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Looking at it logically your wife's statement is justifiable grounds to get a DNA test. If you are not the father you have proof of adultery. I'm not suggesting you do anything with the result but suggesting you need all the facts in order to make the best decision.
@scaredpaul5407 сағат бұрын
OP, its clear that she cheated with that guy and was lying to you...she intentionally pushed you away with some BS to not look like bad guy...and her AP is not better, starting affair with married woman is sign of man without character, let that trash take itself out if your life...if their company have some relationships policy, report them to HR, shes not your wife anymore and she will not hesitate to play dirty for her own gains from now on
@crazymic797 сағат бұрын
Beta Bucks simp.
@JonathanJoestarJuicefest7 сағат бұрын
No one and I mean FUCKING NO ONE deserves to be happy at your expense.
@abominablesnowman8768 сағат бұрын
There is no team anymore once it reach this level.
@DefeatedElite8 сағат бұрын
This is why you don't cohabitate gentlemen also vet these females you are letting into your lives.
@gigaxy8 сағат бұрын
What she meant is she wanna fck the other guy and have you as an emergency, in my country we say " you dont want to sit down between to chairs" meaning if she fails with the ap she still has you... just leave that 304
@briansolomon29698 сағат бұрын
His wife is a hard core Avoidant attachment personality. She's also in love with a fantasy. OP, no one can compete with a fantasy.
@aegontargeryan14994 сағат бұрын
True when they have idealised someone else, it's over. It's the devil and lack of self control at work. I just wonder , since they are so many stories like this, it just feels so scary and not worth it.
@timmy1tap6789 сағат бұрын
These guys🤦♂️ I'll stay no matter what!! Which means she can mistreat me, disrespect me, do and act however and there won't be any consequences. They don't apparently realize marriage is a 2 way street and u can't force an adult to do anything. But these guys allow women to crap on their vows and stay anyway until their mental, emotional and physical health is utterly compromised. Also, never consider that the kids pick up on all the distrust, tension, stress, friction, coldness, seeing dad be a doormat, wife disrespecting him and he does nothing. Studies show the horrendous effects it can have on kids when the marriage is constantly cold and/or toxic.
@timmy1tap6789 сағат бұрын
Amazing these women say they cheat cuz they can. Cuz he was taller. If the husband did it?? No way I'd forgive him. But now that I've gotten away with it?? Oohhh how this will make us stronger than ever!!! Why is it that if she cheats, it makes them stronger than ever?? But if he cheated, she'd be done with the marriage?? The way cheaters think is unreal to me
@redrackham681210 сағат бұрын
I have said this before, but it bears repeating: the problem is not that OP's wife did not love him. Most married women do not love their husbands. And that is not their fault. Love is not a choice; you fall in love. And you are not at fault for what you cannot choose or control. What you can control, and what OP's wife is at fault for, is how you act. She acted disloyally and treacherously. She is certainly at fault for that. A man's wife does not owe him love. She does owe him loyalty and respect. And yes, OP was a doormat. The moment she said she felt "limerence" (that's not even a real word) for this other man, OP should have told her that she either cuts all contact with this other man, and yes, that means leaving her job immediately, or they get a divorce. Not only did he not do that, he wished them well at the end. That's doormat behavior.
@holeymcsockpuppet7 сағат бұрын
S3xual attraction is not a choice. Love IS a choice.
@redrackham68126 сағат бұрын
@@holeymcsockpuppet No it isn't, because the two are inherently linked. We are talking about romantic love here, and you cannot fall in love with someone to whom you are not attracted. Physical attraction is a necessary part of romantic love.
@user-pf9yt7oy4d10 сағат бұрын
Poor OP, I hope he’s able to trust again & not close himself off from future potential partners.
@user-wq9dz7gd3b10 сағат бұрын
The Ditch
@jameslyons665510 сағат бұрын
Congrats to the “happy couple”. A cheater and a guy who gets with other men’s husbands. That usually works out well. OP is lucky to be out of it.
@philipturner908712 сағат бұрын
Nicely done now divorce her.
@eshaytoastie979012 сағат бұрын
Is op a doormat 😂 for saying ' is my marriage over ' 😂
@juniormon751412 сағат бұрын
A weak doormat/cuck favorite saying is "Im not letting it slide like nothing happened but im also not giving up on my marriage. I will not . I never will ." Thats when a cheater knows she can do whatever she wants and he will never leave .
