FEAR OF FAILURE - 3 Ways to get over the fear that holds you back.

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Is your fear of failure keeping you stuck and stagnant?
Many people have an irrational and persistent fear of failure- Fun fact, it’s actually called Atychiphobia, and it’s often the result of life experiences that cause a deep-rooted thought that the worst thing you can do is fail.
In this video I’ll share with you some of the most common reasons why you might fear failure, why that fear is is trying to protect you and keep you safe, and essential strategies to work through it so it doesn’t hold you back.
Because, if you don’t address it, it will sabotage your your relationship, your career progression & your happiness.
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  • @jdmohan51
    @jdmohan512 жыл бұрын

    "Failure is an inevitable part of success". Beautifully said.

  • @sudipsaha2964
    @sudipsaha29642 жыл бұрын

    I have recently started watching your talks . I found you highly informative and inspiring . thank you for your hard work and your intent .

  • @avinashanilnair3537
    @avinashanilnair35372 жыл бұрын

    This is a wonderful video , just faced a bad rejection from a journal. I'm going back again , NEVER STOP 😊

  • @yovanyramos4416
    @yovanyramos44163 жыл бұрын

    I am an English language student. I am barely beginning to understand you because yours espeeches, are very fluent to me because I am an english apprentice. Thank you very much, understand you in a completely way is my purpose.

  • @kedarpuranik2350
    @kedarpuranik23503 жыл бұрын

    What a powerful video this is, full of knowledge and facts . Beautifully compressed in 9 mins. Great 👍

  • @jinsvj2387
    @jinsvj2387 Жыл бұрын

    All of your videos are highly relatable to my conditions. They really help to understand the issue clearly and solve it. Thank you!

  • @fatimaawalhe4677
    @fatimaawalhe46772 жыл бұрын

    persistence pays. life lessons come from failure. we have go through certain situation to grow, and discover our untapped potential. great content love your video. 🙂💯

  • @rubencaballero8226
    @rubencaballero8226 Жыл бұрын

    I carry the attitude of gratitude with me every day. It’s almost impossible to go through life without experiencing some kind of failure. We can choose to see failure as “the end of the world,” or we can look at failure as the incredible learning experience that it often is. Failure stop us only if we left them. Strategies to help you get over the hump. Start redefining what failure means to you. Shade, people like you make the world a better place. You deserve a million thanks and all the hugs I can give, I’ll never be able to repay you for your kindness. We, your followers love ❤.

  • @tariqzohair4624
    @tariqzohair46242 жыл бұрын

    You are conveying things with extreme clarity. Impressive. Also, contents are well arranged.

  • @adamab8546
    @adamab85462 жыл бұрын

    wow.... you have the Power of influencing, Acceptance... this is the first time i feel im learning new skills without feeling bored..

  • @cprogramming1
    @cprogramming13 жыл бұрын

    Hey you back again with fresh energy , you're always inspiring👍👍👍👍👍

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! It’s good to be back - with energy! 😛

  • @wasimthewilloffire9972

    @wasimthewilloffire9972

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ShadeZahrai yeah.. After all your life your rules 😅😅

  • @powerfulsoul3964

    @powerfulsoul3964

    3 жыл бұрын

    Shade zahrai, dear please tell where are you? Where do you live?

  • @learningearningskillsvlogs7877

    @learningearningskillsvlogs7877

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ShadeZahrai please make more video on this topic

  • @subramanyamraju1473

    @subramanyamraju1473

    2 жыл бұрын

    More energy is required to speak continously and to dance.

  • @arifahmed1202
    @arifahmed1202 Жыл бұрын

    I have been noticed that I am afraid of fear of failure, i didn't work on atychiphobia over the time, thanks for sharing this wonderful information with us.

  • @boreycheng9260
    @boreycheng9260 Жыл бұрын

    As I'm watching, I feel a lot better about myself. I hope to actually take actions. Thank you!

  • @Rahul-ug9xq
    @Rahul-ug9xq3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot Shade...loved the video 🤘🏼

  • @pitambaragarwal
    @pitambaragarwal2 жыл бұрын

    Very well researched inspiring content delivered with finesse. Good Work Ms. Shade. Mindfulness is the key to make the shift.

  • @zetajester
    @zetajester3 жыл бұрын

    Great video!! This couples in really nicely with a growth mindset!

  • @tovidominic3154
    @tovidominic31543 жыл бұрын

    Great content. I needed it. Thank you

  • @shafrazbop1
    @shafrazbop12 жыл бұрын

    Trust me you are the best.. I love the way you present things. It really helped me. Thank you and God bless

  • @shreedharkulkarni2346
    @shreedharkulkarni23462 жыл бұрын

    One of the Bestest channel..She is really helping me a lot.. Thank you so much for all of your work...❤️

  • 3 жыл бұрын

    Nice and simple explanations. 10 points.

