OP got played so HARD. The girls got their story straight and then they played him like a violin.

@holeymcsockpuppet

23 күн бұрын

Yup. Nancy did stuff with the guy's girlfriend, too. We kniw she did and it's in a different folder.

@christopherdelgado595

19 күн бұрын

Dumb*ss…

Renaming 1000 photos is easy compared to getting divorced

@JohnSmith-bs9ym

17 күн бұрын

Definitely super easy technology to help with that too...OP is a very stupid man.

@TheGosgosh

15 күн бұрын

And having your prestigious photography company publicly dragged through the mud because you pressured a repeat customer into a softcorn shoot. Tanya had much to lose herself, let’s not forget that.

@arnavrawat9864

13 күн бұрын

What about the metadata? And the gf of the guy being present? And the history the gf and the dude have of doing this professionaly?

Poor doormat. He's in for a fun future.

#1 She never mentioned Tanya wanted to use a guy with her #2 She was NEVER going to tell him about the other guy #3 The cover up happened immediately, she told Tanya to restrict his access to the pictures #4 Photographers use different cameras!!! One camera can be used for the “professional” pictures and another for personal pictures. She lied for a reason and the OP had no clue, what else is she lying about??? Reach out to the guy and talk to him man to man!!!

Dude, she had a whole week to set her story, work with Tanya, and alter what pics are in her online set. The fact that she wouldn't awnser or talk to you and didn't tell you is fckd.

I know it's hard but always investigate before confronting. She had time to make up a story.

@yourgrandpa2539

25 күн бұрын

of course she did. she and photographer had a whole day that blocked op and made a story only admitting to the parts where theres evidence. it is called trickle truthing although theres a chance that she did not sleep with the college guy, the chances of her doing or maybe hiding more is higher. she had no problems hiding this and lying for 6 weeks without feeling any remorse until getting caught. have a backbone, do not cope and run from the truth.

@RosencrantzxGuildenstern

25 күн бұрын

And the guy's fucking reaction at the end! "Oh, it's all my fault because I'm out of shape!" Dude needs to grow a spine

@tomjoad1363

24 күн бұрын

@@yourgrandpa2539 OF course she did not had "closeness" with the student guy ! Don't make things up. I know the kind og Gf those dudes have and trust me she wouldn't let his be "too" close of another woman.

@yourgrandpa2539

24 күн бұрын

@@tomjoad1363 oh you sweet summer child, maybe it is unthinkable but theres even a small chance that they had foursome lol. the photo with bathrobes clinging to the college guy is interesting and yes theres a chance that nothing happened but a lot higher chance that it did.

@yourgrandpa2539

24 күн бұрын

@@tomjoad1363 tommy, there are many liars and cheaters in the world. both men and women are capable of doing much evil acts and you should not blindly trust what people tell you after having enough time to prepare a lie and get rid of the evidence. my advice to op or anyone in similar situations where your boundaries are pushed and you have been lied to: I know it would be hard to accept and you would be more inclined to believe her lies because you are scared of change and want to keep yourself in the comfort zone, but face the truth and have a backbone. it will be hard and you will be hurt in the beginning but at the end of darkness there is always light, you will be fine.

Clearly op's wife has little or no respect for him. She had no intention of confessing, she was caught out. He has let her away with it scott free so dont be supprised if she starts pulling more bs.

@agreeable-youth

15 күн бұрын

So glad I saw your comments before I waste 20 minutes watching the whole video. 4 minutes in and the fact she went no-contact with him for a week after he found out about the pictures to set her story with Tanya. He took it like a doormat.

The only thing I disagree with is OP thinking he's obligated to make his wife feel better. No fam, it's the other way around.

that's cheating, OP is an absolute doormat

@JohnSmith-bs9ym

17 күн бұрын

Man, she even did the classic "sudden, frequent sex with spouse right after cheating" thing to confuse the timeline in case of pregnancy...So gross!

@agreeable-youth

15 күн бұрын

@@JohnSmith-bs9ym I had no idea this was a thing. It's so disgusting and malicious I don't even know where to start. Reading more and more of these reddit stories makes me feel ashamed to be a girl.

