People always say introverts need to talk more, nobody says extroverts need to shut up

@camilalimagalvao3163

3 жыл бұрын

Actually they do

@howeaa71

3 жыл бұрын

A-men!

@lindaruss3772

3 жыл бұрын

I may not say it, but I often think others need to “shut up”.

@jasonwilkerson9497

3 жыл бұрын

I would say they need to check in with themselves more and reflect for a few seconds before they speak. In other words: introvert. 😊

@pbear7814

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

I don't hate people, I just don't want to see them, talk to them or do things with them.

@LauraAnne95

3 жыл бұрын

💯 I’m even starting to feel this way about my own family (outside of my household) 😣 I mean of course I love them and care about them, but it’s too draining for me to interact with all of them constantly. In a family where everyone is extroverted, no one understands and a lot of them think I’m ‘rude’ and ‘distant’. Some of them understand, but a lot of them even though I tell them I’m very introverted and simply don’t have nearly the same energy reserves as them, they just don’t take the time to really understand or think about it and just shrug their shoulders and I guess they think I’m ‘weird’ that I don’t constantly want to attend every get-together, party, or even group chat messages . Sigh 😣🤷‍♀️

@RR4711

3 жыл бұрын

Ras_ AlHim you should also add to your list: I don’t want to hear them chew.

@isabellecamile7717

3 жыл бұрын

@@LauraAnne95 omg sane, like, I love them, but I don't feel like a need to talk to them, call them or even text them, and just the idea of having to make contact makes me tired

@mantecada5660

3 жыл бұрын

People is mean

@dimunnpabebet7040

3 жыл бұрын

@@LauraAnne95 maybe one of the common extrovert people's fault(not all extroverts) is the fact that they don't understand the behaviour or personality of others being different I guess😕

I bet all the introverts here, enjoyed the whole covid lockdown event. I sure did! First time in my life that I didn't have to make excuses why I didn't want to participate, join in, meet people. It was great.

@michaelhughes4466

8 ай бұрын

No! Introverts are not all the same. I enjoy going to pubs several times a week (even if I may not speak to anyone except the barperson) which in the UK were shut by lockdown. Introversion does not preclude concern about society as a whole as well as ourselves. Lockdown caused appalling damage to the health service, education, and the economy which will take decades to recover from. It empowered authoritarian politicians (notably Matt Hancock in Britain) and killjoy medical panjandrums, and advanced a socialistic outlook that governments can spend unlimited sums to alleviate any hardship. It was the worst disaster since second world war.

@lnr1002

8 ай бұрын

I loved it. I hope it happens again.

@ddhqj2023

8 ай бұрын

I can be concerned about society from afar. I don't have to rub shoulders with everyone to care. And I think things that will cause worse damage to society and the economy will be continuing automation, the climate crisis and people's disinterest in caring for the earth because it means change and half the population is mortally fearful of change even when it means something better will come as a result. @@michaelhughes4466

@carolbaskin1857

8 ай бұрын

@@lnr1002uhhh idk about that people died lol

@carolbaskin1857

8 ай бұрын

I wouldn’t say that while I did enjoy being alone , there’s still things I like to do besides sit at home , like going for a walk or going shopping ,getting something to eat , all things u can do and enjoy alone.

Old introvert who finally retired after 53 years; did a great job, remained diligent, helpful and kind, but this is my truth, I'm absolutely thrilled to stay at home, minding my own business, and shutting the world out; online interaction with very little contact is awesome; just me and my dog living and loving each day

@kyndalslifeowen6823

4 ай бұрын

Me too. I retired 5 years ago and I was so drained it took a full year to not be tired and I'm finally feeling less tense. I'm happiest at home with Noone around me. ( I worked in a public setting)

@natasamladenovic1765

4 ай бұрын

Every Friday evening I send my daughter to my Mums (they get along so well) for a sleepover and my husband out with his mates. Thats the only thing that prevents me to tape them up and throw them in the shed.

@valerieladeda

4 ай бұрын

Wishing you and your beloved dog a sweet and happy retirement! ❤

@gayanngodfrey2824

4 ай бұрын

Can’t wait

@KayBeck-wn5lj

3 ай бұрын

Your the best.

We like hanging out with people we care about. What we don't like is meaningless interaction.

@sophiei.9417

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@envoxity9544

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@magnoliasegun4994

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly couldn’t have said it better. If I’m around 50 people then it has to be 50 people that I care about and that I can have a decent conversation with :-)

@deshi597

3 жыл бұрын

Ig social introverts like to do meaningless interaction with people they care abt cuz I do

@splinterborn

3 жыл бұрын

Genau.

Introverts like fun. We just like different fun. Quiet fun.

@smilehoya5329

3 жыл бұрын

true

@EPITHALON

3 жыл бұрын

Yes that is “OUR” type of fun

@moork561

3 жыл бұрын

Games :>

@rebeccaanne9863

3 жыл бұрын

Calm fun. Non harmful fun. Take a bike ride in the mountains = yes Rip up the hills with muh massive treads = Um no.

@EPITHALON

3 жыл бұрын

@@tiagoroberto6887 Yes that “person” is my best friend for example

We are easily drained by other people, don’t tolerate fools easily , often have very few friends. It takes a special person to really relate to us .

@ritacuartas6695

4 ай бұрын

It takes an even more special person to not have an irritating presence to us.

@danielweir67

4 ай бұрын

i have NO friends. which i'm happy about. but maybe a few acquaintances for emergency purposes.

@DaisyCloverbee

4 ай бұрын

People tend to use 'friend' when I would use 'amiable acquaintance'.

@danielweir67

4 ай бұрын

@@DaisyCloverbee that's more than i'd use. if i didn't need them for maybe emergencies i wouldn't include them.

@yamil.343

4 ай бұрын

True true!

Stay at home. Work at home. Single for 20 years, i shop at 10pm-2am. I like it to be quiet. That's me.

@lilaccilla

4 ай бұрын

I love shopping at night with no one in the stores ! thank you

@tabbylynn4130

3 ай бұрын

@@lilaccillaI use delivery and have them leave it on my stoop lol

@psa722

3 ай бұрын

Amen to that. On my days off, I rarely go out of the house.

@fmcg5364

2 ай бұрын

Either 10pm - 2am or like 6:00am - about 11:00am and I hate when people have to bring their entire families with them everywhere they go

@dlbma30677

2 ай бұрын

Hardware stores are the best when they’re empty and you have a question

I find it way much easier to interact with strangers rather than acquaintances.

