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@morbidsearch

Жыл бұрын

Is this not the original speed? The pace made it that much more intense

@CommunityWiki91709

Жыл бұрын

@@morbidsearch When played at regular speed the dialogue is slightly out of synch when the characters speak.

The saddest thing? Rebecca is not entirely wrong. Valencia was more in love with her idea of a wedding happening than Josh. Heather did stay in school because she was afraid to actually be an adult. Darryl is denying he and WhiJo are ultimately incompatible. And Paula was an enabler as I ever saw one. Except Rebecca is not saying these truths as a friend. She is saying it because she's trapped and cornered and doesn't want to be confronted with her own issues. She just wants to hurt these people, because in her mind, they are now the enemy, even if they are trying their best to actually help her.

@hydrofalls8154

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I had to deal with that myself. You just want to hurt them like you are actually in pain. You just want to leave the conversation as fast as possible and you are ready to tear down everything. I am still feeling the shame, today.

@louiserothman6566

Жыл бұрын

But I thought this was just like supposed to be a comedy/drama.... Not to be taken seriously!

@hydrofalls8154

Жыл бұрын

@@louiserothman6566 Who would have guess you can be funny and make a point. I mean I knew from the start. But I am happy that you realized it. Hope stories becomes richer and make more sense from this point on.

@gaychild7970

Жыл бұрын

@@louiserothman6566 this show touches alot of important points about mental health wrapped up in a bundle of comedy and satire.... Its Genius

The most impactful, tragic part of this scene to me has always been that Rebecca is so convinced that she’s alone and that her friends have abandoned her, even as they all stand by her side and tell her explicitly that they love her.

@avenged7peep958

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah ! Mental illness is horrible.

@mefi9788

2 жыл бұрын

And that's where the insults come from. Her continuing to push people away because she believes that she should be alone. And doesn't deserve it.

@UranusHz420

Жыл бұрын

BPD in a nitshell

the acting here is incredible because you can see rachel look regretful for a moment

" Don't call me Cookie" broke my heart oh my God

@neoscencez

5 жыл бұрын

Proper! Top notch acting in this scene

@princessshallowstar3166

4 жыл бұрын

The bitch needs to mind her bussiness

@hamiyahbrewer4875

4 жыл бұрын

princess shallowstar Jeez, calm down. It’s just a show...

This is the saddest scene in the show. Especially her voice when she says “Bunch out”... what amazing acting

@izzieb.2926

3 жыл бұрын

No........the saddest scene is when she was on the plane😢

Honestly this is some grade a acting by everyone.

@alextaylor3939

4 жыл бұрын

Your username tho

@IvyG-C

4 жыл бұрын

Alex the Gryffindor oop🤡

I feel for everyone in this scene. Rebecca is splitting, she thinks her friends are about to reject her so she's lashing out and rejecting them first so the abandonment won't hurt, but you can see how uncomfortable she is after every mean thing she says.

Borderline personality disorder is real and can be extremely ugly.

Won't stop the self destruction cuz I'm on a roll!

@vinceknox4425

4 жыл бұрын

Andrew Ambrose lee 10/10 comment

You can tell she hated to say those things, but she just couldn't stop

@jkta97

Жыл бұрын

Especially to Daryl. You could see quickly that she regretted what she said, but she felt she couldn't back down at that point.

The acting on the CW is usually low quality with the exception of one or two actors, but this show... it's practically perfect, every actor is so phenomenal and this scene proves it

@thebelen2359

2 жыл бұрын

I still can't believe this show is CW tbh. It's just streets ahead compared to litterally everything else that network has.

@morbidsearch

Жыл бұрын

And the show got really low ratings on that channel. Most of its audience came from streaming

@kamillakilambayeva3819

11 ай бұрын

⁠@@thebelen2359wild community fan spotted

What I love about this scene is that they didn't make it into a song Because it could have been a great song, but it would have lost its sense of "real"

@brimstoneclub

10 ай бұрын

It adds to the show itself. This was reality in its most brutal form. One of the best scenes in the entire series.

@micahgoldson1253

10 ай бұрын

Exactly. The idea behind the musical numbers in the show is that they aid in Rebecca’s escape from reality. It’s easier for her to deal with her life if she sees it through the lenses of her childhood musicals, where life is full of romantic clichés and the princess always finds her prince. By contrast, in this scene that mask has finally fallen off, and Rebecca is being forced by her friends to deal with her life head-on. There are no storybook endings, no musical transitions to protect her anymore. When Nathaniel (her prince) fails to sweep her away, it is the last straw, and she finally spirals out of control.

