When the grass is dead on both sides of the fence.

@RJ-mw2gw

5 ай бұрын

Best comment ever.

@oregonsnob31

5 ай бұрын

You’re hilarious!!!

@maisg3513

5 ай бұрын

For reallllllll. I can relate to both sides now! 🤣🤣

@SRose-vp6ew

5 ай бұрын

Enjoy the growth during the season of singleness and enjoy the mentoring of the next generation when you have lived and learned. It doesn’t matter what season of life you’re in, it matters how you live the season of life you’re in. There are 31 verses in Proverbs, that’s considered a book filled with wisdom in the Bible, some people read one chapter every day in addition to other scriptures like the gospels (such as John). I recently heard someone joke that the Bible is basic instructions before leaving earth. Take time to know and apply no matter what part of your life your in.

@SpyderDan1985

5 ай бұрын

Lol

So everyone is basically living both their best, and worst life. 😄

Thank you for this hilarious, ACCURATE portrayal 😂😂😂

The “still having to get up at 6am after you go out” hit home lol 😂

I love this a lot, love how you show both sides of the argument. Goes to show that the grass is greener only where you water it.

I was waiting for this to devolve into the existential dread of just being alive and it did not disappoint!

@momof4kids735

5 ай бұрын

😂😂

One day he will have his own toddler, middle schooler, and high schooler! Ah how the tides have changed 😂♥️

@maetay1256

5 ай бұрын

This is me lol. Adult child, middle schooler and two preschoolers 😂

“We’re SICK!” I absolutely cannot with this video 💀🤣🤣!

"We barely have time to do it except when we're trying to get pregnant, we do it everyday for two weeks straight" 🤣

I love how it shows both sides so well like it's so perfect for showing the damned if you do and damned if you don't thing. On the bright side there's probably going to be a lot of animal adoptions now.

@barb5

5 ай бұрын

Exactly!!!!!!! I loved every moment of this

@badabing8152

5 ай бұрын

lmfao cope. what is the negative to the damned if you don't lmfaoooooooooo

You did a perfect job with the satire of this.

Love the way you show both sides of coin. As a mom and the only parent out of all my friends and siblings it's both rewarding and draining😂 used to cringe at the thought of having kids but now I can't imagine my life without them. It's a daunting and scary transition from a childfree lifestyle, especially in today's world but I wouldn't trade it for anything. It's definitely not for everyone.

@AshleySmith-oc9rh

5 ай бұрын

Exactly! It’s draining, but rewarding!

We are 50 with adult children now and omg so worth it but love the silence and doing what we want...you get back your sanity 20 some years after your bundle of joy

Omg the way Trey holds the baby😂😂

@kj7792

5 ай бұрын

Right?😂

DINKS here. Helped raise and protect my sister under neglectful and emotionally abusive parents. Now, it’s my time.

I love how both sides eventually spiraled 😂

Hang in there, parents, getting to be grandparents is the dessert of life. It's worth the wait.

I absolutely love my childless life!!! But I have a lot of respect for those who have kids and are good parents!! ❤

It's night & day different! Also, this was some dark stuff! LOL!!

The switch in mood got me😭😭

Having kids ain’t no walk in the park, as dad of three :-) everything in life is a trade-off

I love how sad and dark it gets at the end 🤣🤣

That went from funny to nightmarish real quick. We’re DINKs but not by choice; don’t think that I’m not awake at 3am worrying about the future 😳🥺😭

@vidsbybrielle

5 ай бұрын

i don’t get what dink and sick is

@drnyashamercy

5 ай бұрын

@@vidsbybrielledink= double income no kids couple. Sick= single income countless kids family

@vidsbybrielle

5 ай бұрын

@@drnyashamercy ohhhhhhhhhhhhh thank you!!!

@cnmcnm5853

3 ай бұрын

sorry 😞 and adoption? or furbaby 🐕😍🐈

there is pro's and cons to everything like my mother would say pick and choose your battles great video as always

I gotta give it to parents, you couldn’t pay me enough to be one 😅

That tax line hits you in the wallet. I have no kids and yet pay lots of taxes every year for your kids. You're welcome.

