Hello Mr. Coach Lee. I truly appreciate the wonderful aspects of your legacy and establishment into an empire. I believe you change millions and millions of people in every different shape and form. I’m not talking about me but I’m thinking among the whole world. Whether it’s male or female including all races who thanks you. I want to bless you for everything. I’m sorry for the paragraph but I never express to family, or ex friend. I don’t think no one care about. I dream about an ex friend plenty of times but I don’t understand. I guess it does not mean anything. Thank you if you do listen or I don’t know.

@nanbanjinchannel5716

3 жыл бұрын

@@rindinnonelida1191 you should be ashamed of taking advantage of people's weak moments

@jamesshank5423

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my God it really work.. My ex is fully back with much love you should try writing to this for any help on whatsapp❤️❤️..

@James-jx3ro

2 жыл бұрын

@@nanbanjinchannel5716 have you actually watched his videos. Most of his content is free and better yet, IT'S GREAT CONTENT! Where exactly do you see that he is taking advantage of people?

@nanbanjinchannel5716

2 жыл бұрын

@@James-jx3ro where am I saying that?😯

@James-jx3ro

2 жыл бұрын

@@nanbanjinchannel5716 you literally say, "you should be ashamed of taking advantage...." You wrote it. Or, was it your alter ego?

First I accepted the horrible heart break then I cried and cried then I stopped and now I can smile. Even though I still think about him it hurts a little less each time I do. I’ll be okey. Someone out there will love me unconditionally.

@ThePunis-Her

3 жыл бұрын

Only dogs love you unconditionally. People dont. Even parents break with childeren.

@JasonMahipat

3 жыл бұрын

Only time will heal, hang in there. Telling myself the same thing.

@Calminthechaos.

3 жыл бұрын

Love ourselves unconditionally

@Leilynx

3 жыл бұрын

How long did it take you?

@snehalmendhe5274

3 жыл бұрын

The only person who needs to love you unconditionally is yourself. Don't depend on anyone for it. The more you love yourself, the more people will

0k.....my 40 year marriage ended. lve been mourning for 6 years. l think it's high time to get off my couch and start living. After all, l am 66, what am l waiting for.

When I move on I will not forget you guys. I will come back here and tell you there is hope, but to remain in NC for your dignity and for your future. Keeping the lines of communication open will slow down progress!

@yumnaaaa461

3 жыл бұрын

Since from how long have you been broken up? :)

@0cean144

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, shut all lines of communication!

@aftonvalerie2024

3 жыл бұрын

How is it going?

@Eatmeatthereforeiam

3 жыл бұрын

Going great. She hasn't come back but I'm improving my life in leaps and bounds. I'm becoming a better person in spite of her and I'm having a good time doing it.

@lionheart4414

3 жыл бұрын

Best of luck man.

It's like a death in the family. There will be some grieving which will take some time to get over.

@hernandezlucia3401

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, but we all will get through this. If they don't come back, we need to understand that and move on, one day at a time. :)

@vasokalaitzoglou

2 жыл бұрын

@@hernandezlucia3401 they should have left us in a first place. That means we can’t be stuck to someone who doesn’t give a shit

@SallyBubbleOdin

4 ай бұрын

It's nothing like a death in the family

Its 6am and im here watching this video while crying over the facts that somebody i want to spend the rest of my life with let me go so easily without fighting.

@danielj3898

2 жыл бұрын

@elizabeth zadeng how are you doing these days?

@CupofLizzy

Жыл бұрын

@@danielj3898 Hahahah so much better. Thank you for asking

@veeoby3364

Жыл бұрын

Did he/ she ever come back? Glad you're stronger and moving on.

@HS-df7ld

4 ай бұрын

Update​@@CupofLizzy

@ahmadelshbasy3222

2 ай бұрын

Updates ? How did you get over this period?

My ex has taught me a lot about relationships. I accept that our relationship wasn't ideal but at least I have more awareness of my flaws and faults. The most painful thing is that I thought to myself if I accepted her flaws she would be able to accept me but it just didn't happen.

@rusty9201

Жыл бұрын

I really feel you on that

@Madao1

Жыл бұрын

That literally what happened to me

@akrico1

Жыл бұрын

“The right relationship isn’t brittle” - Matthew Hussey

@sheyT18

Жыл бұрын

I feel you!! He always says that I’ll accept all your flaws and that I know we have our shared problems in the future... but then during the breakup he hold it against me... I accepted all his flaws and quirks.. I guess not all people we met has the same kind heart as ours. He gave up on someone, who won’t give up on him.

@575leena

Жыл бұрын

@@sheyT18 same here

Hi everyone, today I have decided to finally close my ex’s chapter in my life and to start a new chapter for myself. Coach Lee’s videos gave me strength every time. I listen to his videos while I’m driving, and whenever thoughts crawl in my head. I will still watch his video but only this one, for moving on. We all deserve someone who doesn’t leave us questioning what we did wrong. We deserve someone who will stay with us no matter how difficult the situation is. Love and light to y’all! 😊

@eternalfaith4622

2 жыл бұрын

Pray you heal soon.

