“My heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me.”

@ViktorAZIM

6 ай бұрын

author?

@ProteinP_tm

6 ай бұрын

@@ViktorAZIM Imam Al-Shafi'I

@MosdeZirable22

5 ай бұрын

💯what's not for me I don't want it!

@ProteinP_tm

5 ай бұрын

@@MosdeZirable22 say it louder for the ppl in the back 📣

@meepo4212

5 ай бұрын

And what is meant for me will find a way through the WhatsApp block.

Let them go and start new. They thought you weren’t worth there time . The next will value u

Ive listened to this guy and ive done everything he said. Went no contact 6 months later now she’s begging for me back. Roles has reversed i dont even want her now. We was together 9 year. Broke up and a month later she was with someone let him meet her mom and all. That grass wasnt as green on that other side as she thought it was.

@mrwright5892

6 ай бұрын

Man I can relate to what your saying i was with my ex for over 2 years we talked for a while years previously and I moved out my house to move in hers and things went left I moved out and she ended up with someone else not long after I left she wanted to be friends but I said no its no reason to keep in touch and if you have a man how could we be friends because your not gonna hide me so she has been with this guy for about 6 months maybe she already knew him maybe not but either way I hope she is happy with the choice she made

@TheGizzle85

5 ай бұрын

Never is. Anyone can run game for a year or so. Mask will always drop! Fuck her. Move on and be better!

@elitesetsuna7616

4 ай бұрын

This is exactly what I'm afraid of..we were together for about 13 years amd I know we have a lot to work, not just me or her. I'm afraid this is it for good and it's terrifying. It's been almost a week since we spoke and it's killing ne cause she's all I can think about and I know she's not thinking about me. I can't say anything to her cause her responses are almost robotic and non caring.. I don't know how long this is gonna go for but I'm going so hard to hold on.. only reason I'm still here is because I need to take care of my dad and grandma

@LogicallySpeaking_

3 ай бұрын

Curious, why y’all break up?

@EyeBelieveSo

3 ай бұрын

Bro im literally in the same situation. My gf left me and got into another relationship three months later but after a few more months she’s texting me and saying how much she loves me and thinks about me.

whoever reading this dont take them back, dont go backwards please i care about your well being and trust me accepting someone who disregarded you is disrespecting that person who stayed up all night crying. ignore them keep moving forward.

@mariefricchione437

5 ай бұрын

But…if you do that remember they won’t call you a second time. That will be up to you and that will be very risky!

@sy7zx

4 ай бұрын

Totally not true, I have missed to give attention to my miss and kids, was always moody for her, she said nasty things to me, then she open my eyes too late though of what I was doing wrong, then I realised I was the bad guy, and I started to change, smwe still in no contact but I love her and the kids and everything we've done together I miss her every second I want her back and treat her as my queen, I would take the bullet for her without thinking twice....

@ricric-po4pq

4 ай бұрын

I have a unique situation where I have filled for divorce but it was never finalized but on the time period 6 years backwards we are living together but I feel she cheated on me now we have kids so now she dumped the other guy or she got dump anyway we still talk but it’s awkward so I’m confused because she stays in her room mostly all days now she ask me to stay but idk

@H2OOF

4 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

@goldyloxs9498

4 ай бұрын

Not everybody is going back to a bad ex. The situation matters

Why would anyone want someone back after they have made it clear that they don't want you and are ultimately rejecting you. That's not how a successful relationship works. That's not how a LOVING, MATURED, TRULY COMMITTED person acts. Let them have life without you. If they don't need you, nor want you, then what the fuck is the point. Seriously. You're not a toy to be used and discarded when they don't want you anymore or are bored or whatever. You are a HUMAN being with feelings that deserves RESPECT at the very least! Let that sink in folks and then maybe, just maybe, you can finally find someone who will NOT dream of hurting you. Who'd be lost without you! They hurt when you hurt and vice versa! Relationships are hard already, you don't need added anything!

@IAmJamieAlexander

3 ай бұрын

Wheeew!!!! I needed this!!!

@Glamwithneek

3 ай бұрын

That part thank you

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

Yet you are here on this channel? 🤷🏻‍♀️

@spiritdegratis

Ай бұрын

The latest reply to this conversation, I was still in a relationship or a quasi-relationship. The words "I'm not going anywhere" were uttered. And I believed that since I was seeing someone in the church, a devout, God-fearing woman, she wouldn't turn out the lights and leave me devastated. Yet here we are. Words are only words until either validated or refuted by action. This day and age, where it's so easy to just block a person instead of having a face to face conversation with intentions of salvaging what is cherished, is sickening. The more technology takes foothold, the more we lose our humanity, and I don't think love exists outside the bounds of imagination. Stay suited up in armor because your heart, mind, spirit, and well-being are worth protecting.

