Once you heal..you don't need them back. Period.

@reginad.tucker-musicminist6198

14 күн бұрын

💯🔥

@iCAN-xs9ce

13 күн бұрын

100% TRUTH

In no contact for 112 days now the start of No contact is very VERY slow however as time passes time flies u feel better you feel stronger , don’t reach out keep going strong!

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

💯

@tysonmcvicar3829

16 күн бұрын

I'm also in NC for 3.5 months. It gets easier every day. Got options in the dating world too so I'm good now finally with her not coming back

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

⁠@BlackScreen-nb7tx IF you watch this channel, I ALWAYS say, you HAVE to be willing to walk away. So not caring too much is actually good advice. That said, there are a multitude of reasons people become complacent in a relationship that could cause a loss in interest, desire and ultimate breakup. This is something most couples can get past, provided there is a change in the dynamic. If you understand anything about attraction, you know that being around or being there for someone who dumped you or is not prioritizing is a terrible strategy it doesn’t work. The behavior of essentially valuing yourself and Not disrespecting yourself SHOULD be normal. But unfortunately it isn’t. Some people are hurt, broken or may have low self esteem. And so they stick around, trying to be friends, trying to beg etc. Which obviously never works. So in some ways these videos help you mimic high self esteem behavior, and hopefully eventually it stops being an act. You let your ex fight for you. This information comes from thousands of hours of calls, emails, conversations with REAL people. The average person will never have the opportunity to see first hand what works and what doesn’t. That’s the insight I hope these videos offer

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

@BlackScreen-nb7tx There is ALWAYS a dumper… the whole reason a “breakup” takes place in the first place is one person WANTS to be in the relationship and the other does not. Whatever language they use to describe it when they leave is mostly justification to make the separation easier. Ultimately they don’t want to be there. From an energy perspective, a desire to stay and make things work, there is always one partner who wants that less. Or specifically in a breakup doesn’t want it at all…. Otherwise they would have never left

@tzk121

16 күн бұрын

@BlackScreen-nb7tx You obviously have not been watching his videos and just here to start a fight like a lot of online "smart" trolls. Go start your own channel and "preach". So tacky.

No contact should last forever...when someone leaves you ANd wants nothing to do with you,well then you have no business wanting them to ever contact you again... heal and move on

@debratownsend5495

7 күн бұрын

I totally agree 👍💯

@Wildanimal864.

Күн бұрын

Then why are you watching this😏😏😏…..y’all are so 🧢🧢

“Once the rain is over, an umbrella becomes a burden to everyone. That’s how loyalty ends…when benefits stop”

@ApryllAileen

15 сағат бұрын

Where is this quote from? Love it

Took 4 months for her to come back. Ran into each other and her feelings came flooding in

Its been 5 days, shes with someone else now. He was probably there for a few weeks leading up to the break up. Oh well, im going to improve myself in every way

6 months. She's with someone else now. Likely was with him from the breakup itself. I feel devastated. There's no point to anything anymore as our future is over. 10 years for nothing. 10 years I can never get back

@MDDR-io7nh

16 күн бұрын

22 yrs I can't get back.

@tena2013

16 күн бұрын

@@MDDR-io7nh I pray we both grieve and heal from this

@stephenblock4319

15 күн бұрын

Some woman find it hard to do this alone and it’s a rebound and therefore not real. Don’t let her control you

@tena2013

15 күн бұрын

@stephenblock4319 rebound or not he's been in the picture well before the breakup. It's likely an affair she was having considering she's not making it public

@Erguevo33

Күн бұрын

10 years here too bro. Although mine is extremely recent, and she left on the most inmature and hurting way. And the whore bitch devil of her mother never wanted us to be together and the one time after 7 years of no seeing her daughter after I brought her from our home country to the U.S and she visited us, she achieved her goal of breaking us up. We were in a bad spot and her mother's visit was the catalyst of the situation. 10 years out of the window just like that. Now the only way is up.

Tables has turned in my favor I'm staying in no contact until she works on herself

@MichaelFunes8

16 күн бұрын

How so if you don’t mind me asking?

Mine took 8 months. I went no contact. He reached out to me.

@laceyloops

16 күн бұрын

It usually takes longer than 6 months for them to come back. Sadly most of the time you've moved on by then. Cause what are the odds you've just been holding out emotionally for 8+ months

@13sprintuser

16 күн бұрын

I think men come back more often than women come back

@fatmasibai4292

15 күн бұрын

I am very very happy for you sister

@alexismosley959

5 күн бұрын

Did he get into another relationship during no contact?

@yvonnebillison6204

4 күн бұрын

@@alexismosley959 not that i know of. I'm sure he dated some but no committed relationship.