@spotmfd943112 сағат бұрын
She has checked out of the marriage. This guy is too much of a simp to realize it.
@garychesser527712 сағат бұрын
It appears that your marriage is essentially over. Cut your losses.
@timmy1tap67812 сағат бұрын
Uuhh yeah sry no explanation works here. So she can hail and Uber but not answer calls/texts to update u where she is or what she's doing? Then her friends lie? This whole situation stinks. Not worth it
@ketienne102113 сағат бұрын
She is cringed by touching OP, let alone needs giving herself a pep talk and going to therapy just to sleep with him, it's over.
@alphaq336813 сағат бұрын
What are loser for not getting a divorce first then telling her the truth
@phillipsinclaire13 сағат бұрын
Can we not say the same about woman? Not as good as my x because she had huge lips and large breasts and was just better than my present wife in bed. LOL!😢😮
@revresbo10113 сағат бұрын
She straight up admitted to OP she was having a physical/emotional affair and pretended nothing happened? And OP believed her and wished her well after the fact?? Lmfao doormat behavior just gave up 9 years for some rando at the office
@johnangel836113 сағат бұрын
Yeah she’s too childish to be in a relationship. I hope her mom can get threw to her
@jasonrustmann753514 сағат бұрын
Lmao at the one commentor saying he hoped he didn't miss out on a possibility grear relationship 😂 the bish nearly killed him! Weather on purpose or not. You don't need someone who might "accidentally" off you in your life like that.
@jamesdotson108014 сағат бұрын
Dude took her words at face value which is NEVER how you should handle a conversation with a woman. She basically told him it's his fault she had two miscarriages and is traumatized. She can never look at this guy again without associating negative feelings. Then she told him she fell in love and has been banging her coworker and wants to be with him but doesn't have the guts to take the heat by ending the marriage so she wants him to do it.
@ddnick15 сағат бұрын
She's already cheated but using mental games to destroy OPs self esteem OP is pathetic to the point he cant even stand for himself
@lydiakelly686315 сағат бұрын
My children's safety comes first. If one of my daughters is a threat to my family, she's not welcome to stay at my home.
@blackfire600915 сағат бұрын
Everyone agrees about the diagnostic : modern society is encouraging people to look elsewhere at the first sign of boredom or anything of the sort, especially women, for whom it is said to be "liberating" and "empowering" as opposed to fidelity which is "outdated" and "controlling". We all know it is mostly pushed by miserable people, and most people are being bombarded by this messaging at an early age through mass media. But, what do we do about the cure of that? It's all well and good to see the problem, and want to fix it by "dumping cheaters", but as a cheater is not someone capable of self-reflection, are we just creating more miserable people that will perpetuate the cycle?
@davidedbrooke932415 сағат бұрын
Get a dna test, also a divorce.
@winchestersons625815 сағат бұрын
This has to be fake. This is something that would put a strain on a relationship
@angeldaroseli303115 сағат бұрын
It only went bad for OP because he wants her and she doesn’t want him. He keeps trying and she gave up. He saw it and he became a Simp. Leave and move on, she already did. It just makes OP look super pathetic and weak. And super clingy.
@diffsnicker15 сағат бұрын
Men quit dating these women with mental problems cause if the tables were flipped she wouldn't date you
@mintcarrier15 сағат бұрын
Siiiiiiimp!
@TranshumanMarissa15 сағат бұрын
bpd huh? bipolor or borderline? Cause If its borderline, she likely shifted gears so hard because of suddenly sensing the direction things were going. (not to say op did wrong here, op still did the right thing, but borderline people can get.. Really weird when they think your gonna break things off, regardless of how guilty she may or may not be.)
@elade785716 сағат бұрын
At around 3:00 , you can clearly hear that she has checked out of the relationship.
@paulefstathiou181916 сағат бұрын
Her " second family " .... ????
@mikef281116 сағат бұрын
Treating a woman like a queen is never a good thing. I have been with my wife for 30 years and I give her uncertainty. Letting her know that I can walk away anytime.
@NazzyDragon13 сағат бұрын
well that's kinda messed up in the opposite way. wtf?
@joshuarodriguez42312 сағат бұрын
@@NazzyDragon Yeah women are pretty dumb because that's what seems to work.
@redrackham681210 сағат бұрын
@@NazzyDragon It seems to have gotten him better results than OP got.