@danielbrown8602

2 жыл бұрын

Love you for this Tracy!! Keep smiling.

@oskajohn3795

2 жыл бұрын

Im in a situation where my so ex left me wondering a million questions…i have no choice but to close this chapter abt her as well…we deserved better

@pranamks5104

2 жыл бұрын

How are you now

@brandonohara4122

Жыл бұрын

Amen, Amen.... 🙏

5 months after being dumped.. it has been a rollercoaster of emotions.. how she just packed her stuff and drove away.. I was broken..but indeed..no contact helps..she’s fading away.. and now I making new friends, back in the gym on my own time, enjoying freedom.. I guess I’m moving on. But still I watch these videos.. yes, it’s a few steps forward and one backward at times..

@k9handlr

3 жыл бұрын

Hang in there my friend. I noticed mine had changed. Her demeanor her texts her enthusiasm. So one night two weeks ago I thought somethings not right. I got outta bed drove to her house. There was another guy there. My immediate reaction? I just left. I deleted and blocked her. After a week I broke and contacted her. She was cold not the person I knew. I broke down poured my heart out. However that was it. No contact from here on out. Good luck sir.

@ESWATzero

2 жыл бұрын

You are not alone, bro.

@adamdeveau6311

2 жыл бұрын

I hear you man.

@allaboardthegravytrain5987

2 жыл бұрын

You're feeling better now right

@acemany1126

2 жыл бұрын

Angeleyes101- He got a sex change. Now him and his ex GF are now bestie's!!

I tried to forget him - but couldn't - until one day I said to myself: "He's not the man you think he is. If he was the man you thought he was, he would love you and care for you." That's when I realized I'd been in love with a figment of my imagination - and then I realized I was free!

"Can I move on from this? . . . Yes." That is absolute gold.

It’s not just that I’m still in love. He was my absolute best friend in the world too. To lose both is doubly difficult. I feel completely lost.

@Gablec09

5 ай бұрын

I feel you

@ChrisArones

4 ай бұрын

In the same spot too

@gordonbell8673

4 ай бұрын

I still miss my ex after 14 years. But they have moved on.

The worst part is that I feel robbed. I feel robbed of all the time that I dedicated to him. I feel robbed of all the love and affection I gave him. I feel like I wasted a year of my life caring about him and trying to fix our relationship when I was the only one making that effort in the first place. When I told him "I love you" he responded: "I'm too young for this". I just really wanted somebody to give my love to and I was completely blind to the fact that he didn't deserve me. At all. And chances are that if you're watching this video, trying to "fix things" and to become a better version of yourself for this person, they don't deserve you either. You don't need them. Loving and respecting yourself is always more important than loving someone else.

1. embrace the idea that you don't have to move on immediately 2. separate the love from the loss 3. take one day at a time 4. Q&A session with yourself ask yourself this question can I move on from this your answer... YES! 5. focus on the non romantic relationships around you (mom, dad, brother, sister, friends, cousins) date only when you are emotionally ready

7 months of NC and even though I still have bad days sometimes, for the most part things have gotten significantly better. If you're struggling, have faith in the process and keep going!

@levicook8787

3 жыл бұрын

Jesus 7 months and still having bad days?! Im on week 2 and I was hoping to feel better after 2 or 3 months

@antiyanna537

3 жыл бұрын

7 months for me as well.. still hard at times 🥺

@rearams5206

3 жыл бұрын

@@levicook8787 how are you feeling right now ?

@levicook8787

3 жыл бұрын

@@rearams5206 picked up my last stuff about a week ago. Now split up for 3 months. I can manage days and be alone better, but still hard, especially the morning for some reason. The urge to call and just talk about things is still very much there. I've diverted my attention from getting her back to getting over her. Better mind set

@rearams5206

3 жыл бұрын

@@levicook8787 Am on two months, never thought of calling her I've divided my attention with spending time with friends, getting to know new people and going to gym everyday with so much interaction with my gym mates... I do think about her everyday thou but texting her is the last thing on my mind Her first move first or never Beside again I don't want her she is already seeing another guy within a month a rebound Trying to make me jealous on WhatsApp I stop viewing her statuses So the focus is moving on

"Can I move on from this? Yes. And I'll have to do that whether we get back together or not.

@JasonMahipat

3 жыл бұрын

Great mindset, stay strong

@johnnycase2905

2 жыл бұрын

Update?

This video really hits home with me. Especially when you said that it's emotionally healthy that I can't just walk away. It's hard to let go when you truly love someone. It brings me comfort to hear that everything I am feeling and thinking is normal to think and feel and I'm not crazy. I am taking it one day at a time.

@mandyg5747

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly Deb! Poor us...its ok not to be a heroine every day.....after 4 weeks i am finally able to cry though I actually feel stronger now! I wrote more...but you don't need to hear all that. We will be ok...more than ok....God bless you in your healing journey. You are loveable. ..you are worthy and valuable and you deserve to be cherished.

