I cannot put into words how hard and how loud the word ***Nope*** came screaming into my mind with that second story the second the prison stuff was mentioned. I would actively shout 'NOPE' as I walk out, I will shout it every time someone would try to talk to me on the way out, and I would block the DM and whoever defended him.

@quox3987

Жыл бұрын

I will attempt to. It is the level of NOPE that breaches existences, branches civilizations, and inspires a collective need to abandon the existence that lead to such an instance. It is the level of NOPE that eventually turns your world into a crossover story as both sentient and non-sentient factors work towards leaving that existence where even 40K or Dead Space are an acceptable alternative.

@resisilobus3191

Жыл бұрын

​@@quox3987 *gravity* has left the game *DnD Doge* has left the game *Reality* has left the game *Stephen King* has left the game

@seto_kaiba_

Жыл бұрын

Oh boy well aren't you so virtuous. /s

"scanlan but a half-elf *and hot* " but scanlan *IS* already hot? I don't get why that needs to be mentioned

@starbird3939

Жыл бұрын

I guess because he believed in the whole “short men are not hot”. To which i’m like… 😒

Story 5 How to handle a sex pest: Kill his pc off, ban the player, ban him from the establishment, and block him from other friend groups.

@rollanddev

Жыл бұрын

A well-placed crotch-level bladed trap can be an efficient and entertaining way of permanently correcting the player's behavior. Plus, I mean, maybe the party necromancer can make it dance for everyone's entertainment or something.

@angrytheclown801

Жыл бұрын

@@rollanddev Nah bro, it runs off and fights a rat. Ever seen the reanimator series?

@Mark73

Жыл бұрын

What's better than killing him off is reconning his entire existence. The rest of the party wakes up from a weird dream where there was this extra member of the party who was a complete sexual predator, and within a few moments the dream is forgotten. Make sure the player hears you say that, too.

Story 2 Update A tentative happy ending. But let’s see if the friends will actually stick to respecting Op’s boundaries

You already have Scanlan done right. It's Scanlan himself.

@shadiafifi54

Жыл бұрын

I think it says quite a bit about this guy's ego.

@paulman34340

Жыл бұрын

@@shadiafifi54 Yeah, that he's a loser who will never even measure up to a "nail, much less a germ" to the actual player of Scanlan! Anyone who says "done right" OOC to an already well done character just showed their lower self esteem right there and then! I just......I feel like murdering someone when he described how it's not SA since "SA doesn't feel good!" Seems like a favorite excuse "rapist use to claim they didn't rape their victims since they felt pleasure from the act!" Screw the fact it's long been proven that people will feel pleasure from ALL TYPES OF SEX (I'm being snarky here) so no that doesn't free you of being a rapist POS but then lets be real "NOT" Scanlan "DONE WRONG" is likely a repressed incel on his way to become a rapist! His "explaination on what SA is" was the red flag to me that he's already reach the point where he can JUSTIFY to himself he's not a rapist and is just looking for a future victim at some point! Hopefully the permaban and blacklist all over scared whatever confidence he was building up to "Go through with his future SA" and he goes back to just being a "pathetic Incel" (Whining about not getting sex, but will take a GOOD long while before he can talk himself into sexual molestation and work his way to harassement and THEN sexual assault! At least with the other two he's chance of getting caught and put on a "Certain List" will dash any hope of him evolving into an ACTUAL rapist one day!)

@Kill3rrockstar

Жыл бұрын

Scanlan himself is even a little much

The last story FINALLY handled someone trying to pull that stuff off right! Listening to a lot of these stories, the DM, who’s also the OP, will often seem like they’re frozen in the moment. It’s like…”You literally have ALL THE POWER! Why make this even an option in the games. You can make a god literally come from the sky and ‘take care of’ that PC.” Idk, hindsight’s always 20/20

Hey! Thanks for reading my story (the second one). I’ve been subscribed for a while, but seeing one of my stories on here really made my morning! I had put a third edit, but it mainly just answered the many questions I got asking why I would run Maid RPG with this group. Anyone curious can just look themselves since I don’t want to make this comment too long. We’re due to have another session of Maid this Friday and I’m really excited for the superhero campaign now!

