Bella just randomly messing with wires and cables while she talks because she knows that’s not what we’re focused on

@chronically.silly13

5 ай бұрын

fr, i be looking between the wires and her hair (i am a simple creature, with simple interests)

@kassiejohnson1155

5 ай бұрын

Except that's exactly what I ended up focused on...with concern.

@ThePersonMan

5 ай бұрын

Speak for yourself.

@S-ae-vage_gurl.

5 ай бұрын

I think she's putting up Christmas lights

@pi3.14etc

5 ай бұрын

​@@What-uj9bmhow

On one hand, I love fighting an eternal argument where there IS no right answer. But on the other hand, I empathize intensely when people get upset.

@goolibstien4526

5 ай бұрын

So true man it felt like a direct attack :(

@KrishiGacha

5 ай бұрын

fr

@Maddie_RJC.

5 ай бұрын

So ffr

@toastmaster914

5 ай бұрын

This, this

@dishitashrivastav3626

5 ай бұрын

Us bro us

I think she just stole neighbours electricity

@ashleighsalinas8526

3 ай бұрын

I was about to comment that 😂

as someone with ASPD(antisocial personality disorder, the professional diagnosis for sociopaths/psychopaths) this is something I experience! but in different ways, seeing others suffer in ways brings me joy, I just happen to be aware that that's not good, and that it's something that's not normal to everyone, so I avoid hurting people

@cleetushasreturnediamgreg2515

5 ай бұрын

I mean atleast you're aware of it haha... Please dont hunt me down

@ShotaAizawa656

4 ай бұрын

Enmu:

@muted__dreamer

4 ай бұрын

@@ShotaAizawa656 I hope you realize how inappropriate it is to relate a human being with a mental disorder to a fictional character but okay

@PandaNationYT_

4 ай бұрын

⁠@@muted__dreamerhow can you find joy in hurting people and expect people to not be “inappropriate” or insensitive to you? isn’t that hypocritical to expect kindness when you want to hurt them and cause them pain?

@muted__dreamer

4 ай бұрын

@@PandaNationYT_ and that right there is just pure shit sorry but like, if you actually read my comment you'd realize i try NOT to be a bad person as well as i literally have no control over how i think i don't actually hurt people, nor do i try to, i just simply have urges to, and do not act on them i try to be a good person, i try to be nice. you do not. have a good day.

This is why I learned to not give people any reaction to when they tease me in a way I don’t like. If they don’t get that reaction then they’ll find someone else.

@Window1322

5 ай бұрын

But i have a problem, they tickle me, but i'm very ticklish

@93214919321491

5 ай бұрын

In my experience of getting bullied and picked on, when I ignore it or mind my business I start getting slapped around, chocked, grabbed by the neck and punched in the face, all so he can laugh in everybody else's face for having any sympathy for me, until everybody stops caring and he can then rub in my face how no one cares about me. And after all that he's like "God's gonna get you for everything you white people did!😈" He definitely has high T and narcissistic personality disorder, saying things like it's his God given right to r*** white women and anyone who ever disobeys or disagrees with him on anything goes to hell cause God gave him that power. He's a 64 year old man with grandchildren so he's definitely never gonna change😂

@kiddiestrangler

5 ай бұрын

same, i just ignore people because, although i've never heard of this before, i knew people often irritate others specifically to get them angry for their own enjoyment so i just tend to not react

@christyanaadams4959

5 ай бұрын

A lot of them can be hella persistent

@riagarg9684

5 ай бұрын

@@christyanaadams4959so true

Little siblings are masters of this.

@arkidie

5 ай бұрын

Little siblings??? Different experiences I guess 😭

@isra9862

4 ай бұрын

No it's definetely the older ones, they just blame the little ones.

@SusZ422

4 ай бұрын

Nahhh im the youngest sibling and i love annoying my 2 older sisters

@Sleepyratcoon

4 ай бұрын

nah its both

@Lostflightwarriorcats

4 ай бұрын

It’s all siblings

That makes so much fucking sense.