@KathrinH1997

3 жыл бұрын

I noticed that too. Because there is a chance you will never have to interact with them ever again it is easier

@ceyx1201

3 жыл бұрын

@@KathrinH1997 right on the spot!

@chaoticbreeze6262

3 жыл бұрын

@@SeelenTaucher I'd surely listen to this song ❤

@chaoticbreeze6262

3 жыл бұрын

@@KathrinH1997 yeah exactly, no fear of judgements and no overthinking

@gavinlesly742

3 жыл бұрын

Ifkr😂

Sign number 1: Your daily lifestyle is called "Quarantine"

@theoutsiderjess4869

3 жыл бұрын

I was thriving in quarantine I actually sound happy asking people how's their quarantine 🤣

@_S.D._

3 жыл бұрын

I told my old man I'm crushing thisl quarantine thing. I've been training my whole life for this lol

@archikiran7156

3 жыл бұрын

True😂

@martinprochazka3714

3 жыл бұрын

I live a very social life... ...I visit Kaufland once a week to buy my groceries.

@linneav1064

3 жыл бұрын

@@theoutsiderjess4869 Quarantine has been a blessing for me. Working from home is the best thing EVER.

I love being an introvert. I really don't want to change that about myself.

I think that the most simple and most agreeable definition of an introvert person can be " a person who is introvert will only involve in a conversation if the conversation is about something in which he has interest or else he would just fade out"

@psa722

3 ай бұрын

That is definitely me. I get bored very easily and will bow out of a conversation very quickly. In fact, I will disappear and people will have wondered where I have gone to.

@prashantmishra9367

3 ай бұрын

@@psa722 us bro us🤝🤝

@jeaniechampagne8831

Ай бұрын

That's called boredom! ❤

@MadonnaGrogan

Ай бұрын

Longer i live more people bore me

My friends think I’m depressed or lonely cuz I shut myself in my house without hanging out with anyone, but little do they know I’m living my best life.

@brohith1722

3 жыл бұрын

Same situation 😭😭😭

@nickve777

3 жыл бұрын

My friends are also introverts lmao

@alexjewett7455

3 жыл бұрын

I'm only really happy being alone. Which is why I don't have any friends.

@sapphire7888

3 жыл бұрын

me too but i'm also depressed lol

@enzocorreia5313

3 жыл бұрын

They don't see it throug you point of view, they see it like an extrovert does

The person who created the teamwork at school is the devil

@destree6348

3 жыл бұрын

Or "Okay everyone, let's go around and share something about yourselves" 😡

@ronu4hka

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@sophiei.9417

3 жыл бұрын

😂. Instructor: “Okay I need you all to divide yourselves into groups of 5 - 6”. Me in my head: “Oh dammit”. #memories

@jennywight9119

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Yes! Yes! I either ended doing everything or nothing, nothing in between!

@jemsagasor6787

3 жыл бұрын

Yeaah. I'll just always wait until someone ask me to join them or wait for the teacher to ask who still got no group.

I tried to explain introversion to an extroverted coworker (one time) and explained how I get physically tired in social situations. She immediately replied: "oh, that's not introverted, you must have a mental disorder." I had to talk to HR later about it because I told her she has the attention span of a tennis ball among other things. I've never had a problem being assertive when I'm angry or annoyed at stupid people

@Oldschool811

7 ай бұрын

We are smarter than extroverts in general. we analyze and study every moment to be successful, extroverts just live a who gives a sh#t life

@agentorange153

6 ай бұрын

And THAT is why it's better to AVOID sharing ANY personal stuff with extroverts!

@KingsleyIII

6 ай бұрын

"Oh, that's not introverted; you must have a mental disorder." That is perhaps the most disrespectful slap in the face to not just you, but all introverts. There's nothing quite like trivializing introverts by claiming they're all mentally handicapped.

@AlystraYT

5 ай бұрын

@@KingsleyIII fr, it makes me so angry. I don’t have any mental disorder, being an introvert isn’t bad, when will extroverts get it?

@agentorange153

4 ай бұрын

@@KingsleyIII Personally, if anyone said that to me, I'd report them to HR first!

We have an extremely small group of people we can truly open up to. Usually after YEARS of those people proving they can be trusted to not hurt us.

Extrovert "omg lock down 😱" Introvert "omg lock down 😁🙂😊"

@deboramalaki6090

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂🙌🙌🙌

@fionarahl9399

3 жыл бұрын

So true. So true.

@orca2964

3 жыл бұрын

Lockdown was cool

@sum3204

3 жыл бұрын

It is still cool. Working from home no pressure of socialising. You can mute and switch of video during calls. Tell them internet is wonky today and get the ticket to be out of the meeting. Best time ever to be alive for an introvert.. ;)

@chickyrojas-wiley9418

3 жыл бұрын

Im a introvert i loved lockdown i didn't wanna go back to school

I feel like school makes it seem like its bad to be an introvert... Does anyone else think that?

@jellycpufi1880

3 жыл бұрын

yeah

@stephaniesmith1431

3 жыл бұрын

they make introverts feel guilty for wanting to be alone

@thespider8782

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephaniesmith1431 doesnt work but they try

@aeinx114

3 жыл бұрын

IKR. In my country we get marks for how much we say and what we say in class and that’s so annoying. Why do I need to speak in class? If I don’t, does that mean I am dumb or what? My grades would be so much better if it would just be my writing marks. I don’t think it’s bad that I like to be silent so why do I need to push myself to do things I feel uncomfortable with... I hate school for that.

@mdog0657

3 жыл бұрын

My grades were good enough to exempt me from the final quarter of my senior year of high school which thrilled me to no end because I so desperately wanted to get out of that place. I hated being in a classroom.

This resonated so much. I’m the introvert’s introvert - I go at least 4-5 days a week without seeing or speaking to anyone but my pets. I don’t seem to actually have a point at which I become lonely. The COVID pandemic didn’t even faze me in terms of isolation.

As a child I preferred being at home…always thought it was because of severe car sickness. Hated crowds…always thought it was from hearing loss it was exhausting trying to follow all the conversations. When I got older hated night clubbing and parties…thought it was my allergy to alcohol. Didn’t realise until I was in my 30’s that I am a true introvert. I love knitting, crochet, reading and diamond art all solo activities. Love the company of my daughter, husband and little dog but still like my alone time every day.