@Not_yourMOM

Ай бұрын

@@spiritdegratis❤

He is absolutely right. They will test you but if you want to win… you must work on yourself like he said. Be active to attract. Glow up.

Put my ex on no contact 6 weeks ago, she's contacted me but its all "me me me, my way or the highway"... trying to friendzone me. Not having it. I had to put her on double no-contact and told her its best we part ways.

@theghost4040

6 ай бұрын

Respect! Ain't no coming from the dead..once you leave the nest you gotta stay gone.

@ProteinP_tm

6 ай бұрын

Gotta let her know!

@SusSs-ih8ug

6 ай бұрын

The real question is HOW to win her heart and gain your trust back when you already done and tried to explain everything 😢😢

@SusSs-ih8ug

6 ай бұрын

@@comparecards5688 the only I know is people always says just ignored her and she will might realise that she do something she shouldn't do and uh I just don't know what to say all I can say is I hope that she could come back to us no matter what 😔

@theghost4040

6 ай бұрын

@@SusSs-ih8ug you can’t she’s gone bro..she feel like she can have better. It’s nothing you can do but let her go and start healing yourself

Me and my got back together 2 weeks ago after a 6 week break so far so good. We spent Thanksgiving together put a Christmas 🎄tree and she was with me and my family

@13sprintuser

4 ай бұрын

Was she the one to ask to get back together or were you?

@glenhoff1443

3 ай бұрын

Best wishes and hold on tight with unconditional love.

Everything single word this man has been true I experienced it personally and everything he said on all his videos has come true, I personally thank you Brother

No contact works for real. But only if you use it as a time to work on yourself, stay healthy... She'll come back in weeks, months, it just depends on the individual, but they'll surely come back... And when she contacts you, you don't have to chase, stay calm and collected. Don't jump into any form of emotional rollercoaster, normally their first contact is always a test to see if they still have control of your emotions. When you don't fall for it by not texting her too much, until she says she wants you both to meet, until then, don't fall for her breadcrumbs... She will recoil and rethink, at this point, she'll be so overwhelmed by her emotions (missing you, anxious, fright of losing you, e.t.c). My ex got to me after 18 days of no contact.

@michaelsmith1364

2 ай бұрын

Hard for no contact when you have children together

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

@@michaelsmith1364 the third video ever made on this channel, deals with this topic specifically

@michaelsmith1364

2 ай бұрын

@@CatwalkPurz thanks, I checked it out. Basically what I’ve been doing but imo it gives them best of both worlds. They move on and still get to have the loving farther they trusted to have kids with. Hard for me not to speak to my kids daily but think I’m going to stop calling to speak with them and just see them when it’s my scheduled times. She’s moved on so kinda sucks my kids have been introduced to someone else when they are so young but it is what it is….wish we didn’t have kids so I can completely focus on myself

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

@@michaelsmith1364 but in the end it’s the kids that matter most anyways. Maturity is not forcing another person to choose us. 🥹 so we choose our kids well being.

@runout1013

2 ай бұрын

Did you post IG photos or story’s?

This no contact November has been a nightmare. She just reached tho, let’s hope it goes well

@PlaywithDaisy

5 ай бұрын

How did it go?

@CatwalkPurz

2 ай бұрын

Updates? 🙌

@runout1013

2 ай бұрын

How long did it take for her to reach out

Ex wants to meet me just because to keep me as a backup plan, he does things like we were dating but would tell me that we are just friends. What a loser

This came at the exact right time. Ex has reached out direct after bread-crumbing tests. I responded to the direct contact with politeness, indifference, concise & not leading as walked away from me. As strategic as you have to be it takes time but it works.

@nw7654

6 ай бұрын

It’s a bull shit game really. For basic humans

@13sprintuser

4 ай бұрын

What’s the update? Did she initiate and ask for the first date? Are you guys dating?

My ex came back after 6 months, 4 months NC

@blacademic

6 ай бұрын

Happy for you! Wishing you the best 🙏

This for me is the other way around, I had to end things as I knew I wasn’t his priority anymore, not because I didn’t want him, I had mths of breadcrumbs so I had to walk away, I know what I bring to the table and if he doesn’t after 4yrs is his choice, I’m willing to try again but he has come to me in the right way now 😢

@sahrishhassan6711

2 ай бұрын

Same for me ! I walked away from him. And i myself started No contact. Its been a week, he sent me few reels on IG but not called or messaged me directly. He never said he wants breakup but treated me badly.

