“You’re a loving person who deserves love.” Lines like this are so rare in our media. They’re so simple, but actually believing in them can change your life.

@rosetereziewasilewska371

5 ай бұрын

Haha. No :D What is love? It's an abstract word which definition is based on a particular human need. Itself it has no meaning. So a loving person cannot exist without a condition. No one deserves anything except laws. No law gives 'being loved'. Maybe being accepted or respected but that's the condition. The psychologist just include her own needs to the main need to change herself for better. That's all.

@entertain7us148

5 ай бұрын

@@rosetereziewasilewska371 what?

Rachel bloom is such an underrated actress. People get oscars for less than this.

@rahbeeuh

3 жыл бұрын

In her case she'd get an Emmy and she's gotten an Emmy. Does she deserve more? Sure but there's still time

People think this is show is weird cause it's a musical but it's the first time I've watched a show and 100% related to a character through dark and light. "I know what I'm capable of" hit so dark

@SugarSeanL

4 жыл бұрын

I just got diagnosed with General anxiety disorder and depression and a relationship just allowed me the space to go through the darkest time and the break up the 2nd darkest time. Now I feel like I'm in Rebecca's shoes. Being afraid of getting hurt like that and not feeling like you deserve or can have a happy loving relationship. So relatable lmao

@Ozzie_Mandias

3 жыл бұрын

Aren't those musical sketches just a combination of her hyperactive imagination and dissociative episodes caused by the BPD.

@WynneL

2 жыл бұрын

🫂Joshua Paterson, you're loving person who deserves love.

@albertelnen9144

4 ай бұрын

Lets face it. Life is weird. And I always loved musicals. I try to figure out what songs are based on. I'm pretty sure Greg's drinking song is based on Blow the man down. Same costumes as well.

It always bothers me how tv shows tend to romanticize mental health issues. Crazy ex-girlfriend is one of the few shows that portray mental health accurately.

@AleksandarDragicevic1

7 ай бұрын

i learned so much from this show. its brilliant and clever

Man. The set up and payoff in this show is soooo good. Imagine Rebecca having this conversation in S1. It wouldn’t have worked and it wouldn’t have had this sort of impact.

@MsCunningLinguistic

5 жыл бұрын

And imagine rewatching this scene after seeing season 3, and season 4. Aline and Rachel have always played the long game with Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, and it shows beautifully.

Hot damn, that session really was different.

The moment when she tells Dr. Akopian "I don't wanna die, okay?" really hit me hard. It accurately brings out the fear of being hurt and returning to the dark place that one has been to before. I found myself scared to engage in certain areas of my life again due to having been to such a bad place in my head as the result of the damages from toxic relationships and encounters with people. This show is amazing and it especially cheers me up seeing Dr. Akopian on screen because it makes me feel less alone with how I've felt. Thank you writers and actors for protraying such relatable content!

Having Dr Akopian believe in Rebecca after all they've been through is cathartic

Good therapist - catches you on your bullshit but also encourages you when you need it

Dr Akopian's lines are my new ringtone

this is such an accurate fear when it comes to bpd. if you have bpd and have ever been through an episode, you KNOW how all consuming they are. while rebecca’s episode led to unsafe territory for her life, even if that isn’t a symptom for you, episodes are still one of the _scariest_ things to experience. you know that a lot of your episodes are spurned form some sort of anxious attachment style, so you start to fear getting any affirmations that others love you at _ALL,_ because what if you grow dependent on other’s declarations of care again? what if you forget how to reassure yourself that they love you on your own? what if it gets bad again? so you forcefully shove yourself away from other’s words of love. you “can’t have it.” even if you realize this is dichotomous thinking, that it’s you going in the opposite direction of what you did before, you still think that it‘s the best course of action out of any other one. but, like lots of things when you have bpd, you realize you have to ease into an inbetween of these two different extremes. it’ll just take longer out of caution to achieve (despite talking about this in depth, *i’m* still not there yet). so yes. that other commenter was right about this scene being so important and life changing. it is *so* comforting to me, as a bpd person, to hear someone in media tell ANOTHER bpd person that they deserve love and can’t go through life without intimacy :,,)

Sometimes I come back here just hear this when I doubt myself. You all deserve love, dammit!

@jclyntoledo

Жыл бұрын

Same 😭😭😭

As someone with BPD and who’s struggled so much with having FPs and unstable relationships, this hits so hard. The fear you’re never really healed enough to be close to people and that it’s possible you never can be at all bc of your disorder. It’s such a strong difficult feeling, even if it’s not based in reality. Thank u crazy ex for putting a character like this on screen.