It’s been almost 6 months. I messed up no contact a few times in the beginning but I haven’t seen her since January. I’ve never wanted a second chance more in my life and deep in my soul I still believe we’ll somehow make it work despite everything logically saying we won’t. I know I shouldn’t but I still love her. I pray everyday we make it work regardless of how much it hurts me. I need help

He finally start to test the waters by liking my stories & always being the first to view them after 5wks of no contact. It was an impulsive break up, reason I was really mad & immediately gave the him what he asked for. Stay strong guys, they always come back

@phoebephoebs6548

14 күн бұрын

Mine was the same type although i know he had consider it before im sure . But he went from texting ans checking up on me from hos vacation to no text at all . 5 days later he came back and told me to pick up my stuff i can find someone for suitable .

@phoebephoebs6548

14 күн бұрын

He immediately regretted it think because after he text that to me he continued to text and i was so hurt i could not even read his texts, i didnt want to hear any excuses or breadcrumbs. This immediately put me in a nc with him , ans he contiuned to reach out . He then started to get frustrated and ask me for the money i owed him from our last trip , to which he had said to forget about it . I texted him yes of course but in parts cause i was getting ready to move . We talked about going to Texas so he immediately asked me if i was going to Texas , I didnt reply . He asked me whem was i going to sens him thw money and i sent immediately without a word . True no contact has been 1 week .

114 days and more downs than ups, I miss him horribly, every day a little more, I can't lift my head and I'm afraid I'll never get there, I don't want to continue living in this sadness who consumes me from the inside but I love him so much...😥, pray for me to forget him...

@WhiteGhost21

16 күн бұрын

stop counting the days

@katogojira7223

15 күн бұрын

114 ? That's a good job Brave .

@bumbuso6721

15 күн бұрын

Its going to be ok ive been there. Healing up is important work on yourself and remember your the prize. Also dont close yourself off to other opportunities. Stay Blessed

@linaamina484

15 күн бұрын

@@bumbuso6721 thank you ❤️

@phoebephoebs6548

14 күн бұрын

All men come back , specially if you had a good connection with him. Now instead of waiting you are going to work on your self

naah she is playing with another dudes joystick so even if she comes back I dont want her. I want the old her, the sweet girl i fell in love with

@brianbeeks9890

16 күн бұрын

Exactly bro, I can’t take her back. She thought she could find better . She thought the grass was greener on the other side but she burnt her bridge at the same time

@arifkhan5600

16 күн бұрын

Same happened to me 3 months back. I can feel this.

@Chrissychris2408

16 күн бұрын

Facts bro 🙌

@lars396

15 күн бұрын

Same here boys, not sure if she traded me in for someone else but I can feel it.. she went on a vacation to monaco with some dude and his best friend(girl) that she barely knows, but hey, they have salsa and jujutsu together and blah blah blah

Forgive them if it's possible. Forgiveness gives strength. If they come back hear them out, give them that chance that you once begged for. Be the bigger person. Be cautious too.

@aquastone5870

11 күн бұрын

Kind and wise, but true love & real connection work it out and keep on loving each other

@ApryllAileen

15 сағат бұрын

What if they cheated on you and betrayed you? Hard to forgive or imagine having them back in your life…even as a friend at that point

@DaveSustain

15 сағат бұрын

@@ApryllAileen Forgiving doesn't mean you need to take them back.

It’s been 2 months. She’s not coming back, I’ve received none of these things

You should do a poll, what % of people were the dumper and of those how long did it take them to reach out to the one they dumped. Is the dumper male or female, age range, length the relationship lasted before the breakup and/or star signs. Be interesting results. I see common signs probably based off psychology but the more data the better. Make better predictions for future dumpees. ❤

Efff em all! Let's all glow up and show 'em what they've been missing! Address me by my last name next time you see me boo! "Is that Miss__? Yes, yes it is. Bye !" 💁🏾‍♀️✨💕🙌🏾 I'm tired of moaping around missing him!

@CatwalkPurz

16 күн бұрын

Never be moping 🎉…the discard of our marriage meant “time for me to move forward” not returning to the snake who bit me to ask, “why would you do such a horrible thing to hurt me?”

@EButta71

16 күн бұрын

@@CatwalkPurz good for you 🙌🏾 You will be better for it!

@CatwalkPurz

16 күн бұрын

@@EButta71 (((hug))) NoContact and indifference are the new SUPER POWER/a true self-respect-move. Period. And it is helpful in healing/moving forward, faster.😉 like ripping the bandaid off quick 💥. NoContact always works BECAUSE the sole intent is to get into the POWER POSITION. IF the ex comes back and you still want them, then that is the bonus only, not the purpose also, it allows you to DETACH which creates emotional disconnect and helps you to see “the ex” clearly, instead of through rose colored glasses.