@JohnSmith-bs9ym

11 күн бұрын

@@agreeable-youth Hey, you shouldn't be ashamed. I'm a girl dad, and I'm gonna teach my daughter to be better than these women. You can be too. Societal changes start with YOU. One positive young woman at a time :)

@kimmogensen5390

7 күн бұрын

@@agreeable-youth while the guys who are cheaters are usually just disgusting pigs,,,the chase of conqest usually the female version is much more calculated and a part of them cheating is many times motivated also by the joy of humiliating him both in text and the cucking part ,and if they can get him to raise some other guys kid ohh my thats a dayly high,, i have talked to a few female cheaters who come clean and admitted their drive factor,,it was shocking

That's cheating. Op is a poor fool.

Being naked with another guy and allowing him to feel her up is cheating. Even going through the shoot without OPs ok is cheating. That nude shoot present is tainted because of this.

dna test the kid

Ah yes, a recent 30 year old wife that just lost weight desperate for attention / validation. Classic.

Jesus dude….have some self respect.

My man got completely bamboozled, one day he'll stop being a doormat probably when he finds out shes been cheating

She’s lying…… I wonder if she would have ever told him…

This is a very common story on all these channels, TBH keeping it a secret is much worse then doing the photoshoot. OP needs more self respect, the wife needs to get better at enforcing her boundaries and she should have fessed up without confrontation, and the photographer needs to get better at not pushing boundaries. Overall the worst person in this story is the wife because she is ultimately more responsible for the health of her marriage then her friend, and she should have drawn a hard line in the sand or called and told the OP to ask if he was okay with it. There are a lot of charasmatic smooth talkers and boundary pushers in the world, and people who lack the ability to enforce boundaries will be on the fast track to destroying their marriage. if you can say "I do" you can say "no". There is no excuse.

Cannot believe this Smp/Doormate blamed himself at the end! What has become of men these days?!

@kimmogensen5390

7 күн бұрын

result of demonizing men and healty male traits and the feminist programing of females to hate and emasculate their sons this guy is the result

If I can't reach wife while wife can be contacted by photographer, I consider both their versions of the truth compromised. Then wife gets downgraded on trust, forever. All the rest can be debatable. Good for him to find a way to better himself, making lemonade from lemons.

If you wanna forgive her she needs to dump that so called friend of her that did the photo shoot , if you ask me she did it on purpose and wanted her to cheat and on purpose sent the pictures to her husband, a lot of women will sabotage another friends life when they are jealous and want to see some drama , if it was a real friend she would have never pushed her to make those pictures

DNA test, kid likely not his.

@user-eb2kv7bg4t

25 күн бұрын

true

@gordowg1wg145

25 күн бұрын

You should both have your children tested if/when you have them.

@Hey_OverHere

24 күн бұрын

Yup

@gordowg1wg145

23 күн бұрын

@@Hey_OverHere Idiot - but if you have kids, might be worth you checking, as seems like you'd not be the best DNA source.

@kevinespares7006

18 күн бұрын

​@@gordowg1wg145 Both?

Tanya is making her move. Set the wife up, destroy the relationship, now there's an opportunity. I've met women like her before. Very dangerous.

She put it off, refused to talk to you, and felt shame because she KNEW IT WAS WRONG. This will obviously happen again.

@AnthonySforza

22 күн бұрын

The furthest distance between any two numbers, is 0 and 1

She felt “soooooo guilty” Bullshit. She cheated. Now she’s covering up

Lol, this poor fool, OP. She probably had been cheating on him. The amazing bedroom activity increased because she had a big turn on from this event. So he shouldn't trust her words at all. Tanya may have facilitated this cheating or may have let her cheat. Either way, the wife could have stop at any point, which she didn't.

my girlified does some modeling. Never at any point would a photographer call up unplanned male model for a nude/near nude shoot. That was planned to begin with. And she would 100% contact me to discuss it. Any change to original plan she calls me and says hey this is changing what do you think? Then all photos they didnt want yo to see were whipped before you seen them

@KaishShaikh376

15 күн бұрын

Your gf does nude shoots with other men???

Looks like he convinced himself, and his low self-esteem played a major part in his decision.

The wife is comfortable doing the shoot because she hid it for 3 weeks. If the husband did not find out about it, she may do it again and could even lead to full porn.