  • @jaydeepsinhdodiya3134
    @jaydeepsinhdodiya31342 жыл бұрын

    Just like an enlightened woman! Thanks a lot ♥️🙏🏻

  • @nematsache97
    @nematsache973 жыл бұрын

    Much needed 👍🏻👍🏻 thank u !

  • @indikajayasekara9780
    @indikajayasekara9780 Жыл бұрын

    Really worthy points for us to avoid fear in communications.

  • @Amy-mo9ki
    @Amy-mo9ki Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Very helpful advice. I am going to take action!

  • @bhalla_rishav
    @bhalla_rishav10 ай бұрын

    Thanks shade for sharing such wonderful tips

  • @olisehanineh
    @olisehanineh Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Shadé. Fear is something I have suffered as a forex trader. I will put this tips to use, expose myself to risk so i can get more comfortable. Thanks again

  • @aysun1427
    @aysun14277 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this wonderful video, it was all I needed not to feel disenchanted with my own performance which led to a failure I didn't want to face.😢

  • @1jeremias
    @1jeremias2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing !

  • @AwesomeIam
    @AwesomeIam2 жыл бұрын

    You are so charismatic and your voice has quite an affect. 🥳

  • @ManishSharma-sk2zh
    @ManishSharma-sk2zh3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Shade, An interesting and informative video. I appreciate your efforts. Thank you,

  • @Xavier-it8sq
    @Xavier-it8sq Жыл бұрын

    This is a really beautiful episode.

  • @faisal-ca
    @faisal-ca3 жыл бұрын

    You bring good energy !! Thanks.

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @tanvirkhan6687
    @tanvirkhan66873 жыл бұрын

    It is amazing to see your videos and informations are backed by research findings instead of just " so called facts"

  • @sumanthparakala2005
    @sumanthparakala20053 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring We suffer a lot more in our thoughts than we do for real..

  • @macoydiaz7747
    @macoydiaz77473 жыл бұрын

    Wow this is true and enlightening. As a designer who experienced a lot of rejection it made me fear failure, which led me to be a perfectionist and so I procrastinate in every given project. You can also connect this as a result of being a man pleaser.

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ah you make a good point - being a people pleasure and having a strong desire (or need) for social validation can absolutely lead to fear of failure due to the ‘social rejection’ that you associate with failure. Have you found any effective ways to work through your fear of failure?

  • @prunes794

    @prunes794

    3 жыл бұрын

    I do the same...you have put it so well..beginning every single project is associated with fear and then procrastination, I do agree...it results from people lashing back on us and we end up reciprocating that by punishing ourselves by procrastination and mental dilemma..but how do u avoid that..i mean how do u face that fear..can u share?

  • @macoydiaz7747

    @macoydiaz7747

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@prunes794 @Shadé Zahrai Every time I’m in this state I just accept the reality that I’m stuck but there is also this reality where you really have to move forward and make progress. While I procrastinate, I do research regarding my project, because for me enough knowledge about my project boosts my confidence that I can do a good job. It’s a learning process and sometimes I still stumble on this part. Don’t be too hard on ourselves too. This helps

  • @Nialee-wp3oi
    @Nialee-wp3oiАй бұрын

    Thank you. Time to jump. I agree, Stephany Meyers was rejected 21 times for Twilight and even encouraged to see a psychiatrist... I imagine their reactions when they saw the success of the books and the movies.... BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!

  • @abdulhameedmjalil299
    @abdulhameedmjalil2993 жыл бұрын

    Insightful piece.

  • @rzem
    @rzem2 жыл бұрын

    Just discovered your channel .thank you so much for this great video .with love . New follower from Morocco

  • @rezarafiie
    @rezarafiie3 ай бұрын

    Loved it, thank you

  • @jeanjuniorjacques9772
    @jeanjuniorjacques97729 ай бұрын

    Hi Hrai. Thank's alot.This content is the true value of a Femme leadership of our time.!🎉❤

  • @wRecHeDD
    @wRecHeDD3 жыл бұрын

    This is so well explained!!!!! 🌟

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you think so!

  • @SridharVasireddy
    @SridharVasireddy Жыл бұрын

    You nailed it. You the best!

  • @sahilsingh20021
    @sahilsingh200213 жыл бұрын

    The subs growing up so fast! 😉 She deserves that !