@emilypieroni1573

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree. This was a tough video to watch cause it really does hit me to my core.

@VinnyGuardino

3 жыл бұрын

my emotions are all over the place we been broken up for over a month now and she just is confusing me.she broke up because she didn’t feel the same n didn’t wanna be comitted.n I been in nc for about a week now because we still were texting even a month after being broken up.i just don’t know if I could look at her the same her actions and the stuff she said after the break up made me see her different but I still miss the relationship and right before I went into nc she told me she was still attached .. like I don’t know what to do anybody got advice?

@jenjohnson1747

3 жыл бұрын

lets remember that love is the highest virtue. It takes courage to love. It is only the strong ones who want to stay and work through things. We who love like that deserve better

@Vanessa-kj9ez

2 жыл бұрын

Letting go it so hard, taking each day myself, hope everyone here heels soon!

I bought the emergency breakup kit and loved it. Even though a small part of me misses him, I know I deserve better. No person is worth your dignity and self-respect. Coach Lee thank you for all your support. It's people like you who have made me see the light.

@Smilemaker4u

3 жыл бұрын

I am debating on buying it. I am at such a crossroads with my EX that I am at a loss right now. Tell me your thoughts about the breakup kit.

@seemu2927

3 жыл бұрын

@@Smilemaker4u I enjoyed it. It brought a new perspective from what I've heard before but you need to put into action what's in there. If you put it into practice its worth it

@Smilemaker4u

3 жыл бұрын

@@seemu2927 thanks for the insight. 👍

@tasiadatbaby8882

2 жыл бұрын

I bought it too. I regret it. I just want to be over it. I feel stuck. He started dating someone else.

@seemu2927

2 жыл бұрын

@@tasiadatbaby8882 Pour all that love and care into yourself. Move on and when the time is right find someone else. but never neglect yourself = be the best version of you for you X

Honestly one day at a time is all I can take on. Literally it's minute by minute. As soon as my brain gets distracted from current task, it flashes back and realized its current circumstances and feels what I can only describe as a dark sense of impending doom or dread of the reality of the situation. It overwhelms and paralyzes.

@byunsdale

2 жыл бұрын

i feel the same. i can’t stand it when im not doing anything because i get so sad and i literally panic. its horrible

@ZantherStone

2 жыл бұрын

@@byunsdale somehow I got the notification for this comment just today. It’s been about 5 months later. How are you doing?

@nutribodymilk

2 жыл бұрын

@@ZantherStone do you feel better now? I'm in 2 months after the break up and it still hurts as it did on the first day

@ZantherStone

2 жыл бұрын

@@nutribodymilk So, I'm 4-5 months into the breakup. I do feel better, but honestly it's rough still. BUT it's gotten better in stages. All my focus has been on staying afloat and trying to feel alright and releasing feelings and focusing on me and everything you're supposed to do. Then there's moments that set me back bad. BUT also moments where I have this new way of thinking about it or looking at the situation or the ex and THOSE are what give me a step back toward not feeling as horrible. Like I saw a picture with her and a new guy on a tropical island vacation. It sent me into a spiral. Then 2-3 weeks after I imagined how even with the new guy she'll still flirting with other guys and causing him pain and how lucky I am to have avoided that. Doesn't take away the pain, but that realization brought me from a 8/10 in pain to maybe a 6/10...which honestly is significant Right now I'm maybe at 5/10 compared to the 9.5/10 that I felt before. Just keep going forward. Trust that time will help. Keep trying to keep your healthy perspective. We have skewed perspective right now. The way your friends who are detached see it, they're the ones who are right. We'll eventually slowly get there

@jiachen8353

Жыл бұрын

You are so right. It is literally minute by minute.

binge watching coach lee’s videos is the only thing that helps me not cry myself to sleep every night 🥺

@diaarraaa

2 жыл бұрын

Same , you will be okay❤️

@ryancarlsen1076

2 жыл бұрын

Same here ! Hang In there 😰

@shanetaylor8000

Жыл бұрын

Hi.. I’m at the 4 month stage of my break up.. I’m still very much heartbroken and think about her every day and night. I’m drinking heavily every night and feel like shit every morning. How are you now?

@diamond13130

Жыл бұрын

@@shanetaylor8000 I know that pain. Take your power back and focus on yourself. Stay positive Do not give your ex anymore energy! They will feel that shift, trust me!

@shanetaylor8000

Жыл бұрын

@@diamond13130 thank you.. I’m tired of being down now? I’ve not felt this weak in years. 😞

Just got broken up with after a 7 year relationship. 1 month later she’s out at clubs dancing and making out with lames. These woman change once they are “FREE” especially if they are influenced by single friends or family members. If you have a gut feeling about her not responding to you and etc… trust your gut feeling. Definitely ain’t worth my energy anymore. Moving on with my life. She will realize eventually she fucked up.

