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@srimathi_amma_channel

7 ай бұрын

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What a beautiful courageous woman. I grew up very close to where she grew up in Texas. Cricket if you read this, you’re worth is unmeasurable, you are not alone, and millions of women across the globe stand with you. I pray you use your experience to empower other women to be brave like you. Sending all my love and hugs!

As a survivor since I was a baby b4 I could crawl....I get this 💔. If only people realized the many horrors some children go thru & how tuff it is as an adult too. No, kids don't just get over it. No, survivors can't just let it go. It look me these last 2 decades living alone in deep reflection (reading psychology, etc.) to find out who I really was/is....not who I was told I was, not how I was treated. 5 yrs ago, when I was 72, I finally got a grip.....now near 77 I finally can die in peace.....just hope I can get my story told & another non-profit org started b4 I go.....I wanna leave this world a 'lil better place than what I found it. Glad this venue is allowing survivors to express themselves. It truly helps when you get real HUGS2U ❤😊!

@wanderingaudi4138

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate that you also shared your age. I am 66 yrs old, and I have never shared my story. I was 5 and a cousin was 19. My parents became aware and it was hidden. Sixty years ago, those things were never talked about and when I brought it up I was told it never happened. I don't know what was worse the molesting or the denial from my parents. My life was shattered, so all the adults could go on living their lives as if nothing ever happened.

@benjiebenjamin7810

9 ай бұрын

@@wanderingaudi4138 And thank you for sharing ♥️. Denial is a huge problem still. My father started endless gaslight gossip about me to make me the bad guy. It worked, as until lately, other victims of my sexually abused relatives wouldn't speak out so I stood alone. My 4 children fell for the lies & then spread the cruel tales to my grandchildren denying me of them. Only 1, @ 16, looked me up & allowed me to embrace & cherish her....she's gay so the relatives hate her (even my pastor daughter). I approached local people here to assist me in starting a new non-profit org of pedophilia prevention & awareness.....I was told, & I quote exactly, by the local 'christians', we don't talk about such ugly things around here." Push my buttons, grrrrrrrrr & I replied that I didn't think Jesus would appreciate that, & etc., & a few other choice words. They'd rather innocent children suffer such abuse than to thwart it here in TN. My mother was also abused. My sister once but her mother had family, my mother didn't. My mother's sister's baby was 1 of many "Stolen Babies" by a Georgia Tann. I've a very long true life story of unimaginable cruelties that to this day I deal with the repercussions from guilty racist religious fanatical relatives.....I moved here 2000 to face my boogiemans to heal & research why it's still so prevalent here (& elsewhere).....there's deep rooted white man self-righteous christian hate in this state that desperately needs to be exposed. I'm trying, I hope to b4 I die as I want to leave this planet a better place than what I found it. HUGS2U ♥️😊

@ari44mm.32r

9 ай бұрын

you're so strong... even tho I'm speechless, i wish u the best in this world..

@vergeREVO

8 ай бұрын

​@wanderingaudi4138 I've been through similar traumas. I get it. 🤗 It's so complex & overwhelming to go through those things. Just know those of us who have gone through it, feel your pain, and stand with you! You're not alone! You are a survivor, a warrior! You are STRONG!! No matter who has told you you're less than, they're wrong. You're brave. You are beautiful! Praying for EVERY ANSWER you need to come flooding into your life, like a gentle, constant stream of pure, vibrant water. 💙💙💙🌊🦋🌊💙💙💙

@benjiebenjamin7810

8 ай бұрын

@@vergeREVO It saddens me that you 'get lt'.... But, this is why I fight....I don't want others to spend their lives just surviving, existing & not learning how to live....end up like me with my life spent feeling shame, guilt what was done TO me in my youth. When life gives you a bunch of poop you turn it into fertilizer & grow something good out of it.....& since I've got tons of the stuffs, I fight for to prevent & make aware that pedophilia (sex trafficing, etc.) is a HUGE problem. I want awareness so people can recognize & call authorities to save our innocent precious children's lives. It no longer takes a village to raise a child(ren) safely.....it takes a Nation. HUGS2U 🤗😊

I am a survivor of incestuous molestation as well. She's right about the consequences. They're despicable.

Cricket, never forget how amazing you are. You have broken the cycle and your children have what they need, you. Sending you loads of love.

