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@loveslife11

Ай бұрын

I love derrek jaxn😊

@darlingdarlow6415

Ай бұрын

👏

@user-zk3fj3wy3e

Ай бұрын

Derrick talk about men who fumble a good woman but dates women who empties their pockets!!! women who only wanted them for a bag...they spin the block express pain and all a sudden they want a good woman back!! TALK ABOUT WOMEN WHO BREAK MEN...WE LOVE U DERRICK!!! 🤎🫵🏾👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💅🏾💋aka a fitandfabulous BW...LETS GO 2024!!

@glam0r0us

Ай бұрын

Thank you Derrick 🙏🏽

@solyball2873

Ай бұрын

Hey D ! How do we get the real book? I don’t really like ebooks. I’d much rather have the real book.

To any woman that’s reading this if you are the ‘ball’ that he fumbled. It’s HIS LOSS, keep rolling!

@acheeksgaming4849

20 күн бұрын

I'm so feeling the fumble right now. He went back to his baby mom. I'm in my feelings, but I don't want to be his option if it doesn't work.

@melissacross4769

19 күн бұрын

Thank u...... ❤❤❤

now imagine the pain of being the fumbled woman...

@Indelibleone

23 күн бұрын

Thank you.

@kellileaneriley4263

23 күн бұрын

It sucks tbh

@tatianaj7108

23 күн бұрын

Exactly the healing she has to go through can be very challenging. And then to attempt to date again 😔

@melissacross4769

19 күн бұрын

Right.......

@donitabrown8100

18 күн бұрын

Been there..... for sure!!

Especially when you “Fumble” a “Real Life Natural Born Chosen One”😬✂️💯

@freshmanjeans

Ай бұрын

That part

@Chosenshines

Ай бұрын

Amen 🙏 ❣️

@janherlihy8301

21 күн бұрын

Ooooooo you said it

@melissacross4769

19 күн бұрын

It's a wrap.......... Period..... Blessing in disguise ❤❤❤

@naturallaw8377

6 күн бұрын

‼️‼️‼️‼️

It’s the energy that some women embody. It can’t be replaced.

@Love2Love927

Ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@melissacross4769

19 күн бұрын

​@@Love2Love927🥰 Micheal 😘

If he’s narcissistic he doesn’t care about messing the relationship up with that woman because he misses HER..Her presence. He cares because he misses what he was getting from that woman…Her presents.

@sonyea01

20 күн бұрын

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

@kelisawhite9294

20 күн бұрын

Facts.

@theejuicygoldengoose271

20 күн бұрын

💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯

@morelikejesus07

20 күн бұрын

Yep. What she supplies

@navimarlow

20 күн бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Yes I sometimes wonder if he feels heavily convicted in his heart for the hurt he caused when the world is quiet & hes alone with his own thoughts 😌

@Emerald-1226

Ай бұрын

😢

@shiz1246

Ай бұрын

He only regrets it because he can no longer use her.

@StarS33d3

28 күн бұрын

I feel he’s receiving what he put out now n it hurts baaaaad..That physical mental beating he gave her does NOT compare to the SPIRITUAL AS WHIPPING he’s receiving now🧘🏾‍♀️

@user-yd2mp7wp3k

21 күн бұрын

Me too

@navimarlow

20 күн бұрын

No. Men don’t love and feel like us

Exactly, there are some levels of disrespect that can never be forgiven or forgotten

@melissacross4769

19 күн бұрын

Yes Michael facts

He is 100% correct! My husband lost the best version of me and now I can never be that affectionate, sexually available, loving and flirtatious woman with him again. Ever!

@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha

24 күн бұрын

Why not divorce him??

@morelikejesus07

20 күн бұрын

Mine did too before I fully got away.

@sarahmicro

19 күн бұрын

@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha : because most of these women stay even if there are not happy. Just to avoid being alone....