As someone with autism, this whole scene is so familiar to me. It's been years since I had a meltdown, especially one like this, but when you're in so much pain, you have this monstrous need to cause others pain. It's kind of like taking a chunk of your own pain and then flinging it at someone else. So temporarily you're in less pain, but eventually the guilt hits and the pain is even worse than it was before. I've learned how to manage my anger and frustration but I used to do this. It's awful. I had no control over my words, my pain, and my anger.

@blanchevanin6048

5 жыл бұрын

Milfuelle100 hope you’re fine ! Your comment was nice to read and don’t worry, it won’t stop you for living your life 🙌🏼

@fridayvalencia4898

2 жыл бұрын

:(

@hydrofalls8154

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. You say it better than I ever could.

@walqqr1

7 ай бұрын

Been there. I still feel so horrible for the things I said to people in the past... am in a better place now and I am able to regulate my emotions and express how I feel without being verbally abusive. I came a long way.

It's like watching someone set fire to a train before jumping in front of it

Watching this scene for the first time made me cringe because it reminded me of myself and how I'd destroyed relationships in my life. How she actually insulted her friends with mean words, I've done the same and then instantly regretted it but just couldn't stop myself from the overwhelming feeling. But this show is soooo underrated and captured all sorts of issues perfectly.

@IsyMaxine

4 жыл бұрын

:'( It was like watching myself

@luccamalualves8261

4 жыл бұрын

Same here :(

I don't even know why I'm rewatching this. This hurts to watch.

I have to give CXGF props for world building and characterization because this pivoted perfectly from humorous to devastating. Anyone who’s been on the receiving end of splitting or have struggled with it understand how real this scene is. She rips into them the way a sufferer would. Definitely put me back in some moments the first time I watched it.

@kaned5543

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, before I got treatment for my BPD I had some problems with behavior like this. It's horrifying to look back and think about the horrible things I said and did before I had some self awareness and serious therapy. I really hurt people and you just can't take that back.

@vinceknox4425

4 жыл бұрын

I can never describe how much this show helped when I was first diagnosed. The compassion the show always portrayed towards her pain, even in scenes like this when she’s splitting, is so very real. The first time I saw this episode I cried.

@frappalina

2 жыл бұрын

Omg this is splitting. Thank you for calling it by its name. I've experienced this and it was heartbreaking. I was in front of a man whom I loved so much and I only wanted to support and he would not stop insulting me and blaming of cheating (which I didn't do). Omg.

@BlueKermit27

2 жыл бұрын

For real! I was like first she spits fire then she starts spitting razor blades. I’ve done this so many times when I was untreated. I knew exactly how she was feeling.

I've never been in a situation like this but I get super defensive whenever anyone suggests I'm "crazy" or "insane" or "out of my mind" so I can relate.The desire to lash out and "get them before they get you" is strong.

I think this is a great showcase of a symptom common in people with Borderline Personality Disorder called Splitting.

@avenged7peep958

2 жыл бұрын

It's actually the best splitting showcase of splitting I've ever seen

This scene mad me almost cry watching it. It was devastating

This is the first scene that made me properly sob in the show cause it reminded me of when my friends tried to help me a few years ago and I lashed out at each one with hurtful things

@joshirvplays

3 жыл бұрын

@Sunday Girl Hey I just saw this! I'm doing okay but thank you so much for asking

The thing that I like about this is how real it feels. Her repetition and stutters really make it more impactful. Oh and her look when she saw darryl sad. My god, even her insults are planned and or thought of on the spot.

Rewatching this scene, you see that even Rebecca realized her takedown of Daryl and White Josh's relationship was too cruel, but she's in too deep to back down.

@wcdchannel

11 ай бұрын

You can see she regrets it the moment she says it. Rachel's acting is outstanding.

I gotta say Nathaniel handled this whole situation really well. Man had exactly zero context for any of this but he could read the room well enough to know that despite what he might want, it definitely wasn't the right moment for him to carry Rebecca off to Rome. His reaction was also incredibly measured for someone who's being accused of things he has no context for

This entire scene kills me but Pete’s facial expressions after being yelled at is particularly devastating.

