watch this if you're an introvert
This is a full guide on how to get dark confidence as an introvert. Enjoy!
Daily Wisdom - / collinjunus
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Hey ~ I'm Collin and I'm a freshman at Yale University studying Computer Science and Music. I make new videos about college, entrepreneurship, productivity, biohacking, and whatever else is on my mind. Thanks so much for watching!
Chapters:
00:00 - Why this video will give you DARK CONFIDENCE
00:32 - Change Your Mindset (Important)
01:27 - Become a social leader (3 easy ways)
03:33 - Fix your body language
04:08 - Build abundance and mastery
05:25 - Thanks for watching!
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Hope you guys enjoyed this video! Let's win together ;)
@highestpeeqs9532
3 ай бұрын
Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!! !!!! !
@GFacts999
3 ай бұрын
Am an introvert and did international relation😢 should have listened to ma
@daughteroftheHighest.
3 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ Loves you all!!! ✝️❤️♾️❤️🩹🕊️
@daughteroftheHighest.
3 ай бұрын
@@highestpeeqs9532AMEN!! 😊❤ God bless you, Jesus Christ Loves you too. ✝️🕊️🤍
@ryanyk9558
3 ай бұрын
@@highestpeeqs9532Allah ☝️
"Confidence isn't 'I know they'll like me' it's, 'it's okay if they don't.'"
@williamwallcroft2559
3 ай бұрын
I think, the actually confident person does not even think it.
@rxgequit
3 ай бұрын
yes thats what he said, i saw the video
@williamwallcroft2559
3 ай бұрын
@@luukbrugge Exactly. They don't register that on their minds. They don't wander around asking themselves if they're gonna be liked. They're just... themselves, and it works, because they're often good looking.
@daughteroftheHighest.
3 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ Truly Loves you all. At the end of the day, ONLY worry about what God thinks of you. Do not be worried of what man thinks of you, only fear God’s judgement. Jesus Christ is always with you, and always loves you all, AMEN!!! ✝️❤️♾️🕊️
@user-bs9vi4xi6j
3 ай бұрын
@@daughteroftheHighest. Amen!
Competence = confidence 🤝
@Grassmpl
3 ай бұрын
I can get it by computing confidence intervals.
@aenirrinea523
3 ай бұрын
This
I'm so glad you mentioned that being introverted isn't the same as being shy or antisocial. I don't like talking to strangers (I don't know many people who do, tbh), but I love socializing with my friends & loved ones and can do it for hours, but I'm still an introvert because I need to be alone for a while after tiring out and I love being by myself.
@user-bs9vi4xi6j
3 ай бұрын
I do remember people brave enough to talk to me or too make a small simple comment as a friendly person. Something I would get super nervous just thinking about it but good for them.
@Ev.moonzz
2 ай бұрын
@birbamour6 Well said ! I feel the same way
@saloni2244
Ай бұрын
No one is forever quiet I don't have friends and I don't want but I talk to my family for hours
@Davidscomix
Ай бұрын
I know tons of people that just like coming up to and speaking with you for no reason. They just sort of try to adopt you and bring you into their friend group. It’s odd
To all the fellow introverts: love yourself!!!! If you love yourself, then you can show and receive love from others.
@IntellectualChad
3 ай бұрын
WORD
@Snowaxe3D
3 ай бұрын
But how does one Love themself? I mean, I am trying to Love myself, but isn't that mean that I am now putting up a fake facade,
@j.r.chen30
3 ай бұрын
@@Snowaxe3D you’re already on the right track by asking this question. loving yourself isnt about putting up a facade…it’s actually the opposite: once you can name your differences, your strengths, and your weaknesses, and understand that EVERYONE has their own strengths and weaknesses, you can start living with more confidence and acceptance of your unique self! if you feel like being your true self puts you out of place, it’s possible that you just haven’t found the right community of people for you yet. tap your strengths, try to work on your weaknesses, and accept your ultimate differences as a unique individual, and with time you’ll love yourself and the people around you!
@saf1...
3 ай бұрын
@@j.r.chen30perfect response 👌🏻 😊
@louisprince1595
2 ай бұрын
Fuck people, I just want my money and GTFO.
