People like what you can do for them and when you don’t or can’t watch them switch! Actions definitely speak louder than words.
@Ryuma2223 сағат бұрын
100 people is alot if your all in a room with them
@thedavidboland20 минут бұрын
it is!
@GoWithDaFlowMo3 сағат бұрын
If only one person and even if that one person is only me and no one else loved something I created, I would still feel it was beautiful, cause it still got loved... I loved and liked this video, thank you for creating it..... ❤
@AlanPillinger4 сағат бұрын
I was starting to think you were weird, but I had to change my mind when you said you don't like Brussels sprouts.
@toddbantz39475 сағат бұрын
Great video. I'm in my mid 40's and just now learning to let go. People in general are far more nuanced than anyone could fathom.
@rauxieswisdom31025 сағат бұрын
People pleasing was my parents thing. It was engrained in my very soul. Guilt trips…. I missed out on a lot of good things. 60 years later, I can’t do things to please others, anymore. Coming back to self. Responding rather than reacting has been a deal breaker.
@nextpage35356 сағат бұрын
I am at 1:12 now ... This is the very first video from you I see. I don't know yet, what it means in entirety, but I know it means you are real, pure and consistent in what you express here.(maybe if I press "play" and watch more, I would get confused. But) ... by 1:12 my solar plexus reacted so strongly to your ... hmm ... all-in-one ... that I HAD to stop the video and ... I just wanted to tell you that, as ... I have seen that people can't make difference between natural-born teachers and ... people who teach. And I want you to know that there are people who CAN feel the difference, and I know you're the "real deal!" :D (Everything I said, I meant well, but English is not needed/spoken at all in my country, (outside tourism and international business) so it really may be that I use words out of context. I don't hate people who imagine and/or pretend they are enlightened. Sorry <3
@annettehill13727 сағат бұрын
The band Jerk ‘i hate people like that’ a great song❤❤❤❤
@Firevine7 сағат бұрын
The intro bit - I recall seeing a post from some gal about how having a "dream job" is a terrible thought, and that we shouldn't have to work to survive. Survival _is_ work, and she should be glad she has the privilege of a dream job instead of being a chimney sweep at five years old during the great depression.
@Firevine7 сағат бұрын
One of the greatest and most freeing moments of my life - I was driving down the road, and all the sudden the thought hit me: There are people out there that don't like me, and that's ok.
@80hd80hd8 сағат бұрын
Being socialable means you have to give up who you are to be liked. That mask eventually falls off.
@stevelukoski715210 сағат бұрын
No matter . GOD loves you . And as it happens , so do i !
@michaelstaiano758411 сағат бұрын
You are a good person! Thank you
@paulaherron771211 сағат бұрын
The so called black sheep 😂
@paulaherron771211 сағат бұрын
I'm so disliked even by family 😮 but at my age I've come to see its because I always have no filter...I'm very different from them as far as ego so they don't like certain truths spoken!❤
@glenbateman596012 сағат бұрын
I can't be manipulated and I have no patience for a**holery. That's pretty much all it takes to be loathed in this society.
@ErinIsReal13 сағат бұрын
You'd love my Brussels sprouts with balsamic vinegar, garlic, olive oil, and herbs!
@vinfitcoaching13 сағат бұрын
This is victim mentality. "Not everyone will like me so I choose not to acknowledge where I could have been better" Work on that weakness so the next time you meet someone in that situation it goes better for you 😉
@tattooedtarotreader359114 сағат бұрын
I needed this today. I feel like a really good honorable person. But a lot of people paint me as a villain or are afraid of me.
@blbrown100015 сағат бұрын
Trust in Jesus, he is the one that matters
@iwishmynamewasclementine15 сағат бұрын
Love your voice 🤍
@philmarsh772317 сағат бұрын
Applies to bosses too.
@davesiegal359217 сағат бұрын
I'm always amazed at dating sites where patrons request that a potential partner "come without baggage". Really? You've been around for 60 years and no baggage? Amazing! I guess you sat in a room quietly with your hands folded for all this time. Well, I don't think I would want to be with someone who lacked life experiences, good or bad. But having only good experiences and no baggage seems a bit of a stretch. Maybe it's that you want somebody who's resolved their inner conflicts and even may still be working on them like some people who have reckoned with themselves like you probably are.
@morrisdennis18 сағат бұрын
If ur holy, separate from the world, the world will h8t u...