@DnDDoge

Жыл бұрын

that's awesome!

@super_manul1167

Жыл бұрын

nice profile pic on reddit

@MetaGiga

Жыл бұрын

@opinionatedfoxl8369 Oh, thanks!

@super_manul1167

Жыл бұрын

@@MetaGiga Your welcome

@Metal_Horror

Жыл бұрын

Any updates?

Might be off-topic but if a GM who's looking for players says right away it's 18+ that's a green flag. They're not hiding anything. In fact, on roll20 one even detailed how their play by post game was 18+ and asked every future player how much sexual stuff they'were ok with on a scale of 1 to 5. Transparency is important if you want to run a campaign with 18+ stuff in a safe, consensual and respectful way.

@banditlord8210

Ай бұрын

This definitely this

I follow a dragon, a crab, a bear, an owl and now a doge for rp stories...

@Ghostface2252

Жыл бұрын

Den of the Drake, critcrab, bear bard and dnd doge, I don't know the last one though.

@wolfherojohnson2766

4 ай бұрын

The last one is Kooh’s Library

These stories are why RPG consent checklists exist. I don't understand why more groups don't use them.

I don't blame Aphrodite for smiting him. She's the goddess of love and beauty. Defiling a woman's body is like defiling her temple. And you better not hurt her babies. She's an overprotective and doting mother in Greek mythology. It will send her flying into a rage.

I think to answer your question about why people do this shit in games. Some people have dark and twisted thoughts. Instead of controlling them or suppressing them, they play TTRPGs and force these thoughts on strangers under the guise of "it's just fantasy, not like anyone is actually being hurt". Some people see open concept fantasy as an outlet for their demons, but it's not.

@travisbishop782

Жыл бұрын

Or the people that think ttrpg's are a group therapy section.

@paulman34340

Жыл бұрын

@@travisbishop782 Yeah, still remember the horror stories of assholes using the "therapeutic" excuse to justify their shitty behavior (or as a "you can't defy me cause I need this and you'll be responsible if I commit suicide" or something of the like!) I like to remind them that "You wouldn't punch a man wearing glasses would you" excuse doesn't work and neither will this one "take this dipshit!" (swat to the head!)

@oreoloki8872

Жыл бұрын

It CAN BE but they never take the time to find the right people for it, they just drop their shit on random people because “I don’t know em, and they don’t know me.”

@ffadicto

Жыл бұрын

Wish it was my psychiatrist sounds like a really good DM

Thank Yoda for a Kitty palate cleanser - look at that cat jump and scamper. Is that Alice? I just noticed the unusual markings on the body, so cute and cuddly.

Kenny the safety Kenku says: consent is like cereal, it always first. If you don’t have it, don’t bother.

@travisbishop782

Жыл бұрын

Kenny sounds cool.

I mean I've played the horny bard before, but because I was playing up the rockstar life. Ultimately he was a horny Alice Cooper. But everything naughty always goes behind the black.

On story 1, the player should leave, but he shouldn't "just leave". He should post in the chat a screenshot of the wife's character sheet and say that he won't play with someone who blatantly favors one character over the others, THEN leave. On story 2, if those are OP's best friends, OP wouldn't trade these people for the world, OP has been letting the problems in their friend group slide for a long time and hasn't been clear enough about his feelings. If they're really OP's friends, they'd understand how OP feels. If they don't understand (or say they do and then don't stop the unacceptable behavior), they aren't good friends and OP needs to recognize that.

People do the things in the last two stories because ultimately, it's a power fantasy. Do stuff they want without consequences. And some people are just that messed up. Of course, they fail to take into account there are other people there too, and they might object, but That Guys are never the sort to care about others to begin with, and tend to shut off their brains to think with their groins, so naturally do stupid stuff and tend not to think about the consequences. Needless to say, they could have tried to find an ERP to do this sort of crap, but instead have to drag everyone else with them into their messed up fantasies.

