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@tikaardhany7568

3 жыл бұрын

110% agree that introverts are attractive

@MLion-pz9lk

3 жыл бұрын

I am introvert+ Extravert . . . . and I am so F***** ATTRACTIVE ! ! . . . . . . . . . . . .

@MLion-pz9lk

3 жыл бұрын

Anytime at the end, when you say "stay cool & attractive ", you have that kind of smile+ sight that the soft Dominatrix have, like Heather Locklear or Bo Derek

@Julia-LArt

3 жыл бұрын

M_ Lion this made me snort laugh seeing you’re comparing Frank to two women!

@MLion-pz9lk

3 жыл бұрын

@@Julia-LArt he's actually compared to TWO Big Stars !

Introverts can talk a lot when they are with people they are comfortable with

@edenlust1638

3 жыл бұрын

Yup!

@newlovetv8212

3 жыл бұрын

@@cameraflash150 Well personalities differs, for me i can play a lot when i'm around friends

@patienceaddo2625

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@mani_saber

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@gregorysagegreene

3 жыл бұрын

Yup! That's me. All that info comes right back out.

"Why introverts are attractive" Every introvert in the world: *DOUBT*

@jofunny7425

3 жыл бұрын

Not me:(

@SwaggerToast

3 жыл бұрын

True

@jofunny7425

3 жыл бұрын

@@SwaggerToast hey

@SwaggerToast

3 жыл бұрын

@@jofunny7425 are you, like, simply wanted to say hi or are you not liking me for saying 'true'

@jofunny7425

3 жыл бұрын

@@SwaggerToast why you say true i don't get it😤 do you know Albert Einstein was introvert

Being an introvert myself, I always found it funny that my high school peers would freak out when ever I spoke up or when ever I laughed about something in class. They would always say " I have never heard you speak or laugh before" .

@vkookarebestbrosintheworld1619

Жыл бұрын

Same here✋

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your experience!

@nicholasdunbar2932

Жыл бұрын

My teachers laugh

@Bill-vi1vp

Жыл бұрын

My teacher once asked the class to be quiet so they could hear me talk for the first time.

@Potencia_Hispanica

Жыл бұрын

I went through that

The problem is that some people just don't understand introverts and they often judge them superficially. I consider myself an introvert but if I have the right person in front of me I became really open. People cannot imagine how big is the universe in a mind of an introvert. Give chances to introverts to converse with you, insist also if the situation becomes awkward and you will see that you will not be disappointed.

@tejaspn6836

Жыл бұрын

Reminds me of komi san

@kunjanmushyaju3300

Жыл бұрын

As a Schizoid myself, i think of introverts as - " Thats so normal "

@Magda-uo2jn

Жыл бұрын

Same

@Magicmindyogamindfulness

9 ай бұрын

So tru ❤

"İntroverts are good listeners" Me who zones out in the middle of conversation: 👁👄👁

@artyszea

3 жыл бұрын

Samee

@ritaruggerone4434

3 жыл бұрын

Story of my life. Infp here:)

@Novaheim

3 жыл бұрын

"Introverts are good listeners" Me: Eavesdropping on people on "accident"

@moonchild430

3 жыл бұрын

Floof Bone LMAO

@julyuhhh6385

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😂

"Why Introverts are so attractive" Me: Don't do that... Don't give me hope.

@madonnauchehara7755

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rosieposie05z

3 жыл бұрын

That’s exactly what I thought!!-.-

@vivienamare2231

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@marjanaaboobacker2268

3 жыл бұрын

Yeahhhh😂😂😂

@megrocks3026

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr 😭

"people are really attracted to those who can go out on their own from the crowd and be okay with it"....I'm so glad to hear this.

I am an Introvert, though once I feel comfortable in your presence I will talk more and my full personality will show. I usually don't just go up and talk to people. If people come up and talk to me I will be quiet but I will talk back. When you first meet me you might think I'm shy. But in reality I'm just with new people I don't know. If your in my friend group then you know your special to me. And if I come up to you first then your really special to me.

_Imagine being the "mysterious and cool introvert type"_ -this comment was made by the "mysterious but nerd and awkward" gang-

@user-ss2pj1rh7q

3 жыл бұрын

Even better

@AnaLu07

3 жыл бұрын

I had the nerd part in high school,now at college,i'm just akward

@thebluepineapplephoenix101

3 жыл бұрын

Ahaha I'm part of the gang too wassup

@keyperforever1942

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in the gang 😂😂😂

@mahkishouma314

3 жыл бұрын

I cant relate!!

Introverts are extroverts when they start talking to their best friends.

@nick5zone827

3 жыл бұрын

THIS!!!

@ShijioHirojima567

3 жыл бұрын

True, and also for me its anyone that has played or watched what I have.