@morrisdennis18 сағат бұрын
I'm concerned about if i like them, idgaf if the like me or not...
@Samahra0118 сағат бұрын
When I saw your thumbnail I knew you were my people 😂❤
@NataliaDiazJackson19 сағат бұрын
What if you disliked for telling the truth and discarded professionally? Then what? What if you have loving intention. This world can be harsh
@dragonfirefunctionalfitnes792519 сағат бұрын
Some will, some won't. Next!😉
@matbob724919 сағат бұрын
I’m not I’m not compatible. When I thought it’s a bug it was always eating me… when I changed thinking it’s a feature I superseded most in financial superiority resulting in others not liking me more. Lol. Everyone struggles around while I’m drowning in money and success in business and that gives me total independence from others. I’m realizing I have nothing to talk to a herd of sheep anymore giving me ample time to advance, learn, listen to folks like you. Cheers!
@GriefTourist19 сағат бұрын
They laugh at me cos I'm different - I laugh at them cos they're all the same
@nvi5ion62220 сағат бұрын
I like what you're "throwin' down" man-wise, selfless, strong, 'n timeless. Thanks for sharing. Best wishes to you and your aspirations... 2 quotes: "The fate of all true geniuses is being MISUNDERSTOOD"~ "The true measure of a man is how they treat those that can do them absolutely no good."~
@HikingHalfdead20 сағат бұрын
What is success but a mental construct.
@deanodog3667Сағат бұрын
Yeah having a roof over your head and food on the table is an illusion!
@jacoballred20 сағат бұрын
Live and Let Live. That certain types of people don't know how. But It's the thing they're phone calling me. Because they're needing something. My friends are Storms.
@DerangedJoker9721 сағат бұрын
I never like seeking anyone’s approval
@MrHenry36621 сағат бұрын
Stoicism Solved this question. 2000 years ago. I love the videos man 👍🏻
@jon484321 сағат бұрын
Mostly just feel fear, doubt, anxiety, and stress. Get to the end of the work week exhausted. Just managed to feed myself usually. Spend all weekend getting my head on straight wading through addictions and breakdowns(practically have eaten my Rosary with spit and tears at this point) so I still go to work and then do it all again. What is long term health? What the heck is saving money? What is getting ahead? That glimmer of a thought between all the anxiety, worry, and breakdowns? Scramble to keep my clothes clean, not a trashed home. Just in a dream... Whatever man, I sometimes feel I may be losing my mind. I just want to feel normal. I doubt I'm the only one in this state. Maybe I'll just look at the clouds. F external validation. Make good food, make fun videos, sit on a table around a bunch of flowers. That's enough.probably. Life is all about the hope, the discovery, the following your heart wherever it chooses to go. That's what I think Alan Watts said anyway. Idk. But F the views man. Mainstream Western culture has its head so far up it's own but with productivity over well-being that it's an eyesore at this point.
@cliffcaverley237721 сағат бұрын
There are plenty of men with toxic gender stereotypes for example who bullies, harasses and dislikes other men who doesn’t fit into their toxic ideologies which I Detest because these are restrictive, outdated, sexist and discriminating in our modern society while women can have more freedom of expression. In some cases, they make feminine remarks and call other men homophobic names which is ignorant and distasteful. Conforming to manliness is harmful to men’s physical and mental health. I live as my true self and doesn’t let others dictate how I should be
@garythebeach351122 сағат бұрын
perfect message thank you
@donna616523 сағат бұрын
Such a pleasure to meet you, David. 😊 Joyful I found you. Thanks so much. ❤
@user-qb9dc6gu2r23 сағат бұрын
Iam always my first conversation these days ,I learned the hard way 😄
@LilyGazou23 сағат бұрын
This must be the other David Boland.
@quillbot968223 сағат бұрын
I am liked by people 😂 I still came her
@romeowandrainbow104023 сағат бұрын
Almost Everyone likes me, but barely anyone respects me … what’s that about ?
@JohnnyAllan-vj7sjКүн бұрын
Speak for yourself. People love me. Just the very thought of me gives people butterflies and makes them feel like everything is gonna be ok. In fact, anyone reading this comment... you're welcome. Your life just got a little bit better because you got to read my words. You're a very lucky person 😊 (lol just kidding. People fucking hate me)
@brijenell0201Күн бұрын
I do struggle with this. A lot. I want people to like me because I was ignored growing up for the most part. And if guys noticed me, they had bad intentions. So now I'm overly polite and nice. But some people don't really like that, either. It's a mask I adopted and can't drop. I can never be myself because I barely know who I am.