[character] but better is never a good start. Same goes for stories too. Usually it can only go downhill from there. And boy did it.

First story: Aren't ability scores capped at 20? (That is, without some magic item or boon?)

@bonthebunnycat667

Жыл бұрын

Indeed

@TigerW0lf

Жыл бұрын

Better question: Do you think that they really care?

Sadly.. i understand that furry force reference :(

That second story, I loved how you brought in aphrodite. Like, god the lorre correctness of that rapist smite is beautiful. Fuck that paladin XD

Why they do these kind of things in Tabletop Roleplaying Games? I'll tell you from the perspective of someone who engages in uncomfortable topics in a way that ask the two big questions, "What is the cause for it to lead up to this situation?" and "What can be done about it?" I have my theories, but this is the best I could answer without turning it into a longwinded TEDTalk. The reason a lot of them became the horror stories is because we're getting better at filtering through our informed vigilance and creating a necessary echo chamber (or safe space) that encountering such individuals who are freshly unrestrained by the unbridled nature of imagination would be quite perturbing and memorable. Keep in mind that the common trend with it is that they came from a shared space or have a surface-level relationship such as friendships or hook-ups. I would advise maintaining a strict vigilance around people who you are acquainted with; it goes double for couples due to the echo chamber phenomenon that is created during an intimate relationship. If it is your significant other, partner, or spouse, then take time to have the discussion. Only you could make the proper judgment with the available information you could abstract from.

@travisbishop782

Жыл бұрын

Well said.

1st Story: I would probably ask first if this has anything to do with plot or story-beats, even if the DM doesn't want to spoil the specific plot point it would be reassuring to know that this probably isn't a permanent character. The paladin is the daughter of a trickster god, so this could be a set-up for a betrayal of some sort. Though tbh it would have been better for this character to have just been a DMNPC as to not cause confusion or irritation amongst the other players, making them believe the wife is being given special treatment. A DM in a game I played had a guest come in to play and voice a temporary character that was important for our traveling to a place relevant to the plot. It was fun, cool, and didn't step on the toes of the other players.

14:40 That was the calmest sounding “what the fuck” I ever heard xD

Hey, Doge, that first story has a continuation. It did NOT end well. Do us all a favor and be sure to read it in your next post, okay?

I would have wanted to handle that (at first) in person with the crit role bastardization. At best, the guy ends up in the dungeon, probably in the ground with all but a few evil characters of mine.

Coffee girl is a huge FU and ban

@tw33144154

Жыл бұрын

For sure. That was intentional assault and should be treated as such.

In the first story personally I would go to next session, link DMs wife's character sheet and then state that I don't play in games with blatant favouritism going on. That way you can let the DM know why you left and also warn all the other players what is going on. It may save them wasting more time in a terrible campaign.

Bruh that thumbnail is everything XD

I love how her throwing coffee at him is just a waste of coffee but him hitting her because she literally tried to burn him his assault. The only assault that day was done by her

@Blueoriontiger

Жыл бұрын

Should've pressed charges just for the fact of red tape alone. That's not okay in any way, shape or form.

@peytonmac1131

Жыл бұрын

I know it's a lot of trouble, but he should have pressed charges. If she dies that to a friend, just think what she does to random people. Needs to be pulled up hard before she does something worse.

@shadowpyre

Жыл бұрын

Are you talking about Doge's comments on story 3 in the video? Cause Doge was referring to the throwing of the coffee as assault. Pretty sure the overreaction comment was also at the coffee thrower.

I wanna play a kight with heavy armor that said armor make so much noise he can't stealth based on my misadventures in stealth mission in games

"It's good for the coffee throwing player that the guy did not press charges." No, they deserved those charges, coffee could've blinded that man if it got in his eyes.

@ffadicto

Жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure he would press charges then, unless he is really passive

I'm petty, print the sheet, bring it to the next game and pass it around loudly as a ridiculous Mary sue until they realize what it is. Then leave.

Jeez, these last 2 stories.