Just move on guys. A book has the same ending, no matter how many times you read it.

@goldenlifelove7251

12 күн бұрын

EXACTLY!!!

@mxrosetea

10 күн бұрын

same author doesn't mean the same book.

@Soksara

10 күн бұрын

@@mxrosetea But the same book, means the same end.

@mxrosetea

10 күн бұрын

@@Soksara Same author doesn't always mean same book. Make a new book together.

@Soksara

10 күн бұрын

​@@mxrosetea ok

It's been a yr. She attempted to reach out to me about 6mo ago but I rejected her. She left me and I made her stand on it. It was the hardest thing I've ever done and I just had to get her out of my system.

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

I’m not mad at it! This is the power you have when you don’t put people on a pedestal.

@TreasureForeverOfficial

10 күн бұрын

Good for you you deserve better

@nikkiolajide4114

4 күн бұрын

My ex dumped me almost 20 months now, I called,begging and trying to convince him that I loved him and we belonged together, but it didn't work. He was so cold and angry to me, he told me its over, I must move on with my life.4 months ago, I went no contract, and even though we have a daughter together, I stop calling or talking to him. I know it is over, but I still love him.I am having a very hard time shaking these feelings. How can I make these feelings stop!!!

@annerivas1155

Күн бұрын

​​@@nikkiolajide4114 I understand. This happened to me on Dic 2021, 30 months ago.... if you want to stop the feelings....stay busy...pick up of hobbies, sports, reading, or trips. I picked up on cross country hiking, cooking, working out, and international travel. Best to you.

@annerivas1155

Күн бұрын

​@@blacademic Thank you. I need to know how to apply the video when my ex comes back, asks for forgiveness, and wants to meet in person after 30 months.

Best channel about this topics I viewed this far. Thank you for your work. Regards!

I totally appreciate this video. Like, you have no idea. I am sort of the one that ended the relationship, but this info is exactly what I needed.

I appreciate the video. Thank you!

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching

I appreciate this video.

When is the next video? There are a lot of people out here with broken hearts that love and appreciate your advice! Thank you so much! 🙏🏽

Hello Coach!! Sorry I missed your last live. You look great. Thanks for all you do.

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Thank you! 🤞🏿

Thank U Coach for reminding us that when they contact us with not trying to meet face to face it.’s for their ego they want benefits with no risk no investments no comittments this is a big Point when a guy or girl is in a & relationship or no contact ! It is all about them!

Appreciated Immensely!! Made Me Realize IF He is on the up & up..., We May/May Not Be In Negotiation Phase: It has been highly ANNOYING.

Great video as always dear coach thank u 🩷🩷🩷🩷 more short videos pls

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching and I appreciate the feedback

Lol!! This helped me alot@ im on the recieving end 😢 i figured after 3 months of no contact it was a lost case ❤

Love this video

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching

Does no contact work on the ex that broke up with you because the fear of what happened in their previous relationships ? But also they were hoping to stay friends?

Coach is Lookin good !!

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

🤞🏿

Been a week now and I must say watching these videos have helped to remind me why to keep staying no contact

@CatwalkPurz

11 күн бұрын

I love how the videos/Coach Blac just makes sense from just understanding human dynamics. I binged watched the videos and live streams and was totally clear on what I needed to do to move forward.

@AxcFdf

6 күн бұрын

@@CatwalkPurz You can stop it, if you want to. I will leave coach Oman contact below this comment. Keep in touch with he if you want to manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest.

@AxcFdf

6 күн бұрын

✛66836855474👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄❄🔮香港的决定令人高兴。

@AxcFdf

6 күн бұрын

His WhatsApp number

@KoloJohn

6 күн бұрын

Coach Oman is an amazing love coach

Wrote 15hrs ago how my ex that I almost had a baby with breakup with me over an argument, after he left that day, I was heartbroken but allowed him have his breakup, started No contact immediately, for the past few weeks, he’s been testing the waters, constantly viewing my stories & liking them. Woke up this morning to a very long test on how we should give us another chance & not give up on what we had. I haven’t responded back yet though but want to use this medium to let this community know that, No contact do work, it’s you back your power, your confident too. Thank you Coach for a greatly job, I have actually recommended your channel to a group of people I met on Facebook going through what I Will consider worst. Bless up

I want to note that they are not always the one who has to reach out as for example a dismissive avoidant is unlikely to initiate contact as they are scared of rejection

@blacademic

15 күн бұрын

Do not reach out

I can guarantee you that if I go no contact for 3 to 4 months, I'll nolonger want or live him! It will be over! Either we work it out now or we are done!

oh boy coach blac , man i got to talk to you one day man

hey coach can let me know how much time will be added on until they reach out if you like their reposts and posts love reposts?

