If You're an Introvert - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

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  • @ale-hh6jj
    @ale-hh6jj4 жыл бұрын

    Introverts report card be like: She/he is a smart student but needs to participate more in class.

  • @Marathon0103

    @Marathon0103

    4 жыл бұрын

    this is so relatable.

  • @thegamebaar8994

    @thegamebaar8994

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yas.. totally relatable

  • @nash16ak

    @nash16ak

    4 жыл бұрын

    Relatable

  • @mr.bobgray3743

    @mr.bobgray3743

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's not like I didn't participate its just I don't know what to do

  • @barathis7597

    @barathis7597

    4 жыл бұрын

    Relatable AF

  • @myrically
    @myrically4 жыл бұрын

    *"You don’t need to be loud to have great ideas."* Susan Cain

  • @djbaro3047

    @djbaro3047

    4 жыл бұрын

    "AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH" Jacksepticeye

  • @debojitbhattacharya4093

    @debojitbhattacharya4093

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@djbaro3047 ding ding ding top of morning

  • @danurkresnamurti3598

    @danurkresnamurti3598

    4 жыл бұрын

    yeah

  • @justarandomperson7798

    @justarandomperson7798

    4 жыл бұрын

    You just quoted a quote

  • @myrically

    @myrically

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@justarandomperson7798 I love doing that

  • @tamannah21
    @tamannah21 Жыл бұрын

    Sitting alone is better than surrounded by fake people 👏

  • @sanjiv2294

    @sanjiv2294

    Жыл бұрын

    True 🥺

  • @Shubham0435

    @Shubham0435

    Жыл бұрын

    agreed🙌

  • @Mustafa-qq5hg

    @Mustafa-qq5hg

    Жыл бұрын

    These lines literally hit to my heart man you're a legend

  • @tamannah21

    @tamannah21

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Mustafa-qq5hg thanks 👍

  • @coke8321

    @coke8321

    Жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @SMP091
    @SMP091 Жыл бұрын

    Being an introvert at workplace is hell, no matter how good you’re you’ll always feel left out coz you’re not the chatty one

  • @iqrabhat645

    @iqrabhat645

    Жыл бұрын

    Same happening to me in university 😭 I feel like I don't fit into other people Edit: I made two best friends are they are the best people of my life. And with other people, they are the ones who start conversation with me. Sometimes you just have to make a little move and everything starts moving towards you

  • @gowtham6822

    @gowtham6822

    Жыл бұрын

    we introverts lives in our heads so we do not have the necessary energy to chat with others.

  • @your_nightmar3

    @your_nightmar3

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah yeah

  • @katherineentoma7429

    @katherineentoma7429

    Жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭me

  • @justmagaji

    @justmagaji

    Жыл бұрын

    @@iqrabhat645 same Here at College

  • @wohnie39
    @wohnie394 жыл бұрын

    One of the worst situations for an introvert is when you have to do a group activity with people you don't know.

  • @khatlynkhat696

    @khatlynkhat696

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, cuz we have trust issues 😂

  • @cathuwu6494

    @cathuwu6494

    4 жыл бұрын

    Group projects is my worst nightmare 😅😂😂

  • @Veeolet-Luv

    @Veeolet-Luv

    4 жыл бұрын

    omg I feel this ahahah

  • @annemaingi6839

    @annemaingi6839

    4 жыл бұрын

    Actually with people cooler than u and on top of that you have to do presentations

  • @overridezone973

    @overridezone973

    4 жыл бұрын

    copyright Free to use song???

  • @rainman2267
    @rainman22674 жыл бұрын

    When you are being asked to introduce yourself in front of the class : me: Ah shit, here we go again

  • @minasbaeischaefightme8603

    @minasbaeischaefightme8603

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is why I hate first day of school

  • @sagarock1012

    @sagarock1012

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hated it

  • @hendranivas3270

    @hendranivas3270

    4 жыл бұрын

    if anyone want a introvert frnd then join this group chat.whatsapp.com/HvIn0lYHFc8JkfjoFM5m1o

  • @0lucid567

    @0lucid567

    4 жыл бұрын

    Teacher: Introduce youself Me: -I exist, live, and breathe oxygen- Teacher: Class:

  • @snazzyrich2536

    @snazzyrich2536

    4 жыл бұрын

    Facts😂

  • @tamannah21
    @tamannah21 Жыл бұрын

    You may think I'm small, but I have a universe inside my mind."

  • @vishnujayan1365

    @vishnujayan1365

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @chirag_soni

    @chirag_soni

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @juliaa1617

    @juliaa1617

    Жыл бұрын

    So true ❤

  • @gigabolt6612

    @gigabolt6612

    Жыл бұрын

    100 percentage true

  • @thejourneygaming6219

    @thejourneygaming6219

    Жыл бұрын

    I am an introvert But as you can see I am in my way to success

  • @hibs_tan
    @hibs_tan Жыл бұрын

    "THE BIGGEST MISTAKE AN INTROVERT CAN MAKE IS TRY TO BE AN EXTROVERT" this line 💥

  • @rxgezfn2316

    @rxgezfn2316

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh

  • @kjjadeja3531

    @kjjadeja3531

    Жыл бұрын

    Am I the only one demotivate after this line ? 😔😔😔

  • @hibs_tan

    @hibs_tan

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kjjadeja3531 oh why? Are you an introvert who is currently trying to be an extravert ?

  • @kjjadeja3531

    @kjjadeja3531

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hibs_tan yeah can i be 😶

  • @59strawberries

    @59strawberries

    Жыл бұрын

    lol that's weird cuz i did 💀

  • @LeviAckerman-vy2oz
    @LeviAckerman-vy2oz3 жыл бұрын

    Extrovert: Quarantined is hell Introvert: *Finally, it's heaven*

  • @akilaakhila5604

    @akilaakhila5604

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yasssssss🖤Introverts just enjoy themselves and Never care about others

  • @sadjklf

    @sadjklf

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@akilaakhila5604 thats not true. I care about others.

  • @akilaakhila5604

    @akilaakhila5604

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sadjklfthere maybe different types of Introverts . I just say what I feel✌️

  • @prarthana3775

    @prarthana3775

    3 жыл бұрын

    Actually 😂😂😂👏👏👍👍

  • @sahar7340

    @sahar7340

    3 жыл бұрын

    True...

  • @androidtv5455
    @androidtv54554 жыл бұрын

    I’m an introvert and would never bring a book to party.

  • @Yu-ve3ds

    @Yu-ve3ds

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'd say it depends on the book 🤷‍♀️

  • @enematwatson1357

    @enematwatson1357

    4 жыл бұрын

    I never bring my book to a party. I just find the bookcase and pick one from there. 😅

  • @xxxod

    @xxxod

    4 жыл бұрын

    As an introvert I'd have to convince myself it'd be worth showing up to the party first.

  • @the_queenren

    @the_queenren

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't go to the party

  • @UhgeneIgnorian

    @UhgeneIgnorian

    4 жыл бұрын

    Unless it's a book on how to be an extrovert.

  • @pujahalder3492
    @pujahalder34928 ай бұрын

    Introvert can actually very social. Just with the right people ♥

  • @thiagogs2524

    @thiagogs2524

    5 ай бұрын

    I guess u meant being talkative. Speaking for myself, I guess that's not essentially a trait that doesn't occur with introverts, it's just that we can have as much fun when we're alone as when accompanied. But we're like this mostly when in a one on one conversation (as said in the video).