If Scamlan had tried to carry the village girl to the table, would she not had woken up then? She was not in coma, was she? That player really seem clueless.

I cant remember the one where the woman threw rhe coffee "out of nowhere" and mayhe its this one but id throw coffee at Scanlan.

I laughed so hard at that Aphrodites story! Hahahahaha! Honestly the best way to punish players like that! Honestly though... The amount of pervy players... Do people really think like that? If so it's honestly concerning...

Huh, first story sounds like Alice from the live-action Resident Evil movies.

I had a friend with really bad main character syndrome. None of us had a problem with it: he played his character well, and the DM is a really funny guy, so any time Main Character took over the game, we all enjoyed the story. DM would periodically ask everyone if he needed to pause what was going on in order to have the other players get in some time, and we obviously all got turns in combat. All-in-all, we laughed at the stuff the DM came up with, and we enjoyed the story that was weaved, whether or not we were actively involved.

since when do paladins have sugestion on their spell list?

DIABLO 2!!! ❤️ One of my top 5 favorite RPGs!

Welp that paladin got a good shock from his goddess

Does doge have a discord?

Bruh. Combat always takes an hour or more no matter the parties size.

Where are the kitties!?

Those stats are crazy for level 20

Wow doggie five stories in 21 minutes. Doggie you cute little dog you spoil this fox so much.

Story 1: Hard to say with me, personally but I'd leave. I mean, wow. Story 2: Uhhhhhh... this is a group from hell. LEAVE! Edit: Uh, wow. Communications works here. Story 3: Whoa, whoa, whoa! Hit the brakes, what! Warning: Oh boy, here we go. Story 4: That was bad. Creep alert! (mashes emergency meeting button) At the least it ended on a very good note. Oh wow, Alice is getting big and growing into a beautiful lady. Story 5: That title, lol! Uh, wow. That escalated really quick and justifiably.

Story 1: You're pretty much SOL. You might convince the DM logically that the wife's character is a problem to the other characters fun, but there is very little chance the wife will be able to see it the same way. It might be worth a try, it's just the chance of success is very small.

@tuffy135ify

Жыл бұрын

It's his D&D game for his wife, and you're just part of the show, lol

What dude should do is quietly match DMs wife's stats and if you get called out on it say "you said we were using standard array so I used the same numbers I saw on her character sheet."

Well, OP number 1, I guess you have to become the DM's second wife with all that entails...

I dont get it. I played this game for almost 30 years and never in my life there was a hint of SA in my games. How come all these weird SAs are so common now in other people games? Is it a 5e thing?

@TigerW0lf

Жыл бұрын

Nope, it's a case of finding the worst people who crawl out of the woodwork to terrorize normal folk. They have been around since the start of the hobby

I'll say that as many times as I must, but if you find a table where the DM's SO is a player, avoid it at all costs.

I... well I don't wanna be negative. But often reddit stories are just that. Stories. I've played a fair bit of DnD by now, talked with many others and hung around the scene for quite a bit.... Never ever have I heard of a need to tell others that you're uncomfortable with sexual assault... wtf? The only campaign I ever had stuff like that in the player who did it was playing a character with succubus heritage, and played it out as slightly uncontrollable and even then kept it very PG. Hugging, clinging, sneaking into the other persons bed. But never a mention of sex, nakedness or hell even kissing. And there was a real reason for doing these things. Sure a world feels more alive when it is more "real", but I figured people kept the same social rules as you would at a house party.. But maybe people are just more fucked up than I think.

@seto_kaiba_

Жыл бұрын

"but I figured people kept the same social rules as you would at a house party.. But maybe people are just more fucked up than I think." You commit indiscriminate murder, rape, pedophilia, slavery, cannibalism of family members, and genocide at real life house parties? Cause that's what I do in D&D. Too many of y'all need to remember IT'S JUST A GAME! Y'all remember when the religious nuts thought D&D was actually summoning evil creatures and shit? That's what all these woke people remind me of now.

7:28 I was thinking more like the boys but ok

I'm petty sometimes, so I'd tell the other players to check it out and change their stats to be on par with the wife's.