@Sari-ip1uz

3 жыл бұрын

So true 😂

@naminegirl21

3 жыл бұрын

I'm an introvert around people I feel very comfy with (literally only 2 people at my job) and only on Christmas or New Years for like 5 min. I'll kinda sorta scream "Happy (insert holiday here)!!!" a few times and go WOOOO and then it's back to my bed eating chips and coke all day

@cherryphoenix9083

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

To all extroverts out there, please dont ask us too many questions. Idk about other introverts, but too many questions just make me uncomformtable. Also when we dont talk much, it means we are uncomformtable and dont feel like talking. Im not attacking any extrovert, im just saying. Have a great day/night :)

why introverts aren't attractive: -being mysterious is usually seen as being weird (in my experience) -being a good listener makes you a good friend (& nothing else) -powerful (others can take advantage of silent people, since they don't talk back/doesn't seem like we got much power) -not annoying (I definitely embarrass myself a lot, but idc/there's more ways to be annoying than saying dumb things) -introspective (having a clear vision of how life should be doesn't mean your life is actually that way/example: I wanna go out more; have a hobby; find a girlfriend; start a family. reality: I sit at home; watch a youtube video; comment what's wrong in the video; watch the next video) -people complain about me staying inside, not having a life, being a loser (they clearly don't think I'm cool/having a party by myself?) -people usually don't want me to be there & invite me mostly out of politeness (if they invite me at all, which is usually not the case) I did like the positive side about all of these that you mentioned, but as an introvert/pessimist/realistic thinker, I know this isn't the case most of the time (or maybe I'm extremely unlucky & I just happen to meet all the wrong people & live at the wrong side of the planet)

@princetraxk

Жыл бұрын

I believe there is atleast some truth in what ur saying even tho I don't agree with it completely

@I_Yogita

Жыл бұрын

We are on the same page dude. People always manipulate me, assume me as a dumb. They would ignore me if i put forward my opinion. They don't want me to even talk with them (if i message someone with whom i have not interacted much , they would just block my number). Don't know why they behave like this, it sometimes breaks me to think that i am of no value for others. However, fortunately i have 3 good friends who understand me and talk with me.

@tobiaswiest

Жыл бұрын

It seems that way to you bro, because you are pessimistic and look at things with a negative twist. I used to be extremely pessimistic (it's still there), but no one likes a downer. This video has a lot of truth to it with the right approach. Just because you are introverted does not mean you are all those things he said. You might be invited more, well received, and appreciated if you kept the pessimism to yourself and try to speak more positively. Yes it sounds cringe but people don't always want to hear how the cup is half empty. I'm a realistic thinker too and that's good, keep it. We need more thinkers like that. But pessimism isn't as helpful with friends. I've found life to be more enjoyable when I make an effort to see the brighter side of life, and accept that theirs a lot of awful things but to not make that my focus. We have the rare ability to make a difference since we easily see the problem. I hope this helps 👍

@tobiaswiest

Жыл бұрын

@@I_Yogita Those kind of people aren't worth your time. Move on and focus on others who give you their own time too. Don't worry about the others, life is full of jerks, it's our responsibility to ignore them and accept people who aren't.

@kevinsantos8439

Жыл бұрын

@@princetraxk that's fair, this is just my experience after all

“hell is other people“ this is such an introvert thing to say

@weirdwolf888

3 жыл бұрын

And animals, I think they'd agree with that! I believe Nietzsche said something along the lines of 'if animals have a devil, it would be in the form of man'. So, introverts, and animals (and probably nature as a whole!).

@sususnandes

3 жыл бұрын

Weirdwolf wild animals yeah, my dog would be extremely sad though as for nature, the problem relies with the kind of people that don’t respect it, we see many great kind hearted people trying to do justice to our nature, unfortunately they are not as many as they should be ♥️

@lidial9299

3 жыл бұрын

Sartre said that because he was ugly and he felt that people were looking at him that way.

@shilpapatel6493

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah 😂 I found a new line to say now

@believewomen165

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss👏🏽👏🏽

Other people: "This introvert has it together" Me: *screaming internally*

@hopeworld9515

3 жыл бұрын

The keyword was: "it APPEARS that the introverts have it together"

@r24803

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly xD

@cronagru6595

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@President_Salsa

3 жыл бұрын

Hold it together hold it together *HOLD IT TOGETHER*

@EmiDucky

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaoooo yep

The thing about making others feel special...one of my friends told me about it. She told me how happy she was when she could be my friend. She said that "she admired me". I felt embarassed suddenly, and I still get the same embarassment when I think about it, because I'm just a normal person, not a star or something. I had a pretty good academic history and I was also a quizzer. But that doesn't make me special, or atleast I thought so. This friend of mine, she used to tell everyone around her soo proudly about how she's close with me. It made me laugh sometimes. I had no idea why she's so happy about it. She also told me that she thought I looked distant, yet somehow cool before becoming friends with me. I thought she was joking. But after watching this video, I wonder if it was indeed true. I'm now watching more of such videos to know what others think of me. I think it's not really as bad as I think of it 😆

@leona41ife

Жыл бұрын

It's definitely true! My friend told me as well, not only one of them but a few, that they think I'm special and feel good to be my friends!

I'm always in my head. Thinking, processing, questioning, and improving!

"Introverts are attractive" People to me: Why r u so weird?