  • @Jablinskirap69

    @Jablinskirap69

    4 ай бұрын

    @@thiagogs2524I’m An Introvert and I talk a lot with the people I feel comfortable with

  • @sakshamvasishth2805
    @sakshamvasishth2805 Жыл бұрын

    only introverts can understand the power of silence

  • @debanikgoswami4834

    @debanikgoswami4834

    Жыл бұрын

    Friends think why I am not partying and enjoying life🙃.

  • @Linogiven-O

    @Linogiven-O

    10 ай бұрын

    Introverts are powerful

  • @sankaranarayanan8722
    @sankaranarayanan87224 жыл бұрын

    Basically I'm an introvert. But when I get true loving friends, I become an extrovert. Anyone like this?

  • @Africankingson

    @Africankingson

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly me

  • @MelissaBou

    @MelissaBou

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sankara Narayanan yes!

  • @10_Percent_Better

    @10_Percent_Better

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mee 😂😂🤚🤚

  • @parkjunseoelse8629

    @parkjunseoelse8629

    4 жыл бұрын

    Totally me hah

  • @mrdevanair

    @mrdevanair

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @pranoyprakash7066
    @pranoyprakash70664 жыл бұрын

    When you’re both shy and introverted people take you as arrogant

  • @jabiraziz1219

    @jabiraziz1219

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @lori4021

    @lori4021

    4 жыл бұрын

    True.

  • @nicherizu

    @nicherizu

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its soo truee

  • @stanfatou2002

    @stanfatou2002

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeahh

  • @cookiecrumbles9062

    @cookiecrumbles9062

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg, finally someone who understands!!

  • @jennieee3611
    @jennieee3611 Жыл бұрын

    Being an introvert doesn't mean that they are always sad or feeling lonely. We are so comfortable with ourselves ♥

  • @pedroborges5936

    @pedroborges5936

    Жыл бұрын

    Usually only after a certain point in life when we see things from another angle

  • @Strength_In_Wisdom

    @Strength_In_Wisdom

    Жыл бұрын

    Man i seen life mostly for what it is. (Hopefully) sometimes it's funny that whatever job I'm at I'm teased in earshot about how quiet I am. But majority of the time just uncomfortable with being watched all shift because I'm quiet.

  • @BrickBusterVideo647

    @BrickBusterVideo647

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah there’s a difference to being alone and being lonely, being alone is to not be around people, being lonely is not being around people and to wish you were around people.

  • @jacquelineroberts1133

    @jacquelineroberts1133

    Ай бұрын

    Yup. :)

  • @ARMBLINK2011

    @ARMBLINK2011

    26 күн бұрын

    Yes absolutely but the society is not comfortable with us so they ask many questions that why we were so quiet 🤫

  • @JCicada-wf3rc
    @JCicada-wf3rc Жыл бұрын

    When two introverts became friend its is amazing

  • @nipun555

    @nipun555

    5 ай бұрын

    Yeah searching for someone like that, but looks like on real society introverts don't exist at all 🤔

  • @potatosupremscu

    @potatosupremscu

    3 ай бұрын

    me and my friend 🥲

  • @chhotabhai363
    @chhotabhai3634 жыл бұрын

    Saying an introvert to speak up is as rude as to say an extrovert shut up.

  • @airosmithredila4725

    @airosmithredila4725

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow.

  • @rag9021

    @rag9021

    4 жыл бұрын

    Let me break this.

  • @martiembry852

    @martiembry852

    4 жыл бұрын

    chhota bhai 😂😂

  • @Andreitolca1

    @Andreitolca1

    4 жыл бұрын

    It is as rude as saying to a banana stop being a fruit.

  • @gardenfalls

    @gardenfalls

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I would get mad with both things, if someone would say that to me. I’m an introvert, I used to get in “fights” very often, just by doing nothing, so it’s really weird. When I speak and say something they tell me to shut up, when I don’t they ask me why I don’t talk.

  • @aropanguik4113
    @aropanguik41134 жыл бұрын

    *I’m an introvert, I wouldn’t even consider being at the party.*

  • @Veeolet-Luv

    @Veeolet-Luv

    4 жыл бұрын

    yep last party I went, I was chillimg with his cat 😂😂😂 while they're blasting music having fun

  • @ayushmansharma1899

    @ayushmansharma1899

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep... But then i have my parents who are like... "You have to go there, you are lucky that we allow you to go to friends parties or other events unlike other parents"

  • @Valentina-qp3mf

    @Valentina-qp3mf

    4 жыл бұрын

    I probabbly would but the think is that I am not invited.

  • @deadpatisa

    @deadpatisa

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was introvert at the start of party but then at the last everyone was my friend :)) sometimes you need to speak up

  • @Slime-pt6jp

    @Slime-pt6jp

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes my parents force me to go to a party. I rather lock myself in my room tbh

  • @reaganmonk
    @reaganmonk Жыл бұрын

    Saying Introverts are so quiet and need to talk more to their face, is just as rude as telling an Extrovert to shut up. I love this video.

  • @kevinzhang6623

    @kevinzhang6623

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah. The rules of society aren't about being just. That's the reality I've realized. They set the rules and exceptions that they want to.

  • @agentorange153

    @agentorange153

    5 ай бұрын

    @@kevinzhang6623 So make your own rules for yourself, and tell society to take its rules and shove it!

  • @alizekc231
    @alizekc231 Жыл бұрын

    I am 20 years old and I am an introvert. Growing up, I was really a shy guy. I used to think myself as an introvert when I was shy and sometimes try to pretend like an extrovert which was hard. These past couple of years, I have been trying to be aware of myself. All the things you have mentioned is true and I have experienced most of them. I have realized that it is very important to express our feelings and communicate whenever needed, no matter of our personality. Thank you, you have been really educating us.

  • @T-2-V

    @T-2-V

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree! I have done that too. Pretending like an extrovert is really hard when we are not actually..

  • @tamilarasans06

    @tamilarasans06

    Жыл бұрын

    I too 20 years introvert 😃

  • @abubakarshaikh1915

    @abubakarshaikh1915

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes I totally agree with you 💯💯💯💯

  • @ilaurx6621
    @ilaurx66213 жыл бұрын

    What I hate about being an introvert, is that everyone would think that I’m sad or really lonely. But in reality I just wanna stay away from people and actually have a moment to be by myself.

  • @justthinkaboutit.1099

    @justthinkaboutit.1099

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same bro ify

  • @lujein1011

    @lujein1011

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @ioanaberbece8137

    @ioanaberbece8137

    2 жыл бұрын

    My mom asks me if something is wrong at least 3-4 times a day. And then she gets upset when I get mad....

  • @anilthakor2329

    @anilthakor2329

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly bruh👊👊

  • @Sebowsky_

    @Sebowsky_

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ioanaberbece8137 Yeah it's kinda annoying how people instantly assume that you're depressed or something if you're alone instead of socializing all the time

  • @rasha1d624
    @rasha1d6244 жыл бұрын

    "Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured" I wish more people understand that😪

  • @deannahenry8925

    @deannahenry8925

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too.

  • @NoName-ze4qn

    @NoName-ze4qn

    4 жыл бұрын

    But studies show that extroversion correlates with happiness and healthy self-image

  • @saliormoon5534

    @saliormoon5534

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @tomharrington4532

    @tomharrington4532

    4 жыл бұрын

    No Name What a load of bullocks. I bet I’m more happy than most extroverts.

