Story 1: My guess? She was cheating, the affair fell through when she told the AP "I'm almost divorced and now we can be a couple" and he took off. She came back to attempt to reconcile with OP as a plan B.

@blackfire6009

9 күн бұрын

So many such cases of gym cheating, wth is wrong with people. And it doesn't seem to matter whether spouse goes or not most of the time. Do we live in an age of low morals and loyalty?

@briansharp4388

9 күн бұрын

My thoughts exactly. 😂

@mikef2811

9 күн бұрын

Never Simp for any woman.

@ericmenzing6213

Күн бұрын

100% this

1st story the wife was having an affair and thought that she could be with the AP but he must of told her he was only in it for the sex and might have ghosted her after that and she saw that she wasn’t all that and wanted to go back to her husband who treated her like a queen!

@WardenSpectreCommander

8 күн бұрын

Treat em like a star and they treat you like a fan

Gym chad rejected her.

My wife of 40 years changed for no apparent reason. From a sweet nice person to actually attacking me. Even claiming it was me attacking her. Was building up a file of these at the women's crisis center. I had to make secret recording of her actions to protect myself in court. I think it was a mental problem added to maybe dementia in the last five years. I think the reason she went into the woods and took a bottle of oxycondone was she saw where her life was going in a rare moment of insight.

@alexbedel6320

9 күн бұрын

Dark

She was either already cheating or was planning on cheating and then probably got rejected or felt like the type of person she wanted attention from wasn’t really interested in her long term and then she came back crying.

she went for Chad and Tyrone. They didn't like the idea of being a couple with her and fled, now she's crawling back to her safety net

2) See a Lawyer & Cops make a statement of her intent & pursue a Restraining Order ...

this one is super easy... it didn't work out with whichever guy it was she left him for.... don't touch her again with a single finger

Story 1: Divorce. She finally told the truth. Never take her back. Her new lover used her, and dumped her. Now, she wants to return. No.

"She used to be the sweetest person..." Yet started looking better and completely changed? What did we learn...?

This is more common than people know. Some women base their worth off looks. When the dynamic shifts, they can begin to feel they deserve better. Really the person was always shallow but change in circumstances revealed their true character. Too many guys are settled for because of a superficial dynamic or a woman's circumstances at the time. These type of women never truly loved their significant other.

Why some people become 4ssh0les after going to a gym? And i literally have never seen or heard of a story of "i went with/payed/sent my GF/wife to the gym to help her" end well.

@JohnSmith-bs9ym

10 күн бұрын

Women can't handle it. They are not built the same.

@Drippy_Capy

10 күн бұрын

People tie a lot of value towards attractiveness so when some people consistently go to the gym and see results their ego becomes inflated. The gym is definitely a better place than these Reddit stories make it out to be. You just don’t hear about the good stuff from these channels which focus on the drama.

@AnthonySforza

9 күн бұрын

Basically, their body type is the ice that holes then to their relationship. They're terrible people to begin with but use being nice or sweet as a survival mechanism. So when looking better, she gets attention from guys that weren't giving it to her before, so she "realizes" that since better guys than her husband/boyfriend are giving her attention, then she doesnt need him and treats him accordingly. However, they make the mistake that so many others before them do... conflating a man's momentary intentions, with desire for more.

Story 1. Ex got pumped and dumped. She was promised by some chad or tyrone a baller lifestyle but was thrown to the curb once he got to taste.

2) restraining order!

Stay single gentlemen.

Happy that both OPs got away as they both deserve better!

People who lose a lot of weight or make big changes tend to ditch their partner. It's a 70%+ rate if I recall. There's a reason why counseling is done after gastric bypass surgery.

Gotta love it when they try to 🐒 branch and the branch breaks.

Story 1: Chad doing what Chad does best, Hump and Dump!!! Gentlemen, stop sending your girl to the gym, or to get more education or to get a promotion. They can’t handle it, just stop doing it. If she has any kind of insecurity, let it be!!!

@estebanslavidastic4382

16 сағат бұрын

Not true. SOME women can’t handle it, especially women who have been chubby/lacking male attention their whole life, and suddenly they get into shape and it all changes.

@johnmoss4624

5 сағат бұрын

Happened to my mom. Dad sent her to college on his dime. She decided she deserved an educated man now. Found a student that pumped and dumped her after she divorced my dad. She's still alone today 30 years later

Not much to figure out. She got in shape and started to get attention from Chad's. She cheated on him then Chad dumped her after he was done with her. Now she can go from guy to guy wishing she would have stayed with her good man. FAFO

Story 1. What's she asking for closure for? She was the one driving events. She's knows better than anyone else the true whys and wherefores which is where the fabled 'closure' lies. She's really dragging it out looking for hope.

Closure is ALWAYS for the cheater. You got Closure on D-day.

Stiry 2: Record her. Never talk to her again. She is an obsessive-abusive and a framer

I want closure to guilt u into coming back after u know I'm not loyal I stayed with u bc I was fat and I trade u off the team in ur sleep I want closure to get u back knowing that bit also bc my lifestyle is jeopardized my future plans jeopardized I might have to downsize lifestyle and also push back the kids I want the house I want the life I want with u

Dumbarse get that evidence ur body told u so even if can't get proof get proof of abuse statements from coworkers

These type of people disgusts me

Let me guess. She suffers the “I made a mistake virus”?????

2nd guy is an idiot. Changing locks before getting evidence. Wow.

S2: OP please grow up. Video ever meeting with her and press charges against her.

I miss you translation I was fat so I settled for u and I wasn't nice I had to be to find love bc of my weight I lost weight but still wasn't competitive and the guys I want wanted me for sex bc while she lost weight u can't remove years of body degrading due to obesity wasn't competitive the men she want ain't want her now it's time to get my meal ticket I mean springboard I mean ATM I mean husband back

*7!*

2nd guy is dumb

Fake

the 2nd story is clean ez case. i woul record and how she says this i would talk about this topic for good 30mins at least so she can say it on 1000 ways. then i would break up.

Story 1: I'm at the beginning stage of this very thing. My wife is scheduled for weight reduction surgery and expects to be at her goal within 8-10 months after it. I expect her to leave me after some Chad makes her moister than an oyster and she starts to think that she settled and can do better. I know it, I see it as if it were a giant sign right in front of me. Our kids are grown and any chance she gets to monkey branch, she is going to do it. 25+ years be damned. She said that she 'feels trapped' in her body. So, I imagine that when she is 'released', I'm history.

@bantam8893

9 күн бұрын

At the very least you won't be blindsided, handle it exactly like this guy did. Great reaction to the whole situation. Sorry in advance