FEAR OF FAILURE - 3 Ways to get over the fear that holds you back.
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Is your fear of failure keeping you stuck and stagnant?
Many people have an irrational and persistent fear of failure- Fun fact, it’s actually called Atychiphobia, and it’s often the result of life experiences that cause a deep-rooted thought that the worst thing you can do is fail.
In this video I’ll share with you some of the most common reasons why you might fear failure, why that fear is is trying to protect you and keep you safe, and essential strategies to work through it so it doesn’t hold you back.
Because, if you don’t address it, it will sabotage your your relationship, your career progression & your happiness.
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"Failure is an inevitable part of success". Beautifully said.
I have recently started watching your talks . I found you highly informative and inspiring . thank you for your hard work and your intent .
This is a wonderful video , just faced a bad rejection from a journal. I'm going back again , NEVER STOP 😊
I am an English language student. I am barely beginning to understand you because yours espeeches, are very fluent to me because I am an english apprentice. Thank you very much, understand you in a completely way is my purpose.
What a powerful video this is, full of knowledge and facts . Beautifully compressed in 9 mins. Great 👍
All of your videos are highly relatable to my conditions. They really help to understand the issue clearly and solve it. Thank you!
persistence pays. life lessons come from failure. we have go through certain situation to grow, and discover our untapped potential. great content love your video. 🙂💯
I carry the attitude of gratitude with me every day. It’s almost impossible to go through life without experiencing some kind of failure. We can choose to see failure as “the end of the world,” or we can look at failure as the incredible learning experience that it often is. Failure stop us only if we left them. Strategies to help you get over the hump. Start redefining what failure means to you. Shade, people like you make the world a better place. You deserve a million thanks and all the hugs I can give, I’ll never be able to repay you for your kindness. We, your followers love ❤.
You are conveying things with extreme clarity. Impressive. Also, contents are well arranged.
wow.... you have the Power of influencing, Acceptance... this is the first time i feel im learning new skills without feeling bored..
Hey you back again with fresh energy , you're always inspiring👍👍👍👍👍
@ShadeZahrai
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! It’s good to be back - with energy! 😛
@wasimthewilloffire9972
3 жыл бұрын
@@ShadeZahrai yeah.. After all your life your rules 😅😅
@powerfulsoul3964
3 жыл бұрын
Shade zahrai, dear please tell where are you? Where do you live?
@learningearningskillsvlogs7877
2 жыл бұрын
@@ShadeZahrai please make more video on this topic
@subramanyamraju1473
2 жыл бұрын
More energy is required to speak continously and to dance.
I have been noticed that I am afraid of fear of failure, i didn't work on atychiphobia over the time, thanks for sharing this wonderful information with us.
As I'm watching, I feel a lot better about myself. I hope to actually take actions. Thank you!
Thanks a lot Shade...loved the video 🤘🏼
Very well researched inspiring content delivered with finesse. Good Work Ms. Shade. Mindfulness is the key to make the shift.
Great video!! This couples in really nicely with a growth mindset!
Great content. I needed it. Thank you
Trust me you are the best.. I love the way you present things. It really helped me. Thank you and God bless
One of the Bestest channel..She is really helping me a lot.. Thank you so much for all of your work...❤️
Nice and simple explanations. 10 points.
Just like an enlightened woman! Thanks a lot ♥️🙏🏻
Much needed 👍🏻👍🏻 thank u !
Really worthy points for us to avoid fear in communications.
Thank you! Very helpful advice. I am going to take action!
Thanks shade for sharing such wonderful tips
Thank you Shadé. Fear is something I have suffered as a forex trader. I will put this tips to use, expose myself to risk so i can get more comfortable. Thanks again
Thank you so much for this wonderful video, it was all I needed not to feel disenchanted with my own performance which led to a failure I didn't want to face.😢
Thanks for sharing !
You are so charismatic and your voice has quite an affect. 🥳
Hi Shade, An interesting and informative video. I appreciate your efforts. Thank you,
This is a really beautiful episode.
You bring good energy !! Thanks.
@ShadeZahrai
3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
It is amazing to see your videos and informations are backed by research findings instead of just " so called facts"
Inspiring We suffer a lot more in our thoughts than we do for real..
Wow this is true and enlightening. As a designer who experienced a lot of rejection it made me fear failure, which led me to be a perfectionist and so I procrastinate in every given project. You can also connect this as a result of being a man pleaser.
@ShadeZahrai
3 жыл бұрын
Ah you make a good point - being a people pleasure and having a strong desire (or need) for social validation can absolutely lead to fear of failure due to the ‘social rejection’ that you associate with failure. Have you found any effective ways to work through your fear of failure?
@prunes794
3 жыл бұрын
I do the same...you have put it so well..beginning every single project is associated with fear and then procrastination, I do agree...it results from people lashing back on us and we end up reciprocating that by punishing ourselves by procrastination and mental dilemma..but how do u avoid that..i mean how do u face that fear..can u share?
@macoydiaz7747
3 жыл бұрын
@@prunes794 @Shadé Zahrai Every time I’m in this state I just accept the reality that I’m stuck but there is also this reality where you really have to move forward and make progress. While I procrastinate, I do research regarding my project, because for me enough knowledge about my project boosts my confidence that I can do a good job. It’s a learning process and sometimes I still stumble on this part. Don’t be too hard on ourselves too. This helps
Thank you. Time to jump. I agree, Stephany Meyers was rejected 21 times for Twilight and even encouraged to see a psychiatrist... I imagine their reactions when they saw the success of the books and the movies.... BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!
Insightful piece.