  • @HawkinaBox

    @HawkinaBox

    4 жыл бұрын

    No one can cure me

  • @kimsimin525
    @kimsimin525 Жыл бұрын

    As an introvert, I have to deal with many difficulties on a daily basis. The worst of them are when someone forces me to talk

  • @agnosticatheist7699

    @agnosticatheist7699

    Жыл бұрын

    Now you realised what intriversin is

  • @aebek1413

    @aebek1413

    11 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @agentorange153

    @agentorange153

    5 ай бұрын

    Wait, how can anyone FORCE you to talk against your will???

  • @kionkasoka4964
    @kionkasoka4964 Жыл бұрын

    I love how for most or perhaps even all of us introverts is that as soon as we find someone in the group that's also introverted or even more introverted than you are we will immediately pull ourselves together to include them more and be kind because we know exactly how it feels to be left out or misunderstood. We got each others backs 💯

  • @diminiegohomeyouredrunk545
    @diminiegohomeyouredrunk5454 жыл бұрын

    I’m an introvert and I would never bring a book to a party I wouldn’t go to party

  • @chandrikakc4399

    @chandrikakc4399

    4 жыл бұрын

    i would not go to the party 😉😂😂

  • @CR35C3ND0

    @CR35C3ND0

    4 жыл бұрын

    They wouldn't even know i exist

  • @bribri2925

    @bribri2925

    3 жыл бұрын

    I went to one (it was supposed to be a tame birthday party...yeah, no) and played candy crush in the chair in the corner. Never going to another ‘birthday’ again

  • @safakhawar7032

    @safakhawar7032

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’d never be invited... haha.. ha.huh

  • @Vulkanzed-117

    @Vulkanzed-117

    3 жыл бұрын

    I would be at home 😂😂

  • @dmeszter9212
    @dmeszter92123 жыл бұрын

    Introverts love to work alone, but that doesn’t mean we can’t work in groups.

  • @empathicvibes5716

    @empathicvibes5716

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is a good distinction to make.

  • @wayne6931

    @wayne6931

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can work with a group but it's very mentally draining. I prefer working alone.

  • @yooseul__

    @yooseul__

    3 жыл бұрын

    i only like to work in a group if it’s with friends or people i know other that groups make me very uncomfortable-

  • @smiles843

    @smiles843

    3 жыл бұрын

    True, but when it comes to working in groups it’s going to be like our *last option*

  • @JohnSmithAnythingChannel

    @JohnSmithAnythingChannel

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right, but I still never have liked group work when it came to school. Ya know, such as "stations" in English.

  • @vinayaktiwari1153
    @vinayaktiwari1153 Жыл бұрын

    being introvert is an art ❤❤

  • @saurabhpratap1101

    @saurabhpratap1101

    Жыл бұрын

    It's natural .

  • @Berry-lz2xe
    @Berry-lz2xe5 ай бұрын

    It's really funny how my teacher said that "she's introvert, she's quiet, she doesn't speak often, she has to be an extrovert" Like now I feel so relieved that a video like this existed to give me such an important lesson! Thank you so much!! Btw HAPPY NEW YEAR;)

  • @broccoli9
    @broccoli93 жыл бұрын

    Every introvert was once or more than once called "shy and timid" by teachers and relatives.

  • @shadowguy7991

    @shadowguy7991

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @user-hu1ey3xb7j

    @user-hu1ey3xb7j

    2 жыл бұрын

    Many times

  • @thisannoyinggirlrightthere9359

    @thisannoyinggirlrightthere9359

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm literally the ghost in my class, every teacher write that i'm really discreet, shy...

  • @hlua7475

    @hlua7475

    2 жыл бұрын

    I often get called the quite king in my class

  • @aashi2271

    @aashi2271

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @Kevin-be9iy
    @Kevin-be9iy4 жыл бұрын

    why does modern society still think bullying is “haha loser”

  • @phuckeury7183

    @phuckeury7183

    4 жыл бұрын

    I got sodomized once

  • @acorn9992

    @acorn9992

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ikr

  • @DaxXXX17

    @DaxXXX17

    4 жыл бұрын

    I cringed at that part

  • @lucyfied

    @lucyfied

    4 жыл бұрын

    Vanish a lot of people are taking the mick out of everything I show interest in. And I mean everything. Any tiny thing. They laugh and mess around and tease and take the mick out of everything. They do it every day and I don’t know if they think it doesn’t bother me or not but it’s getting to the point that I don’t want to go into school. I can’t tell if this is bullying or not but I don’t think it is. We’re all kids. They’re just messing around. That’s what I’m telling myself Also I don’t know why I just put this in here I apologise

  • @Kevin-be9iy

    @Kevin-be9iy

    4 жыл бұрын

    LucyTheEvilFox you need someone to talk to? i hope you can look past the things they say to you and if you wanna be a little more specific i can help you. sorry if my comment offended you

  • @kweencore
    @kweencore Жыл бұрын

    I literally teared up 😭💞 this is relatable af- people just give us a "quiet one" or "not so cool one" tag and they think it's funny it actually hurts a lot. To all the introverts, be who you are and don't let the words to people stop you ✨ 💛

  • @ChrisMartin-zt4fh
    @ChrisMartin-zt4fh8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this episode from the bottom of my soul. I feel inward love and affection for myself and I know that being an introvert is beautiful.

  • @prathameshbanda2351
    @prathameshbanda23513 жыл бұрын

    Introvert things: i personally hate short talks. random idiot: hey , how are u? me: fine. *now what?*

  • @nellville

    @nellville

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr

  • @Faiz133

    @Faiz133

    3 жыл бұрын

    Relatable

  • @Noid11111

    @Noid11111

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @know973

    @know973

    3 жыл бұрын

    Surface talk....the worse

  • @flowee8330

    @flowee8330

    3 жыл бұрын

    i guess i'm that one idiot that always do the short talks to keep up the conversation

  • @myrically
    @myrically4 жыл бұрын

    *“Don’t think of introversion as something that needs to be cured."* Susan Cain

  • @cookiedove659

    @cookiedove659

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Top Most No they even can be artists. Skill like sketching etc can only be learned in quite and lonely places.

  • @SomeGuy-sf7bc

    @SomeGuy-sf7bc

    4 жыл бұрын

    myrically yeah I also watched 2 minutes into the video

  • @myrically

    @myrically

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@SomeGuy-sf7bc I just wrote the quote down for you, so you'll never forget 😉

  • @Devsam48

    @Devsam48

    4 жыл бұрын

    I m an introvert then

  • @touchme4066

    @touchme4066

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Top Most Stop quoting me! "PewDiePie"

  • @Srinjoy20
    @Srinjoy20 Жыл бұрын

    Being an introvert is far better than trying to rub elbows with everybody against your will

  • @SELECTEDLEGEND
    @SELECTEDLEGEND Жыл бұрын

    As an introvert i get depressed many times but this video gives me chill, thank you💛

  • @leratomabusela7468
    @leratomabusela74682 жыл бұрын

    "Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured". I love this

  • @seregasuperman254

    @seregasuperman254

    Жыл бұрын

    But whole world thinks different. And I don't "love this". Society so far needs to understand introversion. When you have a job interview you need to be an extravert e.t.c. We are not understood. And I oftenly fall into a trap of thinking that something is wrong with me.

  • @leratomabusela7468

    @leratomabusela7468

    Жыл бұрын

    @proper psychology thank you

  • @leratomabusela7468

    @leratomabusela7468

    Жыл бұрын

    @serega superman I grew up thinking something was wrong with me. The world isn't kind to us introverts

  • @seregasuperman254

    @seregasuperman254

    Жыл бұрын

    @@leratomabusela7468 yep

  • @tonyping3678

    @tonyping3678

    Жыл бұрын

    That was a relief to me

  • @oomaithamizhan3147
    @oomaithamizhan31473 жыл бұрын

    You know what introvert means: You can't start speaking with someone that you're not close to.. You can't stop talking with someone that you are close with.. Am I right ?

