once INFJs step into their proper shoes, their presence becomes powerful almost beyond measure 🔥

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

@alfaisaac024

4 жыл бұрын

I'm already doing this. I'm a Rapper starting out with a big message. Making Expression my life, which up to this point was depressingly suppressed. At a place where I'm Living out My Abstractions Concretely and allowing them to change me. Yinning and Yanging. I basically have just one great friend that understands me. Hes an INTJ that has a bit of aspergers but like me only cares about ultimate things. That's all I needed.

@greeneyes6267

2 жыл бұрын

That's right.

@eminemstrash2021

Жыл бұрын

Yeah....with delusions of grandeur.

Ever been in a business meeting, expressed your unique vision, the room is silent for five seconds, and then the meeting continues as if you had said nothing at all?

@lynnejames2806

3 ай бұрын

Oh yes.

@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142

Ай бұрын

Thad is why we are not being understood, people don’t listen ….enough ‼️ 5:35 5:36

Validating my own thoughts: I keep a journal. Sometimes I read old entries, and I'm surprised. I don't remember writing it, and it feels like I'm expressing a wisdom that is beyond myself. But I know that I wrote it, because I put my name on every document that I write, and when I pull from another source I write down where I quoted it from.

Ive tried to medicate the INFJ out of me. Then I realized what it MEANS to be an INFJ. It has helped me to be more gentle with myself. Im also less affected by others as I can see and embrace everyone uniqueness, as well.

Being misunderstood is a way of life for me. People are scared of me. People make fun of me. Bosses do not appreciate me, even though I'm a good worker. Five times I've had the police called on me over misunderstandings with women, although nothing ever comes of these things. Time and time again, I've gotten in trouble and pained situations because of my sense of humor. I've always been considered weird and a social misfit and people will not become personally close or involved with me, even though I help people whenever I can

@endocrinejunky

Ай бұрын

Very exciting things have happened/are happening/and will continue to happen for you and countless others. 😊

Clearly, my Ni visions. I have been dismissed repeatedly for my "paranoid" forecasts of things to come, such as how the Corona virus would impact the economy. Eventhough I am often proven correct, people still dont trust me. I also have a big picture view of how systems work and can be made better/more efficient. More often than not, my input is rejected since most people in positions of authority, cannot quicky grasp the benefit of what I am proposing.

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Remember: people don‘t have to believe you...follow your path and create results and people will know that you are right afterwards. You have to believe in your vision way before anybody will listen to yoh

@stevedavenport1202

4 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes I believe completely in my visions and have been proven correct many times. However, people in positions of authority dont like being proven wrong. Its just human nature.

@Noor-jw2tn

3 жыл бұрын

@Jessi Belle I don't see it as a poor me attitude. More just an observation and acknowledging their abilities leading to frustration.. It used to happened to me often as well. More of a disbelief that people couldn't see what I saw and didn't even want to look at it.

@eyobassey5106

3 жыл бұрын

I love your choice of the word "efficient" I'm constantly looking to improve systems and things to maximize efficiency, it's so easy for me. I used to get frustrated in the past that people couldn't see the things I saw, the mindless waste of time and resources for little to no productivity. But now I've come to understand that people are different and perhaps my ability to create shortcuts and efficient systems instantly is a gift and quite a rare ability.

@eyobassey5106

3 жыл бұрын

@Miss Jeanna No he is not, take your negativity out of here. How is sharing his observation s poor me attitude? He's not complaining just saying what is.

I know INFJ lives in their lil world(mind) but we also have to live in this world too...I'm a INFJ-A 100% n I didn't just learned from my world but this material world too...I'm gonna paint a picture with my words...Our mind is like a river(never ending train of thoughts) but every river has his Rocks(limitations)....The river needs rocks to limit, focus n direct the direction of the flow...When u hit a rock it's time to slow down, focus then find the direction to go...I learned the Material world to materialized my words...To be more understood n comprehended...I talk with a lot of Metaphors(painting a picture with my words)...People don't understand us because they can't see what we're saying but if u know how to paint a picture then they'll see what u mean n everything has a meaning...cheers!!!

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

😊👍

@eneopopa3145

3 жыл бұрын

Omg that is amazing idea I love it Pls if you have any other idea reply me pls

@surakshabhawna1493

2 жыл бұрын

I am an INFJ

I haven't finished the entire video yet. However, one thing I learned about being understood is that you have to be Authentic + Relatable. If there is no relatability being authentic, there is no compatbility. Making yourself Relatable + Authentic = Sweet Spot

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

👍😊

@ryinwhyers365

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t worry about being relatable. Actually, the TRUEST INFJ is completely unrelatable. I mean think about that.