Aye, man! Don't sleep on Bluey. I'm watching even after the kiddos leave the room!😊

@folakemiememakpan469

5 ай бұрын

Me too, plus Peppa Pig and all that good stuff.

This was... depressing... but true lol

Love the couple comparison videos! The ice pack. 🤣

Desert for dinner!!!! I'm in....wait...I already do. We have 5 kids! LoL Love every minute. God being the center really makes it worth it all!

@rivka954

5 ай бұрын

You go!!! Hubby and I have SIX wished we had more. And. O yeah, breakfast for dinner and dessert first

@dandawson129

5 ай бұрын

@@rivka954 amen!

@dandawson129

3 ай бұрын

@@rivka954 pancakes/waffles should really be a staple in every meal! 🤣

@rivka954

3 ай бұрын

@@dandawson129 introduced hubby to crispy beer batter waffles and now that's on the menu a lot.

I love not having kids. I love my friends kids too but I am always glad that they don't live at my house 😂

DINKS here!!!🎉🎉 🙋‍♀️🎉🎉

@FunnyFaye

5 ай бұрын

In 40 years Christmas will be the worst day of your life

@HUYI1

5 ай бұрын

​@@FunnyFaye😂😂 yeah funny that....

@ShenMerrick

5 ай бұрын

And you are contributing to the death of your culture and people.

@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063

5 ай бұрын

​@FunnyFaye there are many ppl in nursing homes with kids who never visit..

@your1supporter

5 ай бұрын

@@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063 Exactly! I've seen it first hand many times. Often times they even pass without any family there. Having kids doesn't guarantee you won't be alone.

Well, that took an interesting turn! Thanks for sharing this.

Choices in life. Pro/con at every turn. Follow your heart.

Cracked up when Trey does the shimmy while saying “we do it whenever we want” then the camera goes to him holding an ice pack 😂. Oh, and what kind of short stubby baby has he ever met at 0:58 😂. It’s definitely not his 😄.

Do more videos of Maddox being a teenager . Lol 😂❤

Omg that was GOLD!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Pros and cons to both sides. When I was younger, I always observed how unhappy parents were and how they always complained about their children. Even just sitting in a waiting room, overhearing parents talk. So I thought, why would you choose that? That, plus the cost of daycare costs your entire paycheck. But there some cons being childless too. Good video, as always.

@kaitlyng.473

5 ай бұрын

I’m struggling to see the cons of being child free 😅😅

@leilaniz5909

5 ай бұрын

Lol as a new parent I have zero complaints. I have more complaints about being in my thirties and feeling the difference from twenties. Age hits you regardless, but children bring a joy to your life.

@craziebarbietalks692

5 ай бұрын

@@kaitlyng.473before I had my daughter I had so much time……too much time. I became bored so easily

@kaitlyng.473

5 ай бұрын

@@craziebarbietalks692I have so many hobbies I don’t think I could ever be bored. In fact, there’s so many things I would like to try.

@princessaome

5 ай бұрын

@@kaitlyng.473I’m with you. I’m very happy being a “mom” to my animal companions. I would take “unconditional love” and less money spent over kids any day.

In 40 years Christmas morning’s will be so sad! 😂😂😂😂😂

@HUYI1

5 ай бұрын

More like full of peace and quiet drinking a bottle of wine with my partner sitting next to the fireplace 😉😉

@ShenMerrick

5 ай бұрын

@@HUYI1 Keep telling yourself that. Humans are designed to make families...to be fruitful and multiply. Very, very few people are psychologically broken in the right ways to be able to stably fight that nature long term and not have it destroy them emotionally. Battling against your intended design for short term gratification that will not be what you always want is extremely foolish and speaks to having had poor parenting in your youth. Understand, I'm not judging...I've learned this myself. I wasn't taught it growing up either, and neither was my wife. We started late because didn't realize this truth when we were young.

@unapologeticallyhuman

5 ай бұрын

If Christmas sucks in 40 years there’s a high chance it sucks already.

@janelleg597

5 ай бұрын

​@@HUYI1you can do that any time...