@peytonmac1131

Жыл бұрын

You're only pretty sometimes? That's not a good way to build confidence. Be realistic, but do the best you can with what you've got. That's all anyone can ask.

@RioDrake

Жыл бұрын

@@peytonmac1131 haha okay, you got me on the typo there. Nice one!

First story. If it's ruining, or going to ruin, the game for you leave. Otherwise stay. The game you are playing is the one on offer.

Magic puppy

I admit I have a pretty crude sense of humor my self, involving shit and sex stuff but I make sure to keep it to my self or if I know I'm around people who also laugh at dumb crude humor.

Hi Doge😊

Race: Demigod (+10 to all stats)

Story 1 If the wife’s main character syndrome is not ruining your game, then stay. However, the favoritism is a turn off? Leave. 2 sessions is long enough. I may tell the other player though so that they can make their own decision too.

Story 3: Equal fights in my opinion, and should’ve been given consequences for their actions. Since DND ain’t teaching her that valuable lesson.

Caffeine abuse WILL NOT be tolerated!!! You don't throw coffee! There are very few reasons I accept coffee being hurled toward someone. THIS was not one of those times.

"I bring her downstairs and leave her on the table for others to enjoy." "As you walk back up the stairs, an undiagnosed pulmonary embolism in your brain bursts, you see a flash of white and then fall dead to the floor, tumbling limply down the stairs where, with any luck, one of your party members might find your rapidly cooling body in the next few hours."

1st story - if by the second session you can tell that there is a serious character imbalance, it is time to go. But don't ghost anybody. Without mentioning any name, just calmly explain to the DM that you are here to play DND, not watch an evolving Main Character Syndrome play out with myself and the other party members reduced to the role of back-up dancers.

It never fails to amaze me when people try to live out their fetishes in D&D. Like, we've all got our thing but keep that to yourself and your consenting sexual partner...who thinks it's ok to trot that shit out in a group of strangers?

When SA occurs ingame, i suggest castrating the offender ICly, and just reply casually OOCly "it's what my character would have done!" rolf

@seto_kaiba_

10 ай бұрын

One time my rapist character got castrated. Good times. My party eventually killed me. No death saves-the DM just let me get eaten by a sea monster. He deserved it.

That first story, I agree with Doge, just leave. Talking to the DM isn't likely to work.

I really, really hope all the SA stories are made up. I don't know why people would want to roleplay that with strangers. That's completely ineffable

Why is it that D&D horror stories that have SA in them always bring out the wierdo commentors?

@travisbishop782

Жыл бұрын

I know, right? Some people are just gross.

Story 2 Um… yeah. The prison scene is extremely gross. I feel like that is enough to leave the game, let alone the favoritism, the cleric and bard being sex hounds.

Heyooo

You know what’s sad to me, outside the obvious parts of that story for the Scamlan one? The creator of Scanlan, Sam Riegal would be horrified if someone designed a character around one he made that’s as horrible as that guy was. It goes against (to my knowledge) everything he is believes. Sure he makes sexual innuendos and similar jokes but not of THAT stuff, not even remotely. And to my knowledge he is super against such things in the scenario that guy was trying to play out. It’s pretty horrible to know someone takes some precious character you designed to utilize against others like that. It feels bad to have a beloved character to be twisted that way. Then again, it sounds like the guy didn’t even make Scanlan so maybe Sam would see it that way.