Be a Confident introvert 🖤 1.Change ur mindset : if ur introvert u must be confident with urself 2.Learn social game: its a skill to learn ... Maintain networks Give compliments Become a good listener (its easy for introverts) Guard ur attention: be paricular about where u're giving ur energy & time cz they are limited ⏳ 3. Be real & authentic 4. Fix ur body language Chill & non reactive Control sense of emotions With shoulders being straight Walk like u're the man/woman Speak clearly , a little bit slower 5. Abundance +Mastery Compitence= confidence u dont need fake confidence confidence should be real it should radiate from u for real (OMG i loved this part 4:09 🤩 ) Build the real confidence (maybe ur good grades, having amazing physique, or accomplishing ur tasks, getting urself into discipline) When u build one are for confidence, u have confidence in other areas too. efforts ,works and small wins everyday will ripple ur confidence in every single area of ur life Bye bye ~.~ 🌸
@IntellectualChad
3 ай бұрын
W summary
@hjthegamer4445
2 ай бұрын
@@IntellectualChad i forgot everything after watching the full video. This guy's summary helped me 😂
@saloni2244
Ай бұрын
Networking is important but friendships is just waste of time I believe in just building network based on official requirement don't wanna build personal relationships in professional settings
@aaqiladnan3602
Ай бұрын
Genuine friendship is worth to keep ❤@@saloni2244
@jahan4587
Ай бұрын
@@saloni2244 right
i'm a girl and i really enjoy watching your videos you have certain and special style in them just continue posting that's so helpful
@insomnia-o.0
3 ай бұрын
That's Gold right here
@pikachuda1384
3 ай бұрын
yes same here! Girl, let's do this
@Ritika_suryavashi
3 ай бұрын
Same here
@Bfi3
3 ай бұрын
Same
@ismaelpean5916
3 ай бұрын
bro's cookin
My man, No Distracting Edits, Transitions amazing.
Who else thinks this is giving Dark Academia vibes! Great video, Chad! You had me at changing your mindset.
@IntellectualChad
2 ай бұрын
Much love G
@little_m.
2 ай бұрын
Omo, you're here!!! 🙀😻
yo im a girl and maybe not your target audience, but bro this channel helps me so sooo much to understand myself and how to better myself. Thank you so much for another great vid. I really appreciate the effort you put in to making these videos. ill def be back on this channel often
@jsk4412
Ай бұрын
Women ☕
@_Shadow_1402
Ай бұрын
@@jsk4412 here comes the immature mama's boy .
@user-vi2jw2dv1e
Ай бұрын
@@jsk4412eww you’re one of those men 🤢
@cramoisis3066
28 күн бұрын
Girl same!
I've been like this for years now and I can say it really works, it didn't took long for me to become probably one of the most loved people in my school just by being confident in myself. Confidence really is everything.
@Ev.moonzz
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this!🙏🏼 as a person who doesn’t have that much hope about confidence this sure gets me motivated 😄
commitment and believing in your abilities will build your confidence (unlimited power🌟)
This is absolutely true. I am on self improvement for 5 years now and the way I changed everything about myself was by listening and learning from multiple perspective. Trust this man, his points are 100% true. Now that I gained true confidence, made my actions back up my words, started talking less and being way more mysterious I am attracting people left and right. Walking straight, speaking slower and living the life of abundance, made me attractive. Now it's easy to steer from the way and build yourself a huge ego. It's ok to have it but it's also important to not dismiss other people and only compete with yourself. Helping people helped me build myself up so much. Once you get all these things right, you become the most wanted person in the room by all means
@saloni2244
Ай бұрын
I've been nice to people overly polite and helpful but I only got hurt in the process now when I don't care about people don't help them or don't even talk to them without ulterior motive I'm more happy
surely one of the best and clearest videos about confidence i've seen so far, good work.
This single video is far more informative and concentrated than half of the other videos about this topic. you got a sub buddy.❤
great video brother, you kept it short, and informative. i usually don’t fully understand things when they going over them fast but you know how to get it done. respect bro
All what I've to say is thank you for being in this world Collin 🙏❤
Thank you for being a reminder of the strengths of being an introvert. Keep doing what you do
The method about "Changing your mindset about being an introvert" was the best part and it hit me really hard . And also giving compliments immediately worked out 😁
This really helped me Collin, I loved the way how everything was straight to the point avoiding any BS. Lookiing forward to more such videos!
@highestpeeqs9532
3 ай бұрын
Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!! !!!! !