I have this trait which I’m working on resolving because it has caused me to lose all good relationships and feel I had. This need for toxicity and arguing has also put me in danger because it made me stay with a dangerous abuser. I guess for me it runs deeper than what this video is about. I don’t have high testosterone but this video did make me more mindful of my past and present behavior that I can work on so thanks for that

@what.are.you.doing.stepbro

4 ай бұрын

You're just a masochist

As a guy, my other guy friends used to do this to me. I'm not saying I'm a saint but I would never treat someone else like that. Half the time I wasn't even sure if they weren't faking being my friend just so they could get close enough to bully me. Safe to say I'm not friends with them anymore, I just want to be part of a friend group that know how to respect each other.

@ashleythompson7677

4 ай бұрын

Yo the same thing happened to me except that's exactly what they were doing. They never wanted me around to begin with. They just wanted a butt of all their stupid jokes. You'll find a friend group that cares about you 💛 good luck dude

@cabbage-soup

4 ай бұрын

im sorry that sucks. on the bright side, ppl w high testosterone also bald faster

@CrimZonOnYT

4 ай бұрын

@@cabbage-soup I'm a guy. I don't wanna bald 😭

@macaryl95

4 ай бұрын

Pfft look at MLK over here

@CrimZonOnYT

4 ай бұрын

@@macaryl95 bro liked his own comment

Jit was making a nuke in the background

@spoop1948

5 ай бұрын

NAHHH LMAOO STOP

@Strawberry_861

5 ай бұрын

LMAO

@FleshWizard69420

5 ай бұрын

She's moving like Oppenheimer

@amrmahadeen4310

5 ай бұрын

I seriously thought she would finish with a “and I think this might be why I am doing THIS”, and she would show us one BIG explosion or shenanigan that would make everyone around her angry.

@christyanaadams4959

5 ай бұрын

I would have loved that! 😂

Bro casually describes every older brother💀

@willhead9958

4 ай бұрын

As the oldest brother I can confirm this describes us perfectly. Like we rly are kidding, but we just love to see them mad for a second

@NovaShards_Scarlett

4 ай бұрын

And younger brother 💀

@joeyhimelein7017

4 ай бұрын

Guilty as charged lol

@mizama8597

4 ай бұрын

same, i hate his annoying ass

Yeah... Had a friend like this, till i did an uppercut out of nowhere when he was deliberately pissing me off. He went flat on his ass and then tried to make out that i was in the wrong, luckily a bunch of other people were there and basically said "no, you full well deserved that punch and it's about time someone punched you" 😂

@sen7826

3 ай бұрын

Sadly if it was a girl, most people would be on her side.

@williamfish6607

3 ай бұрын

@sen7826 yep, had that more then once. Never fully hit a female, and I only ever did it if she struck first. But didn't bother me what people said about it

@cosmonauthal7651

3 ай бұрын

@@sen7826yeah soooo what’s the right call. Do hormones cause us to act irrational in ways we can’t control or do we act like people can control it and deserve punishment. Feels like people pick and choose when it’s either one when it’s convenient.

@sen7826

3 ай бұрын

@@cosmonauthal7651 I am not "people". I don't know or care who says hormones make people far too comfortable doing things that deserve uppercuts. If you are a healthy adult human being, you should have accountability for your actions.

As a man, that kind of sucks. Now I understand that Bella’s words may not be entirely factual. So I’m gonna do some research. Thank you for the Info!