@svetajkp

3 жыл бұрын

People to me: Why r u so quiet?

@zer-atop3032

3 жыл бұрын

Omg me too almost everyday

@mohamedsenharshan3016

3 жыл бұрын

@Sumedh Kamble 🤣

@nilsber.

3 жыл бұрын

@Sumedh Kamble ikr i hate that bro

@-_deploy_-

3 жыл бұрын

@@svetajkp same but I just say: eh

"introverts are good listeners" - me, an introvert, who skipped the whole video and just looked for the key points

@AJ-hl6tn

3 жыл бұрын

I am a fucking awful listener lmao

@ambie7437

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@bablurohith9482

3 жыл бұрын

😄😄

@IGNITEDSOULOFFICAL

3 жыл бұрын

Lol bro 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. He want to say in real life your good listener

@dinkin_flicka14

3 жыл бұрын

"Or atleast they appear to be good listeners"

"This introvert 'has it together'!" Best line in the whole video. 👌😂 I humbly believe that I do, so if that's what others perceive... Perfect!

Introverts are the most calm people and have a great heart !!

"Introverts are attractive" People to me: She looks so scary and serious

@hirokimura1316

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a boy but I can relate, everybody thinks I came from a funeral of my bloodline and rejected by my girlfriend. And I don't have a girlfriend.

@aakriti3116

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed and they think I am angry with them

@fik8453

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. People around me always thought I was angry because my face was serious and expressionless.

@charmelledelrosario1556

3 жыл бұрын

True🤧

@masterdanielm5821

3 жыл бұрын

@lilac Phile yep they also think that im serious and scary

*After watching this video* Self-esteem: *Improved* Confidence: *Improved* Optimism: *Improved* Reality: "YOU THOUGHT"

@n0_n0

3 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

@YukoYoshikane82

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 accurate lol

@dovee1

3 жыл бұрын

Had us there in the first half not gonna lie.

@mollyp2529

3 жыл бұрын

Ha

@vminisfuckingreal998

3 жыл бұрын

same lmao

0:24 Mysterious 0:39 Good listeners 1:04 Powerful by being quiet 1:32 Less annoying overall 2:11 Introspective 2:41 Cool? 3:25 When u speak to em u feel special just like TWICE

Why do all of these points apply to me! Thank you for saying these things in a positive way instead of you know, saying they are just shy n choose to say in or nerdy. This makes me feel good about myself. I'm glad i got your videos as yt recommendations!😃💛

And still we are single. And without friends. Are we really cursed or something ?

@roulis640

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you 🤣

@vatsalaykhobragade

3 жыл бұрын

I feel attacked as an introvert. Sometimes i feel like only if i could just talk to people.

@roulis640

3 жыл бұрын

Personally, I think people are attracted to us because we look mysterious but when they get to really know us they realize we really are just normal people 🤷🏻‍♂️

@saraamnadis4218

3 жыл бұрын

@@roulis640 GOOD ONE😉 YEP we are just like the others.....but a little weird....like Albert Einstein😉❤👍

@winterdragon560

3 жыл бұрын

Damn your comment describe ma whole life , but we are independent and mysterious, people find me intimidated, alot of people told me after we talked and am like what am simple and just living btw am INTJ.

to all the bullys and people who tease introverts for being quiet REMEMBER- 'no on plans a murder out loud'

@lalimoreno1

3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@savageme7330

3 жыл бұрын

Shit got dark real quick💀

@dishasrinivasa3212

3 жыл бұрын

@@savageme7330 hehe

@mexicanburrito138

3 жыл бұрын

@@kr4v389 report that

@zaukonig6265

3 жыл бұрын

As an introvert I can confirm this

I am an introvert. I hate talking to people and starting conversations. I never liked going out and would always spend the whole day at home and alone. Yet when I got into high school, our class was so well assembled that every time I entered the classroom I suddenly became one of the most extroverted students. Introverts can become very open if you give them time to make themselves comfortable around you.

Hey there! Just watched your video on "7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive" and I absolutely loved it! As an introvert myself, it's refreshing to see our strengths being celebrated. Keep up the great work and keep spreading the introvert love! 👍

"why introverts are so attractive." me, being one : *aRe yOu sUrE aBoUt tHaT?*

@Rezzmari

3 жыл бұрын

To me, they only are if they are good looking. If not, good luck. Just being real.

@worldwidehandsome52

3 жыл бұрын

Army 😏

@laylakunis7881

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rezzmari attraction isn’t always looks, curiosity plays a role too and I believe that’s what this video is referring to why they say introverts are attractive

@s_ckem6846

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone is good looking

@moretrenmoreben2523

3 жыл бұрын

To me, I like that they're challenging to talk to since they had either soft or avoiding attitude towards talking and idk why but they do speak softly and a lil different to others. Which is a turn on. And also for how they dress, ain't revealing.