Coach I thank you! These past 10 months have been the hardest in my life. Met her in college and dated for 6 years. Never thought I would lose my best friend. Was so low when I came across your videos. After viewing them I grew and each video made me stronger. Sometimes it’s not about getting them back but instead getting yourself back. Idk if I’ll ever see her again but I do know I see myself differently. Thank you and please keep inspiring!

@elliotrobbie1550

2 жыл бұрын

How are you feeling now?

@eternalfaith4622

2 жыл бұрын

👊. Pray you heal sooner. Correy wayne helped me aswell this coach

@rr6704

10 ай бұрын

How r u doing now? Did it get better?

Sometimes the other person never feels the loss.. but accepting that gets easier with time and stops hurting eventually.

@faithlee1082

3 жыл бұрын

You can contact this great man on whatsapp for any help

@faithlee1082

3 жыл бұрын

+2348121471071

@Tyreek99

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it’s worse, they feel the loss, and they’re okay with it.

@jyp12328

3 жыл бұрын

This is like the worst fear of a dumpee

@Tyreek99

3 жыл бұрын

My worst fear came true today, she’s in a new relationship 🃏

Had it not been for Coach Lee I'd be a total wreck right now. Instead I'm rising from the wreck and all I see is ashes of a relationship that will never be again (thankfully). Thanks coach lee for holding my hand through this horrible situation. You and Jesus have been there for me in this awful storm in my life. Now I can grow up up up and be better than ever. I'll be forever indebted to this man.

@francesmayfulay99

3 жыл бұрын

U can do it as long as u have Jesus in your heart.😊

@Eatmeatthereforeiam

2 жыл бұрын

@Blythe Girl I feel great. I still get agitated at times, but I think that's natural. I remember to forgive and move forward with a positive outlook by working on finances (working overtime), career, body and emotional health, having fun, and learning how to be a better man. It's all good. I have to be disciplined to learn and grow or I'll find myself in another mess. Never again will I go through this. Never again. I am determined to do all that I can to continue improving and be thankful for all of God's blessings.

@keepnitreall6152

10 ай бұрын

​@@francesmayfulay99❤

Your point about love and loss is so accurate. There were times during our relationship that I wanted to leave and was even looking for ways to get out, but she ended up dumping me leaving me in this heart-broken mess.

@johnh8780

2 жыл бұрын

same here

@nanners2542

2 жыл бұрын

yeah i felt that one

@yztabaranza5103

2 жыл бұрын

Yup!!!!!!!

@akrico1

Жыл бұрын

I can relate. When there became doubt in my integrity, I began to doubt theirs……..

To all the new heartbroken people ur gonna be fine don't worry u r going to get stronger every single day..my ex came back after two months of no contact and he made me choose between getting back together or staying just friends( he didn't want to lose me again) and guess what i said! I told him let's just be friends and this is thanks to coach lee cuz he helped me so much by these encouraging videos and i realized a lot of things during no contact that made me choose me by staying only as friends

@sarybear84

2 жыл бұрын

So proud of you!

@avegase

Жыл бұрын

Hero!! The mirror we want to look at!!

This video really hit home with me. Especially the technique of separating love from loss. I was thinking of leaving the relationship a few months back, but then HE broke up with me and I started idealizing our relationship. It also brings me comfort to hear that everything I am feeling and thinking is normal and I'm not crazy. I am trying to take things one day at a time. THANKS COACH LEE!! God bless!!

@nanners2542

2 жыл бұрын

yepppp felt that

@begumt6717

7 ай бұрын

how are you right now? i am in the same situation and it’s only been a month

My ex broke up with me on 1 April after a 10 years relationship. His love and care were my salvation, it is hard for me to believe that he ended it. In the past 2 months, I watched a lot of no contact videos to get your ex back, today I start to watch this move on video to heal, whatever the future will look like.

@RR-yg3mr

19 күн бұрын

I am going through the same situación, she break with me 2 month ago after 10 years of relationship. 😢

It’s almost 5 months, and it’s so frustrating, the memories, the hurt and the thought of them with someone else. I’ve been strong so far but I feel like I’m slipping back into that depression 🤧

@Calminthechaos.

3 жыл бұрын

It's all part of the grieving so don't worry. It's totally normal to regress some days. Allow yourself to cry it out, don't bottle it. I'm in this phase right now as well, it's fucking shit I know but it is going to get better. We've got this.

@mmonnink6434

3 жыл бұрын

Understand what you’re saying, it sucks when those feelings pop up, and more so because in a way you know they aren’t even worth it considering how little value you have to them. Revenge is a useless desire, but time will make them feel their unwise decisions, when all the fun is over the pain can never be erased

@hernandezlucia3401

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong. I'm there with you.

@hernandezlucia3401

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Wishing you all the best!

@tootsmay4420

3 жыл бұрын

Feel that today brother

Keep fighting people!! I know we feel alone right now but you will be so much stronger and grow so positively from going through these tough times!! I’m 12 days NC and most days it’s so hard not to call or message but they gave us up… we can’t chase people that removed us from their lives keep telling yourself that you are the prize!! Love you guys keep your head up!