@ghenulo

4 ай бұрын

I used to think I was an introvert, but a psychiatrist I saw once told me that I was a schizoid, not an introvert. As a schizoid, I've never been night clubbing or partying (the only time I ever had alcohol was when I drank a cup of eggnog my brother-in-law made; of course, now I'm a vegan, so I don't consume anything containing eggs), and I've never had friends, romantic partners, or a spouse. Also, I take it that introverts are good listeners, where schizoids retreat into our own thoughts when others talk.

@agentorange153

4 ай бұрын

@@ghenulo Not necessarily -- not all introverts are good listeners, some do in fact retreat into their own thoughts (in my case, I do so if I find the conversation boring)!

@psa722

3 ай бұрын

I absolutely hate crowds. I also don't like people sitting behind me. I have to monitor what is going on around me and be able to make that quick exit if I need to. I have never done parties. If I go, I will be gone in less than ten minutes. I am currently taking care of my mom. In order to get away, I go to work. When I get home from work, it is a quick greeting, ask if she needs anything, and then I isolate myself. I even lock my bedroom door because I don't want interruption. I have a lot of trouble sleeping. If I can get to sleep I want to be able to do so as long as I can so I can function the following day.

@agentorange153

3 ай бұрын

@@psa722 I also don't like it when there are people behind me, and I always check my six FREQUENTLY if such is the case -- but that also comes from living in a diverse area, in a small town it's not as scary!

@fmcg5364

2 ай бұрын

When I was young thought I was not an introvert because I went to parties, then I realized the parties had a lot of people who really don't notice you if you don't talk and because I was there for the guys, no guys, no fun. Even if it is a small party I have to know everyone there otherwise I am miserable.

Sign 11: you prefer to speak to yourself rather than with others.

@corinnebloom7005

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! That guy in head makes great conversation!

@marcoagostini7866

3 жыл бұрын

@@corinnebloom7005 Actually, i usually disagree with him and yell at him

@mimii.002

3 жыл бұрын

I am my own therapist😌

@shubhashreerath9981

3 жыл бұрын

I'm like that..

@katiesveganlife3854

3 жыл бұрын

Or to your dog

The Pandemic has been glorious. No holiday parties, no going out, and most of all - listening to the extroverts complain about it.

@polandball8877

3 жыл бұрын

Not for me. Because the extroverts are still forcing me to go to parties. CRAP.

@anupreetiboro1352

3 жыл бұрын

I loved spending the last year of my highschool in my house tbh I didn't had to deal with a lot of crappy drama. Plus I got to deal with my own problems without having people breathing down my neck.

@DoktorSean

3 жыл бұрын

I can't help thinking there might have been ways for you to get out of these parties without needing something as extreme as a global pandemic to happen.

@isla6799

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr the best thing about 2020 you get to be alone

@romanmanner

3 жыл бұрын

@@DoktorSean True. But no many can argue with "I'd love to go, but this whole pandemic thing...."

I am 100% an introvert. I hate being the centre of attention, I don't make friends easy, hate going to social events and am very passive. I would love to be more assertive, but don't like confrontation. I feel comfortable in small groups of people I know well, but hate going to work parties and events and will make excuses not to go if I can.

Yep this is me. In fact I often become unwell after a family visit. Love being alone.

“Introverts are low in Extroversion” hmmm i had no idea

@FrankJames

3 жыл бұрын

lol

@xyzabc-

3 жыл бұрын

@@FrankJames my life is now complete

@chocolatebar2306

3 жыл бұрын

😅mhm.

@KnightsaysNi

3 жыл бұрын

Ah yes, the floor here is made of floor.

@areebah8297

3 жыл бұрын

every 60 seconds in Africa, a minute passes

Me: "I'd love to dye my hair a crazy color" Them: "why don't you?" Me: "I dont want people looking at me"😔

@divinetrouble66

3 жыл бұрын

The worst part of having different hair - people really want to talk to you.

@kristinestaples7607

3 жыл бұрын

@@divinetrouble66 ugh, no thank you haha

@Ejaz100

3 жыл бұрын

And talking

@Emiliapocalypse

3 жыл бұрын

Or worse, touching you! Had that happen before when my hair was a weird color 😬

@anjagalan6905

3 жыл бұрын

So meee

As an introvert, I actually prefer group situations to one on one situations. Because, like you said, in a group I can just retreat and play on my phone and no one will pay any attention to me. It's still draining but I can take a couple of hours of this. But in one on one situations, the other person is LASER focused on YOU. And that absolutely zaps my energy faster than any group gathering. But obviously, I prefer to be completely alone or just with my boyfriend. Alone time is best time, even if it is alone time with my boyfriend :)

@plexxarbiitch

6 ай бұрын

When he’s talking about situations that drain you, he’s talking as if you’re actually participating in the convo. Obviously it’s less draining to completely ignore the group of people that’s with you than to talk one on one with someone

@psa722

3 ай бұрын

I am the opposite. I like one on one communication. The more people that join in on the conversation, the more nervous I get. After a short time, I lose interest and I leave.

@Its_Rice

2 ай бұрын

I like one on one conversation too and working alone than a group

Fun is relative. Its not that i dont like fun. My fun is different

I get drained by social interactions faster when I don't trust people enough. I can talk for hours with my closest friends because they understand me and I trust them

@reyphobic

2 жыл бұрын

same

@user-ft7fq4ou4v

2 жыл бұрын

On a similar note, I'm fine with a group I know, with room for maybe one stranger in a medium-sized group. I get really nervous and anxious when I don't know the group dynamic, so either when a large proportion of the group is people I don't know, or if it's a mix of people from different groups which I know/am a part of, because then I have no idea how to behave.

@aqua_finessa6030

2 жыл бұрын

I'm extremely quiet in large social groups but am more social in small groups. I do not like speaking loud or competing to speak over others.

@ummesalmatahir6745

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@Linx9214

2 жыл бұрын

you sound like the rare ambivert

"it's not that I'm a genius, it's just that I'm surrounded by idiots" -Technoblade

@theendfight8360

3 жыл бұрын

That's how I feel in a group project.

@lukayaroslav9914

3 жыл бұрын

@@theendfight8360 Same. Almost everytime, everyone is clueless and lazy in my group projects. The result is me being the leader despite the fact that I'm an introvert.