@mikef28119 сағат бұрын
@@NazzyDragon People used to tell me that I am too mean. I should be nicer...I tell them why should I fix something that has work for the past 30 years?
@setpunks1316 сағат бұрын
wife is a snake. its his fault somehow?? please. your marriage is dead bro.
@toadman518417 сағат бұрын
Doormat story. If your partner comes out with stuff like that, it's divorce time. Don't get her work involved, last thing you want in a divorce is an unemployed spouse. Thank her affair partner, he's taking a problem off your hands.
@Hayday_2817 сағат бұрын
Are we watching the same video? He's not a doormat. Also, he didn't get her work involved..
@diffsnicker15 сағат бұрын
@@Hayday_28 he is a doormat
@azmolhossain924413 сағат бұрын
@@Hayday_28 he is.
@timmy1tap67817 сағат бұрын
So sick of the stupid words they make up to excuse a cheaters behavior. It's simple. If u know what ur doing is inappropriate? U stop, or u don't. Oohhh don't blame me blame limerance!!
@L4zyBumone17 сағат бұрын
HR would like to hear this kind of stuff, OP needs to spill the tea to HR
@mikef281116 сағат бұрын
Do not tell HR, get a divorce first so that you can pay less to no alimony.
@legiontepes347417 сағат бұрын
She 100% cheated and op is a sp1nel3ss d00rmat
@kirillstp17 сағат бұрын
The problem was that he loved her more than she loved him.
@mikef281116 сағат бұрын
Never love anyone so much that you cannot walk away from.
@seanwalsh7215 сағат бұрын
Yep that's what it boils down to. As soon as she mentioned that she was no longer in love with the OP, he should have filed for divorce. He stuck it out way too long.
@redrackham681210 сағат бұрын
That's normal. Most married women do not love their husbands, but most married men do love their wives. That's just the way it is, but that was not the problem here. The problem here was that she betrayed him and disrespected him, and that he let her treat him like a doormat.
@kirillstp10 сағат бұрын
@@redrackham6812 just because it happens often doesn't make it normal. And it's precisely the reason she acted the way she did.
@redrackham681210 сағат бұрын
@@kirillstp If something is true more often than not, especially if it is true much more often than not, then, yes, it is normal. That is what normal means. And yes, that may have been why she acted as she did, but remember, most women do not love their husbands, but most women also do not cheat. In other words, most women feel as she felt, but do not act as she acted.
@Takuradiorr17 сағат бұрын
If you're wife says she no more loves you believe her no matter what move on and don't look back
@HauntedGalMars17 сағат бұрын
I would report them both to HR
@mikef281116 сағат бұрын
No. Let the divorce finalized first. Unless OP wants to pay alimony
@HauntedGalMars16 сағат бұрын
@mikef2811 alimony is based off earnings made prior to filing. If she quits or loses her job (especially due to infidelity) it wouldn't count against him in most at fault states if he already filed. If it's not an at fault state, it wouldn't matter regardless He'd also be on the hook anyway if he made more than she did. However... with them not having any kids and her infidelity... it's unlikely she'll see any alimony anyway
@karishma_k17 сағат бұрын
Oh, seems like she was trying to get OP to break up with her instead of doing it herself, so that she could look good.
@bennyfugazzi105414 сағат бұрын
100%
@swgraphics90596 сағат бұрын
Yes. OP call her parents. Let her tell them.
@arpitsrivastava693717 сағат бұрын
I knew an affair was involved as soon as the words "she refuses to find another job" came. This is a big reason why not many men want to commit these days, because women tend to get bored once the "Honeymoon" phase is over, while the man is still as much in love.
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Looking at it logically your wife's statement is justifiable grounds to get a DNA test. If you are not the father you have proof of adultery. I'm not suggesting you do anything with the result but suggesting you need all the facts in order to make the best decision.
OP, its clear that she cheated with that guy and was lying to you...she intentionally pushed you away with some BS to not look like bad guy...and her AP is not better, starting affair with married woman is sign of man without character, let that trash take itself out if your life...if their company have some relationships policy, report them to HR, shes not your wife anymore and she will not hesitate to play dirty for her own gains from now on
Beta Bucks simp.
No one and I mean FUCKING NO ONE deserves to be happy at your expense.
There is no team anymore once it reach this level.