@cuppiechoklate1152

Жыл бұрын

💯💯

@kagamitaiga9167

6 ай бұрын

update?

I really truly hope this is my last break up ever. Spent my 20s learning so many lessons & racked up so much trauma from relationships which I think people don’t talk about enough.. trying to heal from constant heart breaks/disappointments is very difficult. But I’m going to do it and be patient because while I’ll likely need to date around again - the next person I settle down with will be my LAST (hopefully, ideally). The part of this video that helped me most is take it a day at a time!!! Stay present, enjoy the moment. Something I struggled with in my life in general. loved this video thanks so much!!

This video has brought me to tears. I'm a week into a breakup after 2 years. Keep going over the mistakes I made and wishing I could rewind time and rectify them. I cant sleep or eat properly and I'm unable to go to work. I know its a process and bring able to watch these videos brings a degree of comfort. The feelings of grief and loss when you lose the person you love, especially when they are adamant they no longer want you, is overwhelming.

@yztabaranza5103

2 жыл бұрын

How are you?

@joyceg6890

Жыл бұрын

Going through the same exact thing

@amalkohur31

Жыл бұрын

How are you now?

@georgedeschler1514

Жыл бұрын

I'm g oing thru about the same

@robertwhitehead5886

Жыл бұрын

I'm going through this right now.

Day 37 of Strategic Contact. I ceased radio silence, updating my Snapchat story multiple times. She checked all of them, even late into the night when she was out with other people. She updated her story for the first time in a while but I have not checked it out, nor will I. This is all working out exactly as Coach Lee said it would.

@ThePunis-Her

3 жыл бұрын

U doing great, stay strong move on. Watching story is not breaking NC.

1 month into no contact and I don’t want him back anymore:) I am out enjoying my life and have a date next week:) I believe in always moving forward and enjoy life to the fullest. It doesn’t matter how much you love someone, the moment they prove to you that you are nothing, do not hang on. Love yourself more and stay positive and open for new beginnings.

it’s been nearly 3 months and i still feel like the breakup was just yesterday. Sometimes im okay then the other times i feel really down kn myself. I want to get better. Thanks for the videos coach..

@nanbanjinchannel5716

3 жыл бұрын

I know how you feel.. six months..and I cry almost everyday.

@tomorrowwillcome7923

3 жыл бұрын

@@nanbanjinchannel5716 cry everyday no matter how tired or busy my tears fall at night from how much he left us and abandoned us , especially the tears at night

This is the best position to be in either way, wether you want back with your ex or not. Being over the PAST relationship is necessary for either path.

From today the 30th of October am letting go and let God

Listen folks! I know it hurts. I've been there myself. 16 years together and she bounced from our marriage. It's hard in the beginning, very focking hard. However, remind yourself that it's all emotional. It's not physical. They left us, they said we wasn't good enough for them, so...why are we feeling sad about someone who threw us away? Slap yourself a few times and pick your soul off the ground. You came in this world alone and you will leave it alone. Your ex is not going to die with you. Your ex don't care about you. Get it through your head folks!! If you can't live for yourself, how can you live for someone else? Outta sight, outta mind. Live your own life and enjoy it! When the time is right, someone better will come and love you for YOU! So, stop being a wimpy ass sack of potatoes. Cow-wa-bunga dude!!!

Thank you Coach Lee. I'm 4 months in with my break up and it's been a roller-coaster of emotions. Been very determined to do the right thing ie no contact, mainly for the sake of my own dignity, I but have been frustrated with myself lately due to still feeling so much raw emotion! Needed that reminder to be patient and that it's normal to feel like i have regressed some days. One day at a time! Sending love and strength to everyone going through this right now.

@JasonMahipat

3 жыл бұрын

No contact for your own dignity is the right way to put it. Gotta keep that in your mind

@tinahgee4614

3 жыл бұрын

Its been over 4months and a mutual friend told me that he said he is looking for a new love... I broke down coz i finally realised i wasnt valued by him

@Calminthechaos.

3 жыл бұрын

@@tinahgee4614 Try and see your own friends more so that you're not likely to have 'reports' on what your ex is up to. Sometimes mutual friends can accidentally let things slip whether you ask them (never ever ask) or not. You are a high value person and you deserve someone who values you. Like Coach Lee said, those who love you unconditionally like your friends and family. And ask yourself that question 'can I get through this?' and the answer is 'yes'. It's so hard isn't it. Sending a big hug from one heartbroken soul to another. We've got this! xx

@tinahgee4614

3 жыл бұрын

@@Calminthechaos. Thanks so much for the love and advice. I got this, i believe it will get better. xxxx

@jannlewandowski5540

Жыл бұрын

@@tinahgee4614 It DOES get better, just give it TIME. I was engaged for 5 years , and when we broke up, I was devastated! Cried for a long time. This was a few years ago. I went into Therapy and I found Coach Lee. I binge watched him for weeks. I got over the "loving him & missing him." YOU will be fine. Take care...❤️❤️⚘️

This video has helped me the most. My pain is like 95% loss and 5% love.