@iamdragonkrys

6 күн бұрын

She's already maybe on some adult sites😢

14.53 takes 10 seconds to rename on a computer, ten minutes to sort the last 50 or so photos and delete the ones she looks happy on. either wa, he needs to keep an eye now

Poor guy, probably gonna be a great Dad though.

She cheated 100% time to dump her.

Im convinced that most people here dont know enough about photoshoots to realise that if you remove photos from a folder, the files will quite literally show that when the sequence goes 203, 204, 206, 209 and so on, to modify that you would have to go through the files, remove every single photo that was undesirable, individually change every single file numeration starting at the first photo you removed to the end of the shoot (which op said was around 1000) and this would've had to have been done after getting their story straught to endure it matches, i've had to manage the files of my company and that shit takes far longer than it should and god forbid you make a typo. Also by the way for those still thinking op got played with a lie, that means that they had to at some point have gone back, taken more photos with both op's wife and the model with her looking increibly genuine in her discomfort and then upload them and remodify the sequence from the first spliced in photo to the end AGAIN all without op noticing his wife being back there; they would also have to communicate all of this on another phone with some premonition that op would check it. After all that had worked out op's wife would then have to fake all of her emotions, and remorse is not something most people can fake then somehow for op's wife to suggest going to marriage counselling knowing damn well if anyone will catch a lie or a slip up that it'd be them because she for some reason thinks adding that massive risk of being caught out is somehow worth it. Take it from someone that used to have to loe for their own safety, liars dont make lying unnecessarily harder; keeping your own story straight for long enough for it to become an automatic thought like the truth otherwise would be is challenge enough. Really surprised that op stuck with her, believing her or not, at the end of the day his wife's actions have caused self doubt, trust issues, heavy stress, violated boundaries and proved a communication problem; thats more than enough valid reasons for people to bail; i hope staying is worth it for him

You know they would've kept everything a secret if the friend didn't send those pictures.. op is a fool

Tanya _really_ needs to respect personal boundaries. No means no.

@yourgrandpa2539

25 күн бұрын

I really doubt that is the truth and its the alcohol or tanya, that is the story they came up with after a day of not talking to op, pushing all the blame being drunk and her friend while only admitting to the things with evidence. trickletruthing they most likely did more and she was on it from the beginning. lied while talking to op "yeah its not going to be nude, fully clothed and only me" and lied afterwards "yeah there was nothing, these are all the photos" before the accident

@gordowg1wg145

25 күн бұрын

Yup, SHE's the bad person in this sorry tale, the wife and husband are ulimately victims.

@yourgrandpa2539

25 күн бұрын

@@gordowg1wg145 I doubt it. much more likely that is the story they came up with after not contacting op and talking to each other for a whole day. push the blame to alcohol and tanya while only admitting to the things with evidence. they likely did more and wife was on it from the beginning. lied while talking to op "yeah its going to be fully clothed and only me and her" and lied afterwards "yeah there was nothing, these are all the photos" can you really trust the word of a liar who kept it secret for 6 WEEKS before getting exposed?

@yourgrandpa2539

25 күн бұрын

@@gordowg1wg145 doubt it, she is a liar who found a cover up story pushing all the blame. much more likely that is the story they came up with after not contacting op and talking to each other for a whole day. push the blame to alcohol and tanya while only admitting to the things with evidence.

@yourgrandpa2539

25 күн бұрын

@@gordowg1wg145 they much more likely did more and wife was on it from the beginning. lied while talking to op "yeah its going to be fully clothed and only me and her" and lied afterwards "yeah there was nothing, these are all the photos" can you really trust the word of a liar who kept it secret for 6 WEEKS before getting exposed?

What a doormat. Confronts her and accepts every excuse and story she comes up with. Confidently believe that he verifies all the evidence himself despite everyone else involved having days to the data without him.

All the people here saying hes a doormat and that he got fooled. The seeds of doubt have already been sown and, eventually, she will need to reap them. OP may have gotten fooled, but either way now he will always have that little seed of doubt just waiting for one wrong move, one hushed phone call or a night with "the girls" where she wears just a little too much makeup for that seed to get watered and then shit will REALLY hit the fan

OP is a fool just wait for the next time it will be more serious because she has lost all respect for you

Just the parts that she admitted too is straight up cheating , and i question the rest since they had plenty of time to hide anything else.