@healingthroughart8Күн бұрын
Hi I have stumbled across your videos and I can relate to it, thank you for you being you. I recently went through hell and came out alive. I am a lost artist that nobody notices haha
@LilyGazou23 сағат бұрын
Artists are the future. 🌺
@healingthroughart823 сағат бұрын
@@LilyGazou Thank you for your kind comment :)
@PieterJanNotebaartКүн бұрын
Peace brother. I can relate.
@thebigdogsmac11Күн бұрын
People don't dislike me. They hate me lol. All my old *friends* or ao I thought had disappeared after doing me dirty. They all hide from me haha
@EdwardAveyardКүн бұрын
KZread brought this video up after a long run of political videos. I do watch videos of introspection sometimes, but this coming after a long run of politics made me think: Does this outlook require a political adherence to libertarianism or something similar? Even the anarcho-socialists would expect you to participate in workers' cooperatives and abide by majority decisions on votes.
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People like what you can do for them and when you don’t or can’t watch them switch! Actions definitely speak louder than words.
100 people is alot if your all in a room with them
it is!
If only one person and even if that one person is only me and no one else loved something I created, I would still feel it was beautiful, cause it still got loved... I loved and liked this video, thank you for creating it..... ❤
I was starting to think you were weird, but I had to change my mind when you said you don't like Brussels sprouts.
Great video. I'm in my mid 40's and just now learning to let go. People in general are far more nuanced than anyone could fathom.
People pleasing was my parents thing. It was engrained in my very soul. Guilt trips…. I missed out on a lot of good things. 60 years later, I can’t do things to please others, anymore. Coming back to self. Responding rather than reacting has been a deal breaker.
I am at 1:12 now ... This is the very first video from you I see. I don't know yet, what it means in entirety, but I know it means you are real, pure and consistent in what you express here.(maybe if I press "play" and watch more, I would get confused. But) ... by 1:12 my solar plexus reacted so strongly to your ... hmm ... all-in-one ... that I HAD to stop the video and ... I just wanted to tell you that, as ... I have seen that people can't make difference between natural-born teachers and ... people who teach. And I want you to know that there are people who CAN feel the difference, and I know you're the "real deal!" :D (Everything I said, I meant well, but English is not needed/spoken at all in my country, (outside tourism and international business) so it really may be that I use words out of context. I don't hate people who imagine and/or pretend they are enlightened. Sorry <3
The band Jerk ‘i hate people like that’ a great song❤❤❤❤
The intro bit - I recall seeing a post from some gal about how having a "dream job" is a terrible thought, and that we shouldn't have to work to survive. Survival _is_ work, and she should be glad she has the privilege of a dream job instead of being a chimney sweep at five years old during the great depression.
One of the greatest and most freeing moments of my life - I was driving down the road, and all the sudden the thought hit me: There are people out there that don't like me, and that's ok.
Being socialable means you have to give up who you are to be liked. That mask eventually falls off.
No matter . GOD loves you . And as it happens , so do i !
You are a good person! Thank you
The so called black sheep 😂
I'm so disliked even by family 😮 but at my age I've come to see its because I always have no filter...I'm very different from them as far as ego so they don't like certain truths spoken!❤
I can't be manipulated and I have no patience for a**holery. That's pretty much all it takes to be loathed in this society.
You'd love my Brussels sprouts with balsamic vinegar, garlic, olive oil, and herbs!
This is victim mentality. "Not everyone will like me so I choose not to acknowledge where I could have been better" Work on that weakness so the next time you meet someone in that situation it goes better for you 😉
I needed this today. I feel like a really good honorable person. But a lot of people paint me as a villain or are afraid of me.
Trust in Jesus, he is the one that matters
Love your voice 🤍
Applies to bosses too.
I'm always amazed at dating sites where patrons request that a potential partner "come without baggage". Really? You've been around for 60 years and no baggage? Amazing! I guess you sat in a room quietly with your hands folded for all this time. Well, I don't think I would want to be with someone who lacked life experiences, good or bad. But having only good experiences and no baggage seems a bit of a stretch. Maybe it's that you want somebody who's resolved their inner conflicts and even may still be working on them like some people who have reckoned with themselves like you probably are.