@yomama123446

15 күн бұрын

That's contact

7 years. We are 27. We were having difficulties for at least 3 years. She didn't care about sex, I didn't care about having dates. One day she told me that the spark was gone and that couldn't see a future with me, she started wanting kids after years of agreeament that we didn't want to have them. We broke up. 2 months later, on febreary I tried to reach and tell her that I miss her, that she was the love of my life and that I wanted an opportunity to try my best again. She blocked me everywhere. And someone told me that she keep posting things about relationships and things about when someone truly love you. We were perfect toguether. Always laughing, sharing hobbies, I was always there for her, gifted a lot of things... like a dream. We only had those problems, but... her mind and not feeling good enough made the rest. 3 months since then. I don't know if she is coming back...

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

You have been silent for 3 months? And not watching her stories on social media?

@Dukzar

16 күн бұрын

@@blacademic Yup. She told me that it was over and that I had to get over it. Thats what I did. I'm blocked so I can't watch anything anyways but I dissapeared and tried to work in myself. I grew a lot, but she still in my mind when I'm not busy...

@Dukzar

16 күн бұрын

@@blacademic Another thing is that her she could't communicate. All this time I wanted her to explain what whas wrong but she didn't do it until it was too late and we were too tired to keep trying.

@LeeEverett1

15 күн бұрын

If you were perfect for each other, the sex, dates, and blocking you would all have never happened. Just saying. People unfortunately change man. If she stopped having sex with you, something YOU were doing turned her off or she no longer felt sexually attracted to you.

@Dukzar

15 күн бұрын

@@LeeEverett1 It didn't stop, but it wasn't the same. She went through a lot of stuff related to illness so I helped the way I could. Sometimes isn't about you, is about the other person and if they don't tell you how to make her feel better, you can't do anything. After 7 years, without communication its impossible to match what the other person wants. Ask Kaká if being perfect for the other person works.

U value more what u have to work for

45 days of no contact, losing hope already but stay strong.

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

If you have truly been silent with no mistakes… keep going, not long enough

@followsthestars

16 күн бұрын

@@blacademic I'm also at 45 days of no contact, but my ex keeps reaching out, practically begging to be friends. I haven't responded to any of his messages. He says the reason we broke up (after 5 years in a serious relationship) is because he doesn't want to get married (and I do). Yet, he is dating someone else now... (eye roll) I've told him how hurt I am and that I don't want to be friends 2 months ago, but he won't stop reaching out to me apologizing, sending me songs, saying he feels my absence. But I don't want to be friends, he hurt me, and I either want him to leave me alone entirely or realize his mistake and do whatever it takes to fix our relationship. Thoughts on what you think I should do?!

@MikeJoints

16 күн бұрын

@@blacademic I blocked my ex-girlfriend from the day she said she wanted us to be friends. Since then, I haven't spoken to her. Maybe she sees my Instagram stories from another account, I don't know. But after a week, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend, and well, since then, I don't want to see her anymore.

@MikeJoints

16 күн бұрын

@@followsthestars In my case, she just called me from a strange number to apologize for not valuing me and for getting back with her ex. I mean, what need did I have to know that? She has bipolar disorder, which explains a lot of things, but I still don't hold any grudge against her. I knew what I was getting into, and I don't regret it.

@followsthestars

16 күн бұрын

@@MikeJoints My ex also is bipolar (which is a recent diagnosis) but it's a big part of what drove us apart at the end too. His mental health issues were out of control and he refused to get help. I think he started "dating" the girl he's with now (assuming they're still together) because of loneliness and because he was in a manic episode and just didn't even think about me at all. But now he's realizing what life is like without me, hence the begging to be friends and apologizing. But I think for now I am just going to keep staying silent because if I entertain him at all, it's just going to keep pulling me down this toxic path where I keep getting hurt. And that's not fair to me. :(

use to support this girl financialy ,an easy 3k/month + top tier restaurants and gifts and flowers every 2nd week ,emotion support and so on ,just tryed to make it right cause why not , and she ghosted me cause her bf asked to get married. She got back after a month agreeing to meet and she need to pay her rent and dnt show up , i blocked her ass on my cash app and now shes bagging to buy her food , like what in a acctual F is wrong with her , getting married but that dude can't even afford to take care of her basic needs....

I will say that there is an exception to it having to be the dumper reaching out first and that’s if you broke the trust in the relationship or know you didn’t treat them right.

Hey coach blac can you do a video on dating during “no contact”? I’m sure many people are in the same situation as me. My situation is that my ex started dating someone immediately after we broke up. I waited and now I’m dating however I still have feelings for her and she has feelings for me. I did push her away last week because she came back multiple times to check in. She got mad at me because I’m seeing other people but she’s dating someone else… which doesn’t make sense especially since she was the one who dumped me. Right now I’m just dating for me and just trying to get myself over her and to have fun and to detach. But again at times I find myself still wishing to be with her. Any tips or maybe a video ?