@Swiss_Girl

2 ай бұрын

I am also in this situation. we where together 4.5 years but I never felt as his priority. I ended this last monday. he was sad and said he hopes it‘s not a mistake… didn‘t hear so far, but its only been 5 days. did your exes contact you by now? I still have a little hope, he will realise, I am the one. we talked about marrige, kids ect but never went to the next stage..

Bro...When you talk Your face totally full of peace Your words gives me hope , confident , energy , life . I don no why you doing this work ..but over all you are a medicine for some pain to heal and hope. Nothing to say God bless you ..live long with health and wealth

@winolministry

Ай бұрын

Amen!

This is gold information, thank you so much

Very straight forward Sir!

Coach, I like how you intersperse your life experiences with helping those that need your expertise. So cool. 👏👍

I always love hearing your stories and the following analogies. Thanks for the new vid coach!

Great video coach Blac ❤️

Thank you for this video at a time when its needed. Going through something so simular and its great to have the insight. Feeling blessed to contiune to grow and gain knowledge from your videos

Sir, first of all thanks for all what you did for every person who have breakup hard moments. Since my ex girlfriend broke up with me, I was in no contact for one year. Yesterday I found out that she cheated on me since we were in a relationship and suddenly -not planned, she gets pregnant with that new guy. Now I know that I lost her forever but much more motivated for next steps. God bless you 🙏

You are the best choach🙌🏽❤️

Don't take her back. If she couldn't see your value, she doesn't deserve you.

Hey Coach, appreciate the consistent content. One question though. Could you make a video for after the first date? How to handle it, or think during this situation, etc. Appreciate the content, keep it up!

I love you already Coach Blac

Omg!! It’s weird how these things happen exactly in so many relationships like he is a fly on the wall watching everyone

Thank you for this. Not sure contact will happen, but I'm prepared if it does. I'll know what to do. Really good video.

I think this is the first time I heard you say you've been thru this before.. I use to say to myself “Does he know how it feels to have a broken heart” lol Coach ya videos are good

Thanks coach, you are the best

I’m from Minnesota 🥰 Greetings from the tundra ❤️

Hope all is going good coach

Listen to this man, he knows what he's saying.

❤❤ I will forever clap for others until it's my turn 🎉🎉

You are the man!!!!!😊

Thanks for your video. They have been helping through the end of a 7yr relationship

@florence2178

4 ай бұрын

Not easy

So after 2.5 years, mainly happy, loving and incredible, we argued and had NC for weeks. She reached out, we tried again, then she said she can't, she doesn't feel the same. I begged, I cried, I chased, I reached out. She got back this morning and said she no longer has the same feelings 😢 Don't think there is any come back from this!

Thank you bro

I am in this position right now. My wife went on a nine month deployment came back and got caught cheating and now she wants to move on. This is the most lamest way to feel and I feel I am in a box.

@PlaywithDaisy

5 ай бұрын

You cheated???

i think this is what my ex does to me right now, we have been broken up for a little over 1 month now and nc for a month, and for the past 9 days my ex has started reaching out to me, one time just asking how i was, and now if im home or on vacation. I have a feeling she is on the urge to come back now!

brooooooo learned a lot thnk u

I broke up with him. He played games. So he went no contact for 4 months. I did not reach out in any way. He reached out wanting me to be open to whatever but not committed. Since I didn’t agree no contact again😂😂😂. 2 months later he calls basically begging😂😂😂. I’ve been in therapy, I’m self conscious and self aware-no dating at this time. He’s crushed-idgaf. He is very wealthy and expects his SO to do most of the work. I’m not doing it, honestly not being in a relationship has been awesome😂😂😂😊😊.

Mr. Coah Blac I really like what you have to say. I just , if it is possible, do know how someone you spent a lot of time, emotions, engery and even became intimate with, how can they treat you like you are nothing. How can it have been very one sided?! No remnants of anything really positive?! God.

broke up 2 months ago, he dumped me. He has been the one to contact me every few days, I blocked him but he contacted me again, saw each other twice perfect time. And Then says things to hurt me, he got into a rebound while he was blocked for 10 days, then comes back to say he is in pain over the whole situation, he loves me but there’s buts. Don’t want to keep me waiting. I told him I need him to stop, and to leave me alone, I have been trying be strong he took me back so many steps every time he reached out, I am now at a place where I really just want him as far as possible. He broke my heart over and over for the last 2 months, he needs to be gone. You’ve been great through this hard times, keep at it, you are helping a lot of us! Thank you!