@hectorpikipiki

2 жыл бұрын

Not exactly

I am tired of being misunderstood! I happens a lot that people say they don't understand what I'm talking about. It can be lonely.

Yes! Once I’d open up guys would lose interest because they were only pursuing me for my body and not my mind. Whenever I’d open up to people around me I’d get strong reactions from people in a way that they misunderstand me. When I was 15 I was debating religion with a 40 year old man. He didn’t like what I said and responded, “Women like you burn down churches.” I cried to my mom because I was so confused why he said that. Most people, especially men liked me as long as I kept my mouth shut but once they’d get a whiff of my thoughts they’d say I was too complex. Finding an INTP to connect with helps.

I’m an ENTP watching to learn best how to support an INFJ I care about. Really enjoyed your content and heard some principles to apply within myself too. Thank you! All the best - Paige

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Thank you!

@surakshabhawna1493

2 жыл бұрын

I am an INFJ

@Jinxy1199

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck and appreciate your interest, my husband is an entp and he absolutely hates it seems is not gonna be a long ride but was definitely a beautiful one.

@belladonna2104

4 ай бұрын

Your friend is very fortunate to have you in their life 🏵️

Thank you for this advice. I love helping people, but they often don't want it. I guess they don't want philosophy but rather local gossip. I think most people around me have sensing trait which makes them goal oriented and I'm more of solution oriented. They just don't want my solutions even though they are good, I know it. Sometimes I'm so frustrated I try to deny myself and my intuition and offer them what they want, but with no joy. If I understand you well, we should live our lives and find people who want what we give, instead of trying to please the same people again and again on their terms. I just can't free myself from dependence on people's appreciation for what I do.

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Just look for and help people who are actively looking for help...whoever doesn’t care about what you have to say: that is there prerogative...find a healthy outlet for your help where people actively want it and everything will change

@kymelatejasi

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I came to the comments. @Wenzes , this might exactly what I need to act on some of the ideas I've had in mind for years now. Thank you.

@surakshabhawna1493

2 жыл бұрын

Same. Modern people are goal oriented and they don't like spiritual suggestions and they don't like your suggestions and you are very sensitive and people can't understand your sensitive because they can't control you so they reject you

@TheShocker924

2 жыл бұрын

All we can do is try. We love helping and giving people our ideas. Sometimes others just don’t want to hear or face there problems. They need to go through them their self. Don’t stop and keep trying. Apply to others and always stay in control and healthy over others.

@eminemstrash2021

Жыл бұрын

Right....because helping people "on their terms", read what they actually need vs. what you believe they need, really makes you so special and insightful and independent. Te Trickster really wrecks your guys perspective.

As a sports coach, I get a lot of practice at communicating on the right plane to the person I’m dealing with. With practice, an INFJ can “translate” their ideas to reach a non-alien person. It does require a lot of energy but can be very rewarding for a coach!

I really admire your unapologetically-straight-forward way of speaking, Wenzes. In my point of view, you treat your viewers as mature INFJs, which is great, because I think it is supposed to be done that way. Not making us, the INFJ viewers, to just watch yet-another video about INFJs and their life struggles. Rather, to help us encouraged to carefully do some self-assessment to ourselves, in a healthy way as well. So, thank you for your work! From Indonesia. Cheers!

Opposition mindset equals communication breakdown

Your channel has honesty changed my life and I mean literally, I had passive suicide ideation for years and after watching your videos I’m finding practical ways to shift my thought patterns. I love youuu! Thank you so much!!

They can't understand it because they can't see it..

I was just thinking about the INFJ group I joined and it is sometimes how you described it, focusing too much on the pain. This channel is my first immersion into useful INFJ information.

I accept that I think differently. I am told, The way I communicate is confusing. I need to be more concise.

What I learned from this vid: We should be thanking our haters, because they reflect that they are bothered by us being us, and thus, we aren't pretending to be someone else ☺️ Wenzes, I appreciate your input as I always have. I have learned a lot, and I continue too 🙏✳️

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Love your lesson learned 👍😊...and thanks for the feedback

I can vouch for what you shared about the "(not) understanding" issue. As I listened to this, I was reminded of an experience I had long before hearing about Myers Briggs in general and INFJ in particular. A friend was disagreeing about some choices I had made and she said, "I just don't UNDERSTAND!" I simply replied, "That's ok. You don't have to understand." I said it in a laid-back civil way, and after that we had some extra effective communication. And I kept on doing what I was doing.

