Coach Blac - Blacademic

Coach Blac - Blacademic

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  • @sj5579
    @sj55795 минут бұрын

    You are very thorough; however, I find your prices overwhelming. Who is your target market? Some coaches at least listen to your situation and allow you to work with them. absorbent prices run clients away. IJS

  • @bobby-4726
    @bobby-47268 минут бұрын

    Hey , I met the love of my life on Instagram, she a 38 year old single mom, pisces like me , we had an unbelievable chemistry and connection, we had amazing times together, she has ADHD and her ex is toxic, she has a lot going on with her life .. lately we weren't doing well and the bitterness got to us . I couldn't be the friend she was looking for before being her man . She asked me for a mental break, then she stopped talking to me for 7 days .. she keeps posting stories and pictures on her Instagram.. I'm in mess and anxious and my chest is closing on me . I'm broken .. sorry for my English it's not my 1st language. Can you guide me and tell me what should I do .. I adore her..

  • @user-ty5mp8ne1h
    @user-ty5mp8ne1h22 минут бұрын

    3rd - they need a doormat/validation dispenser/emotional tampon

  • @alliecat6342
    @alliecat634234 минут бұрын

    If he comes back he will be dismissed. I’m nobody’s 2nd choice. He better hope it works out with Miss Fugly.

  • @abelcedrick9214
    @abelcedrick92142 сағат бұрын

    I want to personally thank you for helping me getting my relationship back. I’m Abel from Ivory Coast (west Africa), and I have to say that i will be grateful to you wherever you are. Thank you for the job you’re doing. It’s amazing. And guys, trust the process, it works. Thx again coach black !

  • @thatsfactstrey
    @thatsfactstrey2 сағат бұрын

    Why women enjoy making things difficult kzread.info/dash/bejne/mXmEtpOMea6bfNo.htmlsi=4i3QVt9LSNIj-yzO

  • @shannonbishop7785
    @shannonbishop77852 сағат бұрын

    He felt nothing. They had someone over that night. I left him.

  • @greggreg9510
    @greggreg95103 сағат бұрын

    Thanks again bro. 😀

  • @lideva83
    @lideva834 сағат бұрын

    What if he did find something greener and ended up marrying that person? Just curious.

  • @marcye2535
    @marcye25354 сағат бұрын

    My ex told me he couldnt give me what I wanted which was to married since we were together 10 years and already had a son. But when we were still together he went on a trip and married another woman his is still with until this day that was 8 years ago. I stopped communicating with him, but once I did he wanted to communicated with me would even get upset always wanted to be at my place all of a sudden. But he eventually stopped his happy with his wife now or pretends to be anyway. It doesn’t matter what you do. Its better to not play games make your silence be the end of that relationship and not a reason to get back and just let your ex be your ex. His your ex for a reason.

  • @godsholysoldier
    @godsholysoldier4 сағат бұрын

    I be so confused what does a person expect to say to validate or egos boost them ? My ex knows she pretty she has a lot of other friends plus she left me and still freaking calls me every dam day after a year since we break up 😭🙄 we both models also 😎😏

  • @kaosknight123able
    @kaosknight123able4 сағат бұрын

    April 6th was the official start of no contact. Still nothing. I'm assuming my spots been filled

  • @richierichh9572
    @richierichh95725 сағат бұрын

    I went from watching no contact videos , after getting her back full of promises of having a family and getting a house and realizing all her wrongs apologizing for everything , she moved back after 4 months of trying she finally got pregnant everything was fine the first 3 months into the pregnancy now she left to her parents house because she can’t take accountability for anything she does she’s 26 weeks now and we haven’t talked for the past 2 months I don’t reach out because I don’t want to stress her out, I do nothing but provide and love her and she treats me like nothing no respect won’t even try to make the family work like she promised now I’m just watching narcissistic videos don’t know what my next step is other then to move on and no contact her and it feels so wrong because this is supposed to be a special time for us and I’m in love with her and want nobody else’s time ..also she cares about nothing but the baby and she loves the pregnancy

