S1: leave her ASAP. OP’s not in the wrong whatsoever for wanting to leave her. She lied about being infertile & even aborted his child. There’s a woman out there who does want exactly what OP want & staying with her is just gonna cause resentment to build within OP. The longer you stay with her, the more resentments is going to build & the more you were going to hate the decision you made.

@randolphwh9551

18 күн бұрын

It's sad AF she used him for her first kid n lied to get n keep him as a meal ticket while not giving baby of his own she brought him in as a cleanup guy n from jump had zero intentions of having his kid glad he has self respect

@josephsmith2417

17 күн бұрын

Haha… dude was “pro-choice” Zero sympathy, he is cool when other people abort babies, but gets upset when it happens to him. Hahaha. What’s good for the goose? No? Liberal men are so pathetic.

The issue is that she lied to him for 4 years and would have continued lying had her sister not blurted out her secret.

S1: Evil woman. Deserves to be alone forever.

Story 2: DNA test before signing birth certificate...looks like baby trapping last option for her

The lesson here is don't marry single mom. Both OP is story 1 and 2 will be far more happier if they didn't chase single mom.

@NeoCreo1

18 күн бұрын

I mean does that not also apply to OP 2? He’s a single dad.

@l-l-l-l-l-l-l

18 күн бұрын

@@NeoCreo1 single dad rarely got custody and those who do jump through hoops to get there so only those who are really good came out the other side.

@VitorHugoOliveiraSousa

18 күн бұрын

​@@NeoCreo1it does, I've seen woman suffer with step kids treating them badly because they don't accept their father moved on, and dealing with drama with the baby momma that don't accept that the man moved. The stigma is smaller because women don't care biologically that much if the guy already has children as long as he can provide for her children as much or more as he provide for the other women children. And because men rarely get kids custody so they can pretend that the kid is a nephew or something. And when the guy is a simp she manages to make the father ignore the child.

@glintspark7748

16 күн бұрын

The problem is that she’s a lying POS, there’s plenty of Single moms that are single due to being a widow or things outside their control. It also entirely depends on age you’re meeting your future wife, if you’re in your 30s alot more men & women are gonna have kids unfortunately.

@diffsnicker

11 күн бұрын

​@@l-l-l-l-l-l-l single dad can easily get custody if mom wants nothing to do with the kid. Thats what happened to me. Then she came back and tried to take me away when I was 10 years old. Despite my crying begging and pleading with CPS workers lawyers and a judge she still got half custody. Our justice system loves creating broken children. I had to spend half my childhood with two strangers that didn't really care about me.

"Another Child Wil Be Raised In A Broken Family..." This is so sad. I know divorce REALLY IS THE BEST COURSE OF ACTION but its still sad.

Story 1: This shxt really takes a certain level of evil.. To do this to a man and force him to give up on ever having a child of his own.. Just so you can stay in shape and not miss fkn YOGA with the dude you're cheating on him with.. Now this dude gotta start over with another woman at 38yrs old to have a kid, when he could have had a 6yr old by now....

@JohnSmith-bs9ym

14 күн бұрын

Honestly 38 is not that old for a man. We have our gold decade in our 30's.

@kilamkam

14 күн бұрын

​@@JohnSmith-bs9ymIt's not, but from 32-38 he was def supposed to have at least one kid.. He could have had three by now, if not for this bxtch....

S1: She probably terminated the baby because she didn't know who the father was. Nothing but trash.

@FrutoseDeMorango

17 күн бұрын

Don't use the word "terminated", you know very well what she did and it's a heinous crime

Cheaters , Liars , and Thieves ; all rolled into one !!

Op should divorce his parents too

I heard this story elsewhere but Natalie was monstruous to do this to OP and he is within his right to leave ASAP.

Story 2: why would you want to be with someone who would give up custody of her own kids?

The wife didn't make a mistake, she made a series of choices. The only mistake was on the sister's part by spilling the beans. He needs to run away quickly

My honest reaction to the first story: 😮>😵> 😱> 💀

The issue is in the past many victims of abuse did not have their cases properly investigated … the wording was “nobody believed them”. Now everybody is encouraged to believe every allegedly victim no matter what. Now we have a lot of false allegations. The solution is to make thorough investigations.