@alicedeathbelle

5 ай бұрын

Now you can understand how people feel being in relationships with those types of people. It sucks for everyone and I just wish we could be better as people

@majbritteriksson6759

5 ай бұрын

Shes spreading missinformation

@psych0snip3r

5 ай бұрын

@@majbritteriksson6759it’s not misinformation

@user-gq8wv3nz6o

5 ай бұрын

Well shucks

@majbritteriksson6759

5 ай бұрын

@@psych0snip3r it is

I like how Jayus is like stealing cable in the background or something

@macaryl95

4 ай бұрын

Weird taste in women bruh

okay jayus but how can we not allow these people to have this power and dominance in this specific situation

@emro164

5 ай бұрын

It depends on exactly how messed up they are. Some people feel so entitled to your negative response, they won't stop. They'll keep at it, encroaching as far into your boundaries as they can get. Being stoic won't make them leave disheartened- it will fuel them. So it's ok to go off on them and make them look stupid, preferably with other people around. If their behavior is more benign, be upfront and say something like, "I am not amused. I am uncomfortable. I expect you to cut this out or leave me alone." If they keep at it, get a third party to intervene or at least promise yourself that you won't associate with them again. Such a response might seem harsh, but best believe this behavior won't stop until it is stopped!! It's ok to take up space and set boundaries.

@NovaShards_Scarlett

4 ай бұрын

@@emro164 This sadly won’t work on a younger sibling

Karens explained 💀

You have given me this information and I thank you so much I’m a lady with several male friends who try to make me enraged and now I know even better than I did already not to lose it “don’t give the problems what they crave”

@UnfairCoffee3

5 ай бұрын

sending strength to you person 😂

@What-uj9bm

5 ай бұрын

Testosterone has a high case of giving someone the need for dominance. Usually in women.

@CrazySide567

5 ай бұрын

That’s fair lol

@Color420

5 ай бұрын

Don’t make this a gender thing

@Simp-xy7kr

5 ай бұрын

Sounds like you hating on men. Ok Barbie, cry about it.

This is why people troll so much on the internet.

@imneverwrong5600

5 ай бұрын

I always knew I was high T

@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc

5 ай бұрын

I'm pretty sure SOME people "troll" ((at least SOMETIMES?)) to call out or protest absurdity and/or bullshit....Or am I JUST "trolling" here??? P.S. I Confess my ESTROGEN levels may not be as high as they "should" be??

@PukarEhecatl

5 ай бұрын

Testosterone has a bad reputation, but ultimately testosterone only amplifies patterns that were already there, from me, a med student :)

@fromearth3286

5 ай бұрын

​@@PukarEhecatlshut up your bot, barking the same thing in every comment.

@Zdc360

5 ай бұрын

@@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hchey man i think your lost, lemme show you the way back to 4chan

That's a broken person. Not testosterone.

@whatrtheodds

4 ай бұрын

Yep

@Delta_Chimp

3 ай бұрын

Yeah its insane to say men just do that constantly... I'm literally constantly anxious of making others angry and I get so scared when people get upset

@CleverMetaphor

3 ай бұрын

​@@Delta_Chimpshe didn't say men, she said people with high testosterone

@rj_levels3753

3 ай бұрын

@@CleverMetaphor she said in exact words “because men just have more testosterone, they tend to do it on the regular.”

@rj_levels3753

3 ай бұрын

@@CleverMetaphorand high test doesn’t MAKE you do this. It just positivity correlated with high test. Correlation ≠ causation

I love that you do random shit while explaning, it helps me focus better on what you say

This makes sense why both men and women hate me. I don't get angry. I just tell people that I am not gonna bother with them and they suddenly never speak to me again. A blessing and a curse I guess.

@troloosauhund8747

5 ай бұрын

They don't hate you beacause of that. They hate you because you are geniunly a unpleasent person to be around.

@septem70

5 ай бұрын

If those people annoy you and/or take away your peace, its worth losing them

@RP-ez2jm

4 ай бұрын

@@troloosauhund8747do you know this person or are you one of the people that can’t stand when others won’t engage in your nonsense? Because from here it seems like the latter 😅

@troloosauhund8747

4 ай бұрын

@@RP-ez2jm If everyone dislikes you, you are the problem, not the others. Thats just simple logic.

