I’ve dated many broke men and each of them were content. Never stressed. I was always the one stressed and used.

@missminti

Жыл бұрын

Stressing everyone out but themselves is a hallmark of men. The broke men I’ve dated were only stressed because they couldn’t keep up. Other than that, they had no intention of upping their game. Pretty gross actually. Like- get some ambition!

@Braveh3artGirl

11 ай бұрын

Yup because you have taken all the stress on your shoulders for him. Because he's been happy being lazy

@luxuryqueen42

7 ай бұрын

Broke men can not help you. They can not help pay your bills, can not buy you flowers, gifts, buy u dinner, etc. You are wasting your time with them.

@priscjackson

7 ай бұрын

💯❗️

@itsmikkaa

2 ай бұрын

Omg this is sooooo true! 🥲 I always felt stressed, used, unappreciated, neglected , out of place etc.

Ladies, don't do it. I've done it, and I wasn't appreciated. That was a double slap in the face. Leave those bums where they are.

@desireeangelicmelodies8709

10 ай бұрын

Girl yessss

@firstlast8258

4 ай бұрын

​@@desireeangelicmelodies8709nope🤓🖕

Evolved men dont date while broke, they will not risk losing your respect

@theresamurphy6554

Жыл бұрын

Messageeeee!!!!! Yesssss

@Theleftycheffe

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏾🫡

@AZITHEMLGPRO

Жыл бұрын

Not completely

@johnmcaulay8448

Жыл бұрын

You lost my respect for being 37kg's overweight. Go on a diet fa atty...

@Caroline-hp9td

7 ай бұрын

So True !

Now it all makes sense. This is why my ex and i broke up. He was always stressed out cuz he was broke and relied on me to fix the problem.

@marionlewis741

Жыл бұрын

Yasss girl that's how they be lil jealous, want a mommy

@hanma7966

Жыл бұрын

Same to my ex girlfriend thx god I left her

@kawaiicoded4292

Жыл бұрын

Why didn't he just get a job or 2 jobs ?

That is so true! He has to be comfortable being broke because he’s DATING! Wow!

@firstlast8258

4 ай бұрын

Not my truth 🤓 🖕

Sounds like my ex! He was always stressed out,he was always tired,he was always mad, very stressful! It’s not healthy for me…

This goes for emotionally mentally spiritually broke men too

Dating CHEAP men is also very hazardous!!!

@layback76

Жыл бұрын

Dating Gold diggers is hazardous also!

@holyghost8467

Жыл бұрын

Dating anyone is hazardous you better off pumping and dumping also it helps keep you’re sanity bc women bring nothing but drama no matter what race

@pageiit7626

Жыл бұрын

The are few financial stable single men...so they must share🤔🤔🤔🤔

@every8hours382

9 ай бұрын

@@holyghost8467go find you a boyfriend, that’s what you really want unc-auntie

@luxuryqueen42

7 ай бұрын

@@layback76 you aren’t a target for gold diggers. You are broke and have no gold for them to dig. And how i know you’re broke is cuz only broke men use the term “gold digger”

I was dating someone who was financially unstable.... he had lots of debt and issues holding on to solid employment... which made me question his overall choices and why he was willing to still date when he needed to get his life together...people need to get right with themselves before investing in a relationship.

@firstlast8258

4 ай бұрын

Speak for yourself 🤓 🖕

Broke men are also manipulative too.

@desireeangelicmelodies8709

10 ай бұрын

They love to guilt trip you and say hold them down at their lowest. Sorry get somebody else to do it.

@MimiCoco-gt7zo

7 ай бұрын

​@@desireeangelicmelodies8709 Virtual hi five bow out quickly

@firstlast8258

4 ай бұрын

​@@desireeangelicmelodies8709speak for yourself 🤓 🖕

@TheQuantumRealmGaming

4 ай бұрын

And play victim when they don’t get their way

I just broke up with one. Constant state of negativity and would take my happy moods to a low place with a single look. He used me and other people and women. It was disgusting to watch.

A broke person would drag you down financially to their level to not feel broke.

@MarieN8959

2 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness 😳 I couldn't have said it better. Thank you so much.

it’s puts women in masculine energy and it makes women loses attraction and interest.

@QueeninMe

4 ай бұрын

Yesssssss

@HappyClock-fv8bx

Ай бұрын

​@@QueeninMeNO

It end up being hell..I felt like I had another son..smh

I completely agree with this!!! Been there & done that & I definitely did not feel feminine & had to constantly compromise...guys think that it is about being materialistic although there is so much more to it than that! Thank you Dereck for breaking it down exactly how we women feel 🥰

@johnmcaulay8448

Жыл бұрын

Gold digger

@nahjacutler

8 ай бұрын

I really understand when would do it. Even as a woman I wouldn't do it ( not that Iam the provider)

You are one hundred percent correct. Ladies, please listen.

My ex freaked out when I asked him to take me to a restaurant that he thought cost a lot when it really didn't ..that's where I knew this was a big red flag on how cheap and broke he was. Yes he was always stressed and counting every penny.

@marionlewis741

Жыл бұрын

Stress will kill a person

@tessy28

Жыл бұрын

Oh wow

So true. I felt like his mom. So draining. Frustrated all the time w him.