What an amazing coincidence I was also born in Minnesota!!!

Xcellent Somtin 💯

Literal gold

I've just kept him blocked on everything 😂

Definitely the power dynamic has shifted. I haven’t contacted him in a couple weeks. He’s in a relationship with someone else and all of that and he’s trying to give me a call today. I’m not gonna answer I’m not even gonna text back. I don’t want any part of it anymore.

I’ll be setting up a time to speak. I can’t wait to get crystal clear advice on my specific situation. 🙏

@blacademic

6 ай бұрын

🙏

Haven’t heard from my ex sent September 2023. I texted him happy birthday and he responded that same day. I messaged him the next day and he didn’t respond. He used to view my stories but I kept it moving with my day/night. Found out that he has a girlfriend while he was watching me live my life. I do miss him but I have to continuing healing & becoming my best version.

It is well 👍 let the will of God be done in our lives 🙏

Went through a bad breakup with ex of 6 years we have 3 kids came together for the sake of our sons birthday I I was dismissive he tried to make small talk and said “ don’t act like you don’t see me”

Thanks

There’s more to life than a nice ass and a shitty attitude. Now, months into the break up, what she didn’t realize is that the value I saw in her has nothing to do with what she offered me, it’s what I wanted for myself. We were a family, and I can build a family with anyone that can offer me peace to supplement mine. I pray for her and that we find out who the babies dad is asap. Life is good if we can live in the moment.

@PlaywithDaisy

5 ай бұрын

Dang😂😂😂 this situation is ghetto🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yup, I've been living off of protein shakes, only had 1 meal in the last week. Damn, some truth bombs were dropped and we all need to hear it.

It’s been 12 years of no contact when do you think she will come back

@janicechituku9767

2 ай бұрын

Is she even still alive? 12 years is along time

@Swiss_Girl

2 ай бұрын

mine came back after 14 years😂 he heard, I was single and he was my firsf love at 19years old…. sometimes it happens.

Good to know you were born in Nigeria 😊

I know this man is my equal and I know he feels the same. Haven’t spoken in about a month. Not sure if he’s running from a fear of commitment or feelings but I miss my partner in crime; I really do! 😢

@reneebrown9451

6 ай бұрын

If a man is into you it’s nothing that can stop him. He will chase you and even marry you. Let go

@SimplyMelissaLife

2 ай бұрын

If this if true, then no contact will bring him back 😊💪🏽

I didn’t know you were born in Nigeria ! The guy I love lives there ! We are in a long distance situationship. That’s why I’m listening to your pod casts. Maybe you can talk some on long distance relationships with the intent of meeting in person for a lasting relationship.

I been doing no contact for about 2 weeks. Now my ex wants to take me out for my bday. Idk why i keep going through this cycle. We have broken up a lot in these 3.5 years. Im not looking for a relationship right now but im looking foward to going out.😂😂

Bro . Wht is the Relaxing ancient music in the background ?

I have being no contact for 3 months now but my ex hasn't contacted. I broke up with him bcos he was funny.

@countdowntorevolution9986

6 ай бұрын

well if you're the one who did the dumping it's not for you to do no contact. it's for him to do no contact and for you to try and win him back (assuming you do want him back)

My ex is in a rebound and still tries to reach me while in no contact. I told her to not text while she is with someone else. She agreed but I doubt she will last long with that agreement 😂

@Taybaby2000

6 ай бұрын

Why you want someone who fucking someone else?..THE FACT THAT YOU KNOW‼️...MADNESS‼️

@cod_richgaming5076

5 ай бұрын

any update?

@KingFish-Beatz

5 ай бұрын

@cod_richgaming5076 nothing much yet! I've blocked her on everything except Instagram because I don't follow her there and can't see any pictures of her and her new "man". She left me for him and monkey branched, she isn't even really worth it to me

@KingFish-Beatz

4 ай бұрын

@cod_richgaming5076 it's definitely getting to her. Last time she texted me thinking that I hate her because I don't text her. I told her I dont, I'm doing what's best for me and hope that she is doing well and taking care of herself.

Does NC still works if the dumper is the one who said that prolonging that situation (talking again, etc) would be harder? After that text, I didn't respond, then he texted Happy New Year, I said same, and haven't texted again.