@blacademic

15 күн бұрын

So you are still in contact with her but you aren’t going on dates with each other?

@peterjrcoolidge

15 күн бұрын

@@blacademic yes

I'm pass 6 months know..... I fact I lost track I've been rebuild my self and working out a lot slow down my drinking and trying to get my self on track ...... the time you have to ur self use it wisely that's what I'm learning but don't get it wrong I miss her lot everyday but I just need to keep pushing

I belive that if I get a thumbs up from the coach I'll get my ex back

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Boom! You got it. How long have you been in no contact anyway?

@aarthym4577

16 күн бұрын

​@@blacademic 40 days...thanks for the confidence coach ❤️❤️

We were meant to be engaged, and I said a few things to his sister including if things are sorted in the next two weeks I will end this (we fought for an entire month about our wedding month) and she went and told the parents. We kept in contact for a few months and now he decided to go no contact and I can understand as I had a few unhealthy traits such as always wanting to leave the relationship or not believing he loves me. I really hope I am able to address these issues whilst we go no contact cause I love this man immensely. If you’re struggling start with reviewing why you are going no contact and read old messages where you have messed up and go to therapy. Keep asking yourself what is the goal, if the goal for now is getting back together, start there and then slowly that will shift because you lose hope but your routine and mindset would’ve shifted. Some days are harder than most but I love my human so I’m healing these wounds to progress me and then us.

@SalmaBegum-wn4np

15 күн бұрын

He has started to breadcrumb me, and even going to the extent of staying on WhatsApp and “recording an audio” only to remove it or liking my reposts. I know I need to disappear and I’m trying

i was in a abusive relationship for a year with my ex we broke up around july and she put me in jail i almost lost everything but ever since i been out of jail i never thought of reaching out i just wanted to understand and wanted closure she been watching me when i got out then unfollowed me out of nowhere den her friend kept adding me on social media which i find weird some say my ex is using her to watch me or she wants to get back at me in a bad way but i didnt care i felt stronger and help me understand what i shouldn't do in a relationship or think i mostly learned from that relationship took me a while to trust anyone because i look at loyalty very different but im doing better and with someone else

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Yep! Some people come into your life to serve a purpose and help you grow. Definitely do not stay or go back to abusive people

2 years no contact.Mamba Mentality 🦾

@azazel3944

14 күн бұрын

Move on lol

coach is he coming back? is there still a chance? its more than 3 months now since we last had contact and since he broke up with me. i really hate the fact that im still thinking about him :(

What do you recommend for long distance as far as no contact being broken? I’m planning to move back there in about 3 months. Do I say we can talk when I get back so we can talk face to face?

My wife separated from me 4 months ago. I have been in no contact for 3 months. At first before I went no contact I kept complimenting her, checking on her asking how her day was and she would sometimes answer me but never ask me how I was doing. I even went over her house to try to work things out and asked if she missed me and told her I still loved and missed her. She told me she did not miss me and that she was ok. Then I went no contact. However, recently after 3 months her friend told me that my wife believes she made the right decision to separate from me because I was not fighting for her or going out of my way to win her back. This frustrated me because I tried but she did not reciprocate anything. Plus she broke up with me. What should i do? I love her very much and we have 3 kids together with a 13 boy at home with my wife.

@stephaniepittaluga5057

16 күн бұрын

If you got that intel I would try to talk to her. You can always return to NC again. Maybe in person since you have children together including a 13 yo. Marriage with kids might be a wrinkle in this NC game but I’m not discounting what the Coach is saying at all. Praying for you ♥️

I have question. Their problem if i was dating morgan for real i got so so much History with my ex boyfriend Stephen then could it turn into emotional cheating because i know Stephen from school to college and morgan only high school would become Emotional Infidelity without having no sex

I just started no contact with the man I was seeing. His children's mother's kept doing the most and he was almost enabling the behavior instead of establishing healthy boundaries. I miss him but it's been peaceful I'm not gonna lie

@artastic7837

16 күн бұрын

My situation is exactly the same. 14 days no contact and im starting to see im better off out the situation. He wanted space from me to miss and appreciate me but its doing the complete oppersite for me. When there are no boundaries, the relationship will never work. It's hard but u will be ok.x

okay but if the ex at work with you how can keep NC? He will see me every day! And sometimes I have to talk to him ab work Can I get your opinion pls? Also what if he stepped back and took some quiet time for himself when he mad at me and he does the nc for me but at the time is not a breakup it was just to figure out his thoughts because he told me he like to do this from the first time we met? So sometimes i dont know if we break up or if he wants to take some time alone he never shows difference because he does the NC to me and when I ask what u need some time or u ditch me! He never answered me at all, we have been in 2 breakups also he did the NC to me whenever he mad at me, also I think I never stopped talking to him at all ,, ones I did the NC to him but when he reach to me I accept him admittedly:) !! I know my bad!!,, but he is mad at me right now but what I should do I don't know if we break up or he need time alone! also he love me a lot and i did some mistakes.. but know i will do the NC u think?