Expectations: Vs Reality: Too nervous to make friends, people think your snobby and mean, doesn't interact with people because afraid of judgements, actually wants to socialize but is scared of what people would think if they made a mistake

@clomyst

3 жыл бұрын

If only you knew how cool you are ;)

@svetajkp

3 жыл бұрын

Same, plus I'm afraid to speak English more,bcz it's not my native language, and I just moved to English school so..... I'm akward af

@harumi6198

3 жыл бұрын

true

@a.u.m.4489

3 жыл бұрын

So true ;(

@a.u.m.4489

3 жыл бұрын

@@svetajkp awww its okay you'll get the hang of it 👏👏👏 I was you like 8 years ago 😂

want to create me own destination without caring what others think of me or about my age. feel intense shyness inside, outward appear grim. hesitation stops me to think one more time before doing things. conscience is my best friend in helping making decisive steps. staying calm is the best option rather than leaving superficial topics.

Omg I can’t believe you just made me proud to be an introvert, it’s something I’ve had insecurities about especially how much time I want to be alone and because of that I find it hard to maintain close friendships

Strangers:she's so quiet and mysterious My best friends: dhfjesj no she's a loud ass crackhead

@peika8324

3 жыл бұрын

Accurate

@atomcat5242

3 жыл бұрын

Well at least you have friends

@nyoom2559

3 жыл бұрын

@@atomcat5242 yup. I'm new at middle school and in the first 6 weeks, I still don't have a friend because people think I'm antisocial because of how quiet I am. It sucks.

@atomcat5242

3 жыл бұрын

@@nyoom2559 omg really? I AM having the same problem too

@rm-hr1yx

3 жыл бұрын

me 😂

"Why introverts are so attractive" * Looks in the mirror * *Ya no.*

@youtaeatscake4588

3 жыл бұрын

RIGHTT 😭

@nej6246

3 жыл бұрын

Plot twist: you said "ya know"

@nej6246

3 жыл бұрын

I'm gonna regret writing this comment

@keariocabinet8836

3 жыл бұрын

I gave him glasses 👁️👄👁️

@iveology_

3 жыл бұрын

@@nej6246 XD big brain plot twists

Back in the school days, I used to be the hot, mysterious musician introvert guy and people were curious about me. Now in adulthood, everybody just thinks of me as the creep that stands by the window in parties🤣

I consider myself an introvert but in a one on one conversation I love talking and talking and talking

Extrovert: Hey, you wanna hang out this weekend? Introvert: * actually has nothing better to do this weekend* Sorry, I already have plans, maybe next time Extrovert: Wow, I guess he's too cool for me

@mar9183

3 жыл бұрын

Jajaj we really do that! We tend to decline making them think we haven't it clear. But in our head we know from the minut one we're not going. It's an akward situation. Sometimes in my head I think...maybe I cannot have it so clear? But 99% of the times I finish really not going because I really feel I prefer to be on my own that day. Sometimes when you finally decide to let yourself go and give it a try! there you finally end up thinkining...what am I doing here? I would be better home alone. Luckily in some situations you end up having a great time but it's not what happens most of the times.

@di3486

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t decline those invitations because they are so RARE!

@violetdusk1968

3 жыл бұрын

Yes my plans are doing nothing but I'd rather do nothing then go out and socialize.

@yonathanrakau1783

3 жыл бұрын

Ugh... no literally thats not what we think or at least not what i think we would just say this person is not for me and just ask for other extrovert to hang out with us especially for me ENTP i dont mind being alone and hanging out with myself probably forget you exist few weeks later

@LegoDude568

3 жыл бұрын

Damn this hurts when it’s a girl because I can’t tell if she’s rejecting me or what

When I don’t talk, people find me scary not attractive lol

@marcosbrenner140

3 жыл бұрын

How do u know what they think of u?

@kiyoshi5430

3 жыл бұрын

I was gonna say something but I don't know how to spell the word so nope

@dottiet6688

3 жыл бұрын

I was told I am creepy for staring at people, I just like people watching. I don't like PEOPLE I like PEOPLE WATCHING.

@kurumifuyumiya300

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Same. A lot of people afraid of me too because I'm quiet and look cold. But, it just my normal face. （￣へ￣）

@jettsteel7305

3 жыл бұрын

Same here 😐

Thanks so much for this. You really spoke to my heart!

This video is the most accurate for true introverts among all other videos on KZread, you did a really good job man 👍

This guy is the most extroverted introvert ever.

@prysrek8858

3 жыл бұрын

@@TT-rz5td or in other words 'normal'

@myoldchannel0

3 жыл бұрын

He is being himself, online, with no one around. He had also been at this for years...

@franciscobaltazarlabranago6248

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's INFJ for ya

@MrA-jz8co

3 жыл бұрын

I agree cause he has ayt channel

@debjaniray8138

3 жыл бұрын

He's an INFJ

"Hell is other people". YES! 🤣

@kiileetsoku2397

3 жыл бұрын

💀

@maddymaddyval

3 жыл бұрын

Theres a kdrama with the same title its a good one

@blankieten5384

3 жыл бұрын

@@maddymaddyval OMG THATS LITERALLY MY FAVORITE KDRAMA

@maddymaddyval

3 жыл бұрын

@@blankieten5384 TASTE

I love being an introvert and attractive

Being an introvert is a blessing in disguise 🔥

"introvert are good listener" Me daydreaming during math class : •-•]

@ShinziiArt

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhh

@MagisterArtiumExylon

3 жыл бұрын

In this case it means you can hear others' problems well

@AbadurRhaman-vq9ui

3 жыл бұрын

@@MagisterArtiumExylon wait what? how?