Now it all makes sense

@plstonz3894

5 ай бұрын

Saaaaaame

@sambatra6162

4 ай бұрын

Exactly! It does!

I wasn’t even really listening to the video I was listening to the song in the background because I love ABBA… GIMME GIMME GIMME A MAN AFTER MIDNIGHT

"For the most parts, its completely unconscious". Facts.. FACTTTTSSS!!!!...

Bellas planning something evil with those wires!! 😂

@CollinAnderson-ce8xk

5 ай бұрын

Fr

@AELsprinkles

5 ай бұрын

She’s probably setting up xmas lights

I feel this constantly with my sister

@Sunghoons-new-Jake

5 ай бұрын

Idk I feel terrible when I see people getting angry or upset with me even if I caused it😅

@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc

5 ай бұрын

Maybe that is what sisters are for??🙄🤣🤣

I’m not even kidding, this explains SO much. THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS.

This is for all of the siblings

Watching you plug things in is mesmerizing.

@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc

5 ай бұрын

My first GUT reaction was she was "playing" with the wires JUST to screw with the viewers, but then it DID occur to me that maybe....JUST MAYBE.....She is just merely hooking up electronic Christmas decorations in a yard, and decided to use the opportunity to make a video short???😶

@stellasacc

5 ай бұрын

Your just weird m8@@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc

It’s the fact that I’m technically a boy and yet I never do this, while most boys in my school do this to me ALL THE FREAKING TIME

@mrfivehead258

5 ай бұрын

man up

@RaiJolt2

5 ай бұрын

@@mrfivehead258 what does “manning” up have to do with his statement?

@Depressionwave2338

4 ай бұрын

​@@mrfivehead258"man up" means be an asshole for no reason in your brain? Damn, I guess every war made by a man was because they were bored and wanted to be angy 💀

@fredericmakeaminecraftwolf5698

4 ай бұрын

You're a lovely boy

@bratatouille

3 ай бұрын

Bella's spreading misinformation here. This kind of behaviour isn't caused by high testosterone levels.

Thank you for taking about this, its something super unconscious and glad you put words to stuff like this

Watching you do chores or whatever while you talk about something mildly interesting is really relaxing for some reason

My sister does this and is completely aware of it. Help wanted

@borregoayudando1481

5 ай бұрын

fighting and fear is addictive, but i hope the she realize that if they bump into a man who isnt raised to be a gentleman and truly sees her as a mere equal in human being then the violence will be like getting hit like being in a car accident. dont try to teach a male stranger "sum manners" by physically assaulting them, the favor might get returned. But even if the men are raised gentlemen, I found a loophole, and definitely plan to do so in a manner next time so it can only be construed as self-defense (like a dodge and attack within the same motion and within the same second) so that no one can fault me for someone getting hurt. (because like flooring it and speeding is acceptable when merging onto the freeway, counterpunching is the few moments when violence is socially acceptable)

@iamfeelingkindacheesy386

5 ай бұрын

Hey I like that game

@Sleepyratcoon

4 ай бұрын

Same my brother's do all the time

Ngl she answers my questions that I never needed answers to nor will I ever use the information she gives me but I love the information she gives me pls tell me I’m not the only one who feels this way Edit:can you guys pls respond and lemme know if I’m the only one

@seanmcfadden3712

5 ай бұрын

I feel the same way. You are definitely not alone.

@CollinAnderson-ce8xk

5 ай бұрын

@@seanmcfadden3712oh thank goodness well now let’s wait and see if anyone else feels the same way I’m just glad it ain’t just me

@ansjeliek

5 ай бұрын

I know right!