Regret is not remorse. They (you) regret losing the utility of your appliance, but you don’t feel bad for doing what you did

@navimarlow

20 күн бұрын

Exactly!! 💯💯💯💯

It Ain't Just with A Good Woman Derrick... It's Losing A REAL 1 PERIOD!!!!

@melissacross4769

19 күн бұрын

Aww thanks ..... ❤❤❤

After 19 years and some change, my ex husband has STILL not moved on. At 69 he is stuck in the past not only with me, but our children.

Self imposed trauma by self sabatoge is tragic.

You can see this one hits him different.

@SarahGraceL

Ай бұрын

I agree. He's speaking of a cautionary tale of his own.

@queenb3088

Ай бұрын

Yeah... this is very personal.

U tell'em Derrick, BEWARE !! 😮 Like RKelly said wen a woman fed-up, ain't nothing u can do about it

Yup! Such a coincidence how my ex has woman after woman but can't find a "good one" after I left

@hindwidad2723

9 күн бұрын

Most men think that women are replaceable till they find out the hard way. There aren’t many good people left and they don’t realize that till it’s too late to get you back

U won’t miss her until she’s gone 😥

THE GREATEST COMEBACK EVER!!

Gives me manipulation vibes knowing what people want to hear, saying it and playing a different angle speaking from a experienced place portrayed changed behavior and ego a real good talker 😅

I’m only here to say.. I told you so!!! 🤭🤭

@loyceguila745

21 күн бұрын

Eish.... Can you say that again!!!

That's true, and we're all different in our unique way, no one can be you❤😊

Appreciate yr honesty and admitting yr own challenges with dealing with loss of a good woman. That doesn't take away the pain you caused but at least you can heal yourself. But the truth is you're not responsible for her healing, she is. God bless you both❤

@user-gm9kl9do3s

Ай бұрын

God is using him. He's preaching from personal knowledge ❤

@childadvocate8374

Ай бұрын

​@@user-gm9kl9do3sI agree.

I hope my ex heals, he can’t ever comeback to me but he needs to be a good example to our baby. He’s too busy chasing a bust down who competes with my baby for his attention(usually she wins) he thinks if karma hasn’t hit him yet it’s not gonna come back around for what they did to me.

It’s beyond mental illness. Ownership. Humility. Many years of therapy. I pray for eyes to see and ears to hear constantly. We share children but we are not together.

You are so full of wisdom. Thank you for this message today. I am so glad i found you online. 🙏

@ellawilliams2836

Ай бұрын

I agree

This message deserves Gold Thanks

I like this derrick, his energy is very genuine.

It’s interesting to hear this. The relationships I’ve had have been so damaging I’m forever changed. I’ve often wondered if they even think about me and wonder how I am. We are damaged, but hearing this, it’s damaging for some men too. Thank you for sharing. I think women just want men who have harmed to become aware of their actions and try to work on themselves and become better people. We hope someday that they could just say I am so sorry for hurting you that way. That would be healing for both parties. ❤

This doesn't apply only for marital relationship, it applies also to any other relationship with a human being.

Thank you for speaking the truth.

This is why he is able to give a dialogue on this subject. 🎉

You damn sure preaching the truth❤

Blessings KING for ur wisdom and being transparent 🫡🎱🙌🏽

Thank you for telling the TRUTH!!

This is So Very True 👍 and Absolute Facts

KARMA IS REAL❤

@gregbuze9143

23 күн бұрын

That part !! 💯 💯 💯

Thank you Derrick! 🙏🫶😊

Thank you!

Thank you ❤ i have been watching and listening to you for a while.. dropping love, videos like yours NEED to blow up. You have great messages..went through this in a 14 yr relationship … Thanks for keeping it real❤

Yes i was working hard, studying for a degree and all he did was complain at me.. The relationship was a joke with him, all he did was make me cry. 😊😊😊😊

@spirituallyfreewithree

Ай бұрын

Dealing with this now with my husband. I want out. It's exhausting.

STRAIGHT FACTS!!!!