1 year later and emotionally I’m in a way better place and I still watch Coach Lee and others to keep me grounded. I’ve been using the no contact tactic and it’s works not to get them back but for you to HEAL! I know it hurts but keep going it gets better I promise focus on improving yourself, time is on your side. Thanks Coach

That love vs. loss is so on point, Coach Lee. I was contemplating leaving for a while. The difference was that I actually made countless attempts to communicate, compromise, ask for reciprocity, connection, remained faithful and still showed up in the relationship. He on the other hand did the very opposite and slow faded his way out and eventually said he didn't want the responsibility of a relationship. Emotionally I felt sad, devastated and angry even felt like I had to try harder despite knowing at the same time, this man has shown countless times that he's immature, selfish, emotionally unavailable dismissive avoidant, dishonest, etc etc it goes on and on. I knew logically I should have ended it Yes we had great times and I believe he loved me by his way and definition of love. Nevertheless, I'm hurting so badly definitely over the loss. Was wondering is this my ego because he ended it first? Because I felt 😢discarded? Because I feel as though he was always the one giving bare minimum then nothing, so how dare he. I know I was a good woman to him. Anyway, this is validating for sure to hear about this concept. You're the best, Coach Lee and Coach Ken!

@jannlewandowski5540

Жыл бұрын

fuliviac, there's something that may really interest you. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

@RicoRicoQu

9 ай бұрын

I feel ya. I actually experience same feeling rn. The hurt and pain are inevitable but it should be better than staying there

@ragingphoinix9144

6 ай бұрын

I feel we dated the same guy.

Within two months my mum died, husband dumped me and my daughter went to live with my ex. At first I was like a rabbit in head lights and then the anger came for the last 4 years I've texted my ex, name calling. It's only since 21 April I've stopped. I love him so much but he has a new girlfriend and wants a divorce, if I had known after binge watching Coach Lee I would have stopped earlier texting and been so angry. I dont expect him to come back but the hurt has stopped and the peace of mind has given me relief. I'm just thankful of this miracle. Thank you so much from the UK.

I went on a lunch date with someone a couple months after my relationship ended. After the date, I felt horrible. I literally felt like I cheated on my ex. It made me realize, I’m not ready for dating or a new relationship. I’m trying to move on, to let go & wondering when the pain will end. This no contact time has been one of the more painful times of my life. I have watched some of these videos many times over & still need to watch them again from time to time. Coach Lee’s advice is probably the best of all the relationship coach videos I have seen. They have really helped me!

@doheeham9735

2 жыл бұрын

That’s exactly I felt very recently. Hope you are okay or ready to move on now. And I hope I will do as well.

Coach Lee is like an AA sponsor for me! lol...he keeps me in check. I am one of those ppl who binge watch him to help me get through those difficult and tempting times. This man is gifted. Thank God for Coach Lee

You are the ultimate comfort online for the brokenhearted, alone watching your videos comforts us :)

Another well timed message. Thank you. You are helping so many of people going through some of the hardest moments of their life

It’s been 5 months. We talked in February, then she said she wasn’t ready. I gave her 2 months no contact and she still wasn’t ready and still wanted to bring up the past. I tried. I did everything I could, to get us back and at least try to talk. But now, it’s time to move on. If our paths cross again, I will welcome it. But I’m moving on now. Coach Lee & my family members got me through the toughest time in my life. Thank you coach.

It's funny how so many people go thru this and nobody prepares you for this. I think these videos should be mandatory in schools WORLDWIDE

@lisabaughn

2 жыл бұрын

I know. And it's not taken seriously as a real personal problem either. But it's freaking serious!!!

@imissme8313

Жыл бұрын

This should litterly be a class in school lol this is seriouse man

When he broke up with me the first time, I watched Coach Lee’s videos and followed the NC rule. He came back for me on the 21st day when I was watching one of Coach Lee’s videos. Sadly, I was not emotionally ready for us to be together and so the relationship fail again today after 4 months. He left me again. Sometimes men come back just so they could hurt you once more. Thankfully I’m not feeling the pain as much as the first time and I’m back to watching Coach Lee’s videos. Thank you so much Coach Lee. Your videos really have been helping me along the road.

This came at the most perfect time. Learning to move on and focus on myself and my happiness. Trying to gain self respect, confidence, and self worth back. Making myself the best version of me. If he comes back, then fantastic, if not, I’ll be okay 👌🏼

@georginabrigs1891

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. If he comes back, im open to it but want to take it slow like coach lee said in one of his video,if not it's also okay. But overall im happy with myself right now, physically healthy and look fit, sexier. Haha

@BLKBETE11

3 жыл бұрын

You’ll be better than “ok”, you’ll be stronger emotionally & you will like the person you’ve become vs. depending on someone else to make you happy. I’m in the same boat as you are & am doing everything to improve myself (thanks to Coach Lee). Professional Counseling, my Pastor, the gym, haircut, new hobbies... No one can hold us back & you may realize your ex wasn’t as good for you as you thought.. You’ve got this!! 💪🏼

After almost 2 years of waiting, now he wants to go back but in bad condition, after breaking up with his rebound, and doesn't want to be in jail because of the case I filed, I just realized that I am better without him. I rejected him even though I still love him. I cannot bring back the trust anymore. I am stronger, I am better, I learned a lot, and because of that, I am happier without him and now moving on happily.