She had way too much time for a story and Tanya had a lot of time to change up stuff. The fact he's getting upset at people who don't placate his need to know everything is alright is telling.

The villain here is "Tanya". I wouldn't be surprised if she had it in mind to do what she could to bring the guy in, despite the wife already saying "no", as she finally did. As it is, I can easily see how the wife got a bit carried away with the fun of the shoot and, especially after a few "wines", agreed to pose with the guy, even if reluctantly. Everything she said agrees with the evidence and I see no reason to doubt it was the truth. That said, if it was a true story, and i were in that situation, I'd forgive her on the understanding that I might bring it up to tease her, sometimes, and I'd give here the most physical f*** session I could manage as I took out my residual feelings on her body. Yes, it's easy to lose fitness and put on weight, much harder to lose it - but definitely worth the benefits.

@yourgrandpa2539

24 күн бұрын

If I can't reach wife while wife can be contacted by photographer, I consider both their versions of the truth compromised. you cant really trust a liar who lied for 6 weeks and went on 24 hour no contact to prepare an explanation & "evidence"

@gordowg1wg145

23 күн бұрын

@@yourgrandpa2539 You sure do seem like a controlling freak - I feel sorry for any woman who ended up with you. Are you suggesting you've NEVER found yourself in a situation where you ended up doing something you had no intention of doing, that you knew would cause all sorts of issues, and that you tried to pretend never happened? If so, I suggest you've either got a selective memory, or are lying to yourself.

Sees compromising pictures. Doesn't record evidence... "Wife, wife, what are these pictures?" Complains about how he can't log in to see them any more. Gets told an obv fake story. "Yay, everything's OK now!" You can see how OP is not the sharpest tool in the shed.

@JohnSmith-bs9ym

17 күн бұрын

OP is extremely stupid. Didn't even think to screenshot the photos...

@KaishShaikh376

15 күн бұрын

Yea and bro said he isn't a party killer and he is happy because she's having fun going skin to skin with another man 🤣 like bro wth??

When she would call back I would have left a message with her and her family that she has an hour to call back or we are getting a divorce. Poor simp dude got played.

Did he actually look at the Date/Time stamps for each file....that's more telling than what she put for a file name, she easily could have faked the date/time for each file with the time she had as others have said but it's harder to manipulate an actual file time & date stamp, also even more telling would be to look at the file metadata as that would be much harder to manipulate unless she set the time and date on the camera back to the original time & dates and retook them....he clearly missed his opportunity to properly investigate.

Its amazing how his wife says she'll do whatever it takes to fix this but would not do what ever it takes to avoid the whole thing in the first place like walking out on this puke photographer who was already told no a week before about the guy posing with her.

Tanya needs to hear from his layer

Maybe it's because I've been through cheating before, but I keep coming up with ways I would take the conversation. "Don't make any rash decisions about leaving me!" Okay, I promise that any decision I make to leave you will not be a rash one. Boy, I sure I'm glad I've had slightly more time to think about this situation than you or Tanya had. "Tanya called me and said she screwed up and accidentally sent those other photos to you!" Really?! THAT was the screw up? THAT'S what you two think the screw up here is? Plus the whole thing about talk being cheap. All your words, and (much more importantly) lack thereof for weeks and then days after the "leak" are hugely overshadowed by the actual observed behavior. The fact that after confrontation, OP had his access to the private site immediately revoked also speaks volumes - there wasn't a confused "what about them?" from Tanya or any discussion about potential misunderstandings - locked out and radio silence instead. Yeah, telling me to my face you were trying to lie to me isn't as big of a confession as that was.

You can not trust her ever again!

The wife got carried away in the moment, but I'd never trust the photographer again, ever.