Little background on me: I am heartless. You name the movie, i didn't cry. Not Titanic, not Fault in our Stars, nothing. I hear Rebecca talking about how she doesn't wanna die, hit so fucking hard, I couldn't stop the water works. Because I've been where she's at. I've hated myself for believing things were so bad I thought that was the answer. I've thought, okay I'm doing good. But how long before the other shoe drops? It's exactly as terrifying as Rebecca's making it out to be.

@RachelBethAhrens

5 жыл бұрын

I know where you are right now in this moment. I'm just as scared as you and I also ruthlessly hate myself. It's ok. You're not alone.

The fear in her eyes when she says she doesnt wanna go back to that place. Made me cry...

This is one of the best scenes. I need this a lot

I have searched on KZread for months for this clip and finally found it. Thanks so much

@lmnop29

5 жыл бұрын

same! Thank you for posting this! I really needed it.

this scene is one of the scenes that makes the show a masterpiece

Rachel's acting is excellent in this scene; this entire cast is sooooo talented! None of their acting, singing etc. is subpar ♡

This is honestly one of the reasons I'm afraid of love. I can get WAY WAY WAY to attached, even to friends and family. I understand too well what she is saying. There has to be boundaries. I have to make sure that I cannot and will not go into a place that can ruin not only me, but others. All due respect to this fictional therapist, but just because you deserve love doesn't mean you are ready for it, and Rebbeca makes it clear she isn't. Let's keep it at that. It's like saying, "After all this time, I think you are ready to start just drinking a tiny bit. Even if it is barely any alcohol in it." When the patient knows they're not ready to deal with love that is realistic, then they aren't ready. Can we leave it at this. Rebecca can say, "Thank you, but I know I'm not ready yet, I have just begun to heal, I need time and time where there is a real big possibility that I may end up alone instead of in love and with a man."

She really needs to realize relationship is not everything. Relationship can be helpful but I really don't think that's the answer for her.

@beaniepq

4 жыл бұрын

으아아아아아아아아아 I'm very glad that the finale basically agreed with you!

I watched this series a year ago. It hits so different after having my heart broken like Rebecca did. I needed this line from Dr. Akopian 😢💗

Damn, i always cry when i watch this scene because i can partly relate

It's 2024 and I'm still going back to this scene following my BPD Diagnosis

Such a powerful scene

anytime i rewatch this video i can make it 30 seconds in tops before the waterworks start. no scene from any show has ever hit so close

I've never watched this show and this made me cry so hard. Every words Rebecca said is so relatable and Dr. Akopian's words are so soothing.

I cryed to that scene...

Rachel’s acting in this scene tho.

I need a therapist like dr akopian!!

too relatable man

These episodes hit so much harder after getting a diagnosis of BPD and understanding my traits

this is the scene that broke me

Crying before the video even started

Akopian (su psicóloga): Así que, en pocas palabras, él te dijo que te quiere y que quiere estar contigo. ¿Qué le dijiste? Rebecca: Nada. Akopian: ¿Y cómo te sientes al respecto? Rebecca: No importa. Akopian: Rebecca, ¿por qué crees que tus sentimientos no importan? Rebecca: Porque las relaciones no funcionan para mí. Akopian: No funcionaban. Eres una persona distinta a la que eras la última vez que lo intentaste. Rebecca: No, no lo soy... No lo soy. Soy una versión un poquito más cuerda de la persona que era antes, y apenas puedo aferrarme a eso. La verdad, tengo miedo. Akopian: Por supuesto que lo tienes, eso tiene sentido. Pero no puedes vivir sin intimidad. Necesitas y mereces amor. Está bien que lo recibas. Rebecca: ¡No, no puedo! No puedo. Dios, no entiendes. Akopian: ¿Qué es lo que no entiendo? Rebecca: No quiero morir. Rebecca: Mejoré, sí, y progresé. Y sé que mi relación con Nathaniel no es como la que tenía con Josh. Akopian: Claro. Rebecca: Pero, si intento con Nathaniel, algo va a pasar, ¿sí? Él... va a salir con un amigo y no va a contestar uno de mis mensajes. O va a irse de viaje y no va a llamarme lo suficiente. Yo sé de qué soy capaz cuando me siento abandonada. Puedo ir a lugares muy oscuros, lugares en los que me lastimo. Y no quiero que vuelva a pasar. Nunca. Akopian: Rebecca, ese miedo siempre va a estar ahí. Pero, como una persona que te conoce desde hace mucho tiempo, eres una persona mucho más estable y consciente de sí misma que antes. Y eres una persona amorosa que merece amor. Espero que algún día lo creas.

@zerjiozerjio

6 ай бұрын

¡Excelente traducción!

I can relate too much. ✨

This.... 100% I can relate.

I’ve been in this place so many times

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