  • @triestangel6710

    @triestangel6710

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm totaly aggre with u

  • @spriggantwelve2551

    @spriggantwelve2551

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 👍

  • @sandasiranasinghe8773

    @sandasiranasinghe8773

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes thats true.One day i talked with a girl in my class and i realised im too much cause i kept talking and still when she see me she laughs at me istg

  • @lumbago9379

    @lumbago9379

    3 жыл бұрын

    yup

  • @Slime-pt6jp

    @Slime-pt6jp

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nope, I never speak unless people talk to me first. Idk about talking with friends tho since I don't have any

  • @user-hm1uq7rp4y
    @user-hm1uq7rp4y11 ай бұрын

    I'm actually an "outgoing introvert", which basically means i love interacting with people and making new friends, but at the end of the day social interaction will always drain me and i still prioritize alone time, and it's kind of hard for me to be social if i'm not already with a few close friends (for example, in a class where i have no friends i won't speak to anyone, but in one where i have a couple i'll be super chatty and outgoing)

  • @chirag_soni
    @chirag_soni Жыл бұрын

    I have seen 21 years of my life being and introvert, shy, staying away from people, not attending any parties. Hate parties. Hate gathering. Hate relatives . Hate to talk to anyone. Love being alone. But family and friends hate me because of this. Making fun of me.

  • @gowtham6822

    @gowtham6822

    Жыл бұрын

    21 years old?

  • @your_nightmar3

    @your_nightmar3

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah so true I agreee

  • @meetverma4812

    @meetverma4812

    Жыл бұрын

    Its alright mate we all are in the same boat 🗿

  • @chirag_soni

    @chirag_soni

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gowtham6822 almost

  • @gowtham6822

    @gowtham6822

    Жыл бұрын

    if you really love being alone you would not be shy.

  • @umchile4990
    @umchile49904 жыл бұрын

    Imagine being introvert, shy and have social anxiety. Let me tell you, it's a nightmare.

  • @marissadyah8529

    @marissadyah8529

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think i have those in me, but not sure

  • @chromatx01

    @chromatx01

    4 жыл бұрын

    True dude

  • @deannahenry8925

    @deannahenry8925

    4 жыл бұрын

    It really is.

  • @mhonromopatton8068

    @mhonromopatton8068

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's not,if u look at it right.

  • @markassbrownie

    @markassbrownie

    4 жыл бұрын

    That is not what an introvert is, that is being socially awkward.

  • @patrickdulfo7792
    @patrickdulfo77924 жыл бұрын

    Teacher: "EVERYONE BE QUIET! CANT YOU ALL BE QUIET?!" Intervert kid at the back: *hold my words*

  • @gardenfalls

    @gardenfalls

    4 жыл бұрын

    Patrick Dulfo this is funny, but I also don’t like this

  • @aris7115

    @aris7115

    4 жыл бұрын

    Again an ARMY member fr tho. Its like being scolded for no reason

  • @halle7170

    @halle7170

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wait, I am an introvert and I talked a lot.

  • @johanslays_

    @johanslays_

    4 жыл бұрын

    Teachers: be quite. How many time i need to tell you. Why i never said this to her(me) Me: because I'm shy I hate when teachers are saying this to my classmates. Im always blushing.

  • @PETSOKOFTIS

    @PETSOKOFTIS

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm more like the introvert kid in the front

  • @hozaifakarim5739
    @hozaifakarim5739 Жыл бұрын

    the first three scenes literally happened with me multiple times, only people who faced it will understand the feeling. almost crying

  • @crazyFun129

    @crazyFun129

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @agentorange153

    @agentorange153

    5 ай бұрын

    ALL of these scenes happened with me multiple times!

  • @jeyamar.
    @jeyamar. Жыл бұрын

    ❣️😍 Its soo connecting soo relatable.. and the best thing is we all introverts came out and expressing our feelings and opinions through comments here

  • @davidcardozo290

    @davidcardozo290

    Жыл бұрын

    I really hope society starts accepting more introverted behavior as time goes on, maybe then we'll have peace instead of the usual bullying and insecurities.

  • @souhardya1487
    @souhardya14874 жыл бұрын

    Why the hell he is reading in a party? We introverts dont attend dump party

  • @shaleendutta3950

    @shaleendutta3950

    4 жыл бұрын

    We aren't even invited ,most of the time...

  • @warbot2544

    @warbot2544

    4 жыл бұрын

    I get invited but , i make excuses

  • @kowshikkarmagam8371

    @kowshikkarmagam8371

    4 жыл бұрын

    We make excuses

  • @sunshinegupta8655

    @sunshinegupta8655

    4 жыл бұрын

    They wanted to show how we feel in social gatherings

  • @jzara1917

    @jzara1917

    4 жыл бұрын

    U r right we introvert rarely attend party

  • @luisabassig4359
    @luisabassig43593 жыл бұрын

    "The biggest mistake an introvert can make is trying to be an extrovert." I felt that💔 . . . . . . Edit I somehow developed myself to being extrovert but the most thing that I'll ever advice u all, "You must accept who u really are bc that's the last thing that u'll be proud of." I realized that I don't need others' hate sayings to me just to pleased them. I learned that when u became true to yourself & to people around u, others would love you u. Not that I'm saying all would love you bc there's no such thing in world that all would be loving u, it's impossible but you'll be happier with yourself if u start giving yourself no care to what other's are saying about u.

  • @juanmanuelmoramontes3883

    @juanmanuelmoramontes3883

    3 жыл бұрын

    I tried that...Only lasted one day, was too exhausting :/

  • @luisabassig4359

    @luisabassig4359

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@juanmanuelmoramontes3883 *hugs u**

  • @luisabassig4359

    @luisabassig4359

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@juanmanuelmoramontes3883 that is so sad for u, me I tried it for months but I didn't survive

  • @nevermore.327

    @nevermore.327

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tried that, became an ambivert lol

  • @musaddiqali1

    @musaddiqali1

    3 жыл бұрын

    What kind of partner should an introvert guy seek, an introvert, or an extrovert girl?

  • @jeremiahsandstrom
    @jeremiahsandstrom Жыл бұрын

    This hits me so hard as this is how i feel so much whenever i go out. I despise large groups but absolutely love seeing others i love have such a good time. I ❤️ YOU fellow introvers and extroverts. You all make this an extraordinary place.

  • @agentorange153

    @agentorange153

    5 ай бұрын

    I hate being in any kind of large group, and when I see such a large group, I sometimes just sit and watch them from afar just because I love the feeling of being left out and of CHOOSING to be left out! I ❤ you fellow introverts -- and to the extroverts, I say this: feel free to do what you want, but don't try to get ME to join you!

  • @teddkarma8270
    @teddkarma8270 Жыл бұрын

    When I use to be kid parents thought being quite is good things that what kid should be in front of elders. So I thought to be good kid and trying my best to be quite. Once I grew up I found out that I am an introvert. But then also I knew there is disadvantages being introvert and also advantages being introvert. So even being extrovert also have same benefit and problem. But the most important is that never stay silence when you need to speak. "Be who you are!"

  • @chhotabhai363
    @chhotabhai3634 жыл бұрын

    Mostly introverts are watching this whereas extroverts should watch this.