Abusers of children have NO use in society and should get life or prison justice. They ruin children lives.

I can relate to this beautiful lady 💔I’m a 42 year old survivor, it’s a hard road and I’m still having therapy all these years later but I keep going because my children deserve a better mother than I had. Without them I couldn’t be this strong. Thankyou for sharing your story ❤ Sending Peace, Love and strength Cricket ✌️❤💪

So proud of Cricket for coming forward and getting herself the help she needs. So much of this story rings true for me. My parents grew marijuana until my mom passed when I was 10 then my dad turned to meth. He was sexualizing me and my friends shortly thereafter and started grooming me. A year later the molestation started and I would pretend to sleep through it. He would tell me it was time to take my mom's place which was so f----d up. Sometimes I would pretend to wake up, say I had to pee and never come back to bed but I think he would just climb into my little sisters' bed which I feel guilt from. She has suffered from bipolar and schizophenia since she was 21. I called CPS on our dad when I was 12, she was 10 when he injected meth with her and her sexual abuser when she was 3, my uncle. Sending love and prayers to Cricket and the other victims. Thank you for aharing their stories.

@jackzerr2548

9 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry

@user-uy6hq8rc6i

7 ай бұрын

Omg I'm so sorry 😥 I. Send you a million hugs 😘

You are brave a real warrior and you rose up among the ashes. You are an inspiration to other woman who have suffered from this.

@susannetaylor9914

9 ай бұрын

Seriously, I just want to give you a big hug. I can relate to this on so many levels. Tears in my eyes. Thank you so much for your testimony. You are brave and beautiful. I suffer with severe anxiety and PTSD as well. Anxiety it's crippling. Ever need a friend or want to talk, I'm a great listener and everybody needs somebody to talk to you sometimes. You are strong and you are worth everything beautiful and wonderful this life has to offer. God bless you and yours. ❣️🙏

@DrOtto-sx7cp

9 ай бұрын

... male & abused by my (much older) sister. 🙏🌹

No. Castration.

@pinkpugginz

4 ай бұрын

it doesnt work

It’s not fair that Cricket went through all of this as a child But now her kids also know that their mom is a superhero 🥹

I am only 5 minutes in, but my parents are drug addicts too and everyone knows, but we never got help. Nobody has taken us away. I really ask myself why. CPS never wanted to help my siblings and me. I hate CPS too.

Sorry REAL, can't watch. Real close to home for me.❤🇨🇦

You are so brave to come forward and share your story. I am not as brave as you, but I understand some of what you must be going through. Please know that there are many of us out there that support you and many of us that wish they could be as brave as you. You are my Hero.

Both my parents sexually abused me as a child. But I’m a survivor just like you xx

@ilahajabiyeva8750

6 ай бұрын

How? Mom too?

I am on serdep and urbanol and its amazing. I am a 3 time farm attack survivor and 2 time deadly assault survivor.

@anteantic986

9 ай бұрын

then you should obviously work on your choices

@estellewadsworth4187

9 ай бұрын

@@anteantic986 yes i agree but none of this was done at the hands of partners etc it was farm atyacks by gangs , and the two deadly assaults were because i refused to sleep with men that wanted to force me have sex with them. So thats not my choices its my refusal to have sex with disgusting men

@anteantic986

8 ай бұрын

dont know where you live but i can say probably for all of europe those things are not happening but you maybe from third world country so those things can happen even tho you make great choices...just to mention us is third world country just in case your lausy goverment wanted to brainwash you otherwise.@@estellewadsworth4187

I'm so sorry about what had happened to you

God bless you. Lord please heal the abused children in Jesus name.

So sorry you had to endure so much. I'm glad you're finding your peace. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless.

*** Good for you to speak up about this * to enlighten & educate 👏 all of us indeed.

Thank you for sharing your experience with us - you are very brave for breaking the chain of sex abuse. At some point the medications will only help to a point, then there's prayer. The noise in my head left the day I began to pray again. just a simple suggestion...

The fact that your therapist diagnosed her with so many things ON HER FIRST VISIT is wild

IYKYK... and I know. I'm so proud of this beautiful young woman for standing up, staying strong and not giving up. There have been many times I said the same thing, "this is just too much. One thing after another and it ends, when do I get a break because I'm way past my breaking point". And if I didn't have my child, I can't say whether I would be here or not. I definitely know I wouldn't be clean from pills for over 8 years now. I know I would have fallen into old habits and hit rock bottom more than once. But we don't have a choice but to keep going because we refuse to continue the cycle and refuse to allow our children to go through the things we went through. ❤

I understand. Also, you are explaining it very well. Thank you for sharing. Best wishes to you and your family.

