZread ..OMG!! Girl uve been working she close to a Mill Subs.. Big Ups!!

I love the last solution to dealing with manipulative women: learn to say NO. That has saved me so much integrity. Even if you decide to say YES, its better to first say No, than to say YES initially and later change it to NO. Jessica is a good at discussing this relationship matters,

Absolutely amazing 🤯 this sounds exactly like my last relationship for more than a 8 years. I was gaslighted and manipulated, been apart now for three years and still trying to reprogram my mind from all the toxic… you’re always on point by the way 🥰. Have a wonderful weekend!

@daviedood2503

Жыл бұрын

I'm a year out from 13 years of it. Wasn't left with anywhere to go and had to just stick it out. Hoping it's just S.T.O.P. enjoyed good days, waited out bad days was the routine..

@t-panda808

Жыл бұрын

@@daviedood2503 That's a long time, stay positive man.. wishing you peace and happiness from here on out.

@daviedood2503

Жыл бұрын

@@t-panda808 thanks man. Just focus on u. Never feel guilty for choosing YOU especially FIRST. Who cares if u put YOU over some chick first.

@t-panda808

Жыл бұрын

@@daviedood2503 Facts 💯... You need to be happy with your self before you can make anyone else happy. There are many women out there, It's just a matter of when you are ready and willing to start another relationship. Honestly I'm happy being single at the moment, could be for a long while. Peace out bro ✌

@daviedood2503

Жыл бұрын

@@t-panda808 same man. I'm not getting involved with that 80% divorce rate. I'm just glad I didn't have children with her nor marry her. I'd be up a creek with no paddle. 😂

This is a good video, I like your content. You are giving out the truth about toxicity in relationships, so kudos for that.

Your voice, energy and presence is so calming!

@flyingstump2938

10 күн бұрын

With great power comes great responsibility. She could manipulate and get anything from a guy, but uses her wisdom for good. Bravo

I have been into such relationship. She used emotional blackmail, sex, always wanting me to prove I loved her while she wouldn't do anything of such, easily bursting into tears at any slightest argument.

You explained emotional manipulation really well; thanks for this advice.

Jessica, you are admirable. A good teacher and leader. Bravo.

Jessica OS on point as always!! You are appreciated!

@JessicaOS

Жыл бұрын

i appreciate your support too. Thanks for being a member of my channel

Glad I am free from an emotionally abusive relationship. God!! Thanks for putting my experience into proper context Jess💅💅 Now I know for sure that I made the right call😇

Great piece! It's about time our society (Ghana) especially get to know these manipulators (narcissistic sociopaths/personality disordered beings, etc) exist, the serious (mostly permanent) psychological damages they can cause and how to identify them.

@SethTyus

Жыл бұрын

AMEN HALLE'LU'YAH!!!

Thanks Jessica.. SO much... lv subscribed !

Great thanks, Jessica! you are on point...... however I have one thing to comment on here....and... that is, your beautiful and sweet voice, coming along with a great command of the English language ... I really enjoy listening to you.

My ex have all this, I thought I was wrong leaving her, I thought I was wrong thinking she is manipulating, but the fact is that I wasn't happy at all, she made me act crazy hitting walls cause I don't want to hit her, now I know I made the right decision leaving her

@Menofvalor14

Жыл бұрын

I have to leave!!! I have had enough

Though your title describes manipulative women it is, as you also mentioned, the traits of manipulative people. I’ve had and seen men do EXACTLY the same thing. I’m not a woman, but i’ve seen a manipulative character up close. Instead of tears used by manipulative women, it was an outburst of rage on an object by the man, to get the outcome they desired without compromising. Compromising is the key word. ANYONE wishing to get me to do something with little to no compromise about my objection, is manipulative. “Thank You!” for sharing this. ❤️🖤💚

Auntie Jessica, thank you very much for the advise

This was very informative. Thank you 👌🏽❤️

This girl recently started calling me sweet names, I knew she is about something. I kept quiet for two days and she got obsessed to convince me coz I refused to talk to her even when I went to buy things where she works. Later she told me she is pregnant, I congratulated her and said she will become a mother. She was very surprised coz she thought I would panic. So later she asked money for abortion and I told her that I never assist people in killing unborn babies. She got sick and asked a break off work. Now she realized she wasn't pregnant but also I wasn't dumb. She is afraid I will never return to her once caught a liar. most women can be very dramatic.

Always look out for sociopaths, psychopath and narcissist they are master manipulators

@shemcaster2125

Жыл бұрын

Aka, ALPHA

@TheFriendlyPsychopath

Жыл бұрын

@@Mfil What do you want to know?

Super talk, I now understand how it works.. Thanks, all the way from Tanzania.