@mbwilson8592

5 ай бұрын

​@@HUYI1wow. True fulfillment 😅 not.

can’t wait to see you tonight Treywey

Im surrounded by DINKS and I had started to envy them until this video!!! Lmao thanks Trey. I still completely relate to being a SICK

I've missed these!!!!

DINKs checking in here - this was hilarious!

1:23 lol right! Bluey on a 75in tv 🤣🤣🤣. And if the tv is low enough a bunch of little hand prints all over the screen😅

As sad as you tried to make the no kids thing sound, I still feel great about it. 😅

I love being a sick...I love my life with my hubby and kiddos

I love the spiral, friggen gold!

The ice pack 😂🤣

The knocked down candlestick is driving me bonkers 😆

That spiraled out of control so fast lmao 😂

life is shit no matter what

as someone who managed to skip christmas recently, its amazing. feels exactly like skipping a pep rally.

Happy I lived both lives. 3 years as newlyweds without kids and now have 2. Both have ups and downs. It was fun for a while to eat out and take vacations but at a certain point life started to feel empty. Not always perfect with kids, and anyone who tells you otherwise is a liar. but I love the renewed passion for my work as a provider. My biweekly check is not just another restaurant or vacation but $ I can now spend providing my kids with fun times. I get to re-live my fun childhood at all the neat places we go.

I'm single and I LOVE being just by myself.

Kids.....greatest joy. Greatest heartache

A stranger will bury us😂😂😂

Praise the Lord for the gift of children! It's NOT easy, but it's worth it!!

@-living4jesus4ever-

5 ай бұрын

💯👏👏

Suggestion: Middle schooler's reaction to a new baby in the house.

Also a daycare costs more than the salary. Preach!!

A 1 uping match that just keeps going and going 😆

😁 👍👍👍 Hi Trey, LOVE Ur Videos THANKS For Making me Smile Today!

Oh, the hilarity of the polarity 😂😂

Being a parent has been the best thing ever, but probably because we’re the first on both sides to have kids and get lots of help and attention for the baby. It’s probably a lot harder down the road.

@maisg3513

5 ай бұрын

We're the firsr on my husband's side and I'm like "please someone else have a baby and take away all this unwanted attention." 😆😅

@maisg3513

5 ай бұрын

*first lol

@laurenl1088

5 ай бұрын

@@maisg3513 lol! Honestly I would be overwhelmed if it was all on me. But they love the time with baby and I’m happy to share him. But we’ll be moving soon and my female relatives that got married/are getting married this year might miss their “auntie” time enough to have their own. It’s almost been like a test run for them! 😂

This went from 😂 to 😵‍💫 real quick.

The ice pack 🤣

I'd rather regret NOT having a child than potentially regret having one.

DINKS make me SICK! 😂

I am always sick and don’t have time for myself but my kids made me happier then when I didn’t have any and I never thought I would, it’s not for everyone and that’s ok I waited till my 30s.

The paradox of life lol

Just turned 46, been married 18 years and decided not to have kids and NEVER regret that choice. We have pets and nieces and nephews so thats nice lol. I dont miss having to worry about a child in this crazy world today. We so enjoy just relaxing, traveling when and where and for however long we want, dont have to worry about paying for college or leaving any inheritance lol. Im sure having a child is the best thing ever, but for us, not having kids has been a choice we have never regretted.

@einienj3281

2 ай бұрын

I'm 42, now a widow, no kids. Never have I regretted my/our decision to not have children. I have 3 nieces and a nephew and my pets, friends etc. I don't need anything else. Not sure if I want a new relationship either. I'm an introvert.

"A stranger will bury me..." I felt that!!!

one second in and i'm laughing

I agree 💯👍😂 no kids😂❤

NOT THE ICE PACK 😂

“Axel’s dad rules” 😅

One kid early in life so we have all the fun of the DINKs but still have someone to leave our crap to. 😂

Dinks for life

Daycare is more than my salary. Truth!

I say cut through the fluff and have kittens! 😂

@HUYI1

5 ай бұрын

I already have 2 cats! Far much easier than kids 🎉🎉

@stacyfrederick9183

5 ай бұрын

Except for finding them; stepping over them and the adult illiteracy and malnutrition. 😆 But there is the extra added benefit of all that light and dark fur to decorate your living room.