  • @johnnycalderon9951
    @johnnycalderon99515 сағат бұрын

    Ppl dont care how they ex feels but watch a 20min video lol can we all say 🤡🤡🤡

  • @realsusan2003
    @realsusan20036 сағат бұрын

    For ALL decent women the good bye phase will never change it is what it is so glad so many broken men have their honeymoon phase without their wives

  • @jacquelynboyd1511
    @jacquelynboyd15117 сағат бұрын

    We had a good thing. But he wouldn't compromise. When i put my foot down and told him how it makes me feel that he says he going to work with me on something and then doesnt... im the bad guy. Everyone is devastated. All our friends and family. They said i wasn't in the wrong, and he changed a lot while we were together for the better and looked happy. He broke up with me because he can't compromise or communicate. We never yelled, screamed, or called each other names. But he said there was nothing to talk about and he isn't going to waste my time. Just wow. I seen him 2 times since we broke up in the grocery store and he looks sad.

  • @jacquelynboyd1511
    @jacquelynboyd15117 сағат бұрын

    And when i asked so you dont love me he said i didnt say that. So i immediately started moving my stuff out and he acted mad about it. Said you dont have to get it all out now...i told him while crying you dont get to break my heart and then prolong my healing process. And i asked him to help me get my shit out. Couple days later he said you dont have to get it all now. And i said i told you i was coming ypu didnt have to be here. When do i have to have my safe out. He said it can stay as long as you need it. Then said if your not going to stay here all your shit needs to go??? Wtf

  • @GiftSniderxrf
    @GiftSniderxrf8 сағат бұрын

    That’s not a fact

  • @KEITHRAMSEYBACNUPE9
    @KEITHRAMSEYBACNUPE99 сағат бұрын

    Hey Coach! I have been watching several of your videos and have found them to be very helpful. I am tuning in from Atlatna GA. I am fresh out of being dumped/lied to and man this hurts. But I know that I will come out stronger and better. This will be in part to the help that I get from you.

  • @mandelasb6206
    @mandelasb62069 сағат бұрын

    Why the dumper always have to be the bad guy? What if the decision was made based on the person's actions, lack of commitment, trust. You're always making it like the person who was dumped is totally hopeless and doesn't have any responsibility for being dumped.

  • @hennesseyme9112
    @hennesseyme91129 сағат бұрын

    So much better when you don't want them back.

  • @cierrabennett206
    @cierrabennett20633 минут бұрын

    💯

  • @sherryeasterling8544
    @sherryeasterling854410 сағат бұрын

    I live in Houston Texas. Any suggestions on places to meet older guys?

  • @Super08716
    @Super0871610 сағат бұрын

    My ex and I been together for 3 years and its been about 30 days since we broke up but we last spoke about some issues but she did say she has missed me and I have crossed her mind and that we have been together for a long time but she feels like she needs to be on her own right now. I ended up telling her that I respect the space she needs but the message was more sincere then just that. She hasn't responded it's been like 6 days. Should I continue to lay low. Does anybody think that she's just kind of thinking about what I said. I told her that I was gonna be transparent with her and said that I am committed and willing to work on things independently. Rather we are together or apart. I also said respect her need to focus on her own well- being. Please someone help me out with this situation. This shit is killing me.

  • @-j-AnganaBiswas
    @-j-AnganaBiswas11 сағат бұрын

    I don't wanna pull my ex he was a Playboy i want him to ask for apology..he left me for someone else

  • @DorotaMartaDzikon
    @DorotaMartaDzikon11 сағат бұрын

    My wife dumped me for other women..we are on separation time 2 years then apply for Divorce. I wish her big family and lots of money that what she wants money. I give her what she wants No contact over a year. Don’t care what she doing I concentrate on my future on my own opened business what going really well. After divorce I will be more open to proper relationships now Iam still healing I take my time with my emotions. Iam proud of myself i did that hard step I accept it she never loved me. One what I keep is do not see her anymore in my life. She got what she wished for.