This was so awesome. Best part for me was the “focus on today “ part. So good and thankful for the “take your time to grieve “ statement. I was starting to get impatient with my self saying why haven’t you gotten over this yet. It’s good to know that I can be patient with myself. Thank you coach Lee!!!

1 month of seperation and he is moving out this week. A lot of heart break but thank you coach Lee for inspiring words.

Lee Rocks,.. and has answered many of the questions I had about the Pain of being Dumped. Very Best Advise on YT for Relationships

I don’t understand why any anyone should seek counseling and pay for it while this man is the best that I’ve experienced. Thank you Coach Lee for your soothing words and logic.

I have embraced it. It is over. After a month of NC he messaged me to tell me he misses me, brought up loads of memories we had and then flat out told me he can't be with me because he is a depressed. I have told him i understand, wished him the best and explained I couldn't be friends because it was hurting me too much. Thank you Coach Lee for all your support i bought the break up kit and it was money well spent regardless of the outcome. You are a solid and sound voice through the pain

I feel a ittle emotionally stronger after 3mths , it's taken along time to get here & hopefully I'll be feeling even better soon , time is a great healer ...

Man, all your videos, and i mean all, help so much. Thank you, Coach Lee. You’re a life saver.

The hurt is very therapeutic, don't deny your hurt, you need to go through it and heal from it with time. If you run from it, it will never resolve inside of you.

It’s ok to take time…. The pain and the patience it takes will make me stronger.

This is my favorite coach lee video I was thinking about leaving my gf but I wasn't 100 percent sure. She got to it first then suddenly I felt like I lost the world. I know there's a reason I felt that way. When I keep it real with myself I know thus was for the better.

I cried and cried all alone with a kid raising along as he threw us away during the convid pandemic . Been many months(more than 5 months) I didn’t do the no contact right therefore I got hurt more . Past several days I am redoing the no contact again and each time I m hurt wanting to write to him I remember coach lee and the comments here. I am starting over day 1 not to beg. With no family supporters it makes it very difficult, but I m very proud since past days I no longer need to write my struggle and pain to him like coach lee said

All your videos are very helpful. I’m 3months into a breakup that was building, neither of us reacted well tho she is the one who left the relationship by texting me. There were communication issues that grew then we still talked, texted, delayed getting our stuff back. She still has things of mine, offered to hold them indefinitely. On again off again contact. We even ran into each other and mutual friends, more hers, who didn’t know we broke up. We didn’t speak in person, then she reached out to apologize and find out why we didn’t speak. I explained why and we agreed to meet to talk. She rain checked me twice. Now I’m in NC. Working on myself, doing what I can do for myself to heal. Despite all the conflict, I love her, I love myself and I want her back eventually.

Started NC almost 5 months ago, and after everything - not even a goodbye ... to this day it hurts and well sometimes I’m good, but when I think of her at all, all the memories flood back, I just feel like shes “Felt the loss” as you said and she’s just okay with the loss.

When my ex told me he was conflicted who to choose me or other girl , and wanted a break up - I immediately left, told him to have her instead. my heart went numb , I couldn’t even cry anymore, I’m beyond tired. I poured all my heart and love for him but hmm.

You’re right, Coach Lee! I feel like it would take me a long long time to move on.

Well said, Tracy! Good for you, you will find a true love who treats you as you deserve to be treated! Best wishes!

So blessed to found your channel ages ago, loyal subs here. Loved your rawness and genuine tips. Keep it up my Coach Lee! The 🐐😍

I have no choice at this point but to move on, for the longest I had hoped I’d get my ex back but I’m done. he’s in a new relationship now (2 months after our 6 year relationship so that’s great) and whether it’s the real deal or a rebound relationship I’m not gonna sit around waiting for someone who couldn’t choose me, his intention was to move on to something better so once he comes to the realization that the grass isn’t always greener on the other side I’ll be hopefully fully healed and an improved me while he’s gonna be stuck in the same place bc he took no time to improve himself and his internal issues and instead just jumped into something new. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I can’t wait to come back and update these comments once I’m a healed woman!

Thank you coach Lee! I am watching your videos everytime when I’m drown in the grieving process. Your videos smooth me so much, it helps a big time whenever I’m suffocating 😊

A wise, modest and truly good hearted man..

"Can i move on from this?" YES 👏 Thank you with all my Heart, I appreciate you ❤

Thank you Coach Lee, I've been wondering if my ego and love were mixing together causing it to hurt more. Your #3 hit it on the head for me. Having a couple hurts mixed together multiplies the pain experience. When I separate them and look at them individually I can accept and understand why I am feeling like this. Thank you for all your hard work and patience to put this content out there. You are a soul saver

Thank you. I was just contemplating about this today and I needed to hear this. Feels like a blessing that you posted this as I felt this way today

This video is perfect for my situation. Thank you so much. I appreciate you and your coaching❤️

after 23 years--we finally broke up and divorced--i still love her but life goes on and I'm doing that 1 day at a time.