Going on 11 weeks now....not a word and I went immediately into no contact and I have not reached out at all whatsoever so I have done everything correctly yet nothing. Not one peep. It feels pretty hopeless and she was the one that did everything wrong and she told me so. She said she was sorry and she said she wasn't good for me and I still forgave her and told me that she missed me but when I told her to come to Rio that was the last message that I sent. She read it but never responded and I know to go into no contact because it's like tennis. I hit the ball over the net and she hasn't hit it back. I just don't know what to do with this point

My ex had a new woman while we were together. He left me & immediately got in a relationship with her. Godspeed to him & all the seeds he's planting.

@AxcFdf

6 күн бұрын

His WhatsApp number

I was texting my wife cuz this is where im confused cuz im getting her mail in my apt still but now im not texting her for her mail cuz i don't want to break the NC what do I do.

been in no contact for close to 2 months during this time range she’s had 3 crushes 1st one turned her down a week after we broke up second one didn’t say anything to her and 3rd one is already dating someone else during that time she blocked me on almost anything she could find but it doesn’t make sense to me because on snap chat she unadded me and then blocked me like a week later since then she got mad at one of her friends because she was talking to me and sending me full faces over snap but now nothing much has happened starting to lose hope but 2 months still probably isn’t enough

I broke up with my ex and 7 months later I tried getting back with her but she’s with a new guy I messaged her and she didn’t respond and then she told me to stop messaging her because she doesn’t want to talk to me I can tell she was mad it took me that long to try to get back with her. do you think it’s too late and I haven’t messaged her since she told me to stop what should I do I would really appreciate a response

So what about if we thought we initiated the breakup but they manipulated it & made it seem like it was your choice … should I be the one reaching out? Am I still considered the dumper?

My ex told me three weeks ago that I’m a good guy but she doesn’t feel we can recover from disrespecting each other. Fast forward three weeks later and she’s saying she wants to talk to me and miss goofing around with me. Is this a sign of breadcrumbing? And do I still have a chance of being with her again? I’ve been in NC to the T

3 years a mortage fur babies together and a propsal and she decided to leave me and take the fur babies with her i stay in the house that we got together she went to another apartmant with the babies we were still talking back and forth then we decided to get back together again and she leaves me again we were both faitful and everything to one another but she decided to leave me now blocked me from all social media and on the phone as well so now i am disappearing from this i will still talk with her and forgive her when ever she is ready for now i am not in contact or anything i will let her do what she wants to do ...

In no contact since 2.5months. Before leaving she blamed everything on me and abused and disrespected me. Just got to know a couple of days back that she was cheating and talks to her new supply till late in night every single day . what to do in this case? will she ever regret leaving me and whether she will reach out to me in this scenario ? how should I go about now? should i wait any longer for her to reach out (not to get back but any kind of apologies)?

I love how people say “why would you want them back?” …….Why are you watching these videos then😏😏😏….guy we can tell you’re hurt and in denial you just wanna pretend you’re over somebody who you aren’t but your actions speak much louder than your comments😅😅. It’s ok to want them back.

My ex be constantly texting me and watching my snap mind you she left me now I’m gonna get back with her I’ll just pipe her down and keep it pushing because I love my freedom and peace too much

My ex sent me a text message telling me we should stop seeing each other.i ddnt even respond i just blueticked her.after 12 days thats when she called me wanting me to help her with somethings, told her il see then a day after she called again and i just gave the information she needed.so my question is why is she calling and asking for my help now?, after all she the one who broke up with me.

What about when you’re living with them, I’m unable to move at the moment.

It’s been 7 months. At month 2, got a text asking for the number of a mutual contact we had, then he said thanks and then bounced back to being silent. Thoughts? Relationship was 3 years.

We broke up 7 months ago or so. I didn’t do no contact. Our contact was minimal. We ran into each other last week twice and texted a little bit after. Is it ever too late to proceed with no contact?

no contact for 5 weeks now... i'm starting to lose hope, i really want her back but i don't think it's going to happen....

Question i cheated, i did beg the first month and error and it’s been about 2 months all together. She does respond when i text but doesn’t initiate will no contact attach still work or what u think

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Have you asked to see her? If not why?