@hays0714

5 ай бұрын

Cat mom of 3 here and I wouldn’t have it any other way 🙌🏼

So true

It's nice to see you are all doing so well that you can afford a Festool miter saw! :-)

Yep, no such thing as a perfect life, whether you have kids or not… Though I will say some ppl are definitely better suited to #parentlife than others, and some ppl sincerely are much happier on #teamnokids. Takes all kinds! 😊

Love when you poke fun at both sides of a coin 😂 Oh, & though I don't have kids, I refuse to call myself a dink 🫢

My younger brother says he doesn't make enough money to have kids and doesn't wanna have to pay child support so he chose to not have kids. To each his own. I have two of my own and I love motherhood.

Well that got dark 😂

*well, trey, congrats. you encapsulated flavors of despair.* no matter anyone's circumstances, despair can be just a brief thought away.

Laughed at the parts that make me sad. 5 stars.

Silence is health

Perfect middle ground that I've found: have just one kid & both parents work. One extracurricular schedule, one kid's separate bedtime and we still have time for ourselves. Why make it harder on ourselves when one kid is the right amount of responsibility for us? Damned if you do damned if you don't anyway. No one wins lololol 😂

DINKS have more money in the bank and time on their hands and PWK (people with kids) are sick of their kids sometimes 😂

I was child free for 37 years. Sure I had more free time, but time with my son is so much more fulfilling than being on my own. I actually go more places with my son than when I was child free.

I've never heard of dinks and sick had to look it up is this a new thing?

"we get to do whatever we want on weekends. except hang out with our friends who have kids....... and that's most of them." HITS HARD. but also, can't do the kids thing, i'd jump off a bridge.

We are Dicks- Dual income, countless kids. Definitely could add some added stress in there, especially working opposite shifts as your spouse to avoid daycare costs.

@lkf8799

5 ай бұрын

Several of my coworkers do this. Looks so hard. At least the first 5 yrs.

Although I did enjoy this video (like everything Trey makes lol), I don't necessarily believe everyone's life wouldn't be complete without kids. I believe everyone has different goals, and at the end of the day it is up to you to get out of your comfort zone, make friends and try different things. 😌 I am that type of person But love you Trey, don't stop doing what you're doing!! 🫶

Trey, this is the one. this one. iChuckle.

We are SICK and its all accurate lol

That took a dark turn

Millennial life 2.0 LOL , but there are a lot more happier kid free peoples from my circle and personal observation!

@ShenMerrick

5 ай бұрын

It won't last long term. Humans are designed to make families...to be fruitful and multiply. Very, very few people are psychologically broken in the right ways to be able to stably fight that nature long term and not have it destroy them emotionally. Battling against your intended design for short term gratification that will not be what you always want is extremely foolish and speaks to having had poor parenting in your youth. Understand, I'm not judging...I've learned this myself. I wasn't taught it growing up either, and neither was my wife. We started late because didn't realize this truth when we were young.

@meaganl124

5 ай бұрын

People aren’t broken just because they don’t want families. Plenty of beings, even outside the human species, out there are asexual or gay so they don’t reproduce. Doesn’t mean they’re broken, they’re just different from the norm. Wishing this commenter healing from this mindset and a happy life

@katieh890

5 ай бұрын

@@ShenMerrickthere’s so many different ways in how your comment is wrong.

@ShenMerrick

5 ай бұрын

@@meaganl124 Not wanting children in the here and now doesn't me they are "broken"...no. But it very much means there is an extremely high likelihood of there lives becoming gradually more empty and vapid as the years roll on. And, the typical method of care for people in later life is via children...these people will have no one. They are already confessing their intention to be a burden on society at large because they will not be contributing to it...but rather detracting from it. That is, in essence, a broken mentality when compared with all of human history. And let's not even bother talking about those that are perverted. They are corrupted and broken, and since this conversation is about having children...they have no place in it.

@ShenMerrick

5 ай бұрын

@@katieh890 Please...do go on.

FINALLY. A realistic one.