@blezys7869

5 ай бұрын

She is a racist

@alexandriastovall1147

5 ай бұрын

I feel that

This is why I'm on trial for 16 counts of assault and 38 counts of battery

That explains that one friend that never knows when to stop

noooo she just called out my entire personality 😂

@PukarEhecatl

5 ай бұрын

Testosterone has a bad reputation, but ultimately testosterone only amplifies patterns that were already there, from me, a med student :)

@williamhanes160

5 ай бұрын

just saying that behavior is extremely toxic and not ok

@jaxoncobb6253

5 ай бұрын

​@@williamhanes160it's biology acting like this is all a new discovery. The reason why testosterone exists is so that men are capable of doing things the women can't in primal times defending the family from predators and in the modern world, building the entire world with blue collar work.

@jaxoncobb6253

5 ай бұрын

​@@williamhanes160and because it's biology it can't be controlled and shouldn't be controlled, because then you'd be playing God and playing God comes with consequences.

@theboxygenie

5 ай бұрын

​​@@jaxoncobb6253 such as an affinity for whales (as well as permanent disembodiment)

All I heard was "narcissists'

@13Dixiefried

5 ай бұрын

Me too!

@phoneman-xs3ft

5 ай бұрын

Fr most of my expirence with ppl with testosterone tend to actually shrink away from conflict

@Sleepyratcoon

4 ай бұрын

Yah

Me teasing my sister relentlessly has scientific proof behind it

Violence is not the answer, it is a question, the answer... Is yes

Scientifically explaining why my brothers are annoying

@iamfeelingkindacheesy386

5 ай бұрын

It’s scientifically wrong

Family guy depicted this exact thing with a roided-up Stewie bullying Brian at the top of the stairs.

T H A N K Y O U. I know those kind of people who poke at you until you explode and they say "I'm just kidding". Jesus please take the wheel because I can't handle the world being like this.

Also explains why there's a lot of hate comments on every video. It's people who get a dopamine rush from hurting other people.

@bratatouille

3 ай бұрын

Even if that is the case, it has nothing to do with high testosterone levels

@sevenhundred77

3 ай бұрын

I don’t think it’s related, I am naturally like this, overly playful and competitive. But I don’t bash people in the comments unless it’s deserved. Being mean just feels shitty unless the other person is also shitty.

@lilpetz500

3 ай бұрын

Ngl, it kind of explains how many male dominated groups on the internet obsessed with high testosterone (Incels, alpha males, antifeminists) produce a lot of trolls and bad faith debaters.

As a trans woman I love that my Testosterone has been replaced with Estrogen. I started HRT at 24, so I had some experience with T and it was horrible, I can confirm i was angrier. But now I'm much more calm, I feel that my emotions are now much stronger (except anger and agression), skin's better and many more prons. Im 27 now BTW, I escaped transphobic Russia, and my life now feels nice

@lizc6393

5 ай бұрын

Proud of you sister! Where do you live now?

@Cfyzcfif

5 ай бұрын

@@lizc6393 Actually I'm in another transphobic country (Sorry I can't tell which one because of security reasons), but at least I'm not at risk being jailed for 25 years for "extremism". Waiting for a humanitarian visa to some EU country. I'm a LGBT activist, I helped many people, I gave many interviews, and now in Russia I am considered as an extremist. I'm also a political activist, I've been detained several times, including at an anti war protest, so I'm at a very high risk in Russia

@thatsunfortunate2771

5 ай бұрын

No one asked

@Cfyzcfif

5 ай бұрын

@@thatsunfortunate2771 No one asked

@thatsunfortunate2771

5 ай бұрын

@@Cfyzcfifcopying a woman, typical

some guy tried doing this to me and i knocked him out for like 30 seconds and felt so horrible afterwards

@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc

5 ай бұрын

That was ME Kaleb.....And NOW I got YOUR name and number sport!!🤬 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Once I was six sitting in class and a kid did that to me, he just kept poking me over and over until I said to him, “l don’t know what’s wrong with you, but it’s probably the reason you’re dad left you you weirdo” his dad actually left him 😭

bro they got me i love messing with people aayin random bs seeing confused and angry expressions its so fun

As a guy, I love arguing with people for the shits and giggles. I know i lost the argument 5 minutes ago. im just waiting to see how pissed you get

@Angiejones62

5 ай бұрын

Well it’s all shits and giggles till somebody giggles and shits

@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc

5 ай бұрын

​@@Angiejones62I giggled at your comment while I was ON the shitter** ** BullSHIT.... I wasn't on the shitter, but I did laugh at it.