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

I just discovered you last night, and am glad I did. I’ve only realized I was an INFJ within the past 6 months. I already knew I was an empath, and have various anxieties and depression, but the title of INFJ is something new in the mix that I am learning to understand. It’s been a journey, sometimes rocky, but I’m happy to now know all that makes me, me. That there are names for the things going on in my head that cause me to think and act the way I do. I look forward to watching your videos, and learning even more to help me navigate through the world.

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Glad my videos are helpful in your journey 😊 thanks for your feedback

I cant tell you how golden this is!! I was wondering why i was not able to sustain a friendship with a few ppl i believe are INFJs! You revealed it. 1) they dont always understand my ideas and 2) they dont want to do the inner work and grow, create movements. So not all INFJs will be my friend. And even for you, not all INFJs will appreciate your channel. They're more comfortable being small. And i love the concept that ppl dont get it because it is not reality to them. I have been doing the work to bring my ideas into fruition, and a hand full of ppl have experienced it and get it, but maybe i need to tweak a few things to make the biz more sustainable or take the new approaches I have been thinking about doing. I also appreciate the idea that we need to give ourselves and our ideas validation rather than seeking it from others and believing something is wrong with us. I become really strong in my voice when i have a bf who believes in me but i often end up surrendering my power and falling into the INFJ codependency pattern in these relationships. So now that i have evidence that ppl appreciate my ideas and who i am, i need to stay focused on myself and get stronger instead of seeking validation from the opposite sex. I also need to be ok with a small number of ppl who "get it", starting off and focus on growing it. Omg.....this is so yummy😋

That sounds alot like me! I am always ignored; my feelings don't matter and feel I'm misunderstood when I'm with a group of people and family. I feel much better and secure alone. Your channel is awesome; thanks for sharing.

I swear, I'm so glad I found this channel... If the things you are discussing are all things you lived through and experienced, your life has been a mirror of mine. Wow! It was like hearing a story about my own life... I'm honestly kind of blown away. The longer I listen the more weirded-out I become. Haha! This video is just insanely accurate for all things I've always felt, especially feeling like an alien, and that I've never mattered to anyone, people just wanted to use me for things I could do for them that benefitted them. Girls only wanted to use me for a one-nighter good time...Never wanted to be in a real relationship with me. People started getting pissed when I stopped helping them work on their trucks and use my shop for free. My best friend all throughout high school and college got mad because I was going out of town on a family vacation and couldn't work on his damn truck. And we haven't hungout since...That was over 10 years ago. I can't stand people acting petty. All I want these days is validation from 1 woman, to possibly be something/someone to her. That's all I need. Everything else, I can handle myself, or make happen for myself. It's a simple life with a simple need... Yet it seems so damn out of reach...

As an IT engineer I feel as if I’m made to understand but not be understood. For 5 years I tried to see if I could find a job closer at home outside contracting and secondment world, in order to get rid in feeling like a chameleon while being more authentic. Finally 2,5 years ago I found a job within a enterprise environment close to home while trying to show my qualities in reality and prove that I am the real deal. However it’s more painful/difficult to reach my goals than I initially thought and since the beginning 2 years ago I felt like I am an alien. Lessons learned during this proces is to always stay positive which eventually attracted me to my new job and now the same mentality is still necessary in this new job. However I found last year a method to express my visions by writing down memo’s for IT related issues that might occur in the future within my enterprise organization obviously everybody thought it was nonsense and strange in 2019, however the funny thing is that my vision turned out to become slowly the reality in 2020 and I only have to refer to my memo’s from back then.

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

👍...just do you and reality will catch up

What it is Wenz...is that people are usually self-conscious about themselves. Many times its a constant hiding from stuff they do in private. When they come around ppl like me...the spirit i have exposes them to themselves and it hurts them. Sometimes physically even.

you can't imagine how it's irritating to net be completly yourself and still now am still searching for my crew that understand me

What a timing! I've discovered and applied for a position today where I realized I fulfill most requirements and can even steer the supposed interview in another direction, reaching the same goal! I express what I feel, what I can offer... and they take it or leave it :) Thanks Wenzes!