@iaminevitable5696

3 жыл бұрын

*in a conversation.

@justsomespartanwithinterne7301

3 жыл бұрын

Same I'm always day dreaming because as Thanos once said reality is often disappointing

“Introverts are good listeners...”Me: trying to listen but half way spacing out lost in a cloud of thoughts. “or at least they appear to be good listeners.” Me: Snaps back to reality, feeling personally attacked.

@tehxing4703

3 жыл бұрын

Ayyyyy twins!

@sankalpsingh2117

2 жыл бұрын

@Divya Divyanshi me to introvert

@sankalpsingh2117

2 жыл бұрын

@Divya Divyanshi from where you are from India

@VibingMeike

2 жыл бұрын

@Divya Divyanshi Lol I have this too, it's annoying because I have genuine great conversations with my best friend, but I just can't concentrate for too long. Same thing for studying, I just can't concentrate for long enough.

@hannahgrace920

2 жыл бұрын

No Bc literally same

As an introvert this is the most accurate video ever?! Holy sht this is spot on🤣

Worst thing for introvert is that when your best friend leave you because he/she finds new one 😢😢

"Tension creates attraction" -- that's awesome news because I'm tense all the time ahaha... ha...

@juliemay9295

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@simplepsyche4919

3 жыл бұрын

Me too...I'm worried I might get high bp

@di3486

3 жыл бұрын

LOL

@awkwardzoltar3529

3 жыл бұрын

Just pull a gun out on a person and the tension between the two of you will cause him/her to forever be in love with you.

@awkwardzoltar3529

3 жыл бұрын

Elise S not a dude. Don’t reply to me. Why would I care what you think if I don’t know who you are?

Disclaimer: These are only true if you are visually attractive

@iTzProLike1

3 жыл бұрын

Umm no but actually yes.

@chereo1888

3 жыл бұрын

So much truth to this comment here. Not that I'm complaining though.

@a.s.8679

3 жыл бұрын

True. If an introvert isn't good looking, people think they are just boring, but if someone is attractive, they become "mysterious" in people's eyes.

@MrTrickster5

3 жыл бұрын

@@a.s.8679 yep accurate

@Emily-rj1ij

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah!

*BIG APPLAUSE for those that being an introvert's person & had given a quality comments. THANK YOU, FRANKJAMES for all of your informations are so true & I'm so glad that out there, I'm not alone & others will gain knowledge about us neither they misjudged us as Antisocial/Ego/Negative's person. By the way, I'm already hit your subscriber. Keep up the good work!!!*

Attractive Introvert: Mysterious, cool Unattractive Introvert: Creepy, Nerdy

Introverts in a conversation with another introvert: .... 3 hours later: sooo

@blackeagle5217

3 жыл бұрын

😆😆😆😆

@zionjohn6048

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@reznovvazileski3193

3 жыл бұрын

You'd be surprised how much of a conversation I can have with my friends each just speaking like 3-5 words an hour :') We call it mental chess because we're bouncing thoughts of each other yet though we don't share most of them and elaborately we still end up with the same conclusions in the end.

@aquazz1

3 жыл бұрын

It’s not even a conversation it’s standing and looking at each other in awkward silence 😥😅😂

@MedicalParasitology

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

When introverts gets comfortable with their fav person they become extroverts...😁

@mohammedsami9996

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@mikael355

2 жыл бұрын

And then they stop being cool and mysterious and get really annoying ~ Me, a professional introvert

@jewelannjames9775

2 жыл бұрын

@@mikael355 Exactly...then we talk too much and become annoying...😒

@sarahk6996

2 жыл бұрын

🙋🏽‍♀️😄

@sarahk6996

2 жыл бұрын

@@jewelannjames9775 🤣🤣🤣

People think I'm mean but in truth I'm the kindest soul (according to my family)

i was an ambivert before pandemic....but now i am more into introvert....i was wondering why i became like this, even my friends were asking...thanks for comforting me through this video 💞🥺

I'm an introvert who says ONLY annoying things so talking less doesn't help at all lol

@hawk6143

3 жыл бұрын

🙌🙌😂

@princecarlos5597

3 жыл бұрын

It helps because it prevents you from talking lol

@nova22584

3 жыл бұрын

I love you already

@citriz

3 жыл бұрын

You're not alone :,)

@muaoribia4140

3 жыл бұрын

I mostly second this

"...or at least they appear to be good listeners." I'm dead.