Honestly this is very accurate with BPD - I’ve turned on people I love when feeling afraid. The guilt after is intense

I will never be able to deal with this scene.

Imagine coming to this without contex yet still feeling for the characters anywayyyy

Am I the only one who thinks this was wrong of Paula to do this? She literally got everyone involved in Rebecca's personal shit. She couldn't have at least done this one on one? I've been in Rebecca's shoes before....you feel like you are being treated like a child and that you have no right to privacy.

@hkazu63

3 жыл бұрын

I think it was a misstep, but a very well intentioned one. She wanted as many people as possible there so remind Rebecca that she was loved, so they could try to convince her to get help. It’s really just an example of how society doesn’t know how to handle these struggles and when it comes to it, we make mistakes trying to help people.

@ashleyguthrie572

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it's no wonder Rebecca lashed out. This wasn't the right way to approach things. She probably thought she was helping but just put Rebecca on the spot, broke her trust, invaded her privacy, and ultimately scared her. That said, a lot of this show is people (especially Rebecca) mishandling things and being morally shady without thinking too hard about it or even with good intentions.

@deedferreira4211

2 жыл бұрын

I think it was just also convenient to the plot's writing to have everyone there to watch her breakdown so maybe that's why they chose to go with that approach, writing wise, so that we could have this scene.

@divyaramesh1212

Жыл бұрын

totally agree, and also Paula’s reaction to learning about rebecca’s past and roping everyone in was honestly so hypocritical to me. bc she was such an enabler and had rebecca do illegal and immoral shit but is somehow shocked and scandalized by a past criminal conviction?? i wish paula had apologized specifically for this

@d_teex09x44

7 ай бұрын

It may be "wrong" in hindsight but this is what makes the show human. None of them are perfect and Paula was doing what she felt was right at the time.

I love how awkward this scene feels, it's so accurate

This scene is devastating to me because I have lived it. I have been Rebecca in this scene and it is crushing. I still can't get through it without crying.

Dealing with borderline loved ones is very challenging, sometimes you have to take a step back so you won’t get hurt or mistreated. But once they start the treatment for real, things get so much better

Ok I remember watching this scene on air and it resonating. Deeply related to rebecca. Now, years later, coming and watching just this scene, I'm in Nathaniel'd shoes....they really are trying to be nice. Fascinating.

It's weird when you have a moment like this and then you watch this scene and you're just sitting here watching how you look from the outside😳

That scène is why i think this show rocked

I mean. They probably could’ve done it in a more compassionate way than all of them in a group holding the packet in her face tho?

That's so typical bpd stuff, lashing out and all.

This is top notch acting. You can see Rebecca’s expressions for a second in between her hateful rants, and she’s so incredibly sad. She hated every second of this.

Lived this so many times ......

I really didn't see how that could help at all. If someone did that to me I'd distance myself for ages if not cut ties. You don't just think you understand someone's entire past plus their reaction made things way worse for it should have been more Suttle. But I guess it shows how they didn't understand.

They should’ve held her responsible for this. Not punished her or yelled at her or withheld their friendship. They should have just gently let her know that she hurt them after she came back from the hospital. Accountability is important in healthy relationships.

@NovaLaMason

5 жыл бұрын

I agree, but also disagree, because she actually had a point with everyone. She MAY have been incorrect with Valencia, but the possibility of her valid interpretation still exists. Valencia DID push her dream wedding ideas onto someone else. Heather DID stay in school because she was scared of growing up and going out into the world. Darryl DID drive WhiJo away with his pressure of having a baby. Paula DID make Rebecca worse with her schemes forged by her own escapism. She hurt them, yes, but she also didn't say anything that they DIDN'T NEED to hear.

@carlosvaldez4356

5 жыл бұрын

Rebecca did apologize for everything in the episode "Josh is irrelevant"

@matiassanchez1362

3 жыл бұрын

@@NovaLaMason We have to add that the things Rebecca said to her friends really made an impact on them. Lots of storylines make progress with just a scene shorter than 5 minutes but incredibly acted and written

Thank you for posting these clips. This show is so powerful and emotional, particularly these scenes.