  • @ansr3538
    @ansr353812 сағат бұрын

    They're addicted to the honey moon period .... scared of love

  • @ansr3538
    @ansr353812 сағат бұрын

    Don't want him back unless he gets help.....I doubt he will

  • @AL_4083
    @AL_408312 сағат бұрын

    My boyfriend broke up with me because I became very angry with him when I shouldn’t have, and it triggered him. He began distancing himself from me before he ended it. The day he ended it, I accepted responsibility for my actions and held myself accountable for how it affected him. I also validated his feelings as he no longer felt safe (emotionally and physically) in the relationship at that moment, and accepted the consequences of my actions. I had apologized sincerely (as I immediately felt regret and shame for how I acted in that moment) to him a few days after the incident (weeks before the breakup), and began working on being more self aware, so no matter how angry I am feeling or no matter what anyone does, I will never allow myself to operate from that anger. I did this because I care deeply for him and his feelings and never meant to make him feel that way and don’t ever want it to happen again, but he ended it anyway. Instead of blame shifting or justifying what I did, I owned it. He said this was what he needed and said he wanted to keep open lines of communication with me. I asked if down the road when he sees the changes in me and feels comfortable with pursuing a relationship again with me would he open to that? He said he was not a yes but not a no either.. we’ll see how it goes. I said ok. The very next day he asked me to stop by and was still treating me like his girlfriend, which was very confusing for me. I thought to myself he may need time to break that habit so I didn’t say anything. But everyday for a week and a half he was still doing this (NO we were not having sex during the breakup), doing things he normally did for me and vice versa until one day I made a comment about him being my boyfriend to which he confirmed. So basically (my assumption) he woke up the next day realizing he may have ended it prematurely as I was already showing signs of change and because of the way I handled the breakup, it reassured him that I genuinely care about how I made him feel and he felt he could trust my word as my actions were lining up with my word. I have never heard of someone waking up the next day after ending their relationship pretending that they didn’t lol Is it possible that he did it to hurt me (because I hurt him) to get a hysterical reaction out of me and when he didn’t get it quickly realized that this is a woman who I can not manipulate or play with like that so let me not F**k around before I find out? Has anyone ever had this happen to them or seen this happen before? NOTE: I did not become physically violent at all, what I did was very angrily and aggressively yelled and cussed at him, zero name calling.

  • @SerenityJackson-cv5wi
    @SerenityJackson-cv5wi13 сағат бұрын

    Yes😢

  • @redrobin5684
    @redrobin568413 сағат бұрын

    While the content of this video is accurate, it did not answer the question in the title. The content was focused on if you did not do no contact. But the title says why don’t they want you even after following no contact and this was never answered.

  • @tubesurf17
    @tubesurf1714 сағат бұрын

    A chunk was my fault. Why would she come to me. If no cantact then how she comes bk. She dont know how i look , nothing. Your saying my fault we broke and she is comibg to me. I was the one she wanted b7t notbuzzin

  • @tubesurf17
    @tubesurf1714 сағат бұрын

    What communication is ggod

  • @tubesurf17
    @tubesurf1714 сағат бұрын

    10 month.no contact... After 4 ..5 years. It's her bday month. Last day we spoke OK. Last year. I wanted to starts a conversation. I was gonna buy her the single u2 still havent found what im looking for. We will never see each other. I'm not on social media nor she, 25 min opposite side of town. Love of my life . Some of best days of my life. No games coach. She went straight for rebound. Fell, I couldn't get up a.a. fast enough 2 years she hung in there, she wanted me but I was nit abl3 to love. I got 3rd final hip surgery, maybe I'm emotional. I am hurt. We r both special. What if shedoes wanna talk. We lost each other. My life is at a crawl.mi feel the more time goes the more it will never be

  • @Christy33.
    @Christy33.14 сағат бұрын

    Great video thank you

  • @marcelomendez1463
    @marcelomendez146314 сағат бұрын

    😂 yo I love this, that person in the parking spot acts like they have all these things to do. So much truth in this! Thanks Coach Black! Blessings, I appreciate you!