They don't deserve the death penalty the death penalty is too good for them life in prison and a small loft room where they can never see the light of day again which city food in any way to torture impossible but death is to good for them

@susanboatman7913

9 ай бұрын

I agree that they should go to prison and be in the general population. Even among criminals child abusers pedophiles or child murders they are considered the lowest of the low. A lot of criminals have children of their own. Often child abusers etc are met with misfortune if not death in the general population

@ddz1375

9 ай бұрын

​@@susanboatman7913 Unfortunately the justice system thinks it is more fitting for abusers to serve out their sentences in protected custody than face real justice at the hands of their peers. #stopprptectingchildpredators

Praying for you Cricket !!

You have carried the trauma most your life childhood trauma can trigger mental illness. I also have bi polar and god knows what else. Cricket you are an incredible woman who broke the cycle and I agree with you they get a slap on the wrist yet in the Uk not sure about the USA a driving offence will carry more time. There is no rehabilitating people who prey on children and no sentence will ever change them as soon as their out they go straight back and do it again ruining another persons life they are hardwired that way nothing will ever change them. Sending you love and healing 🤍

*** Thank you 😊 🙏 💓 ☺ 💖 😘 for the true kindness ❤ 💖 💕 you portray & thank 😊 🙏 you also for educating us.

Canada needs to implement psilocybin trauma therapy.

Cricket thankyou for sharing your story...just know your not alone..I've experienced some of what you have so I feel you and understand...lots of love and peace to you..I can tell your a great mom and have broke the cycle....❤❤

And that's what courage looks like. Well done, you!

I can relate and it's amazing how we can still love after all of that!

yes, i believe it should be. i was thinking the same thing again recently. we need to prioritize our children, our future and make caring for children a priority and a privilege while we support those who do and create a society that does so. people in positions of power hold a higher degree of responsibility and should not be shielded from the law but pay a higher cost, that will deter others and wake people up to open there eyes, see what is happening and stand up for the children. They need everyone.

You’re definitely the most kick ass cyborg I’ve ever seen.

Wow thank you so much for sharing your story with us❤ you are so strong and literally you got me here crying saying to myself if you can keep going and keep trying to heal from this i can heal and keep going from what i have been through. Ive been feeling very down lately. Thank you so much . Also! You are so beautiful❤ pray and just give yourself time to heal .. I know this world doesnt stop for anyone but you deserve to heal and feel from your heart ❤❤

Her story resonates with me a lot. So many familiar moments and feelings. My mom's boyfriend molested me, he later attacked us all (me, mom and my brother) and went to jail. I did the same thing with that giant. Pretended I was asleep. Felt the safest. He hung himself the day he was released and my mother called me and said she was gonna take him back. That phone call.... Many blessings to this very strong woman and her family 🙏

This woman is so strong, breaking the cycle of abuse is incredibly hard. I hope she is able to keep seeking help for herself as this is the best chance her children have of continuing the upward spiral she set in motion. Put your own oxygen mask on first, that way you can help others. So inspiring!

Been grappling with this my whole life... i found out in April it was him.. sister confirmed it.. i haven't been able to put a face to who it was... Im so fucking hurt and angry...

You are a very brave and courageous woman. I pray you are blessed with good mental health and true happiness!!

This is really sad, that your own father abuse of you, poor woman, i wish her the best, and that she can get through everything that lived with his father.

Do a documentary and you can get paid you can share your story with millions of woman who are going through this.

Cricket - Thank you. You 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

Agree. Not that it will make that much difference, the harm has already been done…

Absolutely love her! So badass and strong🩷🩷🫂

Thanks

@RealWomenRealStories

9 ай бұрын

THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP!

@rhodacostain1938

9 ай бұрын

@@RealWomenRealStories I really wish I could give more. Thank you for setting up this channel it’s important to educate people and also give the survivors/victims a chance to share their lived experiences to help with their recovery and to raise awareness to so many different issues. Thank you again 🤍

@RealWomenRealStories

9 ай бұрын

@@rhodacostain1938 Thanks. For us every dollar counts! Love!