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏 that‘s the way to do it 👍😊

ENFP: I also feel very misunderstood. I have wondered if this occurs with a lot of N dominants. We seem to have thoughts and ideas that are not mainstream. I know the people I talk with do not understand my ideas hardly at all. The only person that I think gets me much is a mature INTJ that I occasionally speak with. Got a lovely email recently from one of you and wanting to visit with me, still I know it might be months before it happens. It was rather touching actually because they contacted me when they were very sad so I figure an INFJ that opens up to anyone when they are sad is a sign that you are in good standing. I have a sense that when an INFJ does this, the person is on "sacred ground". That is just a feeling I have when this happens because I do not think your type does this often, if ever.

@surakshabhawna1493

2 жыл бұрын

I am an INFJ

This is absolute gold. I am loving your videos, and they’re really assisting me through a huge shift. Thank you! Also I adore your style and makeup choices across your videos. 💖

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Thank you!

Thank you for taking the time to explain this Type. It took me 36 years to discover what I was doing wrong. I felt so lonely amongst others. Your videos helped me see what I was doing to contribute that. I am truly unapologetic now and it has been the most liberating feeling. I don't feel "Misunderstood" anymore. I accept that due to the rarity of the personality type this will be commonplace and I don't have to take it as a personal failure... now I don't go out of my way to compensate my perceived deficiencies. If I know if tried my best and it isn't making a difference, I allow myself to leave without feeling like I need to do more or I haven't done enough... it is the best feeling. It is like I am living a new life, one that is centered around my needs. I used to think will people be able to accept me. Now my first thought is do I actually respect this individual's perspective enough to even care. it is grounded in reality as opposed to expectation. I am able to see this now, and it has made the greatest difference in my life.

I think the comments sections on some of my favourite channels are exactly what has helped lately since so many of those commenters are similar personalities. After watching this, I think I'll hang out and share more in them. Thank you.

Right not feeling be misunderstood but being misunderstood ‼️❤️ 0:53

Really wonderful message :)

A great and much needed video for any INFJ out there!

So happy for you! Please keep making videos I have grown so much!

Thanks again Lovely Lady. 🌟💜⭐️

Thank you so much for the inspiration. So much needed. Excellent content. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and discoveries through this channel. That helps a lot!

Well spoken. Thank you.

So grateful to finally be real, loving these messages. Thank you so much. 🌞

Yeeessss Wenzes!!! Such great timing!! Super awesome yoooooo!!!!!

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Happy you like it 😀

This makes me wanna cry again, so true

Thank you so much for your work Everything you say speaks truth to me and helps so much.

Im Gemini and INFJ ,UGH !!!! The battle in my head😖😫 im also 44 years of age 😶😕

I understand you completely, Wenzes....

Wenzes, thank you once again for speaking the truth and destroying limiting beliefs one idea at a time.

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

My pleasure

Always insightful and inspiring. :)

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Happy it inspires you 😀

This video was very helpful in revealing a blindspot that I had about being misunderstood. Thank you.🙏

I've been watching your videos for the past month or so. I really appreciate you. 😊

I just want to think you for this video. You’ve addressed things that I didn’t know I needed to acknowledge. It makes me feel better knowing that I’m understood but also what I need to do to take better care of myself so I don’t feel lonely. Thank you for your insight and helping me grow into a better person.

You are brilliant, your confidence is pure positivity. Has any one ever said, you talk a lot😁 I have, love from JVR.

I can so relate ✋🏾😅 the impetus I need to start doing me! Honestly, I didn't want to be an INFJ before finding your channel. Now I feel a sense of self-knowledge that is acting as a drive. I really get why I shouldn't wait to be understood. Very balanced as usual Wenzes 💜

thank you, Wenzes. there's so much truth to the validation having to come first and foremost from yourself - still can be tough, but quite an amazing realization to have anyway!

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Just take it step by step 👍👍

Thank you. You spoke right to my heart. I really needed your pep talk. This is going to be my mantra from now on ;)

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

happy it pepped you up :)

I needed this one today

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful 😊👍😊

You irritate my mind with how easy you make it sound.. Accurate thought.

Thank you🙏✨️🙏

Thank you, Wenzes. This video really resonated with me since I feel like I'm currently going through that mental transition of stepping into my authenticity, moving forward and seeing where it goes. It's a little scary, tbh-- but your video helped a lot 🤗

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Glad they are helpful Maria 😊

I wonder now that you are a parent, get ready for the question of when your children don't understand you! I literally gave birth to my children, before I know anything about INFJ just thinking if they grew up with me they would understand me! No, totally judgmental! Any INFJ parenting advice welcome. I know that people look down on me for being a low achiever mom yet my kids turn out great. That's the skill of optimizing. But it's still really hard because of physical and emotional energy management.