Why would the guy need to go to counseling? Thats always the case when people get caught

OP needs to think this through. I understand that he doesn't want to break up his family and wants to go back to how things were with trusting his wife, but that ship has sailed. The photographer said i messed up, wife said hes going to be angry and worried he would divorce her. She was worried about what he may have seen, said that she felt uncomfortable doing the shoot with that man, but if she can do that in the spir of the moment then cheating is just one step. She was worried that he could copy the pics. She asked for him to be blocked from access. They both worked on the story to say and added reasons for delays. His wife was fine with hiding the truth and not concerned because her husband would never find her separate picture stash. OP explains that his wife looked uncomfortable in the shoot, but then says that the shoots theme was corporate woman giving into her desires of being seduction by a younger man, therefore she would have an uncomfortable expression that leads to letting go and enjoying the moment (seems she's a good actress). This all seems to point to that his wife is happy to lie and manipulate the situation as needed. She doesn't sexually desire OP as her partner. This kind of activity only 13 months after giving birth is suspect, they were drinking while doing the shoot, she is seeking attention already, gets caught up in the moment. Unfortunately, she is likely to cheat, if she hasn't done so yet. I would have done a paternity test and drawn up a post nuptial agreement as a minimum. But, I would have left just from the deception, cover up, and collusion, because that would mean that I was not someone she trusts and shares her true self with. The model and models girlfriend saw her fully naked and did soft porn, her friend recorded it and helped hide it, but OP was to not know? OP doesn't know his wife

She cheated and now wife down play it all

Buddy “jump the gun”

That's why you always collect your proof and THAN go mental! By that, i mean, save the pics and then ask Tayna, "What the hell, grannie?".

There should have been more consequences for the wife being so blatantly disrespectful. I don’t believe for a second the husband would have ever been told about it or gotten the nudes as an X-Mas gift.

OP is a doormat

Nah if my wife is naked with another man im out i dont care about the excuses. Its not the photographers fault its my wifes fault

I have no words...

1 who was the nude pics for if they were not in his folder? 2 thats would be for the lover... 3 that model had been hired beforehand the pics with him was for her or for the photografers pornsite 4 its very easy to remove pics from a folder and rename them as a whole,, 5 the fact that thet shut him out and the wife refused to answer for a extended time while letting him sit and suffer shows that she has no respect and not much love for him,for her he is the easy fallback chump and that he at got a very sanitized and rehearsed version of events 6 oh how convieniet that that the photografer was sooo very busy when he came there to see the pics and ask qestions (it is easy to disguise nervousness with stress ) 7 making him run for food when she was on her way home to explain is a normalization move and is found on sites regarding emotional manipulation, negotiations putting ppl on the backfoot is a very well known trick 8 all this was premeditated and planned and how he blames himself makes me so sick to my stomach just for the disregard of him and her manipulation he should divorse her and then comes the porno shoot. and i am certain a affair

I’ve never seen a photographer use more than one camera either, different photo numbers and sequence

Something isnt right. If she felt uncomfortable with the way the pics were, why was her libido higher in that time after the shoot?

@williamclayton9566

11 күн бұрын

HotAbsMcCool fantasies. She was uncomfortable in the moment, during the shoot, had to worry about being found out, but afterwards, when she has ZERO consequences, and her subconscious is free from worry, hey, let the freak flag fly.

This was a lost genre story from about 18 months ago. Altered, i commented on that story, yes i agree its cheating esp the secrecy and what aren't they telling,

@kamenballer

25 күн бұрын

Can you tell here what's the difference of the Original version that you've read to this reddit/youtube version?

@stevecharlesworth9612

25 күн бұрын

@@kamenballer yes, I thought lost genre did it better

The photos are proof of her cheating.

What a rube smh

This is a short story from Literotica. Can't remember the title though.

@Solkard

25 күн бұрын

Is it weird that so many of the story channels are just posting blatantly fictional stories now? Should we maybe be glad that stories on infidelity are in such short supply that they have to resort to that? Is that a positive trend for real relationships or a negative trend for literacy?

@SubRedTales

25 күн бұрын

Hey! I don’t have any idea about this. I got the story from Reddit, and the OP replied to a lot of comments, so it seemed legit. Maybe the story you mentioned is somewhat similar but not the same?

@OWnIshiiTrolling

25 күн бұрын

​@@SubRedTales most stories on reddit are made up, and answering questions doesn't make the story true

@Dustin81

25 күн бұрын

If it is, it’s heavily edited since there is hardly any risqué in it.