@pangolin1498

3 жыл бұрын

Einstein’s mind is kinda like that lol

@RosiePosie5000

3 жыл бұрын

*Everyone Liked That.*

@mochiieekim

3 жыл бұрын

@@theendfight8360 lol😂

This is so true🤣I am an Introvert. I’d love to spend weeks alone

This video is just so true, and no one I REPEAT NO ONE in the society I live in understands me, not even my family members 😭

@MadonnaGrogan

Ай бұрын

Same, we do not need to be understood, but they persist in telling us,,,,,

@eggyolk671

21 күн бұрын

for me it’s my dad bro like he knows how introverts are like and and thinks we avoid people and interactions and general (which is true) but that don’t mean introverts aren’t prone to meeting new people or making friends like bffr 🤦🏾‍♀️

"You don't annoy me. We should talk. But not in person. And rarely. Because if people know you talk to me they might try to talk to me" -one introvert to another

@heyyyyooooo7777

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yessss

@lavonnehensley9993

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! That happened to me!

@bobgunner3086

3 жыл бұрын

I love that!

@safala

3 жыл бұрын

lol.. one of my classmates (when we had to work on a group project) was like wow you’re quite fun online. And then he said ‘hi’ to me the next and I said ‘hi’ and then ignored him.

@TheRecoveringCreative

3 жыл бұрын

😆😆very accurate

As a true introvert, I can say sometimes being in a group is better, cause you don't feel pressured to say anything.

@cicistone

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, exactly.

@cicistone

2 жыл бұрын

You can survive it, you can even disappear.

@marlenepetersen6159

2 жыл бұрын

I understand what you mean, but at the same time, i find it easier to get into these deep conversations when talking one to one, i kinda feel lonely in groups, because i'm just there you know not doing much

@bestasura2777

2 жыл бұрын

I hate it when the group turns their attention to me for opinions or something. :/

@lauracristina6470

2 жыл бұрын

@@marlenepetersen6159 yeah but sometimes it's kinda awkward for me to talk with some people

I got a full 10 out of 10 and I actually listen to the band Coldplay. but watching your videos, I learned more about myself than I did in my whole life searching for answers. thank you for them. spiritually awakened INFJ on this side😊❤

@auntylinda7640

4 ай бұрын

Yip, me too x

I’ve always been an introvert, from a family of introverts. Which definitely had its pluses, because we all understood each other implicitly and were happy going on family vacations to quiet places where we could all hang out and read books most of the tome and not have to interact with strangers. Or even with each other very much, if we didn’t want to. I live in an introvert’s paradise right now, too. I live way up at an altitude of 9000 feet in a tiny unincorporated mountain town, where I share a fairly big house on 2 acres of land with one roommate and four cats. I generally only have to drive down into town to do errands and interact with people every third day or so, since I work from home now:

Most introverts dont make friends mostly we get adopted by extroverts

@stephanywinam3643

3 жыл бұрын

I wish an extrovert could adopt me

@danielignacioveliz4053

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephanywinam3643 nah it's annoying

@MrParkerman6

3 жыл бұрын

I call that "The Jay and Silent Bob" effect!

@nivedithamanoharan3898

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂👌👌

@jeaneljaylamputi2215

3 жыл бұрын

I guess I keep getting adopted by extroverts. Ehh, at least they treat me with food occasionally, all I can say this is how you make friends with me irl. Just give me a free snack and I'll stick around for 2 hours.

Introverts are like: "Hey! Look how nice the floor is, should I look at it all the time and not make eye contact with anyone? Yes."

@briz8858

3 жыл бұрын

Dang that floor is really cool

@dominguezcharles3069

3 жыл бұрын

Cooler and more better than everyone's lives, btw can I go home? -introvert

@metalmario00

3 жыл бұрын

I have a lot of trouble keeping eye contact with someone

@bundream7024

3 жыл бұрын

I felt this on a spiritual level

@thenameless9947

3 жыл бұрын

@@metalmario00 same i always try to force myself to do it, sometimes it works but mostly it doesn't😅

Hehe as an introvert I'm so happy to hearing facts 😶‍🌫️

As an introvert what confuses me is feeling like I've been talking so much to people and they still tell me that "I don't talk much".

Teacher: There are no stupid ideas! Me: No. Just poorly thought out ones.

@harseik7354

3 жыл бұрын

Who would even think that? Of course stupid ideas exist. That's just... objective.

@pantlessreactions

3 жыл бұрын

There are no stupid ideas, just stupid people

People think I’m “emotionless”. To that I respond: I have a heart... it’s just on the inside.

@happypanda3689

3 жыл бұрын

I've been called that too, it's so annoying, that's a great way to respond to it though

@tonyping2262

3 жыл бұрын

Good one ☝️

@pleaseletmehavemyprivacy3450

3 жыл бұрын

r/technicallythetruth

@eddy2298

3 жыл бұрын

My mom always say that to me and it's pretty annoying 🙂

@pangolin1498

3 жыл бұрын

It is quite literally located on the inside, near the lungs

I've never felt alone, lonely, shy or socially awkward and I'm very confident, assertive and empathic. I'm a super introvert 🥰

@plan4life

4 ай бұрын

How do you define being an introvert then? You have just described everything an introvert ISN’T.

@NottyAries

4 ай бұрын

@@plan4life I'm not socially awkward, just socially uninterested. I'm not shy, just hate small talk. I'm not lonely, just a preference of being alone. I'm not timid, but naturally assertive tempered by natural empathy unless someone doesn't get the point. I can interact easily with people, in crowds, and unplanned activities - but that's very draining and alone time to recharge is not only needed, but required. I don't suffer from social anxiety, but can suffer from social annoyance.

@TheBaumcm

Ай бұрын

@@plan4lifeactually that is everything that introverts are stereotyped to be. The fundamental trait is not social interaction or success but rather whether social interactions of certain types energize or drain you and how you feel most comfortable processing your environment, which is why some of those other things can present as “symptoms”. I grew up in a very small town where my family was known and I was related to many of them (there was a period where there was someone with my last name in every school for a period of about 60 years), and I would have random people stop me and talk to me from the time I was very small. My husband was very confused when I came up introverted because I am very socially confident, have no issues with building rapport, can speak at length on any topic, including the trivial, have no problem with asserting myself or being direct or creating conflict, and am not a “lonely” person from the outside. What he didn’t see is how tired I felt after a day of work as an educator, talking to people all day long, that I can sit quietly and daydream for hours without any external stimulation, the order in which I assess my feelings for and speak about something, and never NEED another person around me to contemplate a situation. He is extremely extroverted. He hates “lounging” where he doesn’t talk to anyone, cannot be by himself for extended periods, must talk to someone to think about how he feels about things, and requires almost constant external stimulation. I am the one who takes 3 hours to watch a YT video because I am pausing to contemplate and consider (by commenting) while he watches a short halfway through before moving on.😂

Oh yes, you are so correct!!!!!!!!! I love being alone. No problem with that. And when we all were in quarantine its my life as is.