@Angiejones62

5 ай бұрын

@@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc After my comment ur abt to be on the shitter-

@pickle_dino

5 ай бұрын

Same honestly, I even argued with someone about orcas once it was funny cause they had no clue what they were talking about

@jacksbrokenheart.

5 ай бұрын

Me too but im a woman

So this is why I pick fights for the fun of it 😭

@bratatouille

3 ай бұрын

It's really not, high testosterone levels don't make you act like a jerk. It's kind of a good thing though, since you have the chance to affect your internalised behavioural patterns if you want to.

@vyxpiric

3 ай бұрын

@@bratatouille I don't think it 'makes' someone be a jerk, but gives them more anger with less impulse control

Is this why when I have a crush I tease them and think no matter how angry they are it’s just adorable?

This explains a lot about my grandma, thanks for teaching me something new!

I could not begin to illustrate the baffled look on my face In my mind getting enjoyment out of making someone pissed at you is psychotic behavior

@cleetushasreturnediamgreg2515

5 ай бұрын

Not really but alright

@kaylaa2204

5 ай бұрын

@@cleetushasreturnediamgreg2515 I find it really fucking hilarious how in reply to me calling this nonsensical behavior psychotic, you say no actually, refuse to elaborate, then somehow add that you are actually fine by this. The lack of self awareness is palpable

@ArtbyLilRed

5 ай бұрын

​@@cleetushasreturnediamgreg2515 It's psychotic behavior if a person enjoys making others legitimately angry; like if they enjoy actually ruining other people's days on purpose- that's a bit psycho. Getting joy from other people's real pain is a bit psycho. But if they simply enjoy getting on people's nerves in general and poking at them (just for a little reaction or to see you squirm), that's not really psychotic, it's just called being immature and maybe they are lacking attention in their lives lol. It's definitely a spectrum

@cleetushasreturnediamgreg2515

5 ай бұрын

@@ArtbyLilRed never laugh at a kid falling?

@ArtbyLilRed

5 ай бұрын

@@cleetushasreturnediamgreg2515 we are talking about people who enjoy *causing* the harm, not people who enjoy *observing* it. So under the original context, yeah it's psycho to push a child down and then laugh. Likewise, it's normal to see a lil kid fall randomly and giggle a bit at first- but for most people that giggle quickly turns into concern.

I have ADHD and am male, so I enjoy *annoying* people and pressing their buttons, but I NEVER actually want to get them full on angry with me... Just bug them!

@llllllllll9495

5 ай бұрын

Same! I am a woman with ADHD :)

@Zdc360

5 ай бұрын

i think that’s just teasin, if everyone’s cool with it and laughing, and no one’s losing their shit then i think it’s fine

@JulesThePsion

5 ай бұрын

@@Zdc360 The thing is, it's NOT fun for everyone. It's usually only fun for me. I'm chortling and grinning impishly like a jester while people around me are sighing and rolling their eyes. I just like to bug people. It's a game of how far I can push it without making people actually mad for real. I've always been like that. It's never mean-spirited or personal. It's not bullying. And I know when to cut it out if I need to. I just LOVE to be annoying! I'm certain it must be an ADHD thing...

@Zdc360

5 ай бұрын

@@JulesThePsion that’s what i sort of meant, long as no one’s actually like pissed off or will hold a grudge to you for it

@emro164

5 ай бұрын

​@@JulesThePsion I would assert that you do this because you expected to be irritating from the get-go. Possibly because of how people in your environment responded to your typical ADHD qualities. When you are the one causing the irritation, you feel like you're in control of the scenario. But you need to be careful because you could be stigmatizing ADHD in the process.