  • @kyleg2294

    @kyleg2294

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm an extrovert but too lazy to watch this. It was recommended to me so I clicked to read the comments. Some of y'all mistake social anxiety for introversion and yes I made my research. My older brother is at the end of the introversion spectrum and he is more confident around people than me. I'm a socially anxious extrovert which is literal hell. Also I love introverts ya'll are cute

  • @zerlix.4878

    @zerlix.4878

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kyle tf

  • @kyleg2294

    @kyleg2294

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@zerlix.4878... what

  • @hammerbro2005

    @hammerbro2005

    4 жыл бұрын

    chhota bhai I am

  • @kimbaldun

    @kimbaldun

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kyleg2294 I too is an extrovert then i question myself What happens if 2 introverts met each other?

  • @greyheart3001
    @greyheart30013 жыл бұрын

    Being Introverted doesn’t mean that they’re nerds who read books all day. Edit:A lot of people are replying that they're introverts and they read books and alot are saying they're introverts but they don't read books.What I meant with the og comment was that reading books all day doesn't make you introvert.You could read all the books you want but your personality type is a diffirent thing. Edit 2:You guys still don't get it

  • @empathicvibes5716

    @empathicvibes5716

    3 жыл бұрын

    True.

  • @rutujagour541

    @rutujagour541

    3 жыл бұрын

    And that's exactly what society thinks of us

  • @smthinthisuniverse

    @smthinthisuniverse

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah and not all introverts are self-conscious there are confident introverts out there

  • @xxbloodmoon_eclipse_xx513

    @xxbloodmoon_eclipse_xx513

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me who's read all Harry Potter books, and is writing my own book series: *wheeze*

  • @hdm_vision

    @hdm_vision

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @Bebu.Smriti
    @Bebu.Smriti Жыл бұрын

    I'm an introvert and people think that I have attitude and ego but that's not true nobody even understand that what's going on my mind.. I study in class 9th and I don't speak a lot.. Nobody is my friend, nobody talks with me.. I just feel lonely 🙂.... I had told my secrets to the one whom I trusted, but she went and spread them here and there 💔.. I adore a didi in class 12th I mean she is my favourite even she knows abt that, ki mujhe woh achi lgti hai...but still I'm scared to talk with her idk why 😢.. when I start feeling comfortable with someone then mujhe aisa lgta hai ki woh insaan bore ho rhe hai mujhse isliye main baat nhi krti fir and then unhe bhi koi frk nhi padhta... Sometimes I hide my tears , and then people come and ask what happened then I say nothing I'm fine... Nobody even said a once that tell me what happen you can trust me.. nobody ever said this 💔 I don't even have my mom and dad 💔 Sometimes I be like please God take me to them.. then I just think abt my bro and sis 😢.... I can't even tell all this to someone but here I can b'coz nobody can judge me

  • @ggmu8926

    @ggmu8926

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you live with your grandma and grandpa?

  • @Bebu.Smriti

    @Bebu.Smriti

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ggmu8926 No.. I live with my brother and sister

  • @pianopoly6219

    @pianopoly6219

    Жыл бұрын

    You are loved 💗 Can relate to everything

  • @pranitrindhe1778

    @pranitrindhe1778

    Жыл бұрын

    god bless you all the happiness , focus on your future you have so much to do in your life ❣❣

  • @Mickey203

    @Mickey203

    Жыл бұрын

    a psychologist will help you a lot

  • @jessicaduplessis2451
    @jessicaduplessis2451 Жыл бұрын

    I was always the one left out because of being so quiet in class but nobody understood what being an Introvert is all about so I thank you for this video!

  • @deannahenry8925
    @deannahenry89254 жыл бұрын

    saying the words "speak up" to an introvert is the most worst feeling.

  • @infernalshogun2064

    @infernalshogun2064

    4 жыл бұрын

    Or can be the most annoying phrase people say to you

  • @deannahenry8925

    @deannahenry8925

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@infernalshogun2064 yeah

  • @TheParadise2006

    @TheParadise2006

    4 жыл бұрын

    Indeed

  • @khatlynkhat696

    @khatlynkhat696

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's the same feeling for an extrovert being told to shut up 😂

  • @khatlynkhat696

    @khatlynkhat696

    4 жыл бұрын

    I won't say that it's the worst feeling ever but it does kinda hurt. Being an introvert is hard fam...

  • @Sai-jw8og
    @Sai-jw8og4 жыл бұрын

    "Loneliness is not necessarily when you are alone". Some people need space. Just give it to them.

  • @KrishnaChaudhary-wd9qq

    @KrishnaChaudhary-wd9qq

    4 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @enrobotics

    @enrobotics

    4 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @mj5594

    @mj5594

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wish people understood some of us just need the space and be alone for a while!

  • @user-ci2ds7mw7s

    @user-ci2ds7mw7s

    4 жыл бұрын

    But now, I'm too old being a single man😭

  • @isaackakarot4314

    @isaackakarot4314

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@user-ci2ds7mw7s Try to like Steve Harvey said "be comfortable being uncomfortable"and excesise doing things outside your comfort zone especially with women, because women want to have a connection with men and making them feel a spark of attraction and connection, which may require expressing yourself more while flirting with them, check out dating couches like Dan Bacon here on KZread for dating advice.💯

  • @InaJ.
    @InaJ. Жыл бұрын

    Why don't we learn something so important as that in school? It would have helped me a lot to not feel like an alien.. I hope this video helps kids today to understand that: You are okay, just the way you are. Thank you, Jay! 💙

  • @dhruvdixit8090
    @dhruvdixit8090 Жыл бұрын

    After knowing that 3 million people are introverts like me I am feeling much better☺️☺️

  • @usernameisusernam

    @usernameisusernam

    Жыл бұрын

    Around 30-50% of the population are introverts. That is a lot more than 3 million

  • @typicalroses4668
    @typicalroses46684 жыл бұрын

    "Extroverts change the world, but introverts makes worlds" (citation not from me ;-;')

  • @huunguyen4516

    @huunguyen4516

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bruh you have positive thoughts keep it up

  • @Jannatulmawatuktuki

    @Jannatulmawatuktuki

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow motivational Line ✌👍

  • @superleekegshoondinovevo6998

    @superleekegshoondinovevo6998

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have a better one Women change the world but men get prostate cancer

  • @xhlcus88

    @xhlcus88

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@superleekegshoondinovevo6998 wut. (Lol I'm confused, as a female)

  • @superleekegshoondinovevo6998

    @superleekegshoondinovevo6998

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@xhlcus88 consider yourself lucky you are free from the clutches of the prostate cancer demon

  • @fazilmuhammed5410
    @fazilmuhammed54104 жыл бұрын

    Introvert squad✋

  • @SurajSharma-qp5oj

    @SurajSharma-qp5oj

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fazil 🙋‍♂️

  • @jagrutijayashree1516

    @jagrutijayashree1516

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙋🙋

  • @sidharthmurali8523

    @sidharthmurali8523

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cheers

  • @TriviAI8560

    @TriviAI8560

    4 жыл бұрын

    INFP here!

  • @KrishnaChaudhary-wd9qq

    @KrishnaChaudhary-wd9qq

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙆‍♂️

  • @devyanic
    @devyanic Жыл бұрын

    I am an introvert that's why nobody wants to talk to me I am always alone in my class , I am an introvert and talk less that's not mean I don't want to talk but people will never understand introvert people 😒 I am always quite because I hate fake drama like when people are in group they will always shouting and laughing loudly etc... They are pretending like how they are happy in their life 😒

  • @shetheyithe8894

    @shetheyithe8894

    Жыл бұрын

    If no one can understand me. I become an introvert. I will listen the things around me. Find the things that make me felt value.