Honestly this video gave me a confident boost! Thanks a lot
Enjoyed the video, thanks for sharing this, most people usually keep it to themselves unless asked about. Keep making great videos
The video is a gem!! No BS, straight to the point. Appreciate it man 🤍
I'm 55 and just now realizing I am an introvert. My socializing is mainly at the gym which is where there are others who share my interests. I also don't enjoy "superficial " conversations, yet when engaged in a super subject I am vocal and interact alot. But need my space to recharge. Great video❤
I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve watched so many videos on how to be confident and not trash talk myself for being an introvert but this really gave me the tips that can easily be followed. Thank you :)
Great video! Really love your vibe! The video edit was perfect, minimalist yet powerful. And everything you said was on point. Thanks very much!
A real valuable video,highly appreciate you for articulating such good points.I m grateful that someone is trying to really understand what introverts are and how they think.
This video really nails the points. I’ve been talkative my whole life but I had to learn to appreciate silence, and with the years I’ve become more introvert and confident. Perhaps if I may add to this excellent video is working on the style, having a sober yet, elegant style also makes a great difference. Real confidence and self-validation comes inside out, a confident man doesn’t need to get validated as he knows he is good at what he does. Keep up the good work young man,
@IntellectualChad
2 ай бұрын
Much love
@josuesanchez5337
2 ай бұрын
@@IntellectualChad great videos man! Subscribed now! Thoughtful Young guys like you are needed to boost young generations, Greets from a 40-y.o. fellow from Mexico
Thank for sharing this with us ,it really opened my eyes
Most important video for introverts to be successfull ❤
thank you man, your video is really important to me!
Thank you so much. This video has already built my confidence😇. God Bless you all🙏
Thank you so much for spreading your knowledge, it has helped me a lot throughout the years to become a better version of myself. I'll be waiting for your next video, and again thank you so much for your help!
@IntellectualChad
3 ай бұрын
Much love
@alwaysawomanofGod
3 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you so much more than you think repent and stay blessed
Thanks bro its been long looking for this
Collin, thank you for such an amazing video, your pieces of advice definitely help me a lot and remind me that actions always speak louder than words. Let's win together!
That was a great reminder for me, thank you! compliment whenever you feel it! be good listener, keep your frame, and fix ur body language!
thanks, brother. you have really made my day
So, here I began to appreciate you firstly, it was worth it ❤
Thankyou for making this video🤝🏻
Amazing work keep it going and your definitely changing my life a true "Social Media Influencer"
Thank you so, so, much! This video alone builds confidence 😊.
really great video the points are head on and you probably gave the ideas alot of thought it's evident but at the end of the day I'd hope it catches the eyes of the right person who needs this
Awesome video, thanks for the advice!
Would be lovely to get a video on how to read effectively and take out as much as you can from self help books.. cuz there is so much content when you read and it’s hard to apply everything when you have a lot of books on your reading list
@hesteg1531
3 ай бұрын
Im not an expert but just go one by one for example i just bought my first self help book atomic habits and when i implement most of it in my life i will buy another one
@Abrhm77
3 ай бұрын
What I personally learned from reading books for a long time and even finishing even long ass fiction books with 600 pages and stuff and actually fell in love with reading , the best thing is to focus on a single book so it’s just easier for your brain to just pick it up on the go whenever I try to read for example a fiction and self help kinda book, sometimes I notice it’s very hard even to start reading hence I take way long time to finish both of them. However it’s not about finishing in the case of self help books, they are meant to be used in like a text book type manner cuz u need to really think,figure out how to apply the stuff in real life and you may need to come back to that book sometimes.
@edution2191
3 ай бұрын
@@Abrhm77 That's a pretty good advice! Thank you for your wisdom ⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡
@Abrhm77
3 ай бұрын
ur welcome@@edution2191
Hey I really liked your video and I think you could save a lot of people by making us understand what's confidence and helping us improve it so keep doing what you're doing.
Thank you Collins!❤
❤much needed, thankyou soo much
This video really is valuable to me as an introvert. Thank you, Collin.
As a woman, I feel very confident knowing that this video is already part of my personality… hehe
Bro you're amazing I watched the whole video and dude thanks a lot, it's a really nice video and also wish you all the best👍
wow I'm an introvert and I've never heard of “dark confidence” before, thank you so much for making a video about it!
Thanks collin, i was needing some tips and values about being confident.
Thank you so much i really like your advice to build dark confidence thank you so much bro 😊
I love you, you improve my English , motivate me to develop myself, you are amazing ❤
THANK UUU FOR MAKING THISS
What a good video, wow you absolutely smashed it mate
Dope video bro thanks for the force 🔥💯
Honestly, thanks man! I really learnt a lot today
@IntellectualChad
2 ай бұрын
Much love
I needed this!