I strongly hate violence, both physical and verbal. But I do like arguing, which can trigger some people. I guess I satisfy my reward system through chill arguments.

as a girl i do this a lot and was not aware of it so thank u bella for explaining my entire personality

So that's why I was annoying my sister constantly for years? 🌝 I truly enjoy making her go crazy and sit back watch her with a cold smile on my face

@bratatouille

3 ай бұрын

No, it wasn't. You'll probably have to do some more introspection to figure out why you felt the need to act like that, because it certainly has nothing to do with testosterone levels.

@janaeva2307

3 ай бұрын

@@bratatouille I don't know.. but we're older now I rarely annoy my sister now maybe because I'm not a teenager anymore I don't really know 😅

I’m a cis girl with high testosterone due to pcos, and I can’t relate to this at all. I can’t stand the idea of anyone being mad at me, I’m a people pleaser through and through.

@noobynoob138

5 ай бұрын

Yeah, this video seems to be sharing overgeneralizations and exaggerations.

@MS-we9gn

5 ай бұрын

It’s completely false. They’re spreading obvious misinformation

@piercebunge4297

4 ай бұрын

Estrogen not testosterone

@strangebeliefspodcast4795

4 ай бұрын

@@piercebunge4297 i don’t understand what you’re correcting here? The video is about testosterone, i get bloodwork done and see my elevated testosterone levels and take medication to lower it.

@dreambodyalchemy

4 ай бұрын

Fluctuations in estrogen and progesterone cause women to be irritable not testosterone. This reel is simple misinformation.

I feel terrible any time I make someone mad. I do everything I can not to.

Citation needed. In fact, I can't find a single source that corroborates this.

@bratatouille

3 ай бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. As a trans person on testosterone, I'm pretty sure I would've come across this somewhere before if it had any basis in truth. If anything, testosterone has made me calmer and helped me regulate my emotions better. Not because testosterone directly does that, but because I have less dysphoria. I'm definitely still deathly afraid of making people angry though 💀

Men are starting to make a lot more sense…😂

That was fun to learn and helps with some of the interactions I have had over the years. I really want to know what you were doing with the extension cord lol

Not you literally explaining my dad

“They do it on the regular”. It explains so much…

Bella’s neighbors: *why tf is she talking to herself abt women having testosterone*

As a trans girl, this was a kick in the (dysphoric) balls

@YourMomIsReallyShort

5 ай бұрын

No one can control biology, but you're still a girl nonetheless. It's completely fine to still carry traits that are uncontrollably caused by an x-y chromosome, but it doesn't make you any less of a woman. Just know that.

@leothecrafter4808

5 ай бұрын

HRT is 100% worth it so try to get it any way you can, trust me

@b1rdsar3ntr3al

5 ай бұрын

@@leothecrafter4808 as someone who does not have access to hrt bc my mom won't let me, i have to wait 2 years longer than everyone else :( (and yes, this was dysphoric for me as well)

@leothecrafter4808

5 ай бұрын

That sucks, hopefully you can get it then, many get their HRT through official or unofficial ways

@superbongergo4662

5 ай бұрын

don't try to fit in.

😈THANK YOU its not Falsehood personally its pure amusement.

My mother does it with a chuckle, so if you get upset at her saying something completely disrespectful, you're the bad person

As a trans woman seeking hormone replacement therapy, I am looking forward to losing this trait of mine.

@dandyrion5779

5 ай бұрын

Best of luck girl!!

@evilness3404

5 ай бұрын

Its not a real thing. Shes spreading misinfo. 8 months hrt here: while I have mellowed out a bit, my desire (of which I had very little to begin with, I was and still am actually terrified of making people mad) to make people angry hasn't changed, the only people I do it towards are those I can coerce into getting themselves removed from social media spaces and discords.