Unfortunately I know what it’s like…when you feel like everyone you love and respect is conspiring against you when you’re at your lowest and then seeing them try to help you only to turn into a big asshole to your friends and family. It’s sucks, it really does and when I saw this scene for the first time I saw myself as Rebecca and just said “whoa…holy shit”.

she feels guilty after saying all that, sad scene lol

4:27 that’s when Rebecca realized ... She fucked up 😂

As a borderliner, this hits so deep

Can you post the scene where Naomi finds suicide on rebeccas computer?

Should I be concerned that when I watched this seen I nearly completely empathized with Rebecca and think I would have done the same thing? Like yeah it's wrong, but sometimes you gotta look out for yourself.

@AriEugene

3 жыл бұрын

she wasn't looking out for herself though, she was just lashing out in a really unhealthy way. In real life she would have probably damaged those relationships or at least been held accountable at a later time

@AriEugene

3 жыл бұрын

@Sunday Girl yeah they really stuck by her! Even when she was telling them off, they knew she wasn't in a good place and looked past it for her. 10/10 friends

@edenrome2245

2 жыл бұрын

not in a mean way-- yes you should be concerned. This scene is a well-crafted illustration of a mental breakdown. Rebecca in this scene was 1. displaying manic avoidant behavior by running away with Nathaniel to run from her problems & feelings (which is also disrespectful to Nathaniel to use him as a prop instead of a person) 2. Rebecca is so in her feelings she's misinterpreting everything her concerned loved ones say as an attack 3. to avoid what her loved ones are saying about how worried they are about her & how her behavior is damaging other people, Rebecca lashes out to a severe degree to deliberately push them away so she doesn't have to face her feelings or actions. I'm not sure how much of the rest of the show you've seen for context, but this scene is a good illustration of unchecked & untreated BPD.

I just realized I do this a lot. I know they are not wrong but I also want to hurt them because I felt so hurt inside. Now I just try to cope by not even talking at all whenever I feel. It felt like my body is burning, only self harm reduce it. Not even help much

this scene hit me hard and every time i watch it it makes me cry

That scene could easily be used as torture, arg

I´m sorry but Im always about to cry and then I crack up at "pick me back up" and then I cry

Splitting

I actually have borderline personality disorder and I really connected to this show

rachel bloom, what an actress

Oh my Gosh noooooooo what did u do Rebecca

it’s really sad seeing rebecca be so mean to valencia and then seeing Valencia’s reaction after Rebecca tried to kill herself

Bpd: you’re better at psychology than anybody around you.

What I don't get is, if Rebecca burned her ex's house back in college and then went to a sanatorium, why do they want her to get help now? Why are they so concerned about something she did many years ago and allegedly already got help for? Yes, she is borderline and never got real help but they didn't known that at this point of the story, and Paula also had her fair share of craziness, so why is she so surprised? And it was actually this "intervention" that ended up leading her to suicide by thinking everyone wanted to lock her in a sanatorium again.

@nikkimirhosseyni9535

5 жыл бұрын

Carlos Valdez she was spiraling again and the file showed a pattern. They were scared of her ending up in the same place. Her suicide attempt was the result of many compiled events and her untreated disorder. The triggering event, though, was her mother secretly drugging her with anti-anxiety pills and then when she got caught, telling Rebecca she was a disappointment and a failure.

@JEM471025

4 жыл бұрын

Nikki Mirhosseyni Exactly that and it makes sense. If anyone recalls the pilot she was on a shit ton of medication. Probably as a result of that.

@liambotha2467

4 жыл бұрын

Did she really intentionally mean to burn his house down, i always thought it just went too far nd she meamt to burn some of his clothes simaler to her house burning down

@m0m055

3 жыл бұрын

Rebecca’s suicide attempt was solely the result of her untreated mental issues.

@hkazu63

3 жыл бұрын

Mental health issues are never a straight road. They all have peaks and valleys, and people know that. They aren’t going to look at the past and just go “well she’s definitely OK now bc she’s been treated!” especially when patterns are clearly re-emerging. And it’s a contributor but not the cause of her suicide attempt, which the characters couldn’t prevent bc they weren’t aware yet just how deeply it ran.

Hot take: While Rebecca absolutely crosses a line with her cruelty in the way she lashes out, her friends, and especially Paula, are utterly tactless and in the wrong about the way they decided to tackle an extremely delicate situation. Such to the point that I can't even feel that sorry for them. It's like watching people recklessly kick a hornet's nest and being surprised that they're stung. I think the show fails to properly acknowledge just how humiliating, counterproductive, and plain condescending it feels to take someone whose spiraling, gather a group of their friends, bring out their darkest secret, and expect ANYTHING good to come about from it.