Story 1: Hire a PI, gather lots of evidence for the divorce, wash your hands of her. Story 2: Get the pregnancy DNA tested, but also consider trying to make it work with your wife, she was put in an impossible situation, and she didn't do anything wrong. He idiot son did, and he's a child.

S1: use the information he has to blackmail the ex-wife into a favorable separation and then go nuclear.

Story 1: Her body, her choice, her consequences.

@brendadickson9583

13 күн бұрын

True that

Dudes in denial. She literally killed your child. Sorry, but that’s unforgivable in my book. His wife is evil.

I hope the first OP didn't kill himself because he really sound like someone who is losing it.

If he wants them and she don't you either work it out or break up, you don't take all control away from your partner and steal the choice away from them

S1. Its her choice. But she betrayed you by lying. She terninated your child without your imput. Then played you as your heart broke

Run. Ignore everyone saying otherwise. They are either simps or evil.

Story 1 is all kinds of fucked up. Holy is this even real........

@JohnSmith-bs9ym

14 күн бұрын

The degree of FUness makes it sound real to me.

S2: Just a terrible mom who did not raise her kids well and then when they became a burden she thought "well, I'll get rid of them now cause my marriage matters more"

Never get involved with a single mom. Never

First story is perfect example of "female liberation and it's consequences"

I thought this would be a cheating story. This is worse than cheating

@brendadickson9583

13 күн бұрын

Me too 😢

@thomasprogli3372

7 күн бұрын

It is also a cheating story. She is still ducking her boss.

One file for divorce. Two sue the her yoga boss for alienation of effection and for back child support for $$ you spent raising his kid. Sucks that you will get stuck with alimoney while she refused to hold her kids dad responsible for child support. Tell her if she fights the divorce or demands alimkney or wont give you access to your "daughter" you'll lay it all out in court and expose her bull shit for all to see!

When there are issues, talk to family/friends. It's more information to help you decide

terrible woman. it is not about the abortion or if she wants one or not. its the fact that she lied even tho you ware suffering instead for just being honest about her wants.

Unfortunate but that what happens when you pick up scraps, never date single moms, they ain’t worth the baggage if they ain’t gonna bring anything but that to the table the least they can agree to is give you your own child, but this is far more complicated than, poor bastard.

Lol of course she's a Yoga instructer

S2: Honesty, if my bio-kid destroyed my marriage as a manipulation tactic, I would get rid of him/her too. Any child that would do this is a risk to have in my life. If my bio-child accused me? I go to jail. Kid's accusations have too much power now. Is it cruel? Yes. But how do you parent from jail? Best to go NC/LC.

@thomasprogli3372

7 күн бұрын

We went from not believing and not making a thorough investigation to believing and still not making a thorough investigation. Guess what is the common denominator.

Your body, your choice. Divorce her.

Bad men may be violent, but bad women own evil.

He was pro choice right up until it was his child that was taken out

Op's wife is totally wrong for aborting his baby😢😢😢😢

S1: textbook example of alpha effs beta bucks

plot of house episode

She does not want to o have OP's children. She wants to leave him one day and birth another for her next husband..Her Sister outed her plan.

The bit about telling Kaya who her Dad is - I have to agree with OP’s parents on that. That will just look vindictive whatever way OP tries to do it. When Kaya’s older, maybe tell her if she asks but otherwise let that one lie.

@miceltusav88

19 күн бұрын

Nah man... the wife had gone nuclear by lying to that degree, least he can do is give that energy right back.

I told my grandson that the best advice I could ever give him was, "If it has wheels or titties you will eventually need to trade it in for a newer model when it starts to become more trouble than it's worth!"

31/2 months later and she is only 12 weeks pregnant?