@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259

25 күн бұрын

​@@SolkardI don't care if they're fake they're entertaining. I agree better fake than rela

I trust my wife and she trust me. That's basic marriage stuff. My wife would have shown me every pictures, even the nudes and that would have not bothered me at all. First we have this mutual trust and that imply that we don't overreact over such things. I feel like OP didn't overreacted according to the circonstances. It shouldn't have been going to that extend if she would have been truthfull from the day 1 but as I wrote, according ot hte circonstances, it was ok. He had both their side of the story and had the whole bunch of picture to confirm everything. From that point, no need to hold a grudge against anyone. Nobody's perfect. Why am I not surprised a perv' asked OP to share the picture ? Faith in humanity tend to decline those days . ^^

So she cheated while making porn. So rather than make sure they know they gave hum a sliver of the truth about it. Instead secure proof, document reactions and get a std screenings, consolutation with a devorce lawyer and appointment with a therapist. Also a paternity test. Sho she was so disconnected from any consideration for the relationship or herself as a wife. Fully cheater minded. Ya probably video too. She had no problem lieing about the porn shoot with male costar. She was never going to be honest. Still giving him the trickle truth. No reason to assume she hadn't cheated before. If her story isnt complete bs she will not mind answering questions for a lie detector test. Her response will tell you all you need to know but still they take it.

what a doormat lmao, %90 of the stories are made up in reddit but I am sure some desperate pushover lived this and did nothin'

He kinda asked for this when he agreed. Its his fault. Unless she galit him into making her do it. I'd never all a parent to do this even if they were my wife.

@BudokaiMan-mr9tw

25 күн бұрын

Tanya lied to him, both him and his wife legitimately thought she was just gonna pose for fit mom pics and that's it, Tanya was the one who brought Craig in at the last minute, making her very uncomfortable.

@thomasjoseph5876

23 күн бұрын

@@BudokaiMan-mr9tw Tanya isn't stupid, she could actually use ALL of those photos for whatever she wanted since Nancy would have had to sign a "Release Form" for Tanya to use the original pics on her website. I wouldn't trust someone like Tanya any further than I could throw her. The woman is in her 60s and has been doing this professionally for literally DECADES. Tanya KNEW exactly what she was doing. The only way to deal with this is to officially withdraw the consent for use of ANY AND ALL of those pics and Tanya would just have to call it a write-off. I bet Tanya would get pretty upset about that if they did it. Those pics WILL end up somewhere at some point in the future unless the OP makes sure she can't. As for the wife, how stupid do you have to be in order to allow ANYONE to take nude pics of you let alone pics with another guy touching your lady parts even if they are staged, when you are a married woman. The fact she didn't know how to tell the OP about them proves without a doubt that she knew doing it was wrong. It's a good thing this is a fictional story taken from the amateur author website, Literotica.

Bruh whyd he compare his wife to a pstar? Bruh.

@kamenballer

25 күн бұрын

He didn't compare, someone asked him if his Wife resembles or have any look a like celebrity.

what a SIMP doorma

He’s a SIMP!!!

Ok the comments told me that op is an absolute doormat so i won't be watching anymore😂

Well if your Wife looks like Lana Rhoades and commit some errors like this and remorseful and asking what she can do for you to stay and also the fact no sexual interactions happened then it will be hard to let go of Lana Rhoades look a like too, So just put a leash on her next time so She will not drift away again. 😅

This comment section is airing a lot of insecurities.

@ilyarepin7750

25 күн бұрын

like what?

@gordowg1wg145

25 күн бұрын

100% agree with you.

@cameron765

25 күн бұрын

How dare man not accept their partner doing soft core porn with a male model

@cameron765

25 күн бұрын

How dare a husband not want their wife or girlfriend doing soft core p with a male model

@urchbsmirch22

25 күн бұрын

It's called boundaries bud Tf outta here 'InSEcrUriTIes" crap

Doormat

Honestly, she's full-blown cheating probably with multiple affair partners and he deserves it for being such a pushover and the leaving her story despite having evidence in literal photo form in front of his face

This guy deserves the hell he’s about to face for keeping a cheating, lying wife. If he thought this porn shoot was bad, just wait and see what disloyal crap the wife will come up with next

Total weak, sorry excuse for a man….wife got caught when she had no intention of telling him…sad.

Sorry this is boring. I’m not sure why this showed up in my feed. I’m out.

@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259

25 күн бұрын

?? Not to me

What a fool! Pure mental gymnastics. She broke boundaries, lied by omission. What's next?

The fuck dude I would lose my shit

Divorce.

Jeez..Reddit really is the home of beta simps..just pathetic…

Doormat