DDAAAAAAMMMMMMNNNN!!!! Girl", you are awesome! After 3:00 you were on a ROLL!!! This is a MUST share video. 👌 this video made me cry as a INFJ man 👨 😢 because it touched every single corner inside me, and it's all of who I am. I'm thankful for your existance ❤❤🥲🥲😏😏 you really saved me here. For a while now, I been feeling like a useless empty tin can but, you really hit the spot 🥰😍🤗🤗🤗🙃😏

You go girl 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😊 so confident

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

😊👍

Your best video to date!

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

yeaaay 😊 thanks

You tube has definitely helped me communicate with others I have a channel about reef aquarium people hate and people like but texting responses sometimes hurt but also help as some love what you do as I love what you do😉

Validation starts with self

Thank you ❤️

Yes indeed, thank you. ✨💞🙌🏽💞✨🤜🏼🤛🏽

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

🤗

😭😭😭 I thought everytime that already happen is my fault..... INFJ here... its because they misunderstood me what i am saying..... Once i thought that i am insane..

"Go find people who are alike". Easier said than done, Wenzes. You don't know what it's like to live in Ecuador. There are ZERO people who I can align with.

Yesssss KZread! INFJ connection

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

😉

I'm male 49 Australian and U speak my language and tell my emotional story in ways that I can't explain but no one moves me that way that's new like I know U in unique way . If my first wife knew what you know I would of had my soul mate for life . I loved her first date I rang mum and said I've just been to dinner with the girl I'm going to marry and I ment it I knew but my past was my title 🌊 and sunk me in self judgement so hard on my self suicide everyday of my life I doubted my self that's so sad

Wenzes, you are such a clear speaker. Do you write everything out before your videos, or do you just wing it? As an INFJ, I love making videos too, but I have to re-shoot over and over again until I get it just right. I also say "um" or "uh""' a lot. Is this something that INFJ's do, or is there a way to fix it?

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I have some ideas but I speak freely....the "um" words...that's all practice. The videos are cut too...look at my old ones and you will see how many mistakes I made then :) It's all part of the learning process...don't give up and not be too perfectionistic....just publish it

@rustyshackleford7984

4 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes Thanks for the advice!

True!! True!!!True!!!🥰

I am in a moment rate that puberty of childhood made me molded what's valuable in me , I give more , I do whatever it takes , I am aware of everything but knowing alone the purpose in your wholeness , but worried of if I don't give some of what I could be able to feeling myself looking something dot I could offer to fill on there empty puzzles ? Dealing and facing them playing in front of you while you are aware of it and you just have to be what you have feeling as you are towards them not for what their games. I hate knowing that they are making themselves like entertaining me taking their actions as a joke time .but you cannot express that you are afraid the feeling of what if they will know that I know it but still holding on yours because you're giving yours to them not on what they're doing. It hurts you and being insulted.but much worse thinking of what they do. Feeling like you are being being injected without anesthesia keeping the most scary thing that might hurt them and feeling owwwww. Hays

loving you wenzes good job on your video. A wenzes with all that information going on in your beautiful head how do you tun it of and go to sleep ?

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Good question!😀

1 percent of population!? that alone makes me feel closer to home then you might have ever dreamed about. just with the knowledge alone I feel less alone. knowing writing with both hands was 1 in 100 it's self to reflect such interests of being rare. My heart some times swells with a bright feeling (in a good way) knowing knowing it is not near as far off from possible as I might have perceived to or first rationalized to be.

Wenzes, is it possible to switch btwn INFJ -T and INFJ -A throughout your life/journey? I feel like when I'm at my healthiest I'm more A, but idk if we can rlly switch back and forth?

I wonder which of these internet groups I should be joining? I have joined a few of them and they just share cartoons and jokes about infj’s. There is no action to be taken nor any actual relationships or connections. Where are these other groups and what do they do?

My problem is im able to switch my traits from alpha to sigma and reverse. My wife of 23 years is a culvert narcissist. my mother is an extreme narcissist, my closest friends ( foes) are narcissist 🥺😖 i cant make it stop

ditto

Dear INFJs, I wanna hear your thoughts and experiences. Where is this line between being an INFJ and giving a poorly-structured narrative? My hole life I either fight with 'your sentences are too bulky', 'I don't know the words you use,' 'there is no advice/clear message in your content', and a cherry on a cake, you can guess it - 'it's too deep'. 'And arthouse' :D The sardonic part is - I'm a psychologist, trying to have my blog, obviously not for myself only) So I do my best to write and deliver information in the most structured, practice oriented and 'translated into human language' way. But then - it doesn't reach others, and it's frustrating. What have reached them yet were very short quotes of other people, which I put into my pocket, thought over and over as a koan and then gave out in a slightly transformed way. I feel a stuck. Because the way I'd like to think and write for others is self-reflective, massive and full of metaphores. But it's a straight way to ostracism, as far as I've been here. What was your journey? Please share. Love you :)

What do you feel most misunderstood about?