In the second story, I'd check if the baby is really yours. The mother seems off. I understand her having issues with the son because he lied to her, but the fact that she's willing to give up custody of her kids at the drop of a hat to keep a guy is disturbing. I wonder what other weird stuff was going on where the kid felt he had to lie about something like that to his mother. Maybe he's just evil, but usually, there are underlying reasons a kid feels they need to do something like that. His parents should probably take him to talk to someone.

@NeoCreo1

18 күн бұрын

I mean, her kid did destroy her relationship via manipulation tactics. I’d say not wanting anything to do with him is understandable

1:32 ummmm she does have control. But she kill ur kid... Shes unwilling to bear ur kid. So....skedaddle.

She murdered a baby

Sure you can choose but your choices have consequences

S1 - She lied to the man and yes she has the right to her own body but that doesn’t excuse the lie. Their whole marriage is based on that lie. Yes it’s her body but that doesn’t excuse she killed his child the baby might have been in her body but 50% of that child was the DNA of the father.

@eleethtahgra7182

17 күн бұрын

The problem is, she aborted his kid without his permission....

@josephsmith2417

17 күн бұрын

@elee… that’s how works. Woman gets final say. Thats why you don’t marry “pro abortion” feminists. This guy is getting exactly what he deserves… already a step dad too. Haha.

@JRBDWD

17 күн бұрын

NO. You don't have any right to K1LL your own child.

@JRBDWD

17 күн бұрын

​@@eleethtahgra7182She k1lled her child. That's motive enough.

@eleethtahgra7182

17 күн бұрын

@@JRBDWD the problem is, OP agree with such stance. Thus, another logic has to be used. She abort HIS child.

Stay single, gentlemen.

@BillyB386

18 күн бұрын

Amen brother

S1: A mistake?! She aborted one, and then she continuously took pills to not have a baby and LIED about it. S2: Get a paternity test for the baby. Other than that, at least his support circle didn't do him dirty like the one from story 1.

S 1. Disgusting cheater just a nasty person.

*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates!!*

@GODdank

19 күн бұрын

Updates of which story story 1 or 2.

@codyjones8153

18 күн бұрын

Both. I know the 1st account was deleted. But people who have their accounts deleted (by themselves or by reddit) always make new accounts to post updates.

I recommend just abandon your wife if divorce is not an option! Marriage is so you can reproduce offspring clearly she doesn't want to produce offspring with you but has offspring with another man

S2 - No way should you stay with this woman you are risking you own daughter’s welfare if you do.

@cheekyrabbit

16 күн бұрын

Well see, an adult response to this kid's claims would have been to sit down at a table, with the other 3 parents and kid to hash it out. They would have figured out the little shit wasn't coping with his parents moving on, it would have been sussed out for the lie it was, and life would move on. Unfortunately, no body can "adult" anymore.

Ryan is her alpha male Chad. That's just how Chad rolls. He won't be there and be actively terrible and will love him for all eternity. Be a good guy wallet and she will only take advantage, cheat, lie and use you.

Story 1, i believe in your body, your choice but lady wtf is wrong with you?!?! You lied to op for years and ab0rt the child he was trying years for to have and even faked cried "not be able to have a baby" with op, seriously why on earth would you get with op or any man knowing fully well he wanted kids?!? And wtf is wrong with op's parents too?!? A mistake? Mofos She lied to your son for years and was planning to continue this lie if it wasn't exposed, y'all are terrible parents for wanting your son (op) to go back to a woman like that.

@FrutoseDeMorango

17 күн бұрын

It's not her body, it's the baby's body. Pro-choice is Pro-murder with different words

S1: I have no sympathy for him, he doesn’t care if a woman ends the life of her baby but when it is his he suddenly cares, F off with that.

I bet the dude was crazy about it and wouldnt take he refusals for an answer until she came up with being infertile as an excuse to get him to chill out.

Story1: for a dude who’s ok with aborting children, he sure cries a lot about not having a child 🤡

@natebaxter9551

19 күн бұрын

So you're bothered that he wants to raise his child? Make it make sense.

@giuseppegiovani2748

17 күн бұрын

You did not have to put a selfie.