While I believe that all that kind of garbage should be shut down with a firm "No, that doesn't happen, and you're leaving my table right now, and if you have a problem with that, I'll call (insert proper authorities depending on location of the game) to get this sorted." I also understand that some DMs are "Deer in headlights" when it does, and that's why the system I'm currently working on has a mechanic built in for players that try that. There's an entire organization dedicated to merc'ing assholes who engage in that kind of behavior. Their god is the god of shadows and executions. They can travel IN the shadows. They can appear anywhere, at any time. They have a unique weapon that guarantees a decapitation, turns the body to ash, and absorbs the soul. There is no resurrection magic that can bring the player back, as their soul is absorbed, the body is destroyed, and they're GONE. As they can be anywhere instantly, DM can rule essentially like with Aphrodite appearing behind the player with them--or, hey, why not the Literal God of Shadows and Executions himself? He's a bit insane (his wife and children died of plague when he was mortal, you see), so he takes these things seriously. He can make expanse contract, and aeons be as instant--that is to say "instant decapitation, but feel free to describe how painful, gruesome, and absolutely violent the death feels, because the PC will experience it for eternity." A bit extreme? Maybe. But we're also talking about a system that the first page, before you even get to the title of the system, is "NO TTRPG IS BETTER THAN BAD TTRPG, YOUR MENTAL AND PERSONAL HEALTH ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN A GAME. LEAVE YOUR GROUP IF THEY CROSS YOUR BOUNDARIES." Yeah... I take that stuff seriously, my table doesn't have time for that kind of garbage. And so as I build this system, I'm trying to build tools and safeguards into it to help mitigate it (in no small part inspired by your videos, my good Doge) as much as possible, since while again--I FIRMLY BELIEVE in handling it OOC, some people don't know what to do in the moment. Toolboxes, man. They help.

Story 3 … oof. What a brat. Definitely never play with that girl ever again

Should have pressed charges.

1st story: "and the wife plays a paladin/warlock" just a few sentences in and I see trouble brewing. Frankly, I gotta wonder how this combo can function at all, since you have a class that's devoted to goodness and order, while being tasked with missions by potentially super evil beings. Feels like you should start out an Ex-Paladin, but I doubt that's a thing in 5e. But honestly there's not much to say about this. Its nepotism at the table. Never used D&D beyond, so I'm a bit surprised you can look at other people's sheets. Nothing stands out as sus. It sounds fairly typical. 2nd story: So OP loves the people he plays with, but hates that they keep added gross ERP stuff into the storyline. Sounds like a group that doesn't take the game even a bit seriously. And the DM's got a girlfriend with MCS. Feels like anytime the DM's got an SO in these stories, that player has MSC. The group sounds like a group of half drunk college students blowing off steam, tbh. Doesn't make it less disgusting but it sounds like its the case. OP, you have made your discomfort known, right? You don't just laugh along and go 'yeah guys, dick in a box is super hilarious for the millionth time!' do ya? wait, you DIDN'T TELL THEM? Well, at least you eventually got the courage up. Well, at the OP and the party seemed to be real at least. 3rd story: 8 players!? Combat can be a drag with just 5, and that DM is asking for early burnout. Okay, at least he admits it was a bad idea. okay, so the girls were new. OP should have just ran a introductory adventure, with other players helping the girls learn the system. Sounding like a newbie that got dragged along, didn't want to play the game and got frustrated and potentially assaulted someone. Okay, not unbelievable so far. and it just ends. okay. 4th story: Ugh, another curse of strahd story. My left hand for a story about the AD&D or 3.5 Ravenloft setting where Strahd's actually... y'know, threatening. Wait, so OP agrees to a game where everyone's not taking anything seriously at all, and is now getting upset that someone's just making a rip off character. Is OP trying to find things to complain about? OP even writes of another rippoff character like its nothing. So group agrees on boundaries, and scam dude takes things too far. DM could just say 'okay, change your alignment to Chaotic Evil' and have the bar maid's co workers take her away. This is not a situation that's hard to defuse. So this guy does this, and the group all band together to get him banned from the server and encouraged a total black out of communication. ... that raises my eyebrow. While it could have happened as said, it could easily be the group turned on this dude and made up the story to kick him, and then used this block chain idea to make sure no one else in the server heard his side. No proof, but very easily could have happened. 5th story Anytime I hear someone in one of these reddit stories mention a player who played 2nd edition I brace for another 'Anti-Gygaxian' 'totally happened gaiz' story. OP's a little hard to follow in the beginning as he jumps from DM to Wizard on the fly. Wait? Paladins have suggestion in 5e? OP keeps saying he he he he and not saying who's doing what. He started this story with Wizard being the That Guy and now its paladin? Okay, now its charm person. Is it the wizard or paladin? I rewound the video a few times and I realize that Paladin is Wizard and not DM. OP just didn't explain it very clearly. Okay, sounds like OP and the gang kicked this dude. sounds like problem solved. I do think that him getting his ass kicked by a goddess (who i suspect OP only put in the maid's place because of Paladin's grabby hands) and told to grow up would have been a better choice but 'owning the rapist' makes for better reddit updoots I guess.