If ur holy, separate from the world, the world will h8t u...
I'm concerned about if i like them, idgaf if the like me or not...
When I saw your thumbnail I knew you were my people 😂❤
What if you disliked for telling the truth and discarded professionally? Then what? What if you have loving intention. This world can be harsh
Some will, some won't. Next!😉
I’m not I’m not compatible. When I thought it’s a bug it was always eating me… when I changed thinking it’s a feature I superseded most in financial superiority resulting in others not liking me more. Lol. Everyone struggles around while I’m drowning in money and success in business and that gives me total independence from others. I’m realizing I have nothing to talk to a herd of sheep anymore giving me ample time to advance, learn, listen to folks like you. Cheers!
They laugh at me cos I'm different - I laugh at them cos they're all the same
I like what you're "throwin' down" man-wise, selfless, strong, 'n timeless. Thanks for sharing. Best wishes to you and your aspirations... 2 quotes: "The fate of all true geniuses is being MISUNDERSTOOD"~ "The true measure of a man is how they treat those that can do them absolutely no good."~
What is success but a mental construct.
Yeah having a roof over your head and food on the table is an illusion!
Live and Let Live. That certain types of people don't know how. But It's the thing they're phone calling me. Because they're needing something. My friends are Storms.
I never like seeking anyone’s approval
Stoicism Solved this question. 2000 years ago. I love the videos man 👍🏻
Mostly just feel fear, doubt, anxiety, and stress. Get to the end of the work week exhausted. Just managed to feed myself usually. Spend all weekend getting my head on straight wading through addictions and breakdowns(practically have eaten my Rosary with spit and tears at this point) so I still go to work and then do it all again. What is long term health? What the heck is saving money? What is getting ahead? That glimmer of a thought between all the anxiety, worry, and breakdowns? Scramble to keep my clothes clean, not a trashed home. Just in a dream... Whatever man, I sometimes feel I may be losing my mind. I just want to feel normal. I doubt I'm the only one in this state. Maybe I'll just look at the clouds. F external validation. Make good food, make fun videos, sit on a table around a bunch of flowers. That's enough.probably. Life is all about the hope, the discovery, the following your heart wherever it chooses to go. That's what I think Alan Watts said anyway. Idk. But F the views man. Mainstream Western culture has its head so far up it's own but with productivity over well-being that it's an eyesore at this point.
There are plenty of men with toxic gender stereotypes for example who bullies, harasses and dislikes other men who doesn’t fit into their toxic ideologies which I Detest because these are restrictive, outdated, sexist and discriminating in our modern society while women can have more freedom of expression. In some cases, they make feminine remarks and call other men homophobic names which is ignorant and distasteful. Conforming to manliness is harmful to men’s physical and mental health. I live as my true self and doesn’t let others dictate how I should be
perfect message thank you
Such a pleasure to meet you, David. 😊 Joyful I found you. Thanks so much. ❤
Iam always my first conversation these days ,I learned the hard way 😄
This must be the other David Boland.
I am liked by people 😂 I still came her
Almost Everyone likes me, but barely anyone respects me … what’s that about ?
Speak for yourself. People love me. Just the very thought of me gives people butterflies and makes them feel like everything is gonna be ok. In fact, anyone reading this comment... you're welcome. Your life just got a little bit better because you got to read my words. You're a very lucky person 😊 (lol just kidding. People fucking hate me)
I do struggle with this. A lot. I want people to like me because I was ignored growing up for the most part. And if guys noticed me, they had bad intentions. So now I'm overly polite and nice. But some people don't really like that, either. It's a mask I adopted and can't drop. I can never be myself because I barely know who I am.
Hi I have stumbled across your videos and I can relate to it, thank you for you being you. I recently went through hell and came out alive. I am a lost artist that nobody notices haha
Artists are the future. 🌺
@@LilyGazou Thank you for your kind comment :)
Peace brother. I can relate.
People don't dislike me. They hate me lol. All my old *friends* or ao I thought had disappeared after doing me dirty. They all hide from me haha
KZread brought this video up after a long run of political videos. I do watch videos of introspection sometimes, but this coming after a long run of politics made me think: Does this outlook require a political adherence to libertarianism or something similar? Even the anarcho-socialists would expect you to participate in workers' cooperatives and abide by majority decisions on votes.