This is why you don't cohabitate gentlemen also vet these females you are letting into your lives.
What she meant is she wanna fck the other guy and have you as an emergency, in my country we say " you dont want to sit down between to chairs" meaning if she fails with the ap she still has you... just leave that 304
His wife is a hard core Avoidant attachment personality. She's also in love with a fantasy. OP, no one can compete with a fantasy.
True when they have idealised someone else, it's over. It's the devil and lack of self control at work. I just wonder , since they are so many stories like this, it just feels so scary and not worth it.
These guys🤦♂️ I'll stay no matter what!! Which means she can mistreat me, disrespect me, do and act however and there won't be any consequences. They don't apparently realize marriage is a 2 way street and u can't force an adult to do anything. But these guys allow women to crap on their vows and stay anyway until their mental, emotional and physical health is utterly compromised. Also, never consider that the kids pick up on all the distrust, tension, stress, friction, coldness, seeing dad be a doormat, wife disrespecting him and he does nothing. Studies show the horrendous effects it can have on kids when the marriage is constantly cold and/or toxic.
Amazing these women say they cheat cuz they can. Cuz he was taller. If the husband did it?? No way I'd forgive him. But now that I've gotten away with it?? Oohhh how this will make us stronger than ever!!! Why is it that if she cheats, it makes them stronger than ever?? But if he cheated, she'd be done with the marriage?? The way cheaters think is unreal to me
I have said this before, but it bears repeating: the problem is not that OP's wife did not love him. Most married women do not love their husbands. And that is not their fault. Love is not a choice; you fall in love. And you are not at fault for what you cannot choose or control. What you can control, and what OP's wife is at fault for, is how you act. She acted disloyally and treacherously. She is certainly at fault for that. A man's wife does not owe him love. She does owe him loyalty and respect. And yes, OP was a doormat. The moment she said she felt "limerence" (that's not even a real word) for this other man, OP should have told her that she either cuts all contact with this other man, and yes, that means leaving her job immediately, or they get a divorce. Not only did he not do that, he wished them well at the end. That's doormat behavior.
S3xual attraction is not a choice. Love IS a choice.
@@holeymcsockpuppet No it isn't, because the two are inherently linked. We are talking about romantic love here, and you cannot fall in love with someone to whom you are not attracted. Physical attraction is a necessary part of romantic love.
Poor OP, I hope he’s able to trust again & not close himself off from future potential partners.
The Ditch
Congrats to the “happy couple”. A cheater and a guy who gets with other men’s husbands. That usually works out well. OP is lucky to be out of it.
Nicely done now divorce her.
Is op a doormat 😂 for saying ' is my marriage over ' 😂
A weak doormat/cuck favorite saying is "Im not letting it slide like nothing happened but im also not giving up on my marriage. I will not . I never will ." Thats when a cheater knows she can do whatever she wants and he will never leave .
She has checked out of the marriage. This guy is too much of a simp to realize it.
It appears that your marriage is essentially over. Cut your losses.
Uuhh yeah sry no explanation works here. So she can hail and Uber but not answer calls/texts to update u where she is or what she's doing? Then her friends lie? This whole situation stinks. Not worth it
She is cringed by touching OP, let alone needs giving herself a pep talk and going to therapy just to sleep with him, it's over.
What are loser for not getting a divorce first then telling her the truth
Can we not say the same about woman? Not as good as my x because she had huge lips and large breasts and was just better than my present wife in bed. LOL!😢😮
She straight up admitted to OP she was having a physical/emotional affair and pretended nothing happened? And OP believed her and wished her well after the fact?? Lmfao doormat behavior just gave up 9 years for some rando at the office
Yeah she’s too childish to be in a relationship. I hope her mom can get threw to her
Lmao at the one commentor saying he hoped he didn't miss out on a possibility grear relationship 😂 the bish nearly killed him! Weather on purpose or not. You don't need someone who might "accidentally" off you in your life like that.
Dude took her words at face value which is NEVER how you should handle a conversation with a woman. She basically told him it's his fault she had two miscarriages and is traumatized. She can never look at this guy again without associating negative feelings. Then she told him she fell in love and has been banging her coworker and wants to be with him but doesn't have the guts to take the heat by ending the marriage so she wants him to do it.
She's already cheated but using mental games to destroy OPs self esteem OP is pathetic to the point he cant even stand for himself
My children's safety comes first. If one of my daughters is a threat to my family, she's not welcome to stay at my home.