@berlizgonzalez6736

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@sensimania

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@ayanokouji5784

3 жыл бұрын

ikr, my teacher thinks im a good listener because i always look people in the eyes when they talk and used me as an example of how to be a good listener infront of the entire class, i had to stand infront of him and listen to what he says, and after he finished, he was like "see this is how to be a good listener, look at the speaker in the eyes while they talk, *my name* could repeat every word i said if he wanted to", and i literally couldn't remember a single thing he said, good thing he didn't tell me to repeat it

@ceilinh6004

3 жыл бұрын

@@ayanokouji5784 I relate to that a little too well. People assume I'm a much better listener than I actually am.

The "the power cuz they don't know what your thinking" is so true 💀 happened to me earlier with my friends I was just too quiet and when we played truth or dare, someone dared my friend to make an eye contact with me for 10 sec and she just can't stop laughing or keeping herself cuz when she stares at me, she feels like there's some sort of demon behind my eyes if you dig deeper like xkdjxjdn 💀 she complains that i was just too calm that makes it seem impossible😭

I just found that before watching this video, I hadn't realized I am an introvert, but then I found I match all these 7 traits you mention. haha

“They wonder what’s going on in your head” *whats going on in my head* Wii music

@K1llsh0tz

3 жыл бұрын

*_plays shreksophone_*

@kiyoshi5430

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@-Yosei-

3 жыл бұрын

Yep.

@angelcore1669

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@moreespressolessdepresso6834

3 жыл бұрын

My head: *cricket noises*

Introverts are calm and quiet Untill you put them in a room with their bestfriends

@logan4937

3 жыл бұрын

What are friends?

@rajhynez

3 жыл бұрын

@@logan4937 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I'm totally different person when I'm comfortable to that person

This was a great confidence booster. Thanks Frank!

Me who does all of these: I'm such a boring person. People probably think I'm weird. *Sees an Introvert with all the same traits as me* Me: wow they're so cool and mysterious 😍😍😍

@sharonranjit4227

3 жыл бұрын

It’s weird how true this is

@vminisfuckingreal998

3 жыл бұрын

literally me

@HawkinaBox

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO SAME!

@psychoivy1883

Жыл бұрын

That’s also me.

Me being an introvert. Students in class: Why are you so quiet?? *My mind: because I don't want to talk.🤷‍♀️

@VibingMeike

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. One time a teacher walked to me and she asked if I was okay because I was so quiet. I just smiled and said 'It's alright, I'm just not a very talkative person.'

@SilvaDreams

2 жыл бұрын

@@VibingMeike Me being an introvert. Students in class: Why are you so quiet?? Me: *shrugs and goes back to whatever I was doing*

@GoPackGoBaby

2 жыл бұрын

I’m an ambivert it’s both, I can get energy from social interaction depending on the circumstances but it can also really drain me. It’s a very interesting tug of war

@user-nf1bz3sn4z

2 жыл бұрын

Or just say 'Why are you so loud?'

@TheBlueInvader

2 жыл бұрын

I hate this question. Then it makes me think so quiet is wrong¿ Then I think we don't have to talk all the time. But give me a beer or to and I'm not quite.

when an introvert opens u to the perfect person to show up it relates the grass when reacts to the sun after a snowy season 🤩😍

As a fellow introvert I love your extremely informative content! Great hair btw!

“Why introverts are attractive” Random person: “Why do you look so depressed all the time?” Me: literally just glances at them Them: “I’m sorry, I’m sorry if I offended you really! I’m sorry” *runs away* Legit happened today 😂

@cool_7391

3 жыл бұрын

Same.. people that are not close to me, are just scared everytime I'm staring at them, and I'm literally not doing anything wrong tho. :))

@heathheather9805

3 жыл бұрын

This is so me!!! Im not sure why people feel like im depressed. Im just happy with no expression. But it bothers people

@edenzysk2906

3 жыл бұрын

Same here.. and I don't even understand why they get scared by someone with social anxiety 🙈

@bimzzyamzy9621

3 жыл бұрын

It happened to me too😂😂😂😂😂I felt bad tho cuz I meant nothing 👀🌚I was abt to smile I was just a little late

@wagwanpifting154

3 жыл бұрын

@@edenzysk2906 probs cus u creepy

When he says introverts does a lot of internal processing to figure things out. Me arguing with myself and creating imaginary situations and day dreaming all day.

@reham_.2156

3 жыл бұрын

Same😂😂😂

@marcocappelli2236

3 жыл бұрын

Meera That's called Maladaptive Daydreaming. Look it up.

@lachyp7049

3 жыл бұрын

That sounds exactly like what I do

@NoOne-dz5vm

3 жыл бұрын

same

@ananya_the_dreamer

3 жыл бұрын

Same

This is the first positive review I'm watching on introverts. Thanks Frank👏🏽 going to look for "Quiet" now🚶‍♀️

I am so happy to see someone saying introverts are attractive

It’s like a roller coaster with this channel FJ: INFPs are the best girlfriends Me: :) aw yay FJ: are INFPs dumb? Me: uhh.... FJ: why introverts are attractive Me: : , )

@BambaEater

3 жыл бұрын

i'm not dumb i'm mentally lazy! ):

@Julia-LArt

3 жыл бұрын

I think that’s cos the INFJ mind is a rollercoaster!