Tbh this 5 minutes definitely worth thank you ❤
Bro i just got this video and truly this is something valuable ❤
I was just randomly scrolling on the KZread and then I saw your video and title. When I saw full video of yours!! You are not gonna believe my mindset just changed and I subscribe to your channel i like the u make the video ✨ I'm a girl keep going :) it helps me a lot. Thanks ❤
I am an introvert and I watched your video from the beginning to the end. I am quickly going to apply a skill to that I learned be in that video that I should give genuine compliments. Your video is cool. Congrats bro!
I appreciate how each video of yours is to the point with clarity in what you want to convey. Keep up the good work👍🏻👍🏻
@IntellectualChad
2 ай бұрын
Much love
Thanks man for this video😊
very nice video man, thank you!
Yeah, I admit that these things you said are true because I got an introvert friend and he still got close to everyone by doing these. Your vids are helping me too! Respect👍
I'm about to turn 68 and your presentation is spot-on. You know of what you speak. Nice job Yalie. Stanford, Class of '78. Major: American Studies. Occupation: journalist/documentary filmmaker. I wish you well in all endeavors.
Thanks bro I needed this
Hey bro!Love your videos and these truly helped me.Also you're looking very good and handsome in this video.
That last one of a small W will ripple throughout your other parts of you is something I had happen to me when I got into standup and got decent laughs out of someone in the crowd. They came up to me reassuring my set was good, just needed practice and refinement. Introverts know when something performance wise can go shit but that to me was so meh and someone came out knowing and laughing on my niche jokes. That in turn helped me feel better about everything else around me since it is something I've always wanted to pursue.
Loved your video! Great tips provided.
Great video man! You explained all the points in 5 minutes 👍
Yep, best video I've seen today👏🏽👏🏽
like per usual, great vid Collin !
God bless you too man! This really helps, thank you man.
"I really appreciate" it create new things on my mind. I will try to do that.sechely i keep it on my daily for remember.
Thanks, and by the way , your shirt matching your eyes and hair color is unique!
@billbuttlicker4569
3 ай бұрын
are you acoustic?
I appreciate this short but very helpful video. 😀💚
Thank you for making this video I’m having a hard time making friends at school and just not talking to much people now I’m gonna have the dark confidence you said in the video :D
This is the most valuable information I’ve ever received in 5 and a half minutes
Thanks for the video!
this 5 minute video was really an eye opener.. unlike other vids..it emphasises on the need of daily work.. and being competent.. wish you more power bro
@IntellectualChad
3 ай бұрын
🤞🤞
as an introvert, i think its nice to say in here. ive made great and trustworthy friends, so because of that, i become way more talkative when im around them and its AMAZING, to be able to say everything in your mind without fear, be able to laugh loudly, its just such a good feeling, i highly recommend finding those people in your life
Gosh I almost forgot to subscribe I like how aesthetic you made it look
This is a really good video. Great advice. Thank you.
Thank you so much bro for wonderful explanation 😊🙏
I've always put myself in the extroverted introvert box. I am comfortable around people of all ages, but I am capable by myself. This is a wonderful video. Thank you for making such a big impact on my life.
love your videos bro they are helping me thank you from italy
Total agree. I consider myself a friendly introvert. My grandma was super extroverted so she would push me, like any Asian granny, to be more social. During my highschool days and trying to look for my first job I realized how important I had to learn to socialize. The type of job you'll get, the payrise you could miss etc. I had to force myself into a retail position so I could learn the social skills. But deeply I'm still very introverted. I prefer to listen and analyze. I prefer to be in the same room in silence. Very good video Collin
Thanks mate❤ I really got clarity
A new subscriber here! I really liked the video I benefited from it a lot because I really lack confidence and I like your style and your way of delivering information keep going!
bro nice video really motivate the introverts like me Great job
Useful video. Thanks for sharing.
Great video. Simple, short and informative
Bro has done a great job for introvert. Might this 5 min will change someone's life 🤠
Amazing work brother ❤❤
Amazing video bro.. It's a totally helpful✨
Self mastery is attractive and key to confidence ❤
I LOVE this channel of yours Thank you for the help and continue doing what you are doing, its really inspiring
@IntellectualChad
2 ай бұрын
Much love