@tanlianyu

3 жыл бұрын

It must be extremely difficult for you. Mine is 8 years and it’s always like killing me.

@jamesmcginn8874

3 жыл бұрын

@@tanlianyu i have good days and then a few bad---i miss the person i met all those years ago--i still can't get over what she did to me--it was awful--it got to the stage that i couldn't trust anymore--the lies--the cheating--the stealing--the gambling---the drinking-- to name a few .

@JasonMahipat

3 жыл бұрын

Best wishes man, that’s a big change to get used to

@tanlianyu

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamesmcginn8874 be strong . Wish you the best .

@nilmurr2017

3 жыл бұрын

Keep going, it’s really hard but you can do it. Best wishes.

Definitely the best dating coach on youtube. Has such a soothing voice and all of the facts he talks about just make sense. Sounds like he is genuinely trying to help people. Thumbs up for a good person coach Lee!

@constance6761

Жыл бұрын

Very calming indeed.

You have no idea how much your videos helped me. Thank you very much. I'll come back here after I moved on to thank you again.

@RealCoachLee

3 жыл бұрын

Chonjae, I'm honored.

Thank you coach lee, i did one month no contact and today i felt I needed to just cut the negativity and sent a message asking how he was. I believe he will realise, but I will be back to no contact after that.

You are the best angel guardian of the lost souls like us. I am passing through a breakup. It’s like death. But your words on focusing on seconds is helping me a lot to pass through it.

You always give such good sound advice...so good for the soul of a person...thank you Coach Lee!

@countcrow

2 жыл бұрын

And such a calm serene voice and demeanor, very helpful. Makes me Breathe! Thank you sir.

Thanks for posting this coach lee. I think you're right I am associating love with loss, making the pain more excruciating. I can still find love. It just was not him.

Coach Lee, you're a light in a dark place for me. Thank you, God bless.

Watched all your videos and this is the best one. Actually got some relief from the whole no contact ex back thing and saw the woods from the trees

This really gave me comfort…you’re amazing! Thanks for sharing. I’m going grab the EBK!

I'm so glad I found your channel, It's been really helpful to know someone understands my pain. I'm only 12 days in but I'm hanging in there.

@erickmwendamarketingconsul9014

2 жыл бұрын

What's the progress?

@karinajames4367

2 жыл бұрын

Update?

I'm 3 days in. NC for my own sanity It's a freshly dark space to be in. Prayers and words of encouragement have been my strength. I preoccupy my mind with your words of wisdom and motivation. One day at a time is all I can do and time is my best friend.

Thank you @Coach Lee for helping so many people including me. You are the best!!! ❤️🙏

Coach Lee I've watched a lot of your videos and I'm gonna have to say this is probably the most important video that you've ever done. I've seen a lot of relationship videos and this one for me is truly inspiring and really gives me a lot of hope for the future.

Hi Coach Lee, me and my long time bf recently broke up. Thankyou for all your help. Because of you i can get up of my bed and fight another day. Im hurting so much that i can't feel anything. Your videos help me calm my mind and let me sleep at night.

God bless you man... watching your video gave me hope, going through a very painful breakup at the moment.

Yes! I am emotionally healthy. Thanx coach Lee you have helped me alot. I was devastated and had no clue there you came and held my hand and took me away from that grief. Love you.

I accept that it’s over but i also accept that I love her so much. Time will heal but i have to be honest with myself if i’m to really move on and heal.

@vanthawng8524

2 жыл бұрын

Update bro?

Coach Lee is so good. You have helped me so much. The heart break feeling is awful when your so in love. Thank you coach Lee as your so good and understanding. Thank goodness people like this exist. X

Hi everyone, It’s my first time listening to coach Lee, to find out that I am emotionally normal, made me feel really good. I will continue to take the good advice. One day at a time. So true! Love to make friends here and listen to others experiences. Even though it’s not my first break up, you forget the pain and yourself in all of this.

Coach you are the best. You have been the biggest help to me in my recent break up. Thank you

Hi Coach Lee, I watch your videos regularly, because your words give me hope and inspiration. I can truly say that your work is an effective therapy for me 😊👍🏼 It has helped me to believe that I really can move on from my break up, but now I really need to apply the recovery methods to my own life. I've watched videos of relationship coaches but it's just not the same. Thank you so much for your sound advice and keep up the good work! 👌🏽😘😁

Thank you so much Coach Lee ❤️ it was much needed for me right now !

Its been two months since my bad break up and I have had good days and bad days, it has been very hard and Its best to focus on yourself and healing the wounds instead of jumping into something because you are lonely. You are not alone and we can all get through this. Fall in love with the new version of you. Give them space and let them heal as well.