This is soooooo “spot on”. He is sick about it. Cant seem to find true love. Or find it but fearful she’ll never be enough. Wow!!! The meal analogy was ‘perfection’!!oh, lastly… the chemistry is so strong when the two happen upon each other. It’s so intense and you both walk away pretending not to have sensed that chemistry. Smh

I fumbled a great woman...and everyday pray i can find a partner half as suitable as she was. And she wouldn't even let me apologize

This is DEEP! Thank you for breaking this down. This is healing information. ❤️❤️❤️

Regular men grieve. But what about narcissistic, users, abusive men? Do THEY grieve?

@mrslady90

24 күн бұрын

ironically grief actually plays a part in that narcissistic characteristic that they have. They can’t cope with whatever happened to them.

@LonjeMarie7

21 күн бұрын

No they don’t. They deny gaslight deflect responsibility, and then they replace ,and then it’s rinse, wash and repeat.

@kiarisby2471

19 күн бұрын

Yes, but their grief is different. They grieve the benefit of the good woman. They don’t grieve the fact that they hurt and damaged you. The grieve the access they had and the benefits (love, service, status etc.).

I am here listening to this because I'm the good girl and I think he fumbled me and I can legit see him struggling with it and I was wondering if I was just seeing things

Thank you for this

Ty for this message 👍

Thank You Derrick ❤❤❤

Derrick, good as always! Thank you for telling things so honestly, 💝!

You are speaking the God's honest truth.

Thank you Derrick !!

Good Message! 💯

6 ft 5" !!!

Great message ❤️ Thank You

Thank you. 💜

Brother Derek tha thank you for the great message that you are saying to all men and women tell me the truth 100 I am

Amen Derrick ... Amen 🙏🏼❤

Truth 😊

Love You Derrick 💓💓💓

BLESSINGS to you!!!God bless you.

Your videos has heal me….💥👏🏿

Yes, OMG, yes!! Please take heed!

Oh well, it's good to know that guys will always remember so they don't rake for granted what was given with love. May the Lord our God heal our broken hearts and give us the strength to seek for his presence and let go.

My body perceives it as a reality. I see no future in the burning bed

A vision board woman..❤ yesss 🔥🙏👑

You have an amazing topic very amazing

Wow! A Great woman is still out there...

Needed to hear this😔

Brotha You STILL have so much more to learn

Thank you

Real Talk 🙏

Derrick I’m going through it now my husband left me after 20 yrs

@funnygacha6023

Ай бұрын

Sorry to here that my husband left me also after 20 years it’s very painful I’m going through it also

Love this ❤

Thank you ….. just thankyou ❤

Yes, you better speak from experience!! Thank u

❤Love your truth babe.🎉

I was a Good Woman to my Ex partner hee went back to his Baby Mama I guess she was better or I was a placeholder until she took him back not sure I brought future, love honestly compassion showing bring loyalty softness

@ChocolateLover4365

Ай бұрын

Same!

Very insightful

Wow 🎉I absolutely agree 💯💯💯💯🥰😉🌹🫡🙌

Is this why my ex kept coming back for years, because of guilt or just because I kept taking him back? Was he just using me when he had no one else?

Question, for this very reason; is it best to unfollow or not have any ex on social media? 💕great video 👍🏾

✅ Absolutely right!

Amazing content!!

I Get it Thank you☺️😘

That’s me 🤚🤚 don’t recognize me at all!😢

Woman love you first

Real TALK !!!!

Wow you know peoples pain in their emotions🙏🙏❤

Touching 😘🙏

Speaking Facts

Continue to do the good work.

Fact 💯

Do narsaccist men have a conscience?

Yes u are correct, I lived it

This is so true

Let me find out you intuitive too!🤔

Facts!

Kool👍🙏

It will only warm and comfort my heart to know he is suffering with only a fraction of the grief, suffering and anguish he caused me. May he reap a hundred fold return until it requires the Lord Jesus Christ Himself intervening to keep him from taking his life permanently!