Holy shit! This scene was inspired by Girl Interrupted! I mean come on! Such a good scene!

I wish Paula had been a bit more mad at Father Brah

Were u kicked in the head by a horse 🐎 🐴

@trytoholdon

4 жыл бұрын

that part made me laugh in the middle of the dramatic scene hahaha

@alyssaancell7181

4 жыл бұрын

I was actually kicked in the head by a horse when I was 3😂

@camrae4309

3 жыл бұрын

I mean the whole scene got me emotional but oh my god that dialogue BROKE ME😂

They tried at least, that’s more then most people do. Many don’t try and regret it later when their friend is to far gone or no longer alive.

She r r r r r roasted them

@Djchicago1

4 жыл бұрын

They're meddling bitches who have nothing better to do than butt in other peoples lives

@brycerichardson3687

4 жыл бұрын

@@Djchicago1 really living up to your name. World need ditch diggers too I guess

Someone who never really learned how to handle or regulate their emotions in a healthy manner.

BUNCH OUT

This scene....

Pick me up daniel Pick me up daniel

@Hermititis

3 жыл бұрын

"Nathaniel", not "Daniel" 🙂

@sandy7543

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hermititis yes! Sorry about that!

If i was one of rebeccas friends i would of said something to her in a similar to ditch her right back if i could rather then go back to being a door mat and take it. Im usually pretty forgiving and loving but after being abused myself once they provoke me verbally or some other way like this woman did to her friends its on and ive even done it to verbally and emotionally abusive landlords that i lived with or they are above me or act like their point of view matters the most. I dont start it but i do strike back when pushed and its called self defense.

Dang, that's cold 😳

This scene cuts a little too deep lol

Rebecca....

When was the fake car accident?

@CommunityWiki91709

5 жыл бұрын

She's talking about the Season One episode "Josh and I Work on a Case!" where Paula intentionally dinged up Josh's car door with a shopping cart so Rebecca and him could meet up at the auto body shop.

@hannahjohnson4815

5 жыл бұрын

@@CommunityWiki91709 oh right! Thank u

Y Tu, Brute!

The weirdest part is in.this show they show everybody falling for her bt in reality u really end up all alone.. she was the lead so she had frnds and literally every guy falling for her.. bt in reality she would have died alone

This is like family giy when meg curse out the family

@omarcogle1965

2 жыл бұрын

Meg had every right to get on everyone in the family.

If a friend talked to me like that, I would never speak to them again.

@joshirvplays

4 жыл бұрын

If you can't handle a mentally ill friend spiralling down it's probably best for you both you don't stick with them.

@julianbeldham8684

4 жыл бұрын

@@joshirvplays I don't keep cruel people in my life

@graynovember13

4 жыл бұрын

@@julianbeldham8684 she's not cruel, she has borderline personality disorder which wasn't yet diagnosed in this episode and this was one of her lowest points in life. she apologized and got help and worked on herself after this. if you watch the show you'll understand that she isn't a cruel or mean person at all. it's her mental illness that made her say these things but she took accountability for it and fixed it

@LarrySonOfMilton

4 жыл бұрын

i agree with you, Julian. i've had several experiences of mentally ill people treating me cruelly, and i stayed, and now i have C-PTSD for my troubles. if i ever treat anyone like this because of my disorder, i fully expect them to dump my ass hard. as for me, i jump ship at the first red flag, and i am a healthier, happier person for it. neither you nor i deserve this in our lives, and it's not our responsibility to put up with it.

@CaptainCrimsonCC

4 жыл бұрын

Its a very tricky one because mentally ill people dont deserve to be abandoned by everyone if they make the effort to get better yet have relapses, however, it is not everyone else’s responsibility to look after them and suffer the same abuse over and over x

Everyone is selfish as rebecca

Nathanial pick me back yp

Not me finding this lowkey hot

I always hated rebecca's mental illness and abandonment issues

This is why u can never be friends with anybody with bpd

@big-boss-man-

Жыл бұрын

what?

@impedimentahamartia9864

Жыл бұрын

What an awful thing to say.

@lucystoner

22 күн бұрын

That's not the message of the show at all... If anything, her friendships helped her....