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@BDogs10
6 ай бұрын
Oh yeah bro😂, it can be difficult to like yourself .
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
lol same
I believe seeking validation online and seeking validation from "friends" is two different situations. Just a random thought. I'm 57, and I've noticed that I'm really not bothered by people not liking me. I don't give it much energy or thought.
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
nice thought Sherry
I do what I do. People don't like me? Oh. I don't give a shit and I'm not sorry.
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
"circumstances to project their pain onto" goodness this is relatable. Thank you!
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
thank you too
Be a lone wolf. Dont spend over 20mins in any company
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
haha, that's harsh!
@nicole4214
6 ай бұрын
Bros emo, everything should be done in moderation pushing people away at such an extent is a sign of some type of truma, something wrong within.Also this type of phrasing just seems so cringy to me
@vaadwilsla858
6 ай бұрын
Don't. Everyone needs people in their lives. If you push others away for too long, sooner or later you will notice that no one cares about that eventually. They will move on with their lives. You will be left utterly alone. It is that kind of loneliness that pushes people into deep depression and feelings of alienation that can be nearly impossible to break out of. Don't go down that route. Don't start that downward spiral.
@user-jy9xi4ut3v
4 ай бұрын
Harsh, but very relatable. What's curious is why so many people are hardwired to dislike statements like yours and instinctively oppose them.
Bro, I could get on with you-no probs. Good convos. but I’d have to bring up facial hair (over a beer) 😂
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
hehe, you and many other folk ;)
I always truly enjoy your videos and insights. I just signed up for your newsletter. Looking forward to reading it.
I really appreciate your videos. Thank you :)
@thedavidboland
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching!
Well said, thanks for this...
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
my pleasure friend
❤
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
For what it's worth, I like your physical appearance!
great vid
Your honest, earnest and dare I say unique flavor of transparency in reflecting on the various trials that comes with choosing this path in attaining "success"(of which you've endearingly made to be less of a material venture, and more so a personal/almost spiritual task) is precisely why you'll find yourself attracting only the most like-minded of audiences. Returning to your videos often feels like checking up on a good friend, in that sense. Though it admittedly(although very welcomingly) veers a little less on the logical/technical side of the craft - by which considering the nature of an increasingly more fast-paced and almost cold-hearted industrial zeitgeist, might pose interesting topics for future videos. 😊 Your background in art could very succinctly help clarify this for all the fellow artist-turn-businessperson out there(that, say, might still teether on that dreaded moral fence). On that note, I would only wish that the reality of the more sensationalistic, dopamine-fueled form the contemporary market assumes wouldn't compromise the quality/soul of your work one way or another. Though in acknowledging that such a toll is often a requisite nowadays, I'd still look forward to seeing where it leads nonetheless. You've earned a fan.
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
thanks for the thoughtful comment, I appreciate you
The Bill Cosby quote won't make too many people happy.
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
thank you
Thank You!
@thedavidboland
6 ай бұрын
thank you :)
I like you , your very wise. 🤍