As an introvert, I’m that one crazy person who actually enjoyed quarantine because I didn’t have to associate with anyone except my family. Who I would have preferred to be with less.

@cherellewhyte9546

2 жыл бұрын

I loved lockdown is was a dream come true! 😂

@moon_____

2 жыл бұрын

@@cherellewhyte9546 same :>

@mister_lad

2 жыл бұрын

@@cherellewhyte9546 yesss same. I also like wearing a mask because it hides facial expressions

@dianalindeman1644

2 жыл бұрын

You, too! Mother's OK company, but my younger sister is like a zombie in a horror movie!

@dianalindeman1644

2 жыл бұрын

Before the pandemic, no one thought we recluses would someday be fashionable!

When we stay home with a person we feel at ease with, we can easily behave like extroverts

@cocobluebellathegermanshep8581

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@foxylady5

Жыл бұрын

YES

@Nsquare_01

Жыл бұрын

No

@nobody7277

Жыл бұрын

@@Nsquare_01 and why is that?

@ashleyhobson1414

Жыл бұрын

Somewhat, but for me, alone time is still mandatory

Thank You, I needed those words today.

Love you Frank, because all you say is so damn true! I agree to all x) And you describe it in such a natural way.

Introverts unite! By yourself! In your own home!

@alanmiles9335

4 ай бұрын

That's very clever! 😂

@fyreantz2555

4 ай бұрын

@alanmiles9335 totally copied from someone else, but still funny!

@SoBlessedByYou

4 ай бұрын

ROFL 😂so true!!

@crystinamarie1

4 ай бұрын

😆

@Abitibidoug

3 ай бұрын

And enjoy solitude rather than complain about loneliness.

"introverts don't get engaged in group conversations" - well, everytime i engage, i end up being upset that someone stops listening to me after like 10 seconds or i end up listening to their 10 minute monologue or i give them the 10 minute monologue if they show any will to listen and then i feel embarrassed because i exposed myself

@ella-ok2wf

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY thank you

@Walklikeaduck111

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@oruguitamilagrosa5679

3 жыл бұрын

IKR

@Red_Wright1357

3 жыл бұрын

When I engage in a conversation, they assume that I am mad or upset or trying to argue.

@fizzydizz3356

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yes...

I feel you was talking Directly to me, I am a introvert through and through❤ ❤❤❤

My idea of being social is sitting near people in a coffee shop....without saying anything or making eye contact

*I feel personally attacked every time someone enters my room* *E S P E C I A L L Y if they don’t knock*

@amberr3662

3 жыл бұрын

I feel ya ✋😔

@guncec.4612

3 жыл бұрын

And ESPECIALLY E S P E C I A L L Y if they interact with me all of a sudden, while I'm watching or reading something

@bradenmartinez8699

3 жыл бұрын

Thank God, I thought I was the only one!

@tonyaberney156

3 жыл бұрын

My pet pea also, and also plans being made for me ,or someone telling someone that I won't mind to do something ,hate that.✌

@NightWarrior972

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

the whole life of the introverts is a quarantine, and the mask is a total win. no one wants to be recognized outside and be effing forced to interact.

@exoticpash8823

3 жыл бұрын

we should all be in mib

@tekknorat

3 жыл бұрын

When everyone die of loneliness, introverts will thrive in this schmandemic

@dmas7749

3 жыл бұрын

i don't like the mask, not that i won't wear it, and i'm definitely not glad for the pandemic going around, i'm an introvert btw

@sidneebuffington7594

3 жыл бұрын

Right, i kinda like masks and i “quarantined” before it was cool lol hours of silence is paradise.

@tekknorat

3 жыл бұрын

@@sidneebuffington7594 I like that Overton's window is open wide.

I'm enjoying this channel. Good insight!

helpend so so much , thank you!!!

This is why group projects in school need to be optional.

@pierreodendaal6519

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr. 9th grade, Arts class. Group task: A unique, complex, art piece. Basically I had to share the horrible outcome of the art piece. Add to that -20% for "lack of participation"(I got pushed aside every time I built up the confidence to try and share an idea). If I could've worked alone I could've gotten 85%+, but because I "wanted everyone else to do the work", I got 20%.

@LonelyCinderella123

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah its weird how they always force you to do those. Plus its kinda stupid because most of the time one person ends up doing most of the work anyway

@mryup6100

3 жыл бұрын

@@LonelyCinderella123 I'd say more like two people

@dandotvid

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. We had a "quiz game" in history one year. Everyone in teams. Somehow, I was allowed to be by myself. Blew them all out of the water it was hilarious.

@nickt.2238

3 жыл бұрын

I hated these.

As an introvert, any type of party is like hell. You have to socialize for hours and cannot stare at you phone without looking like you hate the person's party

@GloboSVK

3 жыл бұрын

As an introvert, why'd you ever go to a party in the first place?

@enzocorreia5313

3 жыл бұрын

@@GloboSVK I was forced to

@emiliotanadi7358

3 жыл бұрын

Do it but try and look busy or pretend you are taking photos of food.

@ArthKryst

3 жыл бұрын

True AF

@helgaioannidis9365

3 жыл бұрын

I usually go to the kitchen and help with the food and dishes when I have to go to a party. It's also helpful to pretend to talk on the phone, to hide on the toilet and to play with present pets or children or find someone who loves talking and will be happy speaking all the time with you just nodding here and then.

You have this so on point. I am just amazed. I had to listen to it again. Humorous as well.. I laughed a bit. So much you mentioned is true.

I don't know if its the research or your relatability, but your videos are always spot-on! 👌🏾

Am I the only one who thinks that cats are the perfect pets for an introvert and dogs for extroverts? If you think about their personalities, they match a lot. 😂

@acidmineslady5832

3 жыл бұрын

That's why I have cats, yes xD

@luciavillanueva8277

3 жыл бұрын

I have dogs because I cant have cats. And they are the substitute of people, like my daily dose of activity :)

@melissasims7720

3 жыл бұрын

Dogs' clinginess stresses me out so yes. I love cats.