  • @shellyshellz581
    @shellyshellz58114 сағат бұрын

    He was crazy over me at first but as soon as I really liked him he ran away. I was being really sweet to him and out of nowhere he says don’t ever call me or text me again All I could say was OK I guess there had to be signs leading up to this but I’m sure I was idealizing him and placing him on a pedestal he didn’t deserve He will most likely eventually reach out but I refuse to call - beg - act needy - apologize I know for a fact I am an extremely beautiful person inside and out - his loss

  • @nathaliecampbell62
    @nathaliecampbell622 сағат бұрын

    He's lost you remember that you are worthy of better 💯

  • @alfredobermudez6430
    @alfredobermudez643015 сағат бұрын

    3 and a half years together into my second week of no contact any advice?

  • @robbello1000
    @robbello100015 сағат бұрын

    Hey what's✌✌✌✌✌ up super cool ! lay it on me..............................

  • @alfredobermudez6430
    @alfredobermudez643015 сағат бұрын

    3 and a half years i am into my second week of no contact, any advice?

  • @kennytheripper2526
    @kennytheripper252615 сағат бұрын

    I have moved on from my ex, emotional indiffernce is therr from my side, from her shes 5 step more than me always, but I miss her, I really miss 😔

  • @AL_4083
    @AL_408316 сағат бұрын

    I see so many comments about they should love you for you and some other over-processed BS. No one has to accept you for you if you’re toxic as hell, or have some other bad habits and behaviors! If you love the person you’re with, when they come to you and say they need certain things to change, CHANGE THEM! Not your morals or values but your bad/toxic behaviors. If YOU CHOOSE NOT TO, then accept that they CHOSE NOT TO put up with you anymore!

  • @rachelbellworld2831
    @rachelbellworld283116 сағат бұрын

    Bingo!!

  • @CJayG37
    @CJayG3716 сағат бұрын

    I was back and forth with this woman for 6 yrs. I made her work hard and she couldnt take it 😂😂😂😂. I guess i really did like her but as the years went on with the back and forth the attraction just decreased until i didnt care for her like i once did.... She didnt understand that and said i was really mean.

  • @pencilhigh
    @pencilhigh17 сағат бұрын

    I've been watching your videos and honestly I want them to feel that regret for breaking up with me. I'm still learning alot about myself and healing in the process so I may make more mistakes for now but.... We have this couple app we been using and I've been holding on to it... He disconnected once after I blocked him from socials(all files will disappear if one of the two DCs and there's a grace period to recover it, else all chats and photos disappear forever) and I asked to recover it just this weekend. Is it better if I DCed now or wait until he DCs first?

  • @lilpuumin9158
    @lilpuumin915817 сағат бұрын

    I blocked everything as well

  • @sadiqua7
    @sadiqua717 сағат бұрын

    This video is so on time. I just got a breadcrumb text yesterday after 3 months. He said “hey how are you, sorry I’m just responding” the F!? I didn’t immediately reply. (Had the thinking, he’s not my priority!) I waited till the next morning to collect my thoughts. I said “ I don’t know what to say to you other than, it’s not ok” Sure enough, he has still not replied a day later. The games.. I’m not here for it.

  • @tgospelvoice
    @tgospelvoice18 сағат бұрын

    Coach my ex reach out during no contact twice i was so happy but didn't make him know i am, the last time he reach out he only greeted, could it be that he is gone?

  • @juliaryan8001
    @juliaryan800118 сағат бұрын

    What if attraction is so much gone so that they will just not feel the loss because negative behaviours where just overweighting the positive ones?

  • @j3wrld
    @j3wrld18 сағат бұрын

    Bro went from Chuck E. Cheese job to 100k on youtube yesssir coach🙏🏽💯

  • @rinadronac2833
    @rinadronac283319 сағат бұрын

    You're not allowed to dress like that, it's too sexy and I can't focus on what you're saying 😂❤

  • @Omnitrix8
    @Omnitrix819 сағат бұрын

    Mourned her departure for 1 month. Now I am in a great place and currently dating. Looking back, I can see she was not good for me.