She liked a reel I posted a couple days ago. Haven't heard from her in two weeks since she dumped me. Ngl I was a little anxious when I saw it, but I calmed down, took a deep breath, and just let it be. Just gonna keep doing when I'm doing. Gym. Work. Therapy. Taking care of my dogs. Hanging out with friends and family

@jacobgilstorff8557

Ай бұрын

Same here brother

Hey coach, my girl left me because she said she hadn’t felt love in the past couple months & I wouldnt like her pics & some repeated behavior. we did everything together. I even guided her thru school man. She’s said before to fight for what’s mine. I tried but she didnt want to reciprocate that to me. Why man. I have faith but idk if she sees that I can change & idk if she’s gonna look at my way.

I hope my husband does come back..He left me without saying a word, a note, a txt, a phone call. Just disappeared..It turned out that he was with his ex-wife. My husband and I had been together for over 15yrs..!! I've never had closure. I miss him every day, even though it's nearly been 4yrs. 😢

@mishajoalie6208

2 ай бұрын

OMG noooo leave him where he is ! You deserve wayyyy more better.

@Swiss_Girl

2 ай бұрын

you deserve so much better!!!!❤❤ ps: ghoests belong to the cementery

He just asking if I signed divorce papers? And he doesn’t want to talk about anything else ! We are done right?

Sometimes they look at you as lower is because they mentally ubused u to get you to that place! Their fault! Don’t go back!

Put my ex on no contact for a 2nd time 5 weeks ago and she wanted to keep her guy friends shes known for a month. Probably the end of the relationship but just trying to move on now.

What if you live with your ex?

From pensacola and might be moving to H-town!

He always reaches out with anger

Hey am happy ur videos have helped me I did the no contact and guess what he reached out and I have choose to ignore raising ma value I don’t know if am doing the right thing coach I want him to ask me out not jst checking on me!

It was over a year of no contact. She finally contacted me because a close friend of her’s was dying. I have no clue as to why. Sent my condolences and sympathies in regard to her friend’s family. She did thank me. I left it there.

@aayushitakte6528

6 ай бұрын

you know maybe she was just having the realisation that life is short and we could lose anybody at anytime and so she didn't want to live with the fact that someone she once loved and cared about was a stranger to her as the future is unpredictable. Maybe she didn't want that on her conscience or she felt like you are someone she could be vulnerable to and come for support during this difficult time for her.

@briteidea08

6 ай бұрын

@@aayushitakte6528 What upset me was in the manner she wrote it. As she had to update me about her life. She didn’t care or want me at the end of the relationship. Had me walking on eggshells. She went back to her ex/friend after it was over. Posted so many hurtful things after. Made it so if I was looking. I would see the post. I lost almost a person a year before meeting her. So I fail to understand why reaching out to a past love or interest would help.

What to talk when u want to end no contact and how to fix relationship when it was end from her side .

my ex 3 days after her birthday sent me two angry block messages back to back at 10 PM on a Friday night. I read it and let it on red since I was out on a date. I responded the next morning to her and said, "unless you see me standing infront of you and my mouth is legit saying x,y,z. then I've said nothing; you know where i'm at and what i do, your welcome to meet me face to face to discuss this...total silence. now months later she's throwing dirt on my name and using her friends as backup. However i've still been in NC with her for about 8 months and i just do me...the fact that 8 months later your trying to get my attention is pretty interesting. :)

You be naija boy?😅 this is cool.

❤Thanls for sharing

wish I’d seen this video a day sooner. Pretty sure that I failed test 1 and pushed her towards another guy #!%

I’m definitely the prize. He downgraded. 😅

What’s so strange my ex ended the relationship about two weeks ago… initially I was doing the no contact with hopes he would come back “his break up text was I need to be single right now for himself” and I wanted him back but I am not sure if he was to message me I would want him back…. I am very much an out of sight out of mind person…

what if you’re the one who broke up with the person and yet they keep coming back??

Couple questions, does this work for younger relationships, and does this work after you’ve blocked them on everything but phone, been in no contact for about 2 days and really have no interest in contacting for a while or indefinitely unless they contact first

trying your technique in the no contact stage

@spacebucket8865

19 күн бұрын

How is going?