Been 9 months, in NC for a third time and removed from socials apart from my school that I run account and she watched all the stories. What’s the chances of her reaching out are?

@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387

2 күн бұрын

Im in a similiar stage I noticed they’ll reach out if they get jealous

@couldstrife1

Күн бұрын

@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 oh? Don’t really know how to do that. But don’t want her to reach out if she’s just jealous can’t be a healthy way to try and get her back?

@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387

Күн бұрын

@@couldstrife1 idk but that worked for me when she saw me posting pics of texts o hanging out with other women it made her jealous and attracted to me again lead to us going on a date hooking up and getting back together stronger the second time but then she broke it off like 3 months later again

What about in a same sex relationship? I’d love to hear your perspective

@stephaniepittaluga5057

16 күн бұрын

I think it works the same based on other videos- the attraction dynamic works in same sex relationships, is my understanding.

Ive been in no cotact for some weeks, on Monday morning i saw an incoming call from my ex but didn't pick, he insisted i still didn't pick up the phone then he left a voicemail and a message, he said "i called and you didn't pick how are you doing, it's been long na, after break up is not enemity", i waited for 3 hours and replied "Gd afternoon....,...., i am fine I've just been busy, hp u good too, thanks for reaching out",he replied I'm ok, wlcm and started a video call twice which i still didn't pick but told him i can't pick at the moment, he said ok! Since then he hasn't reach out again, I don't know if i didn't do well, but ive not write to him since then

My girlfriend broke up with me in January I was begging and pleading for 2 months she asked me for space I give her space I stay no contact for 2 months last week was my birthday and she wished me happy birthday and I asked how she doing and she asked me back and the conversation stop there I don’t know what to do next

So my ex ended our relationship on December 31st of 2023 and at this point she is moving into an apartment with another man...at this point do I just focus on moving on oh is there still hope...I know this so stupid to ask but it's been stuck in my head

@CatwalkPurz

11 күн бұрын

ALWAYS move forward as if they will never be in your life again. After watching all of the videos and content in the live streams, you will make the right move.

I followed the advise and she came back, a few months after seeing each other I asked her would you ever cheat on me again, she said....... I can't see the future so I don't know.

I reached out to her after 1,5 months and I apolgized for my mistakes in a mature way. We then had a phonecall for abou 1,5 where we also talked about what went wrong and what mistakes we(both) did. I plan on staying no contact now. She said that she‘s over the relationship and that she doesn‘t want to leave a crack open in the door. I only gave her unconditional love (to much in fact as it turned out) and she has a also few avoidant tendencies. Is this bad?

@blacademic

15 күн бұрын

Yeah but mainly because you are still chasing. If you did too much for her in the relationship, what are you apologizing for?

@CookieOps

15 күн бұрын

@@blacademic Apologizing for smothering her and being to needy for her attention and getting lazy

@CookieOps

15 күн бұрын

@@blacademic is there still a chance even with her statements made?

would you take back an ex brokwe you nd your no contact they had sex somwone else

Once i healed, i will never go back because Now I Do Not Trust You Period!!!!!!!😮😮😮😳💔💔💔

What if the partner doesn’t commit in the same way after the dating phase and den pull back cos they think it’s a stress…how shud we Bhave then?

@CatwalkPurz

11 күн бұрын

You match their energy level and pull back too.

He broke up on September 10th, i tried calling every 2 weeks to talk to him but no harassment style, up until mid November where for the last time he said No, and I have been in NC since...keep me in your prayers please

Commented on another video today my ex reached out she walked out a club because she couldn't enjoy her night as she was missing me and I was out Saturday too but I wasnt leaving the bar😅 so the whole power dynamic has shifted

@aquastone5870

11 күн бұрын

You treat this like a competition or game. A power struggle. If you loved each other, you would both love on each other and forgive and make up and heal each other. What you are showing is not love

@Tony-Rob-Wright_87

10 күн бұрын

Listen i was with this woman 6 years believe me alot happened and there was alot of love

My ex let me go!! I cant do no contact because we share a kid together. I only video time my ex to talk to my son. Other than that . I give her no time of day. Ive Been focusing on myself and god, and things are looking up for me.

@yolandabayyan9494

16 күн бұрын

I honestly think that is the ultimately the purpose of no contact.

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Awesome man! Keep going

@CatwalkPurz

16 күн бұрын

The third video ever done on this channel speaks specifically about your situation where you share a child with your ex

We were together for 7 years and had one child then he became more and more distant and in the end he went away with an "old friend". It's now been a year and 2 months and he's flying with her on vacation on my birthday. A vacation together has always been my dream. I am seriously hurt and after all this time I still can't let go because we are in contact because of our daughter. I have nightmares about his new one, what should I do?😰😭

June 6 will be one year since we broke up. I know he’s been working a lot between 2 jobs. He’s not in a new relationship with anyone.. I still love him and miss him. Is there still hope ?