@Alinda1308

3 жыл бұрын

Ahahahahahah, INFP and I can relate to this

@_DeadlyNightshade_

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@loisrabies8713

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

I'm introverted to a point where people find me intimidating and well that sucks because they don't talk to me and of course I'll never start a conversation so I just end up alone lmao :(

@JohnCena-wv9es

3 жыл бұрын

I know exactly how u feel it's a sad feeling 😣 do u have snapchat ??

@cynthiamartinez9804

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnCena-wv9es I'm sorry Mr. John Cena, but I don't

@JohnCena-wv9es

3 жыл бұрын

u don't have any other platforms I could reach out to you

@demetrarossi4212

3 жыл бұрын

classic introvert interaction going on here lol

@JohnCena-wv9es

3 жыл бұрын

@@demetrarossi4212 uncover your face lmaoo

You know , Your helping many people with these videos frank , Thanks brother hope life is bliss and prosperous !

him causually validating our feelings

As an extrovert who loves introverts.... I humbly request a video about what introverts like and don't like about their extrovert friends/partners. Though I'm scared, I'm more curious... hahaha! 😆

@FrankJames

3 жыл бұрын

Great suggestion!

@TestaRosssa_

3 жыл бұрын

@@g.i.r.l. that's not true at all... My cousin who is an extrovert watches. So that's at least 1 other person... ;)

@TestaRosssa_

3 жыл бұрын

@@g.i.r.l. I was joking Haha! There are way more than just 2, I actually feel like I see a lot of ENFPs here gushing over you beloved introverts! 🥰 We love you guys! There are so many introverts in the comments though, I agree hahaha

@XxKawaiiCookies

3 жыл бұрын

I love that extroverts are easy to talk to because it’s hard for me to continue on a conversation

@TestaRosssa_

3 жыл бұрын

@@XxKawaiiCookies that's really nice to hear! I like to make introverts feel comfortable and see what's inside when they're quiet Haha I have a lot of introvert friends. I appreciate you guys. 💖

Don’t you just love it as an introvert when you say something profound, like say in a class, and then later someone comes up to you and says, “that was so interesting! You should talk more!” (Cringe)

@jose91807

3 жыл бұрын

This used to happen all the time to me in school hahaha

@QUARTERMASTEREMI6

3 жыл бұрын

I had the same thing said to me plenty of times, though if that someone who says "that was so interesting!" is your crush, I'd guess that makes it more special(?) More of a guess I suppose.

I've been an introvert myself for a long time. That's something I'll always be proud of. Whenever I'm outside by myself of a small group of people I usually just walk or stand around contemplating life and hear myself breathing with my mouth closed listening to the sound of the ocean. 😊😊😊

Subject matter is sooo accurate!! I wonder if you're an introvert too and process your thoughts about mbti

@aryatripathi2486

8 ай бұрын

edit: he is (INFJ) and I'm INFP btw:)

„Why introverts are so attractive?“ Me, to myself : WE ARE??

@Kinra_Jade

3 жыл бұрын

Me: I wasn't aware of that and, i don't care if i am or not actually.

@codyw1

3 жыл бұрын

It was news to me also...

@Kinra_Jade

3 жыл бұрын

​@Oliver Windsor Just a guess but maybe because it makes you feel empathic as you realize how much people have little trust in their appearance? There are people who write based on their own experience so their strong opinion isn't going to change easily because a KZreadr says the contrary. I'd suggest, if i am any near right, to stop reading these comments. You'll only ruin your self-confidence ; remember you ARE not the person you're reading.

@Kinra_Jade

3 жыл бұрын

​@Oliver Windsor In that case, my apologies. I did went ahead of myself with my answer. Sorry once again and thank you for taking the time to explain yourself.

@SssagaBenches4U

Жыл бұрын

Sudden realization only to be crushed down by girl you ask out.

The idealized version of an introvert, sadly. Most people don't put much thought into why a introvert skips out on a party

@lovingkokichi4159

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo “too cool to go to a party” more like “I’ll be alone and have no one to talk to and I’ll be too nervous to talk to someone new and maybe start crying if I go to a party”

@lilly3923

3 жыл бұрын

loving kokichi fr and then I just have a meltdown when there’s too many people

@twisted-art8009

3 жыл бұрын

“Lazy ass” Yes hun im lazy and dont want to interact with people 👄👁

@abhishek8987

3 жыл бұрын

Coz they are busy with their "assignments".

@twisted-art8009

3 жыл бұрын

Abhishek .G gurl thats a flaker not an introvert

I'm extremely introvert in class because I still think about my old school.Miss them.

Only people I'm not attracted to think I'm attractive.

@raygengamer8440

3 жыл бұрын

that is the law of life.

@shanapreston_

3 жыл бұрын

@@raygengamer8440 aw shucks

@raywang7995

3 жыл бұрын

jokes on you no one even likes me

@themadhatter8178

3 жыл бұрын

@@raygengamer8440 The ugly ones chase, the pretty ones run away. Makes me wonder why mankind hasn't gone extinct.