So what happens when you did things right and you’re ex is chasing a long distance relationship … we have 3 children and live together.. So I don’t think I should ask her anything… because she’s the one that broke up her relationship and family… hypergamy is real…

we broke up last week and its almost a week now with no contact. he was the one that decided to let go because it was easier for him to do that than to improve our relationship. we ended with respect but in my last message i told him that if he's not comfortable with us still following each other on instagram then he can unfollow me, but up to this day he is still following me (also his sister) and in fact watches my stories (though he doesn't react to it and doesn't like my posts). my heart is still breaking and i miss him. i'm trying my best to not watch his stories because then i'd be breaking no contact. would it be better if i just unfollow him? i don't think he's going to reach out anymore.

@aayushitakte6528

6 ай бұрын

omgg i am literally in the same boat, he watches my stories but doesn't like my posts. And he also ended things because it was easier than working on our problems and communicating what he didn't like. In fact, in the relationship, he was the one who screwed up more than i did but i guess the fights frustrated him. I would suggest you instead of unfollowing him, just mute his profile so that you don't get notified of his stories and posts. And a week of no contact is too short to decide whether he will reach out or not. So wait it out, be strong. People wait atleast 30-45 days. My real NC has also been just around a week. We can update eachother if there are any new developments if you want :)

@kheicee

5 ай бұрын

@@aayushitakte6528 hi girl! thank you for taking the time to reply! yea, actually i’ve been thinking about putting him on “mute” for his stories and posts but i cant lie that there’s still a part of me that wants to be updated about his activities and whereabouts especially that ever since we broke up his stories are always something that’s trying to get my attention (like going out with friends drinking beer whole day, playing sad songs, wearing jerseys with my birthdate imprinted on it etc). you know those things that only both of you understand type of thing. but i also dont want him to know that i’m viewing his stories so i’ve been searching up ways on how to do that anonymously haha. it would have been a lot easier if he just unfollowed me so i could do the same thing, but no he didnt. but yea you’re right, eventually i have to let the thought of him go away and have to really mute him so i can move forward. my close friend also advised me to wait a month or more before deciding anything. hope you’re well too dear! i wish you the best. we can do this hehe ❤️

@RetainedInnerG

5 ай бұрын

No. Don't do anything at all. Don't unfollow. Don't block. Don't react. Just be silent. Until he reaches out to you directly, don't pay attention to anything and stop looking at your socials as much. Just will help the NC process. Let time work on this guy.

@kheicee

5 ай бұрын

@@RetainedInnerG omg wait, did i do it the wrong way? cause yesterday morning i finally took the courage to deactivate my instagram account. i dont mind that we’re still following each other its just i cant hold and stop myself from not checking his stories and posts. and his posts are usually the ones that are triggering me - he was the one that broke up with me but is acting like he’s the victim and i was the one that took him for granted. why cant he just talk to me directly? why does he have to post it on social media and act as if im the one who left him? so that was my last straw and made me decide to deactivate. was it wrong? should i reactivate it again? please advice 🥺

@RetainedInnerG

5 ай бұрын

@kheicee deactivating is great. Just dont unfollow and dont ask him to unfollow. If he is acting like that and posting that stuff, then you are already winning the breakup. He is begging for you to see that stuff because he knows you are watching. He wants to know he can have you back whenever he wants. Work on yourself right now and when he comes back because he WILL, I can already tell he will, you will be a whole new person and he is going to be questioning whether he is worth having you back and then YOU will be able to decide whether it is in your best interest. So no, you haven't screwed up. Just don't do the unfollowing stuff.

He started talking to someone else just days after we broke up 😢

Coach, does no contact work on the same person after a second breakup?

After 8 years He didn’t leave me I left him because he treated me like shit. I don’t expect him to reach out cause I blocked him on everything and went cold it’s been about 6 weeks and I feel good

Love it

im defiantly going to try but its gonna be hard too

I F’d up. Ex broke up with me, took it like an adult, went into immediate NC. She texted me 2 days later 3x bitching about who I was now following on insta. I ignored. Then I ran into her out last week, I ignored. I was being spiteful. Now I may never hear back bc I communicated twice that I won’t talk to her. Been 27 days NC, what do I do???

I've been blocked since we broke up. It's been almost 8 weeks and I haven't heard from him.

@jrodbeme

6 ай бұрын

I’m in the same spot pretty much.

Broken up 8 months..no contact almost 3 months..

My situation is my ex unblocked me on Facebook, we've been getting along alot better and a couple weeks ago me her n our daughter went Christmas shopping. What do you think is going through her mind?

Everyone comes here and say their heart is at ease. But that's not true 😂

She comes back but in a very indirect way, I can feel she misses me but she’s not wording it at all. Should I keep going with no contact until she shows reel effort?