Lord Jesus !!! I wish I would of watched this video before I got myself into a mess 😢

Much respect to men who are a jack of all trades and a master of none. They know how to get themselves out of hardship 👏

@AZITHEMLGPRO

Жыл бұрын

Aww ain’t that sweet

@user-em2fj7nx8n

Ай бұрын

I I

1000% true. Didn’t work.

Dating him now! And what your saying is the truth.

@vanaphill2454

Жыл бұрын

Better you than me. I am not having that.

@cassiewalker6667

Жыл бұрын

@@vanaphill2454 did I ask your opinion and what makes you think I'm not handling it?

@antno_2064

Жыл бұрын

How's it going?

@AskYaMommyBoutMeBoi

Жыл бұрын

@@antno_2064 she dead 😮

You should do a video on men who are not broke they are in fact well off and they are stingy they don’t give women anything and they act like they’re broke

@sahardaves

Жыл бұрын

Agree!!!

@marionlewis741

Жыл бұрын

Tru and be tricking at that

@fabstouchcosmetics3191

Жыл бұрын

Just don't involve yourself with them, don't even try to understand them. As we get old, learn to not try to change some situations when we know there are 90%it will not change.... Just move on.

Exactly! Nothing to offer, uncertain future.

I wish I knew this 7 years ago.

This is true I am dealing with someone broke it’s too much and I already told him not helping him no more .

I just got rid of one

True and they blame you for everthing have dated one and never again i beter single off single

He’s too comfortable.🤦🏽‍♀️ Not stressed out per se but acts like a baby when he can’t get his way.😒

Interesting 🤔 I was with one that wasn’t broke financially but was cheap. He was comfortable being BROKE DOWN in his own dysfunction. No evolution and it will never change.

@esmesuccubusofficial

Жыл бұрын

Then he has a bum mentality.

@ure2grit931

Жыл бұрын

How cheap?

@fabstouchcosmetics3191

Жыл бұрын

@@ure2grit931 cheap

@firstlast8258

4 ай бұрын

Change is the only constant

My ex wouldn’t even get me McDonalds because $7 is “expensive“ to him.

@tessy28

Жыл бұрын

Disgusting

@crissyglamdoll8346

Жыл бұрын

😮

@luxuryqueen42

7 ай бұрын

I hope you dump him since he can’t even spend a meal on you.

@firstlast8258

4 ай бұрын

Sounds like my dad

@asiachestnut4210

4 ай бұрын

Damn my ex pay our Chinese food in Pennie’s dimes and quarter before

OMG--You're speaking to where I was in the past!

Speak on it Derrick. We shouldn’t get into situations when that’s not what we really desire. Know thy self and move as such!

So many people I know need to see this video

I...and it wasn't fun, glad to say that I have my peace back

Soo true 💯% ...speaking my life and getting out of it now... 😭

This hit the nail on the head ! 🎉

yes this is the truth smh. It definitely is frustrating smh

True***You're so right!

Great Video keep bringing them !

If he broke n stressed he needs to work harder

I love you guys so much ❤️❤️

I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️

I have. NEVER AGAIN!

I agree 💯..

perfect video

My fave topic

Dealing with this now

Thank you!

Evolved yes… also #1 criteria emotionally stable

So true...💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Thank you for this hard lesson

I’ve dated broke men in the past. Always a nightmare.

I'm glad to get ready to let broke men go 😉 I'm better when I'm single

@ntebalengramokoka1783

Жыл бұрын

Can't wait to say this

I’d say “why dating men is hazardous”

Facts !!

I did it was hell. Never again no peace constant mood swings

Sooo true.

Facts!!!

He is right.

I am going thru it now

Enough is enough

This was everything of my ex-husband

Team Jaxn! This entire video from my own experience is nothing more than 100% truth.

So true

Yea not forget its a new breed of broke men,,high alert

Thanks

They have "lack mindset"

Wow... This is interesting.. Hazardous

😭😭You are talking to me, exactly my experience.

I and I won’t do it again. .

Facts

Broke and broken men are a big NO NO....RED FLAGS

True

Why is this the truth 😱😱😱

I am so glad men are calling out these men. They are in no position to be a provider or someone with a plan for his life. You're not his mother!

Factsss

I--My ex-husband

Dating him now. 💯

.... I'm just here for entertainment purposes... please... continue...

Dam i aint watched a video of his on a longgg time but I had to click on thos one!!! And its all FACTS!!! BROKE ANS BROKEN!!! Sheesh theh will beinf you down like that plane did the twin towers!!!

Nothing is free🤦🏻‍♀️

More than once,

💯

I see why JESUS going to end this world. This is the low budget conversation s

My current situation

Toxic men do this...just a question though...do they ever change? Will they change for another person ?

@successmanifestation2769

Жыл бұрын

They only change if they get with a very toxic woman that won’t care about him at all and will empty his pockets.

@entitled7665

Жыл бұрын

NO

@cocobird8289

Жыл бұрын

No!

@desireeangelicmelodies8709

10 ай бұрын

Not unless God turns their heart. They might be motivated to do better for another women but it dwindles down eventually and the mask slips off

It’s the worst decision I ever made in my life worse pay for everything 😢😢😢😢😢

I done

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Women also have to work on themselves too.

Never again

This is 100% my ex

I!!!!!!!

I 😢

I say I

What if he has a job

Truuuu

Y'all soft.

Ungreatful