  • @FaheemRazaAnsari
    @FaheemRazaAnsari3 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to this and thankfully overcome, great ideas and explanations, @shadé zahrai you are helping people a lot for which we should be thankful!😊

  • @SatishKumar-qb3gm
    @SatishKumar-qb3gm2 жыл бұрын

    As always, your topics are very useful

  • @galangkhairaneharh.883
    @galangkhairaneharh.88324 күн бұрын

    thankyouuu so much for this 🥰

  • @sameerahmed13
    @sameerahmed13 Жыл бұрын

    Your videos helps a lot

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    @historicalvideos31982 жыл бұрын

    Amazing source of information Liked ur videos..

  • @amitdawane601
    @amitdawane60110 ай бұрын

    Hi Shade Zahrai mam you are furnishing really fabulous content to solve the problems of people

  • @felixserrao9384
    @felixserrao93842 жыл бұрын

    Your talks are well researched.. well organised and focused... so many benefit from your hard work... Thank you

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Felix. My husband and I produce these videos together and it means so much when we receive positive feedback. We hope that you continue to get value from them. 😊

  • @bharathic4977
    @bharathic49772 жыл бұрын

    Found the channel via Instagram, really motivating.. please keep us motivated. I use to hold back from things, this open up my mind, will implement this. Thanks for the video.

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome! Thank you for making time to watch and so glad that this content is empowering you. 😊

  • @sadhariyavishal

    @sadhariyavishal

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ShadeZahrai Hi! I am learning a lot from your videos, please do make this kind of contents.

  • @bhargavmaheshwari3657
    @bhargavmaheshwari36573 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your all the video it's really helpful developed myself thanks 💝

  • @pradeepchethan3167
    @pradeepchethan3167 Жыл бұрын

    Thoughts are not facts, yet we treat them as though they are!!!!! Impact full

  • @arunp5987
    @arunp5987 Жыл бұрын

    I learnt after 50 years of age that no matter what any relationship is, it is basically just a type of transaction between two persons. It can be physical, emotional or social but it is just a transaction between two persons. This was an eye opener for me and I am now living in totally different world and my expectations towards myself and my near or dear ones are totally different. Second thing I learnt was everything I do (Even when I get married or have kids) I do it for myself and to make me happy or make me feel better. My wife or my kids or my house.... everything is to make me feel better.

  • @vickygolap9672
    @vickygolap96722 жыл бұрын

    Hey your words are making me to stay positive... Thank you and continue the same❤

  • @vinceknowseverything
    @vinceknowseverything3 жыл бұрын

    I gave a talk about this topic a few years ago and most of the people in the audience did admit that they had a Fear of Failure. But after giving them solutions to overcome that fear, they were able to turn their lives around and for the better. Sometimes people just need to listen and actually apply what they have learned from people who are trying to help them. And I hope that more people will take your advice because it can totally transform the way they live. Amazing Video Shadé! PS. Outstanding Editing👍🏻

  • @kavithaseetharaman6891
    @kavithaseetharaman68912 жыл бұрын

    Very inspiring. Many thanks

  • @mohamedhessien5341
    @mohamedhessien5341 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing As usual ♥️♥️

  • @robertohernandez5596
    @robertohernandez55962 жыл бұрын

    thanks you so much for this powerful video,receive my regreet from mexico, hasta luego baby !!!!!

  • @wisdomliving99
    @wisdomliving993 жыл бұрын

    New sub here, really you're the one I was looking for i am at start and want same guidence tysm for bringing this out.. ✨💫

  • @armaghansarmad8382
    @armaghansarmad83822 жыл бұрын

    You are one of a kind...çok guzel🧿

  • @barcataz
    @barcataz3 жыл бұрын

    Very beneficial. Thanks

  • @bhimpokhrel4059
    @bhimpokhrel40593 жыл бұрын

    You are inspirational speaker. I really notice about your presentation and way you speak. Great. I want to be in such position where I can speak up clearly with confidence.

  • @maneeshahooja
    @maneeshahooja24 күн бұрын

    Well done!

  • @techsocial7458
    @techsocial74582 жыл бұрын

    That helped me motivate myself👍👍👍 Thnxs

  • @alexrinconp
    @alexrinconp2 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful and powerful

  • @horstbachmann6344
    @horstbachmann63442 жыл бұрын

    Vielen Dank für gute Info 👍❤️❤️❤️

  • @praveenm3808
    @praveenm38083 жыл бұрын

    You always inspiring me with your great ideas and refreshing thoughts👌👌👌👌👍👍 Keep going💪💪💪💪💪

  • @nasrullahmugheri3791
    @nasrullahmugheri37912 жыл бұрын

    Hi shade Now i seen your vedios i am impressed great way of explanation

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    @nagendrasastryyarlaph.d3120 Жыл бұрын

    Great motivation

  • @3mariusx
    @3mariusx2 жыл бұрын

    You have such an amazing voice 😍

  • @shaifullahfirhakim
    @shaifullahfirhakim2 жыл бұрын

    Jazakumullah Khairan🤗🤗

  • @naveenmorapitiya577
    @naveenmorapitiya577 Жыл бұрын

    I think mindfulness is the key for this♥️

  • @odairrodriguesmarques4245
    @odairrodriguesmarques42453 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful video.