Just discovered your channel .thank you so much for this great video .with love . New follower from Morocco
Loved it, thank you
Hi Hrai. Thank's alot.This content is the true value of a Femme leadership of our time.!🎉❤
This is so well explained!!!!! 🌟
@ShadeZahrai
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
You nailed it. You the best!
The subs growing up so fast! 😉 She deserves that !
I can relate to this and thankfully overcome, great ideas and explanations, @shadé zahrai you are helping people a lot for which we should be thankful!😊
As always, your topics are very useful
thankyouuu so much for this 🥰
Your videos helps a lot
Amazing source of information Liked ur videos..
Hi Shade Zahrai mam you are furnishing really fabulous content to solve the problems of people
Your talks are well researched.. well organised and focused... so many benefit from your hard work... Thank you
@ShadeZahrai
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Felix. My husband and I produce these videos together and it means so much when we receive positive feedback. We hope that you continue to get value from them. 😊
Found the channel via Instagram, really motivating.. please keep us motivated. I use to hold back from things, this open up my mind, will implement this. Thanks for the video.
@ShadeZahrai
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thank you for making time to watch and so glad that this content is empowering you. 😊
@sadhariyavishal
2 жыл бұрын
@@ShadeZahrai Hi! I am learning a lot from your videos, please do make this kind of contents.
Thanks for your all the video it's really helpful developed myself thanks 💝
Thoughts are not facts, yet we treat them as though they are!!!!! Impact full
I learnt after 50 years of age that no matter what any relationship is, it is basically just a type of transaction between two persons. It can be physical, emotional or social but it is just a transaction between two persons. This was an eye opener for me and I am now living in totally different world and my expectations towards myself and my near or dear ones are totally different. Second thing I learnt was everything I do (Even when I get married or have kids) I do it for myself and to make me happy or make me feel better. My wife or my kids or my house.... everything is to make me feel better.
Hey your words are making me to stay positive... Thank you and continue the same❤
I gave a talk about this topic a few years ago and most of the people in the audience did admit that they had a Fear of Failure. But after giving them solutions to overcome that fear, they were able to turn their lives around and for the better. Sometimes people just need to listen and actually apply what they have learned from people who are trying to help them. And I hope that more people will take your advice because it can totally transform the way they live. Amazing Video Shadé! PS. Outstanding Editing👍🏻
Very inspiring. Many thanks
Amazing As usual ♥️♥️
thanks you so much for this powerful video,receive my regreet from mexico, hasta luego baby !!!!!
New sub here, really you're the one I was looking for i am at start and want same guidence tysm for bringing this out.. ✨💫
You are one of a kind...çok guzel🧿
Very beneficial. Thanks
You are inspirational speaker. I really notice about your presentation and way you speak. Great. I want to be in such position where I can speak up clearly with confidence.
Well done!
That helped me motivate myself👍👍👍 Thnxs
Wonderful and powerful
Vielen Dank für gute Info 👍❤️❤️❤️
You always inspiring me with your great ideas and refreshing thoughts👌👌👌👌👍👍 Keep going💪💪💪💪💪
Hi shade Now i seen your vedios i am impressed great way of explanation
Great motivation
You have such an amazing voice 😍
Jazakumullah Khairan🤗🤗
I think mindfulness is the key for this♥️
Very helpful video.
Just discovered this channel, brilliant videos, really helpful, thnx a lot for such gr8 content ❤️🙏
@ShadeZahrai
2 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them! 🙏🏽😊
@alex474590864
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Amartya for introducing me to her channel. Exquisite content, Shadé! 😊
I just hope I can change the narrative playing in my mind..this was really informative..thanks
@ShadeZahrai
3 жыл бұрын
Little by little. Day by day. Just plan daily action that help you and be deliberately consistent. 💪🏼
@rishikeshp941
2 жыл бұрын
@@ShadeZahrai 💯👏👏
Wow such a fab accent you have. I love to pronounce the way you do❤️
Worth listening.
Feel 100% true in what is said 👍🏻
This video was really enlightening. I-am still a victim of this. This kind of fear is holding me back. Always rejections and cant even reach my goals. How can i overcome these fears and be a successful person
I love your lecture too much.
i liked your content 👍🏼❤️
I am amazed with your psychological tricks in videos. Just "woooow"
You are going to be famous very soon!
Inspiring video
Wonderful..so sweet ❤️❤️
Your accent is so clear that I am in literally in love with it. I had an Australian coach in my engineering training program... I could not believe that you are Australian... I thought you are Indian😄😄
if we think about it we learned a lot from failure
Thank you so much
I learning to be used to it. Since I’m looking for a job now, and went to hiring events, and interviews, and I don’t hear back. I feel bad that I am not able to get a job as fast as some people I know, but I got another one today, and I hope I get it.
Thank you!
@ShadeZahrai
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
U r just incredible ❤
Really superb
Great Channel
So Many had Failures Rejections Dejections but came up So Successful. From Rajnikant called Thalaivar was driven out of home. Now A Millennium Super Duper Star known All over the World. Those who listen to you can come up Turning the Tables. ❤
Thank you
i love your channel
I have all these problems, fear of failure, perfectionist mind and a procrastinator. Since i have failed so many times and usually it back fires when i have shared my plans with friends and then they start to criticize. So i made 2 changes, first of all i never share my plans until i achieve it. And second, if i do share it, i tell them that i am trying something new to fail in. This way they will have an answer and i also get passed the fear of failure.
@ShadeZahrai
3 жыл бұрын
This is great! I’m so happy you were able to find a strategy that works for you - and I especially love how you’re embracing the possibility of failing and seeing it as a growth opportunity - more power to you! 💪
@rashid510
3 жыл бұрын
@@ShadeZahrai thank you for all the great and helpful content you always provide 😊
You voice is too gooood!
Thank u so, much