  • @Lima08Dc1

    @Lima08Dc1

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg, man, I really understand you

  • @wan_tz0187

    @wan_tz0187

    Жыл бұрын

    I understand u bro

  • @madhur8457

    @madhur8457

    Жыл бұрын

    I understand you man

  • @virajsaran02

    @virajsaran02

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally understand you bro.. We in the same boat

  • @Jurozaiten
    @Jurozaiten Жыл бұрын

    Most introverts doesn't take avoiding that seriously but it makes a deep mark in heart for a long time

  • @brandonl3200
    @brandonl32004 жыл бұрын

    "Be alone that's the secret of invention, that's where the ideas are born" - Nikola Tesla

  • @dawnstonerock884

    @dawnstonerock884

    4 жыл бұрын

    Brandon L Love it!!!

  • @mangeshchalan8786

    @mangeshchalan8786

    4 жыл бұрын

    Also an odd patient

  • @shankardas6938

    @shankardas6938

    4 жыл бұрын

    But not all are genius , what about ordinary person who wants a simple life

  • @rajeev6126

    @rajeev6126

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@shankardas6938 live simply

  • @grizzlyitta7766

    @grizzlyitta7766

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rajeev6126 he cant, becuz of this

  • @RaldoBot
    @RaldoBot4 жыл бұрын

    I’m an introvert but if I get bullied someone is going to get a punch in the face from me

  • @panzer2781

    @panzer2781

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wish I has that thinking I'm always telling myself it's not worth it

  • @petarmitkov1056

    @petarmitkov1056

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@panzer2781 me too. If I end up being bullied I would consider how that develops. If it's going to be temporary I won't react. If it's not physical, I definitely won't hit the person, because I'm not stupid enough to start a fight. So far I have never had the need to fight, but I'm always prepared for the possiblity

  • @alextint5987

    @alextint5987

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm an introvert and I don't know how to fight

  • @zulmycruz

    @zulmycruz

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea. We can still stand up for ourselves. We not shy or anything its just too fucking much to talk or to be wth other ppl. We like quiet.

  • @nochu9753

    @nochu9753

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@alextint5987 you learn on the road no one know how to fight until he/she gets into a real fight

  • @apoorvajha4061
    @apoorvajha4061 Жыл бұрын

    wow.this is so real and true.....thanks for sharing this...now i feel happily being an introvert

  • @daviddayalal369
    @daviddayalal369 Жыл бұрын

    Wow This Is What I Needed To Hear 🫂 Thanks Mr.Jay Shetty

  • @geforce7224
    @geforce72243 жыл бұрын

    I feel different from my family because I'm the only one "introvert" in my family.

  • @endmysuffering3480

    @endmysuffering3480

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same bud

  • @Ethanol.

    @Ethanol.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @hindustanimapper

    @hindustanimapper

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sane

  • @deandrebrown4354

    @deandrebrown4354

    2 жыл бұрын

    Naur same 😭 went to a family event yesterday and I was not that sociable. Felt out of place

  • @Salik96

    @Salik96

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@deandrebrown4354 Bro I feel the same way. No matter what you say or do I feel like I don't belong here.

  • @gabrielamedvedtadic
    @gabrielamedvedtadic3 жыл бұрын

    "There is a big difference between being shy and being an introvert." Yeah I'm both. 😒

  • @trws97

    @trws97

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same bro. I am happy till lockdown but now schools open and my classmates again making fun of me. And the other boys just humiliates me to put better impression on girls. And I am depressed now.

  • @gabrielamedvedtadic

    @gabrielamedvedtadic

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@trws97 I am so sorry about you🙁

  • @nandhana385

    @nandhana385

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me tooi

  • @trws97

    @trws97

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gabrielamedvedtadic thanks for the sympathy

  • @TheEdnablue

    @TheEdnablue

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here I’m both

  • @kingslyverghis8774
    @kingslyverghis87742 ай бұрын

    Be yourself, everybody is already taken-oscar wilde... These words comfort me and makes me accept myself who i am

  • @amchailainamchailiankaipen9476
    @amchailainamchailiankaipen9476 Жыл бұрын

    Best message for those who always say to us he/ she doesn't speak alot, she /he is a shy person. They don't know that Silent is Golden 💛. Thanks you for golden messages 🙏🙏🙏

  • @joanaborrellsanchez9225
    @joanaborrellsanchez9225 Жыл бұрын

    Extroverts bullying introverts is the neverending story

  • @tonyping3678

    @tonyping3678

    Жыл бұрын

    True, it’s mainly because the bully is often the one who feels insecure though

  • @makadoxvsdk9530

    @makadoxvsdk9530

    Жыл бұрын

    As an introvert since childhood thankfully I was not bullied ever in school or college. Even those so called bully or stronger looking guys from my classroom were good to me. Maybe I got lucky or what I don't know.

  • @vamshitarun4399

    @vamshitarun4399

    Жыл бұрын

    @@makadoxvsdk9530 that's a whole new meaning to the - "silent kid".

  • @makadoxvsdk9530

    @makadoxvsdk9530

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vamshitarun4399 Yeah I was silent but not that dangerious kind of silent kid. I was good at exam and I kinda used to help them in exam by showing my answers. Maybe that's why they were not bad to me.

  • @vamshitarun4399

    @vamshitarun4399

    Жыл бұрын

    @@makadoxvsdk9530 oh lol. relatable haha

  • @sakshi9121
    @sakshi91214 жыл бұрын

    Life is hard when you are both shy and introvert beleive me this is the truth

  • @suhaszala47

    @suhaszala47

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree @Saa chi

  • @rajeev6126

    @rajeev6126

    4 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to it

  • @mindthegap1669

    @mindthegap1669

    4 жыл бұрын

    Spot on

  • @skylerd4701

    @skylerd4701

    4 жыл бұрын

    Probably tougher to be a shy extrovert

  • @lavendelelv

    @lavendelelv

    4 жыл бұрын

    Skyler D. agreed, assume you would be expected to be loud but you’d be scared. the shy introvert would expected to be quiet and could sneak out of it

  • @geetharamakrishnan5433
    @geetharamakrishnan5433 Жыл бұрын

    I am a great example for this video I used to be introvert until my college life but when things started to change in my life i am proud to say “I too loved being extrovert” :) I like your speech a lot

  • @SprihaRocks
    @SprihaRocks Жыл бұрын

    I watched Susan Cain video just before this . . It’s so overwhelming to watch these videos . . I read so many comments, realised one thing that there are so many introverts like me that have been bullied and made fun of . . It’s very emotional to and a roller coaster to experience the brutality of the world, yet being so sensitive and kind to not hurt anyone back cause you already know what it feels like to feel that void of not being understood for the way you are . . The surprise is that an introvert will rarely do the same with anyone what he or she went through because of the fact we have the gift of intuition and the understanding and being the big person . . But then it feels really heavy also sometimes . . !! 🥺 This is probably the first time I’m expressing myself like this . . But the fact is I have been through situations like these and I felt so emotionally overloaded . . Thank you so much for this video Jay . . Keep rising ✨✨

  • @muhammedfahim5927
    @muhammedfahim59274 жыл бұрын

    It's hard being an introvert in this extroverted world. 😔

  • @Rose-pj3uv

    @Rose-pj3uv

    4 жыл бұрын

    sure ...

  • @sruthyp4377

    @sruthyp4377

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are correct...I always suffer and get depressed when sitting among a group and being alone

  • @anu3872

    @anu3872

    4 жыл бұрын

    Entertain yourself. There's no point in getting disappointed because of the blabberings of some idiot extros.