@optimus2183

3 жыл бұрын

Tell me about it

"Introverts are attractive." Me, an introvert: LIAR!

@i3ignorantidelweb43

3 жыл бұрын

Me

@ME-nw7er

3 жыл бұрын

I have always been extremely shy and introverted and I also don't think I'm attractive that way😂 I mean I interact like an autistic person🤷‍♀️

@omegle9925

2 жыл бұрын

@@ME-nw7er same

@erenb.2806

2 жыл бұрын

Idk some people have told me that, i still hardly believe it.

@suja605

2 жыл бұрын

@SpeedyArrow_420 that's really nice

Party of one! Yeehaw! Love it, live it ❤️

Thankyou so much sir, you shared such useful insight. I came to know myself, preferably MY OWN POWERS because of you. I'm an introvert . And thankyou for explaining myself to me so well. 🙇🏻‍♀️👍🏻

FJ: "Introverts are mysterious. This is simply by virtue of them being . . . quiet." My crippling tendency to overshare: Am I a joke to you?

@jettsteel7305

3 жыл бұрын

Relatable 😭

@chi6454

3 жыл бұрын

@Warda Siddiqui damn same when I get comfortable I start talking I don't stop and then I start talking about my childhood then Leads to awkwardness😂😭

@alexs6746

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve somehow found a way to over share yet share nothing

@jettsteel7305

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexs6746 Teach me please-

@mikatosis

3 жыл бұрын

me trauma dumping on the bus

The “introverts give themselves fewer chances to say annoying things”- not true for me because every time i say something it turns out being annoying and i regret having opened my mouth once again

@clintdona4586

3 жыл бұрын

lisa_ The few times I actually speak I say dumb things so same lmao

@mysticfellow9843

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it happens. I have ADD so I do it more often that usual, despite appearing to be a good listener.

@anjaliroy1139

3 жыл бұрын

@@mysticfellow9843 what is ADD?

@m3rl1n4

3 жыл бұрын

@@anjaliroy1139 Attention Deficit Disorder

@bishiw2949

3 жыл бұрын

Same. Then I'd reflect and blame myself and say less.

I stumbled upon this video discussing the reasons why introverts are attractive and found it to be an interesting perspective. The video offers a refreshing take on the positive qualities that introverts possess, It was a thought-provoking and uplifting watch that reminded me of the unique strengths that introverts can bring to any situation.

Heck, now I feel like gathering even more introverts for friends...nothing comes between me and my introvert friends! Their thoughts are priceless and they have the most complex perspectives on the world, but I've learned to ask...they would never let themselves be known. (I'm an ambivert)

Me as an introvert reading the title: "I'm sorry, what?"

@jenniebestt1195

3 жыл бұрын

same 1ma0

@sanjoyghosh7528

3 жыл бұрын

yahhh exactly i think extroverts are more attractive as they can start talking to anyone and on the other side uss 😟😟😟😟( introverts ) 😭

@jenniebestt1195

3 жыл бұрын

@@sanjoyghosh7528 n0 n0 intr0verts r m0re attractive then extrverts thts wht i think

@VergilEdits

3 жыл бұрын

@@jenniebestt1195 i think by attractive he means their personality not exactly their face although face matters too . Extroverta talk a lot so you know them a lot, some might get attracted to them and some not because they don't find them mysterious

@damaristapia7042

3 жыл бұрын

:)

"Why are Introverts so attractive?" Me: *So who's gonna tell him?*

@protorhinocerator142

3 жыл бұрын

That's just mean. ...and accurate.

@mohithhoney9630

3 жыл бұрын

I didn't get it. Can you explain it to me

@phoenixangel5073

3 жыл бұрын

@@mohithhoney9630 we all ugly as fuuuu

@mohithhoney9630

3 жыл бұрын

@@phoenixangel5073 I know that. Everyone is ugly in their own way and everyone is beautiful in their own way

@mohithhoney9630

3 жыл бұрын

But I don't understand what @The Duck is saying

Great points, especially appreciated the one about introverts being introspective.

Honestly, you presented really nice points ! Well done 👍

Some extroverts just thought I was snobby when I was younger but didn’t realise that I found their non-stop talking intimidating. So funny how people perceive things differently

@praveentummalacharla5165

3 жыл бұрын

Yes😩😩

“Introverts are good listeners or at least they appear to be” Did he just call me out like that-

@AmnaAli-ci7lg

3 жыл бұрын

Mate I zoned out in middle of the video what else do you expect from me!

@kerrymartin7557

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@etelebulcsumarton2234

2 жыл бұрын

🤭

@meliamedaverman3558

2 жыл бұрын

🤣😂 I'm am an introvert and I appear to be a good listener but I am actually not.😂🤣 They think I am listening but they don't know I'm overthinking what they're telling me.lol

@MsSecretbitch

2 жыл бұрын

😂

It's all about who will give you the most energy and be the most interesting. Because we like to receive but not to give(mostly).

This is eye opening, thanks