Hey Jessica ..nmegonja sana " I have been waiting for it'' great job...💯

Whenever I listen to Jessica I see the other version of today’s woman(feminist extremist).If she really does what he preaches then I can say men should be careful with women of that type--I mean take them seriously when you have one. For this version of women they really take their men very seriously. Whatever a man requires in a relationship they never disappoint. But be ware! They are independent and can’t be trampled on just like that. Women who advises men to open their eyes on women men should not be taken for granted. I know many women disapprove what she stands for , especially in this generation. But women Jessica is not ANTI-WOMEN. Her brain is of different calibre. I LOVE YOU JESSICA. Keep keeping up what you are doing. Only some few mothers would even give this weapons to their sons.👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

You will not even realize you’re been manipulated when you madly in love. Love is a scam sometimes

@solomonarmstrong1924

Жыл бұрын

Yes human love is a scam. You have to know the difference between human and godly love

@philipskrusso1153

Жыл бұрын

KP.True.Its important to understand the heart can be desperate and treacherous at times.Jer.17:9. Understanding principles in the bible to protect yourself and learn what love is.

I have subscribed to this channel a while ago.. Atlast I just bumped into a video that says 90% of my relationship.. Ubarikiwe sana Jessica..

You're great in the way you Annalise these issues.

*Emotional blackmail *Sex *Excessive compliments *Need for Love proof *Dramatic statements *Just joking always *Croc' tears..... Wow.... Just Subscribed😍

I've been a widower for almost 6 yrs after 30 yrs of being happily married. I tried dating a yr ago after meeting what I thought was a honest, sincere, woman. We seemed to have a lot in common. Three months into the " relationship " I saw her flip and reveal her real personality. She bad mouthed everyone including her own kids, she was extremely self centered and wouldn't compromise on the smallest of things. Everything had to be her way. Her opinions were the truth and if I disagreed, I was wrong and " unstable" for thinking the way I do. Sex was one of her favorite weapons. Not only did she with hold it, she had to have her pleasure and did and when she got hers .. sex was over. At the four mth mark, I ended the nightmare, changed my number and set her stuff on the porch. I gave dating a shot and I don't think I want to play those games again.

@Ace.0.0.0.

Жыл бұрын

This is what happens after the honeymoon period- for many women. The mask comes off. Proceed at your peril.

@OGTrollTroll8

Жыл бұрын

Stay away from single Mothers

Yes you are so helpful and your content is super helpful. Thanks a bunch. Taddeo from Durham, NC

you have been a blessing to my life Jessica

I can honestly say none of these things work on me. When it comes to women, I do what I want when I want they can take it or leave it, and I act that way because that seems to be the attitude of women these days! I’m unapologetic for things I feel strongly about because who is a woman to tell me I’m wrong about my opinions. The only female I ALLOW to manipulate me is my granddaughter and that’s comes from a place of me loving her and letting her get away with it to a certain extent, not because of stupidity. I have a big chip on my shoulder when it comes to modern women so I don’t let them get away with any of the dumb shit they try! But if they are truly good respectable women they don’t have to use manipulative tactics and there aren’t many I’ve known a couple and those are the ones I treat right!

@91toinfinity

Жыл бұрын

Modern women? Women from all generations do this 🙄

@JohnHarrison-on1yu

8 ай бұрын

That's right Take it or leave it

@JohnHarrison-on1yu

8 ай бұрын

Go and took away her ring, you know the things. Let's take away. I heard in the most. Worse way

@JohnHarrison-on1yu

8 ай бұрын

What should I do now

@ericcooper712

8 ай бұрын

@@91toinfinity Facts! I just think modern women are worse.

Set boundaries!!! Then see if they still like you after they understand that they have to respect you " this should be the principle for all relationship business or personal"

This is a library 📚 of its kind, big up OS

Thanks for thɛ Advised ♥♥♥

I just heard about this Channel and I believe that it's definitely a channel that men need to have. I've seen a lot of men manipulated over the years and it makes me so sick. I'm the type of person who does not like to see anyone being manipulated but I find that women tend to do it more than the opposite sex and have caused a lot of grief in not only men's lives but even in the Church, workplace, etc. I firmly believe that mothers need to teach their sons what to look out for but most do not. I appreciate this channel.

Thank you so much for releasing this video. I have identified several women who are in my life that use the manipulative strategies that were highlighted to either force me to do what they want or to degrade/emasculate me. Please keep doing what you are doing Jessica OS 🙏🙏🙏

@madinabrantleybrantley1646

Жыл бұрын

No

@josepholdham1159

Жыл бұрын

@@serenitysmith352 agreed. It wasn't my intention to come across as misogynistic, it just so happens that the two main people who have relied on these strategies happen to be females.

Wish you were around years ago. Learned so much, and everything you touched on is so factual.

Yes this video did help me I knew exactly what you were talking about right away.