  • @yeasinxl2161

    @yeasinxl2161

    4 жыл бұрын

    True mate

  • @quyenluong3705

    @quyenluong3705

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t let them affect you. Once you embrace your introversion and shine that light. No one will judge you and when they do, you should have the attitude “i don’t give a f**k”

  • @kashavisahu2432
    @kashavisahu24322 жыл бұрын

    Our family thinks we're depressed but the truth is that we're more comfortable with ourselves

  • @ashishranjan887

    @ashishranjan887

    2 жыл бұрын

    And when we are actually depressed..... We can't even share it with anyone and it actually gets worst.

  • @Variable_Degree_Series

    @Variable_Degree_Series

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ashishranjan887 No..Most introverts are actually strong minded and think things through.. depression is just a state of mind..It's just a way of looking at things..there are all sorts of stuffs going on, the thing is, what do we decide to look at.. I really don't need to share my thoughts with anyone, I don't think a person who hasn't even given a thought about what life is can actually guide me..yes maybe he/she can make us ignore what we were thinking and that will be called as getting out of depression but for me, that's just running away and not seeking the truth..I also want to try and experience the ways of mind to be mentally stronger.. I have some introvert friends (I am also an introvert) and they all know that depression is just a state of mind..

  • @hellokittytv9544

    @hellokittytv9544

    Жыл бұрын

    Hmm

  • @AS-jk7rh

    @AS-jk7rh

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Variable_Degree_Series truth

  • @harrypotter-js5of

    @harrypotter-js5of

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @nadeembhat3164
    @nadeembhat3164 Жыл бұрын

    Literally one of the best videos, I've ever came across Thanks Jay Love from an INTROVERT ❣️

  • @joshuamartinpryce1237
    @joshuamartinpryce1237 Жыл бұрын

    Being called a loser is a learning curve for someone who becomes an icon in society. All the greatest people in the world today suffered severe abuse at one point in their lives. We become stronger through spiritual growth and determination and good focus. We become more extrovert through maintenance of relationships, and relational experience. I was an introvert until i went to a Christian convention, i left the convention an extrovert. The Holy Spirit is the focus of an extrovert.

  • @ipsumlorem7565
    @ipsumlorem75654 жыл бұрын

    I literally never say a word unless I absolutely have to.

  • @azanmalik9494

    @azanmalik9494

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right!!!😍😍

  • @hilol7131

    @hilol7131

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @z.e....3175

    @z.e....3175

    3 жыл бұрын

    SAME

  • @olive_3623

    @olive_3623

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @Slime-pt6jp

    @Slime-pt6jp

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same, now I stutter whenever I talk

  • @taehyungsrighteyebrow4709
    @taehyungsrighteyebrow47093 жыл бұрын

    "The biggest mistake an introvert can make is try to be an extrovert" I felt that My parents always tell go out and play with them (somewhat forcing me to become an extrovert) I will be very happy if they understand me

  • @zuzanastrakova5169

    @zuzanastrakova5169

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah... My mom puts me into social events often and I just hate it... I'm just there and not talking to anybody and I want to go home and be alone. But my parents force me to being an extrovert... And they even said that I'll go to some psychiatrist so they will learn me communicate more... I can't understand why they do this

  • @taehyungsrighteyebrow4709

    @taehyungsrighteyebrow4709

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zuzanastrakova5169 some similar situation here 😢

  • @empathicvibes5716

    @empathicvibes5716

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you. It is important to accept and appreciate yourself just as you are.

  • @mohamedayyub2361

    @mohamedayyub2361

    3 жыл бұрын

    See brother being introvert have nothing to do with playing outside which is quite natural I remained introvert and I still played it's a different kind of joy

  • @shah_en_shah

    @shah_en_shah

    3 жыл бұрын

    Because of an introvert everyone avoid me in my family. I seriously think about suicide in sometime.

  • @samot708
    @samot708 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your true words. In the end of the video I realised that I, as an introvert, often try to act like an extrovert, just to fit better into society. It's just sad that those thoughts are so common

  • @Ami7166
    @Ami7166 Жыл бұрын

    I was an introvert and still growing.... Making others proud and being unavoidable important person in my circle. I am happy with that.

  • @Jeel31
    @Jeel313 жыл бұрын

    Life of introverts is not easy at all 🥺

  • @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022

    @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's easy for me 😌😄

  • @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022

    @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022

    3 жыл бұрын

    Seriously I dont see the big deal its literally so easy to just ignore other people why would you listen to people you dont feel like talking to or arguing with

  • @joelvalencia2721

    @joelvalencia2721

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022 I wish I have that confidence

  • @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022

    @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joelvalencia2721 you can have that confidence you just gotta find it

  • @shadowguy7991

    @shadowguy7991

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @dhavalkotak1751
    @dhavalkotak17514 жыл бұрын

    I just hate when someone say: *why are you not speaking much?*

  • @mamie_.729

    @mamie_.729

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here😂

  • @nafisaahmed6737

    @nafisaahmed6737

    4 жыл бұрын

    U don't know how much I hate it. It's totally none of their business.

  • @dilarakarabulut1243

    @dilarakarabulut1243

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same. Its even a reason that my bf almost breaks up with me.. I'll be like "hey lets play a game" and he is like "ight only if you talk more" and we fought alot, I say that I really cant talk much,he doesnt believe me tho

  • @anikafairosebushra24

    @anikafairosebushra24

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dilarakarabulut1243 you deserve better person who will never leave you.

  • @lazysheep3102

    @lazysheep3102

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tell them "coz you are!"...and just do what you were doing.

  • @acer6049
    @acer6049 Жыл бұрын

    Being an introvert is one thing Being shy is another. Find which one you are

  • @HeronCoyote1234

    @HeronCoyote1234

    9 ай бұрын

    You can be both. Sometimes being an introvert can cause shyness. I don’t believe the opposite is true, however.

  • @agentorange153

    @agentorange153

    5 ай бұрын

    @@HeronCoyote1234 Introversion is mostly inherited and immutable, whereas shyness is acquired and can be changed!

  • @antoniaa.3760
    @antoniaa.3760 Жыл бұрын

    I am discovering that being an introvert is my super power. It really is a struggle now that things are returning to what it once was. The lock down and isolation was a dream.

  • @natasha1192
    @natasha11923 жыл бұрын

    being an introvert, the only problem i have is when i am left with a group of strangers..i feel awkward and nervous when i am thrown into a new environment but when i get comfortable then i don't have any issue in socializing.. its just that i need time to get comfortable with new people and new situations.. another thing is that i need some alone time to recharge myself ..i can't be with people for a long time because i get drained out... i don't like small talks and i don't enjoy talking just for the sake of talking... i like expressing myself to people who really listens... when someone does not listen or don't pay attention, i don't speak at all

  • @natashakawechebanda9571

    @natashakawechebanda9571

    3 жыл бұрын

    Most of this describes me. And I’m a Natasha too. We should be friends.

  • @natasha1192

    @natasha1192

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@natashakawechebanda9571 yeah sure 😊

  • @melophilelyrics938

    @melophilelyrics938

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree with this

  • @Elegance2104

    @Elegance2104

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can definitely relate to most of this

  • @lakhikutum5485

    @lakhikutum5485

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @mindiseverything5036
    @mindiseverything50364 жыл бұрын

    "The quietest person in the room, is actually the loudest."