@TheOrange2341

16 күн бұрын

Reach out to him

@questiona7

16 күн бұрын

Yes if he is single

I’ve been in no contact for 4 months and have not heard anything

But what if the no contact is going for longer than those 2-4 months .. what does that mean then ? is any hope lost if it’s longer than that period ?

@AxcFdf

6 күн бұрын

You can get he back, if you want to. I will leave coach Oman contact below this comment. contact he if you want to manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest.

@AxcFdf

6 күн бұрын

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@AxcFdf

6 күн бұрын

His WhatsApp number

@KoloJohn

6 күн бұрын

Coach Oman is an amazing love coach

@AxcFdf

5 күн бұрын

@@KoloJohn Yes you are rights, he really help me to fix my marriage.

Just started no contact coach. She’s with a rebound relationship and she told me she chooses him so I’m letting her go but I was with her for over 2 years. I’m going to keep no contact but will she regret breaking up with me even if she’s in a relationship?

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

At this point all you can do is make yourself someone she will regret losing. In most cases rebounds do not work out long term. But if she started dating this guy right after the breakup, he has probably been around since before the breakup. I would be very skeptical about her

@nickgarza3410

16 күн бұрын

@@blacademic we were broken up still working things out she mentally checked out a while ago.. and we tried to rekindle but she was so hurt she quickly wanted a quick fix. She was very possessive but I feel she will be the same way with the new guy. I don’t want her to be hurt because I still care for her but I don’t know if I’ll ever still have a chance with her again?

if i unfriend her after the break up, should i add her again on social media ?

I have been in no contact with my ex for about 5 months now, and since then, he has been messaging me once every month asking how I’m doing. I always respond to him nicely and match his energy. Recently, he commented on my Mother’s Day story, saying that he hopes I’m okay and I should always take care of myself. I don’t know what he wants; I'm confused by his behavior. He was the one who initiated the breakup, telling me he no longer has romantic feelings towards me but wants us to stay friends. Of course, I didn’t accept that. Is there hope that we can be together again? Is this a good sign? I don’t know anymore :(

@CatwalkPurz

11 күн бұрын

He is just doing this out of guilt, or to make sure you are an option.

@Sarah40.

4 күн бұрын

If he's a Virgo male, it is very common for them to check on people they once used to love. Actually, they never stop to love, only the type of love changes. But if you want anything romantic, Im afraid he moved on. Good luck, girl ❤

But what if they dumped you and initiated no contact. “Don’t contact me again”….. is this hopeless?

@CatwalkPurz

11 күн бұрын

No, but give them what they want. “Give them so much much space their head will spin”(Coach Blac) It’s like you will be on the same team. If you fight them on it and keep contacting them, you will push them further away.

The 9th day he came back.........😂....so i guess it does work.

@blacademic

16 күн бұрын

Haha cool. But like I said, don’t rush. Slow and steady

@K.Cherell1986

16 күн бұрын

@@blacademic I am taking your advice for sure.

The person who are in a relationship with the other woman while you are in a relationship they will not come back even you will do ncr!

In my case, she broke up with me about a month ago. Went nearly 3 weeks without talking. And I reached out (yes I know I shouldn’t have) but she met up with me. We talked. Said it was hard being there. I didn’t ask her to take me back but the topic of continuing, did come up. I told her that because she left, she’d have to decide. Because by rights since she left, if we were to have talked it’s because she reached out. Not me. Long story short she calls me a few days later and says she can’t do it. And we talked about an hour. I didn’t beg…but I did put up an argument. An argument in the sense that she should reconsider for x or y reason. Eventually I lost my patience and said she didn’t want it to work because she kept finding excuses. So if she thought she could do better to go ahead. And I let her go. This conversation was a week ago. I’m not reaching out again obviously….but yeah. It sucks.

No one talks about how to act or approach the situation when they want to see you again and are seeing each other again after yous rekindle how do you keep them ?

@number7743

5 күн бұрын

It’s so easy to seem insecure or say certain things that makes them think you are too keen and putting all your eggs in the one basket

It’s been over a year of NC Oh well 🤷

Today was our anniversary and he didn't even call. I hate it 😭 he literally heated on me and left out of NOWHERE.

My ex texted me”I really miss spending time with you” I didn’t break no contact. Her birthday is coming up soon should I break NC?

@stephaniepittaluga5057

16 күн бұрын

I think you can always restart NC and she did reach out first so maybe it’s ok but he has a lot of examples of things going back and forth in his other videos. So I wouldn’t come in too strong perhaps?