@PBI45

3 жыл бұрын

No, dogs are very much my coping mechanism over cats. Cats never want anything to do with me, and never seen to _care_ about me, but my doggo always loves me

@clovercaledwych6131

3 жыл бұрын

Yes totally agree! I love animals including dogs but I have a special affinity for cats. When I spend a day “humaning” at work I look forward to returning home to my books and my cat.

Im literally watching this while in the bathroom during family dinner

@code5829

3 жыл бұрын

That’s the spot chief

@tonyping2262

3 жыл бұрын

Nice one 😁😁😁

@amymikola

3 жыл бұрын

been there ;)

@leeroyjenkins8448

3 жыл бұрын

Duude Same

@Dreso87

3 жыл бұрын

Olá duda

Spot on! And funny! Ty! ❤

Appreciate this. Wasn't always this way, but I know better now.

Imagine going to school for 7 hours, and when you get home your parents go "why don't you ever hang out with us?" I just want to sit down, drink my tea, and read in silence. But nOoOo.

@exoticpash8823

3 жыл бұрын

feel ya bro

@EverythingTechTime

3 жыл бұрын

And do 5 hours of homework fml

@dwightschrute4506

3 жыл бұрын

yOu sHouLd sMiLe mOrE

@coolcatsrthebest4056

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh

@alicia1636

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssssss

“I don’t need friends, they disappoint me.” - From my long lost sister.

@-csotanypure-5106

3 жыл бұрын

Isn't that a Brandon Rogers quote? 😅

@maggis0

3 жыл бұрын

'If you expect nothing from somebody, you are never disappointed' - Sylvia Plath

@voiceofdistortedreason5998

3 жыл бұрын

Truth.

@maggis0

3 жыл бұрын

@@outrider8569 : 'optimism with a twist'- I like it:) I just call it stoicism perhaps - why would I root my well being in someone else? Well, I'm not a robot, so unfortunately I do get upset with humans at times, but then I tell myself: there is no logic in human behaviour, so don't be disappointed. What did you expect?

@sunnysal3889

3 жыл бұрын

An optimist is never pleasantly surprised.

People think introverts are like some kind of shy recluse....we can SEEM that way, but really we are just more discerning about who we choose to be with.

A bunch of introverts shoved together in a group project without any extrovert is heaven... the work also turns out great

@goreandhoodies3626

3 жыл бұрын

Yes because we will just figure out what we are going to do and then work on it no talking besides like if 2 of them know each other or something lol

@Minamee9

3 жыл бұрын

This never happened to me :(

@sianais

3 жыл бұрын

I got lucky like that once. Only two emails shared between us, one to divide the roles and the last with the completed project. No facebook, whatsapp, phone number, skype, etc. needed.

@geensjc

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yes !!!!!!!

@forest3245

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!

You call it pessimistic, I call it “which route will help me avoid the most amount of people for the longest periods of time”

@feathersextrafluffy4979

3 жыл бұрын

@Jessica c Uhmm, he’ll have to fork (think) over it to come up with more knife-sharp responses... And dish it out later. And, I am out of cutlery puns... I’ll have to mug over it again:)

@feathersextrafluffy4979

3 жыл бұрын

@Jessica c Wow, it’s pan-tastic! Now, let me ground for another round, and I will boil and toil and prepare the ultimate recipe for trouble! Such high steaks! Now, can you take the heat or will your turkey turn cold? Come at me, it’s a pun-war! (Anyway, it’s starting to turn in a rap/pun-battle, olive your response, it’s now my pepperoni (favorite;))

@feathersextrafluffy4979

3 жыл бұрын

@Jessica c Oh, don't annoy the chef cook 'Cause we won't play by the book. Now, you do pack some heat And I've got to con-seed You've got a few (really) good beets Now, lett'uce proceed. Oh, i will fry you some more eggs, Sunny side up! Then knock you down some pegs, Now, buckle up buttercup! Look around, this is my playground! I will serve everyone their just desserts And apply salt to your wound, To keep you on high alert. Wanting more, do you want me to spice things up? Add some more Italian seasoning and basilic. Then pepper, dried oregano and some garlic, So, sugar, I gave you a heads-up only to later blow you up, Under the pressure cooker. I will leave to you the cleanup. These puns are my bread, Water and whipped cream, This is just so supreme! I will thread, Then cut your dough, Leave you to separate the wheat from the chaff, Then oil things through, 'Til you come back for another combo! Now, do you have some more reserve? 'Cause this was just some hors-d'oeuvre, Are you ready for the main meal? Afraid that I took this ship's cheese wheel? Who's your number one now?

@robgoodsight6216

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣👍👍👍

Regardless of how you are - If you are outgoing or reserved or can do both, if people choose to reject you for being yourself and you are not otherwise doing anything legitimately harmful or bad, then, that is their loss. Continue to be honest, kind, respectful, and yourself - regardless of their choices. If they do decide to talk to you, try to work with them and hopefully they’ll try to do the same.

#7, needing time to process things. So true! I never recognized that as an introvert thing, but you're right! One reason I like to work on my own is that I can take my time making a decision.

Even my birthday scares me because people get to talk to me alot and I'm the center of attention for the whole day😩

@classichorrorenthusiast

2 жыл бұрын

𝙨𝙖𝙢𝙚 it's just being uncomfortable the whole day

@SamuelLobo01230

2 жыл бұрын

Because of this I did not celebrate my birthday for 3 years straight

@SamuelLobo01230

2 жыл бұрын

And I hate when someone calls instead of texting who agrees with me

@salinspook3642

2 жыл бұрын

There's one time I got angry during my birthday cause they put up a party. Is that bad?

@leah8894

2 жыл бұрын

It’s just an entirely awkward day. I’ll just take the food and gifts and leave thanks.

Introvert kids who get no alone time during this quarantine, you're not alone. Wait...

@Hitherto90

3 жыл бұрын

Technically you're right. No paradox here.

@heyyyyooooo7777

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@breenween093

3 жыл бұрын

wait-

@tonyping2262

3 жыл бұрын

That was bloody gold l!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@-r-3656

3 жыл бұрын

@@tonyping2262 Thank you. I’ll be here all week.

Well done!

Yep, I'm an introvert all right. Well done. You hit all the spots!