  • @gardenfalls

    @gardenfalls

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mind isEverything k

  • @gobeyond3226

    @gobeyond3226

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sounds deep but actually doesnt make sense at all, sorry

  • @sayiaro

    @sayiaro

    4 жыл бұрын

    i think he means the quietest person in the room is the loudest in their mind

  • @mindiseverything5036

    @mindiseverything5036

    4 жыл бұрын

    The quietest person in the room gets the most attention therefore without saying a word he is the loudest in the room. All eyes on him and if he ever chose to say just one sentence it would hold more value and worth than the other guy who thinks he is the loudest in the room.

  • @hush9448

    @hush9448

    4 жыл бұрын

    i thought it will be in their minds but actually im loud in my mind,even when im trying to sleep

  • @hinddariss3454
    @hinddariss34548 ай бұрын

    Actually I don't know what to say... I was just crying while watching the videos because the struggles of the guy at the video are actually similar to mine. I have always find it difficult to get inserted in a group of people in particular at school. But the struggle increases in University, when i have to find a group for the project work, the option were two: get inserted in a group of people where all the work is going to be done by me, or doing the project work alone. Even, when i tried to starting talking to people at my age, i don't know what to talk about, and they make me feel I'm weird, because of my interests, that differs from the majority of people at my same age. Even at the question of "what are you doing this weekend?", I usually invent something and lie, saying that i go out with some friend of mine, when actually I don't have friends! And actually i want a friend with which i could share my interests, my thoughts, my experiences, my time, share with him/her activities, but it might seem strange, but i don't know from where to start!

  • @nicolasacosta1673

    @nicolasacosta1673

    7 ай бұрын

    Sorry to be vulgar but you need to learn to not give a fuck and love yourself. If you spent your weekend locked in your room reading a book, don't be afraid to say that to people. And if they judge you for that and call you boring then just shrug and move on. You don't have to please everyone. We're different and society will never understand us, the sooner you accept this the easier it gets to realize how special you are trust me.

  • @Nezu_69
    @Nezu_69 Жыл бұрын

    This made me cry when he said it's not something cure

  • @littlebarley9867
    @littlebarley98673 жыл бұрын

    I'm an introvet but I don't let others bully me...sheesh

  • @mohamedayyub2361

    @mohamedayyub2361

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi fie

  • @phaydimalenda787

    @phaydimalenda787

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same, I always got bullied since elementary and high school but I fight back

  • @vermelho7801

    @vermelho7801

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@phaydimalenda787 with force?

  • @jammylazo9382

    @jammylazo9382

    3 жыл бұрын

    same I don't want to get bullied and I fight them back in not intentionally way

  • @phaydimalenda787

    @phaydimalenda787

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@vermelho7801 if they hurt me physically of course I will fight back

  • @user6kh-4mw
    @user6kh-4mw2 жыл бұрын

    Quarantine, social distancing, studying from home, lockdown was heaven for me. people will say I am being abnormal, but dear outgoing people we don't feel lonely when we r alone. we love it.

  • @charmainetico3589

    @charmainetico3589

    Жыл бұрын

    True! I wished that this setup wont end, but here we are back to normal..

  • @The_NPC20

    @The_NPC20

    Жыл бұрын

    You are not alone.

  • @user-ox5lk2ze2b

    @user-ox5lk2ze2b

    Жыл бұрын

    @E, Beautifully put. God bless

  • @sebinmon7196

    @sebinmon7196

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes I love the time being with myself than anyone else. I often think i can live in another planet alone..

  • @weareeverywhere8851

    @weareeverywhere8851

    Жыл бұрын

    If you feel lonely, you are in bad company.

  • @BOOKMOTIVECREATOR
    @BOOKMOTIVECREATOR Жыл бұрын

    Yes absolutely perfect I loosed all opportunity... Now I'm sick with my silence

  • @lumtaroc
    @lumtaroc11 ай бұрын

    introverts are my favorite type of people. they are few and far between so its actually great when you find one.

  • @househusband28
    @househusband284 жыл бұрын

    Teachers: shhh! Be quiet! Don’t talk when I’m talking! Also teachers: why doesn’t this student talk more?

  • @deannahenry8925

    @deannahenry8925

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don't talk because I can't speak up

  • @meep7895

    @meep7895

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have throat problems and social anxiety I think so then it's so hard for me to speak up, talk to other people that I'm not close with normally, and participate. And then that results in getting bad grades for participation and I feel like it just isn't fair

  • @ariktasamal1303

    @ariktasamal1303

    4 жыл бұрын

    ISTGGG

  • @ainnoraini7611

    @ainnoraini7611

    4 жыл бұрын

    Meep true, like maybe if u stop forcing me to speak i would actually start speaking up, i speak when i have to, that’s how I function

  • @lanizia6326

    @lanizia6326

    4 жыл бұрын

    I speak when it is necessary

  • @avery4910
    @avery49104 жыл бұрын

    Introverts don’t read books while everyone else plays games.

  • @vavacadoz

    @vavacadoz

    4 жыл бұрын

    I mean if it’s a damn good book I will. Depends on the game and the book

  • @liza2561

    @liza2561

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@vavacadoz Exactly..

  • @liza2561

    @liza2561

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wait...are we all armys?

  • @marta7603

    @marta7603

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's so funny 🤣 I watch a random clip on yt and army are everywhere 🤣

  • @nafisaahmed6737

    @nafisaahmed6737

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe you don't if someone want to what's wrong with that?

  • @guidingtechbd
    @guidingtechbd Жыл бұрын

    Awesome content for great motivation to build myself as an introvert!

  • @anantaagarwal8724
    @anantaagarwal87246 ай бұрын

    Finally feeling good..thanks for making me realize that i am this only..and being an introvert is not a bad thing..❤

  • @mastray4783
    @mastray47834 жыл бұрын

    I think this fits more with nonsocial people, rather than introverts

  • @gareth1420

    @gareth1420

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm both so it fits me either way

  • @ikeilledaguy4349

    @ikeilledaguy4349

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gareth same

  • @kidmundane8029

    @kidmundane8029

    4 жыл бұрын

    Are they different

  • @lenemoyn5675

    @lenemoyn5675

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kidmundane8029 Yes. An introvert just means someone who recharges when they're alone rather than around other people. An introvert can be the life of the party and know how to socialise but still prefer to be at home. An introvert can also be nonsocial and shy, there's many different types tho that is the stereotype when people think of the word introvert. Bottom line is introverts get energy from being alone/in a place they think is comfortable and extroverts get it from being around people.

  • @ejiofordominion2801

    @ejiofordominion2801

    4 жыл бұрын

    behrlo moyn exactly 🤤😭

  • @Scan_6777
    @Scan_67773 жыл бұрын

    I'm proud to be an introvert...

  • @Jiboby

    @Jiboby

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same bro Same

  • @Leomessiak07

    @Leomessiak07

    3 жыл бұрын

    #Mee tooo

  • @Xerneas23

    @Xerneas23

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why?

  • @frederik1612

    @frederik1612

    3 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @sritamanath2549

    @sritamanath2549

    3 жыл бұрын

    But I'm not, I'm sad cause I don't have friends

  • @eNv3n0mX
    @eNv3n0mX Жыл бұрын

    Most introverts got burned hard by pretending to be an extraverts, cause they thought there was something wrong with them and they wanted to "fit in" and be liked by others. Accept your true nature. Introverts are the coolest

  • @ShrabastiSarkar-ve9mo
    @ShrabastiSarkar-ve9mo Жыл бұрын

    Really needed it at this time, feeling great now....

  • @debanikgoswami4834

    @debanikgoswami4834

    Жыл бұрын

    I am also very introverted. I am putting a lot of effort to socialize more 😑.