100% for the d p for pedophiles. Take that how you will. 😉 There's no redeeming them. I hope this awesome chick knows, she is all of us. That she doesn't have to feel like a "less than"person. That the majority of us women are facing, in, or coming out of the struggle., just trying to survive. I will totally say prayers for her. And all of us.

What a brave sweetheart and brunette side of her is so glamorous!!

She needs some support NOW… I personally know the thoughts of being alive only for my kids… that is a level of life ending ideation. She is at the end of her rope… please provide professional help for her. Maybe even a stay somewhere that provides counseling and support… she doesn’t need a mental hospital yet … she is walking real close to that line though… and I know what it feels like to wish you could go to a hospital to get your head straight. I’m afraid for her. I’m afraid she will hurt herself, or relapse or have a breakdown and be hospitalized. I fear these things because she talks like I have when I was in such a state. I’d be worried she may self harm … I’ve done that. She needs relief. Please help her!!!

Pedos any & All child abusers need to be cremated on the spot!!! Jail or prison for what our tax money, no. I never gave anyone permission to my checks . Thanks for yr story darling.❤

Hi I’m growing plants too. I esp like my broccoli sprouts ❤ keeps me excited for life. They grow so fast…then I eat em

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The death penalty is a tough call. We’re supposed to be focused on human development and that includes our own, which means we must learn to rise above our own feelings and definitely don’t want to be bitter. But these are children who know nothing of rising above harm. So when we think of death as a penalty that really only speaks about punishment and we already live in that system that’s not working. It’s easy to be angry over something like that no child should ever have to be exposed to a mind that’s with a selfish sick desire. I would say leave the death penalty option open to the victims and their families, otherwise give a life sentence in jail. Or do a trial run for the death penalty to see if it makes minds think twice, but not likely since they’re sick. But don’t be a capitalist and keep them just because it pays because that’s as sick.

@albertchavez2693

9 ай бұрын

Buck all that we dont need to pay 80K per years to house these bucking pedos!!!!!!

@thickemsup1135

9 ай бұрын

death penalty all the way, for societies' sake. no second chances. no taxpayer money wasted.

@ddz1375

9 ай бұрын

I am serving a life sentence from how the trauma destroyed my capacity and chances at a normal life. Why should any abuser get clemency for the destruction of the life I should have had without the abuse?

@kforest2745

9 ай бұрын

@@thickemsup1135 yeah understandable sick planet we live on

@kforest2745

9 ай бұрын

@@ddz1375 that’s why I said leave it up to the abused to decide as judges haven’t made a difference apparently

Yhis young woman looks totmented. The chilling, coldnrss dhe mist have endured.. i kind of understabd wgen people say let it go, if you hang onto it, your soul vecomes tirtured, your body uptakes the dispensing of all the energy and stress reserves, like internal tension. Nobody should have to suffer as this woman must have suffered and then to carry the weight of pritection and upbringing of her own children. Give this lady self love, give this lady strebgth, give her cleansing of her soul. Give her release from her pain and suffering. Give her tranquility and peace. The cruelty of an adult to a child. Mind boggling. At least tell it as it was. Better than silence. Though.

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@ThorsSnorreson

3 ай бұрын

You got shorteyes huh?

I appreciate this interview but the interviewer was very disruptive. She kept engaging and distracting Cricket. I just want to hear Cricket and allow her to flow. She is reprocessing the abuse she experienced to share with us the interviewer needs to respect that process. Edit out what you need to later and allow Cricket to speak!!! The bleeping was also a nuisance.

😢I too was sexually molested by my mom, GOOD JOB Governor De- Santis

Why do you bring four kids into this world when you leave in poverty and such a mental state?! You absolutely cannot provide financially or mentally a good living for those children.! so selfish ! The cycle will repeat again and again…

@Abcdefghijajajaja

8 ай бұрын

“Her body her choice”🙄

@maryc6045

6 ай бұрын

You have no idea what her path in life is, or the meaning of her children’s lives. Please don’t speak so carelessly about another person’s life choices. It is literally none of your business.

In the words of Metallica "Kill "EM ALL"

Nope clicked off the video after you beeped her words her words are powerful and are not dirty or bad words you can’t monetize rape it’s rape