@josephrollins4505

4 жыл бұрын

I mostly feel misunderstood when i finally get the courage to open up to some one about my true feelings and out look on life. I get shut down by others. Forcing me to have a hard time trusting ever again. Dose that ring a bell?

@erik_1953

4 жыл бұрын

What realy happens in the world, and how it effects us...

@renata.mcelvany

4 жыл бұрын

Why I am the way I am hahaha after your video I was able to recognize I carry myself with a bit of self-rejection. Constantly looking for validation outside of myself but I'm coming to understand I can make the shift. Thank you for addressing all these extremely relevant topics.

@GoldenOwlEvents

3 жыл бұрын

My emotions. People can't tell what I'm really feeling at my core, whether I'm in pain, afraid, or in love. I've learned to hide and suppress my true feelings all my life, having grown up with Childhood Emotional Neglect, and a lot of systemic abuse and bullying at school, all of which taught me that my feelings don't matter, my suffering is irrelevant, or that anything I love will be weaponized and used against me. I grew up secretive, alone, living out my life inside my own head where I fantasised that I had caring and kind friends, and people who cared about me and valued me. As an adult I've struggled to be seen, to be my authentic self, to feel comfortable or feel like I had any control or agency over my own life. I've mashed myself into other people's expectations, time and time again, forcing myself to play roles I hated until I was so exhausted and miserable and disconnected from myself I fell into severe suicidal depressions. This happened over and over again, and I never knew what was wrong with me. I just thought I was a broken, unlovable failure, in every possible way. I only learned I was an INFJ last year, at age 39, and for the first time in my whole life I felt there were other people in the world who were just like me, and that suddenly, finally, all the choices and mistakes and recurring 'failures' in my life made so much sense! I've since been studying psychology relentlessly for a year and a half, and I now understand that I am also an empath, a Highly Sensitive Person, and that I have Complex PTSD from my childhood, which explains so much about all the long years of depression, anxiety and chronic illnesses I've experienced. I say all this because I hope this will help others who may be experiencing similar things. I've learned so much in the last year, uncovering revelatory information about who I truly am and what I truly need to 'create an epic life on my terms', and I'm so grateful to have found Wenzes' channel, and other INFJ channels and resources, that are opening all the locked doors in my heart and shining so much light on who I really am, and who I needed to be all along. 💜💛💚

@eyobassey5106

3 жыл бұрын

When people assume I'm cold hearted when I actually care the most, when people think I'm arrogant when I just don't want to disrupt their little perfect lives with what I know, they have no idea what I could tell and reveal to them about themselves and how the world really works that will shatter their illusions, so I keep to myself and then I'm labeled arrogant.

Hows this for something people won't understand yet makes perfect sense to me... Do we carry our past lives in our hearts brain cells? Is it our magnetic energies we allow to flow and put up blocks against which connect with our sub conscience? Does that magnetic energy activate and form our hearts brain cells? Is this activity how we travel through the thought stream? Is it in this way that we carry our true selves to the next life? Do we face obstacles in this life which we need to understand how to overcome? If we do not learn to understand how to overcome these obstacles on a sub conscience level do we reincarnate into a life closer and closer to the issue until we fully internalize it? If we do not internalize it and learn to respond with its truth will we be reborn to be the victom of the sin we do not understand fully? Is this just a thought? That do anything for ya? No? how bout this then... What if we as humans are a part of a planet hopper existence where we were on Venus? What if we moved to Earth and now we are moving toward Mars before the Earth gets to an uninhabitable state? What if Mercury would have been where we lived before we lived on Venus? What if Mercury will crash into the sun and Venus will move slowly into the spot where Mercury currently is? What if the Earth will then move toward where Venus currently is? What if we planet hop from planet to planet until we figure out how to grow together to a point where we can go outside our galaxy? Maybe this one... I stare into the abyss and laugh when it stares back at me.

Connections with people from a distance.....please tell my ESFJ mum lol

There is three pirates who disliked this video.. They must be Dave’s Jones pickles

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Thank u . try being deaf and asperberger and. Infj

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@surakshabhawna1493

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