@thatsunfortunate2771

5 ай бұрын

Seems like biologically male trans people like making people upset more than any other demographic though

@bratatouille

3 ай бұрын

If it's a trait you want to lose I kind of doubt you have it in the first place. Unless you've actively done some introspection and realised you enjoy making other people angry but on some level acknowledge it's not a good thing and actually want to stop enjoying it. Even if you are sure it's a trait you possess, I'm sorry but changing your hormone levels won't fix it. Bella's wrong on this one, it has nothing to do with testosterone levels. I'm saying this as a trans masc person 2.5 years on t and still deathly afraid of making other people angry 💀

It can just be teasing like you said, and when the person is socially aware enough, I like it

So that’s why guys are always like “chill out it’s just a joke” whenever I get pissed at them 💀

@bratatouille

3 ай бұрын

No, they do that because boys aren't taught to be as emotionally intelligent and sometimes are actually punished for being kind and compassionate. It has nothing to do with testosterone levels.

This is so me tho like i love the look of anger on someone's face its just so funny 4 some reason

I haven’t really done this in a while because you can only really do it with specific people who are in on it. But there is nothing more exhilarating and fun than having someone you can go toe to toe with to see who gets the most annoyed.

I knew there had to be a reason I like to mildly annoy people so much

I wonder if that's why so many guys think their girlfriends are cute when they're angry

One of my old friends told me to ‘unalive’ myself and when I told her I didn’t appreciate her saying that and my mom saw the text, she tried gaslighting me that she only said it because I was always saying it to her. Idk why but this reminded me of that

That explains why me and my friends love pissing people off online

That's my sister 100% she smiles when she says shit that make me mad and she KNOWS it makes me mad too but she denies it when i point it out

I treat people the as I would like to be treated. In fact, I treat them better than I expect them to treat me. There are limits, though. I don't ever mistreat people for fun, but I don't back down from someone who's being confrontational.

Homie I could never, I get so nervous when other people are mad esp if it’s directed at me💀💀💀

As someone who lives in a school for (“only”) teenage boys this makes a fuck ton of sense

Sometimes if someone is angry for a dumb reason i make them more angry until they punch me

I love how you just put your Christmas lights up on video while talking

I do the teasing thing, but the goal is never to get them to blow up, it's to get them to go "haha" sarcastically.

Naw, its just called being a sociopath

Me- pokes someone with a ruler multiple times and when they ask what im doing i say "just measuring your patience" 💀

Good point, will have to look into things that decrease that for those I deal with like that.

@bratatouille

3 ай бұрын

Decreasing their testosterone levels isn't gonna do shit. It's not a good point, what she's saying is not supported by any research and really has no basis in truth at all.

I purposely make my mother angry when she talks back to me, i wait till the perfect time to do so

This explains so much about my mother.

Dont call me out like that 😂

This just explained my engineering undergrad😂😂❤.

I have to disagree. Have you ever met one of those juiced up gymrats? Cus if you did you’d know that they’re some of the nicest people ever.

I can comfirm as i love making people feel below me

At first I thought she was stealing her neighbors electricity 💀💀💀

I just do this to my friends all the time cuz I think it’s funny, to me it’s literally just lighthearted and fun and that’s how I like it

i dont know if i have it but i do feel enjoyment to see people to be made at me SOMETIMES

I first I thought I related, but I don't. Because for me as a born female. It comes all out in blind passionate rage, and when someone gets mad at me, and screams back the only thing that stops me is the guilt I feel when they go dead silent in shock of what I've said.

Not me looking up at my brothers room as she explains how they want to be irritating

A woman when she’s angry is sooo much hotter than usual

As a girl, I knew a girl who I was friends, with. She would make remarks on telling me how stupid I was, and how I am just being.”me” she would be passive aggressive, and always made me feel like shit