  • @amartyakumarsingh3366
    @amartyakumarsingh33662 жыл бұрын

    Just discovered this channel, brilliant videos, really helpful, thnx a lot for such gr8 content ❤️🙏

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad you like them! 🙏🏽😊

  • @alex474590864

    @alex474590864

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Amartya for introducing me to her channel. Exquisite content, Shadé! 😊

  • @prunes794
    @prunes7943 жыл бұрын

    I just hope I can change the narrative playing in my mind..this was really informative..thanks

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    3 жыл бұрын

    Little by little. Day by day. Just plan daily action that help you and be deliberately consistent. 💪🏼

  • @rishikeshp941

    @rishikeshp941

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ShadeZahrai 💯👏👏

  • @sandhyasonu4468
    @sandhyasonu44683 жыл бұрын

    Wow such a fab accent you have. I love to pronounce the way you do❤️

  • @Ieltsfluency
    @Ieltsfluency2 жыл бұрын

    Worth listening.

  • @emailsubraja
    @emailsubraja Жыл бұрын

    Feel 100% true in what is said 👍🏻

  • @anishani1118
    @anishani11183 жыл бұрын

    This video was really enlightening. I-am still a victim of this. This kind of fear is holding me back. Always rejections and cant even reach my goals. How can i overcome these fears and be a successful person

  • @AbdulGhafoor-wq7jg
    @AbdulGhafoor-wq7jg3 жыл бұрын

    I love your lecture too much.

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    @msees-20022 жыл бұрын

    i liked your content 👍🏼❤️

  • @Abubakar-Sadiq
    @Abubakar-Sadiq Жыл бұрын

    I am amazed with your psychological tricks in videos. Just "woooow"

  • @as.if_0077
    @as.if_00773 жыл бұрын

    You are going to be famous very soon!

  • @sbehera215
    @sbehera2152 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring video

  • @singhsudarshan662
    @singhsudarshan66210 ай бұрын

    Wonderful..so sweet ❤️❤️

  • @abinashsahoo3239
    @abinashsahoo32392 жыл бұрын

    Your accent is so clear that I am in literally in love with it. I had an Australian coach in my engineering training program... I could not believe that you are Australian... I thought you are Indian😄😄

  • @DeenHidayah
    @DeenHidayah2 жыл бұрын

    if we think about it we learned a lot from failure

  • @nikunjbansal99
    @nikunjbansal993 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • Жыл бұрын

    I learning to be used to it. Since I’m looking for a job now, and went to hiring events, and interviews, and I don’t hear back. I feel bad that I am not able to get a job as fast as some people I know, but I got another one today, and I hope I get it.

  • @ThiagoSantosAirboy
    @ThiagoSantosAirboy2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome!

  • @nidhigangaparekh238
    @nidhigangaparekh2382 жыл бұрын

    U r just incredible ❤

  • @RaviKumar-zi9ur
    @RaviKumar-zi9ur2 жыл бұрын

    Really superb

  • @Chris-ou4ej
    @Chris-ou4ej Жыл бұрын

    Great Channel

  • @vaidyanathanrs6109
    @vaidyanathanrs610915 күн бұрын

    So Many had Failures Rejections Dejections but came up So Successful. From Rajnikant called Thalaivar was driven out of home. Now A Millennium Super Duper Star known All over the World. Those who listen to you can come up Turning the Tables. ❤

  • @Matndahat
    @Matndahat2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Jesusisinvincible
    @Jesusisinvincible Жыл бұрын

    i love your channel

  • @rashid510
    @rashid5103 жыл бұрын

    I have all these problems, fear of failure, perfectionist mind and a procrastinator. Since i have failed so many times and usually it back fires when i have shared my plans with friends and then they start to criticize. So i made 2 changes, first of all i never share my plans until i achieve it. And second, if i do share it, i tell them that i am trying something new to fail in. This way they will have an answer and i also get passed the fear of failure.

  • @ShadeZahrai

    @ShadeZahrai

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is great! I’m so happy you were able to find a strategy that works for you - and I especially love how you’re embracing the possibility of failing and seeing it as a growth opportunity - more power to you! 💪

  • @rashid510

    @rashid510

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ShadeZahrai thank you for all the great and helpful content you always provide 😊

  • @sumants3538
    @sumants35383 жыл бұрын

    You voice is too gooood!

  • @smrithiglamup8251
    @smrithiglamup8251 Жыл бұрын

    Thank u so, much

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