I bet these guys genuinely think F.A.T.A.L. is greatest TRPG ever published

I ruined 777 likes

I don't understand the appeal of trying to do SA in TTRPGs. You out yourself as a creep and for what, the gratification of saying that you had to force yourself on imaginary people to get some?

Todays word is consent. Something that some of these problem players need to learn.

997th like

Ah, just in time for breakfast.

Eww sorry nobody else but Sam could pull of a character like Scanlan. It also helps that Scanlan isn't JUST a hilarious sexpest he's also a interesting and well developed character

"I hope a ban list isn't the only list this guy is on", uhhhh, Doge, homie, I don't think you said what you think you said. To be on a list you have to act, not just be a creep...

...okay, I had to have a good long think about who Brock Turner was because I legitimately forgot. And if anyone has their speeches lined up about Eating the Rich or the inherent Privilage or nature of Le Strait White Males....please no. I only just got a 24 Hours chip.

Second story I’m gonna sound like an asshole but if everyone else is ok with what the dm Allows you maybe the problem and I’m saying your a bad player it just sounds like you enjoy an different kind of dnd.

I think the last story is fake. Everything just seems to go too perfectly with the blacklisting and all that, it seems more like how you would write a scenario in your mind rather than how it would actually play out. Maybe if that guy flipped the table or something I would understand him getting blacklisted but he seemed to take his character getting instakilled out of nowhere extremely well all things considered. It seems like he just got banned from everything because the guy writing the story wanted it to happen. Best case scenario it's all fake, worst case scenario, OP is an asshole who instantly killed someone's character, promptly proceeded to ban them and then somehow got said player banned from everywhere all because he couldn't be bothered to establish that sexual assult wasn't allowed in his game

So when I play I tend to allow most things. Though I tend not to bring sexual shit into my games I don't care when others do. At what point is a crime too bad for a character to do? Like not saying any of this shit would not be bad irl but my warlock breaks people's knees in interrogation. Shoots people with repelling blasts into spike pits. Is all around a no mercy sort. No sex crimes but the brutal attacks like hurl through hell or hunger of Hadar are likely more emotionally and physically scarring. Seems like the shit most people do in dnd involves lots of killing and pain should it all be banned? I think it is weird when people make rapey characters. But are any of us any better. Every time I cast burning hands I am doing way worse than any of these guys do. It is literally melting people

@siobhannoble8545

Жыл бұрын

Sexual assault is something many people (mostly women) have experienced in real life. That's the difference. Anyone who finds that sort of thing fun, or makes ridiculous excuses for why it's okay, is not someone who should be trusted.

@K_i_t_t_y84

Жыл бұрын

Bro are you really doing the "Is rape REALLY worse than murder" thing right now because..........maybe don't? Maybe just don't?

@wizardswordfish5875

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@@siobhannoble8545 fair enough. I suppose I know more people who have had such experiences irl than those who have experienced being set on fire by a warlock

@starbird3939

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@@wizardswordfish5875 people want to relax, let their guards down and enjoy a game-something that rape by its nature, is something that ruins all of that. It’s traumatic to experience and often goes unreported or unpunished because of how much the law system retraumatizes the victim. So yeah. Rape is a special kind of awful and very real.

@wizardswordfish5875

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@@starbird3939 there is certainly something that feels worse about such rp. I only had one game where someone did such actions and ic I promptly locked them in a bag of holding until they died. But upon the argument afterwards they tossed back at me that I do way worse ic. As in fireballing people and necromancy and I suppose I didn't really have much to say in my defense.