Is it weird that this quarantine has the most comfortable phase of my life?

@notperfectbutstillbeautifu2077

3 жыл бұрын

Oh you're so lucky.. i'm glad to hear that. 😊 It should have been like that to me.. but i have to live with my extrovert relatives who always seek for any form of engagement with people around (including me), have to deal with video calls cause we can't meet in person (offline).. Video calls specially the one in group (involve more than 3people) really overwhelm me. My room used to be my private space to be alone, my comfort zone, but not anymore right now. I still need to adapt thou.

@shubhankarghoshalroy3605

3 жыл бұрын

@@notperfectbutstillbeautifu2077 Oh, I'm sorry to hear. I hope things will get better.

@notperfectbutstillbeautifu2077

3 жыл бұрын

@@shubhankarghoshalroy3605 Thankyou. 💜 I think time will make it better i guess. For right now i only lock my room whenever i need to be alone. I let people at home know that i need to be alone in my own space to recharge. 😁 Self care is really essentials in this challenging condition. 😅

@shubhankarghoshalroy3605

3 жыл бұрын

@@notperfectbutstillbeautifu2077 You worded it perfectly. I guess we introverts are not too keen on camaraderie.

@prairiehorse6168

3 жыл бұрын

No. I feel guilty telling people that this has been a good year for me. I have hardly left my home. I love not having to make the dreaded small talk at work or social situations.

Me: My family got invited to a party including me My Family: Gets ready excitedly Also me: Can I just stay at home?

@thebigbangtheory6001

3 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I say

@asherfekadu799

3 жыл бұрын

that is sooo me

@divinedarkfemininetarotbyt3457

3 жыл бұрын

Literally me now lol

@dipeshshrestha2564

3 жыл бұрын

@@thebigbangtheory6001 i dont even go to parties no matter how much my family force me

@thebigbangtheory6001

3 жыл бұрын

@@dipeshshrestha2564 me too even if they force way too much I just don't go l. I prepare my excuses one by one not to go

Thank you!

It’s so nice to be understood

"look who decided to leave their room" triggers my fight or flight response

@eb1779

3 жыл бұрын

Thought it was only me

@apentafanta4874

3 жыл бұрын

*immidiately goes back and locks the door*

@dmeszter9212

3 жыл бұрын

My response: Heh. You thought!

@leonidas79

3 жыл бұрын

That's is almost everyday and is fucking annoying to hear. Like, I leave my room, but is not my responsability to report to you that I left my room.

@Philosgamestation

3 жыл бұрын

I literally would not leave my room if the internet connection was good there

Imagine needing to talk to people to survive couldn't imagine

@ethan-nerdva69

3 жыл бұрын

My gf is more extroverted than me,she wants to talk to me constantly,I just sometimes need a break,but that would seem like an asshole move

@ednaoriakhi-crocker8487

3 жыл бұрын

i only really need to talk with my family to survive since I've been going through some hard times ._.

@personaltub7199

3 жыл бұрын

It's strange; I feel lonely a lot of the times, but still dread social interaction. It's more so that I want to feel like I am somebody to someone, than actually want to hang out with anyone. A bad cycle to get stuck in- feeling lonely but never feeling like doing anything about it

@topi9817

3 жыл бұрын

I'd have nothing to talk about even to my friends...

@smthinthisuniverse

3 жыл бұрын

I would die first

Nailed it 👌

Just found this. Excellent video. Books: helping introverts since the 1500s

I am not an introvert please I have lots of friends...(imaginary) I talk a lot...(with myself) I take part in lot of activities... (Like overthinking) I even have a best friend...(my dog)

@EzeDaGreat03

2 жыл бұрын

lol same

@jabulilemondlane9992

2 жыл бұрын

So me

@amirsaleem2703

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah the same but don't have a best friend

@shrii09

2 жыл бұрын

Same bro just the only thing I don't have is a dog and I'm also a single child...🙂🙃

@hikigaya7790

2 жыл бұрын

now that was a lot of damage

as an introvert, i hate people who say that they're introverted just because they think its 'cute' damn 124 likes, your girl is famous 904 likes now lol

@ScottishDwarf

3 жыл бұрын

Wait, such thing exist?😂

@Minamee9

3 жыл бұрын

And they are usually the one who talks the most.

@FrybitsThe5th

3 жыл бұрын

Ah, yes.....it happens every time....

@kunaihanaki2914

3 жыл бұрын

Chriael Samuil Yup :) They do it for the hype. There's a lot of stereotypes of introverts out - we're so mysterious etc... Many people romanticize introverts too. It's bothersome.

@ScottishDwarf

3 жыл бұрын

Kunai Hanaki I don’t even know if I should be happy or not to be an introvert. I mean, it feels like a blessing and a curse at the same time

Beloved child, I see the pain and the hurt that you carry within your heart. I see the tears that you have shed, and I am moved with compassion for you. I want to heal your broken heart and to bind up all your wounds. I want to restore the joy of your salvation and to give you a garment of praise, instead of a spirit of despair. I want to comfort you and bring you peace in the midst of your storms. I understand the struggles and the challenges that you face in this life. I know the temptations and the trials that you endure. I will never leave you nor forsake you. I am your refuge and your strength, an ever-present help in times of trouble. I want you to know that I have great plans for your life. I want to use you to touch the lives of others, to bring healing and hope to the brokenhearted, and to set the captives free. I want to use you to bring light into the darkness, and to be a beacon of hope to a lost and dying world. My child, I want you to know that My love for you is unconditional and unchanging. I want you to know that you are My beloved child, and that I delight in you. I want you to know that you are precious in My sight, and that you are more valuable to Me than the finest gold and the most precious jewels... I want you to know that I rejoice over you with singing. I want you to know that I am always with you, and that I will never leave you nor forsake you. I want you to know that I am your constant companion, and that I will guide you and direct your steps. I want you to know that I will give you the wisdom and the understanding that you need to navigate the challenges of this life. I want you to know that I am the God of all comfort, and that I will comfort you in all your troubles. I want you to know that I am the God who heals you, who binds up your wounds, and who sets you free from the bondage of sin and its consequences. I want you to know that I am the God who restores you when you have gone astray, and who brings you back into the fold of My love. I want you to know that I am the God who gives you the desires of your heart when they are in alignment with My will and My purposes. I want you to know that I am the God who blesses you abundantly, and that I am a God of more than enough. My child, I want you to trust in Me with all your heart, and to lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Me, and I will make your paths straight. I will guide you with My eye, and I will lead you to the place I have prepared for you... I will never leave you nor forsake you. With all My love, God.