Everyone agrees about the diagnostic : modern society is encouraging people to look elsewhere at the first sign of boredom or anything of the sort, especially women, for whom it is said to be "liberating" and "empowering" as opposed to fidelity which is "outdated" and "controlling". We all know it is mostly pushed by miserable people, and most people are being bombarded by this messaging at an early age through mass media. But, what do we do about the cure of that? It's all well and good to see the problem, and want to fix it by "dumping cheaters", but as a cheater is not someone capable of self-reflection, are we just creating more miserable people that will perpetuate the cycle?
Get a dna test, also a divorce.
This has to be fake. This is something that would put a strain on a relationship
It only went bad for OP because he wants her and she doesn’t want him. He keeps trying and she gave up. He saw it and he became a Simp. Leave and move on, she already did. It just makes OP look super pathetic and weak. And super clingy.
Men quit dating these women with mental problems cause if the tables were flipped she wouldn't date you
Siiiiiiimp!
bpd huh? bipolor or borderline? Cause If its borderline, she likely shifted gears so hard because of suddenly sensing the direction things were going. (not to say op did wrong here, op still did the right thing, but borderline people can get.. Really weird when they think your gonna break things off, regardless of how guilty she may or may not be.)
At around 3:00 , you can clearly hear that she has checked out of the relationship.
Her " second family " .... ????
Treating a woman like a queen is never a good thing. I have been with my wife for 30 years and I give her uncertainty. Letting her know that I can walk away anytime.
well that's kinda messed up in the opposite way. wtf?
@@NazzyDragon Yeah women are pretty dumb because that's what seems to work.
@@NazzyDragon It seems to have gotten him better results than OP got.
@@NazzyDragon People used to tell me that I am too mean. I should be nicer...I tell them why should I fix something that has work for the past 30 years?
wife is a snake. its his fault somehow?? please. your marriage is dead bro.
Doormat story. If your partner comes out with stuff like that, it's divorce time. Don't get her work involved, last thing you want in a divorce is an unemployed spouse. Thank her affair partner, he's taking a problem off your hands.
Are we watching the same video? He's not a doormat. Also, he didn't get her work involved..
@@Hayday_28 he is a doormat
@@Hayday_28 he is.
So sick of the stupid words they make up to excuse a cheaters behavior. It's simple. If u know what ur doing is inappropriate? U stop, or u don't. Oohhh don't blame me blame limerance!!
HR would like to hear this kind of stuff, OP needs to spill the tea to HR
Do not tell HR, get a divorce first so that you can pay less to no alimony.
She 100% cheated and op is a sp1nel3ss d00rmat
The problem was that he loved her more than she loved him.
Never love anyone so much that you cannot walk away from.
Yep that's what it boils down to. As soon as she mentioned that she was no longer in love with the OP, he should have filed for divorce. He stuck it out way too long.
That's normal. Most married women do not love their husbands, but most married men do love their wives. That's just the way it is, but that was not the problem here. The problem here was that she betrayed him and disrespected him, and that he let her treat him like a doormat.
@@redrackham6812 just because it happens often doesn't make it normal. And it's precisely the reason she acted the way she did.
@@kirillstp If something is true more often than not, especially if it is true much more often than not, then, yes, it is normal. That is what normal means. And yes, that may have been why she acted as she did, but remember, most women do not love their husbands, but most women also do not cheat. In other words, most women feel as she felt, but do not act as she acted.
If you're wife says she no more loves you believe her no matter what move on and don't look back
I would report them both to HR
No. Let the divorce finalized first. Unless OP wants to pay alimony
@mikef2811 alimony is based off earnings made prior to filing. If she quits or loses her job (especially due to infidelity) it wouldn't count against him in most at fault states if he already filed. If it's not an at fault state, it wouldn't matter regardless He'd also be on the hook anyway if he made more than she did. However... with them not having any kids and her infidelity... it's unlikely she'll see any alimony anyway
Oh, seems like she was trying to get OP to break up with her instead of doing it herself, so that she could look good.
100%
Yes. OP call her parents. Let her tell them.
I knew an affair was involved as soon as the words "she refuses to find another job" came. This is a big reason why not many men want to commit these days, because women tend to get bored once the "Honeymoon" phase is over, while the man is still as much in love.
Typical simp.