Excellent video thanks 😊

Quarantine was one of the best times of my adult life for this introvert. I was so relaxed yet productive and had fun by myself ☺️

@Kayenne54

2 жыл бұрын

And not ONE PERSON criticized you for sticking to the house, or your own room. the FREEDOM!!!!

@clairewilliams9416

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kayenne54 Yes, this. Pre pandemic Monday morning at work always started with what did you do at the weekend? and me ending up feeling like I needed to justify staying home. In lockdown I actually felt free to be me.

@bledsoe2006

2 жыл бұрын

Introverts were probably the only people who actually thrived in the workplace... for a year... then back to boredom and exhaustion in the office

@dottjohnson2232

2 жыл бұрын

It was the best year of my life!!

@daisychain3007

2 жыл бұрын

@@bledsoe2006 They actually thrived on being alone at home.

hear me out, some introverts would prefer a 3 way conversation, so the other 2 can lead and i can just like... listen...

@empo3094

3 жыл бұрын

YES

@gandalf8454

3 жыл бұрын

I was just about to comment about that. I like one on one conversation too but in the 2 or 3 person convos, you can just relax and listen. Takes less energy too.

@LinniC93

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! A one-on-one conversation puts more pressure on me to keep the conversation going 😬

@loverofbeautifulthings

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, yes, that third person is a lifesaver! And then I just get to interject a funny comment every once in awhile without having to do all the work of thinking up conversation topics. (ISTJ)

@lindahamm1940

3 жыл бұрын

YES, YES, YES

You just described me. I love being by myself, working alone, and I can’t even mentally handle Sunday school class an hour. I rarely talk. I like fun, but by myself or with one friend.

My sister is an extrovert while I'm an introvert. She's so pissed about lockdown that she decided to leave our country, while I'm happily cuddling with my cats barely noticing any difference because I've been living the quarantine lifestyle for most of my life 😂

@keretaman

3 жыл бұрын

So where did she fly to??

@-zogekusari-3264

3 жыл бұрын

My social anxiety be like: finally a reason to not leave!

@exoticpash8823

3 жыл бұрын

wow lol >

@zataha3

3 жыл бұрын

Cat life

@reicherreinhardtvonkesslri9847

3 жыл бұрын

I was going to say something but then I realized that I was going to be accused of fetishizing an Asian woman's comment, so I won't.

Being an introvert, I actually enjoy conversations when there's more.than two people, because then I don't have to make the effort of trying avoid awkward silences or trying.to come up with topics.

@coreyminotaur4218

3 жыл бұрын

It’s been a long time since I’ve had long conversations with a person. But I’ve recently started talking to a someone. It’s fun talking to with them but the long awkward silence makes me think I’m doing something wrong, even though it doesn’t bother the person I’m talking too. Even though we barely know each other, I’ve told her what my personality is like. So maybe it’s her being nice and knowing I’m new to long personal conversations.

@caronmiles4514

3 жыл бұрын

I felt that to the hurt

@djantouahmed7319

3 жыл бұрын

Well the secret when it is two of us is that I look the person in the eye and agree with what he/she says with a fake smile that I practiced that makes the person talk more and I don't have too( downside a girl taught I was flirting with her because of that) so I adopted a new strategy I pretend to be sick and have headache

@yeetasaurusyeet6234

3 жыл бұрын

I like to watch others conversate

@MrFurley69

3 жыл бұрын

Yea, less pressure when other people are involved

Love guitar in the background

I'm both. I really enjoy social interaction and commit to it. Also I can, and have been, several weeks alone. It's also wonderful. Learning from each moment is what keeps me happy. Nobody can really bring me down as understanding the mean people's motives helps me tolerate it and also avoid the same mistakes. This counts also physical threats. Nobody lifts their fists at me because they sense that I care more about them than me getting hurt. I'm not saying this works for everyone but has worked wonderfully for me.

@agentorange153

6 ай бұрын

As far as dealing with physical threats, having a black belt in karate and being a very good shot with a semi-auto pistol (and always carrying, legally or otherwise, if I find myself having to go to or through a dangerous area) definitely helps as far as I'm concerned!

@yourmajesty3569

4 ай бұрын

You are an ambivert

Imagine growing up in a culture where everyone thinks something is wrong with you for being an introvert. Thats my life and i still get questions about why am i the way i am as an adult. I'm just learning to accept that they just have nothing else to say.

@randomname9291

2 жыл бұрын

Happens to most of us

@adyan4010

2 жыл бұрын

@@randomname9291 I think at one point, it has happened to ALL INTROVERTS. Not most.

@tromedl

2 жыл бұрын

Move to Finland. It is more normal here.

@adyan4010

2 жыл бұрын

@@tromedl oh Id definitely would like to settle there if only I had money

@kanevivi

2 жыл бұрын

I grew up with only one maybe two friends mosty life. My "friend group" is mostly their friends, or a person and their husband or wife. At most their kids. Families I avoid. My own we all agree we barely have stuff to talk on get the greetings and basic stuff out the way then leave.

Spot on.

Thank you. I guess I have always been an introvert who acted like an extrovert. Your video is extremely helpful! ❤

I don't mind being alone for long periods of time. I actually enjoy it! But of course I miss hanging out with friends. 💕

@DiamanteDea

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@misterblue3514

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Today I've actualy reached the point when I want to go to school. Like physicaly. Not for long. But I do.

@francisbacon4363

3 жыл бұрын

I never miss my friend, I find myself to be tiring and draining enough to not want my friend

@renabarbie7886

3 жыл бұрын

Same I'm not a complete introvert. I'm an ambivert

@rossittanotere6258

3 жыл бұрын

Totally same here. I can actually make my self happy just by imagining things or just doing nothing.

Human interaction is like going to Disney World, you have to do it one every few years to remind yourself why you don’t do it.

@faifto6626

3 жыл бұрын

i will quote this till the day i die

@tonyping2262

3 жыл бұрын

Oof* Ouch🤣😆

As an introvert myself I can say that these 10 points nail it very well, or at least me, very well. I have always wished I could be more assertive, more social, more talkative, but this overview confirms that I’m not going to really be any of these things, at least not in the long run. What I want for myself, is to become more comfortable with how I am, and to work with that in my dealings with others. Great video. Thank you.